Gabbing Gilmore: A Gilmore Girls Deep Dive

Happy birthday, Rory Gilmore! In honor of Rory’s birthday today, sisters Jackie and Catherine compare the highlights of her major birthdays, including her sweet 16 and the big 21. We answer questions like:Was Emily unreasonable not to give up her claim to Friday nights on Rory’s birthday? Why did Lorelai wake Rory up early in the morning on her birthday?Why doesn’t Rory ever seem to be involved in the planning of her own birthdays?How did the men in Rory’s life show up for her birthday?Did Rory really want that beaded bracelet Emily gave her?Enjoy this preview. For the full episode, join our Patreon, where you’ll get extra bonus episodes every month. ☕ Show the world that you’re a Gilmore superfan with sweatshirts, tees, tote bags and more from our Merch Shop! 🔎Remember, this is not a spoiler-free podcast, so everything is on the table.🎙Edited and produced by Jackie Procyk and Catherine Bailey. Cover art by MGI Studios. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

It’s that time of year - leaves are beginning to fall and you’re unearthing the “Rory sweater” from the depths of your closet. It’s time to rewatch Gilmore Girls!Whether you watch it every fall, or you’re constant loopers like us, Gilmore Girls is a show that begs to be rewatched over and over. Today, sisters Jackie and Catherine delve into the benefits of rewatching and lessons learned from multiple viewings. Which characters would constantly rewatch like us? Which ones would watch it once a year? Most importantly, we reveal ways that our Gilmore opinions have changed over the years - especially when it comes to Christopher as a dad, Dean as a boyfriend, and who we relate to now that we’re in our 40s.  Episodes mentioned:Emily in Stars HollowTaylor Doose: Friend or Foe?Rory and Dean: the early romance ✨ If you want more chats about Gilmore Girls, join our Patreon, where you’ll get extra bonus episodes every month. ☎️ Call us!  Send us a voice note to share your thoughts about this episode or more topics you’d like to hear about. ☕ Show the world that you’re a Gilmore superfan with sweatshirts, tees, tote bags and more from our Merch Shop! 🔎Remember, this is not a spoiler-free podcast, so everything is on the table.💋If you’re a fan, be a doll (in our best Babette voice) and leave a review & share with a friend. Copperboom! 🎙Edited and produced by Jackie Procyk and Catherine Bailey. Cover art by MGI Studios. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Get your coffee and Pop-Tarts ready — we’re diving into all things Gilmore party planning! Back in 2016, when the reboot aired, we hosted our first-ever Gilmore Girls watch party, and nothing beats that cozy, small-town vibe with fellow fans. In this episode, we walk you through our How to Throw a GG Watch Party Guide: simple steps for food, decor, activities, and watch lists to make your night feel like Stars Hollow. We’re even better than cousin Marilyn - we’ve got you covered for all of your party needs!If you want to throw your own watch party, our guide walks you through everything we cover in this episode.  PLUS - - it contains:7 original Bingo cards2 sets of trivia 3 drink recipes9 curated watch lists, and printable party signs to make hosting easy (and fun)To access the guide, become a FREE Patreon member here.☕ Need gifts for your GG party? Find sweatshirts, tees, tote bags and more at our Merch Shop! 🔎Remember, this is not a spoiler-free podcast, so everything is on the table.Edited and produced by Jackie Procyk and Catherine Bailey. Cover art by MGI Studios. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Why are  the women of Gilmore Girls often the ones holding everything (and everyone) together? In this episode, sisters Jackie and Catherine - who are also moms and feminists - explore the idea of emotional labor: the behind-the-scenes effort it takes to manage feelings, smooth over conflicts, and keep relationships running.We’ll talk about how this shows up on the show - whether it’s Emily’s role as corporate wife, Lorelai protecting Christopher from shame, or Rory juggling expectations—and how it connects to terms like the mental load, cognitive load, and invisible work (don’t worry, we’ll explain the differences!)From planning social events to supporting men to have healthy, quality relationships, the women of Stars Hollow are constantly doing the emotional heavy lifting - and we’re digging into why that matters.Enjoy this preview. For the full episode, join our Patreon, where you’ll get extra bonus episodes every month. ☕ Show the world that you’re a Gilmore superfan with sweatshirts, tees, tote bags and more from our Merch Shop! 🔎Remember, this is not a spoiler-free podcast, so everything is on the table.🎙Edited and produced by Jackie Procyk and Catherine Bailey. Cover art by MGI Studios. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Cozy season is upon us! And who does COZY better than Gilmore Girls? It makes you want to grab a coffee at Luke’s and snuggle up in an oversized “Rory” sweater. It’s the ultimate “comfort food.” But it’s not just the donuts, clothes and pumpkin decorations that make our favorite Stars Hollow show cozy. Today, sisters and co-hosts Jackie & Catherine break down the true recipe for coziness and why GG nails it so well. This includes environment, nourishment, traditions, community, and belonging. After all, this is the comfort podcast for your favorite comfort show. Welcome to Gabbing Gilmore!You may also enjoy:Why rewatching Gilmore girls is actually good for youFall bonus: Official Gilmore Girls Day✨ If you want more chats about Gilmore Girls, join our Patreon, where you’ll get extra bonus episodes every month. ☕ Show the world that you’re a Gilmore superfan with sweatshirts, tees, tote bags and more from our Merch Shop! 🔎Remember, this is not a spoiler-free podcast, so everything is on the table.👋We’d love to hear from you. Come join the conversation on Instagram. 💋If you’re a fan, be a doll (in our best Babette voice) and leave a review & share with a friend. Copperboom! 🎙Edited and produced by Jackie Procyk and Catherine Bailey. Cover art by MGI Studios. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Logan Huntzberger’s biggest surprise is a bit controversial. Did you love it or hate it? We analyze what he did right… and what he got wrong.  In this "Best of Gabbing" episode, Jackie and Catherine dig into all kinds of Gilmore Girls surprises - parties, proposals, dates, and even real estate investments!  Plus, we get a little personal. Can you guess whether Jackie loves or hates surprises?✨ If you want more chats about Gilmore Girls, join our Patreon, where you’ll get extra bonus episodes every month. ☕ Show the world that you’re a Gilmore superfan with sweatshirts, tees, tote bags and more from our Merch Shop! 🔎Remember, this is not a spoiler-free podcast, so everything is on the table.👋We’d love to hear from you. Come join the conversation on Instagram. 💋If you’re a fan, be a doll (in our best Babette voice) and leave a review & share with a friend. Copperboom! 🎙Edited and produced by Jackie Procyk and Catherine Bailey. Cover art by MGI Studios. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Rory Gilmore is one of the most hotly debated characters of Gilmore Girls. Today we detour from her romances and privilege to cover another important topic - her friendships.From Lane Kim to Paris Geller, and those who followed, was Rory a good friend? In the "Best of Gabbing," Jackie and Catherine address the most common fan complaints about Rory’s BFF status. Plus, they share their theory about why Rory and Lane’s friendship lasted so long & a few reflections on decades-long friendships in their own lives.✨ If you want more chats about Gilmore Girls, join our Patreon, where you’ll get extra bonus episodes every month. ☕ Show the world that you’re a Gilmore superfan with sweatshirts, tees, tote bags and more from our Merch Shop! 🔎Remember, this is not a spoiler-free podcast, so everything is on the table.👋We’d love to hear from you. Come join the conversation on Instagram. 💋If you’re a fan, be a doll (in our best Babette voice) and leave a review & share with a friend. Copperboom!  Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

We’re taking your questions today, townies! This is a sample of our Grab Bag episode for our patrons - join our Patreon here to listen to the full episode. Today, sisters Jackie and Catherine, co-hosts and GG superfans, answer questions like:What would happen if Kirk was sheriff? What kind of rules would he enforce?Why does Lorelai get mad at Rory and Lane for lying to Mrs. Kim in one scene and then encourage lying in the very next episode?Why does Rory have the last name Gilmore, and not Hayden?How can you throw a dream Gilmore Girls themed baby shower?How would we have greeted Jess if he arrived in our town?What are our favorite Stars Hollow town events?Why does Lulu date Kirk?And…many more!If you want Catherine’s baby shower playlist, join our FREE Patreon here. ☕ Show the world that you’re a Gilmore superfan with sweatshirts, tees, tote bags and more from our Merch Shop! 🔎Remember, this is not a spoiler-free podcast, so everything is on the table.👋We’d love to hear from you. Come join the conversation on Instagram. 💋If you’re a fan, be a doll (in our best Babette voice) and leave a review & share with a friend. Copperboom! 🎙Edited and produced by Jackie Procyk and Catherine Bailey. Cover art by MGI Studios. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Lane Kim is one of the Gilmore Girls fandom’s all-time favorite characters! Brilliantly played by Keiko Agena, Lane Kim had a strict, rules-based upbringing plus a burning passion for rock music and playing drums. In today’s episode of Gabbing Gilmore, we dig into the repression of Lane Kim. How did growing up in a strict environment impact Lane’s personality? How did Mrs. Kim influence her values? When was she willing to stray from being the obedient daughter? Join us for "the best of Gabbing Gilmore" with this deep dive into Lane Kim.✨ If you want more Gilmore chats, join our Patreon, where we put out extra bonus episodes every month. ☕ Show the world that you’re a Gilmore superfan with sweatshirts, tees, tote bags and more from our Merch Shop! 🔎Remember, this is not a spoiler-free podcast, so everything is on the table.👋We’d love to hear from you. Come join the conversation on Instagram. 💋If you’re a fan, be a doll (in our best Babette voice) and leave a review & share with a friend. Copperboom! 🎙Edited by Jackie Procyk. Cover art by MGI Studios. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Calling Team Robert!! Today, we’re interviewing Nick Holmes, the actor who played Robert “Grimaldi” in Gilmore Girls! We find out about his adventures with the Life and Death Brigade, his epic paintball gun scene, working with Alexis Bledel, his true thoughts about Kirk, the way he started heckling Matt Czuchry, and what kind of business he would own in Stars Hollow.Plus, you’ll find out which other part he auditioned for. Would he have made a good Dean? How about Tristan?Nick Holmes is a fan-favorite at Fan Fest. We ask him what keeps him coming back as he’s always generous with his time, completely weaving himself into the fabric of the weekend, interacting with fans and sharing stories.And we couldn’t NOT ask Nick about his legendary hair!Tune in for this fun conversation with one of our all-time favorite Gilmore Girls actors.Keep up with Nick’s photography and other life adventures here.✨ If you want more chats about Gilmore Girls, join our Patreon, where we put out extra bonus episodes every month. ☕ Show the world that you’re a Gilmore superfan with sweatshirts, tees, tote bags and more from our Merch Shop! 🔎Remember, this is not a spoiler-free podcast, so everything is on the table.👋We’d love to hear from you. Come join the conversation on Instagram. 💋If you’re a fan, be a doll (in our best Babette voice) and leave a review & share with a friend. Copperboom! 🎙Edited and produced by Jackie Procyk and Catherine Bailey. Cover art by MGI Studios. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

✨ This episode is available to our paid subscribers, who receive bonus content every month. As much as we love this show - really, truly LOVE this show - there are a couple of episodes that bring us down. Sometimes we skip right over them, or fast forward.Today’s first episode in a new series called Episodes We Skip is A Vineyard Valentine in season 6. It sounds promising - a weekend away with Lorelai and Luke, Rory and Logan. But the weirdness is palpable: Luke is still dealing (awkwardly) with the April situation, and Logan has something he’s hiding. Meanwhile, Rory surprises us left and right. We discuss some of the character holes and inconsistencies: why doesn’t Luke know anything about Martha’s Vineyard? Why hasn’t he tried lobster before? Rory seems like a different person - going to the gym, cooking with ease - what gives? And what does this say about her relationship with Lorelai?Plus, Luke continues to be a “grumpypuss,” the ultimate crankster. Will he ever snap out of it?But don’t worry, we’ll try to find the redeeming moments of the episode, too: the sweet moments, the funny ones, and the moments that give us hope.  ☕ Show the world that you’re a Gilmore superfan with sweatshirts, tees, tote bags and more from our Merch Shop! 🔎Remember, this is not a spoiler-free podcast, so everything is on the table.👋We’d love to hear from you. Come join the conversation on Instagram. 💋If you’re a fan, be a doll (in our best Babette voice) and leave a review & share with a friend. Copperboom! 🎙Edited by Jackie Procyk. Cover art by MGI Studios. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

No Gilmore Girls fan can forget Dave Rygalski’s legendary speech to Mrs. Kim. Lane wants to go to the prom with Dave, and he’s determined to make it happen!In this episode, sisters Jackie and Catherine go through his speech, line by line, to explore what makes it so compelling, lovable, and memorable. Is it his adherence to safe driving and healthy habits, like flossing?Is it his renunciation of drugs, carbonation, and video games?Or is it his jacket, tie, and determined confidence?Through it all, we can’t help but compare him to Jess and Zach. We have a few thoughts about how he distinguishes himself as boyfriend of the year. Because, really, Lane Kim deserved it.  Episodes mentioned:Ep. 11: Single moms on Gilmore GirlsEp. 20: Lane Kim Part 1: the repressionEp. 21: Lane Kim Part 2: the rebellionEp. 23: Lane Kim Part 3: does Lane need justice? ✨ If you want more chats about Gilmore Girls, join our Patreon, where we put out extra bonus episodes every month. ☕ Show the world that you’re a Gilmore superfan with sweatshirts, tees, tote bags and more from our Merch Shop! 🔎Remember, this is not a spoiler-free podcast, so everything is on the table.👋We’d love to hear from you. Come join the conversation on Instagram. 💋If you’re a fan, be a doll (in our best Babette voice) and leave a review & share with a friend. Copperboom! 🎙Produced and Edited by Catherine Bailey and Jackie Procyk. Cover art by MGI Studios. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Lots of people in the Gilmore Girls fandom say that high school Rory was too good for Jess, but adult Jess was too good for Rory. Is this true? Today, sisters and Gilmore junkies Jackie and Catherine dive into the nuances behind this idea. What does it mean to be “too good” for someone? Jackie has a 7-part framework for what she thinks it means!Once we heard the phrase, “Rory aged like milk and Jess aged like wine,” we knew we needed to get to the bottom of this. Can we appreciate adult Jess without putting Rory down? How do her accomplishments factor into this? And more importantly….should they? How does Jess’s troubled past contribute to their relationship problems, and much of a “pass” should we give him? Get ready, townies. We’re goin’ deep! ✨ If you want more Gilmore chats, join our Patreon, where we put out extra bonus episodes every month. ☕ Show the world that you’re a Gilmore superfan with sweatshirts, tees, tote bags and more from our Merch Shop! 🔎Remember, this is not a spoiler-free podcast, so everything is on the table.👋We’d love to hear from you. Come join the conversation on Instagram. 💋If you’re a fan, be a doll (in our best Babette voice) and leave a review & share with a friend. Copperboom! 🎙Edited by Jackie Procyk. Cover art by MGI Studios. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

One of the biggest complaints about the Gilmore Girls revival – A Year in the Life – is Rory’s stagnant career.After seeing Rory Gilmore’s dreams of becoming a journalist somewhat fade, we have to wonder… Are there other professions that would suit Rory even better?She has many skills, and lots of writing experience, but was she really destined to become the next Christiane Amanpour?With a little help from our Patreon community, sisters and Gilmore superfans Jackie and Catherine dive into lots of job and career suggestions for Rory Gilmore, from publisher to event planner, and many more!✨ This episode is available to our paid subscribers, who receive bonus content every month. ☕ Show the world that you’re a Gilmore superfan with sweatshirts, tees, tote bags and more from our Merch Shop! 🔎Remember, this is not a spoiler-free podcast, so everything is on the table.👋We’d love to hear from you. Come join the conversation on Instagram. 💋If you’re a fan, be a doll (in our best Babette voice) and leave a review & share with a friend. Copperboom! 🎙Produced by Jackie Procyk and Catherine Bailey. Cover art by MGI Studios. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Did Luke really make out with Crazy Carrie? Why is she called Crazy Carrie? How did she finally charm “Butch Danes”?Today, sisters and Gilmore superfans Jackie and Catherine answer listener questions in this mini-grab bag episode.Plus, is it realistic that Paris Geller wasn’t valedictorian at Chilton? And would Paris really be totally fine with it? Join us to chat about your favorite Stars Hollow series!✨ If you want more chats about Gilmore Girls, join our Patreon, where we put out extra bonus episodes every month. ☕ Show the world that you’re a Gilmore superfan with sweatshirts, tees, tote bags and more from our Merch Shop! 🔎Remember, this is not a spoiler-free podcast, so everything is on the table.👋We’d love to hear from you. Come join the conversation on Instagram. 💋If you’re a fan, be a doll (in our best Babette voice) and leave a review & share with a friend. Copperboom! 🎙Edited by Jackie Procyk. Cover art by MGI Studios. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

June 3rd is a pivotal date in Gilmore Girls history! And what better day to celebrate?If you can just hear Lorelai saying “June thirrrrrrd,” then this is the episode for you. Today, sisters Jackie and Catherine pop in with a surprise Tuesday episode to mark the occasion. We dive into why this date is so important to the fandom, what happened on each of those days, and similarities they share. After all, these are big events - Rory’s court date for stealing a yacht and Lorelai’s planned wedding with Luke! Both dates have lasting consequences for the Gilmore Girls, lead to major changes for each character’s arc, and give Lorelai a lot to consider.✨ If you want more chats about Gilmore Girls, join our Patreon, where we put out extra bonus episodes every month. ☕ Show the world that you’re a Gilmore superfan with sweatshirts, tees, tote bags and more from our Merch Shop! 🔎Remember, this is not a spoiler-free podcast, so everything is on the table.👋We’d love to hear from you. Come join the conversation on Instagram. 💋If you’re a fan, be a doll (in our best Babette voice) and leave a review & share with a friend. Copperboom! 🎙Edited by Jackie Procyk. Cover art by MGI Studios. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

As the new season of And Just Like That returns, we have to wonder… is Carrie Bradshaw anything like our beloved Lorelai Gilmore? In today’s deep dive, sisters Jackie and Catherine analyze the similarities between two popular protagonists of the early 2000s: Carrie Bradshaw (in the Sex and the City days) and Lorelai Gilmore from Gilmore Girls. Topics include: Why did both characters deeply crave independence? How did it impact their lives and romantic relationships? Where was Carrie’s family?Are they both “pick me” girls, or simply free-spirited unique women?Lorelai and Carrie’s relationship to food, exercise, and their bodiesWhat they have in common when it comes to the hot button issues: politics and money!And, of course, the men in their lives. Does Luke Danes have anything in common with Mr. Big? Where did Jason Stiles and Aleksandr Petrovsky both go wrong? ✨ If you want more chats about Gilmore Girls, join our Patreon, where we put out extra bonus episodes every month. ☕ Show the world that you’re a Gilmore superfan with sweatshirts, tees, tote bags and more from our Merch Shop! 🔎Remember, this is not a spoiler-free podcast, so everything is on the table.👋We’d love to hear from you. Come join the conversation on Instagram. 💋If you’re a fan, be a doll (in our best Babette voice) and leave a review & share with a friend. Copperboom! 🎙Edited by Jackie Procyk. Cover art by MGI Studios. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Luke and Lorelai are really close friends, but halfway through the series, we’re not sure if it’ll ever become a true romance! When Nicole Leahy appears in season 3 and gets closer to Luke, Lorelai is thrown for a loop. Today, sisters Jackie and Catherine discuss a fascinating love triangle on Gilmore Girls - Lorelai, Luke, and Nicole! We discuss:Another love triangle that mirrors this oneTheories about why the heck Luke did what he did on the cruiseIs Nicole actually mean? Or did Lorelai deserve a little snark? The character we WISH they’d brought back in season 3 instead!✨ this episode is available to our  Patreon community, which receives an extra bonus episode every month. ☕ Show the world that you’re a Gilmore superfan with sweatshirts, tees, tote bags and more from our Merch Shop! 🔎Remember, this is not a spoiler-free podcast, so everything is on the table.👋We’d love to hear from you. Come join the conversation on Instagram. 💋If you’re a fan, be a doll (in our best Babette voice) and leave a review & share with a friend. Copperboom! 🎙Edited by Jackie Procyk. Cover art by MGI Studios. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

If you ask Lorelai Gilmore, she’ll say she couldn’t be more different from her mother! But… do these two women have more similarities than we think?In this episode, sisters Jackie and Catherine dive into the traits that Lorelai and Emily Gilmore have in common. Do they have similar entertaining styles? How about shopping? We’ll talk about their capacity for storytelling, the way they dress, and more! Come join us to chat about this famous mother-daughter duo.✨ If you want more chats about Gilmore Girls, join our Patreon, where we put out extra bonus episodes every month. 🔎Remember, this is not a spoiler-free podcast, so everything is on the table.👋We’d love to hear from you. Come join the conversation on Instagram or Facebook💋If you’re a fan, be a doll (in our best Babette voice) and leave a review & share with a friend. Copperboom! 🎙Edited by Jackie Procyk. Cover art by MGI Studios. Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Taylor Doose is one of Stars Hollow’s most important characters. After all, he basically runs the whole town! (Admit that you love all those festivals.)Jackie and Catherine have some theories to test with you. On some days, Taylor (played by Michael Winters) is a little bit like the brash Colonel Jessup from A Few Good Men. And on other days, he channels the spunky and spirited Leslie Knope from Parks and Recreation. So take this quiz with us. Which character is Taylor most similar to?Join us for "the best of Gabbing Gilmore" with this deep dive into Taylor Doose.🔎Remember, this is not a spoiler-free podcast, so everything Gilmore Girls is on the table!  Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy