Emotionally Evicted

In this episode of "Emotionally Evicted," we delve into the roles we unconsciously adopted during our childhood and how they shaped our adult lives. Join us as we explore the survival strategies that became ingrained personality traits, the challenges of letting go, and the journey towards understanding and healing. Through candid conversations, we uncover the impact of our upbringing on relationships, work, and self-worth, and share insights on breaking free from the past to create a healthier future.SummaryIn this episode of Emotionally Evicted, Mandy and Tami delve into the roles they adopted during their childhood and how these roles have shaped their adult lives. They discuss the impact of their upbringing on their relationships, work, and self-worth, emphasizing the importance of recognizing and breaking generational cycles. The conversation highlights the journey of transforming pain into purpose and the ongoing process of personal growth and emotional healing.TakeawaysChildhood roles are survival strategies that affect adulthood.Over-functioning in relationships can lead to burnout.People-pleasing behaviors stem from childhood experiences.The need to fix others can be rooted in childhood roles.Recognizing one's worth is crucial for personal growth.Breaking generational cycles is a conscious choice.Emotional intelligence can be developed through reflection.The importance of self-care and not pouring from an empty cup.Transforming pain into purpose can lead to healing.Sharing personal stories can help others feel less alone.Sound Bites"I can't trust any motherfuckers.""We flipped the script 1000%.""We are always improving."Chapters00:00 Understanding Childhood Roles and Their Impact04:12 The Fixer and Caregiver Roles13:39 Over-Functioning in Adulthood21:50 The Invisible Child33:35 Breaking Generational Cycles52:23 Transforming Pain into PurposeKeywordschildhood roles, emotional intelligence, trauma, over-functioning, generational cycles, personal growth, self-worth, relationships, fixing, caregiving

In this episode of "Emotionally Evicted," Tami and Mandy take you on a journey through the emotional landscapes of their childhood. From the unpredictable chaos of their upbringing to the polished personas they present today, they share candid stories and reflections on how their past has shaped their present. Join them as they explore themes of survival, adaptation, and the ongoing journey of personal growth. Whether you're navigating your own emotional storms or seeking inspiration, this episode offers a heartfelt look at resilience and transformation.TakeawaysThe emotional atmosphere of childhood shapes adult behavior.Instability in childhood can lead to adaptive survival strategies.Personal growth involves understanding past experiences.People often mask their true feelings to fit in.The role of adults in childhood can provide stability or chaos.Recognizing unhealthy patterns is crucial for healing.Childhood experiences influence adult relationships.Healing is an ongoing process, not a destination.Self-awareness is key to breaking negative cycles.Sharing personal stories can help others feel less alone.SummaryIn this episode of Emotionally Evicted, Mandy and Tami explore the emotional landscape of their childhood, discussing the chaos and instability they experienced. They reflect on how these experiences shaped their adult lives, the roles they took on, and the importance of understanding their past to foster personal growth. The conversation delves into the impact of adults in their lives, the coping mechanisms they developed, and the ongoing journey of healing and self-awareness. They emphasize that healing is not a destination but a continuous process, and they invite listeners to join them in exploring these themes further in future episodes.Sound bites"You can't judge a book by its cover.""This is where our story begins.""We are in the trenches still today."Chapters01:13 Backstory of Childhood and Emotional Weather03:26 Navigating Instability and Chaos05:08 The Inconsistency of Childhood Experiences06:45 Observations from Friends' Homes08:51 The Role of Motherhood in Childhood10:57 Masking and Fitting In12:37 Reflections on Childhood Chaos14:52 Navigating Parental Relationships18:48 The Impact of Frequent Moves22:08 Positive Influences in Our Lives26:29 Survival Skills and Coping Mechanisms31:12 Healing and Personal Development36:18 Defining Roles and Their ImpactKeywordschildhood trauma, emotional healing, personal growth, family dynamics, people pleasing, coping mechanisms, emotional weather, adult relationships, self-awareness, podcast

SummaryIn this episode of Emotionally Evicted, Mandy and Tami discuss the challenges of being in 'fixer mode' in relationships, particularly for women who have experienced trauma. They explore the concept of emotional projects, the importance of setting boundaries, and the journey towards self-awareness and healthy partnerships.TakeawaysFixing others is not our responsibility.Emotional projects drain energy and offer no ROI.Healthy relationships require equality and self-awareness.Setting boundaries is crucial for self-preservation.Love does not mean managing someone else's growth.Self-awareness is key to breaking the fixer cycle.It's okay to love from a distance.The healing journey is personal and non-transferable.Cutting losses can lead to better gains.Support should be mutual, not one-sided.Sound BitesFixing him was never our job.Send him back to his mom.Women with trauma are wired to fix.Love does not mean managing growth.Cut your losses for better gains.The healing is their homework.Healthy relationships require equality.Emotional projects drain energy.Support should be mutual.Boundaries are crucial for self-preservation.Chapters00:00:01 Introduction to Fixer Mode00:00:35 The Emotional Project Dilemma00:01:25 Setting Boundaries and Self-Awareness00:02:32 Love and Limits00:03:39 The Healing JourneyWe'd love to hear from you! Share your experiences of stepping away from being the fixer or not taking on the role of a project manager in your relationships. How have you set boundaries or embraced self-awareness? Join the conversation by leaving a comment or sharing your story on social media with the hashtag #EmotionallyEvicted. Your journey could inspire others!Keywordsfixer mode, emotional projects, trauma, boundaries, self-awareness, healthy relationships, partnership, self-help

SummaryIn this episode of Emotionally Evicted, Mandy and Tami delve into how their chaotic upbringing influenced their relationship choices. They explore patterns of dating men with low self-esteem, addictions, and those who wouldn't fully commit, linking these patterns back to their childhood experiences. The conversation also touches on the importance of setting boundaries and recognizing energy vampires in their lives.Keywordschaotic upbringing, relationship patterns, energy vampires, setting boundaries, emotional growthTakeawaysWe often date patterns from our chaotic upbringing.Men with low self-esteem, addictions, or lack of commitment are common patterns.Our upbringing, especially our father's influence, shaped our relationship choices.Subconscious signals may attract certain types of people.Being the strong one often leads to attracting those who need rescuing.Setting boundaries is crucial to protect our energy.Empathy can attract both positive and negative energies.Recognizing and filtering out energy vampires is essential.Listening to our gut instincts can guide better relationship choices.We can't save everyone; preserving our energy is vital.Sound BitesWe often date patterns from our chaotic upbringing.Being the strong one often leads to attracting those who need rescuing.Setting boundaries is crucial to protect our energy.Empathy can attract both positive and negative energies.Listening to our gut instincts can guide better relationship choices.Chapters00:00:01 Introduction to Chaos and Relationships00:00:50 Patterns of Men and Upbringing00:02:50 The Role of Empathy and Energy00:11:22 Setting Boundaries and Protecting Energy00:19:28 Conclusion and ReflectionsWe'd love to hear from you! Share your best tips for recognizing people you need to set boundaries with and suggest alternative terms for "boundaries." Your insights could be featured in our next episode. Join the conversation and let us know your thoughts!

In this episode of Emotionally Evicted, we dive deep into the common trap of settling for potential rather than recognizing true value in relationships. Join us as we explore the challenges successful women face when navigating partnerships, friendships, and self-worth. Discover how to set boundaries, invest in yourself, and identify relationships that truly enrich your life. Tune in for an empowering conversation that encourages you to stop settling and start valuing your worth.

In this heartfelt episode of Emotionally Evicted, Tami and Mandy dive deep into their personal journeys of parenting shaped by a tumultuous upbringing. They candidly discuss the challenges and triumphs of breaking generational cycles, the conscious effort it takes to nurture their children, and the healing process that comes with it. Join them for an honest conversation about the realities of parenting without a manual, and how they strive to create a better future for their families. #ParentingJourney #HealingThroughParenthood #RealTalkTakeawaysParenting is the hardest job ever that I've ever had.It's a struggle sometimes because these kids don't freaking have a clue.We didn't have the ideal environment to grow up in.No parent is perfect, you're gonna mess up.It's a journey, a learning journey.Give yourself grace, it's very important.We're all just winging it in parenting.The most important thing is that we are trying. parenting, childhood trauma, empathy, overcompensation, family dynamics, emotional healing, self-parenting, personal growth, parenting struggles, family relationships

In this episode of "Emotionally Evicted," we dive deep into our personal journeys of overcoming adversity and defying the odds. Join us as we share candid stories from our past, reflecting on the challenges we faced growing up in a tumultuous environment. Discover how we transformed our experiences into a source of strength and resilience, and learn how we're redefining our future beyond the statistics. Whether you're navigating similar struggles or seeking inspiration, this episode offers a heartfelt exploration of growth, sisterhood, and the power of choice. Tune in and be part of our journey to break generational cycles and embrace a brighter tomorrow.TakeawaysGrowing up with addiction shaped our responsibilities.People-pleasing tendencies can stem from childhood roles.Mothering roles can complicate adult relationships.We want to inspire others to break the cycle of trauma.Self-discovery is a choice we make daily.Our past does not define our future.Storytelling can be a powerful tool for healing.We are not alone in our struggles.It's important to have supportive people around you.You can laugh about your past but not be defined by it.addiction, trauma, personal growth, sisterhood, overcoming adversity, emotional healing, podcast, storytelling, resilience, breaking cycles

In this episode of "Emotionally Evicted," hosts Mandy and Tami dive into the complex dynamics of dating men for their potential. They explore the challenges faced by ambitious women who often find themselves in relationships where they are the primary cheerleaders, pouring energy into partners who may not reciprocate the same drive and ambition. Through candid conversations, they discuss personal experiences of growing up with challenging family backgrounds and how these have shaped their perspectives on relationships.Mandy and Tami share their theories on why driven women are drawn to partners who see their ambition but may not match it. They reflect on the societal expectations that have historically placed women in supportive roles and how modern women are breaking free from these constraints. The episode delves into the importance of self-awareness, recognizing when a partner's actions don't align with their words, and the need for women to prioritize their own goals and well-being.Listeners will gain insights into the emotional toll of being a constant supporter and the importance of finding a partner who complements rather than completes them. Mandy and Tami also touch on broader themes of gender roles, the patriarchy, and the evolving landscape of relationships in today's world. Join them for an engaging and thought-provoking discussion that encourages women to be their own cheerleaders and seek partners who truly match their energy and aspirations.Tune in to "Emotionally Evicted" for a heartfelt exploration of love, ambition, and the journey to finding fulfilling partnerships.TakeawaysAmbitious women often attract partners who see their drive.It's important to recognize when you're being a cheerleader for someone who isn't reciprocating.Self-awareness is crucial in understanding relationship dynamics.Women need to prioritize their own ambitions and needs.Recognizing energy drains can help in making better relationship choices.The golden rule may not apply to everyone; not all people treat others as they wish to be treated.Generational shifts are changing relationship expectations.Women are waking up to the need for mutual support in relationships.It's essential to evaluate actions over words in relationships.Self-reflection is necessary for personal growth and healthier relationships.dating, relationships, ambition, self-awareness, personal growth, emotional support, gender dynamics, cheerleading, energy drain, generational shifts

In this episode, Tami & Mandy share their personal journeys, discussing their childhood experiences with addictive parents and the impact on their adult lives. They explore the concept of emotional eviction, reclaiming identity, and the importance of inner work. The conversation touches on motherhood, breaking generational patterns, and the journey towards healthier relationships. The hosts aim to empower women by sharing their stories and encouraging self-discovery and growth.TakeawaysThe podcast serves as a permission slip and mirror for listeners.Emotional eviction is about reclaiming one's identity and worth.Women often feel alone in their experiences, but they are not.Self-discovery is a crucial part of personal growth.Breaking generational patterns is essential for better parenting.It's okay to not be perfect in every aspect of life.The journey of self-improvement is ongoing and requires effort.Empowerment comes from understanding and changing one's narrative.emotional eviction, self-discovery, generational patterns, empowerment, relationships, mental health, women, personal growth, podcast, childhood experiences