Living Aware Parenting

In this second episode of the series in The Living Aware Parenting podcast where I talk about Aletha Solter's books, I focus on her third book, Tears and Tantrums, which was first published in 1998.Her second book, Helping Young Children Flourish, was replaced by Cooperative and Connected, which is why I have skipped to Tears and Tantrums.I explain why, if I only ever recommended one book for all adults, not just those who are parents or care for children, it would be this book.I also talk about why it can be particularly helpful for parents practicing Aware Parenting to give to grandparents and others in our circle.I outline the book’s four parts, including key ideas such as how crying and raging are stress-release mechanisms, the physiological and psychological benefits of crying, the “broken cookie phenomenon", creating emotional safety, control patterns and dissociation, supporting restful sleep without leaving babies to cry alone, and how parents can work with their own painful feelings and find support.Thank you so much for listening to this episode.If you'd like further resources, here's a summary of the details.Here's the podcast on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@LivingAwareParentingPodcastAs of September 2026, Aletha Solter, PhD. has seven published books, which you can find on her website, https://www.awareparenting.com/books.htmAs of September 2026, I have four solo published books for parents, and three for children, with more coming soon. You can find out more on my website, https://marionrose.net/books/You can find my Aware Parenting free PDFs and online courses here: https://marionrose.net/aware-parenting-courses/You can sign up for my newsletters here: https://marion-rose.myflodesk.com/marion-rose-main-listI offer 1:1 mentoring. Details are here: https://marionrose.net/mentoring/Here are my Instagram pages:Podcast: http://instagram.com/thelivingawareparentingpodcastAware Parenting: https://www.instagram.com/awareparenting/My Facebook personal page: https://www.facebook.com/marion.badenochHere are all the Aware Parenting instructors in my region: https://marionrose.net/aware-parenting-instructors-in-australia-and-new-zealand/Here's how to become an Aware Parenting instructor in my region:https://marionrose.net/aware-parenting-certification/I do have another podcast, The Marion Rose Podcast, where I talk about all my other interests and offerings. It includes The Marion Method work, which consists of reparenting, as well as what I call reculturing: reclaiming our yeses and noes, getting free from Disconnected Domination Culture conditioning such as guilt and coercion, and lots more.You can find The Marion Rose Podcast on all the usual podcast platforms, and on YouTube, here:https://www.youtube.com/@TheMarionRosePodcastSee you in the next episode!Love,Marionxoxo

In this second episode of the series in The Living Aware Parenting podcast where I talk about Aletha Solter's books, I focus on her first book, The Aware Baby.I love sharing how much I love this book, and my experience of it as a concise, research-backed “treasure trove”.I also talk about how my understanding of Aware Parenting expands and deepens every time I read this book, even after decades of practicing and teaching Aware Parenting, and having read the book about 25 times!In the episode, I read reviews from Thomas Verny, David Chamberlain, and William Emerson, and then I go through the book, talking about each chapter, key themes, and reading out some excerpts.I finish this episode with an inspiring quote from Aletha Solter, and I preview the next book of hers that I'll be talking about on this podcast, Cooperative and Connected.00:00 Welcome00:40 Why The Aware Baby04:56 Reviews08:35 Chapter One, Beginnings and Love13:42 Chapter Two and Crying21:40 Introduction and the Cultural Lens31:40 Food and Feeding Cues35:10 Sleep and Rest37:38 Play and Learning42:13 Conflicts and Respect45:56 Attachment and Safety49:05 Conclusion and the Next BookThank you so much for listening to this episode. I'm so willing for you to have found it helpful.If you'd like further resources, here's a summary of the details.Here's the podcast on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@LivingAwareParentingPodcastAs of August 2026, Aletha Solter, PhD. has seven published books, which you can find on her website, https://www.awareparenting.com/books.htmAs of August 2026, I have four solo published books for parents, and three for children, with more coming soon. You can find out more on my website, https://marionrose.net/books/You can find my Aware Parenting free PDFs and online courses here: https://marionrose.net/aware-parenting-courses/You can sign up for my newsletters here: https://marion-rose.myflodesk.com/marion-rose-main-listI offer 1:1 mentoring. Details are here: https://marionrose.net/mentoring/Here are my Instagram pages:Podcast: http://instagram.com/thelivingawareparentingpodcastAware Parenting: https://www.instagram.com/awareparenting/Aware Parenting and The Marion Method: https://www.instagram.com/marion_rose/My Facebook personal page: https://www.facebook.com/marion.badenochHere are all the Aware Parenting instructors in my region: https://marionrose.net/aware-parenting-instructors-in-australia-and-new-zealand/Here's how to become an Aware Parenting instructor in my region:https://marionrose.net/aware-parenting-certification/I do have another podcast, The Marion Rose Podcast, where I talk about all my other interests and offerings. It includes The Marion Method work, which consists of reparenting, as well as what I call recultuiring: reclaiming our yeses and noes, getting free from Disconnected Domination Culture conditioning such as guilt and coercion, and lots more.You can find The Marion Rose Podcast on all the usual podcast platforms, and on YouTube, here:https://www.youtube.com/@TheMarionRosePodcastSee you in the next episode!Love,Marionxoxo

Welcome to Season Four, which is all about Aletha Solter’s books. Aletha Solter is the founder of Aware Parenting.I recorded the first two episodes in May, just after The Aware Baby came out in digital version.In this first episode, I show and share about all of Aletha Solter's seven books, with information about each one of them.Then, in the rest of the series, I will devote each episode to each one of the books, in order of year of publication.I share who Aletha Solter is as the founder of Aware Parenting, and I introduce my role as a Level 2 Aware Parenting instructor and regional coordinator for Australia, New Zealand, and Indonesia.I overview each book’s focus and age range:The Aware Baby,Cooperative and Connected,Tears and Tantrums,Raising Drug-Free Kids,Attachment Play,Healing Your Traumatized Child, andRaising Joyful Lifelong Learners,and I invite you to explore them via awareparenting.com00:00 Welcome to the Series01:28 The Aware Baby Overview03:42 Inside The Aware Baby07:02 Cooperative and Connected09:44 Tears and Tantrums12:58 Raising Drug-Free Kids16:34 Attachment Play19:32 Healing Your Traumatized Child26:11 Raising Joyful Lifelong Learners30:04 Summary and LinksThank you so much for listening to this episode. I'm so willing for you to have found it helpful.If you'd like further resources, here's a summary of the details.Here's the podcast on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@LivingAwareParentingPodcastAs of August 2026, Aletha Solter, PhD. has seven published books, which you can find on her website, https://www.awareparenting.com/books.htmAs of August 2026, I have four solo published books for parents, and three for children, with more coming soon. You can find out more on my website, https://marionrose.net/books/You can find my Aware Parenting free PDFs and online courses here: https://marionrose.net/aware-parenting-courses/You can sign up for my newsletters here: https://marion-rose.myflodesk.com/marion-rose-main-listI offer 1:1 mentoring. Details are here: https://marionrose.net/mentoring/Here are my Instagram pages:Podcast: http://instagram.com/thelivingawareparentingpodcastAware Parenting: https://www.instagram.com/awareparenting/Aware Parenting and The Marion Method: https://www.instagram.com/marion_rose/My Facebook personal page: https://www.facebook.com/marion.badenochHere are all the Aware Parenting instructors in my region: https://marionrose.net/aware-parenting-instructors-in-australia-and-new-zealand/Here's how to become an Aware Parenting instructor in my region:https://marionrose.net/aware-parenting-certification/I do have another podcast, The Marion Rose Podcast, where I talk about all my other interests and offerings. It includes The Marion Method work, which consists of reparenting, as well as what I call recultuiring: reclaiming our yeses and noes, getting free from Disconnected Domination Culture conditioning such as guilt and coercion, and lots more.You can find The Marion Rose Podcast on all the usual podcast platforms, and on YouTube, here:https://www.youtube.com/@TheMarionRosePodcastSee you in the next episode!Love,Marionxoxo

Join me as I welcome Katie Fusco, an Aware Parenting instructor in the U.K., to the Living Aware Parenting Podcast in celebration of Aletha Solter's 80th birthday. Katie discusses the profound impacts of Aletha Solter's Aware Parenting philosophy on her life and professional practice. Katie shares her personal journey of discovering Aware Parenting, the pivotal moments in her work, and transformative client stories. We also delve into Aletha's premise of 'it's never too late' for emotional healing and discuss broader applications beyond childhood. This heartfelt conversation concludes with a beautiful tribute to Aletha Solter and a shared vision for the future of Aware Parenting.00:00 Welcome to the Living Aware Parenting Podcast00:18 Celebrating Aletha Solter's 80th Birthday02:56 The Impact of Aware Parenting on Katie's Life10:56 A Pivotal Moment in Katie's Aware Parenting Journey26:42 The Transformative Power of Aware Parenting46:29 A Story of Trust and Play49:32 The Magic of Child-Led Play52:26 Rupture and Repair in Relationships55:33 Healing Across Generations01:01:07 The Vision for Aware Parenting01:07:16 The Broken Cookie Phenomenon01:16:25 A Tribute to AlethaYou can find out more about Aletha Solter and Aware Parenting at The Aware Parenting Institute website: https://awareparenting.com/You can contact Katie on Instagram at: @thecryingclinic

In this episode of the Living Aware Parenting Podcast, I am joined by Maru Rojas, an Aware Parenting mentor originally from Mexico and now living in London. We celebrate the 80th birthday of Aletha Solter, the founder of Aware Parenting, and discuss the profound impact her work has had on our lives. Maru shares aspects of her own journey with Aware Parenting, including pivotal moments with her daughter and the transformative effects of attachment play. This conversation highlights the importance of attachment play, awareness, and the potential for future generations to profoundly benefit from Aware Parenting.00:00 Introduction and Welcome00:27 Guest Introduction: Maru Rojas01:35 Effects of Aware Parenting04:33 Aletha Ahead of her Time in Not Using the Terms "Regulation" and "Co-Regulation"07:31 Pivotal Moments in Aware Parenting11:43 Effects of Practicing Aware Parenting14:25 Attachment Play and Awareness19:10 Vision for Future Generations23:32 Final Thoughts and Gratitude25:18 How to Connect and Closing RemarksYou can find out more about Aletha Solter and Aware Parenting at The Aware Parenting Institute website: https://awareparenting.com/Maru says: "I'm an Aware Parenting mentor (Level 1), EC and potty learning consultant. Originally from Mexico, I’ve lived in the UK for 17 years and have two energetic kids, aged 7 and 5.I’m passionate about trusting children’s innate goodness and honoring their true nature. My work focuses on our physiological needs, ancestral habits, and healing from stress and trauma stored in the body."You can find out more about Maru and her work here:Instagram: _maru.rojas_Website: https://parenttogether.co.uk