Orthodox Christian Parenting

Your parenting is not just about what you say and do; it’s a reflection of your inner life. In this episode, Father Stephen Muse joins the podcast to explain why repentance is one of the most important things we can cultivate as parents as we pursue eternity and seek to raise children who know and love God. He also encourages us to slow down, create room for exhale and accept that we won’t always have all the answers. Download this week's free Discussion Guide here. Episode Recap:Today we’re talking with Father Stephen Muse about parenting in repentance.How can pursuing eternity transform our parenting? Parenting is not about knowing the answers.What does it mean to parent from an attitude of repentance?  How do we slow down when we feel like we don’t have the margin?  What does moderation look like in a world that values busyness?  How can we keep fear from taking control in our parenting? What gives you hope right now?  How can repentance lead to actual lasting change?  What advice do you have for someone struggling with patterns from their childhood?How should we respond if our adult children are straying from the Church?Resources:Follow and rate the podcast on Apple, Spotify or YouTubeDownload this episode’s free Discussion GuideExplore the full library of Faithtree ResourcesDownload The Encounter app and join our Lenten book club“10 Things Every Orthodox Parent Should Know” “Parenting in Repentance” by Fr. Stephen Muse

What does it mean when we say that children are icons of Christ? And how should that awareness impact the way we relate to our kids? In this episode, Dr. Philip Mamalakis returns to the show to answer these questions and more about raising children to love Christ and parenting in the midst of chaos. He shares practical advice for parents (and grandparents) of young kids and teenagers alike—including warning signs that signal we’re drifting off track.Download The Encounter app at https://www.faithtree.org/the-encounterFind the “10 Things Every Orthodox Parent Should Know” ebook at https://www.faithtree.org/parentingEpisode Recap:Today Dr. Philip Mamalakis is returning to the podcast.Why are children icons of Christ, and how should that impact how we treat them? What does it look like to recognize Christ’s presence in the daily chaos of family life? How do we build stamina as parents? Can you share some tips for treating teenagers as icons of Christ? What are some signs that we’re drifting off track? The goal of parenting is not to be a good parent—it’s to be responsive to our children.How can we approach dating intentionally with our children? Do you have advice for grandparents whose children aren’t part of the Church?Resources:Follow and rate the podcast on Apple, Spotify or YouTubeDownload this episode’s free Discussion GuideExplore the full library of Faithtree ResourcesDownload The Encounter app“10 Things Every Orthodox Parent Should Know” “Parenting Toward the Kingdom” by Dr. Philip Mamalakis”Handing Down the Faith: How Parents Pass Their Religion On to the Next Generation” by Christian Smith, Amy Adamczyk, et al. 

As Orthodox Christian parents, we have one primary job and one goal: to help our children pursue a life of holiness. In this episode, Paul and Cindy Karos return to the podcast to discuss how we can help our children become Christlike—from actively participating in the life of the Church to making thoughtful choices in areas like extracurricular activities.They also explain the analogy of the path and the summit and share what it can teach us about living our daily lives in pursuit of holiness and union with God. Download The Encounter app at https://www.faithtree.org/the-encounterFind the “10 Things Every Orthodox Parent Should Know” ebook at https://www.faithtree.org/parentingEpisode Recap:Today we’re talking with Paul and Cindy Karos about the goal of Orthodox Christian parenting.Why is helping our children pursue holiness the most important thing?The journey of faith is a journey toward the summit, which is union with God. The path of becoming Christlike is one we’re called to follow our entire life.How do we teach our children to follow the path? Can you share some practical examples of following the path in the context of extracurricular activities?How do we help kids pursue their talents while also staying close to the life of the church?Look at where you’re spending time and money to understand what you value. How can you introduce Orthodoxy to kids for the first time? There’s no better path or summit than this one! Resources:Follow and rate the podcast on Apple, Spotify or YouTubeDownload this episode’s free Discussion GuideExplore the full library of Faithtree ResourcesDownload The Encounter app“10 Things Every Orthodox Parent Should Know” 

We can’t (and shouldn’t) shield our kids from all adversity, but we can help them become strong, resilient people who know how to walk through challenges. In this episode, we talk with Father Nick and Dr. Roxanne Louh about what it means to raise resilient kids. They share their unique perspectives on parenting together as a priest and psychologist and answer listener questions about teaching sacrificial love, letting our kids experience obstacles and more. Follow the podcast for more content like this as we kick off Season 2! Download The Encounter app at https://www.faithtree.org/the-encounterFind the “10 Things Every Orthodox Parent Should Know” ebook at https://www.faithtree.org/parentingEpisode Recap:Today we’re talking with Father Nick and Dr. Roxanne Louh about raising resilient children.What inspired you to write “Renewing You”?How do we make space for our kids’ feelings while also setting boundaries?  What does it look like to build values-based boundaries?  How can we build resilience in our own lives?  Is resilience a learnable skill?  Why is discernment so important for kids, and how can we help them develop it? How can we help kids balance sacrificial love and strength? How might well-meaning parents be unintentionally hurting their kids’ resilience?Resources:Follow and rate the podcast on Apple, Spotify or YouTubeDownload this episode’s free Discussion GuideExplore the full library of Faithtree ResourcesDownload The Encounter app“10 Things Every Orthodox Parent Should Know” “Renewing You” by Fr. Nicholas and Dr. Roxanne Louh

There are few things we love more on this podcast than getting to connect with listeners and answer real questions that matter. In this episode, Dr. Philip Mamalakis returns to the podcast to tackle some of your top parenting questions about correcting bad behaviors, navigating relationships with friends and romantic partners, teaching discernment and much more. Whether you’re a young parent, a parent of adult children, or even a grandparent, this episode is full of practical insights and encouragement! Find the “10 Things Every Orthodox Parent Should Know eBook” at https://www.faithtree.org/parentingDownload The Encounter app at https://www.faithtree.org/the-encounterEpisode Recap:Today we’re answering your top parenting questions with Dr. Philip Mamalakis.What do I do if my kids are dismissive toward me? Is it ever too late to change your parenting?How do I respond if my adult child dates someone of a different faith? What advice can you give to grandparents whose children have left the Church? How do we teach our kids discernment? How should we respond to and love our kids’ friends?What do I do when another adult corrects my child? How do I best support my special needs child? What do I do if my child tells me they’re questioning their sexuality? How do we teach our children to be compassionate, prayerful people? Resources:Follow and rate the podcast on Apple, Spotify, or YouTubeDownload this episode’s free discussion guideExplore the full library of Faithtree ResourcesTake our quick listener survey and help shape Season 2Support Faithtree this Giving Tuesday

In a culture that’s pulling us in a thousand other directions, how do we raise our kids to love and stay close to the Church? In this episode, we’re joined by His Grace Bishop Anthony Michaels for a conversation that’s full of wisdom and encouragement for Orthodox parents everywhere. He shares about the importance of fostering real connections and relationships, explains how his parents raised him to love the Church from a young age, and reminds us that we’re probably doing better than we think. You don’t want to miss this one! Find the “10 Things Every Orthodox Parent Should Know eBook” at https://www.faithtree.org/parentingDownload The Encounter app at https://www.faithtree.org/the-encounterEpisode Recap:Today we’re talking about raising kids who love the church with Bishop Anthony Michaels.How did your parents help cement your love for the Church? How can parents foster a faith community outside the walls of the Church? Why do you say most parents are doing better than they think?Why is isolation one of the biggest dangers for young people? What can parents do to help kids with feelings of loneliness? How can we balance planning with surrendering control?How can parents help kids build a faith that’s all their own?Thank you, parents!Resources:Follow and rate the podcast on Apple, Spotify, or YouTubeDownload this episode’s free discussion guideExplore the full library of Faithtree Resources and shop our Black Friday saleTake our quick listener survey and help shape Season 2

Anxiety is more common than ever today, but as Christians, we don’t have to navigate it alone. In this episode, our friend George Papageorge returns to the podcast to talk about all things anxiety — from the worries we feel as parents to the anxieties our children might face to the ways we can adjust our schedules, tech usage and perspectives in response. He also reminds us that anxiety is normal (and sometimes even healthy), but we don’t have to let it control us or our children. Episode Recap:Today we’re talking about anxiety with George Papageorge. What is anxiety, and how should parents approach it? How can anxiety shape a young person’s beliefs? Is anxiety always a bad thing? Why is anxiety more prevalent today? How can we make sure our anxieties don’t spread to our children?Where’s the line between normal worries and anxiety that needs to be addressed? How can we help mitigate anxiety without trying to control everything?How does drawing closer to Christ help ease anxiety?Why do you say that “kids are like cupcakes”?How can we connect with our kids’ vulnerability in a positive way? Why is margin so important when we’re feeling anxious? What recommendations do you have around tech usage? What encouragement can you give to parents feeling anxious? Resources:Follow and rate the podcast on Apple, Spotify, or YouTubeDownload this episode’s free discussion guideExplore the full library of Faithtree ResourcesDownload the Relationship ProjectFill out our listener survey and enter to win a $50 gift card

How can we teach our children gratitude in a world that’s constantly telling them (and us) that we should always want more? In this episode, Paul and Cindy Karos return to the podcast to share practical tips and encouraging words for parents who are looking for healthy alternatives to materialism. They talk about their own experience with raising their children to value gratitude, give generously and live simply. They also answer a few listener questions and discuss how you can take a balanced approach to the coming Christmas season.|Find the “10 Things Every Orthodox Parent Should Know eBook” at https://www.faithtree.org/parentingDownload The Encounter app at https://www.faithtree.org/the-encounterEpisode Recap:Today we’re talking about gratitude and materialism with Paul and Cindy Karos.Why is materialism such an issue in our culture? How do you teach your children to find “the middle way”?What are some signs that we’ve maybe lost balance?How have you taught your kids to value giving?The simpler you live, the more freedom you have.How did you approach fasting as a family? Can you share some strategies you used to teach thankfulness? Do you have any tips for approaching the Christmas season intentionally? What would you say to a parent whose child is obsessed with trendy things?Resources:Follow and rate the podcast on Apple, Spotify, or YouTubeDownload this episode’s free discussion guideExplore the full library of Faithtree ResourcesGet The Encounter app“Parenting Toward the Kingdom” by Dr. Philip Mamalakis (with the new companion guide) 10 Things Every Orthodox Parent Should Know

Ever wonder if your kids are really noticing your faith or if anything you’re doing is sinking in? In this episode, Michelle sits down with musician Joe Ayoub to talk about the quiet, powerful ways parents shape their children’s spiritual lives without even realizing it. Joe reflects on how the lessons his parents modeled decades ago still shape his life today, and why love will always reach further than guilt or fear. If you’ve ever questioned whether your example matters, this episode will remind you that your kids are watching, and God is working—even when you can’t see it yet. Don’t forget to subscribe so you never miss an episode.Our Foundations of Faith cards offer an engaging and easy way to teach the essentials of Orthodoxy, providing a beautifully designed introduction to help new members feel at home. Learn More at https://www.faithtree.org/cardsThe Lionheart Sessions offer a transformative four-week curriculum designed to integrate men into the life of the Church. Learn More at https://www.faithtree.orgEpisode Recap:In this episode, we’re talking with Joe AyoubHow did Joe’s parents shape his faith?What role did freedom play in helping him stay connected to the Church?Why is unconditional love more powerful than guilt or fear in parenting?What hope can parents hold onto when their children take a different path?Resources:Follow and rate the podcast on Apple, Spotify, or YouTube Download this episode’s free discussion guideExplore the full library of Faithtree ResourcesDownload The Encounter appGet your copy of 10 Things Every Orthodox Parent Should Know

We all want to feel like we’re doing a good job raising our kids. But what does success actually mean for Orthodox Christian parents? In this episode, Dr. Philip Mamalakis returns to the podcast to share his perspective on the long-term goals parents should focus on when raising children who know God and love the Church. He also offers some practical tips for prioritizing hard work over accolades, creating a safe space for our kids to make mistakes, and helping them find their vocation. Find the “10 Things Every Orthodox Parent Should Know eBook” at https://www.faithtree.org/parentingDownload The Encounter app at https://www.faithtree.org/the-encounterEpisode Recap:Today we’re welcoming Dr. Philip Mamalakis back to the podcast How can we define success for ourselves and our children? What have you done to raise children who’ve stayed engaged in the life of the Church?How can we avoid prioritizing accolades and achievement? What does it look like to bring the Church into the home?How can parents set realistic expectations?Why should we teach our kids to make mistakes? How can we find balance between hard work and pursuit of excellence?How do you guide your children through finding their vocations? What do you do with a child who’s struggling to tell the truth? Can you share advice for co-parents who don’t share the same beliefs?Resources:Follow and rate the podcast on Apple, Spotify, or YouTube Download this episode’s free discussion guideExplore the full library of Faithtree Resources Get The Encounter App“Parenting Toward the Kingdom” by Dr. Philip Mamalakis (with the new companion guide) 

It’s normal to feel afraid for our children and worry about their futures. But when we let those feelings take control, it often leads to a style of parenting that doesn’t consider our children's emotional lives. In this episode, George Papageorge explains how we can embrace peace and prioritize heart-to-heart communication that makes our children feel known and loved. He also reminds us to develop our own healthy emotional lives, so we can better serve God and love our children. Finally, he shares some advice and encouragement for parents who worry about their children leaving the church when they grow older. George is a marriage and family therapist with more than 35 years of experience working with families, so you won’t want to miss out on his expert perspective! Episode Recap:Today we’re talking with George Papageorge about building deeper connections with our children What can parents do to foster heart-to-heart connections?How can we help our children feel known and loved?What might it look like to parent out of peace instead of fear? What is the parenting stethoscope, and how does it work? With so many things to be afraid of today, how can we embrace faith instead?What does a healthy emotional life look like for a parent, and why is it so important? How do we know if we’re good listeners? What can the parable of the prodigal son teach us about parenting? How can we help our children stay connected to the church?What are the killers of communication?How can we repair broken communication? Resources:Follow and rate the podcast on Apple, Spotify, or YouTube Download this episode’s free discussion guideExplore the full library of Faithtree ResourcesDr. John Gottman’s research

The culture around us can make it seem like technology use is just inevitable. But as a parent, you have the power to choose what role you want technology to play in the life of your family. In this episode, Dr. Felicia Wu Song joins the podcast to share some of her best advice and encouragement for parenting in the digital age. She explains why intentionality is so important when it comes to technology and shares some practical examples of what it can look like to set healthy boundaries. She also reminds us that every family and every child is different and encourages parents to get creative and stay open to experimentation. Find the “10 Things Every Orthodox Parent Should Know eBook” at https://www.faithtree.org/parentingDownload The Encounter app at https://www.faithtree.org/the-encounterEpisode Recap:Today we’re talking with Dr. Felicia Wu Song about parenting in the digital age Why do you say that technology is not inevitable? How can parents go against the grain with technology usage? What is monotasking, and why do you recommend it? Is technology neutral? How can parents have grace for themselves as they navigate this new environment? Should we engage with technology at all? What might it look like to experiment with technology use as a family? What tools do you recommend for maintaining boundaries? Resources:Follow and rate the podcast on Apple, Spotify, or YouTube Download this episode’s free discussion guideExplore the full library of Faithtree Resources“Restless Devices” by Dr. Felicia Wu SongDownload our guide to “Navigating the Digital Tsunami” Download The Encounter appBePresent AppBrick

We all want to raise our kids to love God and love the Church, but what are the practical strategies that can help us do that? In this episode, Paul and Cindy Karos reflect on the biggest lessons they learned from parenting three children who have stayed deeply rooted in the Church into adulthood. They share some of the tactics that worked well for them, like surrounding their family with friends who share the faith and teaching their kids about the saints, along with a few things they wish they’d done differently. They also offer encouragement to any parent who feels like they’re running on empty. Wherever you are in your parenting journey, this episode is full of relatable, useful information! Find the “10 Things Every Orthodox Parent Should Know eBook” at https://www.faithtree.org/parentingDownload The Encounter app at https://www.faithtree.org/the-encounterEpisode Recap:In this episode, we’re talking with Paul and Cindy Karos What role did the Church play in your upbringings and your early marriage? How did you raise your children to love the Church?Why is joy so important when instilling faith in our kids? What practical steps did you take to teach your kids about priorities? How can parents adapt to the difficult times we’re living in today? How can we raise our kids to rejoice in suffering? What should you do if you feel like you’re running on empty?Resources:Follow and rate the podcast on Apple, Spotify, or YouTube Download this episode’s free discussion guideExplore the full library of Faithtree ResourcesDownload The Encounter app

Orthodox Christian parenting is about forming our children’s hearts and minds in light of eternity. For our very first episode of the podcast, we’re thrilled to share this conversation with Dr. Philip Mamalakis, author of “Parenting Toward the Kingdom.” Philip explains why theosis, or union with God, is the ultimate goal of parenting, and he shares some practical examples of how this attitude informs his approach to raising children. He also shares why he doesn’t think parents are called to eradicate their children’s sin and discusses the difference between being directive and providing choices. Find the “10 Things Every Orthodox Parent Should Know eBook” at https://www.faithtree.org/parentingDownload The Encounter app at https://www.faithtree.org/the-encounterEpisode Recap:For our first episode, we’re talking with the author, counselor and professor Dr. Philip MamalakisWhat is theosis, and why is it the goal for Orthodox Christian parents? Can you share an example of applying this approach to parenting in a difficult moment? What role can the Church play in raising kids toward the Kingdom? Why do you say it’s not a parent’s job to help eradicate sin? How do you balance being directive and providing choices? How should we respond when we find ourselves feeling angry? Why are consequences less important than teaching self-control? Resources:Follow and rate the podcast on Apple, Spotify, or YouTube Download this episode’s free discussion guideExplore the full library of Faithtree Resources“Parenting Toward the Kingdom” by Dr. Philip Mamalakis

Parenting in today’s world isn’t easy — but you don’t have to walk it alone. Orthodox Christian Parenting, hosted by Faithtree Resources Executive Director (and mom of four!) Michelle Moujaes, is a weekly podcast for parents and grandparents navigating the holy struggle of raising kids in the Holy Orthodox Faith. Each episode offers honesty, encouragement, and practical wisdom from the Church — creating space to exhale, freedom from the pressure to be perfect, and openness to grow as you raise children who are growing in their knowledge and love of Christ.Visit faithtree.org to learn more.