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Why do women get shamed for wanting nice things or up keeping themselves?

external Glowups are fine and dandy but what's really going on ,on the inside ? Lets jump into this episode ...

Let's stop equating spending and consuming with self-worth. You're not missing out on anything especially not in your cart.

Childhood neglect can fuel a constant hunger for validation in adulthood.

Why do we fear stillness,silence and being alone with our thoughts ?

Why do we choose emotionally unavailable people ? Let's talk about it .

Picking fights , procrastinating , ghosting good things , Lets talk about it...

What drives insecurities and jealousy? What makes you feel like others have it better than you or turns you into being a hater? Lets chop it up

Stop speaking ill of yourself even in the sense of a joke . Our tongue carries so much power over our life .

This is a very personal episode and topic that I touched on today. Very often we get so caught up in accomplishing the next goal we forget to enjoy the ride or the process. So today I am super proud and know that I am making Little Chichi so proud. I urge you today to enjoy the process and the period between the you today and accomplishing you goal.

Never stop making time to pour into you. What changes can you make physically , mentally , spiritually to your betterment today ? For 2025 make you, your next and best project.

Be loud about you. Be loud about your goalsWalk into rooms like you know you got this !

As we navigate our early and late 20's we lose friends and we gain friends. However one thing that we do need to lose is friends that secretly donot like us. So ask yourself is that person your friend or your foe?

Please donot allow people's demons or troubles to overtake you and become your own .

Let's get rid of the people pleasing and doing everything just because we do not want to be the odd one out. It's alright to say NO and you do not owe anyone that explanation . You do you link https://www.googleadservices.com/pagead/aclk?sa=L&ai=DChsSEwi-vr7KjaaMAxWFmYMHHZSAMakYACICCAEQDxoCZWY&co=1&gclid=Cj0KCQjwqIm_BhDnARIsAKBYcmsPiOD0z3arkfuq5I6XBoFLzRP-j0TpLg_E4MD86FTJv6nfB_YoWaoaAqeNEALw_wcB&sph=&ohost=www.google.com&cid=CAESVuD2eIEAh7QBTSJOWaUw70_ZywicY2REzJy-Zbk5JD4k_v9TkdqIIMGro3BqiPfpo5D4BDTLX2cgAXX2qjVIIUwI4EKldr8G_8A0Xlvf6fd7u3Ed3xK_&sig=AOD64_0PhDYU7iqZtdWCHd9ZiQDC1-dPJQ&ctype=70&q=&ved=2ahUKEwjQyLbKjaaMAxWU-gIHHY98GpsQwg8oAHoECAgQEg&adurl=

Please binge watch that series and eat that comfort food if you need to today. Unlearn the always on grind mode culture and spend time making sure you are your best self today .

Dedicated to Angela Maria

Siri , play " Love yours by J. Cole" When you look in the mirror make sure you are proud of you and know that you are truly your own competition.

Showing up as your best self everyday is the greatest thing we can do. However showing up over and over in a place that is no longer serving you is not what you need to be doing .If the table no longer serves you its okay to get up and leave, better is probably around the corner.

Oversharing has got to be one of the most detrimental things to our well being . Learn to only share things after they are done . Is lying okay ? No . However people cannot ruin or be envious of what they don't know.