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Hosted by Attorney Nadia Gilkes, Life, Law, & Lattes is a safe space where we chat about family law topics, caregiving concerns, and elder law issues. Gentle guidance is given, offering families a blueprint to navigate the legal waters of their most pressing (and often emotional) matters.
The information presented here is for educational purposes. It is always best to see an attorney in your city or state to receive advice tailored to your needs and jurisdiction. This podcast does not establish an attorney-client privilege. {Would I really be a lawyer if I didn’t put the legal stuff in there?}
I appreciate every listen and every form of support. Please like, share, and subscribe on whichever platform you listen to podcasts. You can also follow eLegal Cafe, LLC on FB and IG - I don’t post often but like us on social media anyway and when I do post something, you’ll already be there.
I truly hope the conversations and information shared here will help families in their time of need. If there is a question you’d like me to cover on the podcast, or a topic you want to discuss with me privately, please don’t hesitate to email me or put yourself on my calendar. I look forward to hearing from, and helping you.
The information presented here is for educational purposes. It is always best to see an attorney in your city or state to receive advice tailored to your needs and jurisdiction. This podcast does not establish an attorney-client privilege. {Would I really be a lawyer if I didn’t put the legal stuff in there?}
I appreciate every listen and every form of support. Please like, share, and subscribe on whichever platform you listen to podcasts. You can also follow eLegal Cafe, LLC on FB and IG - I don’t post often but like us on social media anyway and when I do post something, you’ll already be there.
I truly hope the conversations and information shared here will help families in their time of need. If there is a question you’d like me to cover on the podcast, or a topic you want to discuss with me privately, please don’t hesitate to email me or put yourself on my calendar. I look forward to hearing from, and helping you.
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Host Nadia Gilkes reviews the documentary The Death and Life of Lamar Odom, exploring his childhood trauma, addiction journey, and the medical crisis that brought his story back into the spotlight.
She highlights the legal takeaways—why powers of attorney, guardian nominations, and state lockboxes matter, how next-of-kin rules work, and how proper planning can prevent family fights and delays in medical care.
On this episode of Life, Law, & Lattes, attorney Nadia Gilkes explains what to do when a parent stops paying child support and why having a court order is the essential first step.
She outlines enforcement options—wage garnishment, license or passport suspension, fines, and even jail—advises how to document missed payments and violations, and stresses the importance of following court-ordered payment methods so you have proof.
Nadia also discusses the personal consequences of bringing enforcement actions and offers practical tips for protecting your children and building a clear paper trail for court.
Host Nadia Gilkes returns with a follow-up on Michelle Hundley Smith, who disappeared in 2001 and was recently found living in a rural trailer near the state border. The episode covers the family’s reactions, new details about an old DWI case, and Smith’s upcoming court appearance on March 26.
Nadia also discusses a separate high-profile Utah murder trial, noting unusual courtroom behavior, strange lawyering, and juror concerns, and shares her reactions and plans to follow both stories.
Host Nadia Gilkes recounts the true story of Michelle Hundley Smith, who disappeared in December 2001 after saying she was going Christmas shopping and never returned. The episode covers the delayed missing-person report, the possible impact on her children, and a recent lead that located her in another state decades later.
Nadia explores the family's mixed emotions, the unresolved questions about why she left, and reflections on parental duty and resources for overwhelmed caregivers.
Host Nadia Gilkes recounts a courtroom hearing where an elderly woman under guardianship faced the sale of her family home to pay for care, highlighting the emotional family pushback and the court-supervised bidding process.
This episode is a concise wake-up call about the high cost of long-term care and the importance of proactive estate planning—powers of attorney, trusts, and professional advice—to protect your assets and preserve your legacy.
Host Nadia Gilkes shares a festival flashback interview with June Dillinger about her book The Benefit of the Ex, born from her divorce and a self-development class. June explains how taking responsibility, using reflective "invitations," and choosing love helped her heal and rebuild.
The episode covers book launch success, practical tips for recording audiobooks, June’s work performing weddings in Hawaii, and her mission of "making love visible" in everyday life.
Host Nadia Gilkes returns from a brief break to unpack the high‑profile Kandi and Todd split, using their story to explain prenuptial agreements, duress, custody limits, and spousal support.
She offers practical legal tips: be transparent about assets, get independent counsel, start prenup talks at least 3–6 months before the wedding, and have an estate plan. Nadia also discusses co‑parenting options that prioritize children's stability and the emotional realities of divorce.
In this episode, host Nadia Gilkes responds to a recent press conference claiming a link between Tylenol and autism, expressing concern about misinformation and the silence of medical professionals, and reflecting on the impact this has on parents and guardians of autistic loved ones.
She offers reassurance that parents are not at fault, acknowledges the daily struggles of caregivers, and invites listeners to reach out for resources or questions.
In this episode of Life, Law, & Lattes, host Nadia Gilkes discusses the different elder care living facilities and empowers family members to be an active participant in their loved ones’ care plans. Please follow eLegal Cafe on facebook. If you have a question or comment you want addressed in a future episode, you can reach the host by emailing Nadia at eLegal Cafe (dot) com.
Attorney Nadia Gilkes answers a listener’s question about organizing aging parents’ affairs, covering powers of attorney, reviewing estate documents, and how to have difficult conversations about finances and medical care.
She offers practical steps—check medications and mail, document bills and insurance, improve home safety, and consider life or long‑term care insurance if parents won’t share details—and stresses: start as soon as possible, preferably while parents are healthy. Nadia also points listeners to prior episodes on powers of attorney and a one‑sheet of quick tips.
Host Nadia Gilkes breaks down essential premarital conversations for couples blending households—covering education choices, finances, custody, parenting, and lifestyle expectations.
She urges clear agreements, early communication, and premarital counseling or therapy where needed to reduce conflict and protect the family’s future.
On Life, Law & Lattes, Attorney Nadia Gilkes urges clients to be completely honest with their lawyers—holding back or lying can blindside your legal team and weaken your defense.
Full disclosure lets your attorney prepare for issues that may arise in court and build the strongest possible strategy, even when the truth is messy.
Host Nadia Gilkes reflects on the Emma and Bruce Willis documentary to explore real-life caregiving challenges. She covers three key takeaways: the high monetary and emotional costs of care, where to find practical resources, and how to accept help and decide about long-term care or moving a loved one.
The episode offers concrete suggestions—assess care needs and hourly costs, build a support plan, consider creative staffing or paid caregiver programs, and plan for facility transitions when necessary—while urging caregivers to practice self-care and involve family in planning.
Welcome to this week's episode of Life, Law & Lattes, where host Nadia Gilkes shares crucial tips on maintaining respect in the courtroom. Learn how to address the judge properly and the importance of standing while speaking, unless advised otherwise. Discover why it's imperative to keep a respectful tone, even during frustrating moments, and the consequences of arguing with a judge after a ruling.
This episode emphasizes that showing respect in the courtroom is not about forfeiting your rights but about demonstrating dignity and professionalism. Tune in to understand the vital dos and don'ts that ensure a successful legal encounter. Don't forget to like, share, and subscribe for more insightful tips, and as always, sip responsibly.
Host Nadia Gilkes reflects on watching the documentary Fit for TV: The Reality of The Biggest Loser and highlights a major warning: never be rushed or pressured into signing a contract.
She explains practical steps to protect yourself—read every page, ask questions, get an attorney or professional help, and use modern resources like flat-fee reviewers and teletherapy. Nadia also discusses how untreated trauma often underlies addiction and weight struggles and recommends 12-step programs and accessible therapy as paths to recovery.
In this episode of "Life, Law & Lattes," host Nadia Gilkes shares a valuable tip on courtroom etiquette. The advice centers around the importance of speaking only when prompted in legal settings, emphasizing how interrupting proceedings can undermine your credibility. Nadia stresses the significance of patience and poise, reminding listeners that the courtroom is a structured process rather than a conversational space. Whether represented by an attorney or self-represented, understanding the right timing to speak in court can make a crucial difference. Tune in for more insights, and remember to sip responsibly!
Host Nadia Gilkes explains why it’s essential to check the court docket and full case file after being served or when taking over a case. She shares practical steps—viewing the court portal, getting copies, contacting the clerk or previous counsel, and using fee waivers if needed—to avoid being surprised by filings the judge may reference.
This episode emphasizes staying proactive: regularly check filings up to the day of your hearing, know how to access documents, and remember that even with an attorney you should monitor your case and deadlines.
In this episode of Life, Law & Lattes, host Nadia Gilkes shares a vital tip for maintaining proper courtroom etiquette. Discover why it's crucial to turn off your phone or keep it on silent during court proceedings. Nadia explains the potential consequences of phone disruptions, including being kicked out of court, having your phone confiscated, or even facing fines. Whether attending in person or on Zoom, ensuring your phone doesn't become a distraction is key to a smooth hearing.
Gain insights into courtroom professionalism and learn how a small step like silencing your phone can prevent bigger issues. Listen in for practical advice and remember to sip responsibly!
In this episode of Life, Law, and Lattes, host Nadia delves into the latest updates surrounding Wendy Williams' conservatorship. Nadia shares her personal connection with Wendy through their shared experience with Graves' Disease and discusses the misconceptions surrounding conservatorships versus guardianships. The episode highlights Wendy's fight to regain her freedom and control over her life, touching on the medical assessments that are crucial in determining capacity. Throughout the conversation, the significance of safety and well-being in legal guardianship situations is underscored. With a hopeful tone, Nadia expresses her desire to see Wendy return to the media world, offering insights into the legal intricacies that often go unnoticed. Tune in for a heartfelt discussion about resilience, determination, and the importance of understanding legal protections.
In this final episode of the "Power of Attorney" series, host Nadia Gilkes delves into the complex role of a Power of Attorney agent. As a crucial position bestowed with immense trust, serving as an agent can be both emotionally and legally challenging. Nadia offers five essential tips for agents, emphasizing the importance of understanding your role, maintaining thorough documentation, avoiding the commingling of funds, respecting financial traditions, and managing family dynamics. Navigating this responsibility requires strategic planning to protect both the agent and the loved one. Join Nadia in exploring these vital steps to ensure peace of mind in this empowering series finale.
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