The Birth Experience with Labor Nurse Mama

In this powerful birth story episode, Trish sits down with a VBAC Lab student, Kelly Coy, a physician assistant and new mama to baby Carter (who makes a few adorable cameo coos!). Kelly opens up about her traumatic first birth - an unnecessary 38-week induction that ended in a 3-day labor, C-section, postpartum hemorrhage, and a grueling 7-day hospital stay - and how that experience lit a fire in her to prepare differently the second time around.Join the Calm Mama Membership:  labornursemama.com/cmsLeave a review and include your Instagram username for a chance to win our monthly raffle!Even as a medical professional herself, Kelly felt unprepared to advocate against a system that pushed induction too soon. Determined to have the redemptive VBAC she knew her body was capable of, she joined The VBAC Lab before she was even pregnant (classic Type-A move!) and soaked up every lesson, hangout, and community conversation.In this episode you’ll hear:Why she chose to decline baby aspirin despite provider pressure (and how that decision played out)How the monthly VBAC Happy Hours gave her the confidence and community she needed to navigate tricky decisionsThe night her water broke on its own at 40+1, a 36+ hour labor, laboring in the tub, and an 8-cm epidural that only halfway workedThe surreal moment she reached down and pulled her son Carter onto her chest herselfThe massive difference in recovery between her C-section and this vaginal birth (yes, even with second-degree tears)Why mindset, processing previous birth trauma, and knowing your “why” are absolutely everything when chasing a VBACKelly’s one-word review of The VBAC Lab?“Empowering.” If you’re a mama dreaming of a redemptive VBAC, this episode will leave you fired up, educated, and ready to fight for the birth you deserve.More from this episode: Join the VBAC LabJoin the Calm Mama MembershipJoin the #1 Birth Course for Confident Birth!Over 15,000 women have used our classes to prepare for birth with the knowledge and tools provided by a Labor Nurse.💻 Self-paced and lifetime access👩🏻‍⚕️ Perfect for all births- hospital, birth center, or home!🎧 Includes birth meditations and prayers. 🌍 Women all over the world have loved our classes. ✅ Start nowJoin The Birthpod ™ course Join The Calm Labor Confident Birth CourseConnect w/ Trish: On InstagramOn YouTubeFor more pregnancy & birth education, subscribe to The Birth Experience on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you listen to podcasts.Produced and Edited by Vaden Podcast Services

Trish tackles one of the hardest parts of the fourth trimester: setting and holding boundaries with the people who love you (and your baby) the most. Fresh off feeling both sides of the boundary conversation in real time with her own daughter, Trish gives you full permission to protect your postpartum peace – no guilt required. Boundaries without consequences are just suggestions. You do NOT have to open the door, answer the phone, or continue the visit if your boundary is ignored. Protecting your peace is protecting your baby – and that makes you an incredible mother. Tune into this episode for ready-to-use boundary scripts to protect your peace. If you’re tired of feeling guilty for wanting space, support, or saying “no,” come join the Calm Mama Society. Real talk, real moms, daily access to Trish and a postpartum doula – all for $19/mo (or free for 30 days when you grab a birth course bundle).Join the Calm Mama Membership:  labornursemama.com/cmsLeave a review and include your Instagram username for a chance to win our monthly raffle!What You’ll Learn:Why boundaries aren’t mean – they’re medicine for your healing body, mental health, and new little familyThe truth about postpartum that makes boundaries non-negotiable (leaking boobs, swollen bits, zero sleep, hormone rollercoaster… you get it)How setting boundaries early prevents resentment later (even if it stings in the moment)Why someone else’s disappointment or pushback is NOT your responsibilityThe perspective shift every grandma, Gigi, mother-in-law, and well-meaning aunt needs to hearHelpful Timestamps:01:28 Understanding the Importance of Postpartum Boundaries03:02 Scripts for Setting Boundaries04:43 Handling Pushback and Guilt06:34 A Grandmother's Perspective09:52 Final Thoughts and Support ResourcesJoin the #1 Birth Course for Confident Birth!Over 15,000 women have used our classes to prepare for birth with the knowledge and tools provided by a Labor Nurse.💻 Self-paced and lifetime access👩🏻‍⚕️ Perfect for all births- hospital, birth center, or home!🎧 Includes birth meditations and prayers. 🌍 Women all over the world have loved our classes. ✅ Start nowJoin The Birthpod ™ course Join The Calm Labor Confident Birth CourseConnect w/ Trish: On InstagramOn YouTubeFor more pregnancy & birth education, subscribe to The Birth Experience on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you listen to podcasts.Produced and Edited by Vaden Podcast Services

Today, we're uncovering a practice in many hospitals that could be robbing your baby of a third of their blood volume right after birth. This scientifically backed episode will arm you with everything you need to advocate for delayed cord clamping - a vital decision that can drastically improve your baby's first year of life. From boosting iron levels and enhancing brain development to improving circulation, discover why waiting just a few extra minutes before clamping the umbilical cord is a game-changer for your baby's health. We also tackle common concerns like C-sections and cord blood banking, ensuring you're well-prepared for any scenario. Don't let anyone else make this decision for you; your baby's health is in your hands. Tune in and walk into your delivery room confident and informed.Join the Calm Mama Membership:  labornursemama.com/cmsLeave a review and include your Instagram username for a chance to win our monthly raffle!Helpful Timestamps:00:58 Understanding the Umbilical Cord02:20 The Importance of Delayed Cord Clamping03:33 Scientific Recommendations and Benefits07:22 Addressing Common Concerns09:26 Empowering Your Birth Choices10:33 Conclusion and Final ThoughtsJoin the #1 Birth Course for Confident Birth!Over 15,000 women have used our classes to prepare for birth with the knowledge and tools provided by a Labor Nurse.💻 Self-paced and lifetime access👩🏻‍⚕️ Perfect for all births- hospital, birth center, or home!🎧 Includes birth meditations and prayers. 🌍 Women all over the world have loved our classes. ✅ Start nowJoin The Birthpod ™ course Join The Calm Labor Confident Birth CourseConnect w/ Trish: On InstagramOn YouTubeFor more pregnancy & birth education, subscribe to The Birth Experience on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you listen to podcasts.Produced and Edited by Vaden Podcast Services

Leaving the house with a newborn feels anything but simple, until it suddenly is. In this raw, real, and incredibly practical episode, Trish pulls back the curtain on the invisible mental and emotional load that hits the second you think about stepping outside with your tiny human.If you’ve ever stood at your front door in leaking boobs, spit-up-covered clothes, wondering “How do people do this?”, this episode is your permission slip, your pep talk, and your step-by-step game plan for leaving your house with a newborn.Join the Calm Mama Membership:  labornursemama.com/cmsLeave a review and include your Instagram username for a chance to win our monthly raffle!What You’ll Learn:Why feeling terrified to leave the house is 100% normalThe hidden grief of losing the version of you who could just “grab keys and go”How to flip the intrusive “What if something goes wrong?” thoughts into “I can handle whatever comes”Trish’s viral diaper-bag formula: 1 diaper per hour you’re out + 2 extras (blowout protection without hauling the entire nursery)The exact minimalist “go bag” checklist that removes 90% of the decision fatigueThe #1 timing hack: always leave right after a full feed for the longest calm window3 firm-but-kind boundary scripts to stop strangers from touching or kissing your baby (plus the body language that makes them actually work)A 30-second grounding technique (hand on chest + 4-6 breathing) to calm the overwhelm Why abandoning a full grocery cart and going home is NOT failing; it’s listening to your intuition (and it’s a win)How to stack tiny wins so postpartum confidence actually starts to feel realAffirmations to Say Out Loud (yes, right now):“I’m allowed to have a life AND a baby.” (say it 3x)“It’s okay if my baby cries.”“I am safe. My baby is safe. I am calm now.”Helpful Timestamps:00:00 The Challenge of Leaving the House with a Newborn01:35 Emotional Load and Invisible Prep Work03:42 Facing the Fear: Building Confidence Step by Step06:21 Practical Tips for Outings with a Newborn09:27 Handling Public Interactions and Boundaries11:17 Grounding Techniques for Overwhelm and AnxietyJoin the #1 Birth Course for Confident Birth!Over 15,000 women have used our classes to prepare for birth with the knowledge and tools provided by a Labor Nurse.💻 Self-paced and lifetime access👩🏻‍⚕️ Perfect for all births- hospital, birth center, or home!🎧 Includes birth meditations and prayers. 🌍 Women all over the world have loved our classes. ✅ Start nowJoin The Birthpod ™ course Join The Calm Labor Confident Birth CourseConnect w/ Trish: On InstagramOn YouTubeFor more pregnancy & birth education, subscribe to The Birth Experience on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you listen to podcasts.Produced and Edited by Vaden Podcast Services

Trish welcomes Dr. Kela Smith, holistic fertility and hormone doctor, and nutritionist. Dr. Kela shares her journey from struggling with unexplained infertility to becoming a mom and a fertility expert. They discuss 'The Hormone Puzzle' - a holistic approach teaching 5 key ways to balance your hormones fast and optimizing fertility through nutrition, detox, stress management, sleep, and functional lab testing. Today Dr. Kela provides actionable insights on improving hormonal health and fertility, making this episode a must-listen for anyone on a fertility journey. Plus, learn about her upcoming projects and where you can find more resources to support your fertility goals.Join the Calm Mama Membership:  labornursemama.com/cmsLeave a review and include your Instagram username for a chance to win our monthly raffle!More from Dr. Kela Smith:Visit the HormonePuzzleSociety.com Connect with her on Instagram: @kela_healthcoach & TikTok: @drkelasmithLearn more about her Solving Infertility Summit at solving-infertility.com Listen to the Hormone PUZZLE PodcastHelpful Timestamps:01:41 Dr. Kela's Fertility Journey03:48 Trish's Fertility Story06:21 Understanding Infertility07:39 Five Ways to Balance Hormones13:44 Managing Stress for Hormonal Balance16:00 Improving Sleep Quality18:46 Functional Lab Testing for Fertility21:10 Seeking Professional Support24:23 Conclusion and ResourcesJoin the #1 Birth Course for Confident Birth!Over 15,000 women have used our classes to prepare for birth with the knowledge and tools provided by a Labor Nurse.💻 Self-paced and lifetime access👩🏻‍⚕️ Perfect for all births- hospital, birth center, or home!🎧 Includes birth meditations and prayers. 🌍 Women all over the world have loved our classes. ✅ Start nowJoin The Birthpod ™ course Join The Calm Labor Confident Birth CourseConnect w/ Trish: On InstagramOn YouTubeFor more pregnancy & birth education, subscribe to The Birth Experience on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you listen to podcasts.Produced and Edited by Vaden Podcast Services

Trish shares her personal experience with severe sleep deprivation and her groundbreaking 'Pump and Cup' method that can help new moms secure five to six hours of uninterrupted sleep. Trish explains the neurological impacts of sleep deprivation, how it affects your brain, and offers practical nighttime protocols to improve your sleep quality. She emphasizes the importance of self-care, recognizing critical warning signs of postpartum depression and anxiety, and seeking support when needed. Tune in for expert advice and compassionate guidance to help you navigate the challenges of sleep deprivation during the postpartum period.Join the Calm Mama Membership:  labornursemama.com/cmsLeave a review and include your Instagram username for a chance to win our monthly raffle!Helpful Timestamps:01:49 Understanding Sleep Deprivation03:57 The Pump and Cup Method08:15 Additional Tips for Better Sleep10:18 Recognizing When to Seek Help11:21 Conclusion: Prioritizing Your Well-beingJoin the #1 Birth Course for Confident Birth!Over 15,000 women have used our classes to prepare for birth with the knowledge and tools provided by a Labor Nurse.💻 Self-paced and lifetime access👩🏻‍⚕️ Perfect for all births- hospital, birth center, or home!🎧 Includes birth meditations and prayers. 🌍 Women all over the world have loved our classes. ✅ Start nowJoin The Birthpod ™ course Join The Calm Labor Confident Birth CourseConnect w/ Trish: On InstagramOn YouTubeFor more pregnancy & birth education, subscribe to The Birth Experience on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you listen to podcasts.Produced and Edited by Vaden Podcast Services

Trish explains why night two after birth often feels overwhelming, reassures new parents that it's normal, and shares practical tips to survive Second Night Syndrome. Drawing from her expertise, Trish emphasizes that your baby isn't broken - they're just adjusting to life outside the womb while helping establish your milk supply.Key TakeawaysWhat is Second Night Syndrome? Around 24-48 hours post-birth, babies become fussy, cry incessantly, root constantly, and refuse to be put down. This is a normal adjustment from the womb's constant comfort to the bright, cold world. It's not hunger or failure - it's biological programming to trigger your milk production.Survival Tips for Night Two:Skin-to-Skin: Strip baby to diaper and yourself to bare chest to regulate their vitals and provide comfort.Feed on Demand: Allow nonstop nursing - it's establishing your supply. Prep for a relaxed evening (watch your fav tv show).Create a Calm Environment: Dim lights, use white noise, and minimize overstimulation.Share the Load: Involve your partner for diapers, burping, and holding to give you breaks.Lower Expectations: Forget schedules - focus on bonding and survival. This phase passes quickly.When to Call Your Provider: Fewer than two wet diapers in 24 hours, lethargy, no interest in feeding, dry lips/mouth, or if your gut says something's wrong.More from this episode:Read the Blog: Second Night Syndrome: Tips For Surviving Baby’s Second NightHelpful Timestamps:01:04 Understanding Second Night Syndrome02:11 Why Your Baby is Crying04:36 Common Mistakes Parents Make06:28 Survival Guide for Second Night Syndrome09:03 When to Call Your Provider10:31 Conclusion and Next StepsJoin the #1 Birth Course for Confident Birth!Over 15,000 women have used our classes to prepare for birth with the knowledge and tools provided by a Labor Nurse.💻 Self-paced and lifetime access👩🏻‍⚕️ Perfect for all births- hospital, birth center, or home!🎧 Includes birth meditations and prayers. 🌍 Women all over the world have loved our classes. ✅ Start nowJoin The Birthpod ™ course Join The Calm Labor Confident Birth CourseConnect w/ Trish: On InstagramOn YouTubeFor more pregnancy & birth education, subscribe to The Birth Experience on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you listen to podcasts.Produced and Edited by Vaden Podcast Services

In this episode of Postpartum Unpacked, Trish gets into the often-overlooked topic of lochia - postpartum bleeding. Trish breaks down what lochia really means, why it happens, and how to navigate it with confidence. Drawing from her experience as a labor nurse, she explains the healing process after birth, shares practical tips for comfort, and emphasizes listening to your body. Whether you're a new mom or preparing for postpartum, this episode reassures you that lochia is a normal part of recovery and a sign of your body's incredible strength.Key Topics DiscussedUnderstanding Lochia: Lochia is your body's natural healing process after the placenta detaches, leaving a large wound (about the size of a dinner plate) in the uterus. It involves shedding blood, tissue, and leftover cells as the uterus shrinks back to its pre-pregnancy size. Trish describes lochia as the visible part of this internal cleanup.The Three Stages of Lochia:Lochia Rubra (Days 1-4, up to 7): Bright red, heavy bleeding similar to a period. Small clots are common, especially after standing or nursing (which releases oxytocin and helps the uterus contract).Lochia Serosa (Days 5-10, up to 2 weeks): Lighter flow turning pinkish-brown. Clots should be rare and very small, indicating the uterus is contracting effectively.Lochia Alba (Week 2 to 6+): Yellowish or whitish discharge with mucus. This signals the final stages of wound closure.Note: Everyone's body is different, so timelines may vary. If bleeding suddenly returns to bright red after lightening, it's a signal to rest - your body is saying you've overdone it.Practical Tips for Managing Lochia and Postpartum Comfort:Underwear and Pads: Embrace hospital mesh panties or disposable incontinence underwear in the early days. Use giant postpartum pads (ask for extras at the hospital).No Internal Products: Skip tampons or menstrual cups until cleared by your provider - your cervix is open, and infection risk is high.Peri Bottle: Fill with warm water to gently clean the area instead of wiping. Pat dry for comfort. Add witch hazel or aloe if approved.Sitz Bath: Use warm water (with Epsom salts or safe herbal mixes) in a portable basin on the toilet. Great for soothing stitches, swelling, hemorrhoids, or general freshness.Witch Hazel Pads (Tucks Pads): Refrigerate and line your pad with them for cooling relief from soreness, swelling, or hemorrhoids.Nutrition and Hydration: Stay hydrated and eat iron-rich foods to rebuild blood volume and support healing. When to Call Your Provider: While lochia varies, watch for red flags and seek help immediately if:You're soaking a pad in an hour or less.Passing clots larger than a golf ball (notify even if smaller ones occur after lying down).Bleeding has a foul smell (beyond normal).You feel dizzy, weak, or short of breath.Persistent bright red bleeding after resting, especially weeks in.Trust your instincts - better to report concerns and prevent issues like hemorrhage or infection.More from this episode:Postpartum Recovery Essentials Amazon ListHelpful Timestamps:00:00 Introduction to Postpartum Bleeding00:53 Understanding Lochia: The Healing Process01:44 Stages of Lochia: What to Expect04:16 Practical Tips for Managing Postpartum Bleeding09:11 When to Call Your...

Trish sits down with Crystal, a physical therapist and c-section recovery expert with 17 years of experience and a professor for over 11 years, to discuss crucial insights into recovering from a C-section. They emphasize the importance of not solely relying on hospital recovery instructions, as proper early care can significantly impact long-term healing and pain management. Crystal shares her personal experience, having had two c-section births,  and professional expertise on common recovery mistakes, the value of early gentle movements, scar care, and strategies to regain core strength and mobility. This conversation is packed with essential tips, support options, and resources for moms navigating their C-section recovery journey.More from Crystal Garnett:Follow her on Instagram @csectionphysioVisit  www.csectionphysio.com Enroll in Crystal’s program using the code “LABORNURSEMAMA’ and get Labor Nurse Mama’s Belly Birth Masterclass included for FREE!Helpful Timestamps:01:35 Crystal's Personal C-Section Experience02:33 The Shocking Lack of Post-Op Care Instructions06:30 The Importance of Gentle Movements and Breathing Exercises08:46 Managing Intra-Abdominal Pressure and Pain11:07 Scar Care and Emotional Healing15:12 The Role of Compression and Support in Recovery18:15 Managing Pain and Mobility21:03 Importance of Support and Assistance22:19 Lifting and Handling Post-Surgery26:02 Scar Massage and Healing Techniques28:54 Silicone Tape and Scar CareJoin the #1 Birth Course for Confident Birth!Over 15,000 women have used our classes to prepare for birth with the knowledge and tools provided by a Labor Nurse.💻 Self-paced and lifetime access👩🏻‍⚕️ Perfect for all births- hospital, birth center, or home!🎧 Includes birth meditations and prayers. 🌍 Women all over the world have loved our classes. ✅ Start nowJoin The Birthpod ™ course Join The Calm Labor Confident Birth CourseConnect w/ Trish: On InstagramOn YouTubeFor more pregnancy & birth education, subscribe to The Birth Experience on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you listen to podcasts.Produced and Edited by Vaden Podcast Services

Trish breaks down the often-overlooked issue of postpartum booty pain experienced by new mothers, sharing her personal journey and the critical lessons learned. From her startling experience with her first baby Ian, where a nurse referred to hemorrhoids as 'a patch of cauliflowers,' to understanding various causes, Trish offers insights into tailbone trauma, hemorrhoids, pelvic floor dysfunction, and other sources of pain. Join the Calm Mama Membership:  labornursemama.com/cmsLeave a review and include your Instagram username for a chance to win our monthly raffle!She provides practical strategies and preventative measures to alleviate this discomfort, emphasizing the importance of proper birth positions, physical therapy, and self-advocacy. With her extensive experience as an online birth educator and 16+ years as a labor and delivery nurse, Trish aims to empower women with the knowledge to reduce postpartum suffering and enjoy a smoother recovery. Tune in to learn how to prevent and manage seven common causes of postpartum booty pain.More from this episode:Grab this Donut CushionSitz Bath for HemorrhoidsStool SoftenerHelpful Timestamps:01:14 Understanding Postpartum Booty Pain05:17 Tailbone Trauma: Causes and Solutions07:59 Hemorrhoids: The Cauliflower Patch13:25 Pelvic Floor Dysfunction: The Hidden Connection16:35 Birth Positions: Preventing Tailbone Pain20:21 Anal Fissures: The Sharp Pain22:36 Muscle Strain from Pushing25:29 Nerve Damage: The Rare Case27:49 Conclusion: Empowering Your RecoveryJoin the #1 Birth Course for Confident Birth!Over 15,000 women have used our classes to prepare for birth with the knowledge and tools provided by a Labor Nurse.💻 Self-paced and lifetime access👩🏻‍⚕️ Perfect for all births- hospital, birth center, or home!🎧 Includes birth meditations and prayers. 🌍 Women all over the world have loved our classes. ✅ Start nowJoin The Birthpod ™ course Join The Calm Labor Confident Birth CourseConnect w/ Trish: On InstagramOn YouTubeFor more pregnancy & birth education, subscribe to The Birth Experience on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you listen to podcasts.Produced and Edited by Vaden Podcast Services

Feeling more energized and less nauseous? It's the perfect time to prepare for a smoother birth and postpartum. Trish shares a practical, no-fluff checklist of 11 actionable steps to take in the second trimester - from mobility exercises to crucial conversations with your provider - that can reduce interventions, ease labor, and boost your confidence. Whether you're a first-time mom or a seasoned parent, these tips are designed for real, busy mamas to help you feel prepared and in control.Your Essential Second Trimester Checklist:#1: Anatomy Scan (Around 20 Weeks): Go beyond the gender reveal - understand checks for placenta location, baby's growth, heart, and fluid levels. Bring questions and follow up with your provider for clarity.#2: Gentle Pelvic and Mobility Routines: Dedicate 5-15 minutes daily to movements like pelvic tilts, squats, cat-cow stretches, and glute bridges to reduce tension, improve baby's positioning, and open your pelvis by up to 30% during labor.#3: Nutrition for Energy and Baby's Development: Focus on high-protein snacks, iron-rich meals, choline from eggs, DHA from supplements, and hydration. Balance cravings while preventing anemia and supporting brain growth.#4: Mindset and Breath Practice: Combat fear and tension with 5 minutes of daily breathing (inhale for 4, exhale for 6) and visualization to activate your parasympathetic nervous system for easier labor.#5: Build Your Birth Team and Define Roles: Educate your partner, family, and friends on your birth goals. #6: Screening Tests and Vaccine Timing: Research and discuss upcoming tests with your provider. Ask about alternatives and risks.#7: Fetal Positioning Moves: Adopt habits like forward-leaning positions, birth ball sitting, side-lying releases, and pelvic rocks to encourage optimal LOA (left occiput anterior) positioning and avoid back labor.#8: Maternity Leave and Logistics: Plan now - talk to your boss, HR, and insurance about leave, work handoffs, and paperwork to reduce third-trimester stress.#9: Baby Gear Essentials vs. Convenience: Prioritize must-haves like a car seat, safe sleep surface, diapers, thermometer, and basic clothes. Borrow or skip gadgets; survey mom friends for realistic advice.#10: Advocacy Scripts and Being Informed: Practice simple phrases like "What are the risks of waiting?" or "No, thank you" to navigate decisions calmly and firmly during labor.#11: The "What If" Conversation: Schedule a detailed chat with your provider about induction thresholds, failure to progress, pain management, VBAC policies, and newborn care like delayed cord clamping. Share this episode with a pregnant friend, and tag @labor.nurse.mama on Instagram with your second-trimester wins. Don't forget to subscribe and leave a review - your feedback helps more mamas prepare for the birth they deserve!More episodes:Second Trimester Pregnancy: What To Expect | 3111 Things to Do During the Second Trimester of Pregnancy | 82Second Trimester Pregnancy Testing | 165a...

Hey mama! Today Trish is diving into the lifesaving 5, 5, 5 rule, the single most overlooked recovery secret that can save you from months of exhaustion and complications during postpartum recovery. Trish breaks down this essential rule: five days in the bed, five days on the bed, and five days near your bed. Learn how to heal faster, protect your pelvic floor, and set realistic expectations for the first few weeks at home. Tune in for actionable tips on planning ahead, communicating with your support system, creating a recovery station, and mentally reframing rest. Join the Calm Mama Membership:  labornursemama.com/cmsLeave a review and include your Instagram username for a chance to win our monthly raffle!Plus, get your permission slip to accept imperfect help and embrace rest as essential to your recovery. Join us for a dose of calm, confidence, and clarity as you embark on your motherhood journey. Don't forget to hit follow or subscribe, and leave a review to tell us what you want unpacked next. Take care of your body, protect your peace, and know that you are doing an incredible job. See you next week, mama!More from this episode:How to Rock Your Postpartum with the 5 5 5 Booty GuideHelpful Timestamps:00:14 The Life-Changing 5, 5, 5 Rule01:24 Understanding Your Body's Postpartum Healing03:20 Practical Tips for Implementing the 5, 5, 5 Rule06:07 Mental and Emotional Aspects of Postpartum Rest07:45 Conclusion: Embrace Rest and RecoveryJoin the #1 Birth Course for Confident Birth!Over 15,000 women have used our classes to prepare for birth with the knowledge and tools provided by a Labor Nurse.💻 Self-paced and lifetime access👩🏻‍⚕️ Perfect for all births- hospital, birth center, or home!🎧 Includes birth meditations and prayers. 🌍 Women all over the world have loved our classes. ✅ Start nowJoin The Birthpod ™ course Join The Calm Labor Confident Birth CourseConnect w/ Trish: On InstagramOn YouTubeFor more pregnancy & birth education, subscribe to The Birth Experience on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you listen to podcasts.Produced and Edited by Vaden Podcast Services

Trish welcomes Sydney Dozier, a local to Nashville, mama of two, and founder of Renaissance Marketing Group to share her birth experiences and the challenges of being a working mom. Sydney gets real about her two wildly different birth stories and the rollercoaster of balancing entrepreneurship with motherhood. From a traumatic first birth to an empowered second one, her journey is packed with lessons for every mama. They dive into the perks and pitfalls of being a business owner while balancing motherhood, and the significance of advocating for oneself in the delivery room. This conversation is rich with insights, personal stories, and practical advice for new and expecting moms looking to strike the right balance.Join the Calm Mama Membership:  labornursemama.com/cmsLeave a review and include your Instagram username for a chance to win our monthly raffle!In this episode, we cover:Sydney’s first birth: A tough induction, unexpected complications, and lessons learned the hard way.Her redemptive second birth: How preparation and advocacy made all the difference.Navigating the chaos of working-mom life with a 4-month-old and a 3-year-old.Tips for setting boundaries when your business and babies demand all of you.Why trusting your gut and owning your birth choices is everything.More from Sydney Dozier:Connect with her on Instagram: @socially_sydney & @renaissancemarketingListen to the Renaissance PodcastVisit renaissancemarketinggroup.com Join the #1 Birth Course for Confident Birth!Over 15,000 women have used our classes to prepare for birth with the knowledge and tools provided by a Labor Nurse.💻 Self-paced and lifetime access👩🏻‍⚕️ Perfect for all births- hospital, birth center, or home!🎧 Includes birth meditations and prayers. 🌍 Women all over the world have loved our classes. ✅ Start nowJoin The Birthpod ™ course Join The Calm Labor Confident Birth CourseConnect w/ Trish: On InstagramOn YouTubeFor more pregnancy & birth education, subscribe to The Birth Experience on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you listen to podcasts.Produced and Edited by Vaden Podcast Services

Hey, mama! Welcome to the Postpartum Unpacked series on The Birth Experience with Labor Nurse Mama. Trish is here to guide you through the wild, beautiful chaos of postpartum. This week, we’re diving into weeks 3 to 6 after birth - a critical window that shapes your recovery, from bleeding to milk supply to your pelvic floor and emotions. Trish is spilling all the tea on what your postpartum nurses wish you knew, including a safety checklist, her go-to breastfeeding routine, a gentle pelvic floor reset, and the one mistake that can derail your healing. Grab a pen, mama, because you’re getting practical steps to feel empowered and supported!Join the Calm Mama Membership:  labornursemama.com/cmsLeave a review and include your Instagram username for a chance to win our monthly raffle!What’s Inside This Episode:Safety First, Always: Red flags you cannot ignore - like soaking a pad every hour, fever over 100.4°F, or severe pain - and when to call your provider.Normal Bleeding: What lochia looks like, why it changes color, and a simple trick to reduce bleeding and cramping.Breastfeeding Hacks: My nurse-approved, mama-proven routine to regulate milk supply, tackle engorgement, and know when to call a lactation consultant (links below!).Pelvic Floor Love: A gentle reset you can start now, plus why seeing a pelvic floor specialist is a game-changer for preventing leaks, pain, or prolapse.The Emotional Rollercoaster: How to spot baby blues vs. postpartum depression, and why asking for help is your superpower (plus a nightly ritual to rewire your brain for wins).The Big Mistake: Rushing to “bounce back” too fast - why it leads to setbacks and how to advocate for a slow, safe recovery.Scripts for Advocacy: Exact phrases to use with your provider to get the care you deserve.More resources from this episode:Grab the Postpartum Recovery Roadmap for just $22 (normally $197!) at learn.laborersemama.com/postpartum for week-by-week guidance, safety checklists, and troubleshooting tips.Connect with a lactation consultant (virtual visits available!): TheLatchLink.com Grab these Silverettes we love.Episodes on Pelvic Floor Health:Why Pelvic Floor Health Is Important to Your Pregnancy | 32A Holistic Approach to Pelvic Floor Wellness – with Jenn Lormand | 88Relieving Pregnancy & Postpartum Pain with Pelvic Floor Momma | 106Pelvic Power: Strengthening Your Core Through Pregnancy and Postpartum with Dr. Emily Brownlee | 145Helpful Timestamps:00:52...

Trish guides you through practical, nurse-tested movements inspired by Spinning Babies to help you progress through labor naturally. Learn essential techniques like the jiggle, forward-leaning inversion, sideline release, lateral jiggle, shake the apples, and a tiny sacral nudge. Trish offers step-by-step instructions, partner cues, and advice on when to seek medical guidance. This episode empowers you with knowledge and tools to stay calm and proactive during labor, helping you avoid unnecessary interventions and achieve a more positive birth experience. Practice these moves with your support person and gain confidence for your big day!As always, if you have any high risk diagnoses or questions get confirmation from your provider first.Join the Calm Mama Membership:  labornursemama.com/cmsLeave a review and include your Instagram username for a chance to win our monthly raffle!Helpful Timestamps:01:26 Understanding Labor Physiology03:17 Techniques to Assist Labor07:07 Combining Techniques for Effective Labor09:58 Additional Tips and Encouragement12:22 Conclusion and Further ResourcesJoin the #1 Birth Course for Confident Birth!Over 15,000 women have used our classes to prepare for birth with the knowledge and tools provided by a Labor Nurse.💻 Self-paced and lifetime access👩🏻‍⚕️ Perfect for all births- hospital, birth center, or home!🎧 Includes birth meditations and prayers. 🌍 Women all over the world have loved our classes. ✅ Start nowJoin The Birthpod ™ course Join The Calm Labor Confident Birth CourseConnect w/ Trish: On InstagramOn YouTubeFor more pregnancy & birth education, subscribe to The Birth Experience on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you listen to podcasts.Produced and Edited by Vaden Podcast Services

In this episode of Postpartum Unpacked, Trish unpacks  the inadequacies of traditional postpartum care. Drawing on her experience as a labor and delivery nurse and a mom of seven, Trish discusses the outdated six-week postpartum visit and highlights the American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists' new guidelines advocating for multiple checkups within the first 12 weeks post-birth. She provides essential tips on advocating for better care, recognizing postpartum health issues, and stresses the importance of comprehensive, ongoing support for new mothers. Tune in to learn what you truly deserve for a healthier, happier postpartum journey.More from this episode:Grab the Postpartum Recovery RoadmapJoin the Calm Mama Membership:  labornursemama.com/cmsLeave a review and include your Instagram username for a chance to win our monthly raffle!Helpful Timestamps:00:00 Welcome to Postpartum Unpacked00:53 The Reality of Postpartum Checkups02:20 Updated ACOG Guidelines for Postpartum Care03:53 Common Issues and Missed Diagnoses04:51 What Should Happen in Postpartum Checkups10:36 How to Advocate for Your Postpartum Care13:48 Resources and Support for New Moms14:46 Final Thoughts and EncouragementJoin the #1 Birth Course for Confident Birth!Over 15,000 women have used our classes to prepare for birth with the knowledge and tools provided by a Labor Nurse.💻 Self-paced and lifetime access👩🏻‍⚕️ Perfect for all births- hospital, birth center, or home!🎧 Includes birth meditations and prayers. 🌍 Women all over the world have loved our classes. ✅ Start nowJoin The Birthpod ™ course Join The Calm Labor Confident Birth CourseConnect w/ Trish: On InstagramOn YouTubeFor more pregnancy & birth education, subscribe to The Birth Experience on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you listen to podcasts.Produced and Edited by Vaden Podcast Services

In this heartfelt episode, Trish sits down with Jennifer Senn, a baby loss coach who has transformed her own tragic loss into a mission of support and healing. Jennifer shares the deeply personal story of losing her twins at 32 weeks and discusses how she now helps other parents navigate their own journeys through grief. This episode is a must-listen for anyone dealing with loss, supporting someone who is, or working in maternal health. With real tools, profound understanding, and the offering of genuine hope, this conversation promises to bring comfort and practical support. Trigger warning, mamas: this episode dives deep into the complexities of grief, loss, and healing. Take care of yourself as you listen, and know that you are not alone. Love you all so much!Join the Calm Mama Membership:  labornursemama.com/cmsLeave a review and include your Instagram username for a chance to win our monthly raffle!More from Jennifer Senn:Visit JenniferSenn.com Connect with her on Instagram: @navigatingbabylossGrab her Free E-Book: 10 Answers to the Questions No One Prepares You ForHelpful Timestamps:00:33 Trigger Warning: Baby Loss01:59 Jennifer's Story of Loss03:03 Navigating Grief and Support12:25 The Role of Medical Staff17:52 Personal Journey and Helping Others25:25 Turning Point, Finding Purpose, and Seeking Help28:23 Supporting Parents Through Grief32:53 Pregnancy After Loss34:16 Coping with Fear and Anxiety41:23 Insensitive Comments and Misunderstandings48:52 Final Thoughts and ResourcesJoin the #1 Birth Course for Confident Birth!Over 15,000 women have used our classes to prepare for birth with the knowledge and tools provided by a Labor Nurse.💻 Self-paced and lifetime access👩🏻‍⚕️ Perfect for all births- hospital, birth center, or home!🎧 Includes birth meditations and prayers. 🌍 Women all over the world have loved our classes. ✅ Start nowJoin The Birthpod ™ course Join The Calm Labor Confident Birth CourseConnect w/ Trish: On InstagramOn YouTubeFor more pregnancy & birth education, subscribe to The Birth Experience on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you listen to podcasts.Produced and Edited by Vaden Podcast Services

Hey Mama! Welcome to the Postpartum Unpacked series on The Birth Experience with Labor Nurse Mama! Trish guides you through the wild, beautiful, and raw first two weeks after birth. This episode is packed with practical tips to help you heal, care for your newborn, and navigate the emotional rollercoaster of postpartum. From managing lochia to surviving cluster feeding and spotting red flags, Trish has got you covered with real talk and nurse-approved strategies. Let’s break down what’s normal, what’s urgent, and the one move that can make all the difference.What’s Inside This Episode:Healing Your Body: Tips for vaginal birth recovery (ice packs, witch hazel pads, sitz baths) and C-section care (pillow splinting, gentle walks). Plus, how to tackle the devil - hemorrhoids - with hydration, fiber, and stool softeners.Postpartum Bleeding (Lochia): What’s normal (color progression from red to yellow) and red flags (soaking a pad in under an hour, large clots, foul smell).Newborn Care & Breastfeeding: Understanding day two’s “second night syndrome,” cluster feeding, and the 5-5-5 rule for bonding and rest. Plus, a painless latch checklist and when to call a lactation consultant.Partner Support: Exact phrases for partners to ask for help in the hospital (e.g., “Show me how to swaddle”) and household survival moves like limiting visitors and setting up a recovery station.Three Red Flags: When to call your provider - heavy bleeding, fever over 100.4°F, or intrusive thoughts - and the exact script to get triaged fast.Practical Hacks: Keep a feed/diaper log, accept help for chores, and use a donut pillow or folded towel for comfort.Script for getting into triage postpartum if you’re concerned: “Hi, I am [Name] and I delivered on [date] and I’m experiencing [insert symptoms, clearly]. I’m concerned and would like to be assessed today.”Say the symptom clearly and firm. Helpful Timestamps:01:32 Understanding Week Zero to Two02:24 Postpartum Body Care Tips04:20 Dealing with Hemorrhoids06:41 Breastfeeding Insights and Tips12:50 Survival Tips for New Moms14:24 Recognizing Red Flags and Getting Help17:19 Final Thoughts and EncouragementJoin the #1 Birth Course for Confident Birth!Over 15,000 women have used our classes to prepare for birth with the knowledge and tools provided by a Labor Nurse.💻 Self-paced and lifetime access👩🏻‍⚕️ Perfect for all births- hospital, birth center, or home!🎧 Includes birth meditations and prayers. 🌍 Women all over the world have loved our classes. ✅ Start nowJoin The Birthpod ™ course Join The Calm Labor Confident Birth CourseConnect w/ Trish: On InstagramOn YouTubeFor more pregnancy & birth education, subscribe to The Birth Experience on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you listen to podcasts.Produced and Edited by Vaden Podcast Services

Trish breaks down the invisible factor that stalls labor: fear. Trish explains how fear floods the body with adrenaline, which in turn, shuts down oxytocin, the hormone vital for labor to progress. She identifies three key fear triggers, shares a 60-second routine to calm the body, and provides a powerful phrase to use with partners or providers to regain control. Drawing from her 16 years as a high-risk labor nurse and personal experience as a mom of seven, Trish offers practical tips to manage fear, set a calming environment, and make informed decisions during labor. Learn the importance of the 'down and out' breathing technique, the impact of your birth environment, and the significance of pausing to understand medical recommendations. This episode empowers you to transform fear into confidence and navigate your labor journey with clarity and calmness.Join the Calm Mama Membership:  labornursemama.com/cmsLeave a review and include your Instagram username for a chance to win our monthly raffle!More from this episode:Grab the Labor Calm Routine SheetHelpful Timestamps:01:33 Understanding the Role of Hormones in Labor03:05 Fear Trigger 1: The Fear of Pain06:26 Fear Trigger 2: Environmental Tension10:02 Fear Trigger 3: Losing Control12:35 The 60-Second Calm Sequence15:45 Practical Tips and Final ThoughtsJoin the #1 Birth Course for Confident Birth!Over 15,000 women have used our classes to prepare for birth with the knowledge and tools provided by a Labor Nurse.💻 Self-paced and lifetime access👩🏻‍⚕️ Perfect for all births- hospital, birth center, or home!🎧 Includes birth meditations and prayers. 🌍 Women all over the world have loved our classes. ✅ Start nowJoin The Birthpod ™ course Join The Calm Labor Confident Birth CourseConnect w/ Trish: On InstagramOn YouTubeFor more pregnancy & birth education, subscribe to The Birth Experience on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you listen to podcasts.Produced and Edited by Vaden Podcast Services

Trish walks you through the crucial first moments after your baby's birth. Learn why the first few minutes and hours are sacred, how to ensure proper skin-to-skin contact, the importance of delayed cord clamping, and the role of your partner during this pivotal time. Trish shares practical advice, empowering you to make informed, confident decisions to create a calm and memorable transition from womb to the world. Tune in to become the anchor for your baby and protect these precious early moments with your newborn!Join the Calm Mama Membership:  labornursemama.com/cmsLeave a review and include your Instagram username for a chance to win our monthly raffle!More from this episode:Listen to Third Stage of Labor: What You Need to Know | 37Read The Golden Hour after Birth and Why You Should Protect it at all CostsHelpful Timestamps:00:57 The Sacred First Moments After Birth03:03 Understanding Your Baby's Transition04:26 The Importance of Skin-to-Skin Contact07:58 Delayed Cord Clamping and Routine Procedures12:32 Partner's Role and NICU Considerations14:01 Decisions on Baby Medications17:37 Final Thoughts and EncouragementJoin the #1 Birth Course for Confident Birth!Over 15,000 women have used our classes to prepare for birth with the knowledge and tools provided by a Labor Nurse.💻 Self-paced and lifetime access👩🏻‍⚕️ Perfect for all births- hospital, birth center, or home!🎧 Includes birth meditations and prayers. 🌍 Women all over the world have loved our classes. ✅ Start nowJoin The Birthpod ™ course Join The Calm Labor Confident Birth CourseConnect w/ Trish: On InstagramOn YouTubeFor more pregnancy & birth education, subscribe to The Birth Experience on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you listen to podcasts.Produced and Edited by Vaden Podcast Services