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Welcome to self-care with a conscience - where science, spirituality, and sustainability are brunch buddies. Self-Helpless explores all things on the cutting edge of personal and collective growth with leading specialists who share paradigm-shifting insights every week. Hosted by Delanie Fischer, who's recognized by listeners for her casual but fluff-free approach, Self-Helpless has been described as if Rich Roll and Rainn Wilson had a much less eloquent (but also pretty fun) podcast baby.
New episodes every week - making your commutes, tasks, or bedtime existential crisis more majestic.
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Delanie Fischer chats with Erin Claire Jones, author of How Do You Choose? and founder of Human Design Blueprint, to discuss how a system integrating astrology, the I Ching, chakras, and Kabbalah can serve as a practical framework for self-awareness, effective communication, and informed career choices—helping us navigate work, relationships, and life with greater ease, confidence, and fulfillment. Highly recommend looking up your HD type so you can follow along and get the most out of this episode!
Episode Highlights:
A Snapshot of the 5 Human Design Types
1 Question to ask Yourself Based on Your Type
Common Pitfalls When Integrating HD Strategies
The Now vs. Not Now Framework for Projects
You Won't Look at The Rock's Career the Same Way Again
This Unconventional Move Saved a Relationship
Examining Mystical Origins in Modern Tech & Tools
Erin's book, How Do You Choose?: https://humandesignblueprint.com/order-book/
Erin on Instagram: https://instagram.com/erinclairejones
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Related Episodes:
Human Design: Origin, The Basics & Readings with Krystle Alfarero: https://www.delaniefischer.com/selfhelplesspodcast/episode/4eebd9b0/whats-the-deal-with-human-design-origin-the-basics-and-readings-with-krystle-alfarero
What's The Deal with Astrology? 12 Archetypes and Your Cosmic Zone with Madi Murphy: https://www.delaniefischer.com/selfhelplesspodcast/episode/2588a22f/whats-the-deal-with-astrology-12-archetypes-and-your-cosmic-zone-with-madi-murphy
Enneagram Personality Test Results with Taylor Tomlinson, Kelsey Cook, and Delanie Fischer: https://www.delaniefischer.com/selfhelplesspodcast/episode/93ee0232/enneagram-personality-test-results-with-taylor-tomlinson-kelsey-cook-and-delanie-fischer
Myers Briggs Personality Test Results with Taylor Tomlinson, Kelsey Cook, and Delanie Fischer: https://www.delaniefischer.com/selfhelplesspodcast/episode/82eb04b2/myers-briggs-personality-test-results-with-taylor-tomlinson-kelsey-cook-and-delanie-fischer
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Delanie Fischer chats with Brian Karr, environmental consultant and co-founder of We Inspect, about the hidden world of mold, mycotoxins, and the surprisingly wide range of symptoms and health conditions that result from exposure—many of which are often misdiagnosed. Brian also debunks common mold myths and shares practical tips for finding, removing, and preventing mold in your home.
Episode Highlights:
Signs of Exposure: Brain Fog, Skin Reactions, and More
Where to Get Reliable Mycotoxin Testing for Your Body
How To Avoid Scams From Inspectors and Remediators
Debunking The 3 Most Common Myths About Mold
Simplifying Mold Detection and Remediation
2 Everyday Tools To Prevent Mold Growth at Home
Navigating Mold Issues at Rentals and Workplaces
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Mysterious Symptoms (And Finally Getting Answers) with Sharon Okun:
https://www.delaniefischer.com/selfhelplesspodcast/episode/2248a087/mysterious-symptoms-and-finally-getting-answers-with-sharon-okun
Flip the Script on Aging: Strength, Vitality, and Purpose with 74 Year-Old Icon Babette Davis: https://www.delaniefischer.com/selfhelplesspodcast/episode/23c49ad2/flip-the-script-on-aging-strength-vitality-and-purpose-with-74-year-old-icon-babette-davis
Heal Your Gut, Change Your Life: Insights on Inflammatory Bowel Disease (IBD), Irritable Bowel Syndrome (IBS), Crohn’s, Ulcerative Colitis & Everyday Digestive Issues with Dane Johnson: https://www.delaniefischer.com/selfhelplesspodcast/episode/1ac8b40e/heal-your-gut-change-your-life-insights-on-inflammatory-bowel-disease-ibd-irritable-bowel-syndrome-ibs-crohns-ulcerative-colitis-and-everyday-digestive-issues-with-dane-johnson
Dr. Joel Warsh on Vaccine Research, Public Trust, and What's Not Taught in Medical School: https://www.delaniefischer.com/selfhelplesspodcast/episode/28a85104/dr-joel-warsh-on-vaccine-research-public-trust-and-whats-not-taught-in-medical-school
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Delanie Fischer chats with Jessica Frew, author of Shove Your Shoulds, about building confidence around decision-making. They dive into practical strategies for identifying and shifting out of “should” thinking, learning to make value-based decisions (big or small) more swiftly, and overcoming the overwhelm that can keep us stuck in indecision.
Episode Highlights:
How to Build Your Decision-Making Muscle
Identifying Your Daily “Shoulds”
Looking for “Proof” vs. Trusting Your Gut
When to Stay or Leave a Situation
7 Practical Tips for Getting Decisive
Why Judging Others Is Hurting You Most
The 1 Small Decision To Make When Overwhelmed
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When My Husband Came Out: Sexuality, Betrayal, and Healing with Jessica Frew: https://www.delaniefischer.com/selfhelplesspodcast/episode/229e6642/when-my-husband-came-out-sexuality-betrayal-and-healing-with-jessica-frew
Stop Asking Yourself the Wrong Questions: How to Unlock Deeper Fulfillment with Elliott Connie: https://www.delaniefischer.com/selfhelplesspodcast/episode/365204fb/stop-asking-yourself-the-wrong-questions-how-to-unlock-deeper-fulfillment-with-elliott-connie
Release Your Perfectionism Handbrake: Power Planning, Clean Rest, and Demystifying Procrastination with Sam Laura Brown: https://www.delaniefischer.com/selfhelplesspodcast/episode/22e1c287/release-your-perfectionism-handbrake-power-planning-clean-rest-and-demystifying-procrastination-with-sam-laura-brown
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Delanie Fischer chats with Jack R. Bialik, technologist and author of Lost in Time: Our Forgotten and Vanishing Knowledge, to explore the mind-bending question: If only a fraction of history is recorded, what has been lost that we're rediscovering—and what has been lost forever? From ancient medical breakthroughs to engineering feats that outperform our modern technology, this episode dives into the forgotten brilliance of past civilizations, the cycles of destruction, and what these revelations mean for us as a society and personally.
Episode Highlights:
The Process and Efficacy of Cranial and Cataract Surgery as Early as 800 BC
2010 BC Swords That Are Still Sharp (Plus a New, Old Discovery)
An Ancient Battery, Roman Vending Machine, and Superior Concrete
Disposal and Sanitation Solutions That Rival and Surpass Modern Systems
How Do We Know If We’re Interpreting Artifacts Correctly?
The Secrets of the Pyramids: Calculations and Construction Theories
The Cycle of Destruction and What Could Wipe Out Modern Knowledge
What Knowledge of Ours Might Survive a Civilizational Collapse?
Wise Practices to Reclaim for Sustainable Living and Preservation
What's Stood the Test of Time: Materials, Tools, and Concepts That Endure
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AI, Robotics, and The Future of Work and Life with Dr. Catie Cuan: https://www.delaniefischer.com/selfhelplesspodcast/episode/2458ba1f/ai-robotics-and-the-future-of-work-and-life-with-dr-catie-cuan
The Future of Mental Health and Medicine: Psychedelic Therapy, Technology, and Ancient Healing with Dr. Dave Rabin: https://www.delaniefischer.com/selfhelplesspodcast/episode/f08920eb/the-future-of-mental-health-and-medicine-psychedelic-therapy-technology-and-ancient-healing-with-dr-dave-rabin
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Delanie Fischer chats with licensed therapist and relationship specialist, Dr. Joy Berkheimer, about the challenges and rewards of adult friendships. Dr. Joy shares practical strategies for finding new friends as an adult, building trust, navigating conflict, and knowing when it’s time to let a friendship go — all while honoring your own capacity, interests, and boundaries.
Discussed in this episode:
Find Your Purpose, Find Your People
Clarify Desire & Capacity: Close Friend or a Casual One?
7 Ways to Make New Friends as an Adult
3 Apps That Help You Build Aligned Friendships
Effective Conversation Skills for New Friendships
When "Letting It Fizzle" Doesn't Work
Friendship Breakups: Talking vs. Blocking
Let’s Talk About the Term “Best Friend”
Setting New Boundaries in Old Friendships
Friendship Takes Many Forms: The Remarkable Life of Ibelin
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Craving A Healthy Relationship? Understand Your Attachment Style with Thais Gibson: https://www.delaniefischer.com/selfhelplesspodcast/episode/228cc412/craving-a-healthy-relationship-understand-your-attachment-style-with-thais-gibson
How To Un-F*** Your Relationships: https://www.delaniefischer.com/selfhelplesspodcast/episode/22c987e4/how-to-un-fck-your-relationships
The 5 Love Languages by Gary Chapman: https://www.delaniefischer.com/selfhelplesspodcast/episode/dd3a637b/the-5-love-languages-by-gary-chapman
How Enmeshment Trauma Impacts Every Relationship You Have with Dr. Kate Balestrieri: https://www.delaniefischer.com/selfhelplesspodcast/episode/316bfe5c/how-enmeshment-trauma-impacts-every-relationship-you-have-with-dr-kate-balestrieri
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Delanie Fischer chats with psychologist Dr. Jody Carrington—flipping the narrative of “we’re in a mental health crisis." They explore the loneliness epidemic sweeping our generation, even amid unprecedented access to people and information. They unpack record levels of burnout, the real dangers of disconnection (including life-threatening consequences), and how our society (not our minds) is often the problem. Dr. Jody shares practical tools for emotional regulation, fostering authentic interactions, and reconnecting with the best parts of ourselves—and why nothing can replace the power of in-person connection in a hyper-digital world.
Discussed in this episode:
A Jaw-Dropping Parenting Stat From Our Great-Grandparents’ Era
#1 Skill Every Kid and Adult Needs To Learn For Consistent Wellbeing
Hidden Cost of Lost Proximity (and How to Get it Back)
The 4-Minute Challenge That Exposes Your Capacity for Connection
Why “Boys Don’t Cry” Culture Must End For Good
The Greatest Predictor and Habit of Mental Wellness Today
The Difference Between Being Alone vs. Being Lonely
What If It’s Not Anxiety, Depression, ADHD, or Autism?
What’s Behind The 2006 & 2009 Decline in Mental Health
Does Your Daily Routine Reduce Cortisol or Heighten It?
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The Future of Mental Health and Medicine: Psychedelic Therapy, Technology, and Ancient Healing with Dr. Dave Rabin: https://www.delaniefischer.com/selfhelplesspodcast/episode/f08920eb/the-future-of-mental-health-and-medicine-psychedelic-therapy-technology-and-ancient-healing-with-dr-dave-rabin
12 ADHD Life Hacks with Em Schulz: https://www.delaniefischer.com/selfhelplesspodcast/episode/252910dc/12-adhd-life-hacks-with-em-schulz
7 Reasons Why You May Have Insomnia (And How To Treat It) with Dr. Brian F. Licuanan: https://www.delaniefischer.com/selfhelplesspodcast/episode/215f937b/7-reasons-why-you-may-have-insomnia-and-how-to-treat-it-with-dr-brian-f-licuanan
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Delanie Fischer chats with Dane Johnson, founder of CrohnsColitisLifestyle and Board-Certified Nutritionist, who specializes in supporting people with Crohn’s disease and Ulcerative Colitis. They explore the factors that contribute to IBD, IBS, Crohn’s, and Colitis, practical ways to take control of your health and environment, and how to step away from the “culture of fake.” Dane also shares his life-threatening experience with Crohn’s and the strategies he used to reverse his symptoms without medication or surgery. Whether you have one of these conditions or simply want to elevate your health, there are 50+ actionable takeaways from this episode.
Discussed in this episode:
Navigating Conflicting Health Info (and Becoming Your Own Sherlock Holmes)
3 Areas of Focus for Creating Your Healing Home
What To Audit in Your Bedroom for Optimal Sleep
Made Lifestyle Changes but Still Unwell? Try This Next
What’s Really in Your Peanut Butter and How It Impacts Your Gut
2 Book Recommendations for Understanding Toxins & Mold
This Could Help Clear Your Skin and Reverse Acne
Why You Might Be Exhausted — and Why Coffee Isn’t Working
You Don’t Need To Eliminate, Swap! (+ Product Tips)
4 Questions To Ask Before Trying Something New
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Mysterious Symptoms (And Finally Getting Answers) with Sharon Okun: https://www.delaniefischer.com/selfhelplesspodcast/episode/2248a087/mysterious-symptoms-and-finally-getting-answers-with-sharon-okun
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A Shocking Connection Between Trauma And Thyroid Health with Judith Gonzalez: https://www.delaniefischer.com/selfhelplesspodcast/episode/22ae66d2/a-shocking-connection-between-trauma-and-thyroid-health-with-judith-gonzalez
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Delanie Fischer chats with Suzanne Warye, author of The Sober Shift and host of The Sober Mom Life, about the culture, conditioning, and emotional underpinnings of alcohol. They unpack everything from mommy wine culture, dude beer culture, and the dark side of normalizing drinking to the marketing tactics increasingly targeting women, how relationships can shift in sobriety, and the freedom, opportunity, and unexpected impact that come from simply not thinking about alcohol.
Discussed in this episode:
Mommy Wine Culture vs. Daddy Beer Culture
Have We Been Duped? Pink Labels, “Wellness” Wine , and Champagne Yoga
5 Alcohol Myths (and Why Rock Bottom Isn’t Required for The Sober Life)
How Alcohol Blocks Intimacy and Connection + Forming Fake Friendships
The Impact of Alcohol on Social Anxiety, OCD, and Overall Health
“I Know It’s Bad for Me, But Alcohol is What I Look Forward To”
What to Ask Yourself About Your First (and Most Recent) Drink
Criticism, Pressure, and How Relationships Shift When You Stop Drinking
2 Book Recs, Simple Drink & Lifestyle Swaps, and Exit Plans for Parties
The Freedom of Not Thinking About Alcohol (and Its Ripple Effect)
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Is Hangxiety Worth The Buzz?: https://www.delaniefischer.com/selfhelplesspodcast/episode/263a8ad9/is-hangxiety-worth-the-buzz
Rock Bottom vs. High Bottom and Working The 12 Steps with Amanda Hill: https://www.delaniefischer.com/selfhelplesspodcast/episode/237b7862/working-the-12-steps-with-amanda-hill
I Quit Drinking And Had The Best Year Ever with Helen Hong: https://www.delaniefischer.com/selfhelplesspodcast/episode/23e92cd3/how-i-had-the-best-year-ever-with-helen-hong
When You're A High Functioning Addict (And Modernizing The 12 Steps) with Dr. Samantha Harte: https://www.delaniefischer.com/selfhelplesspodcast/episode/233469a8/when-youre-a-high-functioning-addict-and-modernizing-the-12-steps-with-dr-samantha-harte
Coping With Social Anxiety: https://www.delaniefischer.com/selfhelplesspodcast/episode/22bb89df/coping-with-social-anxiety
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Delanie Fischer chats with author of Fetishized: A Reckoning with Yellow Fever, Feminism, and Beauty Kaila Yu to discuss the dangerous side of fetishization. She shares about the evolving perception of Asian women, the impact of media and representation (or lack thereof), and practical ways to recognize and dismantle harmful patterns.
* This episode contains sensitive subject matter. Listener discretion is advised.
Discussed in this episode:
Preference vs. Fetish: Where's The Line?
The Origin of "Yellow Fever" and Its Impact
What Lies Beneath Perceived "Compliments"
4 Asian Tropes in TV, Music, and Film
Asian Violence: Past and Present
The "Model Minority" and Infighting
The Belief That Asian Women Serve 3 Masters
The Love Island Incident and Cancel Culture
Kaila's Favorites: TV Character & Book Recommendation
Addiction, Recovery, and a Healing Routine
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“You’re So Sensitive”: Understanding Everyday Microaggressions, Implicit Bias, and Best Practices with Billie Lee & Dr. Gina Torino: https://www.delaniefischer.com/selfhelplesspodcast/episode/2396d366/youre-so-sensitive-understanding-everyday-microaggressions-implicit-bias-and-best-practices-with-billie-lee-and-dr-gina-torino
Cancel Culture vs. Accountability with Sonya Renee Taylor: https://www.delaniefischer.com/selfhelplesspodcast/episode/38432784/cancel-culture-vs-accountability-with-sonya-renee-taylor
Exploring Fetishes, Kinks, and Pleasure with Goody Howard: https://www.delaniefischer.com/selfhelplesspodcast/episode/234275b9/exploring-fetishes-kinks-and-pleasure-with-goody-howard
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Delanie Fischer chats with Arielle Loupos, founder of Flower Girl, for a revealing look at the hidden toxins in mainstream menstrual products and their impact, the history of “feminine hygiene” marketing, and the safe alternatives everyone should know about. They explore cycle stigma, period traditions, and why rethinking our everyday products is essential for our health. Please share this with the females in your life.
✨ This episode is part of the Self-Helpless “Subscriber Stories” series! Got a story, resource, or experience that could help others? Email selfhelplesspodcast@gmail.com to be considered as a guest.
Discussed in this episode:
- 2024 Menstrual Products Study Results
- How The Industrial Revolution Changed Periods
- Ancient Traditions for Celebrating Cycles
- Is The Free Bleed Movement The Future?
- Toxic Shock Syndrome Causes and Risks
- Tampons, Pads, Cups, Period Underwear
- Cramps and Infertility Questions
- Postpartum, Perimenopause, and Leaks
- Cycle Syncing Tips in the Workplace
- Ending Period Stigma (and Starting Young)
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Hormone Imbalances and Your Menstrual Cycle with Dr. Jolene Brighten: https://www.delaniefischer.com/selfhelplesspodcast/episode/c4a75fbe/hormone-imbalances-and-your-menstrual-cycle-with-dr-jolene-brighten
UTIs, Interstitial Cystitis, and Pelvic Floor Dysfunction with Dr. Rena Malik: https://www.delaniefischer.com/selfhelplesspodcast/episode/1c573a89/utis-interstitial-cystitis-and-pelvic-floor-dysfunction-with-dr-rena-malik
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Delanie Fischer chats with bestselling author and artist Rebecca Campbell about how creativity, ritual, and our connection to nature can transform the way we think and feel. They dive into how belief systems shape our health and choices, approaching traditions with mindfulness and respect, and what happens when we start listening to the natural rhythms around us — and within us.
Discussed in this episode:
The Question of Free Will
Herbalism and Nature-Based Rituals
The Rational vs. Intuitive Mind
Using Your Skills for What You Love
Creativity and Open-mindedness
Career Transitions and Sharing Dreams
3 Tips for a Mindful, Respectful Practice
A Fresh Way to Use an Oracle Deck
Full Circle Life and Career Moments
Learning from the Earth's Intelligence
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Rethinking Intuition, Belief, and The Nature of Reality with Vincent Genna: https://www.delaniefischer.com/selfhelplesspodcast/episode/23db0212/rethinking-intuition-belief-and-the-nature-of-reality-with-vincent-genna
A Step-By-Step Manifestation Exercise with Intuitive Consultant, Jennifer Wai: https://www.delaniefischer.com/selfhelplesspodcast/episode/224cee0c/a-step-by-step-manifestation-exercise-with-intuitive-consultant-jennifer-wai
Cultural Appropriation vs. Cultural Appreciation with Trevia Woods: https://www.delaniefischer.com/selfhelplesspodcast/episode/2505c934/cultural-appropriation-vs-cultural-appreciation-with-trevia-woods
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Delanie Fischer chats with board-certified pediatrician Dr. Joel Warsh about vaccines and why it’s crucial to navigate this divisive topic with clarity. They explore vaccine research gaps, misinformation, and what’s taught in medical school, as well as how vaccines are tested, the influence of pharmaceutical companies on healthcare and media, and systemic safety and efficacy concerns. This episode highlights the path to rebuilding public trust and encourages curiosity, open dialogue, and practical solutions on an issue that impacts millions worldwide.
Discussed in this episode:
Why People Fear Asking Vaccine Questions
What Med School Teaches - and Doesn’t - About Vaccines
Vaccine Research Gaps & How Vaccines Are Tested
Biggest Parental Concerns: Asthma, Allergies, Autism, SIDS
Can Someone Be Allergic to a Vaccine?
Studies We Assume Exist, But Don’t
How Pharmaceutical Companies Shape Healthcare & Media
The Decline of Public Trust in Medicine (and How to Rebuild It)
The Double Standard Between Vaccines and Other Products
Tylenol During Pregnancy: What You Need to Know
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Delanie Fischer is sharing some updates and announcements about the podcast including why you can no longer find Self-Helpless on social media, how you can count on the podcast for your commutes, tasks, and bedtime existential crisis even more regularly, and some exciting new features and opportunities. Everything discussed in this episode can be found at www.selfhelplesspodcast.com
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Delanie Fischer chats with Gen X viral content creator and entrepreneur Sherri Dindal about midlife transformation — diving into the fluidity of identity, purpose, and the realities of reinvention. Sherri opens up about her bold career pivot in her 40s, leaving behind a 26-year career as a corporate investigator to pursue entrepreneurship, and how she’s released the baggage of societal expectations while redefining what work, aging, and success truly mean to her.
Discussed in this episode:
Why Staying Loyal to a Company Might Screw You
Hitting the Wall of Dread and Exhaustion in Your Job
Corporate Stress vs. Entrepreneurial Stress
What Does “Old” Even Look Like — and Who Says?
How Media Shapes Our Perception of Aging
The Evolution of "Retirement" and What it Means Now
What Sherri (52) Wishes She Knew at Delanie's Age (35)
The First Steps Sherri Took to Build Her Business
Guidance for Creators (Social Media or Otherwise)
You're Never Too Old (or Too Late) to Reinvent Yourself
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Delanie Fischer chats with Kelsey Perry about her experience living and working abroad in New Zealand through a Working Holiday Visa. Kelsey shares practical travel tips, different visa options, and advice for finding accommodations and seasonal work. She also breaks down what to consider when preparing (and packing) for a big international move. Whether you’re heading to New Zealand or planning to live abroad anywhere in the world, this episode is packed with helpful insights, hacks, and inspiration.
✨ This episode is part of the Self-Helpless “Subscriber Stories” series! Got a story, resource, or experience that could help others? Email selfhelplesspodcast@gmail.com to be considered as a guest.
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Working Holiday Visa and Student Internship Visa
How To Choose Between Destinations
WWOOFing, Workaway, and HelpX
Interview, Resume, Cover Letter , and Networking Tips
A Fun Job for Lord of the Rings Fans (Hobbiton!)
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Kelsey's Favorite Travel Quote
5 Logistics Tips for Prepping and Packing
A Creative Way To Bring Sentimental Items With You
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Delanie Fischer chats with licensed psychotherapist Terri Cole about high-functioning codependency (HFC) and how to set healthy boundaries to prevent burn out, resentment, and feeling underappreciated. They explore signs like auto advice-giving, auto-accommodating, and keeping the peace at all costs, and uncover why many try to control others unknowingly. Terri shares actionable tools for shifting these over-functioning behaviors to let go of what’s not your responsibility—freeing up your time and energy while empowering those around you.
Discussed in this episode:
Busting The Biggest Codependency Myth
Hyper-Independence and Anticipatory Planning
Auto Advice-Giving and The Auto-Yes
Taking Your Resentment Inventory
Let Them Be The Hero of Their Story
Escaping the Cult of Nice
5 Scripts for Setting New Boundaries
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Delanie Fischer chats with Elliott Connie, Psychotherapist and renowned leader in the field of Solution Focused Brief Therapy, about shifting the questions we ask ourselves in order to transform our lives. They discuss the difference between comfort and happiness, how to go deeper in times of indecision and struggle, and simple practices and rituals that create lasting change.
Discussed in this episode:
SFBT and The Diamond Approach
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The Worst Question We Ask Ourselves
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Will Therapy As We Know It Become Obsolete?
Can't Do It In The Ideal Way? Do It A Little Bit.
What's Your Version of Sunday Pizza Night?
Capitalism, Social Media & Pursuing What Matters
The Toughest Life Lesson Elliott's Learned
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Delanie Fischer chats with John Wang, author of Big Asian Energy, about confidence, culture, and the power of conversation. They unpack how cultural conditioning, fear, and the desire to be "good enough” shape identity and self-worth. John shares the lessons he learned from his year-long experiment in radical honesty—during which he came clean to friends and family about past lies and committed to always speaking his mind in every interaction—and reflects on how this experience led to deeper connections and a new way of being.
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Delanie Fischer chats with Em Schulz, co-host of And That’s Why We Drink and one of Delanie’s best buds, to discuss past heartbreak, healing from breakups, and what they wish they would’ve known - like how to avoid tolerating, and dishing out, toxic behavior. Having been with their current partners for nearly a decade, they share their perspective on what’s led to the most relationship growth.
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+ The Worst Things They’ve Done In Relationships
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Delanie Fischer chats with Chika Uwazie, writer, cultural commentator, and someone instrumental in amplifying the soft life movement, to discuss life transitions, normalizing pivots, and prioritizing presence, rest, and joy along the way. They discuss timeline grief (when life doesn't go as planned), rebuilding and reinventing yourself as needed, and embracing who you truly are vs. who you've been told to be.
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this was an incredible episode. thank you for doing this
I've been listening to you guys the last 2 days while I work (working from home due to covid19) and you guys keep me laughing and help my day go by quick. keep it up!!
saludos
why was the relationship with bpd episode deleted? I wanted to go back and listen to it. Also, I too have had a long term intimate relationship with a person diagnosed with bpd. I too was accused of lacking compassion when I began to speak up about what happened to me. Not all people with BPD are abusive but many are and my ex was. The nature of his abuse was psychological however and so it was harder to recognize what I was experiencing as intimate partner violence. my ex was "in therapy." he did dbt. he did EMDR. he did cbt. he used all therapies as masks to cover up his cruelty. he too was very self aware and seemed super cool like the guy you interviewed here. I'm not saying this guy is abusive. I wouldn't know. I'm saying , in my experience, a person with borderline who seems self aware isn't necessarily recovering. or someone you'd want to befriend.
saludos
i will fuck all 3 of you wet
I think this is the worst podcast in the history of the universe, including all civilizations that may exist in the future. What a bunch of pathetic self-aggrendizing narcissistic synchophants, the mole conversation like you even know what suffering is - the self adoration, the unnecessary over the top relating with one another, the fake fake fakeness of "oooh's" and "what's!" and "yaaaaah's" - the chicky fake bonding, the vapidness, the empty hot air garbled gibberish, the "my grandad was surgeon to some king yaaah, ya know" - whole fucking story was so you can say that. fucked in the head every one of you. And the delusion. My god the delusion. 6's talking about themselves like they're 10's.
you have the worst song in the world. screeching out of tune ill never get that out of my head. lord
I love Taylor's love of musical theater!!!
add me to private f.b. ! please ladies! lol...too much ?
does anyone else find their intro song to be just awful?
Feng Shui is crazy! After listening to that ep, I put a decorative light in my "helpful people" section and 20 minutes later, a guy offered me a job. It's because he thought I was homeless, but he thought he was being helpful. 🤣🤣🤣
I listened for over 6 minutes but still no talk of borderline. I zoomed out after 90 seconds..
So glad I discovered Self Helpless today! I knew I'd love it instantly but then heard the word "twat" now I'm head-over-heels hahahahahahahaha Thank you ladies!!
Love this! They're so funny and have me laughing on my way to work.