Confident Christian Influence | Leadership, Intentional, Clarity, God’s Plan, Time Management

As leaders, it’s tempting to rush into what’s next without pausing to reflect on what God has already done. But strong leadership requires wisdom — and wisdom grows through intentional reflection. In this episode, we look back on 2025 through the lens of leadership, personal growth, and spiritual discernment. You’ll learn how to evaluate your year without guilt, pressure, or comparison — and how to step forward with clarity and confidence. We walk through five questions every strong leader should ask: What were my biggest wins? What drained my energy? What do I want to repeat? What should I let go of? What are my priorities? This episode will help you slow down, gain wisdom, and align your next steps with God’s plan — before you set goals or make new commitments. If you’re ready to lead with intention, clarity, and peace as you move forward, this episode is for you. Pam is currently working on a program that will help you become the Leader we all know you can become. Be sure to visit pampegram.com/access and sign up. Watch for the email to confirm your subscription. You will receive access to some free resources and stay connected for future updates. Resources & Links: Want to take the Leadership Quiz? Click here. Join the Private Group for more Encouragement: [link] L.E.A.D. booklet [link] Truth Journal [link] 1:1 Coaching Session ($97) [link] Learn more about Pam at pampegram.com          

In today’s episode, we’re talking about how personal growth transforms your clarity, confidence, and leadership capacity. If you feel called to more — to rise up, lead like Jesus, and make an intentional impact — this conversation will show you why your growth matters and how to take your next step. You’ll learn: Why strong leaders commit to personal growth How personal growth renews your mind (Romans 12:2) How clarity leads to better time management and stronger influence How confidence grows as you practice new thought patterns How your leadership capacity expands as you grow Four practical ways to start growing today How to lead more intentionally and step boldly into God’s plan for your life If you’re ready for clarity, confidence, and spiritual growth that strengthens your leadership, this episode is for you.     Pam is currently working on a program that will help you become the Leader we all know you can become. Be sure to visit pampegram.com/access and sign up. Watch for the email to confirm your subscription. You will receive access to some free resources and stay connected for future updates. Resources & Links: Want to take the Leadership Quiz? Click here. Join the Private Group for more Encouragement: [link] L.E.A.D. booklet [link] Truth Journal [link] 1:1 Coaching Session ($97) [link] Learn more about Pam at pampegram.com        

Far too many Christian women were spoken to in ways that planted lies about who they are and what they’re capable of. Maybe someone told you, “You’re too difficult,” “You’re the problem,” or “You made me act that way.” These words derail clarity, weaken confidence, and distract you from God’s plan for your life and leadership. In this episode, Pam helps you break free from the lies you believed and step into intentional, God-centered leadership so you can rise up, live called to more, and lead like Jesus with strength, focus, and courage.   In This Episode, You Will Learn: 1. You Are Not What Was Spoken Over You — You Are Who God Says You Are. Unhealthy people project their brokenness, but strong leaders learn to filter lies through truth. Discover how to gain clarity, protect your focus, and build a leadership foundation rooted in God’s Word. 2. Someone Else’s Broken Behavior Does NOT Determine Your Worth. You were created with purpose and intention. When you understand your God-given value, you lead with confidence, manage your time with intention, and stop shrinking back from the impact God is calling you to make. 3. Your Past Does Not Limit Your Leadership Future. God has called you to more. Learn how to rise up, renew your mindset, reject limiting beliefs, and walk boldly into God’s plan with intentionality and spiritual clarity. Why This Matters for Leadership & Time Management: Lies create confusion… but truth creates clarity. Lies drain energy… but truth fuels intentional action. Lies keep you stuck… but truth empowers you to lead like Jesus and step into the life you were created for. If you want to grow as a leader, strengthen your influence, and pursue God’s plan with confidence, this episode will equip you with biblical truth to silence the lies and lead with purpose.   Pam is currently working on a program that will help you become the Leader we all know you can become. Be sure to visit pampegram.com/access and sign up. Watch for the email to confirm your subscription. You will receive access to some free resources and stay connected for future updates. Resources & Links: Want to take the Leadership Quiz? Click here. Join the Private Group for more Encouragement: [link] L.E.A.D. booklet [link] Truth Journal [link] 1:1 Coaching Session ($97) [link] Learn more about Pam at pampegram.com        

Does connecting with others come easy, or is it hard for you?  Did you know that if you grow your ability to connect, you will grow your leadership capacity? Leaders must be able to connect or they will stunt the growth of their leadership potential. If connecting is hard for you - it can get easier. Over time, it came even become natural for you to boost your ability to form a connection. Pam will share 5 tips to help you decrease the awkwardness, form a connection quickly, and fulfill God's plan for you. None of us are called to isolate, we are called to do life in community and that requires connection. As we learn to connect, we will grow relationships. As we grow relationships, we will have the opportunity to make an impact in the lives of others. Connection is required to establish trust and respect. This opens up the door for us to have influence in the lives of those around us.  Be sure to join the private FB page and connect with Pam. Pam is currently working on a program that will help you become the Leader we all know you can become. Be sure to visit pampegram.com/access and sign up. Watch for the email to confirm your subscription. You will receive access to some free resources and stay connected for future updates. Resources & Links: Want to take the Leadership Quiz? Click here. Join the Private Group for more Encouragement: [link] L.E.A.D. booklet [link] Truth Journal [link] 1:1 Coaching Session ($97) [link] Learn more about Pam at pampegram.com        

Confidence is not out of reach. You can be confident as you lead others. Matter of fact, you can walk in Confident Christian Influence everyday and choose to be intentional about making an impact in the lives of others. In this episode Pam talks about 3 decisions you can make to boost your confidence quickly. These decisions are not difficult, but it is very important that you decide to do these 3 things. You will be so glad you did. Pam has also added a new resource - the Identity Sheet - you will want to grab. Hop over to her Resource Library - click here - type in your email and then have instant access to some very helpful resources. Visit the Marketplace on Pam's website to order her book and her Truth Journal. Pam's clients say the Truth Journal is a game changer. And it makes a great gift and stocking stuffer. Grab yours here. Oh, and here is the link to Pam's favorite Bible.  Okay friend - remember you have worth and value, God has a plan and a purpose for you, and you have gifts God wants to use. Today is a good day to decide you will no longer compare yourself to others, be intimidated, and no longer be confined by your comfort zone. Be a confident leader who leads others well and makes a difference in their life.   Pam is currently working on a program that will help you become the Leader we all know you can become. Be sure to visit pampegram.com/access and sign up. Watch for the email to confirm your subscription. You will receive access to some free resources and stay connected for future updates. Resources & Links: Want to take the Leadership Quiz? Click here. Join the Private Group for more Encouragement: [link] L.E.A.D. booklet [link] Truth Journal [link] 1:1 Coaching Session ($97) [link] Learn more about Pam at pampegram.com      

In this episode of Confident Christian Influence, Pam shares a practical, faith-forward guide to dealing with difficult people using the L.E.A.D. framework and the example of Jesus’ authority under control. You’ll learn how to lead like Jesus when tensions rise, protect your peace with healthy boundaries, and respond with clarity and self-control instead of reacting from frustration. We walk through L.E.A.D. — Lean In, Elevate Perspective, Accept Responsibility, Do the Right Things for the Right Reasons—to help you lean into God's word and instruction, consider the opportunity you have to impact the difficult persons and others, to respond appropriately, and do what God would have you to do. You’ll practice calm authority as your leadership strengthens relationships, reduces conflict, and builds trust at work, in ministry, and at home. Pam covers the worth and value we all have, Biblical principles that must be upheld, and how to set healthy boundaries and detach from the drama while staying kind. If you’re ready to transform difficult interactions into opportunities for clarity, confidence, and influence, this episode gives you the tools to lead strong with grace and truth. Pam is currently working on a program that will help you become the Leader we all know you can become. Be sure to visit pampegram.com/access and sign up. Watch for the email to confirm your subscription. You will receive access to some free resources and stay connected for future updates. Resources & Links: Want to take the Leadership Quiz? Click here. Join the Private Group for more Encouragement: [link] L.E.A.D. booklet [link] Truth Journal [link] 1:1 Coaching Session ($97) [link] Learn more about Pam at pampegram.com      

You are going to love this episode. Get ready to identify the very excuse(s) you use to stop you short of Rising Up, Leading, and Impacting others at work, in your community, and at home. While it is easy to shrink back, it is more challenging to be bold and choose to be intentional to lead well. This is why so many never step into their God-given calling to grow into the leader they were created to become. Don't let this be you. You can lean in and learn what you need to lead. You can elevate your perspective and recognize this is not about you, but about the lives you can impact. Accept the responsibility to lead and do it afraid and choose to be uncomfortable until your no longer are. Lastly, do the right thing for the right reason - to impact the lives of those around you. Today, we need Confident Christian Influence more than ever before. It all begins with a simple yes and a willing heart to be obedient. Pam is currently working on a program that will help you become the Leader we all know you can become. Be sure to visit pampegram.com/access and sign up. Watch for the email to confirm your subscription. You will receive access to some free resources. Resources & Links: Want to take the Leadership Quiz? Click here. Join the Private Group for more Encouragement: [link] L.E.A.D. booklet [link] Truth Journal [link] 1:1 Coaching Session ($97) [link] Learn more about Pam at pampegram.com    

In Episode 199 of Confident Christian Influence, Pam teaches a practical Christian leadership mindset framework to help you control your thoughts and transform your actions. If you’re battling overthinking, anxiety, perfectionism, or negative self-talk, this episode shows you how to identify faulty thoughts, stop the thought spiral, and replace lies with truth so you can lead with clarity, confidence, and self-control at work and at home. You’ll learn to spot your limiting thoughts, run a quick thought audit that separates facts from assumptions, and use a simple pattern interrupt to break mental momentum. Pam walks you through building a personalized Truth Bank—three to five statements that target your most frequent lies—and pairing each truth with a concrete action step. This Notice • Neutralize • Replace process equips you to quiet internal noise, strengthen emotional intelligence, and create consistent leadership behaviors that align with your calling. Download the Truth Bank & the Thought Framework Worksheet - HERE, take the Leadership Type Quiz, and book a 60-minute Clarity Call to practice real scenarios and elevate your faith-at-work influence. Scripture anchor: 2 Corinthians 10:5. Resources & Links: Want to take the Leadership Quiz? Click here. Join the Private Group for more Encouragement: [link] L.E.A.D. booklet [link] Truth Journal [link] 1:1 Coaching Session ($97) [link] Learn more about Pam at pampegram.com  

In this episode of Confident Christian Influence, Pam breaks down some communication skills that help leaders speak with clarity, compassion, and confidence. You’ll learn how to be clear and concise, practice active listening, and lead with emotional intelligence so your team feels seen, safe, and supported. Pam shows how to give constructive feedback, foster transparency and trust, adapt your style to different personalities, and encourage dialogue that elevates wisdom. She also covers nonverbal communication, choosing the right medium for sensitive topics, and staying fully present—online and in person. This is a practical guide to advancing your leadership impact with grace and truth. Resources & Links: Want to take the Leadership Quiz? Click here. Join the Private Group for more Encouragement: [link] L.E.A.D. booklet [link] Truth Journal [link] 1:1 Coaching Session ($97) [link] Learn more about Pam at pampegram.com    

Are you intentional about your influence? You are influencing others. The question is what kind of influence do you have on others and how does it impact their life? What are you modeling for others? Today let's dive into... What is influence? Why do I need influence? Do I have influence? And a couple bonuses... How do I become intentional with my influence? What can God do with my obedience? This is a great episode to keep on repeat. You have to remember that this is what is important. This is what matters. Let's stop wasting our time on so many things that simply do not matter, so we can focus on what does. 1. Our relationship with Jesus matters. 2. Our Christian influence matters because we may be the only Jesus someone ever sees. Rise up. Lead like Jesus. Follow Him. Lead others to Him. Influence them for the Kingdom and make impact in their lives. And all God's people said, AMEN! Resources & Links: Want to take the Leadership Quiz? Click here. Join the Private Group for more Encouragement: [link] L.E.A.D. booklet [link] Truth Journal [link] 1:1 Coaching Session ($97) [link] Learn more about Pam at pampegram.com  

In this episode: Pam shows why margin isn’t a luxury—it’s the backbone of Christian leadership. You’ll learn how to create intentional white space in your schedule and soul so you can lead with clarity, confidence, and better time management. You’ll learn What margin really is and why leaders can’t thrive without it. How margin clarifies calling and reduces decision fatigue (Psalm 46:10). Practical buffers and rhythms that improve time management (Ephesians 5:15–16). How to sayno without guilt so your yes is stronger (Galatians 1:10). Why Sabbath and solitude are strategic, not optional (Mark 6:31; Luke 5:16). Resources & Links: Want to take the Leadership Quiz? Click here. Join the Private Group for more Encouragement: [link] L.E.A.D. booklet [link] Truth Journal [link] 1:1 Coaching Session ($97) [link]  

Confidence isn’t a personality trait—it’s the byproduct of a firm foundation, a fixed focus, and a faithful stance. Listen to today's episode to grow your confidence and lead stronger. Others are waiting on you to lead. What you’ll learn How to have a firm foundation so your confidence isn’t shaken by opinions or outcomes (Matt 7:24–25). A simple focus routine to align your leadership with Jesus in real time (Heb 12:2). How to pre-decide your stance so doing the right thing becomes your default (1 Cor 16:13; Gal 6:9-10). Try this this week Foundation Check (AM): Write: God is __. In Christ I am __. Today matters most when I __. Focus Cue (before key moments): Breathe—Pray—Verse—One behavior to imitate. Stance Plan (Sun night): List 2 boundaries + 1 brave yes; rehearse your script. Resources mentioned Resources & Links: Want to take the Leadership Quiz? Click here. Join the Private Group for more Encouragement: [link] L.E.A.D. booklet [link] Truth Journal [link] 1:1 Coaching Session ($97) [link] Scriptures Matthew 7:24–25; Psalm 18:2; 1 Corinthians 3:11; Hebrews 12:2; 2 Corinthians 3:18; Philippians 2:5; 1 Corinthians 16:13; Micah 6:8; Galatians 6:9–10; Romans 12:9–21. CTA If this helped, think how insightful a 1:1 Coaching Session with Pam would be for you. Visit pampegram.com/coaching to schedule a 15 minute call to ask questions about coaching or schedule a coaching call and get started growing your confidence.  

You want to rise up. You are ready to become the leader you are called to become. You are trying to figure it out, but it is much harder than it should be. Listen to today's episode and be inspired to make a few decisions that will help you experience clarity and answer the call to lead. Let's lean in and lead like Jesus. Pause and ask yourself - WWJDIHWM? You are called to lead and you need clarity on the next steps.  Resources & Links: Want to take the Leadership Quiz? Click here. Join the Private Group for more Encouragement: [link] L.E.A.D. booklet [link] Truth Journal [link] 1:1 Coaching Session ($97) [link] Related episodes: “Episode 183: Do you feel Stuck? Stop Making Excuses and Start Walking in Purpose."     Need support? Schedule your Leadership Coaching Session → https://www.pampegram.com/coaching Pam Pegram is a Leadership and Personal Growth Coach, helping women step into God’s plan by leaning into Biblical truth, experiencing personal growth, and becoming intentional about influence. God is ready to use you to influence others and make an impact in their life. Start now. Visit https://www.pampegram.com/ and check out the Marketplace, invite Pam to speak to your group or at your event, read Pam's blog, and start taking steps forward with clarity and confidence.    

Welcome friend!  It's time. It's time for you to become the leader you were created to become and do what you are called to do. God is inviting you to intentional leadership where you answer the call to lead and let Him use you to impact the lives of those around you.  On this episode Pam shares 4 steps you can take no matter where God has placed you, no matter what circumstance you face and no matter what your gifts may be. You will want to listen to this episode over and over again and download the booklet, Created to Lead, to help you understand these steps in a way that you can apply them. Resources & Links: Want to take the Leadership Quiz? Click here. Join the Private Group for more Encouragement: [link] L.E.A.D. booklet [link] Truth Journal [link] 1:1 Coaching Session ($97) [link] Related episodes: “Episode 183: Do you feel Stuck? Stop Making Excuses and Start Walking in Purpose."     Need support? Schedule your Leadership Coaching Session → https://www.pampegram.com/coaching Pam Pegram is a Leadership and Personal Growth Coach, helping women step into God’s plan by leaning into Biblical truth, experiencing personal growth, and becoming intentional about influence. God is ready to use you to influence others and make an impact in their life. Start now. Visit https://www.pampegram.com/ and check out the Marketplace, invite Pam to speak to your group or at your event, read Pam's blog, and start taking steps forward with clarity and confidence.    

Summary: Strength returns when our Heart, Head, Hands, and Habits are submitted to Jesus. In this episode, Pam walks through each “H” with Scripture and simple practices you can use immediately. Scriptures: Philippians 2:3; Psalm 1:1-3   Resources & Links: Want to take the Leadership Quiz? Click here. Join the Private Group for more Encouragement: [link] L.E.A.D. booklet [link] Truth Journal [link] 1:1 Coaching Session ($97) [link] Related episodes: “Episode 183: Do you feel Stuck? Stop Making Excuses and Start Walking in Purpose."     Need support? Schedule your Leadership Coaching Session → https://www.pampegram.com/coaching Pam Pegram is a Leadership and Personal Growth Coach, helping women step into God’s plan by leaning into Biblical truth, experiencing personal growth, and becoming intentional about influence. God is ready to use you to influence others and make an impact in their life. Start now. Visit https://www.pampegram.com/ and check out the Marketplace, invite Pam to speak to your group or at your event, read Pam's blog, and start taking steps forward with clarity and confidence.     SEO Keywords: Christian leadership, find strength in God, mind of Christ, spiritual habits, servant leadership, biblical resilience, lead like Jesus, intentional living, clarity, God’s plan.

As we walk through an extremely difficult time, we have watched leaders fail and leave devastation in their wake. How can we know better and do better? We must commit to be strong leaders who don't go soft, let pride get in the way, or listen to the influence of anyone who's perspective does not line up with Scripture. Listen to Pam share her heart and STRONG Leadership Principles. It's not easy to do what is right, but we are called to a higher standard. God sets the standard and we should desire to honor Him. To learn more about what Pam is walking through - listen to the District Attorney speak about the case. He was interviewed on The Local Yokel podcast and starts talking about the case at 54 minutes. (warning graphic details). Listen here. Want to take the Leadership Quiz? Click here. Need support? Schedule your Leadership Coaching Session → https://www.pampegram.com/coaching Pam Pegram is a Leadership and Personal Growth Coach, helping women step into God’s plan by leaning into Biblical truth, experiencing personal growth, and becoming intentional about influence. God is ready to use you to influence others and make an impact in their life. Start now. Visit https://www.pampegram.com/ and check out the Marketplace, invite Pam to speak to your group or at your event, read Pam's blog, and start taking steps forward with clarity and confidence.   This episode includes information about the #LindseyWhiteside case and the illegal sentence #JudgeAndyHoworth gave.  Lindsey Whiteside Judge Andy Howorth

Every leader faces heavy seasons—but faithful leadership shines brightest in the dark. In this episode, Pam Pegram teaches how to stay rooted in God’s strength, lead with authenticity, and find purpose in your pain. You’ll learn to rest in His power instead of striving in your own, and to lead with hope that points others to Jesus. Let's acknowledge the weight, abide in God's strength, and allow the hard stuff to grow you. Need support? Schedule your Faithful Leadership Coaching Session → https://www.pampegram.com/coaching Pam Pegram is a Leadership and Personal Growth Coach, helping women step into God’s plan by leaning into Biblical truth, experiencing personal growth, and becoming intentional about influence. God is ready to use you to influence others and make an impact in their life. Start now. Visit https://www.pampegram.com/ and check out the Marketplace, invite Pam to speak to your group or at your event, read Pam's blog, and start taking steps forward with clarity and confidence.

Are you waiting for the “right time” to step into your purpose? Friend, the time is now. God has already called and equipped you for a unique assignment. In this episode, Christian Leadership Coach Pam Pegram helps you break free from doubt and take obedient action toward your God-given purpose. Discover how to build confidence rooted in faith—not fear—and stop waiting for validation from others. Book your Clarity & Confidence Coaching Call → pampegram.com/coaching Pam Pegram is a Leadership and Personal Growth Coach, helping women step into God’s plan by leaning into Biblical truth, experiencing personal growth, and becoming intentional about influence. God is ready to use you to influence others and make an impact in their life. Start now. Visit https://www.pampegram.com/ and check out the Marketplace, invite Pam to speak to your group or at your event, read Pam's blog, and start taking steps forward with clarity and confidence.

Do you ever stop and wonder what people will say about you when your time on earth is done? What kind of legacy will you leave behind? In today’s episode, we’re diving deep into legacy building — how to lead like Jesus, live with intentional purpose, and make an eternal impact that continues long after you’re gone. As Christian women, we’re called to live with clarity, confidence, and influence — not for our glory, but for God’s. The truth is, your legacy isn’t just what you leave for people; it’s what you leave in them. Every conversation, act of kindness, and moment of obedience is shaping how others experience Christ through you. In this powerful episode, Pam Pegram walks you through the steps to build a legacy of faith and influence that reflects who God created you to be. In This Episode, You’ll Learn: How to define your core values and God-given purpose so you can live with clarity and direction. Why intentional influence matters — and how daily obedience creates lasting impact. Practical ways to make a positive difference in the lives of others through service, encouragement, and love. How to share your heart, knowledge, and experiences to inspire the next generation. What it means to finish well and leave a legacy that points people to Jesus. Scripture References: Psalm 90:12 — “Teach us to number our days, that we may gain a heart of wisdom.” Ephesians 2:10 — “For we are God’s masterpiece… created to do good works.” Matthew 5:16 — “Let your light shine before others…” 2 Timothy 4:7 — “I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race, I have kept the faith.”  Key Takeaway To build a lasting legacy of faith and influence, define your purpose, live intentionally, and lead like Jesus — leaving behind a life that points others toward Him.  Resources & Next Steps Explore coaching with Pam to grow your confidence, clarify your calling, and walk boldly in your purpose.  Book Your $97 Breakthrough Session - Limited spots available. Grab a Truth Journal to help you identify your values and live them out daily. Share this episode with another woman who’s ready to lead with faith and make a difference.

Do you ever feel stuck in fear, comparison, or busyness? In this episode of the Confident Christian Influence podcast, Pam Pegram shares 7 common myths that keep Christian women leaders from walking in their calling — and the powerful truth about freedom in Christ that breaks every chain. You’ll hear how to overcome lies like “I’m too busy,” “It’s too late,” “Someone else could do it better,” and more. If you’ve been striving, doubting, or holding back, this episode will encourage you to let go of the lies, embrace God’s truth, and step into leadership with clarity and confidence. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: 7 myths that keep Christian women leaders stuck in fear, comparison, and striving The truth about freedom in Christ that brings clarity, confidence, and peace Why your worth isn’t based on performance, but on who you are in Him How freedom empowers you to lead boldly and authentically   “So if the Son sets you free, you will be free indeed.” – John 8:36   Connect with Pam Visit Pam's website: www.pampegram.com Pam Pegram is a Leadership and Personal Growth Coach. Visit Pam's website and check out the resources she offers. Pam is called to help you rise up and step into your calling. You don't have to go it alone.  If today's episode spoke to you, imagine what God could do in a one to one Breakthrough Session. For a limited time, Pam is offering these one hour Coaching Sessions for $97. Click here to learn more.  Be sure to check out Pam's blog. Sign up to receive her weekly email. Join Pam's private Facebook Group - Confident Christian Leadership - to engage with likeminded women. Recommended Resource: Find Pam's favorite Study Bible here. (If you use this link Pam may receive a small commission.) Free Resource: To help you get started, I’ve created a free Journal Method Resource you can download today. Use it to brain dump distractions, reflect on Scripture, and apply God’s truth to your life. 👉 Download the free journal resource here