Humans of Eating Disorders

Join us for the second part to this series where we talk about what it’s like to recover from an ED in a disordered culture. In this episode we exploreHow recovering in a disordered culture is like trying to deprogram from a cult while still living in itWhy we question our reality in recovery and how an ED uses the culture to fuel that confusionThe challenges we face when recovering in a culture that is in many ways at odds with recoveryHow fatphobia and disordered messages show up in ED treatment and recovery spacesHow shame and the disordered culture reared their head in our recoveries Why a recovery rooted in shame isn’t sustainable A guide to generate your recovery bubble, your force field, to shield and protect against the disordered culture Guidebook To Create Your Recovery Force FieldGetting clear on what truly matters to you and the person you want to be Remember none of this is personal Embrace the subculture of the anti-diet, weight-inclusive, Health At Every Size spacesCurate your environment and social media Find allies Know your context and stay away from comparisons Set boundaries Request not to be weighed: ⁠Don’t Weigh Me Cards for Doctor’s Visits ⁠Stay home and insulate when you need to Seek out role models Aim to be a role model yourself and an ally Know you can’t control anyone else’s relationship with food and their body Use humor :) Get angry at the cultureBuild a sense of safety inside your force field; make it a nice place to beEat abundantly and rest abundantlyStop purging and compensating Observe our experience with interest and curiosity Shift from forcing yourself to do things to “gentle experimenting” Start paying attention to the neutral/good not just the bad/scary Identify people that feel safe to us Identify places that feel safe to us Give your space a glow up with nice sensory experiences

Come along with us as we dive into what it means to live in a culture that is, in many ways, deeply disordered. We explore the broader sociocultural context of eating disorders—looking beyond individual behaviors to examine the systems, values, and narratives that shape how we relate to our bodies, our health, and our worth.Join us for the second part of this series in our next episode: Recovering in a Disordered CultureIn this episode we discuss:- What diet culture really is- Diet culture’s modern disguise—wellness culture - Healthism and why health is far more complex than the oversimplified messages we’re sold- Our cultural obsession with youth and the impact this has on us as we age- Hustle/grind culture and the cultural fixation on productivity - What these forces have in common—and how they reinforce shame and disconnection from our authentic selves.- Who this disordered culture benefits, who it harms, and why so many of us feel stuck inside it- Eating disorders as signals of a disordered culture- The cultural role of why some eating disorder symptoms are more difficult to see as a problem vs. others - Reclaiming our power and questioning disordered narratives to find a more authentic way of living ______________Resources Mentioned in the Episode:Maintenance Phase PodcastBody Mass Index Is Being Fat Bad for You?“Excess Deaths Associated With Underweight, Overweight, and Obesity”  Katherine M. FlegalThe Obesity Myth by Paul CamposFearing the Black Body by Sabrina Strings Journaling Reflection Questions: What kind of person do you want to be in the world? What truly matters to you? How might what matters to you differ from what the culture places importance on? How might you have been impacted by the disordered culture we exist within?What societal beliefs, messages, and norms may have shaped your ED voice? What messages have you received about what it means to be worthy and have value?Additional Resources:BooksWhat We Don’t Talk about When We Talk about Fat by Aubrey GordonYou Just Need to Lose Weight and 19 other Myths about Fat People by Aubrey GordonAnti-Diet by Christy HarrisonThe Wellness Trap by Christy Harrison Reclaiming Body Trust: A Path to Healing & Liberation by Hilary Kinavey & Dana SturtevantFat Talk: Parenting in the Age of Diet Culture by Virginia Sole-SmithLaziness Doesn’t Exist by Devon PriceThe Body is Not an Apology by Sonya Renee Taylor It’s Always Been Ours by Jessica Wilson The Body Liberation Project by Chrissy King PodcastsMaintenance Phase The Full Plate PodcastThe Body Trust Podcast Body Justice Real Health Radio Body Grievers ClubFood Pysch Seems like Diet Culture  Men Unscripted PresentationsWeight Inclusivity & Rejection of Diet Culture Presentation by Dr. Gaudiani  WebsitesAssociation of Size Diversity and HealthHAES Health SheetsHAES Printable Self Advocacy Cards for Medical VisitsWeight Stigma Awareness Week (has lots of resources listed)

In our first episode we talk about:Is it possible to feel 100% ready to recover from an EDThe holding pattern of living with an ED What led us to start considering recoveryHow preparing for recovery can be both helpful and problematic Readiness as embracing willingness over certaintyThe role of fear How we got started while feeling afraid Disclaimer: The content in this podcast reflects our own experiences and opinions and our guests and should not be taken as mental health or medical advice. Join our Facebook Peer Support GroupGet in Touch With UsKate ElyIG: @recoverwithkate Email: kate@recoverwithkate.com Coaching Website: ⁠recoverwithkate.com⁠Therapy Website: rachelmillnertherapy.com/kate-elyPamela St. ClairIG: @pamelaevarecovery Email: hello@pamelaevarecovery.comWebsite: ⁠pamelaevarecovery.com

Humans of Eating Disorders is a podcast that humanizes eating disorders and healing from one while challenging stereotypes and stigma along the way. Join Kate Ely, a therapist and ED recovery coach, and Pamela, an ED recovery coach, as as they explore topics related to eating disorders, recovery, and their own lived experience from a Health at Every size, weight-inclusive, and social justice framework.Disclaimer: The content in this podcast reflects our own experiences and opinions and our guests and should not be taken as mental health or medical advice. Get in Touch With Us:KateIG: @recoverwithkate Email: kate@recoverwithkate.com Website: recoverwithkate.comPamelaIG: @pamelaevarecovery Email: hello@pamelaevarecovery.comWebsite: pamelaevarecovery.com

Humans of Eating Disorders is a podcast that humanizes struggling with an eating disorder and healing from one while challenging stereotypes and stigma along the way. Join Kate Ely, a psychotherapist and recovery coach, and Pamela, a recovery coach, as as they explore topics related to eating disorders, recovery, and their own lived experience from a Health at Every size, weight-inclusive, and social justice framework.Disclaimer: The content in this podcast reflects our own experiences and opinions and our guests and should not be taken as mental health or medical advice.