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Dear Tisia, presented by Relationship Restored,  is where your love life meets real talk. Hosted by dating and relationship coach Tisia, this podcast is your go-to space for unfiltered advice, hot takes, and deep dives into the realities of modern dating. Each episode, Tisia reads real letters from listeners and responds with a mix of tough love, expert insight, and hilarious honesty. Whether you’re single, situationship’d, or deep in a relationship, Dear Tisia is here to help you heal, grow, and stop repeating the same dating patterns. No sugarcoating. No fluff. Just the truth you need to hear—with a little side eye and a lot of heart.
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Sponsor: Cozy EarthUse code GREENFLAG for up to 20 percent off at 👉 https://www.cozyearth.comIn this episode of Dear Tisia, we’re talking about what it really means to live well — not in the material sense, but in the freedom to be yourself without apology.✨ Tisia sits down with Ron David, a content creator, fashion icon, and dream chaser from Washington, DC, whose energy, style, and authenticity speak louder than labels. From the very start, Ron makes one thing clear: real luxury is comfort in who you are.🧠 Ron opens up about his journey — growing up in a religious environment, coming out as gay, and learning how to stay true to himself while navigating complicated family dynamics. He reflects on the powerful influence of his Aunt Deborah, the perseverance it took to chase his dreams, and the choice to reject society’s material definitions of success in favor of connection, growth, and purpose.🏡 The conversation also explores Ron’s love for fashion and real estate, and how both are expressions of the same belief: people deserve to live beautifully, comfortably, and authentically — inside and out.💌 Throughout the episode, Tisia and Ron respond to listener voicemails, offering thoughtful relationship advice and grounding reminders about self-worth, boundaries, and alignment.✨ In You Smell Good, Tisia gifts Ron a carefully chosen fragrance that reflects his presence, style, and spirit — a small but meaningful gesture of appreciation for someone who shows up fully as himself.This episode is for anyone learning how to:Be authentic without shrinkingChoose self-trust over performanceBuild a life that actually feels good👇 Let’s talk about it.#DearTisia #Authenticity #ChoosingYourself #FaithAndIdentity #LivingWell #YouSmellGood
Sponsor: Cozy EarthUse code GREENFLAG for up to 20 percent off at 👉 https://www.cozyearth.comCall In Here: https://www.relationshiprestored.com/deartisiawrite-inIn this episode of Dear Tisia, we’re unpacking what happens when love is built in survival mode — and what it takes to move forward when healing begins.🩺 One woman opens up about beating stage 4 cancer — only to feel trapped in a relationship that still sees her as fragile. What happens when care turns into control, and how do you reclaim your identity after surviving something that changed everything?💍 Another caller’s world is shattered when her partner of 16 years confesses to cheating just one week before their wedding. We talk about betrayal, forgiveness, and how to grieve the future you thought you were walking into.🧾 And we explore the emotional limbo of separation — when a husband has moved on romantically but won’t fully let go emotionally, leaving a woman stuck between hope, fear, and finally choosing herself.✨ In B*tch You Smell Good, we feature Casablanca by Swiss Arabian — a warm, caramel-apple, amber scent that mirrors this episode’s themes of depth, sweetness, and emotional complexity.🚩 In the Red Flag Report, we unpack the quiet divorce of social media couple Kristy Scott and Desmond Scott, and ask the bigger question:When love is performed publicly but falls apart privately, what was the real red flag — the actions, the communication, or the image?👇 Let’s talk about it.
Sponsor: Cozy EarthUse code GREENFLAG for up to 20 percent off at 👉 https://www.cozyearth.comCall In Here: https://www.relationshiprestored.com/deartisiawrite-inIn this powerful guest episode, Tisia sits down with Nate Cottman for an honest, grounded conversation about love, purpose, healing, and what actually matters when choosing a partner.Nate brings a refreshing perspective on masculinity, integrity, and emotional depth, reminding us that a man’s purpose should come before partnership. Drawing from spirituality and the biblical story of Adam being given purpose before Eve, Nate explains why diligence, alignment, and character matter more than charm or chemistry.Together, Tisia and Nate explore:What women should truly look for in a man beyond attractionWhy integrity and purpose are non-negotiablesEmotional transparency and being known for your heartHow family dynamics and father wounds shape how we loveThe role of faith and staying aligned with GodEmotional regulation vs shrinking yourself in relationshipsWhen effort is reciprocal… and when it’s notTherapy, healing, and timing in relationships💌 Dear Tisia Voicemail SegmentThey also unpack a listener voicemail from a woman who feels like she’s losing herself trying to stay chosen in her relationship. The discussion breaks down:Emotional regulation without silencing your needsWhether effort after conflict is growth or a red flagHow to tell if a relationship needs boundaries — or an endingThis episode is for anyone navigating love while trying to stay whole, aligned, and emotionally honest — without over-investing in relationships that cost you yourself.🎁 The episode closes with a heartfelt moment of appreciation and a surprise gift for Nate, celebrating friendship, empathy, and seeing the value in one another.✨ If this conversation resonated with you:Like the videoSubscribe to the channelLeave a comment with your biggest takeawayShare this episode with someone choosing love more intentionally
Sponsor: Cozy EarthUse code GREENFLAG for up to 20 percent off at 👉 https://www.cozyearth.comCall In Here: https://www.relationshiprestored.com/deartisiawrite-inIn thiis episode of Dear Tisia, we’re unpacking what happens when love ends without closure, when generosity turns into resentment, and when being “too nice” costs you clarity.🎄 One woman is blindsided when her fiancé leaves the day after Christmas — no conversation, no explanation — after years of her supporting his dreams and building a shared life with her son.💔 Another caller is labeled a “gold digger” after she refuses sex post-breakup — exposing how unhealed grief and emotional immaturity can masquerade as “nice guys.”🧠 And we talk about the sweet spot — how women can lead with warmth and boundaries from the very beginning.✨ In Btch You Smell Good*, we feature Bond No. 9 Nolita, a fresh floral-woody scent that smells like confidence, clarity, and moving on with grace.🚩 In the Red Flag Report, we unpack the revelation that Yandy Smith and Mendeecees Harris were never legally married — despite nearly a decade of playing husband and wife — and what that means for commitment, protection, and accountability.👇 Let’s talk about it.#DearTisia #DatingAdvice #RedFlagReport #EmotionalHealing #Boundaries
Sponsor: Cozy EarthUse code GREENFLAG for up to 20 percent off at 👉 https://www.cozyearth.comCall In Here: https://www.relationshiprestored.com/deartisiawrite-inIn This episode of Dear Tisia, we’re unpacking the moments that leave women confused, disappointed, and questioning themselves — even when they did nothing wrong.✈️ One woman meets a man in the airport who chases her down, asks for her number… then switches up completely.💸 Another caller is asked to put her car up for a loan by a man she’s been dating — and guilt-tripped when she says no.👻 A third woman opens her heart, shows up fully, and gets ghosted right after.✨ In Btch You Smell Good*, we explore FORVR Mood – I Am Her, a warm gourmand scent that smells like confidence and boundaries.🚩 And in the Red Flag Report, we revisit the no-labels debate through the rise and quiet end of Teyana Taylor and Aaron Pierre — asking whether undefined love can really last.👇 Let’s talk. Because clarity is the bare minimum.#DearTisia #DatingAdvice #RedFlagReport #Ghosting #Situationships #ModernDating
Sponsor: Cozy EarthUse code GREENFLAG for up to 20 percent off at 👉 https://www.cozyearth.comCall In Here: https://www.relationshiprestored.com/deartisiawrite-inThis episode of Dear Tisia sits at the intersection of compassion, discernment, and self-protection.💔 One woman wonders if a man grieving multiple family suicides can truly be ready for love — or if she’s being pulled into emotional labor too soon.🚨 Another caller admits she’s caught feelings for a client she met while working in a prison — and now chaos, overlap, and emotional unavailability are clouding her judgment.🤍 And a single mom, still healing from trauma, asks how to eventually date the right way — without letting fear or past mistakes dictate her future.✨ In Btch You Smell Good*, we revisit Montblanc Signature, a soft, comforting scent that feels like calm confidence.🚩 In the Red Flag Report, we debate whether living together before marriage is a smart test run — or marriage rehearsal without commitment.👇 Join the conversation — Where do you draw the line between empathy and self-betrayal?
Call In Here: https://www.relationshiprestored.com/deartisiawrite-inThis episode of Dear Tisia confronts uncomfortable truths about commitment, protection, visibility, and the modern dating culture that keeps people emotionally half-in.💔 One woman discovers her “boyfriend” is living a double life — claiming love while still asking for other women’s Instagram handles. Is that love… or entitlement?🚨 Another mother faces a terrifying reality when her child’s father wants to co-parent — despite his girlfriend having abused her son. How do you protect your child without being painted as bitter?🫥 A woman questions whether love can survive without public acknowledgment after her partner repeatedly refuses to introduce her — even at major life moments.✨ In Btch You Smell Good*, we feature Hundred Silent Ways by Nishane — soft, sensual, and quietly powerful.🚩 And in the Red Flag Report, we unpack nanoships — tiny love stories that feel good in the moment but quietly rob you of real commitment.👇 Sound off in the comments — which red flag would you walk away from immediately?
Call In Here: https://www.relationshiprestored.com/deartisiawrite-inThis episode of Dear Tisia is about protecting your heart without hardening it — even after betrayal, abandonment, and deep disappointment.💌 One woman asks how to stay soft after years of being let down by the men closest to her — including family, friends, and now someone she trusted deeply.🤰 Another caller is navigating pregnancy, abandonment, and a father who wants to parent through his girlfriend instead of directly. She’s trying to decide whether co-parenting is even worth the emotional cost.💔 And a 22-year-old woman opens up about staying with a man who cheated — with someone nothing like her — and how race, identity, and broken promises have shattered her confidence.✨ In Btch You Smell Good*, we highlight Givenchy Irresistible Eau de Parfum, a soft, feminine scent that feels like confidence without force.🚩 In the Red Flag Report, we unpack the viral debate around chest-to-chest hugs with married men. Is it about respect… or control?👇 Join the conversation in the comments. Where do you draw the line?
This episode of Dear Tisia is heavy, honest, and necessary. We’re talking about emotional detachment after hurt, cheating cycles that won’t heal, loving someone who never chooses you, and the growing trend of relationships with no titles — but all the intimacy.💔 One woman ended a three-year relationship after her partner admitted he wasn’t attracted to her — only for him to come back once she lost weight. Now he’s doing everything right… but her feelings are gone.💣 Another couple cheated on each other — but only one mistake is being weaponized. Can trust ever be rebuilt when accountability turns into punishment?😔 And a 23-year-old single mom opens up about loving a man who barely calls, never committed, and only shows up for sex — yet still feels impossible to let go of.✨ In Btch You Smell Good*, we feature Montblanc Signature, a soft, feminine, comforting fragrance that smells like warmth and self-assurance.🚩 In the Red Flag Report, we discuss Teyana Taylor and Aaron Pierre — doing everything that looks like a relationship… without calling it one. Is avoiding labels emotional maturity — or avoidance?👇 Let’s talk in the comments. Which story hit you the hardest?
This week on Dear Tisia, we’re talking emotional effort, silent red flags, confusion disguised as compatibility, and one viral “move-in strategy” that has the internet screaming.💌 Voicemail #1: After eight months of dating, she feels like she is leading the emotional progress — from “I love you” to holiday plans. Is he emotionally passive… or emotionally unavailable?💬 Voicemail #2: She’s tired of men lying about nothing — gym trips, meals, tiny details. Is that immaturity, insecurity, or a communication red flag?❤️ Voicemail #3: He’s kind, consistent, generous — but something still feels off. Does she like him… or just the way he treats her?✨ B*tch You Smell Good: Featuring Lattafa Ajwad — a sweet, creamy, sensual blend of fruits, florals, vanilla, musk, and wood.🚩 Red Flag Report: A man has gone viral for a “step-by-step guide” teaching men how to move into your home without ever asking you.At what point does “getting comfortable” turn into calculated control?👇 Drop your thoughts in the comments — Which situation could YOU relate to the most?
This week’s Dear Tisia dives into long-distance love, emotional avoidance, situationship cycles, separation with strings attached, and a viral celebrity controversy exposing age-gap power dynamics.💌 Voicemail #1: She’s five months into a long-distance romance that feels like a fairytale — aligned values, support, fun, and intention. But his logical, matter-of-fact style leaves her craving deeper emotional clarity. Is he emotionally invested… or is she misreading his calm demeanor?💔 Voicemail #2: One argument changed everything with a man she liked — now he only resurfaces when he wants intimacy. She’s torn between missing him and realizing she’s being breadcrumbed into a monthly situationship.💍 Voicemail #3: After a year separated, her husband still isn’t putting in the work — but wants sex, emotional access, and the benefits of marriage. Should she finally close the chapter or wait for change that hasn’t come?✨ B*tch You Smell Good: Featuring Kayali Vanilla | 28, a rich warm vanilla with jasmine, brown sugar, amber, and patchouli — soft, sweet, and irresistible.🚩 Red Flag Report: Kevin Gates faces backlash for dating a 26-year-old and doubling down with disrespectful comments toward Black women. Is the age gap the issue — or what it reveals about power, control, and emotional maturity?👇 Comment your thoughts — Would YOU stay, leave, or demand more clarity?#DearTisia #DatingAdvice #RedFlagReport #ModernLove #KayaliVanilla28
Call In Here: https://www.relationshiprestored.com/deartisiawrite-inThis week on Dear Tisia, we’re diving into emotional cycles, adult friendship struggles, confusing situationships, and one wild viral debate that has the internet divided.💌 Voicemail #1: A woman is stuck in an on-again, off-again toxic relationship filled with manipulation, verbal abuse, and heartbreak. She knows she deserves better, but the emotional addiction won’t let her go.💔 Voicemail #2: At 26, another caller feels disconnected from her peers. She’s intentional, mature, and ready for deep friendships — but everyone around her feels surface-level or inconsistent. Is she asking for too much, or just surrounded by the wrong people?😩 Voicemail #3: Then a woman dating a man who acts like her boyfriend — while saying he’s “not ready for a relationship.” His actions say yes. His words say no. So what does she do?✨ B*tch You Smell Good: Featuring Alien Eau de Parfum by Mugler, a bold amber-woody floral that’s magnetic, mysterious, and unforgettable.🚩 Red Flag Report: A woman went viral for wanting to invoice her ex for wasting 10 years of her life and “stealing her childbearing years.” Should someone be compensated for time lost — or is the real red flag staying that long hoping someone would change?👇 Drop your thoughts in the comments — Would YOU invoice an ex, or take the L and move forward?
Call In Here: https://www.relationshiprestored.com/deartisiawrite-inThis week on Dear Tisia, we’re talking about heartbreak, hard truths, and the courage to protect your peace — even when love complicates everything.💌 A wife discovers that her husband’s “growth” came after 11 years of deception. He’s in therapy and finally stable… but how do you heal when his transformation came too late?💔 A 23-year-old Navy woman opens up about losing love in the middle of deployment — and how to rebuild when your ex still shares your workspace and your memories.🏡 And a woman in love with her stud girlfriend faces the question: Should she move in to save money, even when her spirit says no?✨ In Btch You Smell Good*, we feature House by Zernell Gillie, a unisex fragrance inspired by Chicago’s house music — bold, smooth, and full of rhythm.🚩 Finally, the Red Flag Report explores how dating in isolation may be doing us more harm than good. Have we lost the power of our village — and with it, the guidance that once protected our hearts?👇 Drop your thoughts in the comments — Would you stay, move in, or walk away?#DearTisia #ModernLove #RelationshipAdvice #HealingJourney #RedFlagReport
Call In Here: https://www.relationshiprestored.com/deartisiawrite-inThis week’s Dear Tisia goes from DMs to dollars to dating after healing — and every story hits a nerve.💌 First, a confident Ohio beauty wants to shoot her shot at a celebrity — but how do you slide into a famous man’s DMs without looking like a groupie?💸 Next, a 36-year-old woman is in love with a good man who can’t get his money right. She’s tired of carrying the emotional and financial load and wonders if love alone can really sustain a future.💞 Then, after eight years single and raising kids alone, a mother is ready to date again — but the modern dating world feels foreign. How does she start over with confidence?✨ In Btch You Smell Good*, we feature Tom Ford Black Orchid — a dark, luxurious blend of orchid, chocolate, and amber that’s as bold as the women we talk about.🚩 And in the Red Flag Report, Megan Thee Stallion and Klay Thompson spark debate over “how soon is too soon” to go public with love. Is it confidence — or a performance for the internet?👇 Comment your thoughts below — Would you shoot your shot at a celebrity or keep it low-key?
Call In Here: https://www.relationshiprestored.com/deartisiawrite-inThis Dear Tisia episode dives deep into the heart — from the pain of first love to the power of self-worth and the truth about emotional needs.💌 First, a 19-year-old caller opens up about escaping her first toxic relationship — filled with emotional abuse, manipulation, and a desperate hunger for validation. Now she’s asking how to heal and rebuild her confidence so she never mistakes pain for love again.💔 Next, another woman shares how she walked away from a man who loved her deeply — just not in her love language. Can love survive when emotional needs go unmet, or is walking away the only way to honor yourself?😞 Then, a woman finds herself emotionally exhausted by a friend who constantly trauma dumps — and she’s torn between compassion and protecting her peace.✨ In Btch You Smell Good*, we spotlight Nebras by Lattafa Pride — a sweet, cozy, and addictive gourmand that mixes berries, vanilla, cacao, and amber into a scent that feels like self-love in a bottle.🚩 And in the Red Flag Report, we unpack Jennifer Lopez’s viral revelation that after four marriages, she’s never truly felt loved. Is that a reflection of her partners… or proof that self-love has to come first?👇 Drop your thoughts in the comments — which story or confession hit you the hardest?
Call In Here: https://www.relationshiprestored.com/deartisiawrite-inThis week’s Dear Tisia gets deep, raw, and real — exploring what happens when love looks right on paper but doesn’t feelright in practice.💌 First, a woman finds her dream man — thoughtful, spiritual, generous — but there’s one problem: the sex just isn’t satisfying. Is it settling if everything else aligns but the chemistry doesn’t?💔 Next, another caller faces the painful truth that love alone isn’t enough when your partner is financially unstable. Can emotional connection survive without financial compatibility?😤 Then, a mother shares how the man who abandoned her during pregnancy came back — only to betray her again. She’s standing on business this time, fighting guilt, and reclaiming her power.✨ In Btch You Smell Good,* we feature Bond No. 9 Greenwich Village (NYC) — a fruity-floral fragrance with lychee, water lily, praline, and vanilla that captures sophistication and sweetness all in one.🚩 And in the Red Flag Report, new Hinge data shows that while many men think women want money, what most women really value is effort. So if effort isn’t rooted in what your partner actually needs — is it still love, or just performance?👇 Drop your thoughts in the comments — which situation would be hardest for you to walk away from?
Call In Here: https://www.relationshiprestored.com/deartisiawrite-inToday, Dear Tisia welcomes its first-ever guest — Demetri Wiley, Chicago native, musician, and host of The Lost Loverboy Podcast. Known for his emotional honesty and poetic perspective on love, heartbreak, and healing, Demetri opens up about his journey as a man learning to love deeply and intentionally.💬 From his parents’ influence and personal heartbreaks to his views on dating, marriage, and modern masculinity — this is one of the most honest conversations we’ve had yet.💌 Then, we dive into two powerful Dear Tisia voicemails:• A woman ghosted after finally letting her guard down.• Another left alone in the hospital by the man she loved.✨ In Btch You Smell Good*, we spotlight Kirke by Tiziana Terenzi — a luscious, warm blend of passionfruit, vanilla, and sandalwood that’s as magnetic as it is mysterious.👇 Join the conversation in the comments — which part of this episode hit you the hardest?
Call In Here: https://www.relationshiprestored.com/deartisiawrite-inThis Dear Tisia episode dives into emotional endurance, boundaries, and redefining love when life keeps testing your patience.💌 A woman is drained after three years with a man who’s unemployed (again), grieving, and leaning on her support. How long is too long to wait when love starts to feel like a burden?🎁 Another caller wonders how much is too much when it comes to early love — should you go all out on a one-month anniversary gift, or pace your “lover girl” energy?💔 A lifelong friendship turned romantic — and then chaotic — leaves one woman wondering if things can ever go back to how they were.💍 And a caller thought she’d found “the one”… until jealousy and distrust shattered it all, forcing her to rebuild again — this time, in solitude.🚩 In the Red Flag Report, we unpack two hot takes:1️⃣ The viral “Mercedes = feminine car” debate — what does that really say about our views of masculinity?2️⃣ Regina Hall and Amy Poehler’s convo on why men avoid marriage, even though they benefit from it most.👇 Drop your thoughts in the comments — would YOU wait, stay, or walk away?
Call In Here: https://www.relationshiprestored.com/deartisiawrite-inThis week’s Dear Tisia is about being honest with yourself, setting boundaries, and asking the hard questions in love.💌 First, a woman is tired of being the “option” instead of the priority — even though she’s attractive, intentional, and ready for love. Why do men treat her like a backup plan?🔥 Next, a friends-with-benefits situation gets messy when he catches feelings after a year — but she’s still firmly in the casual lane. Can it end respectfully, or does she need to walk away?💔 And one caller’s relationship unraveled after a conversation about money and timelines. Was she asking too much — or was he avoiding accountability?✨ In Btch You Smell Good,* we feature Rosendo Mateu Nº 5, a rich floral amber fragrance with saffron, exotic florals, vanilla, and sensual musk.🚩 And in the Red Flag Report, influencer Jayda Cheaves admits she’s a boss in business but struggles to apply that same power in love. Why do so many strong women stay in relationships that don’t serve them?👇 Join the conversation in the comments — which story hit you hardest?
Call In Here: https://www.relationshiprestored.com/deartisiawrite-inThis episode of Dear Tisia dives into real dilemmas, shocking betrayals, and a viral red flag that shook the internet.💌 First, a 26-year-old is ready for love but feels trapped in her small-town dating pool. Should she stay local or hit bigger cities to find the right one?💔 Then, a mom of one is devastated after her man moved his ex and her kids into his home, leaving her and their daughter sidelined. Is there any way forward?😳 Next, a woman planning marriage with her man has one big issue — his mama. From shaving his back to kissing him on the mouth, their closeness feels way too close.✨ In Btch You Smell Good,* we highlight Mancera Pink Roses, a fresh and elegant fragrance bursting with rose, citrus, and white musk.🚩 And in the Red Flag Report, we unpack UK influencer Ginga Jay’s viral “I hate Black women” rant on BK Chat London. Was it just for controversy, or a massive red flag about character? 👇 Join the conversation in the comments — would YOU stay in any of these situations?
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