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The only podcast where a romance writer and guest debate the sex lives of fictional characters. Hosted by bestselling author, Elissa Sussman.
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Join me (Elissa Sussman) and my guest, Mady Maio, as we debate the sex lives of characters from LOVE, ACTUALLY.Warning: This episode contains extremely adult languageSpoiler Alerts for the following:LOVE, ACTUALLY (2003) Find Mady online:InstagramTikTokCamber Find me:WebsiteInstagramTikTokBuy TOTALLY AND COMPLETELY FINE here!Buy ONCE MORE WITH FEELING here!Buy FUNNY YOU SHOULD ASK here!Special thanks:Theme - Alex HellerLogo - Lauren AirriessTech Support - John PetajaGot a rebuttal? Suggestion? Or just wanna give us some love?Email us at howsthesexpod@gmail.com! Audio messages welcome!More information on the podcast can be found here.And check out our Patreon, where you can vote, comment, and commiserate with other listeners. But How's the Sex is produced, recorded, and edited by Elissa Sussman (me)
Join me (Elissa Sussman) and my guest, Paige Harbison, as we debate the sex lives of characters from THE HOLIDAY.Warning: This episode contains extremely adult languageSpoiler Alerts for the following:THE HOLIDAY (2006)Find Paige online:InstagramTikTokWebsiteNameless Best Friends PodFind me:WebsiteInstagramTikTokBuy TOTALLY AND COMPLETELY FINE here!Buy ONCE MORE WITH FEELING here!Buy FUNNY YOU SHOULD ASK here!Special thanks:Theme - Alex HellerLogo - Lauren AirriessTech Support - John PetajaGot a rebuttal? Suggestion? Or just wanna give us some love?Email us at howsthesexpod@gmail.com! Audio messages welcome!More information on the podcast can be found here.And check out our Patreon, where you can vote, comment, and commiserate with other listeners. But How's the Sex is produced, recorded, and edited by Elissa Sussman (me)
Join me (Elissa Sussman) and my guest, Haley Renken, as we debate the sex lives of characters from HOW TO LOSE A GUY IN TEN DAYS.Warning: This episode contains extremely adult languageSpoiler Alerts for the following:HOW TO LOSE A GUY IN TEN DAYS (2003)Find Haley online: InstagramTikTokFind me:WebsiteInstagramTikTokBuy TOTALLY AND COMPLETELY FINE here!Buy ONCE MORE WITH FEELING here!Buy FUNNY YOU SHOULD ASK here!Special thanks:Theme - Alex HellerLogo - Lauren AirriessTech Support - John PetajaGot a rebuttal? Suggestion? Or just wanna give us some love?Email us at howsthesexpod@gmail.com! Audio messages welcome!More information on the podcast can be found here.And check out our Patreon, where you can vote, comment, and commiserate with other listeners. But How's the Sex is produced, recorded, and edited by Elissa Sussman (me)
Join me (Elissa Sussman) and my guest, Elizabeth Hughes as we debate the sex lives of characters from the Star Wars Universe. Warning: This episode contains extremely adult languageSpoiler Alerts for the following:STAR WARS in general, but specifically:A New Hope (1977)The Empire Strikes Back (1980)Return of the Jedi (1983)The Phantom Menace (1999)Attack of the Clones (2002)Revenge of the Sith (2005)Elizabeth's Recommendations: Fanfic:Four Days to Bespin by Leela Starskymetanoia by beskarsNovels:Lost Stars by Claudia GrayLeia: Princess of Alderaan by Claudia GrayEyes Like Stars by Ashley Poston (preorder)Find me:WebsiteInstagramTikTokBuy TOTALLY AND COMPLETELY FINE here!Buy ONCE MORE WITH FEELING here!Buy FUNNY YOU SHOULD ASK here!Special thanks:Theme - Alex HellerLogo - Lauren AirriessTech Support - John PetajaGot a rebuttal? Suggestion? Or just wanna give us some love?Email us at howsthesexpod@gmail.com! Audio messages welcome!More information on the podcast can be found here.And check out our Patreon, where you can vote, comment, and commiserate with other listeners. But How's the Sex is produced, recorded, and edited by Elissa Sussman (me)
Join me (Elissa Sussman) and my guest, Leigh Bardugo as we debate the sex lives of 80's fantasy villains. Warning: This episode contains extremely adult languageSpoiler Alerts for the following:LABYRINTH (1986)LEGEND (1985)LADYHAWKE (1985)INTERVIEW WITH THE VAMPIRE Novel (1976)THE VAMPIRE LESTAT Novel (1985)Find Leigh online:WebsiteInstagramSign up for her newsletter here!Buy her books here!Find me:WebsiteInstagramTikTokBuy TOTALLY AND COMPLETELY FINE here!Buy ONCE MORE WITH FEELING here!Buy FUNNY YOU SHOULD ASK here!Special thanks:Theme - Alex HellerLogo - Lauren AirriessTech Support - John PetajaGot a rebuttal? Suggestion? Or just wanna give us some love?Email us at howsthesexpod@gmail.com! Audio messages welcome!More information on the podcast can be found here.And check out our Patreon, where you can vote, comment, and commiserate with other listeners. But How's the Sex is produced, recorded, and edited by Elissa Sussman (me)
Join me (Elissa Sussman) and my guest, Candice Lim as we debate the sex lives of characters from THE GILMORE GIRLSWarning: This episode contains extremely adult languageSpoiler Alerts for the following:THE GILMORE GIRLS (2000-2007)Find Candice online:WebsiteInstagramFind me:WebsiteInstagramTikTokBuy TOTALLY AND COMPLETELY FINE here!Buy ONCE MORE WITH FEELING here!Buy FUNNY YOU SHOULD ASK here!Special thanks:Theme - Alex HellerLogo - Lauren AirriessTech Support - John PetajaGot a rebuttal? Suggestion? Or just wanna give us some love?Email us at howsthesexpod@gmail.com! Audio messages welcome!More information on the podcast can be found here.And check out our Patreon, where you can vote, comment, and commiserate with other listeners. But How's the Sex is produced, recorded, and edited by Elissa Sussman (me)
Join me (Elissa Sussman) and my guest, Charlotte Luce as we debate the sex lives of characters from THE MUMMYWarning: This episode contains extremely adult languageSpoiler Alerts for the following:The Mummy (1999)Find Charlotte online:InstagramCheck out TryQuinn here!Find me:WebsiteInstagramTikTokBuy TOTALLY AND COMPLETELY FINE here!Buy ONCE MORE WITH FEELING here!Buy FUNNY YOU SHOULD ASK here!Special thanks:Theme - Alex HellerLogo - Lauren AirriessTech Support - John PetajaGot a rebuttal? Suggestion? Or just wanna give us some love?Email us at howsthesexpod@gmail.com! Audio messages welcome!More information on the podcast can be found here.And check out our Patreon, where you can vote, comment, and commiserate with other listeners. But How's the Sex is produced, recorded, and edited by Elissa Sussman (me)
Join me (Elissa Sussman) and my guest, Amanda Jane Stern as we debate the sex lives of characters from THE PRINCESS BRIDEWarning: This episode contains extremely adult languageSpoiler Alerts for the following:The Princess Bride (1987)Find Amanda online:WebsiteInstagramBlueSkyLetterboxdCheck out PERFECTLY GOOD MOMENT here!Find me:WebsiteInstagramTikTokBuy TOTALLY AND COMPLETELY FINE here!Buy ONCE MORE WITH FEELING here!Buy FUNNY YOU SHOULD ASK here!Special thanks:Theme - Alex HellerLogo - Lauren AirriessTech Support - John PetajaGot a rebuttal? Suggestion? Or just wanna give us some love?Email us at howsthesexpod@gmail.com! Audio messages welcome!More information on the podcast can be found here.And check out our Patreon, where you can vote, comment, and commiserate with other listeners. But How's the Sex is produced, recorded, and edited by Elissa Sussman (me)
Join me (Elissa Sussman) and my guest, Erin La Rosa, as we debate the sex lives of Disney princes, in particular: Prince Eric, The Beast, Aladdin, Flynn Rider, and Kristoff Warning: This episode contains extremely adult languageSpoiler Alerts for the following:The Little Mermaid (1989)Beauty and the Beast (1991)Aladdin (1992)Tangled (2010)Frozen (2013)Frozen 2 (2019)Find Erin online:WebsiteInstagramTikTokPreorder NOT YOU AGAIN here!Find me:WebsiteInstagramTikTokBuy TOTALLY AND COMPLETELY FINE here!Buy ONCE MORE WITH FEELING here!Buy FUNNY YOU SHOULD ASK here!Special thanks:Theme - Alex HellerLogo - Lauren AirriessTech Support - John PetajaGot a rebuttal? Suggestion? Or just wanna give us some love?Email us at howsthesexpod@gmail.com! Audio messages welcome!More information on the podcast can be found here.And check out our Patreon, where you can vote, comment, and commiserate with other listeners. But How's the Sex is produced, recorded, and edited by Elissa Sussman (me)
Join me (Elissa Sussman) and my guest, Joss Richard, as we debate the sex lives of characters from THREE'S COMPANY.Warning: This episode contains extremely adult languageSpoiler Alerts for the following:Three's Company (1977-1984)Find Joss online:WebsiteInstagramPreorder IT'S DIFFERENT THIS TIME here!And join us at Vroman's on September 29th Find me:WebsiteInstagramTikTokBuy TOTALLY AND COMPLETELY FINE here!Buy ONCE MORE WITH FEELING here!Buy FUNNY YOU SHOULD ASK here!Special thanks:Theme - Alex HellerLogo - Lauren AirriessTech Support - John PetajaGot a rebuttal? Suggestion? Or just wanna give us some love?Email us at howsthesexpod@gmail.com! Audio messages welcome!More information on the podcast can be found here.And check out our Patreon, where you can vote, comment, and commiserate with other listeners. But How's the Sex is produced, recorded, and edited by Elissa Sussman (me)
Join me (Elissa Sussman) and my guest, Morgan Matson, as we debate the sex lives of characters from PARKS AND RECREATION.Warning: This episode contains extremely adult languageSpoiler Alerts for the following:Parks and Recreation (2009-2015)Find Morgan online:WebsiteInstagramBuy GRADCHANTED here!Buy her other books here!Find me:WebsiteInstagramTikTokBuy TOTALLY AND COMPLETELY FINE here!Buy ONCE MORE WITH FEELING here!Buy FUNNY YOU SHOULD ASK here!Special thanks:Theme - Alex HellerLogo - Lauren AirriessTech Support - John PetajaGot a rebuttal? Suggestion? Or just wanna give us some love?Email us at howsthesexpod@gmail.com! Audio messages welcome!More information on the podcast can be found here.And check out our Patreon, where you can vote, comment, and commiserate with other listeners. But How's the Sex is produced, recorded, and edited by Elissa Sussman (me)
Join me (Elissa Sussman) and my guest, Maurene Goo, as we debate the sex lives of characters in the AVENGERS franchise.Warning: This episode contains extremely adult languageSpoiler Alerts for the following:Iron Man (2008)Iron Man 2 (2010)Thor (2011)Captain America: The First Avenger (2011)The Avengers (2012)Iron Man 3 (2013)Thor: The Dark World (2013)Captain America: The Winter Soldier (2014)Avengers: Age of Ultron (2015)Captain America: Civil War (2016)Thor: Ragnarok (2017)Avengers: Infinity War (2018)Avengers: Endgame (2019)Find Maurene online:WebsiteInstagramTikTokPreorder ONE AND ONLY here!Buy THROWBACK here!Buy her other books here!Find me:WebsiteInstagramTikTokBuy TOTALLY AND COMPLETELY FINE here!Buy ONCE MORE WITH FEELING here!Buy FUNNY YOU SHOULD ASK here!Special thanks:Theme - Alex HellerLogo - Lauren AirriessTech Support - John PetajaGot a rebuttal? Suggestion? Or just wanna give us some love?Email us at howsthesexpod@gmail.com! Audio messages welcome!More information on the podcast can be found here. And check out our Patreon, where you can vote, comment, and commiserate with other listeners. But How's the Sex is produced, recorded, and edited by Elissa Sussman (me)
Join me (Elissa Sussman) and my guest, Falon Ballard, as we debate the sex lives of characters in the Pirates of the Caribbean franchise.Warning: This episode contains extremely adult languageSpoiler Alerts for the following:Pirates of the Caribbean (2003)Pirates of the Caribbean: Dead Man's Chest (2006)Pirates of the Caribbean: At World's End (2007)Find Falon online:WebsiteInstagramPreorder SOMETHING WICKED here!Buy CHANGE OF HEART here!Buy her other books here!Find me:WebsiteInstagramTikTokBuy TOTALLY AND COMPLETELY FINE here!Buy ONCE MORE WITH FEELING here!Buy FUNNY YOU SHOULD ASK here!Special thanks:Theme - Alex HellerLogo - Lauren AirriessTech Support - John PetajaGot a rebuttal? Suggestion? Or just wanna give us some love?Email us at howsthesexpod@gmail.com! Audio messages welcome!More information on the podcast can be found here. But How's the Sex is produced, recorded, and edited by Elissa Sussman (me)
Join me (Elissa Sussman) and my guest, Kate Stayman-London, as we debate the sex lives of characters on The West Wing.Warning: This episode contains extremely adult languageSpoiler Alerts for the following:The West Wing (1999)Find Kate online:WebsiteInstagramTikTokBuy ONE TO WATCH here!Buy FANG FICTION here!Find me:WebsiteInstagramTikTokBuy TOTALLY AND COMPLETELY FINE here!Buy ONCE MORE WITH FEELING here!Buy FUNNY YOU SHOULD ASK here!Special thanks:Theme - Alex HellerLogo - Lauren AirriessTech Support - John PetajaGot a rebuttal? Suggestion? Or just wanna give us some love?Email us at howsthesexpod@gmail.com! Audio messages welcome!More information on the podcast can be found here. But How's the Sex is produced, recorded, and edited by Elissa Sussman (me)
Next week on But How's the Sex, Kate Stayman-London and I are talking about West Wing characters, specifically: Josh LymanSam SeaborneToby ZieglerCJ CraigDr. and Mr. BartlettFull episode available on August 6th
Join me (Elissa Sussman) and my guest, Zan Romanoff, as we debate the sex lives of fictional dirtbags. Warning: This episode contains extremely adult languageSpoiler Alerts for the following: Clueless (1995)Reality Bites (1994)Friday Night Lights - TV Show (2006)The L Word - TV Show (2004)On The Bleachers Podcast with Zan and SarahBuy SQUARE WAVESBuy BIG FANSELAH: Neighborhood Homeless Coalition Find Zan online: WebsiteInstagramBlue SkyTumblrBuy her latest here!Find me:WebsiteInstagramTikTokBuy my latest here!Special thanks:Theme - Alex HellerLogo - Lauren AirriessTech Support - John PetajaGot a rebuttal? Suggestion? Or just wanna give us some love?Email us at howsthesexpod@gmail.com! Audio messages welcome!More information on the podcast can be found here. But How's the Sex is produced, recorded, and edited by Elissa Sussman (me)
Next week on But How's the Sex, Zan Romanoff are talking dirtbags, specifically: Travis Birkenstock from CluelessTroy Dyer from Reality BitesTim Riggins from Friday Night LightsShane McCutcheon from The L WordFull episode available on July 23rd
Join me (Elissa Sussman) and my guest, Kate Spencer, as we debate the sex lives of the fictional Friends (and Janice too!)Warning: This episode contains extremely adult languageSpoiler Alert: Friends (1994)Find Kate on the internet: WebsiteInstagram FaceBookTikTokBuy her books here! Find me! WebsiteInstagramTikTokBuy my latest here!Special thanks: Theme - Alex HellerLogo - Lauren AirriessGot a rebuttal? Suggestion? Or just wanna give us some love? Email us at howsthesexpod@gmail.com! Audio messages welcome! More information on the podcast can be found here. But How's the Sex is produced, recorded, and edited by Elissa Sussman (me)
But How's the Sex launches on July 9th, 2025!
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