Dating After Divorce | Christian Dating, Codependency, Dating with Kids, Narcissist, Trauma Healing, Divorce Recovery, Dating Again, God-Led Relationship

If you've ever stayed awake waiting for an apology that never comes, this episode is going to free you Stop being a prisoner of external validation Learn self-forgiveness as a radical act Learn the freedom that comes with self-acceptance Learn how to start building your new life without their blessing   If you would like guidance in your dating journey and save yourself years of disappointments doubting yourself and settling for less than what you deserve, schedule a FREE 30-minute session with me. . .   "Discover Your Dating Mirror" 1-on-1 FREE Session (regular price of $197usd)   Free relationship patterns assessment SAVE YOUR SPOT HERE  

Your Person Exists: Why the Wait Is Preparing You for the Love You Deserve If you've been waiting for the right person and starting to wonder if they even exist, this episode is for you. As a life coach for Christian women navigating life and love after divorce, I see so many beautiful women losing hope in their waiting season. But what if I told you the wait has a sacred purpose? Ready to Stop Waiting and Start Preparing? Join my 5-Day workshop YOU ARE ENOUGH, where you will learn how to: ✓ Begin your healing journey after divorce ✓ The patterns keeping you stuck ✓ Prepare for lasting love actually looks like ✓ Become the woman who's ready for her person Don't spend another year waiting passively. Your person exists - let's make sure you're ready when God brings you together.   Sign up before November 21st and receive the BONUS  I AM INTERESTED! 🔗https://pattymartinlifecoach.kit.com/a6e831b666 Women’s Retreat 2026-Waitlist   🔗   https://forms.gle/SZ2aGP2xUxoutpCR7 Join our Facebook group Dating After Divorce 🔗https://www.facebook.com/groups/1765979270789001/people Similar episodes 20| How To Overcome Fear & Anxiety EP 17| Unashaming Divorce - Regaining Your Worth  

Does This Sound Like You? ​You keep attracting the same type of man—different face, same problems ​​You feel incapable of choosing the right man  You give your all and get breadcrumbs in return  You don't know how to trust your judgment after it's "failed" you before  You're exhausted from dating apps and game-playing  You wonder if God is punishing you for what you did in the past  You're ready to stop the cycle but don't know  If you nodded your head to any of these, then my end of year workshop is for you. Sign up now and receive a BONUS -  🔗https://pattymartinlifecoach.kit.com/a6e831b666   Join our Facebook group Dating After Divorce 🔗https://www.facebook.com/groups/1765979270789001/people

The Mirror Effect: Why You Keep Attracting the Same Type of Man" Are you tired of the same relationship patterns repeating in your life? In this powerful episode, we explore the Mirror Effect - how our past relationships reflect our internal beliefs about love, worth, and God's design for us.   Discover the three types of mirrors revealing your heart and learn how to break the cycle once and for all. What You'll Learn: The biblical foundation of the Mirror Effect in relationships How to identify the three mirrors: Wound, Worth, and Wall God's three-step healing process: Recognition, Repentance, Renewal Practical steps to prepare your heart for your God-given partner   "Discover Your Dating Mirror" 1-on-1 FREE Session (regular price of $197usd) Free relationship patterns assessment SAVE YOUR SPOT HERE   Connect With Me: Instagram Website Email  

Discover God's blueprint for setting healthy boundaries that honor Him and promote your healing. 🙏 What You'll Learn ✅ Why guarding your heart is a biblical command, not selfishness ✅ Practical boundaries to set with your ex-spouse, family, and yourself ✅ How to protect your heart without hardening it ✅ Signs of a guarded vs. unguarded heart during divorce ✅ How healthy boundaries affect your children and future relationships 📝 Main Scripture Proverbs 4:23: "Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it." Morning Boundary Assessment: Pray for daily heart protection guidance The "Gate Check": Evaluate conversations before engaging Evening Reflection: Journal about how boundaries helped your decisions 📚 Supporting Verses 1 Corinthians 13:4-5 (Love and boundaries) Joshua 1:9 (Courage for boundaries) Acts 5:29 (When others criticize boundaries) 💬 Let's Connect If this message touched your heart and you're walking through divorce, I'd love to offer you a free 30-minute breakthrough session. We'll create a personalized plan for your healing journey. Book at the link in the description! 👇 COMMENT BELOW: What's one boundary you know you need to set but have been afraid to implement?   If you would like guidance in your dating journey and save yourself  years of disappointments doubting yourself and settling for less than what you deserve, schedule a FREE 30-minute session with me. .  HERE #DivorceRecovery #ChristianWomen #HealthyBoundaries #BiblicalHealing #TrustAgain #ChristianDivorce #WomenOfFaith #BibleStudy #Boundaries #HealingJourney

5 Questions Every Christian Woman Must Ask Ready to date after divorce? Not so fast, beautiful. Before you swipe right or say yes to that coffee date, there are 5 crucial questions you need to honestly answer. In this episode, I share the exact questions I use with my coaching clients to determine if they're truly ready for healthy love or if they need more healing time first. In This Episode, You'll Learn: The hidden signs you're not ready to date (even if you feel lonely) How to know if you've truly forgiven your ex and yourself The difference between emotional availability and loneliness Why your relationship patterns matter more than you think How to surrender your timeline to God's perfect timing   Pre-register and SAVE for our women's retreat this November in Southern California (Orange County Area).   Pre-Register for YOU ARE ENOUGH women's retreat

Dating after divorce can feel overwhelming, especially when you're carrying the weight of grief that others don't understand. In this episode, we explore the many faces of grief after heartbreak—from mourning your future dreams to navigating family separation—and why honoring your grief is actually the pathway back to love. What You'll Learn: The 5 types of grief you experience after heartbreak (and why each one matters) How family separation creates layers of loss beyond just losing your partner Why "getting over it" isn't the goal—healing is Practical steps to honor your grief while opening your heart to new possibilities How to recognize when grief needs professional support Key Takeaways: Grief and hope can coexist Your ability to grieve deeply is your ability to love deeply Healing isn't linear, and that's okay You're not broken—you're breaking open If you would like guidance in your dating journey and save yourself  years of disappointments doubting yourself and settling for less than what you deserve, schedule a FREE 30-minute session with me. .  HERE    

Discover the six transformative habits that make mature women absolutely magnetic. This isn't about superficial attraction - it's about stepping into authentic power and irresistible confidence that can only come with wisdom and experience. Your scars and experiences are part of your power, not weaknesses to hide Boundaries aren't walls - they're gates that you control Age is an advantage when it comes to knowing what you want Quality relationships vs quantity every time Self-care is about honoring your whole self Living with purpose creates irresistible energy   If you would like guidance in your dating journey and save yourself  years of disappointments doubting yourself and settling for less than what you deserve, schedule a FREE 30-minute session with me. .  HERE

  💪 The 4 Practical Steps You'll Learn: Create your "Solitude Pact" - A powerful tool for moments of weakness Transform urgency into prayer - What to do BEFORE picking up your phone Build your support network - Why you shouldn't fight this battle alone Rediscover your identity - Who you are when no one else is watching 💝 What Other Listeners Are Saying: "This episode came right when I needed it most. I cried, prayed, and for the first time I feel strong enough not to go back" - Sarah "The practical steps are pure gold. Especially #2 has saved me from sending texts I would regret" - Jessica "I had never heard loneliness explained from this biblical perspective. It changed how I see it" - Maria 🎁 SPECIAL OFFER MENTIONED IN THE EPISODE: Free Coaching Session (30 minutes) Limited time ONLY 24 HOURS Free review of your dating profile SAVE YOUR SPOT HERE   🔖 Quotes to Reflect On: "Temporary loneliness is better than permanent wrong companionship" "You're not half an orange waiting for the other half. You're a complete woman in Christ" "Your worth doesn't depend on having someone by your side" "The woman you are when you're alone is the real woman" 📱 Share This Episode If: You know someone trapped in this cycle You've overcome this pattern and want to help others You believe all women deserve true love You want to be part of a supportive community Hashtags: #ChristianWomen #HealthyRelationships #EmotionalHealing #ChristianPodcast   🎧 First Time Here? Welcome! This podcast is designed for women of faith seeking to heal, grow, and find healthy relationships according to biblical principles. Subscribe so you don't miss any episodes and join our community of women supporting each other on this journey. Did you identify with this episode? Leave me a comment telling me which part resonated most with you. Your story might inspire another woman going through the same thing. 💕

Why This Arrangement Doesn't Serve Your Heart What "friends with benefits" really means  The emotional and spiritual reasons why these arrangements don't work for Christian women Friends with benefits arrangements rarely stay emotionally neutral Saying no to the wrong thing opens doors for the right thing If you would like guidance in your dating journey and save yourself  years of disappointments doubting yourself and settling for less than what you deserve, schedule a FREE 30-minute session with me. .  HERE   LIMITED SPOTS!   Connect with with me: Email: patty.martinlifecoach@gmail.com 📱 Instagram: @patty.martinlifecoach 🌐 Website: http:\\pattymartinlifecoach.com  

In this powerful 30-minute Bible study, we dive deep into Isaiah 43:18-19 to discover God's heart for healing your past relationships. Whether you're walking through divorce, recovering from a painful breakup, or struggling to trust again, this episode will show you how God wants to transform your wilderness into streams of living water. What You'll Learn: The Biblical Foundation for Healing: Understanding what it truly means to "forget the former things" without suppressing your emotions. Breaking the Dwelling Cycle: Practical tools to stop replaying old hurts and redirect your thoughts toward God's truth. Recognizing God's "New Thing": How to identify the healing and restoration God is already working in your life From Wilderness to Streams: Discovering how God makes a way through your relational desert seasons Key Scripture Isaiah 43:18-19 (NIV): "Forget the former things; do not dwell on the past. See, I am doing a new thing! Now it springs up; do you not perceive it? I am making a way in the wilderness and streams in the desert." Supporting Verses Referenced Ephesians 4:32 - On forgiveness and compassion 1 John 3:1 - On your identity as God's beloved daughter Jeremiah 29:11 - On God's good plans for your future Practical Applications Covered How to process emotions without getting stuck in them Daily Declaration Practice: Morning affirmations based on Scripture Thought Redirect Prayer: A simple prayer to refocus when dwelling on past hurt Evening Gratitude Practice: Recognizing God's daily work in your healing This Week's Challenge Read Isaiah 43:18-19 each morning and declare God's new work in your life Practice the thought redirect prayer when old memories surface Journal daily about one "new thing" you see God doing Journal Prompts What old relationship pattern am I ready to leave in the past? How do I want to be different in my next relationship? What is one way I can see God making "streams in my desert" right now? Memory Verse Isaiah 43:18-19 - Commit to memorizing this powerful promise of God's restoration in your life Connect with Me If this episode touched your heart and you're ready to go deeper in your healing journey, I'd love to connect with you personally. I'm offering free 30-minute breakthrough sessions where we can discuss your specific situation and create a personalized path forward. Book your session at [your booking link]. Next Episode Preview Join me next week as we explore "Rebuilding Trust: God's Blueprint for Healthy Boundaries" - essential tools for protecting your heart while staying open to love. A link will be provided via instagram on Wednesday morning. @Manifesting.infaith  If you would like guidance in your dating journey and save yourself  years of disappointments doubting yourself and settling for less than what you deserve, schedule a FREE 30-minute session with me.  HERE

The difference between healthy desire for companionship and desperate loneliness. Understanding your single season as sacred space, not a waiting room. Recognizing when loneliness is driving decisions vs. genuine readiness. Learn how to wait well: honesty, intentionality, and contentment. Why God's timing involves preparation, not withholding Featured Scripture: Ecclesiastes 3:1 - "To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven." Additional Biblical References: 1 Corinthians 7 (Paul on singleness as a gift) Genesis 2:18 ("It is not good for man to be alone") Philippians 4:11 (Paul's contentment) 🌟 READY TO LEARN HOW TO WAIT WELL? 🌟 ✨ Identify whether you're operating from healthy desire or desperate loneliness ✨ Create a personalized plan for using your single season intentionally ✨ Develop tools to discern God's voice in your dating decisions ✨ Build unshakeable contentment while you wait for God's best What clients are saying: "I finally understand the difference between waiting and preparing. My whole perspective changed!" "I stopped settling for less than I deserve and started trusting God's timing completely." Don't let another day pass feeling torn between your heart's desire and God's plan. Your season of waiting can become your season of greatest growth. Let me show you how. Are you tired of the constant tension between your loneliness and God's timing? Do you find yourself making dating decisions from desperation rather than discernment? I have LIMITED spots available for one-on-one coaching sessions this month. Schedule your 1-1 Here

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Let's explore one of the most important but least discussed topics in love: the need to heal our emotional wounds before seeking a partner. In this episode you'll discover: Why we tend to rush into relationships as an escape mechanism The signs that indicate you need time to heal before starting a new relationship How childhood wounds and past relationships influence our current romantic decisions Practical strategies for taking the necessary time for your emotional healing The difference between looking for someone to "complete" you versus someone to grow with This episode is for you if: You notice you repeat the same patterns in your relationships You feel constant urgency to be in a relationship You've ended recent relationships and are already looking for the next one You want to break generational cycles of dysfunctional relationships You desire to build healthier and more conscious relationships Remember: taking time to heal isn't selfishness, it's self-love. And self-love is the foundation of all true love.   If you would like guidance in your dating journey and save yourself some headaches and years of disappointments, schedule a 1-1 sesion with me.    Here

"Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, the new creation has come: The old has gone, the new is here!" - 2 Corinthians 5:17 Your divorce decree isn't a life sentence – it's a permission slip to become who you were always meant to be. Stop asking 'Why did this happen to me?' and start asking 'How is this preparing me for what's next? The right person won't see your past as baggage – they'll see it as the journey that made you the incredible woman standing before them. By the end of this episode, you'll have concrete tools to: Write the perfect bio to attract the man God has for you.  Remember Quality vs. Quantity   Warning: This episode may cause sudden outbreaks of hope, self-worth, and excitement about your future! Ready to turn the page on your old story and start writing your new beginning? Press play and let's transform your mindset together.   If you would like guidance in your dating journey and save yourself some headaches and years of disappointments, schedule a 1-1 sesion with me.    Here    

Listen to this episode and learn the emotional complications that dating someone not yet divorced gives you emotional complications include being second priority, dealing with unresolved baggage, and relationship instability   Bible Verses Referenced: Psalm 27:14 - Wait on the Lord   If you would like guidance in your dating journey and save yourself some headaches and years of disappointments, schedule a 1-1 sesion with me.    Here

In this episode, we explore the crucial differences between genuine attentiveness and subtle manipulation in dating relationships. Learn to identify red flags and green flags while developing biblical discernment in your romantic relationships. Key Topics Covered: Characteristics of genuine attentiveness vs. manipulation Red flags that indicate manipulative behavior Green flags of healthy, attentive partners The importance of trusting your God-given intuition Biblical wisdom for relationship discernment   If you are searching for guidance 1-1 to navigate the dating world, I am here to help. Sesion 1-1

Are your dating standards keeping you from finding love?   In this episode, we explore the difference between healthy standards and unrealistic expectations that might be sabotaging your relationships. From social media influence to past hurt protection, we uncover where impossible expectations come from and how they're costing us genuine connections. Key Topics Covered: The Movie Hero Complex and other common unrealistic expectations How social media and pop culture shape our relationship ideals The hidden costs of perfectionist dating standards Distinguishing between healthy standards and unrealistic expectations Practical steps for dating with wisdom and faith 1-1 sessions HERE

If you've been struggling in the dating world, feeling discouraged about love, or wondering if God has forgotten about your heart's desires - this episode is specifically for you. Three years ago, I was exactly where you might be right now. Exhausted from dating apps, healing from toxic relationships, and wondering if real, godly love was even possible for someone like me. I was ready to give up on love altogether. But then something incredible happened. When I stopped looking for love and started seeking God's heart, everything changed.   Today, I'm married to the most amazing, godly man who loves Jesus and loves me exactly as I am. In this week's episode, I'm sharing the three specific tips that completely transformed my love life. But more than just tips, I'm sharing how putting my faith first led me to a love story more beautiful than anything I could have imagined. This isn't about changing yourself to find someone - it's about discovering who God created you to be and positioning yourself for the love He has planned for you. Whether you're single and searching, dating and confused, or healing from heartbreak, this episode will give you hope and practical steps to transform your approach to love. Listen now and let me know how it impacts your heart. I have a feeling this might be exactly what you needed to hear today.   Sesion 1-1

Another year has gone, let the old habits go with that year as well and welcome the new better habits this 2026   Let me teach you how....     If you’d like to schedule a FREE discovery call with me click the link below: I AM INTERESTED!    IG Account: https://www.instagram.com/datingcoach4christianmoms      🔗https://pattymartinlifecoach.kit.com/a6e831b666 Women’s Retreat 2026-Waitlist   🔗   https://forms.gle/SZ2aGP2xUxoutpCR7 Join our Facebook group Dating After Divorce 🔗https://www.facebook.com/groups/1765979270789001/people Similar episodes   EP 18| My Ex Has Not Apologize For What He Did Ep 27| Your Person Exists - What To Do In The Waiting Season