Cassandra Uncaged: Hope For Christian Women In Neurodiverse Marriage | Cassandra Syndrome, Asperger Marriage, Autistic Spouse

In the sixth of the seven-part series on When Virtue Confronts Narcissism in a Neurodiverse Marriage (by C.S. Lewis), hear how God caused truth to bubble up for Libby in a season when she had no one to tell what her reality was like, and church leadership had no understanding of neurodiversity. Stick around for the activation at the end and be encouraged that you are known, seen, and heard. Stay Connected! Join the free Friends Uncaged Community! Resources and Coaching Leave a voice-memo question you’d like discussed on the podcast. Listen to the Podcast here! Resources: Soaking music for soul care.

How does a wife in a neurodiverse marriage disconnect the unhealthy attachment that exists and allow God to defend her? How can she experience tangible emotional safety and relief? In today’s episode, Libby and her husband, Steve, continue their story, and you will hear how a beautiful transition unfolded for Libby, who once felt like a crumpled woman in the corner. Stick around for the activation and experience this for yourself. You don’t have to live in despair. Hope is on the way. Stay Connected! Join the free Friends Uncaged Community! Resources and Coaching Leave a voice-memo question you’d like discussed on the podcast. Listen to the Podcast here! Resources: Soaking music for soul care.

Would you describe your neurodiverse marriage as a false system? When others look in from the outside, does it look mostly OK, and no one has any idea of its true reality? How do you depart from a false system? What does it take to wake up a mindblind husband so he can choose to fight for his marriage? In today’s episode, Libby shares her story, revealing that ultimately strength and virtue win, allowing God’s light to pierce through the mindblindness, which reveals the truth to your husband. Hear the encouraging outcome that made Steve fight for his marriage. Hope is on the way! Stay Connected! Join the free Friends Uncaged Community! Resources and Coaching Leave a voice-memo question you’d like discussed on the podcast. Listen to the Podcast here! Resources: Soaking music for soul care.

In neurodiversity, the traits of ASD that mimic narcissism can feel like hopelessness to an exhausted and discouraged wife who is trying to get through to him. What does it take to hold up a mirror to a husband in such a way that he can process the reflection of who he is and how he shows up? How can a wife withstand the storm of initial resistance? Libby and her husband, Steve, share their story of how Libby told Steve he had Asperger’s and offer hope-filled tips on withstanding the storm. Be encouraged! Books mentioned in today’s show; A Very Late Diagnosis Of Asperger’s Syndrome Alone, Together Stay Connected! Join the free Friends Uncaged Community! Resources and Coaching Leave a voice-memo question you’d like discussed on the podcast. Listen to the Podcast here! Resources: Soaking music for soul care.

This episode continues our 7-part series on When Virtue Confronts Narcissism in a Neurodiverse Marriage. Libby will share a story of how she learned to disengage from the game that evolves out of the narcissistic-swirl within Asperger traits. Her husband Steve’s insight adds valuable understanding of how those with Asperger’s resist any change to rigid patterns, but also how important it is to break through that resistance. Libby and Steve’s breakthrough can be yours! Stay Connected! Join the free Friends Uncaged Community! Resources and Coaching Leave a voice-memo question you’d like discussed on the podcast. Listen to the Podcast here! Resources: Soaking music for soul care.

Libby’s husband, Steve, joins Libby today as they begin a powerful 7-part series of When Virtue Confronts Narcissism in a Neurodiverse Marriage. Libby shares a story from back in the day, when she learned to stop covering the non-reality in their marriage in public, and Steve shares how that impacted him. Learn how becoming whole begins to expose falseness, honesty reveals distortion, and becoming a living contrast reveals truth, all through calm virtue. Journal prompts from this episode’s activation; In what ways am I not living as a princess-daughter? How can I walk virtuously in truth, going forward? What is one next step can I take? Stay Connected! Join the free Friends Uncaged Community! Resources and Coaching Leave a voice-memo question you’d like discussed on the podcast. Listen to the Podcast here! Resources: Soaking music for soul care.

In this episide, Libby introduces a 7-part series on how a wife in a neurodiverse marriage can confront the effect of Asperger’s that mimics narcissism—by walking in virtue. Libby decodes what the essence of virtue is, and how any Christian wife can access this key. For the following 7 episodes, Libby’s husband Steve will join the conversation, for a powerful understanding of how to dismantle the false empire of narcissism. Stay Connected! Join the free Friends Uncaged Community! Resources and Coaching Leave a voice-memo question you’d like discussed on the podcast. Listen to the Podcast here! Resources: Soaking music for soul care.

Specifically for a wife in a neurodiverse marriage (married to a man with Asperger’s), Libby walks us through Psalm 86 to bring rich encouragement as we usher in a New Year. This is foundational truth to center us, in the midst of a challenging life. Learn of the amazing connection of this year in the Hebraic calendar, making the annointing within this message very powerful and relevant. Down below Libby lists the 17 truths from Psalm 86. Stay Connected! Join the free Friends Uncaged Community! Resources and Coaching Leave a voice-memo question you’d like discussed on the podcast. Listen to the Podcast here! Resources: Soaking music for soul care. Connecting Heaven and Earth; 17 Truths For Your Neurodiverse Life From Psalm 86:1-17 (correlating with the new Hebrew year: 5786). God is personal within your neurodiverse pain. God loves to hear that you trust Him with your neurodiverse dynamics! God hears your cry within neurodiversity! God is able to heal a broken ‘Cassandra’ soul. God is good, all the time (He didn’t cause the chaos). God pays attention to what we specifically ask for. You have a no-fail 911 line to God! God loves to hear you tell Him that there is no other god like Him! One day, all nations will worship the Lord! We can bring forth the wondrous things of God (for neurodiversity) by declaring His wonder and greatness! The Holy Spirit is a teacher who will teach us God’s ways! Your heart can be whole and healthy within neurodiversity! God can bring you out of the deep, miry pit of neurodiverse loneliness. God will deliver you from the overwhelm of your neurodiversity. God is FULL of compassion within neurodiversity! When you cry out to God—He will hear you. You can ask God to give you a ‘sign’ of His favor!

Often, neurodiversity has us feeling like we are stuck in a little snow globe, going through storms, but no one else really understands ‘what REALLY goes on’ within our home. Christmastime can be challenging, as we try to have fa-la-la amidst neurotranslating to our loved ones; Asperger husbands as well as both neurotypical and atypical children; but we are exhausted and overfunctioning. Where is the hope? Libby will shepherd your heart to find a place of Kingdom HOPE! Stay Connected! Join the free Friends Uncaged Community! Resources and Coaching Leave a voice memo comment — or ask a question you’d like discussed on the podcast. Listen to the Podcast here! Resources: Soaking music for soul care.

A wife in neurodiversity, married to a mindblind husband (who masks well in public), feels hard-pressed to find others who REALLY understand a neurodiverse marriage. Today, we will walk in the shoes of Mary, the mother of Jesus, and press in to learn her secret to abundant joy, in the midst of being unbelieved and persecuted within the cultural mind-blindness of her day. Be encouraged this Christmas season that not only Mary, but also our Saviour, Jesus, really understands being misunderstood and unbelieved. This episode’s activation is user-friendly and hope-filled, to center your thoughts this holiday season. Stay Connected! Join the free Friends Uncaged Community! Resources and Coaching Leave a voice-memo question you’d like discussed on the podcast. Listen to the Podcast here! Resources: Names of God study from The Blue Letter Bible: El Shaddai (Lord God Almighty) El Elyon (The Most High God) Adonai (Lord, Master) Yahweh (Lord, Jehovah) Jehovah Nissi (The Lord My Banner) Jehovah-Raah (The Lord My Shepherd) Jehovah Rapha (The Lord That Heals) Jehovah Shammah (The Lord Is There) Jehovah Tsidkenu (The Lord Our Righteousness) Jehovah Mekoddishkem (The Lord Who Sanctifies You) El Olam (The Everlasting God) Elohim (God) Qanna (Jealous) Jehovah Jireh (The Lord Will Provide) Jehovah Shalom (The Lord Is Peace) Jehovah Sabaoth (The Lord of Hosts) Soaking music for soul care.

Within a neurodiverse marriage, the heart of a wife with an Asperger husband holds a lot of grief. Is she allowed to grieve? Is she allowed to take a break from gluing the family together in order to grieve? She wonders, “What’s the point? Will I ever heal?” Today, Libby tells a story of deep heartache and how God made a way for her to learn how to grieve, allowing new space in her healing heart to make a way for good things that would soon be coming. This is a very encouraging message that you don’t have to live this way ANY MORE! Healing and hope are here! Stay Connected! Join the free Friends Uncaged Community! Resources and Coaching Leave a voice-memo question you’d like discussed on the podcast. Listen to the Podcast here! Resources: Soaking music for soul care.

Libby shares tips for navigating the holiday stress within a neurodiverse marriage and neurodiverse family. Routine gets all out of whack over the holidays, which can be a nightmare for an Asperger husband. Learn what has helped in Libby’s neurodiverse journey, and stick around for an activation that will better prepare you to get fully present with yourself, allowing you to care for what your heart needs. Stay Connected! Find Community, Resources, and Coaching at cassandrauncaged.com Listen to the Podcast here! Resources; NEW!! Join the free Friends Uncaged Community! Resources and Coaching Leave a voice-memo question you’d like discussed on the podcast, or Leave a voice memo of what you heard from Jesus! Soaking music

Today, you will meet my husband Steve! Hear how Steve learned to have reciprocity himself, concluding our 5-part series. Insightful and hope-filled! In a neurodiverse marriage, there is no reciprocity; the natural back-and-forth flow of matching and reciprocating emotional needs. Over time, this is devastating and the body keeps the score of this trauma, and a wife can develop health issues and Cassandra Syndrome. Stay tuned to hear how hope is on the way! Stay Connected! Find Community, Resources, and Coaching at cassandrauncaged.com Listen to the Podcast here! Resources; Communion With God Ministries; Mark Virkler’s teaching on hearing God’s voice; with a free printable download. Mark Virkler verbal explanation in a 6 minute video. NEW!! Join the free Friends Uncaged Community! Leave a voice-memo question you’d like discussed on the podcast, or Leave a voice memo of what you heard from Jesus!

Part 4 of a 5 part series. In a neurodiverse marriage, there is no reciprocity; the natural back-and-forth flow of matching and reciprocating emotional needs. Over time, this is devastating and the body keeps the score of this trauma, and a wife can develop health issues and Cassandra Syndrome. In today’s podcast, we will learn the final key #4 to receiving reciprocity! And next week Libby will be talking with her husband Steve, and you will hear his amazing journey of learning reciprocity for himself. Stay Connected! NEW!! Join the free Friends Uncaged Community! Resources and Coaching Leave a voice-memo question you’d like discussed on the podcast, or Leave a voice memo of what you heard from Jesus! Listen to the Podcast here! Resources: Mini 3 ring binder Paper refills Soaking music for soul care. Communion With God Ministries; Mark Virkler’s teaching on hearing God’s voice; with a free printable download. Mark Virkler verbal explanation in a 6 minute video.

Part 3 of a 5-part series. In a neurodiverse marriage, there is no reciprocity; there is no natural back-and-forth flow of matching and reciprocating emotional needs. Over time, this is devastating, and the body keeps the score of this trauma, and a wife can develop health issues and Cassandra Syndrome. In today’s podcast, learn key number 3 of how to receive reciprocity! Stay Connected! Join the free Friends Uncaged Community! Resources and Coaching Listen to the Podcast here! Leave a voice-memo question you’d like discussed on the podcast. Resources: Soaking music for soul care. Communion With God Ministries; Mark Virkler’s teaching on hearing God’s voice; with a free printable download. Mark Virkler verbal explanation in a 6 minute video.

Part 2 of a 5 part series. In a neurodiverse marriage, there is no reciprocity; the natural back-and-forth flow of matching and reciprocating emotional needs. Over time, this is devastating and the body keeps the score of this trauma, and a wife can develop health issues and Cassandra Syndrome. In today’s podcast, we will learn a way to receive reciprocity! Stay Connected! Find Community, Resources, and Coaching at cassandrauncaged.com Listen to the Podcast here! Resources; Communion With God Ministries; Mark Virkler’s teaching on hearing God’s voice; with a free printable download. Mark Virkler verbal explanation in a 6 minute video.

Part 1 of a 5 part series. In a neurodiverse marriage, there is no reciprocity; the natural back-and-forth flow of matching and reciprocating emotional needs. Over time, this is devastating and the body keeps the score of this trauma, and a wife can develop health issues and Cassandra Syndrome. In today’s podcast, we will learn a way to receive reciprocity! Stay Connected! Find Community, Resources, and Coaching at cassandrauncaged.com Listen to the Podcast here! Resources; Communion With God Ministries; Mark Virkler’s teaching on hearing God’s voice; with a free printable download. Mark Virkler verbal explanation in a 6 minute video. Soaking music

Is it possible to find hope in a neurodiverse marriage? Today, hear more of Libby’s story…can you relate to it? Have you gone years in your neurodiverse marriage without your husband getting a diagnosis of Asperger’s? Do you have kids who’ve hit the teenage years within the neurodiverse culture of your home? Have you felt voiceless? Hear how God broke into Libby’s story and find hope for your own situation! Stick around for an activation that will open up a new space in your heart. Learn to hear who Jesus says you are! Stay Connected! Find Community, Resources, and Coaching at cassandrauncaged.com Listen to the Podcast here! Resources; Soaking music

Have you lost hope within your neurodiverse marriage? Do you sometimes wonder what the point is anymore? Do you feel like nothing will ever change? Hear a bit of Libby’s journey and how she began to grow hope by finding a little piece of herself (after losing herself within her neurodiverse marriage). Your inner healing can be powerfully influential to your mind-blind spouse, awakening him bit by bit from his mind-blindness. Stick around for the activation at the end to help you identify your core truth, shedding light on your own personal story, helping you find those beautiful chapters that God wrote for you that you may not have yet experienced. You can step back into your story of origin! Stay connected! Find community, resources, and coaching to encourage you in your neurodiverse marriage at cassandrauncaged.com.