These Can't Be My Kids

Season 3 starts right where we are—no script, no perfect answers, just real conversation.In this episode, we’re talking through what it actually feels like when parenting shifts. The roles change, the dynamics change… and sometimes you’re left figuring it out in real time.This isn’t a how-to.It’s an honest conversation about the moments that don’t get talked about enough—the in-between, the uncomfortable, and the parts that make you pause and think, “Okay… now what?”If you’ve ever had to adjust, rethink, or just sit with the reality of parenting in a different stage—this one will feel familiar.

Motherhood doesn’t end when your kids turn 18—it just changes jobs. In this episode, Karen and Leila unpack the invisible weight moms keep carrying long after their children are grown. From being the “emotional ATM” and late-night crisis contact to managing everyone’s appointments, birthdays, and breakdowns, the mental load is real.Karen shares what it’s like to carry it all as a single mom with adult kids still at home, while Leila offers the married perspective—where even with a helpful husband, the responsibility still seems to land on mom’s plate. Together, they laugh, vent, and drop truth about boundaries, burnout, and rediscovering who you are outside of motherhood.Because motherhood is forever—but the overwhelm doesn’t have to be.

🍗✨ What would you do if you cut open your chicken nugget and found… NOTHING?Amanda Reed did just that — and her viral call-out to Walmart had the internet screaming. We’re breaking down the saga of the hollow nugget, the audacity of it all, and why sometimes you’ve got to laugh (before you cry over your snack).🎧 Tap in to this week’s It’s the Audacity for Me segment — because breading without chicken is a whole new level of disrespect.#ItsTheAudacityForMe #PodcastClip #ChickenNuggetGate #ViralMoments #Audacity

When it comes to dating, parents spot the warning signs long before their grown kids do. From disrespectful communication and financial messes to couch-surfing partners and drama-filled “situationships,” the red flags wave loud and clear—but love can make our kids blind to them.In this episode, Leila and Karen share personal stories, break down the most common red flags in adult children’s relationships, and talk about how parents can respond without pushing their kids further into bad choices.👉 Takeaways:Red flags are patterns, not one-time mistakes.Parents can guide, not control—ask questions instead of giving lectures.“A piece of a person” isn’t better than noone at all.Your role isn’t to eliminate pain, but to prepare your child to handle it.Because if love is blind, then parents have the best view of the warning signs.

When your neighbor’s tree is two houses away but somehow becomes your full-time problem… the audacity writes itself. In this episode of It’s the Audacity for Me, Karen and Leila dive into the hilarious story of a woman who tried to get her neighbor’s tree cut down with notes, city complaints, and even a threat to run for mayor. From petty neighbor drama to over-the-top entitlement, we break down the wildest parts of this viral tale with humor, sibling banter, and a reminder that audacity doesn’t just come from kids.

In this brutally honest and hilariously relatable episode of These Can’t Be My Kids, Leila and Karen dive into the chaos of parenting adult children—where the messes aren’t diapers, they’re emotional breakdowns, surprise Venmo requests, and existential career pivots. From financial fiascos to relationship drama and identity reinventions, “Shit Happens” explores the unpredictable reality of guiding grown kids through life while keeping your own sanity intact. If you’ve ever asked, “Did I really raise this person?”—this episode is for you. Tune in for laughs, real talk, and a reminder that you’re not alone in the madness.

This week on “It’s the Audacity for Me,” Leila and Karen unpack the jaw-dropping case of a Wisconsin teen who allegedly killed his parents, lived with their bodies for weeks, and then plotted to assassinate the U.S. president. This story has audacity stacked on audacity.

From tears in Colorado to boundaries in Mansfield, this is a soul-stirring call to every momma still trying to rescue grown folks while losing yourself. If your cape is dragging, this episode will help you fold it up, breathe deep, and reclaim your peace. DM us your “cape moment” and tag #HeavyCape and #TheseCantBeMyKids.

...because the cyclist wasn’t the problem. This week, Karen and Leila break down a viral clip that had us clutching our steering wheels. A woman in traffic decides the real villain of her day… is a cyclist legally using the lane. The biker’s chill. But sis in the car? She’s got full-blown road rage and zero understanding of traffic law. Watch the clip. Stay for the commentary.

Kamoni booked a one-way ticket to Colombia with nothing but his checked bag and his last paycheck, and a dream he clearly borrowed from someone else. No itinerary. No Spanish. No travel insurance. Just vibes and a passport after getting fired Mid-Week.He landed in Bogotá like he was starring in his own travel documentary—except there was no crew, no budget, and no plan. Within two weeks, he’d spent all his money on street food, Columbian food , and a guided  Pablo Escobar tour ”that may  or may not have been a real good idea for him. Listen as Karen describes Kamoni's Columbian Chaos and how parents have to learn to mind our business and let these adult kids figure it out or we will forever be saying These Can't Be My Kids!

You gave them the résumé, the references, and the ride to work. They gave you tardiness, attitude, and a termination notice with your last name on it. In this brutally honest and hilariously painful episode, Leila unpacks what happens when your adult kids fumble the professional opportunities you built from scratch. From missed shifts to missed signals, it’s a masterclass in entitlement and the fine line between parenting and HR.Expect laughter, a few deep sighs, and the kind of storytelling only a mother with a mic can deliver.#TheseCantBeMyKids #ParentingAdultChildren #HRNightmares #WorkplaceAudacity #MomBossChronicles #RaisedThemRight #ClockedOutWrong

Ever been blindsided by a Performance Improvement Plan that felt more like a corporate breakup letter than a growth opportunity? In this episode, Leila and Karen dive headfirst into the absurdity of being placed on a PIP—especially when the only thing that needed improving was management’s self-awareness.Whether you’re currently on a PIP, survived one, or just love a good workplace drama, this episode is your cathartic laugh and empowering pep talk rolled into one.

In this episode, Karen and Leila connect with another mom of adult children and dive deep into the hilarious and horrifying aspects of parenting. #TheseCantBeMyKids #fyp #Podcast #ParentingPodcast

You ever meet someone and barely finish learning their name before you're hit with an invite that screams, “Pack your bags, empty your wallet, and pretend we’re besties”? Yeah, us too. This episode spills all the tea on a bachelorette invite that had us blinking in disbelief—complete with group chat drama, five-star expectations, and a price tag that said “ma'am, be serious.” We hadn’t even RSVPed and already felt like escapees from a reality show. Buckle up because this audacious tale is about to get real… and ridiculous.#TheseCantBeMyKids #Podcast #fyp #Texas #Parenting #ItsTheAudacityForMe #ParentingPodcast #Parenthood #PodcastLife 

This week, we’re diving into listener Tasha’s story, and whew… the audacity was on clearance because everybody had some. From questionable decisions to moments that made us hit pause and squint, Leila and Karen are breaking down every “wait, WHAT?!” scene. Tune in, laugh with us, and see if you caught the same jaw-dropping audacity—or if a whole new one jumped out and grabbed you by the edges.

Disclaimer: Hey fam! Just a heads-up — sometimes we’re out here filming in the wild (literally or figuratively), and that means the audio might sound like we’re underwater or the video might look like it was shot on a potato. 😅 But listen — perfection isn’t the goal, consistency is! We’re committed to bringing y’all content no matter where we are, even if it means battling bad Wi-Fi, rogue background noise, or a camera that refuses to focus. Thanks for sticking with us through the chaos — y’all are the real MVPs! 💪❤️

In this segment of It’s the Audacity for Me, Karen shares how her peaceful moment was hijacked by her two grown sons—900 miles away—who decided to meet up in the park to settle a mystery beef with fists. She still doesn’t know what they were fighting about, but the drama? The audacity? This is parenting in real life. If your kids have ever acted up while you’re just trying to survive, this one’s for you. #TheseCantBeMyKids #TriggeredTiredTryingAnyway #ParentingUnfiltered #TheAudacity

Boring? Ugly couch? Green shirt jokes? Oh, we heard it all. And instead of clapping back—we hit record. In this Season Two opener of These Can’t Be My Kids, we’re embracing the critiques and flipping them into storytelling gold. From the infamous couch that holds more secrets than your group chat, to Karen’s iconic green shirt (yes, it’s still green but I'll switch it up), and Leila’s newfound title as HR Whisperer—we’re setting the tone for a season where the chaos is personal, the laughs are intentional, and the realness is unmatched. Tune in, take a seat (even if it’s ugly), and witness the glow-up that shade couldn’t block. Don't forget to continue with the comments. Share and subscribe!

Feeling drained, frustrated, and questioning every parenting decision you’ve ever made? You’re not alone. Grab your favorite drink and join Karen and Leila as they unpack the chaos of parenting adult children—sharing firsthand experiences with the stress, the drama, and those jaw-dropping moments that make us say, These Can't Be My Kids! How do we set boundaries when our children repeatedly make poor life choices? Are there mothers out there who have finally said, Enough is enough and cut ties? Fathers, you’ve been known to draw the line with your sons—but could you do the same for your daughters? Let’s talk about the tough decisions, the messy emotions, and the reality of protecting our peace.

In this episode of These Can't Be My Kids, we tackle the age-old struggle of parental favoritism—or at least the perception of it. When adult children are convinced, you coddle one, enable another, and outright neglect the third, how do parents keep the peace? Is fairness even possible, or is it just another myth of parenthood? Join us as we dig into the guilt, the accusations, and the exhausting search for balance in a family where nobody seems to agree on what's "fair."