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49: This week, we’re fully buried in the TLC landfill, diving headfirst into the wildest moments from 90 Day Fiancé and My Strange Addiction. From bug-eating and makeup-munching to explicit skincare routines, controlling partners, and culture clashes that spiral fast, it’s equal parts hilarious, disturbing, and impossible to look away. We break down messy storylines including being called “too fat,” learning to eat soup with your hands in Nigeria, jealous rappers, financial secrets, and relationships built on vibes instead of honesty. Along the way, I share updates on living Luke Dry, setting New Year’s revolutions, and why classic TV like Mama’s Family and Good Times is the comfort watch we all need right now. Topics Discussed: → 90 Day Fiancé cultural clashes and control issues → My Strange Addiction habits that cross the line → TLC’s most unhinged reality moments → Dating, money, and power dynamics on reality TV → Why the TLC landfill is impossible to escape On This Episode We Cover: → 00:00:00 - TLC obsession and falling into the landfill → 00:01:13 - Jeff Lewis Live and Still Flipping Out filming → 00:05:51 - New Year’s revolutions → 00:07:21 - Classic TV comfort watching → 00:10:45 - My Strange Addiction: skincare gone wrong → 00:16:59 - 90 Day Fiancé: Daniel and LWW → 00:24:55 - 90 Day Fiancé: Trish and Rick → 00:30:02 - 90 Day Fiancé: Forrest and Sheena → 00:32:46 - What’s coming next → 00:34:10 - Tookes Takeaway: sobriety and alcohol Show links: → This 90 Day Fiancé Episode Took Me Out Check Out LaKendra: → LaKendra's Instagram  → Tookes Takes Instagram → X → LaKendra’s TikTok → YouTube Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

48: I sat down ready to watch 90 Day Fiancé as a little palate cleanser and somehow ended up deep in the TLC landfill - raw meat at the nail salon, and a whole lot of men who absolutely refuse to get a job.  I watched 90 Day Fiancé couples who are lying, projecting, gaslighting, and embarrassing themselves across multiple continents, from unemployed big backs to emotional affairs that are somehow always the woman’s fault. We also take a quick detour through the Housewives drama: jealousy, happy marriages, and why being hateful never works out in the end. Topics Discussed: → 90 Day Fiancé season recap and couples drama → My Strange Addiction season 7 reactions → Reality TV relationship red flags and gaslighting → Housewives of Potomac jealousy and marriage issues On This Episode We Cover:  → 00:00:00 - My Strange Addiction  → 00:04:54 - Addicted to smelling her dad’s… → 00:05:28 - Dry January & 90 Day Fiance  → 00:12:16 - I’m rooting for Emma!  → 00:19:28 - He wants to ***** her?  → 00:25:01 - Lesbian with a wig  → 00:28:28 - Beer can & Laura  → 00:29:31 - Real Housewives Crossover! → 00:31:08 - Tookes Takeaway: DONT BE JEALOUS → 00:35:51 - Old faithful & the rubber sheet  Show links: → Reality TV Breakdown: 90 Day Fiancé, RHOBH & Chumpmas Live Check Out LaKendra: → LaKendra's Instagram  → Tookes Takes Instagram → X → LaKendra’s TikTok → YouTube Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

47: Happy New Year, Kensday crew! Last year was all about survival, but this year? We’re leveling up. I’m sharing all the highs, the holiday chaos, and the solo Christmas vibes, plus my adventures in West Hollywood, some new fun fashion accessories, and why the gay community is truly taking care of us straight girls right now. Of course, we’re still watching reality shows: from 90 Day Fiancé to Real Housewives of Salt Lake City… Topics Discussed: → How did I spend Christmas and New Year solo? → What happened during my West Hollywood night out? → How is Forrest’s mom causing chaos for Sheena on 90 Day Fiancé? → What’s happening with Meredith and Bronwyn on Real Housewives of Salt Lake City? On This Episode We Cover:  → 00:00:00 - Introduction  → 00:01:11 - Christmas Vegas Trip  → 00:06:02 - The Pink Pony Club & Dating Life → 00:13:26 - Law & Order & The Diddy Doc  → 00:14:36 - RHOSLC: Mary Cosby Doc  → 00:16:25 - RHOSLC: Greece Trip & Addiction  → 00:18:24 - 90 Day Fiancé: Forrest’s Mom  → 00:23:01 - 90 Day Fiancé: Lesbian With A Wig & this week’s hair cam  → 00:25:55 - 90 Day Fiancé: Nip Tuck & Beer Can → 00:30:35 - 90 Day Fiancé: Emotionally Cheating  → 00:32:48 - Tookes Takeaway: Enjoy Your Single Life!  Further Listening:  → Reality TV Breakdown: 90 Day Fiancé, RHOBH & Chumpmas Live Check Out LaKendra: → LaKendra's Instagram  → Tookes Takes Instagram → X → LaKendra’s TikTok → YouTube Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

46: In this episode, I break down all the latest reality TV moments, from 90 Day Fiancé’s unexpected twists to the newest Real Housewives of Salt Lake City, Potomac & Beverly Hills. I also share my experience at my first Chumpmas live show, the behind-the-scenes chaos, and what it’s like working with the chumps. Topics Discussed: → Chumpmas and Jeff Lewis Live: show highlights and behind the scenes → New RHOBH cast members and first impressions→ Bose Boma St. John’s reputation vs. public persona→ Friendship dynamics: Gar, Sutton, and loyalty issues→ Dorit’s divorce, child support, and parenting struggles On This Episode We Cover:  → 00:00:00 - Introduction  → 00:01:01 - 90 Day Fiance  → 00:09:18 - Cultural differences  → 00:13:55 - Older men & children  → 00:15:41 - Young broken guys  → 00:19:10 - RHOBH Roundup: Who’s Really a Girl’s Girl? → 00:29:49 - RHOSLC: Greek Week  → 00:35:41 - Chumpmas night two drama  → 00:45:53 - Tookes Takeaway: Hold On To Your Family Check Out LaKendra: → LaKendra's Instagram  → Tookes Takes Instagram → X → LaKendra’s TikTok → YouTube Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

45: Holiday season is here, and I’m sharing all the chaos, drama, and joy I’ve been living through. From reality TV feuds on Real Housewives of Potomac and Salt Lake to my own “whatever era” in dating, I’m talking Stacey, Brittany, Bronwyn, and all the holiday showdowns. I’m also reflecting on family, gratitude, and my love for yoga, bread, butter, and yes, even KitKats. Eat, drink, and be merry with me! Topics Discussed: → Real Housewives feuds: Stacey, Brittany & Bronwyn → Dating and personal growth in a “whatever era” → Family gratitude and strong family foundations → Holiday indulgences: bread, butter, and Kit Kats → Yoga journey and preparing for 2026 revolutions On This Episode We Cover:  → 00:00:00 - Introduction  → 00:03:10 - Chumpmas & life updates  → 00:04:55 - Who Cares about dating? → 00:10:39 - RHOSLC: Brittany & forgiveness → 00:16:02 - RHOSLC: Bronwyn’s self esteem  → 00:20:35 - RHOP: Stacey Roache  → 00:26:57 - RHOP: Stacey vs Keiarna  → 00:29:03 - Tookes Takeaway: Eat, Drink, Be Merry! Check Out LaKendra: → LaKendra's Instagram  → Tookes Takes Instagram → X → LaKendra’s TikTok → YouTube Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

44: Ever wonder what it’s like to get a 50-cent SAG check, survive a Friends callback, or spend time kibbitzing with a reality TV star over roasted potatoes? Doug Budin shares what it was like almost getting cut from one of my all-time favorite shows, the behind-the-scenes chaos of meeting Jeff Lewis, and the surprising truths about Housewives drama that go way beyond what we see on TV. Topics Discussed: → SAG checks→ Behind-the-scenes of Friends→ Meeting Jeff Lewis and reality TV experiences→ Real Housewives drama and family dynamics→ Family stories that shaped Doug Budin On This Episode We Cover:  → 00:00:00 - Introduction  → 00:01:19 - Doug’s Mom & Cooking → 00:05:13 - Cooking & Baking  → 00:05:53 - Doug’s Dad & Law School  → 00:09:37 - Wanting to perform  → 00:13:09 - Sleep away camp & Swimming → 00:17:29 - 80’s Preppy  → 00:23:08 - High School Experience  → 00:28:55 - Club kids  → 00:29:43 - College & pursuing acting  → 00:33:10 - Live theatre & residuals → 00:38:01 - Meeting Jeff Lewis  → 00:41:30 - RHOC: Gretchen’s scandal   → 00:44:18 - Dream guests & Favorite Real Housives   → 00:50:07 - RHOP: Do We Like Stacy? → 00:56:28 - Tookes Takeaway: It's Never Too Late  Check Out Doug: → Instagram Check Out LaKendra: → LaKendra's Instagram  → Tookes Takes Instagram → X → LaKendra’s TikTok → YouTube Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

43: I had the best time sitting down with Jamie Rice, the creator of Murderish and Dirty Money Moves, and this conversation goes everywhere in the best way. We talk about her wild pivot from banking to true crime podcasting, how she became a mom at nineteen, what it is like being a grandma, and the Bravo obsession we immediately bonded over.  We get into Housewives drama, messy cast trips, style crimes, image architects, why labels are not fashion, and which cities deserve a full recast. Jamie shares her MILF self care ritual, the products and habits she swears by. Topics Discussed: → Bravo Housewives cast dynamics → True crime podcasting → Skincare routines, self-care, and MILF hacks → Polygraphs and reality show manipulation On This Episode We Cover:  → 00:00:00 - Introduction  → 00:00:28 - Jami’s Heist Story → 00:04:27 - Podcaster Advice → 00:07:11 - MILF Diaries & Housewives Quotes → 00:12:43 - Santa Clarita Housewives Drama → 00:15:51 - Meeting Her Husband → 00:20:23 - Bravocon Picks → 00:24:21 - Housewife Criminal Moments → 00:31:55 - Housewives Rushmore → 00:36:58 - Heather, Captain Jason & Water Fight → 00:38:48 - Tamra Judge: Medicated? → 00:40:29 - Phony Lie Detector Drama → 00:45:49 - RHOC Cast Picks → 00:50:34 - Heather Dubrow in Amsterdam → 00:52:55 - Gravity Bongs & 90s Weed → 00:55:06 - RHOBH Qualifications → 00:57:04 - MILF Self-Care Tips Check Out Jami:  → Instagram → Murderish → Dirty Money Moves → YouTube Check Out LaKendra: → LaKendra's Instagram  → Tookes Takes Instagram → X → LaKendra’s TikTok → YouTube Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

42: I just got back from an OC watch party and y’all, I have thoughts. On this episode, I’m sharing what it was like meeting the ladies in person, plus a few surprises from the event. We’ll also cover some of the latest Bravo drama, from OC to Salt Lake City and Potomac, and I’m sharing a little behind-the-scenes perspective you won’t hear anywhere else.  Topics Discussed: → OC watch party experience with Tamra Judge and Katie Janella → Behind-the-scenes moments from the event → Real Housewives of OC, Salt Lake City, and Potomac → Confidence, networking, and impostor syndrome in the Bravo world On This Episode We Cover:  → 00:00:00 - Introduction  → 00:01:33 - Tookes Takeaway: Go To Bed!  → 00:02:23 - RHOC: It’s Getting To Dark  → 00:07:48 - Networking  → 00:11:35 - Meeting Tamra & My OC Wishes  → 00:15:24 - Jeff Lewis  → 00:19:48 - Emily’s Son → 00:23:22 - RHOSLC: Bronwyn’s Husband  → 00:25:09 - RHOP: Cheating & Bullying New Moms  → 00:29:42 - Imposter Syndrome  Show links: → So Bad It’s Good: Bravo Tea, Housewives Chaos & Bravocon Moments | Ryan Bailey  Check Out LaKendra: → LaKendra's Instagram  → Tookes Takes Instagram → X → LaKendra’s TikTok → YouTube Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

41: I sit down with the one and only Ryan Bailey from So Bad It’s Good with Ryan Bailey for a laugh-out-loud, chaotic, and heartfelt conversation about all things Bravo, pop culture, and real life. We kick things off with Ryan’s engagement, swap hilarious behind-the-scenes stories from Jeff Lewis Live, and dive into the latest Real Housewives of Potomac drama…Dr. Wendy’s situation, Happy Eddie’s new weed brand, and whether Angel and Tia can survive the show’s intense hazing process. Topics Discussed: → The latest Real Housewives of Potomac drama & updates → Salt Lake City Housewives gossip & storylines → Behind-the-scenes stories from Jeff Lewis Live → Bravocon highlights & celebrity encounters → Reality TV parenting & cast controversies Timestamps:  → 00:00:00 - Welcome & Intro → 00:01:15 - Ryan’s Fiancée Reveal → 00:04:32 - Which Housewife Is Babysitting? → 00:08:49 - Bedwetting & Batman Stories → 00:12:21 - Prince, George Michael & Music Memories → 00:17:55 - Ultimate Girls Trip: Morocco → 00:22:27 - Reality TV History: Real World & Love Island → 00:26:02 - Girl Dads & Sports Chat → 00:29:17 - Stories About Ryan’s Mom → 00:31:05 - Meeting Jeff & Career Pivots → 00:33:57 - Advice for Young Actors → 00:37:03 - Scotch Tape & Childhood Bedwetting → 00:39:42 - RHOC: Who’s the Most Evil? → 00:42:48 - Life After Reality TV → 00:43:47 - Dr. Wendy & Court Documents → 00:45:37 - RHOP: New Girl Hazing → 00:46:24 - Surviving the Chumps → 00:47:35 - RHOSLC: Heather & Captain Jason Drama → 00:52:32 - Bravocon Highlights & Lowlights  → 00:54:55 - Which Chump Might Commit a Crime? Check Out Ryan: → Instagram  → So Bad It's Good Check Out LaKendra: → LaKendra's Instagram  → Tookes Takes Instagram → X → LaKendra’s TikTok→ YouTube Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

40: I just got back from Jamaica and yes, I’m still glowing. We're getting into the Real Housewives of Salt Lake City and Potomac. From Bronwyn’s cherry-gate and Mr. Todd’s attitude, to Lisa Barlow’s cowboy-chic and my Halloween costume chaos, there’s plenty to unpack. Then, I’ll tell you all about MY trip, the piña coladas, and the people. Plus, I’m giving my takes on friendship, marriage, motherhood, and why no one needs to be with a grumpy man.  Topics Discussed: → Bronwyn’s cherry-gate and Housewives drama → My Jamaica trip and hurricane aftermath → Real Housewives of Salt Lake City recap → Potomac reunion reactions and Mr. Todd talk → Friendship, marriage, and Halloween  On This Episode We Cover:  → 00:00:00 - Introduction  → 00:00:57 - RHOSLC: Bronwyn Needs Help!   → 00:05:15 - Grumpy Gout  → 00:06:37 - Lisa Barlow & Halloween Season → 00:09:38 - Angie K & Mary C Frenemies? → 00:18:45 - RHOP: Preakness Girls Trip → 00:21:18 - Chinchecking & Hazing → 00:27:27 - Caribbean Trip → 00:35:35 - Tookes Takeaway: Travel! Check Out LaKendra: → LaKendra's Instagram  → Tookes Takes Instagram → X → LaKendra’s TikTok → YouTube Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

39: On this episode, I’m flipping the channel from Bravo to Netflix to talk all things Love Is Blind. Y’all, after watching this season, I’m even more convinced that BYOB (be your own boyfriend) is the way to go. From messy engagements and runaway grooms to questionable drinking habits and “Megan Fox” moments, I’ve got thoughts on every single couple. I’m breaking down who’s real, who’s fake, and who needs to give that ring back, honey. Of course, we’ll still make a pit stop in Salt Lake City to check in on the Real Housewives…  Topics Discussed: → Love Is Blind Couples  → The Real Meaning Of Byob  → When To Say I Love You → Cultural Compatibility In Relationships → Crying On Reality TV On This Episode We Cover:  → 00:00:00 - Introduction  → 00:00:51 - Love Is Blind  → 00:06:41 - Watching At 2x Speed  → 00:07:46 - Ali & Anton  → 00:10:02 - Madison & Joe  → 00:17:09 - Kalybriah & Edmond  → 00:18:55 - Annie & Nick  → 00:21:47 - Patrick & Kasie  → 00:26:16 - Megan & Jordan  → 00:28:12 - RHOSLC: Britani Bateman  → 00:32:35 - Tarot Readings  → 00:40:43 - Tookes Takeaway: Who Cares What People Think Check Out LaKendra: → LaKendra's Instagram  → Tookes Takes Instagram → X → LaKendra’s TikTok → YouTube Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

38: This week, I’m covering the shocking allegations against Real Housewives of Potomac stars Wendy and Eddie Osefo. Like a lot of you, I was stunned when the news broke. I’ve always seen them as Bravo’s picture of Black excellence, so I’m unpacking how something like this could happen and what it means for their image, their family, and the show. I’ll also get into this week’s episode of RHOP…from Stacey standing up to Gizelle and Ashley, to Angel and Tia bringing new energy to the cast. Plus, I’m talking about how we celebrate successful women on Bravo, why people love to call them “pretentious,” and how to play the Housewives game without losing yourself (or ending up in court). Topics Discussed: → Wendy + Eddie Osefo insurance fraud allegations explained → Stacey vs Gizelle and Ashley feud breakdown → Why Bravo fans label successful women “pretentious” → How Housewives stars lose money + fame to bad decisions On This Episode We Cover:  → 00:00:00 - Why watch housewives → 00:03:33 - Insurance fraud  → 00:06:52 - Wendy Osefo fraud scandal → 00:10:38 - "Pretentious" & microaggressions  → 00:17:04 - RHOP: Second Bloom Ball  → 00:19:53 - Stacey, TJ Jones, & the gardening business  → 00:25:58 - New housewives & The White House  → 00:32:08 - Miss Cookie  → 00:34:32 - RHOM Reunion Part 2  → 00:42:46 - Tookes Takeaway: Be Who You Are  Check Out LaKendra: → LaKendra's Instagram  → Tookes Takes Instagram → X → LaKendra’s TikTok → YouTube Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

37: This week I'm going in on Potomac. I'm celebrating Dr. Wendy and Eddie as true Black excellence, welcoming newbies Angel and Tia, and side-eyeing Giselle and Ashley for stirring the pot. Over in Salt Lake City, I break down Lisa Barlow’s “dismissed, dismissed, dismissed” receipts, Bronwyn’s messy mom, and Whitney’s business heartbreak. Then in Miami, I get into Alexia leaving Todd, Julia’s drama, and the shocking hookup bombshell with Adriana. On top of all that, I’m opening up about my own tough week, leaning on faith, and reminding myself the real meaning of BYOB.  Topics Discussed: → Real Housewives of Potomac season premiere drama → Lisa Barlow lawsuits on Real Housewives of Salt Lake City → Miami Housewives reunion hookup bombshell → Giselle Bryant and Ashley Darby stirring controversy → Dr. Wendy Osefo and Eddie showcase Black excellence On This Episode We Cover:  → 00:00:00 - Introduction  → 00:02:28 - Karen Huger’s DUI  → 00:06:08 - Fashion on RHOP → 00:08:28 - RHOP: Last season summary  → 00:13:04 - Who’s missing from RHOP  → 00:15:13 - The Black Hollywood Luncheon  → 00:19:02 - Keiarna & the new girls  → 00:26:40 - RHOSLC: Lawsuit Lisa → 00:30:30 - Bad weeks & having faith  → 00:34:09 - RHOM: Reunion highlights  → 00:37:51 - Adriana & Julia bombshell  → 00:39:42 - Tookes Takeaway: BYOB  Check Out LaKendra: → LaKendra's Instagram  → Tookes Takes Instagram → X → LaKendra’s TikTok → YouTube Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

36: This week I’m talking housewives, dating, and my weekend adventures. I share my solo date experience, Taco Bell indulgences, and setting boundaries with men. On Real Housewives of Salt Lake City, I break down Heather, Bronwyn, Mary, Whitney, and Lisa Barlow’s drama…plus the hilarious Barlow vs Bronwyn showdown. Over on Real Housewives of Miami, I weigh in on Adriana calling Kiki “ratchet” and why charity events always go sideways. Topics Discussed: → Real Housewives of Salt Lake City drama: Heather, Bronwyn, Mary, Whitney, Lisa Barlow → Real Housewives of Miami finale: Adriana, Marisol, and the charity event chaos → Thoughts on addiction, parenting, and Robert Jr.’s journey → Solo dating adventures and setting boundaries with men On This Episode We Cover:  → 00:00:00 - Introduction → 00:01:22 - RHOSLC: Gout & Sucking D → 00:07:36 - Housewife Motherhood & Family Struggles → 00:11:37 - Jeff Lewis Live & Miss Beverly D’Angelo → 00:15:37 - Ex-Mormon Drama & Whitney Rose Update → 00:19:31 - RV Fails & Lisa Barlow Lawsuits → 00:25:17 - Bronwyn & Heather Lunch Showdown → 00:27:18 - Mormon Mansion Party Highlights → 00:30:42 - RHOM: Ice Skating Funeral Moment → 00:35:35 - Jami Rice & Girls’ Night Out → 00:37:43 - Boring Dates & Solo Adventures → 00:43:06 - Tookes Takeaway: James Baldwin Quote Check Out LaKendra: → LaKendra's Instagram  → Tookes Takes Instagram → X → LaKendra’s TikTok → YouTube Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

35: This week on Tookes Takes I’m breaking down the Real Housewives of Miami…from Kiki’s shady birthday cake to Alexia and Marisol being my “barracudas.” I share thoughts on Lisa and Jody’s relationship, Adriana’s art career, and Julia & Martina’s new additions. Plus, I get real about family, acceptance, and a surprising exchange I had at a Bravo-adjacent mixer.  Topics Discussed: → Kiki’s cake & RHOM drama → Lisa & Jody’s relationship → Adriana’s art career & independence → Family, acceptance & LGBTQ+ lessons → My Bravo-adjacent mixer exchange On This Episode We Cover:  → 00:00:00 - Introduction → 00:00:45 - Message to the FCC → 00:05:42 - OnlyFans & Larsa’s house → 00:09:02 - Shady birthday cake → 00:13:32 - Larsa’s house & RHOA throwback → 00:16:28 - Julia & Martina’s adoption → 00:18:50 - The original aunties → 00:24:36 - Stephanie, Marisol & the plane → 00:28:33 - My Chump Mixer & Jimmy Kimmel → 00:34:07 - Tookes Takeaway: Harmful beliefs Check Out LaKendra: → LaKendra's Instagram  → Tookes Takes Instagram → X → LaKendra’s TikTok → YouTube Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

34: I’m back with Real Housewives of Miami and Salt Lake City recaps plus some wedding joy! From celebrating my friend Kelly’s big day and tearing up over the sweetest tribute, to cracking up at Adriana’s birthday math on RHOM, I’ve got plenty to share. I cover Alexia’s messy Spain trip, her complicated family dynamics, and why some of her choices had me side-eyeing. Then we head over to Salt Lake City, where I break down all the chaos of the RV adventure, the diva drama, and the friendships being tested. Topics Discussed: → Wedding chaos, addiction + hoarders → Adriana’s birthday math + Art Basel show (RHOM) → Alexia’s Spain trip + family drama (RHOM) → Salt Lake City RV trip antics + diva dynamics (RHOSLC) On This Episode We Cover:  → 00:00:00 - Introduction  → 00:02:22 - LOVE IS IN AIR  → 00:09:52 - Wedding dates?  → 00:12:02 - Addiction & hoarders  → 00:14:36 - RHOM: Marisol + Adriana’s Birthday → 00:21:02 - RHOSLC: RV life + SWAT raid  → 00:27:08 - RHOSLC: Engagements, Gym Dates, + Polygamy   → 00:29:53 - Tookes Takeaway: Racism & hatred has to end  Check Out LaKendra: → LaKendra's Instagram  → Tookes Takes Instagram → X → LaKendra’s TikTok → YouTube Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

33: This week I’m catching you up on everything from Housewives drama to real life lessons. I break down my guest spot on So Bad It’s Good with Ryan Bailey, share some behind-the-scenes SNL stories, and open up about chasing dreams and celebrating achievements. Then it’s Housewives time: we’re talking RHOM, Stephanie’s baby dilemma, Adriana and ageism, Lisa vs Larsa, and Julia’s family drama.  Topics Discussed: → Anastasia Beverly Hills Cameo → Dating Advice Over 30 → SNL Behind the Scenes → RHOM Stephanie Baby Dilemma → RHOM Lisa vs Larsa Feud On This Episode We Cover: → 00:00:00 - Welcome and life updates → 00:01:26 - Ranking the best Housewives franchises → 00:02:28 - So Bad It’s Good & SNL stories → 00:08:35 - Lakendra Lore → 00:12:36 - Milestones, faith, and future goals → 00:17:15 - RHOM Anastasia Beverly Hills cameo → 00:22:31 - Ageism, Adriana, & insecure men → 00:28:21 - Lisa vs. Larsa, Jody, and Julia’s family tension → 00:32:34 - Dating rules: if he wanted to, he would → 00:35:09 - Tooks Takeaway: You deserve to be chosen Check Out LaKendra: → LaKendra's Instagram  → Tookes Takes Instagram → X → LaKendra’s TikTok → YouTube Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

32: I’m coming at you fresh off a Labor Day full of naps talking Real Housewives of Miami and Orange County. I’m covering Stephanie’s private jet antics in Spain to Julia’s godfather drama, Marysol’s flamingo dresses, and the Barracuda stirring up trouble. Then we hit OC, where lie detectors, Persian New Year parties, and lingering “naked wasted” scandals have everyone talking…race, lies, and drama included.  Topics Discussed: → Real Housewives of Miami Spain trip drama and private jet etiquette → Real Housewives of Orange County lie detector party and controversies → “Naked Wasted” scandal recap and truth behind the rumors → Race, prejudice, and optics in reality TV interactions → Weekend adventures, socializing tips, and meeting new people at parties On This Episode We Cover:  → 00:00:00 - Introduction  → 00:01:27 - RHOM: Spain Trip → 00:05:47 - Stephanie the fun killer  → 00:06:40 - White lotus & gay godfathers  → 00:08:32 - Marysol’s facetime  → 00:10:47 - Unpacking “Ratchet”  → 00:15:02 - RHOC: Naked Wasted  → 00:17:13 - Shannon’s dad, racism, & lies  → 00:23:53 - Are the housewives racist?  → 00:25:46 - The lie detector test → 00:32:01 - Jenn & “Race Crap” → 00:34:13 - I’m done with RHOC  → 00:34:38 - Tookes Takeaway: GET OUTSIDE!  Check Out LaKendra: → LaKendra's Instagram  → Tookes Takes Instagram → X → LaKendra’s TikTok → YouTube Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

31: This week I’m covering the chaos of Housewives parenting, clout-chasing scandals, and fashion flops that only Bravo could deliver. From Tamra’s messy Instagram antics to Julia and Martina juggling their new adoptees, the drama is nonstop. Katie Janela’s suspicious dinner party behavior has everyone side-eyeing, and with a lie detector test on the horizon, reputations are about to be tested. Topics Discussed: → Housewives parenting struggles and family drama → Tamra Judge Instagram antics → Emily Simpson interview looks → Marbella trip & Adriana’s art tour  On This Episode We Cover:  → 00:00:00 - Introduction  → 00:00:55 - RHOC: Is Tamra Quitting The Show? → 00:02:44 - Revisiting Reality Checked  → 00:05:16 - RHOC: Highlights  → 00:09:15 - Tamra’s Therapy Session  → 00:13:54 - Emily, New Orleans, & Mom Guilt  → 00:17:01 - Naked Wasted  → 00:23:24 - RHOM: Spain trip → 00:31:37 - Lisa’s Notes & Unfollowing Marcus  → 00:34:56 - Tookes Takeaway: Sobriety  Check Out LaKendra: → LaKendra's Instagram  → Tookes Takes Instagram → X → LaKendra’s TikTok Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

30: The OC reunion brought chaos, contradictions, and plenty of receipts. I break down Shannon refusing to forgive Katie while giving Tamara a pass, Heather caught in her own denial, and Tamara stirring the pot again. We also dive into the Real Housewives of Miami episodes, complete with the wild “Ay Dios Mío” moments, and revisit the infamous “Naked Wasted” scandal.  Topics Discussed: → Shannon vs. Katie: selective forgiveness drama → Tamara’s lies and manipulations exposed → Real Housewives of Miami “Ay Dios Mío” moments → Revisiting the “Naked Wasted” scandal → Life lesson: focus on yourself, not validation On This Episode We Cover:  → 00:00:00 - Introduction  → 00:01:03 - Kensday & The Chumps  → 00:03:05 - Baby showers, drag shows, & weekend fun  → 00:05:41 - RHOM: Ay Dios Mio moments 16:17 -  → 00:17:36 - RHOC: Highlights → 00:21:40 - Racial differences in Real Housewives → 00:24:34 - Shannon vs Tamara  → 00:27:31 - Naked wasted revisited  → 00:30:11 - Tookes Takeaway: Focus on yourself! Check Out LaKendra: → LaKendra's Instagram  → Tookes Takes Instagram → X → LaKendra’s TikTok → YouTube Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices