How To Love Yourself No Matter What

I’m recording this one off the cuff, because it matters.I cry a lot. I cry every day. Sometimes I cry because I’m sad. Sometimes I cry because I’m angry, happy, proud — or because I just need to cry. I’ve always been this way, and if you’re listening to this, you probably are too.In this episode, I talk about why crying isn’t something to fix — and why nothing has gone wrong when tears show up. We’ve been taught to feel shame or guilt when we cry, especially in front of other people, but that doesn’t mean crying is wrong. More often than not, it just means other people don’t have the tools to be with it.This is a conversation about sensitivity, emotion, and why big girls do cry — not because we’re weak, but because we feel deeply, we care, and we’re human.In This Episode, I Cover:Why I cry every day — and why that’s not a problemThe shame and guilt many women feel when they cry in front of othersWhy people try to fix crying instead of allowing itHow we’re taught that crying is inappropriate or “too much”Why crying isn’t manipulativeCrying as release, connection, and a non-aggressive expression of emotionA thought to try on: Big girls do cry — and I’m okay with myself when I doA question to sit with:What happens when I let myself cry without making it mean something has gone wrong?You don’t need to answer it — just notice the urge to stop it, explain it, apologize for it, or judge yourself for it.That noticing is the work.If this episode brought up relief, resistance, or confusion, you’re not alone — and you don’t have to carry it by yourself.✨ Come say hi on Instagram: @theamandahessI’d love to hear what this stirred for you — the real, unpolished version.If this episode resonated and you want support applying this work to your real life, I’d love to talk with you.I currently have space in my 1:1 coaching practice.Book a discovery call here:👉 https://amandahess.ca/book-a-callStay ConnectedIf you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe, leave a review, and share it with someone who needs to hear it.I’ll see you next week. 💛

Sensitive women feel deeply — and for many, emotional pain can feel overwhelming, unsafe, or impossible to sit with. There’s often a fear that if you really let yourself feel it, you’ll fall apart and won’t be able to recover.In this episode, I unpack why emotional pain feels so intense for sensitive and neurodivergent women — and why this has nothing to do with being fragile or broken. We explore how emotional overwhelm is actually a capacity issue, not a personal flaw, and how many of the ways we’ve learned to cope with emotion are protective — but ultimately keep us stuck.This is an honest conversation about emotional overwhelm, overthinking, self-judgment, and how learning to stay with yourself during emotional pain can fundamentally change your relationship with your emotions — and with yourself.In This Episode, We Cover:Why sensitive women often fear fully feeling their emotionsThe difference between emotional pain and emotional overwhelmWhy emotional overwhelm is a capacity issue, not fragilityHow we’re taught to fix, explain, or numb emotions instead of feeling themWhy intellectualizing emotions leads to overthinking and burnoutCommon patterns sensitive women use to cope with emotional painHow urgency, meaning-making, and self-judgment intensify emotional painThe difference between managing emotional pain and relating to itWhy emotions don’t need to be solved in order to moveHow to separate sensation in the body from the story in the mindWhat it actually looks like to “stay with” an emotionWhy emotional processing should feel quiet, boring, and non-dramaticHow emotional capacity grows through presence, not forceA personal water-skiing story that illustrates how emotional capacity is builtKey TakeawayEmotional pain isn’t the problem — being alone inside it is. When you learn how to stay with yourself instead of trying to fix, outrun, or explain your emotions, your capacity grows. Sensitivity stops being something you manage and becomes a strength you can trust.Mentioned in This EpisodeEmotional capacity vs. emotional fragilityClean emotional experience vs. emotional overwhelmSeparating sensation from storyInternal companionship and self-trustPresence as the path to emotional confidenceWork With MeIf this episode resonated and you want support applying this work to your real life, I’d love to talk with you.I currently have space...

Jealousy is one of the most misunderstood emotions — and one of the most shamed. Most of us were never taught how to feel jealousy without turning it against ourselves or others.In this episode, I unpack what jealousy actually is, why it hurts so much, and how it can either become a source of unnecessary suffering or a powerful source of self-awareness. We explore the difference between clean jealousy and dirty jealousy, how judgment gets layered on top of pain, and why jealousy isn’t a character flaw — it’s information.This is an honest conversation about desire, disappointment, self-worth, and how learning to let jealousy stay clean can change the way you relate to yourself and others.In This Episode, We Cover:What jealousy actually is (and what it isn’t)Why jealousy often feels so intense and painfulThe difference between clean jealousy and dirty jealousyHow we turn jealousy into extra suffering through judgmentThe two most common ways jealousy gets “dirty”A personal story about trying out for Stampede Queen and what jealousy revealed in hindsightHow jealousy can lead to growth — or cause us to shrinkWhy avoiding the clean pain of jealousy often keeps us stuckHow jealousy points directly to desire, longing, and possibilityKey TakeawayJealousy doesn’t mean something has gone wrong. It means you want something. When you stop judging yourself or others for that desire, jealousy becomes a clean signal — not a punishment.Mentioned in This EpisodeClean pain vs. dirty painDesire as information, not a problemEmotional honesty without self-abandonmentUsing emotion as guidance instead of self-judgmentWork With MeIf this episode resonated and you want support applying this work to your real life, I’d love to talk with you.I currently have space in my 1:1 coaching practice.Book a discovery call here:👉 https://amandahess.ca/book-a-callStay ConnectedIf you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe, leave a review, and share it with someone who needs to hear it.I’ll see you next week. 💛

Belonging is one of our most basic human needs — but what if the biggest thing standing in the way of feeling like you belong isn’t other people… it’s you?In this episode, I break down why rejection feels so painful, how micro-rejections accumulate over time, and why so many of us unconsciously reject ourselves before anyone else ever gets the chance to. We explore how rejection is an emotion (not a circumstance), how your brain tries to keep you “safe” by shrinking your life, and what it actually takes to rebuild your capacity for connection.This is a powerful, compassionate conversation about emotional safety, self-belonging, and learning how to stop turning away from yourself — even when your nervous system wants to hide.In This Episode, We Cover:Why belonging is a feeling, not something other people give youThe difference between direct rejection and micro-rejectionsHow rejection sensitivity builds quietly over timeWhy avoiding rejection leads to a smaller, lonelier lifeWhat it means to reject yourself in advance (and how it shows up)How your brain uses pre-rejection as a protection strategyA simple, practical way to interrupt self-rejection in real timeWhy you don’t need to “heal everything” to move forwardHow to build internal belonging: I am lovable. I belong.Key TakeawayIf you want to feel more connected, you have to stop abandoning yourself first. Belonging begins internally — and it’s a skill you can practice, moment by moment.Mentioned in This EpisodeThe Love Yourself No Matter What coaching methodReal-life application vs. theory-based mindset workNervous system safety, emotional processing, and self-trustWork With MeIf this episode resonated and you want support applying this work to your real life, I’d love to talk with you.I currently have space in my 1:1 coaching practice.Book a discovery call here:👉 https://amandahess.ca/book-a-callStay ConnectedIf you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe, leave a review, and share it with someone who needs to hear it.I’ll see you next week. 💛

If you’re listening to this in January (or any other time of the year) and feeling heavy, flat, emotional, or quietly overwhelmed — this episode is for you.January 1st is supposed to feel hopeful. Fresh. Motivating.But for so many women, it actually brings pressure, comparison, and a deep sense of “I should be feeling better than I am.”In this episode, I’m unpacking why January 1st can feel so dysregulating — and why New Year’s resolutions often make things worse, not better.This isn’t about mindset failure or lack of discipline.It’s about conditioning, shame-based change, and a nervous system that’s been trained to scan for what’s missing.We’ll talk about:Why New Year’s resolutions are often fueled by shameHow performative change keeps you stuck in all-or-nothing cyclesWhy willpower always fails (and what actually works instead)The real reason behaviors like overeating, drinking, people-pleasing, or overworking don’t change through controlA gentler, more effective way to approach the new year without pressureHow self-concept and emotional safety create sustainable changePowerful reframes you can return to all year longInstead of asking “Who do I need to become this year?”I invite you to explore questions like:What would make me feel a little safer this year?What do I want more of emotionally, energetically, and relationally?What helps me come back to myself?You don’t need a big vision.You don’t need a perfect plan.And you don’t need to fix yourself.You just need to be willing to stay with yourself while this year unfolds.Mentioned in This EpisodeEpisode 293: You Are Not Who You Think You Are — How to Change Your Self-ConceptJoin the membership for a free week at 👉 joinamanda.ca(Includes coaching calls + an upcoming full class on self-concept)Book a private coaching discovery call at 👉 amandahess.ca/bookacallA Gentle ReminderYou don’t have to know where 2026 is going yet.You don’t have to feel motivated.And you don’t need a resolution to be worthy of change.What if this year was about trusting yourself instead of forcing yourself?What if your only intention was to love yourself — and be more you?I’m so glad you’re here.And I can’t wait to keep talking with you in 2026.

As the year comes to a close, many of us are taking stock — not just of what we did, but of who we believe we are.In this episode, we’re talking about self-concept: the thoughts and beliefs you hold about yourself, how they were formed, and how they quietly shape your emotions, relationships, and choices — often without you realizing it.So many of the things we believe about ourselves feel like facts… but they’re not. They’re thoughts — many of them inherited from childhood, authority figures, culture, or past experiences — and they can be changed.Inside this episode, I share:What self-concept actually is (and what it’s not)How early experiences shape the way we see ourselvesWhy “positive thinking” often backfiresA powerful question that opens a new path forward: Who would I be without this thought?How to shift self-judgment without forcing yourself to believe something that doesn’t feel trueWhy changing your self-concept isn’t about becoming someone else — it’s about freeing yourselfIf you’ve ever felt like you aren't capable of changing your life, this conversation offers a gentler, more empowering way to look at yourself — one that creates possibility instead of pressure.Work With MeIf you want support with this work:✨ Join my membershipYou can come into the community this week for a free 7-day trial. You’ll get access to:Weekly group coaching callsMy private daily podcast (500+ episodes)A supportive, thoughtful community of women doing this work togetherGo to joinamanda.ca to find out more.✨ 1:1 CoachingI currently have limited availability for private coaching.Book a discovery call here:👉 amandahess.ca/bookacallIf this episode resonated, I’d love to hear from you.You can find me on Instagram at @theamandahess — send me a DM and tell me what stood out.Whether you celebrate or not, I’m sending you so much love as this year comes to a close.You are not stuck. You are not broken.And you are allowed to change.

Feeling is part of being human. Suffering is not.In this episode, Amanda breaks down the crucial difference between feeling emotions and suffering because of them. You’ll hear a raw, honest reflection on what it’s like to try to “hold it all together,” why doing more never actually fixes emotional overwhelm, and how learning to slow down is the real way out of suffering.This episode is a reminder that you don’t need better tools, better behavior, or more discipline — you need to take your foot off the emotional gas.What You’ll LearnWhy 50% of life is always uncomfortable emotion (no matter how well you’re doing)The difference between feeling pain and creating sufferingHow “trying not to feel” actually extends sufferingWhy doing more, pushing harder, or expecting yourself to cope better doesn’t workThe compounding factors that turn pain into long-term sufferingWhat it really means to “take your foot off the emotional gas”Simple, practical ways to slow your nervous system in real timeHow to start asking yourself, “What do I need right now?” — and listening to the answerKey TakeawaysFeeling is inevitable. Suffering is optional.Pain happens. Hurt happens. Loss, rejection, and grief are real.Suffering comes from:JudgmentPressureEmotional accelerationNot slowing downNot regulating your nervous systemYou don’t need to fix yourself — you need to pauseSlowing down is not quitting; it’s leadershipSelf-trust is built in small percentages — 5%, then 10%, then morePractical Tools MentionedTaking your foot off the emotional gasRegulating through the senses:Look aroundNotice what you see, hear, smell, taste, touchBreathing and grounding (takes seconds, not minutes)Asking yourself:“What do I need in this moment?”Choosing support instead of speedMemorable Quote“Feeling is inevitable. Suffering is not.”Want This Kind of Support in Your Ear Every Day?If this episode resonated and you find yourself thinking, “I need more of this — consistently,” that’s exactly why my membership exists.Inside the membership, you get ongoing support to help you:Slow down instead of pushing harderRegulate your nervous system in real lifeBuild self-trust one moment at a timeLearn how to feel without sufferingThis is the work — and you don’t have to do it alone.👉 Join us at:joinamanda.caInvitationBring your questions.Bring the overwhelm.Bring the part of you that’s exhausted from trying to hold it all together.You know where to find me.

What most women call overwhelm or anxiety is often something deeper: emotional burnout — the kind that happens when you’ve spent years trying to tolerate your emotions instead of learning how to expand your capacity for them.In today’s episode, I’m sharing a private training from the podcast I create exclusively for my clients. We’re breaking down the real difference between emotional tolerance (the rigid, finite jar that eventually cracks) and emotional capacity (the flexible container you can actually grow).You’ll learn:Why simply “tolerating” your emotions exhausts youThe glass-jar metaphor that explains emotional burnout perfectlyWhat true emotional capacity looks like — and why it’s a skill, not a personality traitHow nervous system regulation expands your capacity in real timeThe 4 pillars of capacity-building (regulation, nature, pleasure, and thought quality)How to stop outsourcing control and reclaim it in a way that’s actually sustainableSimple daily practices to grow your internal bandwidth so you don’t get knocked over by lifeIf you’ve felt like you’re at the end of your rope — irritated, overstimulated, or one small thing away from snapping — this episode will help you understand why… and what to do next.✨ Want this level of support every week?This episode comes from the private podcast feed I create for my 1:1 coaching clients — the kind of deep, practical emotional work we do together.If you want to explore the ways you can work with me, head to:👉 joinamanda.ca🧡 If this episode landed for you…Share it with someone who needs it, or post it to your stories and tag me.And if you want your own questions answered join one of my coaching containers — we can go even deeper there.

The holidays bring everything — family dynamics, overwhelm, expectations, pressure — and underneath it all is the fear of speaking up in a way that feels good. In this episode, we break down what a boundary actually is, why it feels so hard to set one, and how fear and nervous system dysregulation keep you stuck in people-pleasing or emotional shutdown.You’ll learn how to identify fear in your body, regulate before you respond, and create clean, grounded boundaries that support the life you want. This is the episode to listen to if you want to stop abandoning yourself and start honoring what works for you.WHAT YOU'LL LEARN:What a boundary really is (and what it’s not)Why fear makes speaking up feel impossibleHow fight/flight/freeze/fawn sabotage your voiceHow to regulate before having brave conversationsWhy self-worth must be chosen firstSPECIAL OFFER — TODAY ONLYSign up for my 1:1 coaching at JoinAmanda.ca without a discovery call and receive:✨ 5 months for the price of 4✨ 20 private sessions✨ A $250 credit after completing the programBOUNDARIES WORKSHOP — DECEMBER 15Join me for a live class on setting boundaries & having brave conversations.Link in bio on Instagram/TikTok @theamandahess. or https://amandahesscoaching.as.me/brave

If you’ve spent your whole life trying to “think more positively,” “change your mindset,” or “just stop spiraling,” this episode is going to shift everything for you.Because here’s the truth most sensitive women never get taught:Thoughts are not facts.They never have been.But when your nervous system is dysregulated (Part 1) and your emotions feel too big to hold (Part 2), your brain grabs the easiest, most familiar thought it can find — even if that thought hurts you.This episode breaks down why your overthinking isn’t caused by the thoughts themselves…It’s caused by the beliefs you’ve practiced for years, the ones that have become so familiar your brain mistakes them for truth.You’ll learn how beliefs become well-worn paths in the brain, why new thoughts feel impossible at first, and how to practice thinking in a way that creates safety, self-trust, and actual change. This is the step that allows everything you learned in Part 1 and Part 2 to finally land.This is the third and final part of my overthinking series — and it’s where the transformation really locks in.💡 What You’ll Discover in This EpisodeWhy thoughts feel true (even when they aren’t)The real reason you can’t access helpful thoughts when your emotions are at a 9 or 10How practiced beliefs become mental “paths” your brain walks automaticallyWhy your brain prefers painful familiarity over unfamiliar possibilityWhat it actually takes to create a new belief you can rely onHow radical self-love, compassion, and hope build the thoughts that change your lifeWhy you keep ending up in the same emotional patterns even when you try to “think differently”A simple, repeatable three-step system to create thoughts that serve you instead of sabotage youHow changing your thoughts becomes effortless when your nervous system and emotions are balanced🔗 Get full show notes, transcript, and more:amandahess.ca/289👉 Interested in working with me?Sign up for a free discovery call: amandahess.ca📱 Connect with me on TikTok & Instagram:@theamandahess

If you’ve been trying to “fix” your overthinking by changing your thoughts, but nothing ever seems to stick, here’s the truth:You don’t have a thought problem — you have an emotion problem.When your emotions feel too big, too fast, or too overwhelming for your system, your brain does the only thing it knows how to do: it starts thinking harder. It analyzes, spirals, replays conversations, imagines every worst-case scenario — not because you’re dramatic, or weak, or too sensitive, but because your body is trying to protect you from the intensity of unprocessed emotion.This episode explores why overthinking is always rooted in emotional dysregulation, how a sensitive nervous system amplifies feelings, and why “controlling your emotions” has never worked. You’ll learn what emotions actually are, how they move through the body, and how to start building emotional capacity so your mind can finally take a breath.You don’t need to out-think your feelings — you need to learn how to experience them in a way that feels safe.This is Part 2 of my three-part series on overthinking, and it’s the piece no one teaches sensitive women… but it’s the one that makes everything else finally click.💡 What You’ll Discover in This EpisodeWhy overthinking is an emotional issue long before it becomes a thought issueThe difference between “reacting” to emotion and actually processing itWhat emotions really are — and why they’re not good, bad, or logicalHow a sensitive nervous system intensifies emotional wavesWhy unprocessed emotion always comes back bigger, louder, and more overwhelmingHow emotional capacity makes difficult feelings easier to handleThe simple skill of “feeling emotion in the body” without being consumed by itWhy learning to process emotion is the key to ending the overthinking cycle🔗 Get full show notes, transcript, and more:amandahess.ca/288👉 Interested in working with me?Sign up for a free discovery call: amandahess.ca📱 Connect with me on TikTok & Instagram:@theamandahess

Overthinking isn’t a flaw — it’s a survival response.If your brain feels like it never shuts off, if you replay conversations, worry about every decision, or try to anticipate every possible problem before it happens — this episode is for you.When your nervous system has been running in survival mode for too long, overthinking becomes your body’s way of trying to keep you safe. But the truth is, it’s not protecting you — it’s exhausting you. In this episode, we break down why overthinking isn’t a mindset problem, it’s a nervous system problem, and how learning to regulate your body first changes everything.When you understand that your “racing thoughts” are really a sensitive nervous system doing its best to help you survive, you stop trying to fix yourself — and start working with yourself.This is Part 1 of a 3-part series where I teach the Love Yourself No Matter What Method — starting with nervous system regulation and why your gas pedal and brake are always out of sync.💡 In this episode, you’ll discover:Why overthinking is your nervous system’s way of trying to keep you safeHow a sensitive nervous system gets triggered — and what it really meansThe difference between the sympathetic and parasympathetic systems (and how to balance them)What “fight, flight, freeze, or fawn” actually looks like in real lifeWhy your brain doesn’t know the difference between a bear chasing you and your friend not texting backThe simple daily practices that start rebalancing your nervous system — without hours of meditation🔗 Get full show notes, transcript, and more:amandahess.ca/287👉 Interested in working with me?Sign up for a free discovery call: amandahess.ca📱 Connect with me on TikTok & Instagram:@theamandahess

What if everything you’ve been told about being “too sensitive” is wrong?In this episode, I share a deeply personal story from my early motherhood — the exhaustion, the misdiagnoses, and the moment I realized that I wasn’t broken… I was sensitive. For years, I tried to “fix” myself, believing that my emotions were the problem. But the truth is, sensitivity isn’t a weakness — it’s a form of wisdom.We’ll explore what sensitivity really is (and what it’s not), how it overlaps with common mental health labels, and why learning to partner with your sensitivity is the key to feeling grounded, powerful, and whole.If you’ve ever felt like the world was too loud, your emotions too big, or your empathy too much — this episode is for you. You’ll learn:✨ Why your nervous system feels things so deeply✨ How to stop pathologizing your sensitivity✨ What it looks like to create safety and strength from the inside outYour sensitivity isn’t something to fix — it’s something to understand.Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: amandahess.ca/286Interested in working with me? Book a free discovery call: amandahess.caJoin the Love Yourself No Matter What Membership: https://www.skool.com/emotions-school-8427/about?ref=b947741c562941f4b4d1d3f05a1b437cCome find me on TikTok and Instagram: @theamandahess

Did you grow up in a house where everything had to be someone's fault? That type of environment creates a specific kind of wiring in your brain. The spilled glass of water that turns into chaos, the constant need to assign blame, the walking on eggshells - these experiences don't just disappear when you become an adult. They show up as that relentless inner critic, the exhausting need to control everyone's emotions, and the panic that rises when something goes wrong. The path forward isn't about becoming perfect or never making mistakes. It's about learning to feel safe in the mess of being human. In this episode, you'll discover how to recognize criticism as a red flag for feeling unsafe, how to regulate your nervous system when panic rises, and most importantly, how to build the muscle of self-compassion. Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: amandahess.ca/285Interested in working with me? Sign up for a discovery call: amandahess.caWant to join the Love Yourself No Matter What Membership For Free? Join here: amanda-hess.mykajabi.com/loveyourselfCome find me on TT and IG: @theamandahess

When your heart feels like it's been shattered into pieces and the pain consumes every moment of your day, you're experiencing something that every human being knows intimately: heartache.In this episode, I'll walk you through my Love Yourself No Matter What method - a three-part process that helps you regulate your nervous system, process the emotion in your body, and decide what to believe about yourself when your brain offers up those cruel thoughts. Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: amandahess.ca/284Interested in working with me? Sign up for a discovery call: amandahess.caWant to join the Love Yourself No Matter What Membership For Free? Join here: amanda-hess.mykajabi.com/loveyourselfCome find me on TT and IG: @theamandahess

Most of us have been taught that jealousy is wrong, and that we should never feel it. But rejecting a normal human emotion only makes it come back louder and more destructive. In this episode, I share my own experience with jealousy and shine a light on the hidden connection between feeling threatened and speaking poorly about others. You'll learn ways to regulate your nervous system, reduce your jealousy, and hear why the person who truly wins isn’t someone who never feels jealous - it’s the person who can feel all their feelings without sabotaging themselves.Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: amandahess.ca/283Interested in working with me? Sign up for a discovery call: amandahess.caWant to join the Love Yourself No Matter What Membership For Free? Join here: amanda-hess.mykajabi.com/loveyourselfCome find me on TT and IG: @theamandahess

Most of us think the point of a goal is to achieve it. But what if the real purpose is who you become along the way? When I laced up my skates, put on a sparkly costume, and stepped onto the ice to perform in front of judges, I thought the goal was the medal. What I learned instead was that the goal was there to help me meet every part of myself—the scared, the brave, and the resilient—all in one two-minute skate.In this episode, I’m sharing what really happens between setting a goal and achieving it, and why that messy middle is where the true transformation takes place. Through stories from my own skating experiences, I’ll show you how goals aren’t just about the finish line. They’re about the relationship you build with yourself while you go for it.Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: amandahess.ca/282Interested in working with me? Sign up for a discovery call: amandahess.caWant to join the Love Yourself No Matter What Membership For Free? Join here: amanda-hess.mykajabi.com/loveyourselfCome find me on TT and IG: @theamandahess

Goal setting triggers panic for so many of us. The fear of not meeting expectations, the pressure of deadlines, the looming possibility of disappointment - it's enough to make anyone avoid setting goals altogether. But what if the real problem isn't the goal itself, but our relationship with failure along the way?Tune in to hear my four-step process for moving through fear and failure with compassion. You'll discover how to set goals that stretch you, create belief before you see results, fail on purpose (yes, really), and evaluate without judgment. Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: amandahess.ca/281Interested in working with me? Sign up for a discovery call: amandahess.caWant to join the Love Yourself No Matter What Membership For Free? Join here: amanda-hess.mykajabi.com/loveyourselfCome find me on TT and IG: @theamandahess

So often we believe that a better relationship depends on our partner changing. But the truth is, the real work starts with you. If you’ve ever felt stuck giving too much, overcompensating, or constantly managing the relationship on your own, this episode is for you. I share practical ways to start building self-love as a standard in your life, how to navigate guilt or frustration when it arises, and why creating this inner foundation can transform your romantic relationships from the inside out.Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: amandahess.ca/280Interested in working with me? Sign up for a discovery call: amandahess.caWant to join the Love Yourself No Matter What Membership For Free? Join here: amanda-hess.mykajabi.com/loveyourselfCome find me on TT and IG: @theamandahess

Beating yourself up might feel productive, but it's actually keeping you stuck in the same painful patterns. The real work of healing from trauma isn't about fixing all your problems or thinking positive thoughts. It's about developing self-love as a skill—a feeling you can generate in your body that becomes the fuel for different actions.In this episode, I'm sharing why the skill of self-love isn't fluff. Through a specific process of recognizing when you're in a trauma response and bringing love to that moment, you can start to grow around your pain rather than trying to make it disappear. Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: amandahess.ca/279Interested in working with me? Sign up for a discovery call: amandahess.caWant to join the Love Yourself No Matter What Membership For Free? Join here: amanda-hess.mykajabi.com/loveyourselfCome find me on TT and IG: @theamandahess