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Don't Listen To Us with Mandy Patinkin and Kathryn Grody
Don't Listen To Us with Mandy Patinkin and Kathryn Grody
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Don’t Listen to Us is an advice show for advice-skeptics and wisdom-lovers, hosted by Mandy Patinkin, Kathryn Grody, and their son Gideon. Legendary actor Mandy (The Princess Bride, Homeland, Criminal Minds) is the consummate entertainer who shoots from the hip, stage actress Kathryn is the thoughtful connector who sees all the nuance, and Gideon is the brave soul keeping them on track (or at least trying). Together, Mandy and Kathryn have 40+ years of marriage, 140+ years of life experience, and a series of viral social media posts where Gideon interviews them and watches both chaos and wisdom ensue.
They don’t always agree on what advice to give—in fact, they rarely do. But they draw from their highs and lows as artists, parents, lovers, and humans, to give their unique take on real dilemmas submitted by you -- the listeners. Hang out with this family and you’ll walk away with insights you didn’t expect, stories you’ll want to repeat, and comfort knowing that you’re not alone in figuring out how to survive this fakakta world.
They don’t always agree on what advice to give—in fact, they rarely do. But they draw from their highs and lows as artists, parents, lovers, and humans, to give their unique take on real dilemmas submitted by you -- the listeners. Hang out with this family and you’ll walk away with insights you didn’t expect, stories you’ll want to repeat, and comfort knowing that you’re not alone in figuring out how to survive this fakakta world.
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What happens when Mandy Patinkin and Kathryn Grody hit the streets of New York City looking for your questions? Will anyone ask us for advice? It’s our episode with no script and no idea who’s going to walk up next.
After a string of rejections, we land in Central Park and find strangers willing to open up about their worries, life questions and relatable problems. How to stay connected to family from far away? How to balance career ambitions with the rest of life? What does it look like to raise teens who want to spend time with you as adults? How do you deal with anxiety and take big leaps outside of your comfort zone? Plus, Mandy meets a real-life Odin, and Kathryn and Mandy reveal what they wish they’d known as teens.
Have a question, story, weird thought to share with Mandy and Kathryn? Drop us a voice memo here: https://www.speakpipe.com/AskMandyandKathryn or send an email to [email protected].
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Chapters:
00:00 Mandy Patinkin & Kathryn Grody hit the streets of New York City!
01:47 The big question: Will anyone ask us for advice?
02:20 Rejection #1
02:45 A subway encounter
03:44 Rejection #2
04:14 Rejection #3
04:30 Temperature check - This is going terribly
05:35 Setting up in Central Park
06:00 Rejection #4
06:02 Bingo! A question! How do I stay close to family from far away?
08:18 Career vs Life. How do you balance your priorities?
11:27 How do you raise teens who want to hang out with you when they’re adults?
16:36 Finding more New Yorkers with questions
18:34 How do you know if you’re growing in a relationship?
24:00 Mandy meets a real life Odin! (Mandy plays Odin in the upcoming series God of War)
25:03 What Mandy and Kathryn wish they knew as teens
30:10 How do you handle anxiety before a new adventure? (How to deal with nerves about starting college abroad?)
35:15 Turning fear into excitement
41:47 Wrap up and free Lemonade
42:24 A recap. Final thoughts on taking the show on the street
44:46 Credits
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What happens when Mandy and Kathryn get mushroom-curious? They dive into psychedelics, trauma, healing, and the possibility of taking a trip themselves, with musician Elvis Perkins along for the conversation (and a song).
Also: Cardboard Becky takes a fall, and the family argues that jury duty is actually an honor and a good democratic thing so stop weaseling out of it!
Check out the musical explorations of Elvis Perkins at elvisperkinssound.net.
Have a question, story, weird thought to share with Mandy and Kathryn? Drop us a voice memo here: https://www.speakpipe.com/AskMandyandKathryn or send an email to [email protected].
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📱Follow us: @mandypatinkin @lemonadamedia
#MandyPatinkin #KathrynGrody #Podcast #DontListenToUs
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Chapters:
00:00 Teaser Highlights
00:28 Meet Mandy Patinkin and Kathryn Grody
00:51 What Was Your Favorite Subject?
02:28 Cardboard Becky Chaos
02:59 Mandy Cheated in School and Ran Away
04:01 A Question About Jury Duty
05:59 Why Jury Duty Matters
12:38 Surprise Guest Reveal
13:20 Elvis Perkins Stops By
15:27 A Question About Taking Mushrooms
17:02 What Is Psilocybin?
17:29 How Psilocybin Eased Elvis Perkins’ Trauma
17:44 Plant Medicine as Spirit
18:44 Therapy and Psilocybin
20:47 Fear and Safe Dosing
23:24 Kathryn Microdosed
28:13 Mandy and Kathryn Want a Guided Experience
31:01 Fantastic Fungi and Cosmic Kinship
32:43 Live Song by Elvis! Sequin Jesus
39:11 Disclaimer, Credits and Kathryn’s Upcoming Show
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My co-worker complains about EVERYTHING. What should I do? This week, Mandy Patinkin, Kathryn Grody and their son Gideon tackle a listener's workplace dilemma. Mandy has some thoughts about Kathryn's advice. We also check-in with a listener about our promise to break up with our phones and whether The Adventures of Elmo In Grouchland is too scary for kids.
Plus, Mandy and Kathryn imagine the world 500 years from now, additional sayings that praise female anatomy, what Boomers can do to help young people today, and one of life's most pressing questions: which vegetable is the sexiest?
Have a question, story, weird thought to share with Mandy and Kathryn? Drop us a voice memo here: https://www.speakpipe.com/AskMandyandKathryn or send an email to [email protected].
👉 Subscribe so you don’t miss a new episode every week!
🎧 Listen to the podcast on all platforms: https://lemonada.lnk.to/DontListenToUsYT
📱Follow us: @mandypatinkin @lemonadamedia
#MandyPatinkin #KathrynGrody #Podcast #DontListenToUs
Chapters:
00:00 - Tuna Sandwiches With Raisins?
00:52 - Mandy Patinkin Imagines the World 500 Years From Now
02:00 - Kathryn Grody Has a Different Vision of the Future
04:17 - The Female Anatomy Saying We Should All Be Using
09:33 - Help! My Co-Worker Complains About Everything
13:19 - Mandy Rates Kathryn’s Advice
15:24 - Did We Actually Use Our Phones Less? A Listener Update
19:14 - Is Elmo in Grouchland Too Scary for Kids?
23:14 - How Do You Stay Hopeful Right Now?
24:55 - The Bedside Phone Challenge. Did We Fail?
26:10 - What Can Boomers Do to Help Young People Right Now?
30:15 - Remembering a Moment When Hope Felt Possible
31:01 - Mandy Tries a Flip Phone
32:30 - Can We Actually Commit to a Digital Sabbath?
34:12 - What’s the Phone Etiquette When Teenagers Go on Dates?
37:31 - Which vegetable is the friendliest? The meanest? The…sexiest?
40:55 - Thank you! Plus Credits
41:37 - See Kathryn’s Latest Performance of The Unexpected Third!
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Join Mandy and Kathryn in an exercise routine Mandy swears will change your life. Then, an emotional conversation about what to do when an aging parent – or anyone you love – refuses the help they clearly need.
Plus: should you always expect a thank you? Or is the act of giving the real gift? And famous birthday twins (Gilda Radner!).
Have a question, story, weird thought to share with Mandy and Kathryn? Drop us a voice memo here:
https://www.speakpipe.com/AskMandyandKathryn or send an email to [email protected].
👉 Subscribe so you don’t miss a new episode every week!
🎧 Listen to the podcast on all platforms: https://lemonada.lnk.to/DontListenToUsYT
📱Follow us: @mandypatinkin @lemonadamedia
#MandyPatinkin #KathrynGrody #Podcast #DontListenToUs
Chapters:
00:00 Join Us While We Workout!
01:06 Mandy Patinkin’s Fitness Transformation
02:06 Kathryn Grody’s Strength Routine
05:15 Balance and The Motherfuckers
07:51 Bosu Ball and Fear of Falling
12:13 How to Stay Motivated
15:03 Move Your Body Takeaways
17:18 Listener Question About Aging Parents
19:00 When People You Love Resist Your Help
21:24 Mandy Gets Real About Aging
22:07 Why We Resist Help
23:32 Facing Fear And Denial
24:38 Intervention And Safety
25:55 Staying Sharp And Grateful
27:25 Listener Question: Where’s My Thank You Note?
30:16 Do You Always Require a Thank You?
33:39 Gideon Sings a Thank You Song
37:16 Birthday Twins
39:41 Mandy Patinkin’s Crush on Gilda Radner
41:10 Wrap Up And Show Plug
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Who should make the first move? Is romance dead? And, did Gen Z kill it?
This week on Don’t Listen to Us, Mandy Patinkin and Kathryn Grody tackle questions about modern dating, vulnerability, and the challenges of finding love today. A listener asks whether straight men should always make the first move. Hear Mandy’s surprising answer. A live caller shares what it’s like to date as a Gen Z single. Is Gen Z afraid of vulnerability? How does anyone meet in real life anymore? And, what was dating like before the internet? Kathryn and Mandy weigh in with dating advice you may want to hear. Then, a completely different question: what makes someone a good neighbour? Are pot brownies an appropriate neighbourly gesture? Expect strong opinions and a mix of solid and questionable advice. Plus, a Walt Whitman poem, a Wendell Berry reference and, who are we kidding, A LOT of singing.
Have a question, story, weird thought to share with Mandy and Kathryn? Drop us a voice memo here: https://www.speakpipe.com/AskMandyandKathryn or send an email to [email protected].
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Thanks to Article for sponsoring this podcast! Article is offering our listeners $50 off your first purchase of $100 or more. To claim, visit https://www.article.com/dontlisten and the discount will be automatically applied at checkout.
Go to quince.com/dontlisten for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns.
Chapters:
00:00 - The Dating Advice That Can Change Your Love Life. Or Ruin It.
00:48 - Should Straight Men Always Ask Women Out?
01:54 - Kathryn Grody on Making the First Move.
03:01 - Mandy Patinkin Thinks Straight Women Should Always Make the First Move. Maybe.
09:39 - Is Romance Dead? Did Gen Z Kill It?
11:26 - What Dating Is Really Like for Gen Z.
12:35 - Mandy Patinkin’s Advice for Finding Love.
15:12 - How Do People Even Meet in Real Life Anymore?
17:00 - Is Gen Z Afraid of Vulnerability? Plus, Walt Whitman’s Oh You Whom I Often and Silently Come.
21:29 - Romance Before the Internet. Mandy and Kathryn Reminisce.
23:10 - How To Put Yourself Out There.
25:20 - Mandy’s Parting Wish If You’re Struggling to Find Love.
26:12 - Should You Mow Your Neighbour’s Lawn?
27:50 - What Does It Mean to Be a Good Neighbour?
28:50 - Pot Brownies as a Neighbourly Gesture.
30:50 - Mandy and Kathryn Rate Themselves as Neighbours. (-100?)
32:42 - Breakout Neighbour Song and Neighbourly Advice From Wendell Berry.
34:50 - Gideon’s Version of The Bucket Challenge.
38:38 - There’s A Hole in My Bucket .. The Patinkin and Grody rendition.
41:59 - Mandy Does Something “Unbelievable.”
42:29 - Credits
43:58 - See Kathryn’s Latest Performance of The Unexpected Third!
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