The Scarlet Edit: Infidelity, Divorce, Starting Over.

What do you do when you realize—on your wedding day—that you shouldn’t be getting married?In this episode of The Scarlet Edit, I sit down with Emily Kuch, a content creator and Pilates instructor, to talk about one of the bravest decisions a person can make: calling off a wedding at the last possible moment.After nearly ten years together and months of wedding planning, Emily found herself standing in full hair and makeup, overlooking the ocean in Hawaii, facing a truth she couldn’t ignore. Instead of walking down the aisle, she chose herself.We talk about:Knowing something is wrong but feeling trapped by expectationsThe pressure of destination weddings, vendors, guests, and sunk costsTrusting your gut when everyone else’s opinions are louder than your ownWhat happens after you call everything offStarting over with no home, no job, and no clear planRebuilding identity after a long-term relationshipWhy talk therapy isn’t always the first or best stepUsing travel, movement, and discomfort as healing toolsLetting go of shame and outside judgmentLearning how to make decisions on your own againThis is a conversation about courage, self-trust, and redefining what strength actually looks like when your life doesn’t go according to plan.If you’ve ever questioned a relationship, stayed because it felt too hard to leave, or wondered what would happen if you chose yourself—this episode is for you.Get in touch with Emily on TikTok & Instagram🔔 Subscribe to my channel, new episodes drop every Thursday! 🔐 Join our Patreon Community for live Q&A's, more in depth conversations, connection with others who have been in your shoes, and so much more. ❤️‍🔥 Connect with The Scarlet Edit on Social! Instagram Threads For Collaboration and Business inquiries: 💌 Email: teamnikkicorbett@gmail.com

By the time Ava Gardner was 30, she'd been married three times. In 1950s America, that meant you were supposed to disappear in shame. But Ava didn't disappear—she became a legend.In this episode of Affairs Through the Ages, I'm diving into Ava Gardner's story. From dirt-poor farm girl in North Carolina to Hollywood icon, from three marriages before 30 to never marrying again—Ava wrote her own rules when the world wanted to write her off.This isn't just Frank Sinatra's affair story. This is about what Ava was searching for, why even "the love of her life" wasn't enough to make her stay, and how she became The Scarlet Edit OG before this podcast even existed.In This Episode:Ava's journey from Grabtown, North Carolina to MGM at 18Marriage #1: Mickey Rooney and learning fame ≠ faithfulnessMarriage #2: Artie Shaw and refusing to be someone's projectThe Frank Sinatra affair and what it meant to be the other womanWhy she left the "love of her life" and never married againLiving loudly with insecurity and rewriting the narrativeKey Takeaway: Figuring out what you don't want is just as important as figuring out what you do. Sometimes the most courageous thing you can do is keep leaving until you find yourself.Research for this episode draws on biographical sources including Ava Gardner's autobiography, published biographies, and archival interviews. All commentary and analysis is my own.🔔 Subscribe to my channel, new episodes drop every Thursday! 🔐 Join our Patreon Community for live Q&A's, more in depth conversations, connection with others who have been in your shoes, and so much more. ❤️‍🔥 Connect with The Scarlet Edit on Social! InstagramYouTubeThreadsFor Collaboration and Business inquiries: 💌 Email: teamnikkicorbett@gmail.com

I never randomly called my boyfriend during our entire relationship. Not because he told me not to—it just became normal. I also never saw him on weekends, never brought him around friends, and kept everything secret. These toxic relationship habits felt completely reasonable when I was in the affair.After it ended, I fell right into a secretive situationship because those patterns had become so familiar. In this episode, I'm sharing how affairs normalize unhealthy relationship behaviors, why power dynamics and age gaps make it worse, and how I finally recognized I deserved more.If you've ever wondered why certain relationship red flags felt normal or why you accepted less than you deserved, this one's for you.🔔 Subscribe to my channel, new episodes drop every Thursday! 🔐 Join our Patreon Community for live Q&A's, more in depth conversations, connection with others who have been in your shoes, and so much more. ❤️‍🔥 Connect with The Scarlet Edit on Social! InstagramYouTube ThreadsFor Collaboration and Business inquiries: 💌 Email: teamnikkicorbett@gmail.com =============================

I'm launching my new signature series, Affairs Through the Ages, and I couldn't think of a better way to kick it off than with arguably the biggest affair of the 20th century: Bill Clinton and Monica Lewinsky.This isn't just a retelling of the scandal. I dive deep into Monica's background and uncover something I never knew - she was already involved with a married man before she ever got to Washington. That first affair with her high school drama teacher shaped everything that came after.I explore how Monica went from a 22-year-old intern to a global punchline, why the power dynamics made this relationship so problematic, and the devastating double standard that left her unable to work for a decade while Clinton remained beloved and powerful.I also look at where Monica is now, because this is what The Scarlet Edit is all about. She reclaimed her story, launched her own podcast, and is using her experience to help others navigate public shaming and trauma.This episode asks the hard questions: Was Monica groomed? Could this affair have been prevented? And why did she pay such a devastating price while he walked away unscathed?New episodes of Affairs Through the Ages drop every Monday, with regular Thursday episodes continuing as always.Topics discussed:Monica Lewinsky's affair with her married high school teacherHow past relationship patterns influenced her relationship with ClintonThe 27-year age gap and power imbalanceLinda Tripp's betrayal and secret recordingsThe media circus and global public shamingClinton's impeachment and acquittalMonica's PTSD, unemployment, and rebuildingHer current work in anti-bullying advocacy and podcastingRate this episode five stars on Apple Podcasts and let me know what you think of this new series!🔔 Subscribe to my channel, new episodes drop every Thursday! 🔐 Join our Patreon Community for live Q&A's, more in depth conversations, connection with others who have been in your shoes, and so much more. https://www.patreon.com/c/thescarletedit/ ❤️‍🔥 Connect with The Scarlet Edit on Social! https://www.instagram.com/thescarlet.edit https://youtube.com/@thescarletedit https://www.threads.com/@thescarlet.edit For Collaboration and Business inquiries: 💌 Email: teamnikkicorbett@gmail.com

What if the things you want in the bedroom aren't as extreme as you think? Certified sex and relationship coach Amanda Dames breaks down the kink spectrum—from hair pulling to rope bondage—and explains why honest communication about sexual desires is so important for relationships.Amanda, a former professional dominatrix with over a decade of experience, discusses the crucial difference between kinks, fetishes, and fantasies. She shares why some people who can't discuss their desires with their spouse may look elsewhere, and more importantly, how to have these vulnerable conversations before that happens.What You'll Learn:The kink spectrum: What actually counts as "kinky"The difference between kinks (nice to have) and fetishes (necessary for orgasm)Why it's hard to share sexual desires with the person who cleans the toiletHow to start conversations about fantasies with your partnerWhy rejection of sexual interests creates deeper woundsThe role of shame in preventing honest sexual communication, and why infidelity can stem from this fearWhat degradation play, power exchange, and impact play actually meanWhy you should never bring up new desires during sexHow aftercare works in kink relationshipsKey Topics Discussed: Sexual communication, kink education, BDSM basics, fetishes vs kinks, power dynamics, consent, relationship shame, how to talk to vanilla partners, core desires, Fifty Shades of Grey's impact, managing sexual incompatibilityAmanda explains why high-powered executives sometimes want to be controlled in the bedroom, how to identify what feeling you're actually seeking through kink, and practical frameworks for opening up vulnerable conversations with your partner. Whether you're curious about exploring kink or just want better sexual communication, this episode provides actionable advice.Perfect for listeners interested in: Sexual wellness, relationship communication, BDSM education, overcoming shame, couples therapy insights, sexual compatibility, fantasy explorationGuest: Amanda Dames | The Kink ConsultantWebsite: amandadames.com🔔 Subscribe to my channel, new episodes drop every Thursday! https://www.youtube.com/@thescarletedit/?sub_confirmation=1 ❤️‍🔥 Connect with The Scarlet Edit on Social! https://www.instagram.com/thescarlet.edit https://youtube.com/@thescarletedit https://www.threads.com/@thescarlet.edit For Collaboration and Business inquiries: 💌 Email: teamnikkicorbett@gmail.com

Should you date a separated man? Is dating during divorce a red flag? How long should someone be single after a long marriage before dating again?In this episode, I share results from a viral question I posted on Threads that received 141 responses from women in their 40s about whether they'd date men who are separated or going through divorce. The overwhelming answer reveals important truths about healing timelines, self-discovery, and what it really takes to be relationship-ready after ending a long-term marriage.What You'll Learn:Why 90% of women over 40 won't date separated men (and what that means for you)The "Runaway Bride test" - why knowing yourself matters more than relationship statusReal responses from women AND men going through separation and divorceWhy living independently after divorce is essential before a new relationshipHow roles in long marriages affect readiness for datingPlus: I announce an exciting new signature series launching soon and share updates on upcoming anonymous guest episodes where everyday people share their infidelity and divorce stories.Perfect for: Women navigating dating after divorce, anyone wondering about dating timelines post-separation, or those seeking relationship advice for dating in your 40s and beyond.🔔 Subscribe to my channel, new episodes drop every Thursday! https://www.youtube.com/@thescarletedit/?sub_confirmation=1 🔐 Join our Patreon Community for live Q&A's, more in depth conversations, connection with others who have been in your shoes, and so much more. https://www.patreon.com/c/thescarletedit/ ❤️‍🔥 Connect with The Scarlet Edit on Social! https://www.instagram.com/thescarlet.edit https://youtube.com/@thescarletedit https://www.threads.com/@thescarlet.edit For Collaboration and Business inquiries: 💌 Email: teamnikkicorbett@gmail.com

In this solo episode, I challenge one of the most commonly repeated relationship mantras: "once a cheater, always a cheater."Drawing from research and my personal experience, I explore why this phrase is not only inaccurate but potentially harmful. I break down the critical difference between serial cheaters and situational affairs, share surprising statistics about infidelity recurrence, and discuss how society weaponizes the "cheater" label—especially against women.In this episode:The data behind who cheats again (and who doesn't)Serial cheaters vs. one-time affairs: key differencesWhy people who've been cheated on are 2x more likely to be cheated on againHow "the other woman" gets unfairly labeledWhy I believe people can change (though it's hard)My personal reflections on being the other woman and growing beyond that identityIf you've ever been affected by infidelity or have strong opinions about cheating, this episode will give you a lot to think about.🔔 Subscribe to my channel, new episodes drop every Thursday!🔐 Join our Patreon Community for live Q&A's, more in depth conversations, connection with others who have been in your shoes, and so much more.❤️‍🔥 Connect with The Scarlet Edit on Social!InstagramYouTubeThreadsFor Collaboration and Business inquiries:💌 Email: teamnikkicorbett@gmail.com

Welcome to the first solo episode of 2026 and Season Two of The Scarlet Edit.In this episode, I’m sharing two important things:The direction of the podcast in 2026, based entirely on listener dataA powerful dating concept you need to understand this year: Fantasy AccessI break down what the data has made crystal clear. You want honest conversations about affairs, divorce, shame, starting over, and emotional healing. Those episodes resonate because they make people feel seen, less alone, and understood. And in 2026, we’re leaning into them even more.I also introduce Fantasy Access, a term that explains why certain dating dynamics feel confusing, emotionally draining, and stuck. Fantasy access shows up when someone maintains emotional proximity to you without showing up in real life. Likes, story views, low-effort texts, vague interest — without dates, commitment, or clarity.In this episode, I explain:What fantasy access is and how it shows up in modern datingWhy fantasy access benefits emotionally unavailable peopleHow social media and online dating amplify emotional confusionWhy attention is not the same as intentionHow to cut off fantasy access without confrontationWhy neutrality and boundaries are the most powerful responseIf you’re single, dating in midlife, navigating divorce, or tired of entertaining emotionally unavailable men, this episode will help you start 2026 with clarity, self-respect, and stronger boundaries.Topics CoveredAffairs, divorce, shame, and starting overEmotional availability in datingDating after divorce in your 40sBoundaries and self-worthFantasy access and unearned emotional proximityWhy being alone is better than being misledListen if you’re ready to stop confusing attention for effort and start choosing yourself.🔔 Subscribe to my channel, new episodes drop every Thursday! https://www.youtube.com/@thescarletedit/?sub_confirmation=1 🔐 Join our Patreon Community for live Q&A's, more in depth conversations, connection with others who have been in your shoes, and so much more. https://www.patreon.com/c/thescarletedit/ ❤️‍🔥 Connect with The Scarlet Edit on Social! https://www.instagram.com/thescarlet.edit https://youtube.com/@thescarletedit https://www.threads.com/@thescarlet.edit Want to be a guest on The Scarlet Edit? Send me a message on PodMatch, here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/thescarletedit For Collaboration and Business inquiries: 💌 Email: teamnikkicorbett@gmail.com

It’s officially a new year, and instead of predictions or resolutions, I wanted to do something different.In this episode, I’m sharing a curated Best of 2025 from The Scarlet Edit. Real conversations. Real insights. The moments that stayed with me long after the mic was turned off.You’ll hear from past guests on topics like:Why so many women stay in relationships long after they stop workingHow limerence, fantasy, and low self-worth keep us stuckWhy sex education fails women and what that costs us laterThe quiet ways shame shows up in relationshipsThe difference between settling and choosing yourselfWhat happens when you stop outsourcing your worthWhy listening to your inner voice changes everythingThis episode is for anyone starting a new year feeling reflective, exhausted, hopeful, hungover, curious, or quietly ready for something more.If you’re looking for conversations that make you feel less alone, more clear, and more grounded in who you are becoming, this is a powerful place to begin.Guest Info. (in order of appearance)Paul Keable, Ashley Madison https://www.ashleymadison.com/Dr. Zoe Shaw, Psychotherapist https://drzoeshaw.com/Lisa Johnson, Been There Got Out https://beentheregotout.com/Leah Marie Mazur, Mindfully Ready https://www.mindfullyready.com/Mike Messeroff, https://www.mikemesseroff.com/Christina Ketchen, https://christinaketchen.com/If this episode resonates, follow the show, leave a five-star review on Apple Podcasts, and share it with someone who might need it right now.🔔 Subscribe to my channel, new episodes drop every Thursday! https://www.youtube.com/@thescarletedit/?sub_confirmation=1🔐 Join our Patreon Community for live Q&A's, more in depth conversations, connection with others who have been in your shoes, and so much more. https://www.patreon.com/c/thescarletedit/❤️‍🔥 Connect with The Scarlet Edit on Social!https://www.instagram.com/thescarlet.edithttps://youtube.com/@thescarletedithttps://www.threads.com/@thescarlet.editFor Collaboration and Business inquiries: 💌 Email: teamnikkicorbett@gmail.com

Merry Christmas, and Happy Hanukkah!This episode of The Scarlet Edit is here for you whenever you need it — today, next week, or months from now.In this short and sweet solo episode, I’m sharing one of my favorite end-of-year traditions: creating an annual playlist to capture where I am in my life. Music has a way of holding memory in a way nothing else can. You might forget moments or seasons, but a song can bring you right back — exactly where you were, exactly how you felt.I talk about how music played a meaningful role in a past relationship, how that evolved into creating yearly playlists, and how those playlists became markers of growth, healing, and new beginnings. From 23 Choosing Me to 24 Do More to 25 New Life, each year left its own soundtrack behind.I also talk about rest — real rest — and why it’s essential for creativity, clarity, and perspective. Whether or not you think of yourself as creative, you are. Sometimes the best ideas come when we stop trying so hard.This episode is an invitation to slow down, reflect, rest, and maybe even start your own soundtrack for the year ahead.Thank you for spending part of your Christmas with me. I’m grateful for you, always.Mentioned in this episode:The Scarlet Edit Listener Breakup Playlist (available on Apple Music and Spotify)🔔 Subscribe to my channel, new episodes drop every Thursday! https://www.youtube.com/@thescarletedit/?sub_confirmation=1 🔐 Join our Patreon Community for live Q&A's, more in depth conversations, connection with others who have been in your shoes, and so much more. https://www.patreon.com/c/thescarletedit/ ❤️‍🔥 Connect with The Scarlet Edit on Social! https://www.instagram.com/thescarlet.edit https://youtube.com/@thescarletedit https://www.threads.com/@thescarlet.edit Want to be a guest on The Scarlet Edit? Send me a message on PodMatch, here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/thescarletedit For Collaboration and Business inquiries: 💌 Email: teamnikkicorbett@gmail.com

In this deeply expansive conversation, I sit down with psychic medium June Edward, whose life was forever changed after a literal death during a medical procedure. June shares what she experienced on the other side, how she chose to come back, and how that moment unlocked her ability to understand energy, vibration, and the soul at a profound level.We explore how energy impacts every relationship in our lives — romantic, familial, and personal — including affairs, divorce, and emotional attachment. June breaks down the difference between fear-based decision-making and soul-based knowing, why love is the highest vibration, and how raising and balancing your energy can completely change the relationships you attract and maintain.June also shares her Five Love Lessons, touching on self-worth, trust and communication, unconditional love, money as energy, and balance. We talk about near-death experiences, spiritual signs, angels, meditation, and how to recognize when the universe is trying to redirect you back onto your path — sometimes gently, sometimes not.This episode is spiritual, grounded, curious, and surprisingly practical — especially if you’re navigating heartbreak, confusion, or a major life transition and searching for meaning beyond logic alone.Topics We CoverWhat actually happens during a near-death experienceChoosing to return to life and how that decision is madeEnergy, vibration, and why love is the highest frequencyWhy affairs and betrayal are not about the betrayed partnerFear-based decisions vs soul-based knowingThe Five Love Lessons and how they shape relationshipsSelf-worth as the foundation of loveMoney as energy and why balance mattersSigns, angels, and spiritual messages in everyday lifeWhy nothing is happening to you — it’s happening for youGuestJune Edward — Psychic Medium, Energy Teacher, Author, and Relationship Mastery Guide✨If this episode resonated, please take a moment to rate and review The Scarlet Edit on Apple Podcasts. It helps more people find these conversations.Join the Edit Out The Negativity Challenge!🔔 Subscribe to my channel, new episodes drop every Thursday!https://www.youtube.com/@thescarletedit/?sub_confirmation=1 🔐 Join our Patreon Community for live Q&A's, more in depth conversations, connection with others who have been in your shoes, and so much more. https://www.patreon.com/c/thescarletedit/❤️‍🔥 Connect with The Scarlet Edit on Social! https://www.instagram.com/thescarlet.edithttps://youtube.com/@thescarletedithttps://www.threads.com/@thescarlet.editWant to be a guest on The Scarlet Edit? Send me a message on PodMatch, here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/thescarleteditFor Collaboration and Business inquiries:💌 Email: teamnikkicorbett@gmail.com

The holidays can feel magical… and a little heartbreaking when you’re building a life on your own. In this episode, I’m talking honestly about single season in December — the joy, the gratitude, the longing, and the moments that hit a little harder this time of year.I share what it’s been like to spend Christmas mornings alone for years, why dating in midlife feels like a sport nobody trained us for, and how those tiny everyday moments (Costco runs, opening a good bottle of wine, watching a new show) can make you miss a person who isn’t in your life yet.I also talk about the women listening to this show — how often you tell me an episode made you feel less alone — and why that matters so much. And we get into one of my favorite reflections: looking at where you were a year ago and actually giving yourself credit for everything you’ve handled, carried, and created.If this season feels a little tender… you’re not the only one.You’re not behind. You’re human. And your story isn’t finished.Come Get to Know Me!• Edit Out the Negativity Challenge• Patreon (Re)written Community• Instagram: @the.scarlet.edit• YouTube: The Scarlet Edit🔔 Subscribe to my channel, new episodes drop every Thursday!https://www.youtube.com/@thescarletedit/?sub_confirmation=1 🔐 Join our Patreon Community for live Q&A's, more in depth conversations, connection with others who have been in your shoes, and so much more. https://www.patreon.com/c/thescarletedit/❤️‍🔥 Connect with The Scarlet Edit on Social! https://www.instagram.com/thescarlet.edithttps://youtube.com/@thescarletedithttps://www.threads.com/@thescarlet.editWant to be a guest on The Scarlet Edit? Send me a message on PodMatch, here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/thescarleteditFor Collaboration and Business inquiries:💌 Email: teamnikkicorbett@gmail.com

Prenuptial agreements get a bad rap — but they shouldn’t.In this week’s episode, I sit down with California family law attorney and “Prenup Queen” Deveney Wells-Gibson to break down what prenups actually are, why they matter, and why women should be having these conversations long before saying “I do.”Deveney has seen the same story play out over and over in divorce court — women blindsided by finances they didn’t know existed, outdated state laws that don’t reflect modern relationships, and the emotional and financial fallout that could have been avoided with one conversation.This episode reframes prenups as a foundation-builder, not a divorce plan, and lays out how women can protect their assets, understand their state’s marital laws, approach money conversations without shame, and decide whether they’re truly aligned with a partner’s financial values.We talk about:Why prenups actually benefit the relationship instead of threatening itHow outdated community property laws leave many women vulnerableWhat women should ask before getting married at any ageWhy financial transparency matters more than romantic optimismThe mindset blocks that keep couples from talking about moneyReal courtroom stories that show exactly what’s at stakeHow Deveney’s Love Meets Wealth framework helps couples build shared goalsWhy measuring your financial progress as a couple mattersIf you’re dating, considering marriage or remarriage, or already engaged, this is the conversation you need before you walk down the aisle.Connect with Deveney:Instagram: @theprenupqueenCourse: LOVE MEETS WEALTHIf you loved this episode, please rate the show 5 stars on Apple Podcasts — it helps more women find these conversations.Join the Live Event - EDIT OUT THE NEGATIVITY CHALLENGEI’m hosting a YouTube live on December 30th at 5pm MST — a collective reset to release the negativity before 2026.SIGN UP HERE🔔 Subscribe to my channel, new episodes drop every Thursday!https://www.youtube.com/@thescarletedit/?sub_confirmation=1 🔐 Join our Patreon Community for live Q&A's, more in depth conversations, connection with others who have been in your shoes, and so much more. https://www.patreon.com/c/thescarletedit/❤️‍🔥 Connect with The Scarlet Edit on Social! https://www.instagram.com/thescarlet.edithttps://youtube.com/@thescarletedithttps://www.threads.com/@thescarlet.editWant to be a guest on The Scarlet Edit? Send me a message on PodMatch, here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/thescarleteditFor Collaboration and Business inquiries:💌 Email: teamnikkicorbett@gmail.com

Why I’m Letting Go of Every Negative Thought This MonthIn this bonus episode, I talk about what triggered today’s mindset shift, why fear keeps showing up when we’re leveling up, and how editing out negativity can completely reset your energy before 2026. I talk about what fear is teaching me right now, why I’m doubling down on my goals for 2026, and how our words shape our energy more than we realize.I share the Q4 challenge I’ve been doing, the real reason I tag Dear Media every day, and why I believe tracking negativity for the next 30 days could change everything.What You'll Hear:how negativity drains your momentum and energywhy acknowledging fear can move your life forwardhow to map out goals with actual action stepswhy tracking negativity for 30 days shifts your subconscioushow to release old energy before the new yearJoin the Live EventI’m hosting a YouTube live on December 30th at 5pm MST — a collective reset to release the negativity before 2026.SIGN UP HEREThis episode is for anyone who’s ready to let go of old stories, clear out the negativity they’ve been carrying, and step into 2026 with stronger energy, clearer goals, and a grounded plan for personal change.🔔 Subscribe to my channel, new episodes drop every Thursday!https://www.youtube.com/@thescarletedit/?sub_confirmation=1 🔐 Join our Patreon Community for live Q&A's, more in depth conversations, connection with others who have been in your shoes, and so much more. https://www.patreon.com/c/thescarletedit/❤️‍🔥 Connect with The Scarlet Edit on Social! https://www.instagram.com/thescarlet.edithttps://youtube.com/@thescarletedithttps://www.threads.com/@thescarlet.editWant to be a guest on The Scarlet Edit? Send me a message on PodMatch, here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/thescarleteditFor Collaboration and Business inquiries:💌 Email: teamnikkicorbett@gmail.com

This week’s solo episode lands on Thanksgiving, and honestly, I’m feeling exceptionally grateful.The Scarlet Edit has now reached listeners in 52 countries, which blows my mind. Australia, Canada… you’re showing up big, and I appreciate it more than you know. In this episode, I break down a recent Vogue opinion piece asking a pretty wild question: “Is having a boyfriend embarrassing now?”As a 47-year-old single woman who has been married, divorced, partnered, and in a very bad situationship… I have thoughts. A lot of them.Together we explore:Why calling relationships an “achievement” is bizarre — and honestly a little sadHow our experiences, environment, wants, and needs shape our perceptions (and why that matters) The pressure women feel to be hyper-independent — and why wanting a boyfriend doesn’t cancel out your strengthThe difference between wanting a partner and needing oneWhy you’re already whole, even if you’re singleHow social media distorts relationship narratives (engagement → wedding → baby… you know the drill) Why joy shouldn’t be hidden just because dating feels impossible right nowAnd what it actually means to welcome someone into a life you’ve built on your own termsBy the end, I circle back to one simple truth:Wanting a relationship doesn’t make you less independent — and being single doesn’t make you less whole.If this episode resonated, you know what to do:→ Tap those five stars on Apple Podcasts→ Come hang with me over on IG: @the.scarlet.edit→ Share this episode with a friend who’s navigating modern loveHappy Thanksgiving. I’m so grateful for you!🔔 Subscribe to my channel, new episodes drop every Thursday!https://www.youtube.com/@thescarletedit/?sub_confirmation=1 🔐 Join our Patreon Community for live Q&A's, more in depth conversations, connection with others who have been in your shoes, and so much more. https://www.patreon.com/c/thescarletedit/❤️‍🔥 Connect with The Scarlet Edit on Social! https://www.instagram.com/thescarlet.edithttps://youtube.com/@thescarletedithttps://www.threads.com/@thescarlet.editWant to be a guest on The Scarlet Edit? Send me a message on PodMatch, here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/thescarleteditFor Collaboration and Business inquiries:💌 Email: teamnikkicorbett@gmail.com

In this episode of The Scarlet Edit, I sit down with Melise — a woman whose words hit you straight in the gut in the best possible way. Her TikTok about watching a family by the pool went viral… but it’s her story behind that moment that matters even more.We talk about the slow unraveling of an eight-year relationship with a covert narcissist, the difference between “earning love” and believing you're worthy of it, and the moment she chose to reclaim her life. This conversation covers abuse, self-worth, the power of feminine energy, and what it looks like to rebuild from the inside out.In this episode, we get into:The poolside moment that woke something up inside herWhy she used the word “earn” — and what she now sees differentlyLife with a covert narcissist and how subtle manipulation worksThe cycle of love bombing, withholding, and self-betrayalThe moment she knew she had to leave (and why it wasn’t clean or instant)How speaking her truth on TikTok became the catalyst for healingReclaiming femininity after years of abuseWhy purpose shows up the moment you choose yourselfHer next chapter: stepping into makeup artistry and never serving from lack againIf you're navigating narcissistic abuse, rebuilding your identity, or rediscovering your feminine power — you’re not alone. You are not defined by your past choices.If you or someone you know is experiencing emotional abuse, call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233 or visit thehotline.org for confidential support.Want more conversations on affairs, toxic relationships, choosing yourself, and rewriting your story?Click follow in the podcast app, new episodes are live every Thursday!Guest Info.🌐 https://www.tiktok.com/@.melsi.eSponsor Info.🌐 https://openvoices.co/🔔 Subscribe to my channel, new episodes drop every Thursday!https://www.youtube.com/@thescarletedit/?sub_confirmation=1 🔐 Join our Patreon Community for live Q&A's, more in depth conversations, connection with others who have been in your shoes, and so much more. https://www.patreon.com/c/thescarletedit/❤️‍🔥 Connect with The Scarlet Edit on Social! https://www.instagram.com/thescarlet.edithttps://youtube.com/@thescarletedithttps://www.threads.com/@thescarlet.editWant to be a guest on The Scarlet Edit? Send me a message on PodMatch, here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/thescarleteditFor Collaboration and Business inquiries:💌 Email: teamnikkicorbett@gmail.com

Welcome to a very unplanned solo episode where I tried to record something polished and instead… well… this happened.Today I’m coming to you from my brand-new studio!! Dog hair, moving chaos, missing flowers, fake plants I keep thinking are dying (??), and all. I upgraded everything: new desk, new lighting, a mic flag that makes me feel like a news anchor, and wallpaper in my exact brand hex code. Yes, I’m that person now.This episode is one long stream of consciousness — part studio tour, part interior design commentary, part “am I actually looking into the camera right now?” tech experiment, part manifestation of Dear Media noticing me. Spoiler: I’m still determined.It’s messy. It’s funny. It’s very me.And honestly? I’m proud of it.Inside this episode I get into:Why peel-and-stick wallpaper is a lieMy continuing relationship with dog hairThe neighbor who accidentally gave me free nightstandsMy belief that I will end up on Dear MediaDesigning a studio that finally feels like homeThe joy of recording with an iPhone + a dreamIf you're loving The Scarlet Edit, here’s how to support the show:• Subscribe on YouTube → https://youtube.com/@thescarletedit• Leave a 5-star review on Apple ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-scarlet-edit-divorce-affairs-situationships/id1825172881• Come find me on Instagram → https://www.instagram.com/thescarlet.edit• And of course, keep listening. You being here means everything.New episode drops Thursday - and yes, it’s a good one.🔔 Subscribe to my channel, new episodes drop every Thursday!https://www.youtube.com/@thescarletedit/?sub_confirmation=1 🔐 Join our Patreon Community for live Q&A's, more in depth conversations, connection with others who have been in your shoes, and so much more. https://www.patreon.com/c/thescarletedit/❤️‍🔥 Connect with The Scarlet Edit on Social! https://www.instagram.com/thescarlet.edithttps://youtube.com/@thescarletedithttps://www.threads.com/@thescarlet.editWant to be a guest on The Scarlet Edit? Send me a message on PodMatch, here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/thescarleteditFor Collaboration and Business inquiries:💌 Email: teamnikkicorbett@gmail.com

In this episode, I’m joined by relationship and self-love coach Christina Ketchen for an honest and nuanced conversation about infidelity; what drives it, what it reveals, and how it changes us.We unpack how core wounds — our earliest needs to be seen, heard, loved, and safe — can lead us to repeat familiar emotional patterns in love. Christina shares her experience coaching hundreds of people through divorce and betrayal, while I reflect on my own story of being the other woman and what it taught me about self-worth.We explore:Why most affairs don’t begin with bad intentionsThe three roles in infidelity and how each carries its own griefHow shame and self-forgiveness intertwineWhat limerence really is — and why it feels so intoxicatingThe difference between setting boundaries and enforcing themWhy we’re sometimes comfortable in sadness and chaosThis episode is about compassion, not judgment, and about reclaiming your self-worth no matter what role you’ve played in love.If this episode resonates:Listen next:I Had to Walk Away: Ending a Long-Term AffairI Had an Affair: How it Feels to Tell the World You Were the Other WomanThe Truth About Affairs: Sexless Marriages, Emotional Validation, and Modern LoveAnd don’t forget to follow, rate, and share The Scarlet Edit, where we face the stories we’re not supposed to talk about, and rewrite them together.🔔 Subscribe to my channel, new episodes drop every Thursday!https://www.youtube.com/@thescarletedit/?sub_confirmation=1 🔐 Join our Patreon Community for live Q&A's, more in depth conversations, connection with others who have been in your shoes, and so much more. https://www.patreon.com/c/thescarletedit/❤️‍🔥 Connect with The Scarlet Edit on Social! https://www.instagram.com/thescarlet.edithttps://youtube.com/@thescarletedithttps://www.threads.com/@thescarlet.editWant to be a guest on The Scarlet Edit? Send me a message on PodMatch, here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/thescarleteditFor Collaboration and Business inquiries:💌 Email: teamnikkicorbett@gmail.com

When Julie Barth’s husband died of pancreatic cancer, she was left with four children and a heart still trying to make sense of loss.In her grief, she met a man who promised comfort, protection, and a fresh start. Instead, he isolated her, manipulated her, and tore down every piece of confidence she had left.In this raw conversation, Julie shares what it’s like to fall into the hands of a narcissist while still grieving — the quiet erosion of self-trust, the slow isolation from family, the shame, the gaslighting, and the moment she finally decided to break free.You’ll hear how emotional and financial abuse often disguise themselves as “love,” why intelligent women can still fall into toxic dynamics, and what it takes to rebuild after being completely broken down. Julie’s story isn’t just about survival — it’s about rebirth.Today, she’s channeling her pain into purpose through her nonprofit work, helping other women facing crisis, caregiving burnout, or economic abuse find real, practical support. Her message is clear: you can lose everything and still come back stronger.If you’ve ever questioned how you ended up in a relationship that dimmed your light — or if you’re finding your way out — this conversation will remind you that you’re not alone, you’re not crazy, and you are absolutely capable of rebuilding your life on your own terms.Julie’s Website & Art for Charity: juliebarthauthor.comNational Domestic Violence Hotline: thehotline.org or call 1-800-799-SAFESupport Services for Financial Abuse: nnedv.org🔔 Subscribe to my channel, new episodes drop every Thursday!https://www.youtube.com/@TheScarletEdit/?sub_confirmation=1 🔐 Join our Patreon Community for live Q&A's, more in depth conversations, connection with others who have been in your shoes, and so much more. https://www.patreon.com/c/thescarletedit/❤️‍🔥 Connect with The Scarlet Edit on Social! https://www.instagram.com/thescarlet.edithttps://youtube.com/@TheScarletEdithttps://www.threads.com/@thescarlet.editWant to be a guest on The Scarlet Edit? Send me a message on PodMatch, here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/thescarleteditFor Collaboration and Business inquiries:💌 Email: teamnikkicorbett@gmail.comMentioned in this episode:Join (Re)written on Patreon!

What if your relationship ran like a successful business?In this week’s episode, I sit down with Dr. Robin Buckley, executive coach, psychologist, and author of Marriage Incorporated: The Boardroom Blueprint to a Lasting Love. We talk about how applying strategic, business-minded frameworks to your marriage or relationship can actually deepen connection, improve communication, and prevent the kind of emotional burnout that leads to divorce.Dr. Robin shares her Ideal Companion Avatar (ICA) concept for intentional dating, her 5-minute daily and weekly check-ins that keep couples connected, and her ABCZ List for rebuilding intimacy. We also get into love languages, how to have uncomfortable conversations early, and why structure doesn’t kill romance — it gives it space to thrive.If you’ve ever wondered how to keep love strong without losing yourself (or your sanity), this conversation is a must-listen.🎧 Topics we cover:How to treat your marriage like a CEO wouldThe power of check-ins and quarterly “relationship retreats”Creating your Ideal Companion Avatar for datingLove languages, intimacy, and communication after divorceWhen therapy helps vs. when coaching works betterGuest Info.🌐 https://drrobinbuckley.com/🔔 Subscribe to my channel, new episodes drop every Thursday!https://www.youtube.com/@thescarletedit/?sub_confirmation=1 🔐 Join our Patreon Community for live Q&A's, more in depth conversations, connection with others who have been in your shoes, and so much more. https://www.patreon.com/c/thescarletedit/❤️‍🔥 Connect with The Scarlet Edit on Social! https://www.instagram.com/thescarlet.edithttps://youtube.com/@thescarletedithttps://www.threads.com/@thescarlet.editWant to be a guest on The Scarlet Edit? Send me a message on PodMatch, here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/thescarleteditFor Collaboration and Business inquiries:💌 Email: teamnikkicorbett@gmail.comMentioned in this episode:Join (Re)written on Patreon!