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Fix Your Relationships with Dr. Tiff | Dating, Self-Sabotage, Red Flags, People Pleasing, Love Bombing

Author: Dr. Tiffanie Henry - Your Relationship Transformation Coach

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Are you a high-achieving baddie who hasn’t found success in your romantic relationships? Do you keep falling for the wrong type while missing obvious red-flags? Do you over-function in relationships, to the point that you neglect yourself? Or, are you a people pleaser who constantly feels taken advantage of? Have you stayed in relationships way longer than you should? Does the thought of trying to fix it all leave you feeling like giving up on relationships all together?


If you’re ready to stop losing yourself in relationships and start doing the “self-work” that you’ve been putting off, then babes, you’re in the right place. This podcast will help you stop the self-sabotage, own your mistakes and nurture you through the changes you know you need to make in order to call in the love you desire and deserve.


Hey Babes. I’m Dr. Tiff. A licensed psychotherapist and relationship coach, wife, momma of one and lover of God, hip hop and my nightly glass of wine. For the past 20+ years, I’ve been helping high-achieving women, just like you, find the love and the life that they desperately desire and deserve. Some married. Some single. All baddies in their respective businesses. Yet, nearly all had one thing in common: They all needed to confront patterns and habits that have kept them stuck and blocked them from finding “the one.” Their hearts were ready for love but self-sabotage, ignoring red flags, co-dependency and the avoidance of self-work was keeping them (and you) from attracting the love of their lives.


What I know for sure is that your over-compensation for what your partner lacks, your self-neglect and your lack of boundaries won’t net you the partner you’ve been dreaming of. It’s not until you confront those old patterns of people-pleasing, staying in dead-end relationships & holding onto past hurt, that we become more open to new strategies that will actually help us fix what’s broken; within ourselves and our relationships.


When I began leading my clients through this process,  a major shift happened in their romantic lives. The moment they began to focus on their own growth and transformation, the love that they desired started showing up for them in ways they were finally ready to embrace. By working on the only person you can change (YOU), and resisting the urge to focus on what’s beyond your control, my clients are finding that chasing after, hoping for or trying to strong-arm someone into being “the one,” just isn’t worth it. Rather than looking for “the one,” I help them BECOME THE ONE.


If you’re ready to get your love life together with a little help from a God-fearing, wine guzzling baddie, who’ll hold you accountable and make you laugh every step of the way - this podcast is for you! So go ahead, babes. It's time to kick off your Loubs, un-bra your boobs and clink glasses with your girl. Get ready to Fix Your Relationships.



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You're overwhelmed, overworked, and if we're really being honest — maybe a little resentful. But you're also the first to raise your hand when something needs to be fixed. This week's episode is for my fixers. My over-functioners. The ones who see a problem and their spirit says "I got it" before anyone even asks. I want you to know that I see you, babes. You've become the event planner, the therapist, the Uber driver, the financier — the one everybody depends on because they know you'll handle it. But I also see you complaining about being overwhelmed. But when a gap appears? I also see you running to the front of the first to fill it. In this episode, Dr. Tiff gets honest about something we don't talk about enough: Some of your overwhelm is not just what's being put on you. Some of it is what you volunteer for. We dig into: The difference between support ("I'm here with you") and the take-over spirit ("Step aside, let me handle it") How your constant fixing is training people not to grow — and why that's not love, it's a pattern The ways you're co-authoring the exhaustion you keep complaining about Why Psalm 46:10 is God's gentle reminder that you are not Him — and you can sit down As only Dr. Tiff can, she lovingly calls out that take-over spirit, and shows you why minding your business might be the most loving thing you can do in this season of your life. RESOURCES MENTIONED THIS EPISODE: The ONE Within 30-Day Reset is a one-of-a-kind journaling experience designed to improve your most intimate connections by focusing on YOU. In just 5-10 minutes per day, I’ll help you confront your unique relationship challenges and begin to make the necessary changes to start attracting the love you deserve. To learn more, go to DrTiffanieHenry.com/theonewithin  THERE ARE SO MANY WAYS FOR US TO CONNECT Follow on Instagram: @DrTiffanieTV Visit The Website: www.DrTiffanieHenry.com Join Me On Facebook: https://FYRCommunity.com Subscribe To Our Email List: https://becometheone.myflodesk.com/jointhelist
You don’t want to sabotage your relationships… but some of your habits are doing it for you. Do you start arguments from nowhere, pull back to see if they’ll chase you, or make people “prove” they won’t leave—then feel rejected when they get tired?  In this eye-opening episode of Fix Your Relationships, we'll explore a sneaky form of self-sabotage: Testing people to prove they’ll leave. Join me in calling out the subtle tests we run in relationships to protect ourselves from pain, and how those tests quietly sabotage the very love we’re praying for. If you're truly ready to stop running people through emotional obstacle courses and start building real, secure connection, this episode is your mirror. RESOURCES MENTIONED THIS EPISODE: MORE LOVE, LESS HUSTLE: Join Dr. Tiff for this upcoming LIVE event designed for women who are tired of over-performing in their romantic relationships. As part of the Working Lunch Series, MORE LOVE, LESS HUSTLE will help you unpack the patterns that keep you hustling for love, explore why you default to fixing, proving, & over-performing, and guide you through the simple inner-work needed to call in the love you deserve. To register and view upcoming dates, tap here, or visit https://becometheone.myflodesk.com/morelovelesshustle The ONE Within 30-Day Reset is a one-of-a-kind journaling experience designed to improve your most intimate connections by focusing on YOU. In just 5-10 minutes per day, I’ll help you confront your unique relationship challenges and begin to make the necessary changes to start attracting the love you deserve. To learn more, go to DrTiffanieHenry.com/theonewithin  THERE ARE SO MANY WAYS FOR US TO CONNECT Follow on Instagram: @DrTiffanieTV Visit The Website: www.DrTiffanieHenry.com Join Me On Facebook: https://FYRCommunity.com Subscribe To Our Email List: https://becometheone.myflodesk.com/jointhelist
So many women stay in relationships, friendships, family roles, even church situations long after their gut has told them 'its time to move on'—simply because they’re terrified of being labeled: “The quitter” “The one who broke the family” “A bad Christian” If you’ve ever stayed in a relationship way past its expiration date because you were scared of being “the one who left,” this episode is for you. In today's conversation, I'll explain why saying “I’m done” doesn’t make you a failure—and how to know when it’s time to leave without feeling guilty. If you’ve wanted to say “I’m done” but you’ve been scared that would make you a quitter, this episode will be your lifeline. RESOURCES MENTIONED THIS EPISODE: Ep68 | Working Overtime In Your Relationships? 8 Signs You're Outsourcing Love To Performance Ep77 | Loving Them Without Losing You: Setting Boundaries For Christian Women The ONE Within 30-Day Reset is a one-of-a-kind journaling experience designed to improve your most intimate connections by focusing on YOU. In just 5-10 minutes per day, I’ll help you confront your unique relationship challenges and begin to make the necessary changes to start attracting the love you deserve. To learn more, go to DrTiffanieHenry.com/theonewithin  THERE ARE SO MANY WAYS FOR US TO CONNECT Follow on Instagram: @DrTiffanieTV Visit The Website: www.DrTiffanieHenry.com Join Me On Facebook: https://FYRCommunity.com Subscribe To Our Email List: https://becometheone.myflodesk.com/jointhelist  
A lot of us feel like we only have two options in love: Be soft, loving, and walked all over, OR Be strong, guarded, and low-key shut down. But what if God is actually inviting you into something else: A soft heart and a strong backbone. If you’re tired of being either “too soft” or “too hard,” then this episode is sure to hit home. I'll share with you what it truly means to “be transformed by the renewing of your mind” (Romans 12:2) and to “guard your heart” (Proverbs 4:23) without becoming cold or bitter. You'll learn how to keep a soft, loving heart while building a strong backbone that protects your peace and heart, without compromise. If you’ve been asking, “How do I love deeply and protect myself?”—this episode will feel like oxygen. RESOURCES MENTIONED THIS EPISODE: Ep77 | Loving Them Without Losing You: Setting Boundaries For Christian Women Ep58 | The Ultimate Relationship Hack: Minding Your Business The ONE Within 30-Day Reset is a one-of-a-kind journaling experience designed to improve your most intimate connections by focusing on YOU. In just 5-10 minutes per day, I’ll help you confront your unique relationship challenges and begin to make the necessary changes to start attracting the love you deserve. To learn more, go to DrTiffanieHenry.com/theonewithin  THERE ARE SO MANY WAYS FOR US TO CONNECT Follow on Instagram: @DrTiffanieTV Visit The Website: www.DrTiffanieHenry.com Join Me On Facebook: https://FYRCommunity.com Subscribe To Our Email List: https://becometheone.myflodesk.com/jointhelist  
Setting boundaries can be difficult. Especially if you tend to love extra-hard. Compound that with all you've learned about love as a 'Christian woman' and it may feel like you've gotten conflicting messages about love and relationships for your entire adult life. If you’ve ever thought, “If I really loved them, I’d stay no matter what,” while also thinking, "I can't keep doing this," this episode is for you. This week, I'm breaking down the difference between unconditional love and unconditional access, and helping you learn how to be patient & kind (like 1 Corinthians 13 says) while not abandoning yourself or your boundaries in the process. This is a must-listen if you’ve been loving hard, over-giving, and feeling guilty any time you even think about saying no. RESOURCES MENTIONED THIS EPISODE: MORE LOVE, LESS HUSTLE: Join Dr. Tiff for this upcoming LIVE event designed for women who are tired of over-performing in their romantic relationships. As part of the Working Lunch Series, MORE LOVE, LESS HUSTLE will help you unpack the patterns that keep you hustling for love, explore why you default to fixing, proving, & over-performing, and guide you through the simple inner-work needed to call in the love you deserve. To register and view upcoming dates, tap here, or visit https://becometheone.myflodesk.com/morelovelesshustle The ONE Within 30-Day Reset is a one-of-a-kind journaling experience designed to improve your most intimate connections by focusing on YOU. In just 5-10 minutes per day, I’ll help you confront your unique relationship challenges and begin to make the necessary changes to start attracting the love you deserve. To learn more, go to DrTiffanieHenry.com/theonewithin  THERE ARE SO MANY WAYS FOR US TO CONNECT Follow on Instagram: @DrTiffanieTV Visit The Website: www.DrTiffanieHenry.com Join Me On Facebook: https://FYRCommunity.com Subscribe To Our Email List: https://becometheone.myflodesk.com/jointhelist
We’ve all heard about the Five Love Languages—Words of Affirmation, Quality Time, Gifts, Acts of Service, and Physical Touch. But what if there’s a missing piece that your heart has been begging for? In this episode, Dr. Tiff explores the idea of adding a sixth love language — Emotional Safety — arguing that true love requires a sense of calm, trust, and the freedom to be vulnerable. Using vivid metaphors and personal stories, she explains how Emotional Safety helps soothe the nervous system and why it’s essential for healthy relationships. If you’ve ever had great “chemistry” but constant anxiety, this one’s for you. RESOURCES MENTIONED THIS EPISODE: New York Times Article: The Five Unofficial Love Languages Ep75 | Chemistry or Chaos: 3 Simple Questions To Know For Sure MORE LOVE, LESS HUSTLE: Join Dr. Tiff for this upcoming LIVE event designed for women who are tired of over-performing in their romantic relationships. As part of the Working Lunch Series, MORE LOVE, LESS HUSTLE will help you unpack the patterns that keep you hustling for love, explore why you default to fixing, proving, & over-performing, and guide you through the simple inner-work needed to call in the love you deserve. To register and view upcoming dates, tap here, or visit https://becometheone.myflodesk.com/morelovelesshustle The ONE Within 30-Day Reset is a one-of-a-kind journaling experience designed to improve your most intimate connections by focusing on YOU. In just 5-10 minutes per day, I’ll help you confront your unique relationship challenges and begin to make the necessary changes to start attracting the love you deserve. To learn more, go to DrTiffanieHenry.com/theonewithin  THERE ARE SO MANY WAYS FOR US TO CONNECT Follow on Instagram: @DrTiffanieTV Visit The Website: www.DrTiffanieHenry.com Join Me On Facebook: https://FYRCommunity.com Subscribe To Our Email List: https://becometheone.myflodesk.com/jointhelist
Does your “chemistry” usually come with anxiety, overthinking, and emotional whiplash? This week, Dr.Tiff breaks down the difference between real chemistry and chaotic familiarity—and why highly driven women are sometimes drawn to what hurts. Turn the volume up and learn the 3 simple questions to ask yourself in order to know for certain. RESOURCES MENTIONED THIS EPISODE: MORE LOVE, LESS HUSTLE: Join Dr. Tiff for this upcoming LIVE event designed for women who are tired of over-performing in their romantic relationships. As part of the Working Lunch Series, MORE LOVE, LESS HUSTLE will help you unpack the patterns that keep you hustling for love, explore why you default to fixing, proving, & over-performing, and guide you through the simple inner-work needed to call in the love you deserve. To register and view upcoming dates, tap here, or visit https://becometheone.myflodesk.com/morelovelesshustle The ONE Within 30-Day Reset is a one-of-a-kind journaling experience designed to improve your most intimate connections by focusing on YOU. In just 5-10 minutes per day, I’ll help you confront your unique relationship challenges and begin to make the necessary changes to start attracting the love you deserve. To learn more, go to DrTiffanieHenry.com/theonewithin  THERE ARE SO MANY WAYS FOR US TO CONNECT Follow on Instagram: @DrTiffanieTV Visit The Website: www.DrTiffanieHenry.com Join Me On Facebook: https://FYRCommunity.com Subscribe To Our Email List: https://becometheone.myflodesk.com/jointhelist
Ever wonder how smart, ambitious women end up in some of the messiest relationships? In this fun, light, and a little-bit-messy episode, Dr. Tiff chats with actress/writer/director Tiffany Yvonne Cox about her new vertical series “Unexpected Company”—and the very real patterns it reflects in our love lives. Listen via podcast of WATCH the full episode on YouTube. MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: UNEXPECTED COMPANY - A brand new vertical series written, directed by, and starring Tiffany Yvonne Cox  can be seen on Instagram, Youtube & TikTok. MORE LOVE, LESS HUSTLE: Join Dr. Tiff for this upcoming LIVE event designed for women who are tired of over-performing in their romantic relationships. As part of the Working Lunch Series, MORE LOVE, LESS HUSTLE will help you unpack the patterns that keep you hustling for love, explore why you default to fixing, proving, & over-performing, and guide you through the simple inner-work needed to call in the love you deserve. To register and view upcoming dates, tap here, or visit https://becometheone.myflodesk.com/morelovelesshustle The ONE Within 30-Day Reset is a one-of-a-kind journaling experience designed to improve your most intimate connections by focusing on YOU. In just 5-10 minutes per day, I’ll help you confront your unique relationship challenges and begin to make the necessary changes to start attracting the love you deserve. To learn more, go to DrTiffanieHenry.com/theonewithin  THERE ARE SO MANY WAYS FOR US TO CONNECT Follow on Instagram: @DrTiffanieTV Visit The Website: www.DrTiffanieHenry.com Join Me On Facebook: https://FYRCommunity.com Subscribe To Our Email List: https://becometheone.myflodesk.com/jointhelist  
Do you call yourself “low-maintenance,” “chill,” or “easygoing” in relationships—but secretly feel unseen and under-nurtured? In this episode, Dr. Tiff unpacks how the “cool girl” identity is often a survival strategy, not a personality trait, and how it keeps you hustling for love by needing less instead of doing more. You’ll walk away with a deeper understanding of why you’ve been proud of needing less—and how that pride may be quietly costing you the love you deserve. RESOURCES MENTIONED THIS EPISODE: MORE LOVE, LESS HUSTLE: Join Dr. Tiff for this upcoming LIVE event designed for women who are tired of over-performing in their romantic relationships. As part of the Working Lunch Series, MORE LOVE, LESS HUSTLE will help you unpack the patterns that keep you hustling for love, explore why you default to fixing, proving, & over-performing, and guide you through the simple inner-work needed to call in the love you deserve. To register and view upcoming dates, tap here, or visit https://becometheone.myflodesk.com/morelovelesshustle The ONE Within 30-Day Reset is a one-of-a-kind journaling experience designed to improve your most intimate connections by focusing on YOU. In just 5-10 minutes per day, I’ll help you confront your unique relationship challenges and begin to make the necessary changes to start attracting the love you deserve. To learn more, go to DrTiffanieHenry.com/theonewithin  THERE ARE SO MANY WAYS FOR US TO CONNECT Follow on Instagram: @DrTiffanieTV Visit The Website: www.DrTiffanieHenry.com Join Me On Facebook: https://FYRCommunity.com Subscribe To Our Email List: https://becometheone.myflodesk.com/jointhelist  
A lot of women hear “More Love, Less Hustle” and think, “That’s for people struggling in their romantic relationships. I’m good there.” But what about the places where you’re not good? The parent who never calls unless they need something The sibling or cousin who always needs money The friend who disappears until they want a favor The coworkers or church folks who treat you like the unpaid project manager of everyone’s life In this episode of Fix Your Relationships, Dr.Tiff shares a powerful snippet from  More Love, Less Hustle that had the zoom room saying, “Whew." You’ll hear her coach a woman who realized: “I’m not hustling for love in my relationship. The hustle is with my family.” If you’re the one your family, friends, and coworkers always lean on, even when it hurts you, you'll want to turn up the volume and take notes. This episode will show you why More Love, Less Hustle is about way more than romance. RESOURCES MENTIONED THIS EPISODE: MORE LOVE, LESS HUSTLE: Join Dr. Tiff for this upcoming LIVE event designed for women who are tired of over-performing in their romantic relationships. As part of the Working Lunch Series, MORE LOVE, LESS HUSTLE will help you unpack the patterns that keep you hustling for love, explore why you default to fixing, proving, & over-performing, and guide you through the simple inner-work needed to call in the love you deserve. To register and view upcoming dates, tap here, or visit https://becometheone.myflodesk.com/morelovelesshustle The ONE Within 30-Day Reset is a one-of-a-kind journaling experience designed to improve your most intimate connections by focusing on YOU. In just 5-10 minutes per day, I’ll help you confront your unique relationship challenges and begin to make the necessary changes to start attracting the love you deserve. To learn more, go to DrTiffanieHenry.com/theonewithin  THERE ARE SO MANY WAYS FOR US TO CONNECT Follow on Instagram: @DrTiffanieTV Visit The Website: www.DrTiffanieHenry.com Join Me On Facebook: https://FYRCommunity.com Subscribe To Our Email List: https://becometheone.myflodesk.com/jointhelist
In Part 2, I'm diving even deeper into how we can stop arguing with red flags. In this episode, I'm breaking down three of the most common red flags high-achieving women explain away—and giving you five powerful questions to ask yourself before you excuse another red flag away. Grab a pen and some paper, because this is episode is where you start interrupting the pattern for real. Did you miss Part 1? Check out Stop Arguing With Red Flags: Why Smart Women Can't Just Walk Away RESOURCES MENTIONED THIS EPISODE: MORE LOVE, LESS HUSTLE: Join Dr. Tiff for this upcoming LIVE event designed for women who are tired of over-performing in their romantic relationships. As part of the Working Lunch Series, MORE LOVE, LESS HUSTLE will help you unpack the patterns that keep you hustling for love, explore why you default to fixing, proving, & over-performing, and guide you through the simple inner-work needed to call in the love you deserve. To register and view upcoming dates, tap here, or visit https://becometheone.myflodesk.com/morelovelesshustle The ONE Within 30-Day Reset is a one-of-a-kind journaling experience designed to improve your most intimate connections by focusing on YOU. In just 5-10 minutes per day, I’ll help you confront your unique relationship challenges and begin to make the necessary changes to start attracting the love you deserve. To learn more, go to DrTiffanieHenry.com/theonewithin    THERE ARE SO MANY WAYS FOR US TO CONNECT Follow on Instagram: @DrTiffanieTV Visit The Website: www.DrTiffanieHenry.com Join Me On Facebook: https://FYRCommunity.com Subscribe To Our Email List: https://becometheone.myflodesk.com/jointhelist  
Ever look back and think, “I knew better," or, "why didn’t I leave sooner? The signs were right there.” In Part 1 of this two-part series, I'm breaking down what red flags actually are, what it means to “argue” with them, and why smart, successful women keep debating away the evidence right in front of them. Don't Miss Part 2: The Red Flags You Debate Away + 5 Questions To Stop The Cycle RESOURCES MENTIONED THIS EPISODE: MORE LOVE, LESS HUSTLE: Join Dr. Tiff for this upcoming LIVE event designed for women who are tired of over-performing in their romantic relationships. As part of the Working Lunch Series, MORE LOVE, LESS HUSTLE will help you unpack the patterns that keep you hustling for love, explore why you default to fixing, proving, & over-performing, and guide you through the simple inner-work needed to call in the love you deserve. To register and view upcoming dates, tap here, or visit https://becometheone.myflodesk.com/morelovelesshustle The ONE Within 30-Day Reset is a one-of-a-kind journaling experience designed to improve your most intimate connections by focusing on YOU. In just 5-10 minutes per day, I’ll help you confront your unique relationship challenges and begin to make the necessary changes to start attracting the love you deserve. To learn more, go to DrTiffanieHenry.com/theonewithin    THERE ARE SO MANY WAYS FOR US TO CONNECT Follow on Instagram: @DrTiffanieTV Visit The Website: www.DrTiffanieHenry.com Join Me On Facebook: https://FYRCommunity.com Subscribe To Our Email List: https://becometheone.myflodesk.com/jointhelist  
Ever wondered how you can be this smart, this successful, this fine—and still end up with partners who won’t commit, won’t get vulnerable, won’t let you all the way in— And an even bigger question, why do you seem to be drawn to them? This week on the podcast, Dr.Tiff unpacks the real, deeper reasons high-achieving women get hooked on emotionally unavailable partners and gives you three powerful questions to help you break the pattern and reset how you see love—and yourself. Spoiler Alert: it has nothing to do with your intelligence. In this episode, Dr. Tiff breaks down three core reasons you’re drawn to (or keep attracting) unavailable partners, shares real stories from her clinical work, and then walks you through three journal prompts to start untangling the pattern today. If you are done feeling “too smart for this” and still stuck, this one's a must-listen. RESOURCES MENTIONED THIS EPISODE: MORE LOVE, LESS HUSTLE: Join Dr. Tiff for this upcoming LIVE event designed for women who are tired of over-performing in their romantic relationships. As part of the Working Lunch Series, MORE LOVE, LESS HUSTLE will help you unpack the patterns that keep you hustling for love, explore why you default to fixing, proving, & over-performing, and guide you through the simple inner-work needed to call in the love you deserve. To register and view upcoming dates, tap here, or visit https://becometheone.myflodesk.com/morelovelesshustle The ONE Within 30-Day Reset is a one-of-a-kind journaling experience designed to improve your most intimate connections by focusing on YOU. In just 5-10 minutes per day, I’ll help you confront your unique relationship challenges and begin to make the necessary changes to start attracting the love you deserve. To learn more, go to DrTiffanieHenry.com/theonewithin    THERE ARE SO MANY WAYS FOR US TO CONNECT Follow on Instagram: @DrTiffanieTV Visit The Website: www.DrTiffanieHenry.com Join Me On Facebook: https://FYRCommunity.com Subscribe To Our Email List: https://becometheone.myflodesk.com/jointhelist  
Are you a high-achieving, hyper-independent woman who is exhausted from working harder for love than you do at your job? If you can crush a presentation, manage multiple teams, and hit every deadline—but your romantic life feels like a never-ending performance review—you're gonna want to lean in for this one. In this episode, Dr.Tiff breaks down the 8 crystal-clear signs you’re outsourcing love to performance—overgiving, over-functioning, and over-managing in relationships—and how to start calling in more love with less hustle. This episode is perfect for you if… You’re a high-achieving, hyper-independent woman who is killing it professionally but feels drained romantically You feel like you’re always the one managing the relationship—planning, fixing, apologizing first You’ve stayed in relationships because of what you’ve invested, not because they truly work You call yourself “low maintenance” but secretly crave more affection, attention, and consistency You’re tired of being emotionally exhausted from love and you’re ready for something softer, safer, and more reciprocal in 2026 RESOURCES MENTIONED THIS EPISODE: MORE LOVE, LESS HUSTLE: Join Dr. Tiff for this upcoming LIVE event designed for women who are tired of over-performing in their romantic relationships. As part of the Working Lunch Series, MORE LOVE, LESS HUSTLE will help you unpack the patterns that keep you hustling for love, explore why you default to fixing, proving, & over-performing, and guide you through the simple inner-work needed to call in the love you deserve. To register and view upcoming dates, tap here, or visit https://becometheone.myflodesk.com/morelovelesshustle The ONE Within 30-Day Reset is a one-of-a-kind journaling experience designed to improve your most intimate connections by focusing on YOU. In just 5-10 minutes per day, I’ll help you confront your unique relationship challenges and begin to make the necessary changes to start attracting the love you deserve. To learn more, go to DrTiffanieHenry.com/theonewithin    THERE ARE SO MANY WAYS FOR US TO CONNECT Follow on Instagram: @DrTiffanieTV Visit The Website: www.DrTiffanieHenry.com Join Me On Facebook: https://FYRCommunity.com Subscribe To Our Email List: https://becometheone.myflodesk.com/jointhelist  
Want to add some whimsy to your goals for 2026 but feeling unmotivated and uninspired? Then this episode is for you. In this episode, I'm pulling back the curtain and letting you in on some of the fun things I have planned for 2026. I'm convinced that having something to look forward to, big or small, can do wonders for your overall outlook, motivation and attitude. This, coupled with your ongoing inner work, is a foundational element of attracting the love you deserve. By episode's end, you can literally steal my exact habit stack for 2026 and join me in having the BEST YEAR EVER!!  RESOURCES MENTIONED THIS EPISODE: MORE LOVE, LESS HUSTLE: Join Dr. Tiff for this upcoming LIVE event designed for women who are tired of over-performing in their romantic relationships. As part of the Working Lunch Series, MORE LOVE, LESS HUSTLE will help you unpack the patterns that keep you hustling for love, explore why you default to fixing, proving, & over-performing, and guide you through the simple inner-work needed to call in the love you deserve. To register and view upcoming dates, tap here, or visit https://becometheone.myflodesk.com/morelovelesshustle The ONE Within 30-Day Reset is a one-of-a-kind journaling experience designed to improve your most intimate connections by focusing on YOU. In just 5-10 minutes per day, I’ll help you confront your unique relationship challenges and begin to make the necessary changes to start attracting the love you deserve. To learn more, go to DrTiffanieHenry.com/theonewithin  Ep.66 Ditch The Vision Board & Obliterate Your 2026 Goals In 6 Simple Steps THERE ARE SO MANY WAYS FOR US TO CONNECT Follow on Instagram: @DrTiffanieTV Visit The Website: www.DrTiffanieHenry.com Join Me On Facebook: https://FYRCommunity.com Subscribe To Our Email List: https://becometheone.myflodesk.com/jointhelist
Vision boards are cool for some but for others (like me), they're just not enough. I need structure. I need a plan. I need an actual strategy to ensure that I'll actually follow through and CRUSH the goals I set for myself. And let's be honest . . . 2026 is the year for getting our 💩 together and the way to do that, is to ditch the vision boards. In this week's episode, I'm sharing 6 simple steps to obliterate your goals for 2026 and make sure that they actually happen within the next 12 months. If you're like me, and the vision board just ain't hitting on what it used to, I invite you to try this method. Resources Mentioned In This Episode The ONE Within 30-Day Reset is a one-of-a-kind journaling experience designed to improve your most intimate connections by focusing on YOU. In just 5-10 minutes per day, I’ll help you confront your unique relationship challenges and begin to make the necessary changes to start attracting the love you deserve. To learn more, go to DrTiffanieHenry.com/theonewithin THERE ARE SO MANY WAYS FOR US TO CONNECT Follow on Instagram: @DrTiffanieTV Visit The Website: www.DrTiffanieHenry.com Join Me On Facebook: https://FYRCommunity.com Subscribe To Our Email List: https://becometheone.myflodesk.com/jointhelist  
Ever feel like you’re always the one holding it all together—at work, at home, in your friendships, and in your relationship? You’re the dependable one. The responsible one. The “I’ve got it” one. But somewhere underneath all that strength… you’re tired. Perhaps, resentful. Burnt out. And maybe even a little lonely. This week on Fix Your Relationships, we’re unpacking the cost of being "the strong one"—especially for high-achieving women—and how that strength can quietly get in the way of the deep love and support you actually want and need. As we step into 2026, let this episode be your roadmap for softening, receiving, and finally calling in the love you deserve. Resources Mentioned In This Episode The ONE Within 30-Day Reset is a one-of-a-kind journaling experience designed to improve your most intimate connections by focusing on YOU. In just 5-10 minutes per day, I’ll help you confront your unique relationship challenges and begin to make the necessary changes to start attracting the love you deserve. To learn more, go to DrTiffanieHenry.com/theonewithin THERE ARE SO MANY WAYS FOR US TO CONNECT Follow on Instagram: @DrTiffanieTV Visit The Website: www.DrTiffanieHenry.com Join Me On Facebook: https://FYRCommunity.com Subscribe To Our Email List: https://becometheone.myflodesk.com/jointhelist
Do you ever catch yourself replaying an argument or betrayal in your mind, waiting for the day they finally say, “I’m sorry”? Are you hoping that once they own what they did, you’ll finally feel seen, validated, and free? If you’ve ever felt like your peace is on pause until someone else apologizes, you’re not alone. On this week's episode of Fix Your Relationships, we’re talking about what it really means to find peace when the apology you deserve never comes. Dr. Tiff unpacks why so many women feel stuck in emotional limbo—waiting for accountability that may never arrive—and how that waiting quietly drains your joy, self-worth, and ability to move forward. She also explores why some people truly have blind spots when it comes to their behavior, and why their lack of awareness doesn’t make your experience any less real. If you’re ready to stop holding your healing hostage to someone else’s “I’m sorry” and start creating your own closure, you won’t want to miss this powerful episode! Resources Mentioned In This Episode The ONE Within 30-Day Reset is a one-of-a-kind journaling experience designed to improve your most intimate connections by focusing on YOU. In just 5-10 minutes per day, I’ll help you confront your unique relationship challenges and begin to make the necessary changes to start attracting the love you deserve. To learn more, go to DrTiffanieHenry.com/theonewithin THERE ARE SO MANY WAYS FOR US TO CONNECT Follow on Instagram: @DrTiffanieTV Visit The Website: www.DrTiffanieHenry.com Join Me On Facebook: https://FYRCommunity.com Subscribe To Our Email List: https://becometheone.myflodesk.com/jointhelist
Do you ever feel like saying no is just…impossible? Like your heart wants to help, to nurture, to be there for everyone—so much so that your own needs quietly slip to the bottom of the list? If “yes” is your default, you’re not alone! This week on Fix Your Relationships with Dr. Tiff, we dive into the challenges women face when it comes to saying no and breaking free from people-pleasing habits. Dr. Tiff unpacks why so many of us feel compelled to put others first and offers a practical 2026 blueprint for setting boundaries, prioritizing self-care, and building healthier, more fulfilling relationships. If you’re ready to stop overcommitting and start saying yes to yourself, don’t miss this empowering episode! Resources Mentioned In This Episode Ep049 | Can't Get It All Done? Do This & CRUSH Your To-Do List The ONE Within 30-Day Reset is a one-of-a-kind journaling experience designed to improve your most intimate connections by focusing on YOU. In just 5-10 minutes per day, I’ll help you confront your unique relationship challenges and begin to make the necessary changes to start attracting the love you deserve. To learn more, go to DrTiffanieHenry.com/theonewithin   THERE ARE SO MANY WAYS FOR US TO CONNECT Follow on Instagram: @DrTiffanieTV Visit The Website: www.DrTiffanieHenry.com Join Me On Facebook: https://FYRCommunity.com Subscribe To Our Email List: https://becometheone.myflodesk.com/jointhelist
Are you ready to break the cycle of anger and build deeper, more fulfilling connections? In this episode of Fix Your Relationships, I'm unpacking the hidden roots anger in relationships and sharing practical strategies to help ambitious women like you transform your frustration into growth and love. Lean all the way in, babes. Your next-level relationship is waiting!! Resources Mentioned In This Episode Ep034 | The Real Reason You Can't Let Go EP056 | EASIEST Way To Find Love in 2026 (The ONE Within 30-Day Reset) The ONE Within 30-Day Reset is a one-of-a-kind journaling experience designed to improve your most intimate connections by focusing on YOU. In just 5-10 minutes per day, I’ll help you confront your unique relationship challenges and begin to make the necessary changes to start attracting the love you deserve. To learn more, go to DrTiffanieHenry.com/theonewithin   THERE ARE SO MANY WAYS FOR US TO CONNECT Follow on Instagram: @DrTiffanieTV Visit The Website: www.DrTiffanieHenry.com Join Me On Facebook: https://FYRCommunity.com Subscribe To Our Email List: https://becometheone.myflodesk.com/jointhelist    
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