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Fix Your Relationships with Dr. Tiff | Dating, Self-Sabotage, Red Flags, People Pleasing, Love Bombing

Author: Dr. Tiffanie Henry - Your Relationship Transformation Coach

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Are you a high-achieving baddie who hasn’t found success in your romantic relationships? Do you keep falling for the wrong type while missing obvious red-flags? Do you over-function in relationships, to the point that you neglect yourself? Or, are you a people pleaser who constantly feels taken advantage of? Have you stayed in relationships way longer than you should? Does the thought of trying to fix it all leave you feeling like giving up on relationships all together?


If you’re ready to stop losing yourself in relationships and start doing the “self-work” that you’ve been putting off, then babes, you’re in the right place. This podcast will help you stop the self-sabotage, own your mistakes and nurture you through the changes you know you need to make in order to call in the love you desire and deserve.


Hey Babes. I’m Dr. Tiff. A licensed psychotherapist and relationship coach, wife, momma of one and lover of God, hip hop and my nightly glass of wine. For the past 20+ years, I’ve been helping high-achieving women, just like you, find the love and the life that they desperately desire and deserve. Some married. Some single. All baddies in their respective businesses. Yet, nearly all had one thing in common: They all needed to confront patterns and habits that have kept them stuck and blocked them from finding “the one.” Their hearts were ready for love but self-sabotage, ignoring red flags, co-dependency and the avoidance of self-work was keeping them (and you) from attracting the love of their lives.


What I know for sure is that your over-compensation for what your partner lacks, your self-neglect and your lack of boundaries won’t net you the partner you’ve been dreaming of. It’s not until you confront those old patterns of people-pleasing, staying in dead-end relationships & holding onto past hurt, that we become more open to new strategies that will actually help us fix what’s broken; within ourselves and our relationships.


When I began leading my clients through this process,  a major shift happened in their romantic lives. The moment they began to focus on their own growth and transformation, the love that they desired started showing up for them in ways they were finally ready to embrace. By working on the only person you can change (YOU), and resisting the urge to focus on what’s beyond your control, my clients are finding that chasing after, hoping for or trying to strong-arm someone into being “the one,” just isn’t worth it. Rather than looking for “the one,” I help them BECOME THE ONE.


If you’re ready to get your love life together with a little help from a God-fearing, wine guzzling baddie, who’ll hold you accountable and make you laugh every step of the way - this podcast is for you! So go ahead, babes. It's time to kick off your Loubs, un-bra your boobs and clink glasses with your girl. Get ready to Fix Your Relationships.



Let's Keep In Touch! - Have a relationship question or an idea for the show? Interested in being a guest on our podcast or hiring Dr. Tiff to appear on yours? Email us at support@DrTiffanieHenry.com or visit https://DrTiffanieHenry.com for more information.


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Do you ever feel like saying no is just…impossible? Like your heart wants to help, to nurture, to be there for everyone—so much so that your own needs quietly slip to the bottom of the list? If “yes” is your default, you’re not alone! This week on Fix Your Relationships with Dr. Tiff, we dive into the challenges women face when it comes to saying no and breaking free from people-pleasing habits. Dr. Tiff unpacks why so many of us feel compelled to put others first and offers a practical 2026 blueprint for setting boundaries, prioritizing self-care, and building healthier, more fulfilling relationships. If you’re ready to stop overcommitting and start saying yes to yourself, don’t miss this empowering episode! Resources Mentioned In This Episode Ep049 | Can't Get It All Done? Do This & CRUSH Your To-Do List The ONE Within 30-Day Reset is a one-of-a-kind journaling experience designed to improve your most intimate connections by focusing on YOU. In just 5-10 minutes per day, I’ll help you confront your unique relationship challenges and begin to make the necessary changes to start attracting the love you deserve. To learn more, go to DrTiffanieHenry.com/theonewithin   THERE ARE SO MANY WAYS FOR US TO CONNECT Follow on Instagram: @DrTiffanieTV Visit The Website: www.DrTiffanieHenry.com Join Me On Facebook: https://FYRCommunity.com Subscribe To Our Email List: https://becometheone.myflodesk.com/jointhelist
Are you ready to break the cycle of anger and build deeper, more fulfilling connections? In this episode of Fix Your Relationships, I'm unpacking the hidden roots anger in relationships and sharing practical strategies to help ambitious women like you transform your frustration into growth and love. Lean all the way in, babes. Your next-level relationship is waiting!! Resources Mentioned In This Episode Ep034 | The Real Reason You Can't Let Go EP056 | EASIEST Way To Find Love in 2026 (The ONE Within 30-Day Reset) The ONE Within 30-Day Reset is a one-of-a-kind journaling experience designed to improve your most intimate connections by focusing on YOU. In just 5-10 minutes per day, I’ll help you confront your unique relationship challenges and begin to make the necessary changes to start attracting the love you deserve. To learn more, go to DrTiffanieHenry.com/theonewithin   THERE ARE SO MANY WAYS FOR US TO CONNECT Follow on Instagram: @DrTiffanieTV Visit The Website: www.DrTiffanieHenry.com Join Me On Facebook: https://FYRCommunity.com Subscribe To Our Email List: https://becometheone.myflodesk.com/jointhelist    
Have you ever thought about how you learned to love? Or what it means to be in a loving relationship? How do you know if you're doing it right? How should it feel? And what does love look like? A lot of what we've learned about love and relationships is established early on, by our parents, or those who took care of us as a child. Those relationships modeled what love "should" look like. But what if what it looked like was toxic? Broken? Complicated? Estranged? What if the adults in your life said that they loved one another but filled the home with hate? How did you make sense of that? How has their expression of "love" shaped your adult relationships today? This week on Fix Your Relationships, I want to have a serious conversation with those of you who feel like your parents set you up for relationship failure. If the way in which you've been going about relationships is eerily similar to the dysfunction you grew up with, today's episode will encourage you to forget what you learned from your parents and embrace a new way of thinking. Today's message is intended to completely shift how you experience every relationship you have from this point forward. Resources Mentioned In This Episode The ONE Within 30-Day Reset is a one-of-a-kind journaling experience designed to improve your most intimate connections by focusing on YOU. In just 5-10 minutes per day, I’ll help you confront your unique relationship challenges and begin to make the necessary changes to start attracting the love you deserve. To learn more, go to DrTiffanieHenry.com/theonewithin EP056 | EASIEST Way To Find Love in 2026 (The ONE Within 30-Day Reset)   THERE ARE SO MANY WAYS FOR US TO CONNECT Follow on Instagram: @DrTiffanieTV Visit The Website: www.DrTiffanieHenry.com Join Me On Facebook: https://FYRCommunity.com Subscribe To Our Email List: https://becometheone.myflodesk.com/jointhelist  
Forget Ciara’s prayer. In this week’s episode of Fix Your Relationships, we’ll confront the mindset that could be blocking you from experiencing better relationships. If you’ve ever wondered if you’re getting what you’re getting in relationships because of the prayers you’ve been praying, this episode will give you the confidence to pray bold, audacious prayers for the amazing relationship God wants you to have. My goal today is for you to stop sending up “struggle prayers” and get clear on what you really want and need in your relationships so you can start praying for God’s best.   Resources Mentioned In This Episode The ONE Within 30-Day Reset is a one-of-a-kind journaling experience designed to improve your most intimate connections by focusing on YOU. In just 5-10 minutes per day, I’ll help you confront your unique relationship challenges and begin to make the necessary changes to start attracting the love you deserve. To learn more, go to DrTiffanieHenry.com/theonewithin EP056 | EASIEST Way To Find Love in 2026 (The ONE Within 30-Day Reset)   THERE ARE SO MANY WAYS FOR US TO CONNECT Follow on Instagram: @DrTiffanieTV Visit The Website: www.DrTiffanieHenry.com Join Me On Facebook: https://FYRCommunity.com Subscribe To Our Email List: https://becometheone.myflodesk.com/jointhelist
Just because you haven’t had the best luck with relationships doesn’t mean that you can’t find the love that you’re meant to have. Yep, relationships can be tough. But guess what?? So are you. In this episode of Fix Your Relationships, we’ll explore the common challenges faced by high-achieving women who struggle in their relationships. If you’re having trouble finding “the one,” consistently picking the wrong type, settling for less that you deserve, missing red flags, etc., I’ll show you exactly what you need to do to find the love you’ve always wanted, even if you SUCK at relationships. Resources Mentioned In This Episode The ONE Within 30-Day Reset is a one-of-a-kind journaling experience designed to improve your most intimate connections by focusing on YOU. In just 5-10 minutes per day, I’ll help you confront your unique relationship challenges and begin to make the necessary changes to start attracting the love you deserve. To learn more, go to DrTiffanieHenry.com/theonewithin EP056 | EASIEST Way To Find Love in 2026 (The ONE Within 30-Day Reset) EP044 | Pushing Away Love? 5 Ways We Sabotage Relationships Ep040 | 10 Signs You’re Sabotaging Your Relationships Ep038 | Triumph Over Trust Issues In 5 Easy Steps   THERE ARE SO MANY WAYS FOR US TO CONNECT Follow on Instagram: @DrTiffanieTV Visit The Website: www.DrTiffanieHenry.com Join Me On Facebook: https://FYRCommunity.com Subscribe To Our Email List: https://becometheone.myflodesk.com/jointhelist
As women, we sometimes find it hard to prioritize our needs ahead of everyone else’s. But when it comes to our romantic relationships, focusing on YOU might just be the best thing you can do. In today’s podcast, I’ll walk you through how prioritizing your own needs, self-work, and wellness might actually be the BEST THING FOR YOUR RELATIONSHIP. I’ll also share how joining The ONE Within 30-Day Reset and guided journal prompts can help bring you closer to the root of your unique challenges, chartering a course to relationship success. Resources Mentioned In This Episode The ONE Within 30-Day Reset is a one-of-a-kind journaling experience designed to improve your most intimate connections by focusing on YOU. In just 5-10 minutes per day, I’ll help you confront your unique relationship challenges and begin to make the necessary changes to start attracting the love you deserve. To learn more, go to DrTiffanieHenry.com/theonewithin 056 | EASIEST Way To Find Love in 2026 (The ONE Within 30-Day Reset) 055 | How Journaling Unlocks Relationship Success   THERE ARE SO MANY WAYS FOR US TO CONNECT Follow on Instagram: @DrTiffanieTV Visit The Website: www.DrTiffanieHenry.com Join Me On Facebook: https://FYRCommunity.com Subscribe To Our Email List: https://becometheone.myflodesk.com/jointhelist
Recovering from an affair is one of the most difficult things for couples go through. But take it from me . . . YOU CAN RECOVER, and your relationship CAN survive! On today’s episode of Fix Your Relationships podcast, we’ll talk about affairs, who’s to blame, who should be taking ownership and what BOTH parties need to do in order for the relationship to recover. NEWSFLASH: It’s gonna take a lot of work. Resources Mentioned In This Episode The ONE Within 30-Day Reset is a one-of-a-kind journaling experience designed to improve your most intimate connections by focusing on YOU. In just 5-10 minutes per day, I’ll help you confront your unique relationship challenges and begin to make the necessary changes to start attracting the love you deserve. To learn more, tap here or go to DrTiffanieHenry.com/theonewithin 056 | EASIEST Way To Find Love in 2026 (The ONE Within 30-Day Reset) Book - After The Affair by Janis Abrams Springs https://amzn.to/49D8eZm THERE ARE SO MANY WAYS FOR US TO CONNECT Follow on Instagram: @DrTiffanieTV Visit The Website: www.DrTiffanieHenry.com Join Me On Facebook: https://FYRCommunity.com Subscribe To Our Email List: https://becometheone.myflodesk.com/jointhelist
What if there was a way to fix your relationships BEFORE 2026? And what if you could see the results of that transformation in as few as 30 days? On today's episode, I'm unveiling my new course, The ONE Within 30-Day Reset: a one-of-a-kind journaling experience designed to help women, just like you, learn to effortlessly attract the love you deserve while focusing on your own growth and transformation. If you can spare just 5-10 minutes per day, you have all the time you need to gain real insight, embrace profound clarity and finally tackle the self-work you've been putting off, hindering your intimate connections. Together, I'll help you overcome the roadblocks that have kept you from relationship success and unlock the strategy needed to claim the love you've always dreamed of. To learn more about The ONE Within 30-Day Reset, tap the link here or visit DrTiffanieHenry.com/theonewithin for more information. And if you sign up during the month on November 2025, you'll enjoy a complimentary VIP upgrade with your enrollment. Details described inside this podcast episode.   THERE ARE SO MANY WAYS FOR US TO CONNECT Visit The Website: www.DrTiffanieHenry.com Join Me On Facebook: https://FYRCommunity.com Subscribe To Our Email List: https://becometheone.myflodesk.com/jointhelist
Did you keep a diary growing up? I did. And while I don't have those little notebooks anymore, I do remember one thing about the things that I wrote. I was always honest. The feelings that I couldn't express verbally, somehow made their way to the page with little effort. I never consistently wrote in my diary as a kid but as an adult, who happens to be a therapist and relationship coach, I utilize the process of journaling quite a bit to help women gain insight and clarity into past relationship mistakes. Journaling is a highly effective tool for unlocking the success you've been looking for. And in this episode of Fix Your Relationships podcast, I'll explain why. If you're struggling to figure out why you're relationships haven't worked out and understand that a little self-work may be needed, I encourage you to listen to this episode and give journaling a try.   WANT MORE FROM DR. TIFF Visit The Website: www.DrTiffanieHenry.com Join Me On Facebook: https://FYRCommunity.com Subscribe To Our Email List: https://becometheone.myflodesk.com/jointhelist  
It has long been my mission to help my people . . . YOU, be more focused on how we tend and care for our body, mind and spirit. This focus and intention is essential for our longevity and happiness, but also, our sanity. In Part 2 of Beyond The Bubble Bath, I'm giving you even more ideas for being more intentional in your self-care practice. Some fun. Some brash. All, with love. These additional hacks provide a solid foundation for being more deliberate about our growth and ensuring that we're well taken care of, for years to come. Additional Episodes 053 | Beyond The Bubble Bath (Part 1) Intentional Self-Care Hacks That Should Be On Your List 026 | Elevating Your Spirit with Tiffany Nunnally   WANT MORE FROM DR. TIFF Visit The Website: www.DrTiffanieHenry.com Join Me On Facebook: https://FYRCommunity.com Subscribe To Our Email List: https://becometheone.myflodesk.com/jointhelist      
Don't get me wrong. There's nothing wrong with mani-pedis and bubble baths but when it comes to self-care, I think we can go a little deeper. This week on Fix Your Relationships, you're getting a 2-part episode, and I'm going in on one of my favorite topics: Self-Care. And not just self-care, but what it means to be "intentional" about your self-care practice. If your current self-care routine needs a makeover and you're ready to get serious about improving your overall health and well-being then these next two episodes are exactly what you need.  Be Sure To Check Out Ep.054 | Beyond The Bubble Bath (Part 2) Intentional Self-Care Hacks You Haven't Thought Of WANT MORE FROM DR. TIFF Visit The Website: www.DrTiffanieHenry.com Join Me On Facebook: https://FYRCommunity.com Subscribe To Our Email List: https://becometheone.myflodesk.com/jointhelist  
Hey Babes, The relationship is over and you’re not the type to be alone. You’re eager and ready to put yourself back out there and get boo’d up. (Cuddle weather is fast approaching.) I’m all for you taking this brave next step but let’s be smart about it. Diving head first into a relationship may not be the best idea, especially if you haven’t taken the time to look at what went wrong in your previous ones. Before you jump back into the dating pool, check out this week’s episode and explore a few simple to-do’s that’ll help you create a plan for relationship success going forward. WANT MORE FROM DR. TIFF Visit The Website: www.DrTiffanieHenry.com Join Me On Facebook: https://FYRCommunity.com Subscribe To Our Email List: https://becometheone.myflodesk.com/jointhelist  
Hey Babes, Do you cringe when thinking about your past relationships? Do you wish you could go back and change things or delete those memories from your brain entirely? Not so fast, sis. Because the key to moving forward in your relationships, may mean going back to where it all began. In today’s episode of Fix Your Relationships, I’m sharing how exploring your past could give you clues for future relationship success. In my many years of experience as a therapist and relationship coach, I’ve found a wealth of information in my client’s pasts. And by taking a closer look into past relationships, patterns and habits, we tend to: Understand ourselves better Gain perspective and insight into why those relationships failed Be better equipped to handle those challenges should they rise again. If you’re up for the challenge, I invite you to listen to this week’s episode with nostalgic expectation and a willingness to improve your own relationships by embracing your own blasts from the past. WANT MORE FROM DR. TIFF Visit The Website: www.DrTiffanieHenry.com Join Me On Facebook: https://FYRCommunity.com Subscribe To Our Email List: https://becometheone.myflodesk.com/jointhelist  
If you've ever felt unworthy or "not good enough" in your relationship, I've got a WORD for you today. Actually, I have several. If you're feeling as though you don't quite measure up in your relationship or if your partner is constantly asking you to jump through hoops to no avail, I need you to do me a favor. Go to your car. Lock the doors. And turn the volume way up.  Today's podcast is all about YOU. And you, sweetie, are MORE THAN ENOUGH. Lean in as we discuss the importance of self-worth in relationships, particularly for high-achieving women. After listening, my hope is that you'll have new insights on how to identify the wrong partner and the importance of moving forward to find someone who truly appreciates you. WANT MORE FROM DR. TIFF Join Us On Facebook: https://FYRCommunity.com Subscribe To Our Email List: https://becometheone.myflodesk.com/jointhelist  
If you're anything like me, you've got a to-do list that's a mile long with many items rolling over to the next day. And, the next day. And, the next. It just seems impossible to get it all done. Am I right, or am I right? This week, I'm having a little come to Jesus with you (and myself) about the real reason we can't seem to get it all done and what we MUST do if we truly intend to handle business. Lean in, babes, because today, I'm addressing the challenges high-achieving women face in managing their time and relationships. By episodes end, you'll have a few easy to implement, practical tips on how to better manage your to-do list and, finally feel better about asking for help. My hope is that you'll log off feeling empowered to take control of your lives and relationships, while crossing a few more things off your plate.   WANT MORE FROM DR. TIFF Join Us On Facebook: https://FYRCommunity.com Subscribe To Our Email List: https://becometheone.myflodesk.com/jointhelist  
Are you constantly worried your partner is mad at you? Do you overthink every interaction, wondering if you did or said something wrong? Are stuck in a loop of people pleasing, while disregarding your own boundaries? Friend, you may be experiencing something called "Rejection Sensitivity." While you may not have heard of this term before, Rejection Sensitivity isn't new. Many folks struggle with feelings of intense emotion, being called overly-sensitivity, and/or fearing that they'll be pushed away or rejected if everything is perfect. The truth is, once you understand what Rejection Sensitivity is and how it shows up for you, you'll be better able to combat it in your relationships. In this episode of Fix Your Relationships, I'm sharing the 1 simple question that you can ask yourself to fight Rejection Sensitivity head-on. Once you know this, you'll be able to address negative emotions with confidence and embrace the needs of your relationships from a place of certainty, not overwhelm. WANT MORE FROM DR. TIFF Join Us On Facebook: https://FYRCommunity.com Subscribe To Our Email List: https://becometheone.myflodesk.com/jointhelist  
Do you struggle to ask for help? Are you stressed out from taking on too many responsibilities? Has your body started to let you know that it won't be putting up with your 💩 too much longer? If any of this sounds familiar, you're not alone. I, too, have been guilty of doing too much. It's not uncommon for super-independent baddies like us, to take on the world and think about our own needs later. But what happens when our bodies start to break down in rebellion? On today's episode, I share my story of learning I had an auto-immune disorder and why now, listening to my body is non-negotiable. I hope that you'll listen with an open heart and mind and share this episode with anyone in your life who's doing way too much.  WANT MORE FROM DR. TIFF Join Us On Facebook: https://FYRCommunity.com Subscribe To Our Email List: https://becometheone.myflodesk.com/jointhelist
Some of y'all are really trying it??? Imagine . . . hearing one of your homegirls complain about not having the time or the money to do something that would elevate her (scholastically, financially, health-wise) and solve a few of her more pressing challenges. Now imagine . . . that this same friend, just dropped a huge chunk of change to see her favorite artist in concert. While there is no judgement here, I am giving my girl the side-eye. In today's episode, I wanted to call out those of us who are happy to pour our money, our time and talent into others but not offering ourselves the same attention. It's time to let go of the excuses and stop putting things off. If you can invest in others, you can (and should) invest in yourselves as well. WANT MORE FROM DR. TIFF Join Us On Facebook: https://FYRCommunity.com Subscribe To Our Email List: https://becometheone.myflodesk.com/jointhelist  
Want to find "The ONE," but don't know what you're doing wrong? Finding your person is so much simpler than you think. Especially when you know the real reasons its been so difficult. In today's episode, we'll walk through the 6 reasons you haven't found The One and what you can do TODAY to get one step closer to having the love of your life. WANT MORE from Dr. Tiff? READY TO WORK? Relationships are hard. But you don't have to navigate them alone. I have a few slots for 1:1 VIP Relationship Coaching Intensives this month and I'd love to help you tackle whatever you might be struggling with. If interested, email me at support@drtiffaniehenry.com to schedule a 15-minute Coffee Chat. From there, we'll determine if Relationship Coaching is right for you and if so, get you scheduled for your first session.   JOIN OUR COMMUNITY: If you're ready to "double-down" on YOU and do the work to improve your relationships, sign-up for the Become The ONE community today and join our supportive community of like-minded women, all on a mission to embrace the love and life they deserve. Tap here to join, or copy/paste the following url into your browser: https://becometheone.myflodesk.com/email 
Do you push your romantic partners away, even when you really want them close? Are you guilty of holding back your feelings, but are resentful of your partner for not reading your mind? If so, you may be sabotaging your relationship. In today's episode, we'll explore the 5 ways in which you may be sabotaging your relationship. Understanding the "why" is the necessary first step of improve present and future relationships. WANT MORE from Dr. Tiff? READY TO WORK? Relationships are hard. But you don't have to navigate them alone. I have a few slots for 1:1 VIP Relationship Coaching Intensives this month and I'd love to help you tackle whatever you might be struggling with. If interested, email me at support@drtiffaniehenry.com to schedule a 15-minute Coffee Chat. From there, we'll determine if Relationship Coaching is right for you and if so, get you scheduled for your first session. JOIN OUR COMMUNITY: If you're ready to "double-down" on YOU and do the work to improve your relationships, sign-up for the Become The ONE community today and join our supportive community of like-minded women, all on a mission to embrace the love and life they deserve. Tap here to join, or copy/paste the following url into your browser: https://becometheone.myflodesk.com/email 
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