The Soft Side Project

Send us a text In this heartfelt episode, I’m sharing a behind-the-scenes reflection from our recent Bible & Blessings Women’s Retreat, where pure intentions met an unexpected heart check. What started as a Christ-centered mission to love and serve turned into a wake-up call about the fine line between accommodating others and people-pleasing. I open up about how easy it is, especially as a leader or host, to shift from Spirit-led service to fear-driven performance. ✨ Connect with The Sof...

Send us a text Welcome to The Soft Side Mini Series — a special collection within The Soft Side Project™ where real women share real stories of faith, healing, and transformation. Each episode features a woman who has walked through her own battle and found purpose in the process. These are stories that remind us that softness is strength, that vulnerability is not defeat, and that God can turn even our hardest seasons into something beautiful. In this first episode, we’re joined by Alicia Lo...

Send us a text If you’re like me, the strong one, the fixer, the helper, and you’ve been feeling like you’re falling behind, I want you to know this: God’s grace is enough. In this raw and unedited episode, I share what the Lord has been revealing to me through 2 Corinthians 12:9. I’ve been praying for strength, healing, peace, and progress, but what I needed most was to receive grace for where I am. This episode is for the woman who’s doing her best but still feels like it’s not enough. It’s...

Send us a text In this raw and honest episode of The Soft Side Project™, I open up about a struggle many of us don’t talk about—jealousy. Not just how it shows up, but how survival mode can quietly create both the jealous and the one being envied. I share how the Lord revealed jealousy in me, the healing that followed, and why we need to stop shaming the conversation. I even include a short prayer for anyone walking through this heart work. This episode is for the woman who’s been comparing… ...

Send us a text In this episode, I share how striving for perfection nearly distracted me from the very God who gave me the assignment. From skipping quiet time to being gently convicted by the Holy Spirit, I realized — God didn’t ask me to be perfect, He asked me to obey. If you’ve ever felt pressure to “get it right” or feared being seen in the process, this one’s for you. Let’s talk about releasing perfectionism in your walk with Christ and in survival mode. 💗 Share this episode with the st...

Send us a text You want to yes to the call—but you still feel uncertain, overwhelmed, or lowkey afraid? This episode is for you. 💜 In today’s heart-to-heart, I’m sharing how I launched this podcast just over a week after God told me to—confused, unsure, and unqualified—but still obedient. We’re diving into the reality that clarity doesn’t always come before the call… sometimes it comes after you start walking. Inside this episode: Why confusion doesn’t cancel your callingHow obedience unl...

Send us a text What if you were never taught how to be soft—only how to survive? In this deeply personal episode, Terrica shares how the Holy Spirit interrupted her plans, challenged her surface-level strength, and revealed the hidden patterns of survival mode she didn’t even realize she was still operating in. From growing up with boys, to life in the Army, to a violent marriage, Terrica opens up about the grit and guardedness that shaped her—and how God is slowly, lovingly unraveling it. Yo...

Send us a text Welcome to the very first episode of The Soft Side Project—a podcast for the woman who’s been strong for everyone else but is finally ready to exhale. In this short episode, I’m sharing the who, what, when, where, why, and how behind this space. You’ll learn who I am, who this podcast is for, and why I believe softness is not weakness—it’s your God-given strength. While answering the 5Ws, I'll share a little about how stepping into my softness transformed my relationship with m...

Send us a text Welcome to The Soft Side Project — a podcast for women of faith who have mastered survival… but are now ready to heal, soften, and truly live. Hosted by life coach and spiritual guide Terrica, this podcast is a safe space for women who are tired of performing strength and ready to rediscover the softness they were never meant to lose. In this short trailer, you’ll get a feel for what the show is all about. If you’ve ever asked: “How do I take off the emotional armor?”“How do I ...