The Gospel Shaped Family Podcast

Should your child be allowed to attend sleepovers? It’s a common question for Christian parents, and one that often stirs strong opinions. In this episode, Josh and Jen Mulvihill walk through the issue carefully, distinguishing between biblical commands and parental wisdom. They explain why Scripture does not give a direct rule, but why parents still need to think clearly about risk, vulnerability, and responsibility.  Drawing on pastoral experience, family decisions, and insights from James Dobson, they discuss real concerns parents often overlook, including exposure to sexual abuse, unmonitored media, unhealthy conversations, and situations that tend to happen late at night when adult oversight fades. They also explain why their family chose a clear, consistent rule and how that decision actually created freedom rather than conflict. This conversation is not about fear or legalism. It is about protecting children, preserving innocence, and choosing what is wise when the risks outweigh the benefits. Parents will come away with a framework to help them make thoughtful, confident decisions for their own families. Book 50 Things Every Child Needs to Know Before Leaving Home: https://bit.ly/50thingspc Renewanation: https://bit.ly/rangsfpc  Gospel Shaped Family Homepage: https://bit.ly/gsfhpc   

The issue of technology is the most common concern for parents today. Children in the digital age are growing up as "digital natives," often spending between seven and nine hours a day in front of screens. Dr. Josh Mulvihill joins Dr. Jessica Peck to discuss how media acts as a form of digital discipleship, shaping the hearts and minds of the next generation. Instead of responding with fear or guilt, parents are encouraged to lead with intentionality and ask better questions about what is shaping their children. This conversation offers practical guidance on setting healthy boundaries, such as delaying smartphones and social media as long as possible. By providing compelling real-life alternatives and maintaining strong relationships, parents can steward technology for God's glory. Key takeaways include understanding the power of algorithms in forming worldviews and the importance of having a predetermined plan for media usage in the home. Dr. Mulvihill emphasizes that while screens can be useful tools, they require proper guidance and training to prevent them from replacing essential flesh-and-blood relationships. Book 50 Things Every Child Needs to Know Before Leaving Home: https://bit.ly/50thingspc Renewanation: https://bit.ly/rangsfpc  Gospel Shaped Family Homepage: https://bit.ly/gsfhpc 

Every family makes an education choice, but few slow down to ask what Scripture actually says about education, discipleship, and responsibility. In this episode, Josh and Jen Mulvihill share the real reasons they chose to homeschool their children and how that decision shaped their family life, faith, and daily rhythms.  Drawing from personal experience as parents, educators, and as a pastor, they walk through fifteen practical reasons for home education. Topics include parental responsibility, worldview formation, academics, socialization, family time, flexibility, and why education is never neutral. This conversation is not about pressure or perfection, but about helping parents think clearly and biblically.  Whether you are considering homeschooling, already walking this path, or simply want to think more carefully about how education shapes discipleship, this episode offers clarity, encouragement, and a framework for wise decision-making. Book 50 Things Every Child Needs to Know Before Leaving Home: https://bit.ly/50thingspc Renewanation: https://bit.ly/rangsfpc  Gospel Shaped Family Homepage: https://bit.ly/gsfhpc 

In this Biblical Worldview episode, Josh and Jessica talk about one of the biggest challenges facing families today. Every child is being shaped by something, and if parents are not intentional, culture will do the shaping for them. Drawing from Colossians 2, they explain how children can be taken captive by false ideas and why grounding them in Scripture is the only way to provide clarity in a confused world. They describe how worldview formation affects identity, purpose, and daily decisions, and how even church environments can introduce ideas that need to be tested against God’s Word.  Josh walks through common counterfeit beliefs children encounter, the “isms” Paul warned about, and why families must teach truth first and then help children discern error. They explore topics children face today, from social justice slogans to gender questions to the search for meaning and identity. Jessica shares real conversations with teens who struggle to know what is true in a digital world that constantly distorts reality. This episode gives parents and grandparents simple steps for building discernment, talking about hard issues, and strengthening a child’s confidence in Scripture.    Book 50 Things Every Child Needs to Know Before Leaving Home: https://bit.ly/50thingspc   Renewanation: https://bit.ly/rangsfpc    Gospel Shaped Family Homepage: https://bit.ly/gsfhpc    Culture Proof Podcast: https://podcast.cultureproof.net/    The Dr. Nurse Mama Show: https://www.drnursemama.com/show   

What does discipleship actually look like in everyday family life? In this episode, Josh and Jen Mulvihill break down four biblical characteristics that shape children into lifelong followers of Christ. Instead of vague ideas, they offer a clear framework parents can apply at home. Using the picture of a four-legged chair, they walk through worship, work, study, and service. These rhythms help children love God, develop character, think biblically, and live for others. The conversation includes practical examples from their own family, including family worship, chores, learning habits, and serving together in the church. If you are a parent or church leader wondering how to disciple children with clarity and purpose, this episode provides a simple, biblical path forward that is both realistic and sustainable. Book 50 Things Every Child Needs to Know Before Leaving Home: https://bit.ly/50thingspc Renewanation: https://bit.ly/rangsfpc  Gospel Shaped Family Homepage: https://bit.ly/gsfhpc    Bible in 365: https://bit.ly/b365gsfpc   

This Biblical Worldview episode focuses on one of the most practical needs in every Christian home. Josh and Jessica talk through how children form their beliefs, why those beliefs shape every part of life, and why Bible reading must begin early if kids are going to build a lasting faith. They explain how worldview is formed piece by piece and why Scripture is the foundation that keeps children steady in a shifting culture.  The conversation moves through real stories, current research, and simple habits that help kids read and apply the Bible. Josh shares the LifeWay findings showing that regular Bible reading in childhood is the strongest predictor of lasting faith. He also gives practical guidance for building rhythms at home, choosing study tools, and teaching children to understand doctrine with clarity and confidence. This episode gives parents and grandparents a workable path to help children know God’s Word and live it out with conviction and joy.    Book 50 Things Every Child Needs to Know Before Leaving Home: https://bit.ly/50thingspc   Renewanation: https://bit.ly/rangsfpc    Gospel Shaped Family Homepage: https://bit.ly/gsfhpc    Culture Proof Podcast: https://podcast.cultureproof.net/    The Dr. Nurse Mama Show: https://www.drnursemama.com/show 

In this episode of the Gospel Shaped Family Podcast, Dr. Josh and Jen Mulvihill welcome Larry Fowler, founder of The Legacy Coalition, to discuss the vital role grandparents play in the spiritual life of their families. Larry shares from his 50 years of experience in children’s ministry to explain why grandparenting is far more than just a supporting role—it is a biblical calling to impact grandchildren for Christ. Whether you are a parent navigating extended family relationships, a new grandparent, or have been in the role for years, this conversation will help you understand the profound influence you have on your family’s legacy. Larry and the Mulvihills explore practical ways to build and maintain strong relationships with adult children and grandchildren while passing on a biblical worldview. You will hear about the importance of intentional traditions, tips for parents to better connect with grandparents, and details about the upcoming Legacy Coalition conference. Join us as we learn how to shape hearts and homes around the gospel by empowering grandparents to become active spiritual influencers. Key Takeaways: Understanding the biblical mandate for grandparents to disciple the next generation. Practical advice for new grandparents on building lasting relationships. How to maintain a legacy of faith through family traditions and gospel-centered conversations   Book 50 Things Every Child Needs to Know Before Leaving Home: https://bit.ly/50thingspc Renewanation: https://bit.ly/rangsfpc  Gospel Shaped Family Homepage: https://bit.ly/gsfhpc 

In this  Why Worldview Matters episode, Josh and Jessica explore a question every Christian family faces: Is the Bible enough for real life? They look at why the sufficiency of Scripture matters and how it shapes the way parents and grandparents make decisions, respond to cultural messages, and guide their children. They describe why so many families look everywhere except the Bible for help, and why Scripture offers the clarity, stability, and wisdom our homes need.  Drawing from Psalm 19 and 2 Timothy, the conversation breaks down six ways God’s Word is sufficient for life. Josh explains how Scripture restores the soul, brings wisdom, produces joy, gives light in dark places, and stands firm when everything else shifts. This episode gives parents practical encouragement for turning to the Bible first, teaching their children to do the same, and building a home where God’s truth is applied with confidence.   Book 50 Things Every Child Needs to Know Before Leaving Home: https://bit.ly/50thingspc   Renewanation: https://bit.ly/rangsfpc    Gospel Shaped Family Homepage: https://bit.ly/gsfhpc    Culture Proof Podcast: https://podcast.cultureproof.net/    The Dr. Nurse Mama Show: https://www.drnursemama.com/show   

Money shapes daily life for every family, yet many parents feel unsure how to teach their children to handle it wisely. In this episode of the Gospel Shaped Family Podcast, Josh and Jen Mulvihill walk through how to ground money conversations in Scripture rather than culture. They explain why money is a heart issue, not just a practical one, and how early habits shape lifelong faith and stewardship.  You will hear five core biblical principles that help children see money as a tool, not a master. Topics include work, generosity, contentment, debt, and wisdom. Josh and Jen also share real examples from their own family, including jobs, small businesses, budgeting systems, and teaching kids to think carefully before spending. Whether your children are young or approaching adulthood, this episode gives parents clear, practical ways to disciple their children financially while keeping Christ at the center.  Book 50 Things Every Child Needs to Know Before Leaving Home: https://bit.ly/50thingspc Renewanation: https://bit.ly/rangsfpc  Gospel Shaped Family Homepage: https://bit.ly/gsfhpc    Bible in 365: https://bit.ly/b365gsfpc 

This episode continues the Why Worldview Matters series and focuses on one issue every parent and grandparent must understand: the authority of Scripture. Josh and Jessica walk through why the Bible can be trusted, how its authority shapes a child’s worldview, and why families cannot rely on church attendance alone. They describe the crisis of worldview facing today’s kids and explain why parents need to take an intentional role in helping their children root their lives in God’s Word. The conversation outlines eight reasons the Bible is the Word of God, from manuscript evidence and archaeology to fulfilled prophecy and the unity of Scripture’s message. They share personal stories of facing challenges to the Bible’s authority and how to help children stand firm when Scripture is questioned. This episode gives families simple, practical ways to build their home on the truth of God’s Word.   Book 50 Things Every Child Needs to Know Before Leaving Home: https://bit.ly/50thingspc   Renewanation: https://bit.ly/rangsfpc    Gospel Shaped Family Homepage: https://bit.ly/gsfhpc    Culture Proof Podcast: https://podcast.cultureproof.net/    The Dr. Nurse Mama Show: https://www.drnursemama.com/show 

Many parents want their children to love reading but feel unsure where to start. In this episode, Josh and Jen Mulvihill explain why a love for books does not begin with pressure or early academics, but with shared stories, patient guidance, and a family culture that values reading. You will learn why reading aloud matters at every age, how waiting to teach reading can actually help struggling learners, and how parents model a lifelong love of books. Josh and Jen also discuss choosing books that shape imagination and worldview, encouraging physical books over screens, and using biographies and classic stories to build faith. This conversation offers practical guidance for parents, homeschool families, and church leaders who want to raise children who love truth, think deeply, and grow in wisdom through great books. Book 50 Things Every Child Needs to Know Before Leaving Home: https://bit.ly/50thingspc Renewanation: https://bit.ly/rangsfpc  Gospel Shaped Family Homepage: https://bit.ly/gsfhpc    Bible in 365: https://bit.ly/b365gsfpc 

This episode continues the Why Worldview Matters series and focuses on one of the most important pieces of a child’s faith: helping them develop a deep love for the Bible. Josh and Jessica talk about why Scripture must be the foundation of every child’s worldview and why parents cannot assume their children will believe the Bible is true. They walk through common misconceptions, the reliability of Scripture, and the danger of neglecting God’s Word. They also share personal stories about how their own love for the Bible was shaped, why Scripture has endured through history, and why it has changed so many lives. The conversation gives parents and grandparents practical encouragement for building a home where the Bible is read, trusted, and lived. Key takeaways include how to talk with children about where the Bible came from, why it is trustworthy, and how doctrines like inerrancy, authority, and sufficiency guide everyday life.   Book 50 Things Every Child Needs to Know Before Leaving Home: https://bit.ly/50thingspc   Renewanation: https://bit.ly/rangsfpc    Gospel Shaped Family Homepage: https://bit.ly/gsfhpc    Culture Proof Podcast: https://podcast.cultureproof.net/    The Dr. Nurse Mama Show: https://www.drnursemama.com/show 

Children’s and youth ministry has become the default approach in many churches, but few parents stop to ask what role it should actually play in the discipleship of their children. In this episode, Josh and Jen Mulvihill walk through the history of age-based ministry and explain the different forms it has taken over the years. They offer a clear, Scripture-centered framework to help parents think carefully about children’s and youth ministry without dismissing its value. You will learn how family-first discipleship shapes healthy engagement with the church, why corporate worship matters, and how ministries should function as a supplement rather than a replacement. This conversation equips parents to ask better questions, stay engaged, and take responsibility for the spiritual formation of their children. It is practical, thoughtful, and grounded in biblical priorities that help families navigate church life with confidence and clarity.   Book 50 Things Every Child Needs to Know Before Leaving Home: https://bit.ly/50thingspc Renewanation: https://bit.ly/rangsfpc  Gospel Shaped Family Homepage: https://bit.ly/gsfhpc    Bible in 365: https://bit.ly/b365gsfpc   

Most parents want to pass on a strong faith, but many feel pulled in different directions as culture competes for their child’s attention. In this Worldview Wednesday conversation from American Family Radio, Josh explains the five major influences that shape a child’s worldview. Parents, grandparents, teachers, peers, and the church all play a part. Josh and Dr. Jessica Peck walk through the research and share practical ways to be intentional in each area. This episode helps parents and grandparents recognize where their child is being shaped every day and why a passive approach is not enough. You will hear real stories, common struggles families face, and clear steps to guide children toward a biblical worldview. If you want your home to be a place where faith grows and truth is lived out, this conversation gives you a strong starting point. Key themes include parental influence, the power of grandparents, education choices, media and screen time, and the church’s role in grounding children in God’s Word. Book 50 Things Every Child Needs to Know Before Leaving Home: https://bit.ly/50thingspc   Renewanation: https://bit.ly/rangsfpc    Gospel Shaped Family Homepage: https://bit.ly/gsfhpc    Culture Proof Podcast: https://podcast.cultureproof.net/    The Dr. Nurse Mama Show: https://www.drnursemama.com/show 

A strong marriage is one of the greatest gifts parents can give their children. In this episode, Josh and Jen share their own story of 25 years together and discuss the habits, decisions, and biblical principles that have kept their relationship steady through every season. They talk about prioritizing one another, learning to forgive quickly, guarding unity, and protecting marriage from the subtle drift that often happens during the busy years of parenting. You will hear how Scripture defines the heart of marriage, why oneness matters, and how to build a home where both husband and wife serve one another with joy. They also discuss common challenges couples face and offer practical ways to strengthen communication, deepen trust, and bring more life into the everyday moments of marriage. This episode gives couples a simple roadmap for growing a marriage that honors God, blesses children, and stands firm when life feels demanding or uncertain.   Book 50 Things Every Child Needs to Know Before Leaving Home: https://bit.ly/50thingspc   Renewanation: https://bit.ly/rangsfpc    Gospel Shaped Family Homepage: https://bit.ly/gsfhpc    Bible in 365: https://bit.ly/b365gsfpc   

This episode explains why a child’s worldview shapes every part of life and why parents must take an active role in forming it. Josh walks through what a worldview is, how early it develops, and why kids absorb cultural messages long before parents expect. You will hear how Scripture provides clarity, purpose, and stability in a world where truth is often treated as personal preference. Josh also outlines six truths children need to understand about God’s Word so they can stand firm as they grow. The conversation gives parents simple steps to begin shaping their child's beliefs at any age, with encouragement for families who feel they are starting late. The goal is to help you guide your children toward a steady, Scripture-rooted view of life.   Book 50 Things Every Child Needs to Know Before Leaving Home: https://bit.ly/50thingspc   Renewanation: https://bit.ly/rangsfpc    Gospel Shaped Family Homepage: https://bit.ly/gsfhpc    Culture Proof Podcast: https://podcast.cultureproof.net/    The Dr. Nurse Mama Show: https://www.drnursemama.com/show 

Crushes begin earlier than many parents expect. Elementary-aged children experience a spark of interest and often have no idea what to do with their feelings. In this episode, Josh and Jen talk about how to guide these early attractions with clarity and wisdom. They explain why crushes are normal, what they reveal about the heart, and how parents can use these moments to shape a child’s view of marriage and relationships. You will hear how the Bible frames desire, why timing matters, and how Song of Songs helps parents understand when not to awaken love. Josh and Jen share practical conversations they have had with their own children, including how to spot character, how to name feelings without being ruled by them, and how to keep the door open for honest questions. This episode gives parents a simple way to walk beside their children with wisdom and warmth. It reminds us that crushes are not something to fear. They are invitations to talk about the kind of men and women our children are becoming.   Book 50 Things Every Child Needs to Know Before Leaving Home: https://bit.ly/50thingspc   Renewanation: https://bit.ly/rangsfpc    Gospel Shaped Family Homepage: https://bit.ly/gsfhpc    Bible in 365: https://bit.ly/b365gsfpc 

In this special episode, Dr. Josh Mulvihill joins Dr. Jessica Peck on American Family Radio’s Dr. Nurse Mama Show to talk about one of the most urgent needs in Christian parenting today—helping children develop a biblical worldview. Josh shares from his book Biblical Worldview: What It Is, Why It Matters, and How to Shape the Worldview of the Next Generation, explaining how parents and grandparents can become the primary spiritual influencers in their families. Together, they discuss why the home—not culture, schools, or media—needs to be where faith is formed and passed on, and what it looks like to raise children who trust God’s Word in a world filled with competing voices. You’ll also hear practical encouragement for building family habits that strengthen faith: reading Scripture together, praying for your children by name, and cultivating relationships that reflect authentic love for Christ. Whether you’re a parent, grandparent, or mentor, this conversation will equip you with hope and tools to help the next generation see life through the lens of God’s Word.   Book 50 Things Every Child Needs to Know Before Leaving Home: https://bit.ly/50thingspc   Renewanation: https://bit.ly/rangsfpc    Gospel Shaped Family Homepage: https://bit.ly/gsfhpc    Culture Proof Podcast: https://podcast.cultureproof.net/    The Dr. Nurse Mama Show: https://www.drnursemama.com/show 

Many families want to eat healthier, but it is hard to know where to start. In this episode, Josh and Jen share the story behind their shift to real food, why they changed their lifestyle, and how they began removing processed foods from their home. Their journey started with simple swaps and grew into raising their own meat, dairy, and eggs. You will hear the practical steps that helped them make lasting change and why it matters for health, stewardship, and family life. They explain the difference between real food and ultra processed food, why so much of the modern diet creates problems for families, and how Christians can think wisely about caring for their bodies. You will also learn ten simple steps for moving from processed foods to real foods without feeling overwhelmed. If you want to give your family a healthier year or need a realistic plan for getting processed foods out of your home, this episode gives you a clear starting point you can use right away.   Book 50 Things Every Child Needs to Know Before Leaving Home: https://bit.ly/50thingspc   Renewanation: https://bit.ly/rangsfpc    Gospel Shaped Family Homepage: https://bit.ly/gsfhpc    Bible in 365: https://bit.ly/b365gsfpc 

The start of a new year provides a natural moment to pause, look at the past season, and set clear goals for the months ahead. In this episode, Josh and Jen share how they assess their home, pray together, and make a simple plan for the growth of each child. Their approach is practical and grounded in Scripture, with a focus on stewardship, purpose, and unity as a couple. You will learn how to create a small parenting retreat, ask the right questions, and use ten key categories to guide your goals for discipleship and family life. Josh and Jen also walk through real examples from their own home, from spiritual habits to character growth to life skills their children need. If you want a clearer direction for your family, or you feel the years moving faster than you can keep up, this conversation can help you slow down, think with intention, and prepare for a stronger year of family discipleship.   Book 50 Things Every Child Needs to Know Before Leaving Home: https://bit.ly/50thingspc   Renewanation: https://bit.ly/rangsfpc    Gospel Shaped Family Homepage: https://bit.ly/gsfhpc    Bible in 365: https://bit.ly/b365gsfpc