How Soccer Explains Leadership Podcast

In Episode 193, we are recasting our incredible interview with Cori Close, Head Coach of UCLA Women's Basketball, who talked with Phil about lessons she learned from her mentor, John Wooden, her personal "Why," what a broom and a shovel have to do with leadership, her Close Conversations, healthy conflict, gratitude, Championship Level Habits, doing the next right thing, and how work done in the dark gets revealed in the light. Specifically, Coach Close discusses: ·      Issues with specialization in one sport too early ·      How she developed her passion for soccer, basketball, and leadership, and how she got to be where she is today ·      Some lessons she learned while being mentored by the incomparable, John Wooden ·      Her personal "Why" and life mission, and how it informs her leadership ·      What are the things from sports that will stay with us for our whole life ·      Why she has a broom and a shovel in her office ·      How we can find and what we can learn from her Close Conversations on social media ·      Why healthy conflict and tension is necessary for any healthy team ·      A "have-to" vs. "get-to" mentality and why it matters ·      Creating and reaching Championship Level Habits ·      Doing the next right thing in the midst of the wrestle and getting back to neutral ·      What she wants her players to know when they leave her program ·      What she has learned directly from basketball (and soccer) that she has used in her life and leadership outside the game(s) ·      How the work done in the dark gets revealed in the light ·      Her book and podcast recommendations Resources and Links from this Episode ·      Coach Close on IG & Twitter (@coachcoriclose), and FB (Cori Close) ·      Uncut Video of the Episode ·      Warrior Way Soccer ·      Paul's email address ·      Nations United Website (World Cup Resources) ·      Phil's email for DISC Training ·      Ted Lasso (Apple TV) ·      Legacy: What the All Blacks Can Teach Us About the Business of Life, by James Kerr ·      The 7 Habits of Highly Successful People, by Stephen R. Covey ·      Chop Wood, Carry Water: How to Fall in Love with the Process of Becoming Great, by Joshua Medcalf ·      Burn Your Goals: The Counter Cultural Approach to Achieving Your Greatest Potential, by Joshua Medcalf ·      The Advantage: Why Organizational Health Trumps Everything Else, by Patrick Lencioni ·      Five Dysfunctions of a Team: A Leadership Fable, by Patrick Lencioni ·      The Third Option: Hope for a Racially Divided Nation, by Miles McPherson ·      "Two Perspectives on Abortion," Think Orphan Podcast, Episode 110 ·      In Pursuit of Orphan Excellence: My Kids, Your Kids, Our Kids, by Philip Darke and Keith McFarland, et. al ·      Atomic Habits: An Easy & Proven Way to Build Good Habits & Break Bad Ones, by James Clear ·      It's Not Supposed to Be This Way: Finding Unexpected Strength When Disappointments Leave You Shattered, by Lisa Terkeurst ·      It Takes What It Takes: How to Think Neutrally and Gain Control of Your Life, by Trever Moawad ·      Win in the Dark, by Joshua Medcalf and Lucas Jadin ·      The Focus 3 Podcast ·      The Relentless Elimination of Hurry: How to Stay Emotionally Healthy and Spiritually Alive in the Chaos of the Modern World, by John Mark Comer ·      Fight Hustle, End Hurry Podcast with John Mark Comer and Jefferson Bethke

In Episode 192, Phil and Paul recap their highlights from the great interviews we've had in Season 13 and discuss the "Nor-Way. We discuss what it is, why it is relevant to this podcast, and whether we should implement a similar philosophy into youth sports around the world. Some of the topics covered are free play, reduced early specialization, lifelong health, and how we can reduce the dropout rate in youth sports, urging parents and coaches to keep sport player-driven and enjoyable. It's a fun and informative conversation that you don't want to miss. Resources and Links from this Episode ·                 Uncut Video of the Episode ·                 HSEL Facebook Group ·                 Warrior Way Soccer ·                 Paul's email address ·                 Nations United Website (World Cup Resources) ·                 Information about DISC Behavioral Training for your Team (with Phil)

In Episode 191, Phil and Paul sat down with Jim Spence, founder of Sports Quest, to explore a 30-year journey of soccer ministry, leadership development, and faithful obedience. Jim shares how a young Englishman with dreams of professional cricket became a lifelong soccer missionary in Houston, Texas. Through stories of shattered athletic dreams, ministry pivots, and hard-earned leadership wisdom, Jim reveals how sport can be a powerful platform for sharing Christ and shaping lives. From apologizing to players to navigating burnout, this conversation is packed with practical leadership insights for coaches, parents, and ministry leaders alike. Resources and Links from this Episode ·                 Sports Quest Website ·                 Uncut Video of the Episode ·                 HSEL Facebook Group ·                 Warrior Way Soccer ·                 Paul's email address ·                 Nations United Website (World Cup Resources) ·                 Phil's email for DISC Training  

In Episode 190, Phil and Paul dive into the importance of individual and team development in every level of soccer. They discuss the role of effective communication between coaches and players, emphasizing the significance of understanding each player's personality and motivational needs. Paul brings his recent experiences from his new role as a club director to the table, particularly surrounding the recurring theme of balancing tactical instructions with personal development. We also discuss the critical influence parents have on their children's athletic experience and offers advice on how parents and coaches can foster a positive, growth-oriented environment. Listeners will come away with actionable insights on improving team dynamics, supporting individual players' growth, and fostering a healthy sports culture both on and off the field. Resources and Links from this Episode ·                 Uncut Video of the Episode ·                 HSEL Facebook Group ·                 Warrior Way Soccer ·                 Paul's email address ·                 Nations United Website (World Cup Resources) ·                 Phil's email for DISC Training

In Episode 189, Phil and Paul had a great conversation with Thuy Williams, an incredible athlete and coach of the US Amputee Soccer National Team using her skills and talents in the world of all-abilities and sports ministry. During the interview, she shares her incredible journey from being rescued out of Vietnam during Operation Babylift, to her childhood as an adoptee in the US, to becoming a coach and mentor in various sports, including soccer and lacrosse, around the world. Despite battling a degenerative muscle bone disease, debilitating pain, and PTSD, Thuy has remained resilient and dedicated to impacting lives through sports. She discusses the role of sports in her healing from childhood trauma and PTSD, her work with amputee and blind soccer, and the profound influence of everyday heroes in her life. Thuy also provides some practical advice for getting involved in all-abilities sports and her perspective on leadership that stems from genuine care and encouragement. She even talks about how coaches can save lives.  Resources and Links from this Episode        ·                 Uncut Video of the Episode ·                 US Amputee Soccer Website ·                 Nations United (World Cup Disciple Making Resources) Website ·                 HSEL Facebook Group ·                 Warrior Way Soccer ·                 Providence World Website ·                 Phil's email for DISC Training ·                 Remember the Titans ·                 Glory Road ·                 McFarland ·                 Spare Parts (Yes, that's the Robotics one) ·                 Hoosiers

In Episode 188, we are re-casting our conversation with Wells Thompson, Former MLS midfielder and 1st Round Draft Pick, Co-Founder of Soccer Resilience, husband, and father. This was our most downloaded episode of 2025 and Top 2 for both Paul and me. In this episode, he talked with Paul and Phil about his journey from childhood adversity to the MLS, his struggles with identity and mental health, his faith journey and his personal why relating to that journey, his difficulties transitioning to life after soccer, why left Soccer Resilience after founding and leading it for a few years, and a lot of wisdom regarding true leadership. They also discuss how soccer and other sports are incredible classrooms, and how he is learning deep life lessons every single day as a stay-at-home dad, husband, and father of athletes. The interview is full of vulnerable moments, personal stories, and practical advice. Specifically, they discuss: ·      How Wells developed his passion for soccer, leadership, faith in God, and how he went from rolling with the wrong crowd, getting into drugs, and not being recruited to college to playing for Wake Forest and getting drafted 5th in the MLS Draft (7:30) ·      Lessons he learned in his pro career (17:10) ·      His transition to life after soccer (20:51) ·      His personal why, vulnerability as a superpower, and how he is living out his life purpose (27:58) ·      The revelation that caused him to leave Soccer Resilience (32:44) ·      How Soccer Resilience got started, some of the great things coming out of it, and how starting/running a business is like working to be a pro soccer player (and a couple great quotes from Nelson Mandela and Billy Graham) (36:39) ·      How he went from not making ODP to playing professional soccer, how that is relevant to the parenting of his kids while they are playing sports, and what we can learn from his journey (43:39) ·      Balancing pushing our kids to be the best they can be and learning life lessons from sports without getting too involved (especially at the wrong time or place) and/or forcing them to play sports they don't want to play (52:11) ·      What actually goes into being a pro athlete (55:30) ·      What he didn't learn as a pro athlete (hint: it is very relevant to this podcast) (57:25) ·      Leadership from the bench (1:02:26) ·      Lessons that he has learned from the game that he uses in his marriage and parenting (1:04:31) ·      What he has watched, read, or listened to that has impacted his thinking on how soccer explains life and leadership (1:07:58) Resources and Links from this Episode ·                 Uncut Video of the Episode ·                 HSEL Facebook Group ·                 Warrior Way Soccer ·                 Coaching the Bigger Game Program ·                 Phil's email for DISC Training ·                 Wrestling with Angels: A True Story of Addiction, Resurrection, Hope, Fashion, Training Celebrities, and Man's Oldest Sport, John Hanrahan ·                 Main Street Millionaire: How to Make Extraordinary Wealth Buying Ordinary Businesses, Codie Sanchez

In Episode 187, Phil and Paul reflect on their top HSEL episodes and their personal highlights of 2025. They discuss lessons learned from various guests, personal highs and lows, including transitions in their careers and families. Through their candid discussion, they emphasize the importance of slowing down, reflecting on what truly matters, beauty in brokenness, and the profound impact of soccer on teaching life's most valuable lessons. What are your Top 5 episodes of 2025? Resources and Links from this Episode ·      Uncut Video of the Episode ·      Warrior Way Soccer ·      Phil's email for DISC Training ·      Nations United Website ·      Providence World Website

In Episode 186, Carl Dambman, Athletes in Action Missionary, Olympic Wrestler, Author of In God's Grip, husband, and father, talks with Phil and Paul about his unique journey with wrestling and pioneering sports ministry behind the Iron Curtain during the Cold War in the '70s and '80s. He shares about his remarkable experiences in sports ministry, including challenges and successes covertly sharing the Gospel and some crazy experiences during border crossings and martial law in Poland. He also talks about his book, In God's Grip, which details his work in the USSR, and how his faith journey and his mentors have had a significant impact on his life and career. Carl emphasizes the importance of collaboration in ministry, knowing one's role on teams and in life, and how the principles learned in sports translate to leadership, marriage, and parenting. Resources and Links from this Episode ·      Carl and Noreen Dambman's Athletes in Action Website ·      Carl's book, In God's Grip ·      Uncut Video of the Episode ·      Warrior Way Soccer ·      Phil's email for DISC Training ·      Nations United Website ·      Athletes in Action website ·      FCA 3D Coaching

In Episode 185, Warren Mainard, Executive Director of Impact Players, husband, and father, talks with Phil and Paul about how his tennis career shaped his approach to life and leadership. The conversation covers the importance for men to surround themselves with a band of brothers, being a thermostat not a thermometer, the concept of 'audacious authenticity,' how tennis can help us resolve conflict in our marriage and family, and the transformative power of sports in building resilience and character. Warren also emphasizes the critical roles of faith, marriage, and family in a man's life and how Impact Players aims to inspire men to live intentionally. Listeners will gain insights into Warren's personal journey, his coaching philosophy, and practical advice on integrating faith and leadership into every aspect of life.     Resources and Links from this Episode   ·      Impact Players Website ·      Uncut Video of the Episode ·      Warrior Way Soccer ·      Phil's email for DISC Training ·      Nations United Website ·      Winning Ugly: Mental Warfare in Tennis—Lessons from a Master, Brad Gilbert ·      "Break Point" (Netflix) ·      "Full Swing" (Netflix)

In Episode 184, Phil and Paul reflect on the first half of Season 13, discussing highlights from their conversations with Greg Rubendall, Rick McKinley, Becca Darke, and Peter Greer. They also talk about ways we can redeem time in our lives, particularly in the context of parent-child relationships, and the importance of creating meaningful time with your kids and spouses. Resources and Links from this Episode ·      Uncut Video of the Episode ·      Warrior Way Soccer ·      Phil's email for DISC Training ·      Nations United Website

In Episode 183, we are sharing with you an interview from Phil's other podcast, Think Global, Do Justice, with Peter Greer, President of Hope International and Author of How Leaders Lose Their Way and How to Make Sure It Doesn't Happen to You, who discusses how leaders can avoid personal mission drift through awareness (and stopping) of our misguided pursuits and rowing against the dangerous currents in our lives, such as isolation and self-focus. Peter uses the book of Ecclesiastes and story of Solomon to share practices and disciplines that can help you to finish well, such as constellation mentoring, people over projects and achievement, succession planning and cultivating younger leaders, fear of God, eulogy vs. resume virtues, and one of the biggest dangers you'll face in your leadership. Resources and Links from this Episode ·      How Leaders Lose Their Way and How to Make Sure It Doesn't Happen to You, Peter Greer and Jill Heisey ·      Warrior Way Soccer ·      Phil's email for DISC Training ·      Nations United Website ·      Lead with Prayer, Peter Greer, Ryan Skoog, Cameron Doolittle ·      Think Global, Do Justice Podcast (formerly Think Orphan Podcast)

In Episode 182, Becca Darke, Colorado College Women's Soccer Hall of Famer, former PE Teacher, former Athletes in Action staff, mother of five, and, yes, wife of Phil, shares with Phil and Paul about her journey from hockey-centric Minnesota to her youth and collegiate soccer career, how she battled injuries, and her growing faith that led her to ministry in sports. Becca shares her experiences as the Atlanta Beat Chaplain, affirming the role of soccer in shaping character, leadership, and relationships. Becca also reflects on her personal 'why,' how Scripture continually shapes her, the importance of "making room" for others in our lives, and lessons from the game that have been applied in her marriage, parenting, and teaching roles. Resources and Links from this Episode ·      Uncut Video of the Episode ·      Warrior Way Soccer ·      Phil's email for DISC Training ·      Nations United Website ·      Lead with Prayer, Peter Greer, Ryan Skoog, Cameron Doolittle ·      Horst Richardson HSEL Episode

In Episode 181, we are giving you an annual dose of one of our favorite interviews of all time, going back to our conversation with Graham Daniels, Ph.D., Director of Cambridge United, Director of Christians in Sport, and former player for Cambridge United and Cardiff City. He talked with us about the "Pray, Play, Say" discipleship/leadership method, his personal why, his incredible testimony of how he came to his faith in Jesus Christ and how one pivotal moment changed the course of his life forever, the critical importance of a Christian identity in elite football, achieved vs. received identity, Service vs. Survival, humility, and a leader who he respects deeply. Specifically, Graham discusses: ·      His personal story, including how he grew his passion for football, coaching, ministry, and leadership, and how he got to be where he is today ·      An incredible story about how he came to his Christian faith, despite one of the "worst evangelists" of all time ·      His personal why/mission statement and how he is living it out ·      Achieved identity vs. Received identity - Identity formation and his Ph.D. thesis on the necessity of Christian identity in dealing with performance requirements of elite football ·      Three things that provide a framework for ministry in sports ·      Safe to serve, not scared and surviving ·      A defining moment in his life and how it impacted his development ·      A leader that sticks out above the rest to him (A Premier League Manager that may surprise you) ·      How he has used lessons learned from sports in his marriage and parenting ·      His recommendations Resources and Links from this Episode ·      Uncut Video of the Episode ·      HSEL Facebook Group ·      Warrior Way Soccer ·      Coaching the Bigger Game Program ·      Phil's email for DISC Training ·      Humility, by Andrew Murray ·      Ted Lasso (Apple TV+)

In Episode 180, Rick McKinley, Missionary Athletes International's (MAI) Director of Int'l Tours. Shares with Phil and Paul his extensive journey through sports, including impactful stories from his days as an athlete, coach, and missionary. He discusses his commitment to integrating faith and soccer, describing significant moments that shaped his understanding of the Gospel and relying on God's strength. Key highlights include Rick's impactful moments on mission trips, the importance of aligning personal identity with God rather than performance, and his efforts in training coaches globally to incorporate gospel-centered principles in their coaching methods. The episode also delves deep into personal stories, mentoring impacts, and recommended resources that have influenced Rick's approach to leadership and faith. If you're wanting to learn more about integrating sports and ministry, you definitely want to listen to this one. Resources and Links from this Episode ·      Uncut Video of the Episode ·      Warrior Way Soccer ·      Phil's email for DISC Training ·      The Christian Athlete, Brian Smith ·      Lead with Prayer, Peter Greer, Ryan Skoog, Cameron Doolittle ·      A Hunger for God, John Piper ·      The Freedom of Self-Forgetfulness, Tim Keller ·      The Mark of the Christian, Francis Schaffer ·      Horst Richardson HSEL Episode ·      Dave Irby HSEL Episode

In Episode 179, Phil and Paul engage in an eclectic and wide-ranging conversation with Greg Rubendall, who has recently started a new venture in Sacramento, ASC Midtown, and a new podcast, "The Road Warrior." The episode covers topics from personal updates to more philosophical discussions touching on biomechanics, conservation genetics, classical literature, leadership, and the power of unstructured play. Greg shares his insights on the importance of continual learning, community development, and creating environments where everyone can flourish. This engaging dialogue also explores the impact of technology in sports and the unique developmental methods observed in European soccer academies. You definitely don't want to miss this one. Resources and Links from this Episode ·      Uncut Video of the Episode ·      Warrior Way Soccer ·      Phil's email for DISC Training ·      Candide, Voltaire ·      Start with Why, Simon Sinek ·      "Start with Why" TED Talk

In Episode 178, Phil and Paul reconnect to kick off Season 13, reflecting on their eventful summer and discussing key leadership lessons they learned along the way. They share personal stories and a new role for Paul in the soccer world. They delve into important lessons such as the importance of being still, focusing on prayer, understanding the evolving roles as parents, and embracing an open-handed approach to life. They emphasize the concept of being in charge without needing to be in control and the critical need for focus and needing to say no to good things for the great things. Join them as they set the stage for another impactful season filled with insightful conversations. Resources and Links from this Episode ·                 Uncut Video of the Episode ·                 HSEL Facebook Group ·                 Warrior Way Soccer ·                 Phil's email for DISC Training  

In Episode 177, we are recasting our episode with Becky Burleigh, Co-Founder of What Drives Winning, former University of Florida Women's Soccer Coach (for 27 years), and Methodist College Hall of Famer, who talked with Phil and Paul about the life and leadership lessons she learned over the course of her playing career and her extensive coaching career at University of Florida and Berry College, the story behind What Drives Winning, some great WDW principles, her personal why, a defining moment in her career, and making the most of every opportunity. Specifically, Becky discusses: ·      Her personal story, including how she grew her passion for soccer, coaching, and leadership, and how she got to where she is today with What Drives Winning ·      Her personal why/mission statement and how she is living it out ·      What Drives Winning's mission and what she hopes people will get out of the great materials WDW produces ·      Two key questions that she asks herself every year and why we should do the same ·      Why she uses DISC model of human behavior in her work and why she believes all coaches should use it with their teams ·      The concept of weak voice vs. strong voice and what we can do about it ·      "Struggle really a biological requirement for greatness" – Really? ·      Her defining moment and how it impacted her development ·      What advice she would like to give her 25-year-old self ·      The importance of finding a "thinking partner" ·      The good, bad, and ugly of US Soccer ·      How she has used lessons learned from the game in her relationships outside the game ·      Her recommendations Resources and Links from this Episode ·      What Drives Winning Website ·      Uncut Video of the Episode ·      HSEL Facebook Group ·      Warrior Way Soccer ·      Coaching the Bigger Game Program ·      Phil's email for DISC Training ·      The Talent Code: Greatness isn't born. It's Grown. Here's How, by Daniel Coyle ·      The Culture Code: The Secrets of Highly Successful Teams, by Daniel Coyle ·      What Drives Winning: Teams, by Becky Burleigh and Brett Ledbetter ·      "Welcome to Wrexham" (Hulu) ·      "Ted Lasso" (Apple TV+} ·      "38 in the Garden" (HBO Max)

In Episode 176, we are recasting our recruiting episode with our very own Paul Jobson, who now is Director of Atletico Dallas Youth-Central Texas after his retirement from coaching at Baylor Futbol, when he talked with Phil about how players, parents, and coaches can navigate the recruiting process with more excellence. Specifically, he covers: ·      How the recruiting process should be a fun "get-to" ·      The parallels of the college recruiting process and job searches ·      The coach's and assistant coach's perspective of the recruiting process ·      How coaches filter through the thousands of emails they get throughout the year, and how to separate yourself from the multitudes ·      Confirmation bias in coaches, how it affects the recruiting process, and what you can do to ensure you're on the right side of the bias ·      The importance of treating every coach with respect and never burning any bridges during the recruiting process ·      What should you do if a school you're not interested in is recruiting you? ·      How can you know if a coach is interested in you vs. just trying to get you to go to a camp? ·      Are camps worth the time and expense? ·      A reminder that the recruiting process should be a highlight of your life Resources and Links from this Episode ·      Don Williams HSEL Episode ·      Video of the Episode ·      HSEL YouTube Channel ·      HSEL Facebook Group ·      Warrior Way Soccer ·      Providence World website ·      Coaching the Bigger Game Program ·      Phil's email for DISC Training ·      Open: An Autobiography, by Andre Agassi

In Episode 175, we are recasting our conversation with Keith Tozer, Commissioner of the Major Arena Soccer League, Coach of the US Futsal National Team, MISL coach and player in five decades, the first-ever pick in the MISL Draft, and a Hall of Famer in multiple hall of fames, who talked with Paul and Phil about what he has learned over the course of his five-decade long career playing and coaching indoor and outdoor soccer and futsal, why all teams should use futsal/indoor soccer as part of their player development, the power of the Geese "V" formation, leading up, his personal why, mentorship, how he has used lessons from soccer in his role as MASL Commissioner. Specifically, Keith discusses: ·      His personal story, including how he grew his passion for soccer, particularly indoor and futsal, coaching, and leadership, and how he got to be Commissioner of the MASL – and we inadvertently talked about answers to some possible trivia questions as well (3:58) ·      Why he believes that futsal and indoor are critical to training and should be an integral part of development at all levels (8:46) ·      His personal why/mission statement and how he is living it out (16:06) ·      The power of the Geese "V" formation and what leadership lessons we can learn from it (18:17) ·      His defining moment and how it impacted his development (22:46) ·      How he navigated the transition to coaching from playing, and his stint as a player/manager, and the leadership lessons he learned on his journey (25:45) ·      How he intentionally sought out mentors as a young leader and what he learned from his mentors (32:00) ·      The power of leading up (35:31) ·      A couple of the best leaders he played or coached with, and what set them apart from the rest (37:10) ·      What he would tell the 27-year-old Keith Tozer if he could go back in time (41:25) ·      A great story about empowering, servant leadership (43:26) ·      How he is using lessons learned from the game of soccer in his role as Commissioner of the MASL (48:07) ·      The good, bad, and ugly of US Soccer, how the MASL is helping to move the game forward in the US (49:30) ·      How he has used lessons learned from the game in his marriage and parenting (59:57) ·      Her recommendations (1:01:06) Resources and Links from this Episode ·      MASL Website ·      US Youth Futsal Website ·      Uncut Video of the Episode ·      HSEL Facebook Group ·      Warrior Way Soccer ·      Coaching the Bigger Game Program ·      Phil's email for DISC Training ·      The Winner Within: A Life Plan for Team Players, by Pat Riley

In Episode 174, we are recasting our interview with Andrew Simpson, Mindset Coach, Author of Athlete! I'm Talking to You: 7 Mindset Hacks to Dominate in Sports and Life and The Youth Truth: Coaching & Parenting in Today's Crazy Youth Sports World, and Founder of Player's Fitness & Performance ("PFP"), who talked with Paul and Phil about some mindset hacks that can help us develop and rebuild, if necessary, a healthy mindset in ourselves and our athletes, some mistakes that 98% of parents of athletes make, his two books, his personal mission, lessons learned from his athletic career that he is using in his business, a couple mentors who have influenced his journey, and how we can overcome some of the most common mental obstacles athletes face. Specifically, Andrew discusses: ·      His personal story, including how he grew his passion for sports, fitness, and mindset and performance coaching, and how he got to be where he is today (6:35) ·      A common misconception about mental health and how we can overcome it (11:11) ·      His personal why/mission statement and how he is living it out (12:59) ·      The mentors who most influenced him and how they impacted him (16:43) ·      A defining moment in his life and how it impacted his development (21:08) ·      Lessons he has learned from sports that he uses in his business and coaching (23:55) ·      Some of the most common mental obstacles athletes face and how they can overcome them and fulfill their potential (25:54) ·      Social media and the comparison trap (31:08) ·      How you can rebuild a healthy mindset in a young athlete (33:38) ·      His two books, why he wrote them, and what he hopes his readers will get out of them (41:49) ·      Why parents and coaches also need to be focusing on their mental health as it relates to their children/players' flourishing (49:21) ·      A couple common mistakes that 98% of parents make during their athletes' journeys (51:32) ·      A couple mindset hacks that can help you and your athletes dominate in sports and life (57:21) ·      How he has used lessons learned from sports in his marriage and parenting (1:03:07) ·      His recommendations (1:05:58) Resources and Links from this Episode ·      Andrew's Website ·      Uncut Video of the Episode ·      HSEL Facebook Group ·      Warrior Way Soccer ·      Coaching the Bigger Game Program ·      Phil's email for DISC Training ·      Emotionally Healthy Spirituality: It's Impossible to be Spiritually Mature, While Remaining Emotionally Immature, by Peter Scazzero ·      You Win in the Locker Room First: The 7 C's to Build a Winning Team in Business, Sports, and Life, by Jon Gordon and Mike Smith