Sons of Patriarchy

NEWS - CNN will be airing a special, "The Rise of Christian Nationalism," find out more here: https://cnnpressroom.blogs.cnn.com/2026/02/17/cnns-pamela-brown-reports-in-the-rise-of-christian-nationalism-for-the-whole-story-with-anderson-cooper/   Media inquiries: https://www.sonsofpatriarchy.com/contact Patreon: patreon.com/sonsofpatriarchy Website: sonsofpatriarchy.com Email us: contact@sonsofpatriarchy.com   Dr. Miller-Idriss's books: https://www.cynthiamilleridriss.com/books Extremism Lab: https://perilresearch.com   Summary In this conversation, Cynthia Miller-Idriss discusses her unexpected journey into researching far-right ideologies and radicalization. She explores the evolution of these movements, the intersection of misogyny and gender dynamics, and the impact of online culture on young men. The discussion highlights the complexities of masculinity, the appeal of far-right communities, and the role of women within these spaces. Cynthia emphasizes the importance of understanding the motivations behind far-right beliefs, the influence of meme culture, and the urgent need for tools to combat extremism in society. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Cynthia Miller-Idriss 01:25 Cynthia's Journey into Far-Right Ideologies 04:25 The Evolution of Far-Right Movements 07:53 Understanding Misogyny in Far-Right Contexts 11:40 The Intersection of Misogyny and Far-Right Ideologies 14:02 Defining Extremism in Modern Politics 16:49 Perceived Threats and the Far-Right Mindset 21:11 Historical Precedents for Replacement Fears 24:28 The Obsession with Anti-Semitism 27:57 Holocaust Narratives in White Supremacy 30:56 The Shift in Propaganda and Meme Culture 33:10 The Evolution of Meme Culture and Its Impact 34:34 The Rise of the Boogaloo Movement 36:46 Weaponization of Youth Culture 38:39 Understanding the Intent Behind Extremist Messaging 40:34 The Policing of Masculinity and Its Effects 44:53 The Allure of Traditional Gender Roles 49:32 Loneliness and Online Radicalization 52:25 Women in Misogynistic Communities 58:37 The Pathways to Extremism 01:02:22 Misconceptions About the Far Right Takeaways Cynthia Miller-Idriss's journey into researching far-right ideologies began unexpectedly during her studies in Germany. The rise of far-right movements has shifted from fringe to mainstream, with ideologies becoming more visible in political discourse. Misogyny is deeply intertwined with far-right ideologies, often manifesting in the policing of gender norms. The online radicalization of individuals often leads to real-world violence, with many attacks being carried out by individuals rather than organized groups. The fear of replacement is a significant motivator for far-right ideologies, often rooted in historical precedents and conspiracy theories. Anti-Semitism remains a central theme in far-right propaganda, often framed as a conspiracy against white populations. Meme culture has transformed the way far-right ideologies are disseminated, making them more accessible and relatable to younger audiences. The appeal of far-right communities often lies in the sense of belonging and brotherhood they provide to disaffected young men. Women in far-right communities may be drawn to traditional gender roles as a response to economic pressures and societal expectations. Loneliness and isolation among young men are exacerbated by online culture, leading to harmful scapegoating of women and minorities. Keywords far-right ideologies, radicalization, misogyny, masculinity, extremism, online communities, anti-Semitism, meme culture, gender dynamics, political discourse

Media inquiries: https://www.sonsofpatriarchy.com/contact Patreon: patreon.com/sonsofpatriarchy Website: sonsofpatriarchy.com Email us: contact@sonsofpatriarchy.com   The first hour of "The Boy Crisis" is FREE here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tWD-UyD6Spo Jordan Peterson Academy: https://petersonacademy.com The Boy Crisis: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1942952716/   Summary In this conversation, Peter Bell and Dr. Warren Farrell (Jordan Peterson Academy lecturer and bestselling author) explore the complexities of masculinity in contemporary society, discussing the historical context, the evolving roles of men, and the impact of societal expectations on mental health. They delve into the challenges men face in education, the importance of fatherhood, and the need for better communication in relationships. Dr. Farrell emphasizes the significance of understanding one's value and the necessity for both genders to progress together in a supportive environment. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Masculinity and Crisis 01:37 Warren Farrell's Journey into Masculinity 06:38 The Sacrifices of Men for Family 11:01 The Impact of Patriarchy on Men's Choices 15:01 Changes in Fatherhood and Family Dynamics 19:05 Historical Context of Masculinity 22:11 The Shift in Gender Roles and Responsibilities 25:53 Earnings Disparity and Career Choices 30:00 The Nurturer Connector vs. Provider Protector 33:13 Education and Gender Dynamics in Society 34:35 The Educational Landscape for Boys 39:52 Understanding Male Psychological Pressures 41:45 The Communication Gap Among Men 48:57 The Male Crisis: Factors and Solutions 54:29 Guidance for Parents and Educators 01:05:50 The Future of Masculinity Takeaways Men are often seen as oppressors, but they also make sacrifices for their families. The narrative around masculinity has shifted, with many men feeling lost in their roles. Education systems may not cater to the unique needs of boys, impacting their success. Father involvement is crucial for children's development and well-being. Men's mental health is significantly affected by societal pressures and expectations. Communication skills are essential for healthy relationships and family dynamics. Women are increasingly earning more, but this can complicate traditional gender roles. The importance of nurturing and caring roles for men is often overlooked. Men need to find purpose and value beyond traditional expectations. The future of masculinity involves mutual respect and understanding between genders. Keywords masculinity, crisis, education, fatherhood, mental health, societal pressures, Warren Farrell, gender roles, communication, relationships

Media inquiries: https://www.sonsofpatriarchy.com/contact Patreon: patreon.com/sonsofpatriarchy Website: sonsofpatriarchy.com Email us: contact@sonsofpatriarchy.com   They Called Her Bitter: https://www.instagram.com/theycalledherbitter/ Deconstruction Doulas: https://www.deconstructiondoulas.com Help Fuel Deconstruction Doulas Fight Against Religious Abuse: https://www.gofundme.com/f/help-us-fuel-our-fight-against-religious-abuse   Summary In this conversation, Dr. Jessie Daniels discusses the interconnectedness of Christian nationalism, white supremacy, and misogyny, exploring how these ideologies have evolved over time, particularly with the rise of the internet. She emphasizes the importance of intersectionality in understanding these issues and highlights the emotional landscape of whiteness. The discussion also delves into the role of women in white supremacist movements and the challenges of addressing these ideologies in contemporary society. Dr. Daniels encourages listeners to engage with these topics through reading and community discussions to foster understanding and change.   Dr. Daniels's books: https://www.amazon.com/stores/Jessie-Daniels/author/B001IU2TVY?ref=sr_ntt_srch_lnk_1&qid=1770995865&sr=8-1&shoppingPortalEnabled=true   Takeaways - Christian nationalism and white supremacy are interrelated issues. - Intersectionality is crucial for understanding race, gender, and class dynamics. - The internet has transformed how white supremacists spread their ideologies. - Recruitment into white supremacist groups often relies on social connections rather than overt persuasion. - Emotional regulation is essential for addressing feelings of guilt and shame related to whiteness. - Women in white supremacist movements often seek safety in whiteness despite being marginalized within these groups. - The far-right exploits feelings of aggrievement among white individuals. - Young people today are more adept at recognizing propaganda and misinformation. - Understanding one's own family history is vital in combating white supremacy. - Community engagement and reading are key to fostering understanding and resistance against extremist ideologies.   Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Christian Nationalism and Intersectionality 05:59 The Evolution of White Supremacist Rhetoric 12:33 The Role of the Internet in Spreading Ideologies 19:17 Understanding Recruitment in White Supremacist Groups 26:21 The Emotional Landscape of Whiteness 32:37 The Complexity of Women in White Supremacist Movements 39:56 The Future of Far-Right Rhetoric and Strategies   Keywords Christian nationalism, white supremacy, misogyny, racism, intersectionality, far-right, internet, propaganda, emotional regulation, women in extremism

Media inquiries: https://www.sonsofpatriarchy.com/contact Patreon: patreon.com/sonsofpatriarchy Website: sonsofpatriarchy.com Email us: contact@sonsofpatriarchy.com   They Called Her Bitter: https://www.instagram.com/theycalledherbitter/ Deconstruction Doulas: https://www.deconstructiondoulas.com   Summary In this conversation, Peter Bell and David French discuss the relaunch of the Sons of Patriarchy podcast, focusing on the evolving landscape of American politics, particularly the rise of Christian nationalism and the ideological shifts within the Republican Party. They explore the increasing partisanship, the role of government, and the impact of hatred as a driving force in political movements. French emphasizes the need for internal reflection within the church and the importance of civility and decency in political discourse.   Chapters 01:40 Relaunching Sons of Patriarchy 04:35 The Shift in American Politics 07:17 The Rise of Christian Nationalism 10:40 The Ideological Realignment of the Right 13:18 The Role of Decency in Political Discourse 16:40 The Evolution of Republican Identity 19:45 The Impact of Hatred on Political Engagement 26:11 Christian Nationalism and Its Implications 31:45 The Historical Context of Slavery and Christianity 36:29 The Current Political Landscape and Its Influences 43:48 Addressing Conservative Concerns and Values   Takeaways - The relaunch of Sons of Patriarchy aims to address the crisis of masculinity and provide constructive solutions. - American politics has shifted significantly to the right, creating a new ideological landscape. - The traditional axes of political thought have been disrupted, leading to a realignment of values. - Hatred has become a central organizing principle for many political movements today. - Libertarian values are increasingly difficult to advocate in a polarized environment. - Christian nationalism is often rooted in a desire to return to an imagined past. - The Republican Party has seen a rise in extremism, overshadowing traditional conservative values. - Misinformation and distrust in institutions are rampant, complicating political discourse. - The future of the Republican Party is uncertain, with potential for change after Trump's influence wanes. - Internal reflection and accountability within the church are crucial for its credibility and mission.   Keywords Sons of Patriarchy, David French, Christian nationalism, Republican Party, ideological realignment, libertarianism, political extremism, American politics, partisanship, cultural wars

Media inquiries: https://www.sonsofpatriarchy.com/contact Patreon: patreon.com/sonsofpatriarchy Website: sonsofpatriarchy.com Email us: contact@sonsofpatriarchy.com   They Called Her Bitter: https://www.instagram.com/theycalledherbitter/ Deconstruction Doulas: https://www.deconstructiondoulas.com   Jessica Jenkins takes us on a deep dive into all things Nancy Wilson, Rebekah Merkle, and Rachel Jankovic. What are they doing, how are they doing it, why are they doing it, and how can you respond?   Jessica Jenkins We Who Thirst Podcast: wewhothirst.buzzsprout.com (available on Spotify, Apple, Amazon and wherever you like to listen) Eve in Exile book review & downloadable one-sheet: https://wewhothirst.com/eve-in-exile-book-review/ My Consulting web page: https://wewhothirst.com/consulting/ Article on Proverbs 31: https://www.cbeinternational.org/resource/mutuality-challenging-gender-norms/   Jessica Jenkins' Social Media Channels https://www.instagram.com/wewhothirst/ https://www.threads.com/@wewhothirst https://www.youtube.com/@wewhothirstpodcast

Media inquiries: https://www.sonsofpatriarchy.com/contact Patreon: patreon.com/sonsofpatriarchy Website: sonsofpatriarchy.com Email us: contact@sonsofpatriarchy.com   They Called Her Bitter: https://www.instagram.com/theycalledherbitter/ Deconstruction Doulas: https://www.deconstructiondoulas.com   Our NEW weekly series launches on February 16 with David French of The New York Times! They Called Her Bitter, another weekly series in the SoP universe, with Sarah Bader of Sons of Patriarchy and Margaret Bronson of Deconstruction Doulas, launches February 19!    Gwen's Facebook post on her son Brooks and the Secretary of Defense, Pete Hegseth: https://www.facebook.com/gwen.k.harris/posts/pfbid02AqEszuyGSBV87XzhAezQoXwT3CQD6MoVPV6Z6mbpjZ8ryKN1SVNSGkGoarc4bd3Ql?rdid=FldGczPObipCBKph   Summary In this special episode of Sons of Patriarchy, Peter Bell interviews Gwen Harris, the mother of Brooks Potteiger (recently appointed pastor of Christ Kirk D.C., where Pete Hegseth attends), a pastor influenced by Doug Wilson's teachings. Gwen shares her perspective on Brooks' transformation from a caring individual to someone who embodies patriarchal values, and the impact of these changes on their family dynamics. She discusses the troubling parenting styles she witnessed, the decision to report suspected abuse to Child Protective Services, and the challenges of navigating a divided family. Throughout the conversation, Gwen emphasizes the importance of prayer, truth, and the hope for redemption for her son and others caught in similar situations.   Chapters 00:00 Introduction to the Special Episode 03:01 Gwen's Relationship with Brooks Potterger 06:13 Brooks' Transformation and Influence of Doug Wilson 08:54 The Impact of Parenting Styles on Children 12:06 Witnessing Abuse and the Decision to Report 14:59 The Emotional Toll of Reporting 17:57 Consequences of Reporting and Family Dynamics 33:05 Support from Law Enforcement 36:33 The Role of CPS in Family Dynamics 37:02 Advocating for Children in Crisis 39:32 Influence of Doug Wilson on Family Dynamics 43:56 The Impact of High-Profile Relationships (with Pete Hegseth) 48:57 A Mother's Plea for Redemption 54:53 Navigating Family Relationships in Crisis   Keywords Doug Wilson, Brooks Potteiger, Gwen Harris, Pete Hegseth, Sons of Patriarchy, church abuse, parenting, Christian teachings, family dynamics, child protection, religious influence

Media inquiries: https://www.sonsofpatriarchy.com/contact Patreon: patreon.com/sonsofpatriarchy Website: sonsofpatriarchy.com Donate: https://donorbox.org/sons-of-patriarchy   Join us as we talk with Sarah Stankorb, Kristin Kobes Du Mez, and Russell Moore about abuse in the church, MAGA, the politicization of theology, racism, and everything else we've learned over the past few months and what the future looks like for the White Evangelical Church. Find Sarah Stankorb: https://sarahstankorb.substack.com Purchase Sarah's book: https://tinyurl.com/jyrzapy2 Find Kristin Kobes Du Mez: https://kristindumez.substack.com Purchase Kristin's book: https://tinyurl.com/556v6dek Find Russell Moore: https://www.christianitytoday.com/writers/russell-moore/ Purchase Russell's book: https://tinyurl.com/35rs8rmx   Sons of Patriarchy is brought to you by: Producer, Writer, Editor, and Host: Peter Bell Original Music, Sound Design, and Mixing: https://aaronfeeneymusic.com/ Social Media: Sarah Bader Graphic Design: Anonymous Survivors SURVIVORS - THANK YOU, AND MAY YOU BE HEARD.

Media inquiries: https://www.sonsofpatriarchy.com/contact Patreon: patreon.com/sonsofpatriarchy Website: sonsofpatriarchy.com Donate: https://donorbox.org/sons-of-patriarchy   In this episode I spoke with an anonymous woman, her son, a former leader at Christ Church Santa Clarita, and Ray Davis (a retired pastor and trauma-informed counselor) about everything that happened at this CREC. This episode is not for the faint of heart, and the first 10 minutes makes that clear. There are no shepherds there. Sons of Patriarchy is brought to you by: Producer, Writer, Editor, and Host: Peter Bell Original Music, Sound Design, and Mixing: https://aaronfeeneymusic.com/ Social Media: Sarah Bader Graphic Design: Anonymous Survivors SURVIVORS - THANK YOU, AND MAY YOU BE HEARD.

Media inquiries: https://www.sonsofpatriarchy.com/contact Patreon: patreon.com/sonsofpatriarchy Website: sonsofpatriarchy.com Donate: https://donorbox.org/sons-of-patriarchy   If you're in Australia and need help with a DV situation please call: 1800RESPECT A conversation on Doug Wilson's pernicious and pervasive influence in Canada and Australia with Wes Bredenhof, who has pastored Reformed churches in Canada and Australia, and Camille de Vos, who was born and raised in the Free Reformed Churches of Australia. We have episodes upcoming on the influence of Doug, Christian Nationalism, abuse in the church, and more, across Europe, Africa, South America, and parts of Asia. May the global church take notice. The Good: https://tinyurl.com/53btkpvb The Bad: https://tinyurl.com/49zfbp6r The Ugly: https://tinyurl.com/yrwfzv5a Camille's practice: https://tinyurl.com/4re2h6xz Camille's Instagram: https://tinyurl.com/mrp66bec Camille's Substack: https://tinyurl.com/mrycwa6e   Sons of Patriarchy is brought to you by: Producer, Writer, Editor, and Host: Peter Bell Original Music, Sound Design, and Mixing: https://aaronfeeneymusic.com/ Social Media: Sarah Bader Graphic Design: Anonymous Survivors SURVIVORS - THANK YOU, AND MAY YOU BE HEARD.

Media inquiries: https://www.sonsofpatriarchy.com/contact Patreon: patreon.com/sonsofpatriarchy Website: sonsofpatriarchy.com Donate: https://donorbox.org/sons-of-patriarchy   Our scheduled episode for tomorrow has to be pushed back to next week (the reason why will be apparent when you listen), so I pulled this one out of the hopper! I spoke with Caleb Campbell of Disarming Leviathan and Pastor of Desert Springs Bible Church in Phoenix, Arizona. Need some sanity in this age of extreme political unrest, the takeover of our government, self-professed Christ Nationalists climbing the political ladder, all the while you're trying to figure out your friend or family member who seems to be enamored with it all? This is the conversation you need. Buy Disarming Leviathan here: https://tinyurl.com/5xbpvvzy Follow Disarming Leviathan's work here: https://tinyurl.com/3vvkb3zr   Sons of Patriarchy is brought to you by: Producer, Writer, Editor, and Host: Peter Bell Original Music, Sound Design, and Mixing: https://aaronfeeneymusic.com/ Social Media: Sarah Bader Graphic Design: Anonymous Survivors SURVIVORS - THANK YOU, AND MAY YOU BE HEARD.

Media inquiries: https://www.sonsofpatriarchy.com/contact Patreon: patreon.com/sonsofpatriarchy Website: sonsofpatriarchy.com Donate: https://donorbox.org/sons-of-patriarchy   In this last episode of Season 1, I spoke with Dr. Karen Roudkovski, a Licensed Professional Counselor with her own practice, and an expert on trauma and abuse, with her own story of the same. Karen ties in every theme of Sons of Patriarchy Season 1, gives language to those searching and hurting, a listening ear to those who want to speak out, and the compassion to speak into those lives who have been destroyed by leaders of the church. May the end of Season 1 give you hope, peace, understanding, and the courage to move forward in the grace of the Savior. Because Jesus himself understands what you went through, are going through, and will go through. A sympathetic redeemer who heals you. Find Karen here: https://tinyurl.com/38knuc7h Buy Understanding Spiritual Abuse here: https://tinyurl.com/2wcyxab2 Buy Spiritual Abuse Assessment here: https://tinyurl.com/2pp2cu3e Buy Spiritual Abuse Recovery Workbook here: https://tinyurl.com/yvre52ua Buy Counseling Through the Storm here: https://tinyurl.com/35u2cyv3   Sons of Patriarchy is brought to you by: Producer, Writer, Editor, and Host: Peter Bell Original Music, Sound Design, and Mixing: https://aaronfeeneymusic.com/ Social Media: Sarah Bader Graphic Design: Anonymous Survivors SURVIVORS - THANK YOU, AND MAY YOU BE HEARD.

Media inquiries: https://www.sonsofpatriarchy.com/contact Patreon: patreon.com/sonsofpatriarchy Website: sonsofpatriarchy.com Donate: https://donorbox.org/sons-of-patriarchy   Find Mountain City Christian Counseling here: https://tinyurl.com/3rjb6vra Sign up for an upcoming Mountain City Christian Counseling retreat here: https://tinyurl.com/59tuu6ra Are you in the PCA, and need help navigating your situation? Contact: https://tinyurl.com/56sb2c3b Free live workshops of the PCA Book of Church Order (BCO): https://tinyurl.com/bdcs7xrt Read and discuss the PCA report on Domestic Abuse and Sexual Assault: https://tinyurl.com/4cx9n538 Donate to Advocacy from the Presbyterian Pew: https://tinyurl.com/ms6ba2ky In this episode I spoke with Colleen McConnell, former member of St. Paul's Presbyterian Church (PCA) in Orlando, Florida, and Megan Owen, founder of Mountain City Christian Counseling, who was formerly counseled by Jim Wilson, Doug Wilson's late father. Colleen's story shares similarities with every story we have profiled save one difference, she won her case in the PCA. So we look into when women "win," what that means for their relationship with the church and its leadership, as well as their marriages (or former marriages). Megan (and her family) were horrifically abused by her ex-husband, and you'll hear what kind of counsel came from the mouth of Jim, which then starts making more sense of Doug. The apple doesn't fall far from the tree. Because for these men and leaders, a woman who's too opinionated needs to be put her in place. Below them. Sons of Patriarchy is brought to you by: Producer, Writer, Editor, and Host: Peter Bell Original Music, Sound Design, and Mixing: https://aaronfeeneymusic.com/ Social Media: Sarah Bader Graphic Design: Anonymous Survivors SURVIVORS - THANK YOU, AND MAY YOU BE HEARD.

Media inquiries: https://www.sonsofpatriarchy.com/contact Patreon: patreon.com/sonsofpatriarchy Website: sonsofpatriarchy.com Donate: https://donorbox.org/sons-of-patriarchy   I had the opportunity to sit down with Tia Levings to talk about her 2024 memoir, A Well-Trained Wife, her journey through the Patirarchy. Our second-to-last episode of Season 1, Tia's story weaves through every theme we have covered in this series. She made stops in the IBLP, Gothard, SBC, PCA, and CREC circles. She was controlled, manipulated, silenced, abused, and more. She was nearly sacrificed to the Patriarchy, on the altar of the cult. But she got out. May her story help you too. Buy Tia's book, A Well-Trained Wife here: https://tinyurl.com/aw2ynk5r Follow Tia on Substack here: https://tinyurl.com/ypfm6h2h Find Tia's website here: https://tinyurl.com/y6v38dt3   Sons of Patriarchy is brought to you by: Producer, Writer, Editor, and Host: Peter Bell Original Music, Sound Design, and Mixing: https://aaronfeeneymusic.com/ Social Media: Sarah Bader Graphic Design: Anonymous Survivors SURVIVORS - THANK YOU, AND MAY YOU BE HEARD.

Media inquiries: https://www.sonsofpatriarchy.com/contact Patreon: patreon.com/sonsofpatriarchy Website: sonsofpatriarchy.com Donate: https://donorbox.org/sons-of-patriarchy   Join Peter in this special episode as he talks with producers (and survivors) Amy Nordhues and Jennifer Kramer about their upcoming documentary, #TherapyToo. They need your help! Website: https://amynordhues.com Trailer: https://www.therapytoofilm.com/watch Documentary: https://amynordhues.com/therapy-abuse-documentary/   Sons of Patriarchy is brought to you by: Producer, Writer, Editor, and Host: Peter Bell Original Music, Sound Design, and Mixing: https://aaronfeeneymusic.com/ Social Media: Sarah Bader Graphic Design: Anonymous Survivors SURVIVORS - THANK YOU, AND MAY YOU BE HEARD.

Media inquiries: https://www.sonsofpatriarchy.com/contact Patreon: patreon.com/sonsofpatriarchy Website: sonsofpatriarchy.com Donate: https://donorbox.org/sons-of-patriarchy   Find all the documents here: https://www.facebook.com/patriarchysons Are you in the OPC and need help? Contact the Presbyterian Advocacy Coalition: https://www.presbyterianadvocacycoalition.org   Caroline Garcia Osborne and an anonymous woman share their stories of grooming, spiritual abuse, and sexual battery at the hands of Boyd Miller of Covenant OPC in La Grange, Georgia. If you listened to Theresa Garcia Robertson's story, these are the women she referred to at the end of her episode. When this episode goes live head over to the Sons of Patriarchy Facebook page. There you find hundreds of pages of documents: Facebook messages, timelines, presbytery reports, everything. Theresa, Caroline, and the anonymous woman have given us access to everything. Let's do something about this. Sons of Patriarchy is brought to you by: Producer, Writer, Editor, and Host: Peter Bell Original Music, Sound Design, and Mixing: https://aaronfeeneymusic.com/ Social Media: Sarah Bader Graphic Design: Anonymous Survivors SURVIVORS - THANK YOU, AND MAY YOU BE HEARD.

Media inquiries: https://www.sonsofpatriarchy.com/contact Patreon: patreon.com/sonsofpatriarchy Website: sonsofpatriarchy.com Donate: https://donorbox.org/sons-of-patriarchy   In this episode we spoke with Sheila Wray Gregoire, founder of Bare Marriage and the author of many books, and Marissa Burt, author of the upcoming Brazos book "The Myth of Good Christian Parenting: How False Promises Betrayed a Generation of Evangelical Families." Dominion theology begets dominating over families. Sex becomes a conquering act, not the beautiful union of a man and a woman who love one another. Women are receptacles for the pleasure of men, marriage a plan for taking over the world, and spanking kids the key to obedience and warriors in the quiver of the father. Mothers required only because they're needed for the birth, not because they contribute anything, but because men can't do it on their own. Sex is beautiful, families are beautiful, and children are beautiful. But none of these are ultimate. All of these are wonderful blessings of God. But none are tools for our gain. The Savior came not to be served, but to serve, and give his life a ransom for many. The King who came not to rule, but to give. Buy Sheila's book The Marriage You Want here: https://tinyurl.com/5y6rjdxh Buy Sheila's book She Deserves Better here: https://tinyurl.com/5n8afrsw Buy Sheila's book The Great Sex Rescue here: https://tinyurl.com/4t4yna7b Buy Marissa's book The Myth of Good Christian Parenting here: https://tinyurl.com/my89we6j   Sons of Patriarchy is brought to you by: Producer, Writer, Editor, and Host: Peter Bell Original Music, Sound Design, and Mixing: https://aaronfeeneymusic.com/ Social Media: Sarah Bader Graphic Design: Anonymous Survivors SURVIVORS - THANK YOU, AND MAY YOU BE HEARD.

Media inquiries: https://www.sonsofpatriarchy.com/contact Patreon: patreon.com/sonsofpatriarchy Website: sonsofpatriarchy.com Donate: https://donorbox.org/sons-of-patriarchy   Are you in the PCA, and need help navigating your situation? Contact: https://tinyurl.com/56sb2c3b Free live workshops of the PCA Book of Church Order (BCO): https://tinyurl.com/bdcs7xrt Read and discuss the PCA report on Domestic Abuse and Sexual Assault: https://tinyurl.com/4cx9n538 Donate to Advocacy from the Presbyterian Pew: https://tinyurl.com/ms6ba2ky Here's Joyce's interview on Bare Marriage: https://tinyurl.com/36zcp3ya Find Donna Westcott's blogg here: https://tinyurl.com/862jbvyb Meet Joyce Rohe, former member of Rio Vista Community Church (PCA) in Fort Lauderdale, Florida, Lynna Sutherland, the founder of Advocacy from the Presbyterian Pew (and a PCA member herself), and Donna Westcott, a licensed professional counselor (and critic of "Biblical" counseling).   What happens when you go against your church elders' wishes by divorcing your abusive and absent husband? They skirt the "process" and discipline you without trial. What happens when you try to navigate that very system? They use it against you. What happens when you try to seek "biblical" counseling for all the pain this causes you? They convince you it's your fault, that there's sin residing in you.   In short, you're excommunicated. Sons of Patriarchy is brought to you by: Producer, Writer, Editor, and Host: Peter Bell Original Music, Sound Design, and Mixing: https://aaronfeeneymusic.com/ Social Media: Sarah Bader Graphic Design: Anonymous Survivors SURVIVORS - THANK YOU, AND MAY YOU BE HEARD.

Media inquiries: https://www.sonsofpatriarchy.com/contact Patreon: patreon.com/sonsofpatriarchy Website: sonsofpatriarchy.com Donate: https://donorbox.org/sons-of-patriarchy   The counterpart to Episode 13, It's Only a Matter of Rank. This time we have Beth Allison Barr (James Vardaman Professor of History at Baylor University, and author of numerous books), Sheila Wray Gregoire (founder of Bare Marriage, and author of numerous books), Cait West (yes, again!), and Hannah Oliver. The men are trained as leaders, and the women, as followers. The virtuous woman *only* stays at home, homeschools her children, satisfies her husband, and makes sure there's no ugliness in her. They are to stay silent, unless, of course, they've been approved to teacher other women to... stay silent. You can speak, as long as you tell other women not to. At the same time women are more liable to deceit than their male counterparts they also hold the power to cause their brothers to stumble. It's a whiplash, a system wherein you're told to be feminine, but not too feminine, smart, but not too smart, put together, but not independent. In summary, it's impossible. A standard you can never live up to. But there's another way, the way of Jesus. He who gladly took a rank below his, to give you a rank above yours. Buy Beth's book Becoming the Pastor's Wife here: https://tinyurl.com/53bepjff Buy Beth's book The Making of Biblical Womanhood here: https://tinyurl.com/yc7336tk Buy Sheila's book The Marriage You Want here: https://tinyurl.com/5y6rjdxh Buy Sheila's book She Deserves Better here: https://tinyurl.com/5n8afrsw Buy Sheila's book The Great Sex Rescue here: https://tinyurl.com/4t4yna7b Buy Cait's book Rift here: https://tinyurl.com/y7j85csy   Sons of Patriarchy is brought to you by: Producer, Writer, Editor, and Host: Peter Bell Original Music, Sound Design, and Mixing: https://aaronfeeneymusic.com/ Social Media: Sarah Bader Graphic Design: Anonymous Survivors SURVIVORS - THANK YOU, AND MAY YOU BE HEARD.

Media inquiries: https://www.sonsofpatriarchy.com/contact Patreon: patreon.com/sonsofpatriarchy Website: sonsofpatriarchy.com Donate: https://donorbox.org/sons-of-patriarchy   Are you in the OPC and need help? Contact the Presbyterian Advocacy Coalition: https://www.presbyterianadvocacycoalition.org Meet Theresa Garcia Robertson, Zach LeReaux, and Caroline McKuen. Theresa is a former member of Covenant OPC in La Grange, Georgia, pastored by Boyd Miller. Zach is Ali's husband (from Let's Get Spiritual), and will shed light on how men should engage with and respond to those who've been abused. Caroline McKuen is the director and founder of the Presbyterian Advocacy Coalition. For too long these cases and stories have been covered up, whether that be for "lack of evidence," or "sinful, but not criminal," or "undue gossip." Women have been silenced (as have some men), men have been coerced (as have some women), presbyteries have turned a blind eye, and the "good" men in authority, and the churches they pastor do nothing while people suffer. We've got something to say about that.   Sons of Patriarchy is brought to you by: Producer, Writer, Editor, and Host: Peter Bell Original Music, Sound Design, and Mixing: https://aaronfeeneymusic.com/ Social Media: Sarah Bader Graphic Design: Anonymous Survivors SURVIVORS - THANK YOU, AND MAY YOU BE HEARD.

Media inquiries: https://www.sonsofpatriarchy.com/contact Patreon: patreon.com/sonsofpatriarchy Website: sonsofpatriarchy.com Donate: https://donorbox.org/sons-of-patriarchy   Read about the woman's story at FBC Beggs here: https://tinyurl.com/5x7w6ddj In this episode I spoke with repeat guest Cait West, a woman whose marriage and church (FBC Beggs in Beggs, Oklahoma, led by pastor Chris Gore) was taken over by the patriarchy, and Zach Wagner (author of "Non-Toxic Masculinity") about the Patriarchy. Patriarchy is not only toxic for the women subjugated under it, it's an impossible system for the men to exercise. It's a reaction to the perceived feminization of the church, of culture, and of society. It's an ideology wherein it's not enough to *be* a man, you must *do* manly things to prove it. And therein lies the problem, an identity wrapped up in performance rather than the gospel. Buy Cait's book here: https://tinyurl.com/27nvt34h Buy Zach's book here: https://tinyurl.com/6pt73vsb   Sons of Patriarchy is brought to you by: Producer, Writer, Editor, and Host: Peter Bell Original Music, Sound Design, and Mixing: https://aaronfeeneymusic.com/ Social Media: Sarah Bader Graphic Design: Anonymous Survivors SURVIVORS - THANK YOU, AND MAY YOU BE HEARD.