Girl, Date the Good Guy | Relationship, Healing, Heartbreak, Broken Heart, Red Flags, Discernment, Boundaries

How do you know if a man is truly a good godly man or just someone who says he believes in God? In this sister-to-sister episode of Girl, Date the Good Guy, Emily Jordan talks about the importance of Christian dating discernment and why women must look beyond words to evaluate a man’s character, spiritual fruit, and relationship with God. Not every man who claims to be a Christian is walking with God. Scripture reminds us that even deception can look spiritual on the outside, which is why discernment through prayer and the Holy Spirit is essential when dating. If you desire a God-led relationship or marriage, it’s important to slow down, seek God’s guidance, and watch the fruit of a man’s life over time. In this episode, we talk about: • What defines a good godly man • Why being “Christian” is only the starting point • The importance of praying about the man you’re dating • Asking God for discernment before giving someone your heart • Why rushing relationships can be a red flag (love bombing) • How godly relationships grow slowly and develop deep roots • The biblical warning about being unequally yoked • Why character and spiritual fruit reveal the truth about a man You’ll also be encouraged to develop a deeper relationship with God so that you can recognize His guidance and trust the Holy Spirit when it comes to your relationships. When you walk closely with God, He helps you recognize the difference between a man who is simply interested in you and a man who has been sent by Him. Scriptures Referenced Genesis 2:18 2 Corinthians 6:14 2 Corinthians 11:14 Matthew 7:16 Jeremiah 17:7–8 Galatians 5:22–23 In This Episode You’ll Learn • Signs of a good godly man • How to use biblical discernment in Christian dating • Why character matters more than words • How prayer protects your heart while dating • How to recognize spiritual fruit in a relationship Royal Reflection Before giving your heart away, ask yourself: Have I prayed about this man? Have I asked God for wisdom and discernment? Am I paying attention to his character and fruit? God cares deeply about who you allow into your life and your heart. 💬 Start Your Royal Training Here. 👑 Subscribe to Girl, Date the Good Guy for weekly encouragement, healing, and royal training. ⭐ Leave a review on Apple Podcasts to help more women find this message. 👍 Like and follow the show so you never miss an episode. ✨ Share this episode with a sister who needs it. 🛡️ Join the Royal Guard community for deeper growth, accountability, and faith-based support: 👉 www.facebook.com/groups/girldatethegoodguy/ 💌 Connect with us: hello@girldatethegoodguy.com

What happens after you finally leave the toxic cycle? In Part 3 of this deeply personal testimony, Emily shares what life looked like after walking away from a painful 17-year relationship filled with chaos, control, and heartbreak. Leaving wasn’t the end of the story. It was the beginning of healing, restoration, and God rebuilding her life from the ground up. In this episode, Emily opens up about the grief of leaving her daughters behind, the months she spent crying, praying, and seeking God for answers, and the incredible ways God began guiding her path one step at a time. This powerful Christian testimony reveals how God meets us in our deepest pain and slowly restores our hearts when we trust Him enough to leave what is destroying us. If you’ve ever wondered whether God can truly heal the damage left behind by a toxic relationship, this episode is for you. Healing is possible. Freedom is possible. And God is still writing your story. In This Episode • What it felt like leaving a 17-year toxic relationship • The heartbreaking moment of leaving her daughters behind • How control and manipulation can trap women in unhealthy relationships • The six months Emily spent crying, praying, and releasing years of pain • How God slowly lifted the depression and brought peace back into her life • The unexpected way God reminded her He was still guiding her steps • Why healing after toxic relationships takes time—but is absolutely possible Scripture in This Episode 2 Corinthians 5:17 “Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation. The old has passed away; behold, the new has come.” Important Note for Women in Domestic Abuse Situations If you are currently in a domestic abuse or dangerous relationship, please know you are not alone. Before leaving an abusive situation, it is often important to seek professional guidance and create a safety plan to protect yourself and your children. You deserve safety, support, and care during this process. In the United States, you can contact the National Domestic Violence Hotline for confidential support: 📞 Call or text 1-800-799-7233 🌐 Visit thehotline.org They can help you build a safety plan and connect you with local resources. Seeking professional help is a courageous and important step toward freedom and healing.   💬 Start Your Royal Training Here. 👑 Subscribe to Girl, Date the Good Guy for weekly encouragement, healing, and royal training. ⭐ Leave a review on Apple Podcasts to help more women find this message. 👍 Like and follow the show so you never miss an episode. ✨ Share this episode with a sister who needs it. 🛡️ Join the Royal Guard community for deeper growth, accountability, and faith-based support: 👉 www.facebook.com/groups/girldatethegoodguy/ 💌 Connect with us: hello@girldatethegoodguy.com

What do you do when God asks you to walk away from everything you’ve known? In Part 2 of this deeply personal testimony, Emily continues sharing the powerful story of how God led her out of a 17-year toxic cycle. After losing income, facing eviction, and realizing God was calling her to leave the chaos behind, Emily found herself sitting on the couch one morning asking the question so many of us ask in our darkest moments: “God… what am I going to do?” With no financial safety net and no clear plan, she had to make one of the hardest decisions of her life — trusting God completely. In this episode, Emily shares: • Why she released a financial debt that could have kept her tied to her past • How financial control can keep women trapped in toxic cycles • The Holy Spirit nudges that guided her next steps • The unexpected way God provided when she had nowhere to go • How obedience often comes before understanding • Why God rarely shows the full picture — only the next step This episode is a reminder that when God calls you out of something, He is already preparing the way forward. Even when it feels like everything is falling apart. Scripture in this episode: Isaiah 43:19 "See, I am doing a new thing! Now it springs up; do you not perceive it? I am making a way in the wilderness and streams in the wasteland." If you are: • Trusting God in uncertainty • Healing from a toxic relationship • Facing financial fear after leaving • Or wondering how God will provide This episode will remind you that God is still a way-maker.   💬 Start Your Royal Training Here. 👑 Subscribe to Girl, Date the Good Guy for weekly encouragement, healing, and royal training. ⭐ Leave a review on Apple Podcasts to help more women find this message. 👍 Like and follow the show so you never miss an episode. ✨ Share this episode with a sister who needs it. 🛡️ Join the Royal Guard community for deeper growth, accountability, and faith-based support: 👉 www.facebook.com/groups/girldatethegoodguy/ 💌 Connect with us: hello@girldatethegoodguy.com

What do you do when your life starts falling apart? When the money dries up. When the bills stack up. When anxiety is through the roof. When the eviction notice hits your door. In this deeply personal Sister-to-Sister Royal Real Talk episode of Girl, Date the Good Guy, Emily shares the raw story of how God removed her from a 17-year toxic cycle — not gently, but fully. What felt like collapse was actually deliverance. When her cleaning jobs ceased, income dried up, and eviction became her reality, it looked like destruction. But it was divine redirection. Through an unexpected book, a God-placed friendship, and the support of her Good God Guy, Emily realized God was calling her to leave the dead places. This episode dives into: What it really looks like when God answers your prayer for freedom How toxic cycles can disguise themselves as survival The pain of leaving familiarity — even when it’s unhealthy The spiritual warfare that often comes right before breakthrough Trusting God when obedience costs you everything comfortable Why you cannot heal in the place that broke you With vulnerability and biblical truth, Emily shares the hardest part of her journey — leaving her daughters, her home, and everything she had known for nearly two decades — and how God met her in her breaking point. Scriptures in this episode: Psalm 34:18 — The Lord is close to the brokenhearted John 11:43 — “Lazarus, come forth” Isaiah 43:19 — God makes a way in the wilderness If you are: Healing from a toxic relationship Praying for God to remove you from chaos Struggling with fear about leaving Feeling like your life is collapsing Or standing at the edge of a leap of faith This episode is for you. Sis, sometimes eviction is the exit. Sometimes collapse is deliverance. Sometimes God dries up false provision so He can lead you to real freedom. Peace requires courage. Freedom requires obedience. And when Jesus says, “Come forth,” you don’t stay in the tomb. ✨ This is your Royal Return. ✨ This is your sign to leave the dead things. 🎧 Make sure you’re subscribed — Part 2 of this story continues Friday, where Emily shares what happened next and how God began restoring her soul. If this episode blessed you, share it with a sister who needs the courage to choose peace over chaos. Welcome to your royal training ground.  ⚠️ Important Safety Note for Women in Domestic Abuse Situations If you are currently in a domestic abuse situation, please hear me clearly: Your safety comes first. While this episode shares my personal story of leaving a toxic relationship, every situation is different. If you are experiencing physical violence, threats, coercion, stalking, or escalating control, it is critical that you seek professional support and create a safety plan before making any major moves. Leaving an abusive relationship can sometimes increase risk in the short term. You do not have to navigate that alone. Please reach out to trained advocates who can help you confidentially: National Domestic Violence Hotline (U.S.) 📞 Call or text: 1-800-799-SAFE (7233) 💬 Live chat available at thehotline.org If you are in immediate danger, call 911 (or your local emergency number). You can also reach out to: A local domestic violence shelter A licensed counselor trained in abuse recovery A trusted church leader who understands domestic violence dynamics A legal professional for custody and protection guidance Faith and courage are powerful. But wisdom includes preparation. Create a safety plan. Gather support. Seek professional guidance. You are not weak for needing help. And you are not alone. 💬 Start Your Royal Training Here. 👑 Subscribe to Girl, Date the Good Guy for weekly encouragement, healing, and royal training. ⭐ Leave a review on Apple Podcasts to help more women find this message. 👍 Like and follow the show so you never miss an episode. ✨ Share this episode with a sister who needs it. 🛡️ Join the Royal Guard community for deeper growth, accountability, and faith-based support: 👉 www.facebook.com/groups/girldatethegoodguy/ 💌 Connect with us: hello@girldatethegoodguy.com

What if the pain you’re carrying isn’t random… but accumulated? In this deeply personal and faith-filled episode, Emily shares the powerful analogy of “the bag of pebbles” — how every hurt, disappointment, toxic cycle, and act of disobedience adds weight to our lives until we simply can’t carry it anymore. At first, we manage. We cope. We tell ourselves we’re fine. Until the bag becomes too heavy. And that’s often the moment we finally cry out: “God, I can’t do this anymore. I need You.” This episode is about surrender. It’s about trusting God’s will over our own. It’s about the painful truth that obedience can hurt — but disobedience costs more. Emily vulnerably shares her own journey of leaving toxic cycles, surrendering fully to God, and the heartbreak of releasing her daughter into her own life choices — trusting that just as she once did, her daughter will have to carry her own “bag of pebbles” until she turns fully to the Lord. If you’re tired of doing life in your own strength… If your soul feels exhausted… If surrender feels scary but necessary… This episode will meet you right where you are. 👑 What You’ll Learn: Why we repeat cycles until we can’t bear them anymore The spiritual cost of living in our own will Why surrender doesn’t always make life instantly easier How God uses weight to build deeper trust and faith The difference between worldly comfort and true spiritual rest How to lovingly release the people we cannot control Why obedience protects, not restricts 📖 Key Scripture: Proverbs 3:5–6 — Trust in the Lord and submit to Him Psalm 31:14–15 — “My times are in Your hands.” 💔 Real Talk Moment: Sometimes surrender feels heavier before it feels lighter. God may allow the weight to remain — not to punish you, but to teach you to rely fully on Him. The world feeds the flesh. God restores the spirit. 👑 Royal Reflection: What pebbles are you still trying to carry on your own? Are you exhausted because you’ve been living in your will instead of His? What would full surrender look like for you today? 💬 Start Your Royal Training Here. 👑 Subscribe to Girl, Date the Good Guy for weekly encouragement, healing, and royal training. ⭐ Leave a review on Apple Podcasts to help more women find this message. 👍 Like and follow the show so you never miss an episode. ✨ Share this episode with a sister who needs it. 🛡️ Join the Royal Guard community for deeper growth, accountability, and faith-based support: 👉 www.facebook.com/groups/girldatethegoodguy/ 💌 Connect with us: hello@girldatethegoodguy.com

Not every man who claims Christ reflects Christ in his character. In this powerful teaching episode of Girl, Date the Good Guy, Emily breaks down 6 biblical red flags that reveal when ego — not the Holy Spirit — is leading a man’s behavior. Learn how to discern pride, instability, lack of accountability, emotional manipulation, and counterfeit empathy in Christian dating. This episode will help you identify whether his public confession matches his private fruit. If you’ve ever walked away from a conversation apologizing for something you didn’t do — this episode is for you. Scripture References • Matthew 7:16 • Proverbs 12:1 • Philippians 2:3–4 • Galatians 5:22–23 • 1 John 1:9 • James 5:16 💬 Start Your Royal Training Here. 👑 Subscribe to Girl, Date the Good Guy for weekly encouragement, healing, and royal training. ⭐ Leave a review on Apple Podcasts to help more women find this message. 👍 Like and follow the show so you never miss an episode. ✨ Share this episode with a sister who needs it. 🛡️ Join the Royal Guard community for deeper growth, accountability, and faith-based support: 👉 www.facebook.com/groups/girldatethegoodguy/ 💌 Connect with us: hello@girldatethegoodguy.com

He posts Scriptures. He serves at church. He sounds spiritual. But does his private character match his public Christianity? In this powerful teaching episode of Girl, Date the Good Guy, Emily breaks down how to discern the difference between a good church guy and a God-led man. Because not every man who talks about God is led by Him. Using biblical wisdom from Matthew 7:15–16, James 1:22, 2 Corinthians 11:14, Galatians 5:22, and Ephesians 5:25, this episode walks you through how to identify spiritual performance versus real fruit in Christian dating. If you’ve ever felt spiritually impressed but emotionally drained… If you’ve ignored red flags because “he loves Jesus”… If you’ve struggled to tell the difference between charm and character… This episode is for you. 👑 What You’ll Learn: The difference between public Christianity and private obedience Why words are easy — but fruit is evidence How wolves in sheep’s clothing operate in dating The danger of fast emotional bonding Why confusion is a red flag and peace is a green one What real, biblical masculinity actually looks like How to evaluate patterns instead of promises 🔎 Key Scripture References: Matthew 7:15–16 — You will recognize them by their fruit James 1:22 — Be doers of the Word 2 Corinthians 11:14 — Angel of light deception Galatians 5:22–23 — Fruit of the Spirit Ephesians 5:25 — Christ-like leadership 💬 Royal Reflection Question: When no one is watching, does his private fruit match his public faith? Do you feel peace or pressure around him? 🎧 Who This Episode Is For: Christian women navigating dating Women healing from toxic or manipulative relationships Women learning discernment after church hurt Women who want a God-led man, not just a church-going one 📣 Next Steps: If this episode helped you gain clarity: ✔ Share it with a sister who needs discernment ✔ Subscribe to Girl, Date the Good Guy ✔ Join the Royal Guard community and continue building biblical standards We are no longer impressed by performance. We are looking for fruit. 💬 Start Your Royal Training Here. 👑 Subscribe to Girl, Date the Good Guy for weekly encouragement, healing, and royal training. ⭐ Leave a review on Apple Podcasts to help more women find this message. 👍 Like and follow the show so you never miss an episode. ✨ Share this episode with a sister who needs it. 🛡️ Join the Royal Guard community for deeper growth, accountability, and faith-based support: 👉 www.facebook.com/groups/girldatethegoodguy/ 💌 Connect with us: hello@girldatethegoodguy.com

This Soothe Her Soul Saturday is your permission slip to stop settling. If you’ve ever looked back and wondered, “Why did I accept that?” “Why did I tolerate so little?” “Why did I shrink to keep someone?” This episode is not about shame. It’s about awakening. In this powerful and healing message, we unpack why you accepted less in past relationships — and why that chapter does not define you. Through Scripture, truth, and prayer, you’ll be reminded that you weren’t weak… you were wounded. You weren’t desperate… you were still discovering your worth. And now? That season is over. God is doing a new thing in your life. The woman who once tolerated confusion, inconsistency, and emotional breadcrumbs is not the woman you are today. You have grown. You have healed. You have learned. And you are no longer available for less than God’s best. 📖 Scriptures in This Episode • Isaiah 43:19 — “See, I am doing a new thing…” • Song of Songs 4:7 — “You are altogether beautiful…” • Jeremiah 29:11 — “For I know the plans I have for you…” • 2 Corinthians 12:9 — “My grace is sufficient for you…” 💗 In This Episode, You’ll Discover: ✔ Why you settled in past seasons ✔ How wounds influence relationship choices ✔ The difference between chemistry and confusion ✔ Why growth changes your standards ✔ How to release shame and embrace healing ✔ Why God’s best requires alignment, not desperation 🌸 This Episode Is For You If: • You’re healing from a relationship that lowered your standards • You tolerated inconsistency or emotional unavailability • You ignored red flags because you feared being alone • You’re learning to date with discernment • You’re ready for healthy, God-centered love • You feel God calling you into a higher standard 👑 Royal Reminder You didn’t fail. You were learning. You didn’t waste time. You were growing. And now that you know better, you will choose better. That season of settling has ended. God is preparing you for love that feels safe, steady, honoring, and aligned with His will. 💬 Start Your Royal Training Here. 👑 Subscribe to Girl, Date the Good Guy for weekly encouragement, healing, and royal training. ⭐ Leave a review on Apple Podcasts to help more women find this message. 👍 Like and follow the show so you never miss an episode. ✨ Share this episode with a sister who needs it. 🛡️ Join the Royal Guard community for deeper growth, accountability, and faith-based support: 👉 www.facebook.com/groups/girldatethegoodguy/ 💌 Connect with us: hello@girldatethegoodguy.com

In this emotional and Spirit-led episode of Girl, Date the Good Guy, Emily shares her personal testimony of spending years praying for a relationship that never changed—and the painful truth God revealed about staying in unhealthy, disrespectful, and abusive situations. Many Christian women are taught that endurance equals faithfulness. But in this episode, Emily exposes that lie and reveals what Scripture truly says about love, marriage, repentance, and freedom. If you’ve ever wondered why your prayers haven’t transformed your partner, why you keep holding on to hope that leads to more heartbreak, or whether God really wants you to stay in pain, this episode will bring clarity, healing, and courage. Through biblical truth, sister-to-sister encouragement, and heartfelt prayer, you’ll learn: ✔ Why God cannot change someone who refuses Him ✔ The difference between faith and emotional attachment ✔ When it’s time to release instead of endure ✔ Why abuse and disrespect are never God’s will ✔ How to break unhealthy soul ties ✔ How to reclaim your peace, confidence, and identity ✔ What godly love is meant to look like This episode is for Christian women who are: Praying for a husband or partner who won’t change Healing from emotional, spiritual, or physical abuse Recovering from toxic marriages and relationships Breaking cycles of heartbreak and soul ties Learning to trust God after betrayal Rebuilding self-worth through faith Choosing freedom over familiarity If you’re tired of surviving in relationships God never assigned, this episode will remind you that you were created for honor, love, safety, and peace—not pain. 🎧 Listen now and be encouraged: God’s will for you is freedom, not bondage. 💬 Start Your Royal Training Here. 👑 Subscribe to Girl, Date the Good Guy for weekly encouragement, healing, and royal training. ⭐ Leave a review on Apple Podcasts to help more women find this message. 👍 Like and follow the show so you never miss an episode. ✨ Share this episode with a sister who needs it. 🛡️ Join the Royal Guard community for deeper growth, accountability, and faith-based support: 👉 www.facebook.com/groups/girldatethegoodguy/ 💌 Connect with us: hello@girldatethegoodguy.com

Are you stuck entertaining “Mr. Right Now” — the man who gives attention but no commitment? In this powerful episode of Girl, Date the Good Guy, Emily Jordan exposes why temporary men delay your destiny and how emotional attachments can block God’s best for your future. Through biblical wisdom, real-life testimony, and practical royal training, you’ll learn how to recognize distractions, set godly boundaries, and release relationships that lack alignment. This episode will help you move from confusion to clarity, from emotional attachment to spiritual obedience, and from settling to preparing for covenant love. If you’re ready to break toxic dating cycles, stop entertaining “almost,” and start walking in God-led love, this episode is for you. 📖 Scripture References • Proverbs 13:12 • Luke 16:10 • Jeremiah 17:9 • Matthew 6:24 • Isaiah 60:22 ✨ In This Episode, You’ll Learn How To: ✔ Identify “Mr. Right Now” and emotional distractions ✔ Recognize access without commitment ✔ Strengthen your spiritual discernment in dating ✔ Break unhealthy soul ties ✔ Set godly boundaries ✔ Prepare for Christ-centered relationships ✔ Stop repeating broken relationship cycles ✔ Trust God’s timing in love 💬 Start Your Royal Training Here. 👑 Subscribe to Girl, Date the Good Guy for weekly encouragement, healing, and royal training. ⭐ Leave a review on Apple Podcasts to help more women find this message. 👍 Like and follow the show so you never miss an episode. ✨ Share this episode with a sister who needs it. 🛡️ Join the Royal Guard community for deeper growth, accountability, and faith-based support: 👉 www.facebook.com/groups/girldatethegoodguy/ 💌 Connect with us: hello@girldatethegoodguy.com

(Christian Dating, Healing, Waiting on God, Faith-Based Encouragement) This Soothe Her Soul Saturday is both a gentle word of encouragement and a powerful prayer for the woman who is waiting on God with her heart. 💗 If you’re single this Valentine’s Day… If you’ve ever wondered when your love story will begin… If you’re healing from heartbreak and learning how to trust again… This episode is for you. In this special Valentine’s Day edition, Emily speaks life, truth, and hope over your season — reminding you that you are deeply loved, intentionally chosen, and never forgotten by God. Then, she covers you in prayer, inviting God to heal, restore, prepare, and strengthen your heart while you wait. This episode will help you remember that: ✨ You are not behind in life ✨ Your waiting season is not wasted ✨ God is preparing both you and your future husband ✨ Healing is happening even when you don’t see it ✨ Your story is safe in God’s hands ✨ You don’t have to chase love — because God is writing it Through Scripture, poetic encouragement, and heartfelt prayer, this episode creates space for you to release fear, comparison, and past pain — and step into peace, confidence, and divine timing. This is your Royal Pause. Your moment to breathe. Your reminder that hope still lives here. Sis, God is still writing your love story. 📌 In This Episode, You’ll Experience: ✔ Encouragement for being single on Valentine’s Day ✔ Biblical truth about waiting on God’s timing ✔ Prayer for healing after heartbreak ✔ Guidance for trusting God with your love life ✔ Emotional restoration and spiritual peace ✔ Preparation for healthy, God-led relationships 💗 Perfect For Women Who Are: • Single or lonely on Valentine’s Day • Healing from toxic relationships • Waiting on God for marriage • Learning to trust again • Rebuilding confidence after heartbreak • Seeking God-centered love 💬 Start Your Royal Training Here. 👑 Subscribe to Girl, Date the Good Guy for weekly encouragement, healing, and royal training. ⭐ Leave a review on Apple Podcasts to help more women find this message. 👍 Like and follow the show so you never miss an episode. ✨ Share this episode with a sister who needs it. 🛡️ Join the Royal Guard community for deeper growth, accountability, and faith-based support: 👉 www.facebook.com/groups/girldatethegoodguy/ 💌 Connect with us: hello@girldatethegoodguy.com

In this powerful Valentine’s Day edition of Girl, Date the Good Guy, Emily delivers a life-changing message for every woman who has ever been tempted to text the wrong man, reopen an old door, or repeat a broken relationship cycle. If you’ve been trying to make something work that was never sent by God… If you’ve struggled with emotional attachment, loneliness, soul ties, or going back to unhealthy relationships… If you’re ready to finally heal, let go, and walk in God’s best for your love life… This episode is for you. Through biblical wisdom, real-life testimony, and Holy Spirit-led encouragement, Emily teaches you how to: ✨ Stop texting your ex and emotional attachments ✨ Break toxic dating cycles and soul ties ✨ Let go of past relationships and trust God’s timing ✨ Choose peace over confusion in Christian dating ✨ Heal from heartbreak and emotional wounds ✨ Discern God-led relationships vs. counterfeits ✨ Protect your crown and emotional boundaries ✨ Stop settling and prepare for healthy, God-centered love You’ll learn why some relationships ended for your protection, how nostalgia can pull you back into bondage, and why obedience to God opens the door to true freedom, healing, and alignment. With scriptures like Isaiah 43:18, Philippians 3:13–14, Jeremiah 17:9, Romans 12:2, and Proverbs 19:21, this episode reminds you that God is doing a new thing — and you don’t want to miss it by holding onto the past. Emily also shares a practical Royal Assignment to help you gain clarity, strengthen your faith, and prepare for the Godly man who will love you with honor, consistency, and Christ-centered leadership. Plus, you’re invited to join the Royal Guard sisterhood and participate in the Valentine’s Challenge for support, accountability, and healing community. Sis, your love story isn’t over — it’s getting aligned. It’s time to put the phone down, release the past, and press forward into God’s promises. Keep your crown on. 👑💛 💬 Start Your Royal Training Here. 👑 Subscribe to Girl, Date the Good Guy for weekly encouragement, healing, and royal training. ⭐ Leave a review on Apple Podcasts to help more women find this message. 👍 Like and follow the show so you never miss an episode. ✨ Share this episode with a sister who needs it. 🛡️ Join the Royal Guard community for deeper growth, accountability, and faith-based support: 👉 www.facebook.com/groups/girldatethegoodguy/ 💌 Connect with us: hello@girldatethegoodguy.com

If Valentine’s Day has you feeling single, forgotten, discouraged, or tempted to settle, this episode is for you. In “Single on Valentine’s Day? God Is Still Writing Your Love Story,” Emily speaks directly to the woman who is waiting, healing, and trusting God with her heart—especially during a season when love seems to be everywhere except in her own life. Through personal testimony, biblical truth, and Kingdom wisdom, Emily reminds you that singleness is not rejection—it is protection. God is not delaying your love story. He is preparing you for the healthy, God-led relationship you prayed for. In this episode, you’ll learn: ✨ Why waiting on God in dating builds discernment and emotional peace ✨ How God uses seasons of singleness to heal abandonment, trust issues, and insecurity ✨ The difference between chemistry and Christ-centered character ✨ Why rushing relationships leads to heartbreak—but God’s timing leads to blessing ✨ How God prepares both you and your future husband in the waiting ✨ Practical ways to honor Valentine’s Day as a single, faith-filled woman ✨ A Royal Assignment to help you stay rooted in confidence, purpose, and hope If you’ve ever wondered: “Did God forget about me?” “Why am I still single?” “Am I behind?” “Should I just settle?” This episode will restore your faith, renew your confidence, and remind you that your crown is still on. Sis, you are not overlooked. You are not behind. You are being prepared. Your love story is still being written—and it will be beautiful. 💬 Start Your Royal Training Here. 👑 Subscribe to Girl, Date the Good Guy for weekly encouragement, healing, and royal training. ⭐ Leave a review on Apple Podcasts to help more women find this message. 👍 Like and follow the show so you never miss an episode. ✨ Share this episode with a sister who needs it. 🛡️ Join the Royal Guard community for deeper growth, accountability, and faith-based support: 👉 www.facebook.com/groups/girldatethegoodguy/ 💌 Connect with us: hello@girldatethegoodguy.com

What if the reason you haven’t experienced the fullness of God’s goodness isn’t because He’s holding out on you—but because your heart learned to stay closed just to survive? In this Girl Behind the Mic episode, Emily opens up about heartbreak, healing, and the quiet ways pain teaches us to protect instead of surrender. Inspired by Justin Bieber’s song “Open Up Your Heart,” this conversation explores what it really means to move beyond surface-level faith and into deep, honest relationship with God. Music has always been a second language for Emily—from her past as a singer-songwriter (including her EP Love, Sex & Fire on Apple Music) to the songs she never released, like “You’re Gonna Wish I Never Said Goodbye.” In this episode, she shares how the lyrics “open up your heart, tell me what you’re really feeling” feel like God’s invitation to His daughters—to be honest, vulnerable, and fully known by Him. This episode unpacks why guarding your heart doesn’t mean sealing it shut, how survival mode blocks intimacy with God, and why true healing only begins when we allow Him into the places that still hurt. Through Scripture, testimony, and gentle truth, Emily reminds you that this isn’t about religion—it’s about relationship. As your heart heals in God’s presence, you begin to love from a healed place—no longer desperate or guarded, but rooted in boundaries, standards, and peace. And yes, God desires that kind of love for you first… before anyone else ever enters the picture. If you love God but feel tired, guarded, or hesitant to hope again—this episode is for you. God isn’t done restoring you. He’s not done being good to you. And it might be time to open your heart again.   💬 Start Your Royal Training Here. 👑 Subscribe to Girl, Date the Good Guy for weekly encouragement, healing, and royal training. ⭐ Leave a review on Apple Podcasts to help more women find this message. 👍 Like and follow the show so you never miss an episode. ✨ Share this episode with a sister who needs it. 🛡️ Join the Royal Guard community for deeper growth, accountability, and faith-based support: 👉 www.facebook.com/groups/girldatethegoodguy/ 💌 Connect with us: hello@girldatethegoodguy.com

In this Soothe Her Soul Saturday episode of Girl, Date the Good Guy, we speak hope, peace, and truth into the heart of the woman waiting for God’s best in love. This episode is for the woman who desires a Godly man, but is learning to let God be her first love while she waits. We explore what it truly means to be loved the way Christ loves—with patience, faithfulness, humility, and sacrificial care. Not a rushed, performative, or fear-driven love—but a steady, surrendered, God-led partnership rooted in peace. This episode reminds you that the man God has for you will not compete with God, but reflect Him. His love will feel safe, intentional, and aligned with God’s design—not confusing, chaotic, or conditional. In this episode, you’ll be encouraged to remember: - Godly love reflects Christ’s love—patient, faithful, and secure - You are not asking for too much by desiring Christ-like love - Letting God be your first love prepares you for healthy partnership - A Godly man leads with humility, protects with love, and chooses with intention - What God has for you will never require panic, striving, or settling If you’re waiting for a Godly man, healing from past relationships, or learning how to trust God with your love life, this episode will gently restore hope while anchoring your heart in truth. This is your royal pause— to rest in God’s timing, to trust His preparation, and to believe that Christ-like love is not a myth—it’s a promise. 💬 Start Your Royal Training Here. 👑 Subscribe to Girl, Date the Good Guy for weekly encouragement, healing, and royal training. ⭐ Leave a review on Apple Podcasts to help more women find this message. 👍 Like and follow the show so you never miss an episode. ✨ Share this episode with a sister who needs it. 🛡️ Join the Royal Guard community for deeper growth, accountability, and faith-based support: 👉 www.facebook.com/groups/girldatethegoodguy/ 💌 Connect with us: hello@girldatethegoodguy.com

In this Girl Behind the Mic episode, Emily Jordan speaks directly to the woman who wakes up with anxiety, racing thoughts, and a restless spirit — even when life looks “fine” on the outside. With honesty, biblical truth, and deep compassion, this episode explores why anxiety is often a signal of spiritual disconnection rather than personal failure, and why lasting peace cannot be found in the world, self-soothing practices, or the so-called universe. This conversation gently challenges modern ideas of peace rooted in manifestation, energy, and control, and redirects listeners to the only true source of rest: Jesus Christ. Emily explains why the world’s version of peace is temporary and circumstantial, while God’s peace settles the soul even when circumstances haven’t changed. This episode is for women who love God but still struggle with anxiety, exhaustion, and inner unrest — and are ready to stop striving and start resting in the presence of their Heavenly Father. In this episode, you’ll learn: - Why anxiety often appears when we’re disconnected from God - Why the world and “the universe” cannot offer lasting peace - The difference between temporary calm and biblical peace - How to turn to Jesus when anxiety shows up in the morning - Why peace is found in relationship, not control - How God’s peace brings rest to weary and overwhelmed souls Key Scriptures Referenced: - John 14:27 — “Peace I leave with you; My peace I give you.” - Matthew 11:28 — “Come to Me, all who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest.” - Isaiah 26:3 — “You will keep in perfect peace those whose minds are steadfast.” If anxiety has been loud in your life lately, this episode is an invitation — not to try harder, but to draw closer. You don’t have to carry the weight alone. Peace isn’t something you manufacture; it’s something you receive when you stay connected to God. 🎧 New episodes of Girl Behind the Mic drop every Friday. Until next time, sis — rest your heart, fix your eyes on Jesus, and let God do what only He can do. 🤍🎙️ 💬 Start Your Royal Training Here. 👑 Subscribe to Girl, Date the Good Guy for weekly encouragement, healing, and royal training. ⭐ Leave a review on Apple Podcasts to help more women find this message. 👍 Like and follow the show so you never miss an episode. ✨ Share this episode with a sister who needs it. 🛡️ Join the Royal Guard community for deeper growth, accountability, and faith-based support: 👉 www.facebook.com/groups/girldatethegoodguy/ 💌 Connect with us: hello@girldatethegoodguy.com

In this special announcement episode of Girl, Date the Good Guy, Emily shares what God has placed on her heart as Valentine’s Day approaches—and why this season is too important to stay silent about. If you’ve been healing from heartbreak, feeling lonely, tempted to go back to old patterns, or wondering if God still has a love story for you… this episode is for you. Emily opens up about her own journey through seventeen years of toxic cycles, confusion, and emotional pain—and how God redeemed it all. She reminds you that you were never created to settle, be disrespected, or live beneath your Kingdom identity. Emily also invites you into the private Facebook community, Your Royal Guard, where healing becomes a lifestyle and sisterhood becomes strength. Inside the group, you’ll be part of the Valentine’s Week Healing Challenge, focused on: 💗 Protecting your heart 💗 Breaking unhealthy soul ties 💗 Renewing your mind 💗 Practicing self-care and prayer 💗 Doing a No-Text Fast 💗 Going on a “God Date” 💗 Writing a love letter to your future husband 💗 Declaring God’s truth over your love life Plus, you’ll walk through the week together with daily encouragement, prayer, reflection, and support. 📅 This Week’s Episodes Include: ✨ Tuesday: Open Up Your Heart ✨ Wednesday: Single on Valentine’s Day? God Is Still Writing Your Love Story ✨ Friday: Don’t Text Him on Valentine’s Day ✨ Saturday: The Man God Has for You (Soothe Her Soul) You do not have to do this season alone, sis. If you’re ready to stop settling, start healing, and prepare for God’s best—this is your invitation. 💌 Join the Royal Guard Community Click the link in the show notes to join our private Facebook group, Your Royal Guard. ✔️ Answer the entry questions ✔️ Agree to the community guidelines ✔️ Watch the pinned welcome videos ✔️ Jump into the conversation Your royal training starts now. 💬 Let’s Stay Connected If this episode blessed you, please leave a review on Apple Podcasts and share it with a sister who needs encouragement. Remember: Keep your crown on. Keep your standards high. And keep your heart in royal alignment. 👑💗   💬 Start Your Royal Training Here. 👑 Subscribe to Girl, Date the Good Guy for weekly encouragement, healing, and royal training. ⭐ Leave a review on Apple Podcasts to help more women find this message. 👍 Like and follow the show so you never miss an episode. ✨ Share this episode with a sister who needs it. 🛡️ Join the Royal Guard community for deeper growth, accountability, and faith-based support: 👉 www.facebook.com/groups/girldatethegoodguy/ 💌 Connect with us: hello@girldatethegoodguy.com

Have you ever found yourself asking, “Is this my anxious attachment acting up… or is something actually off with him?” You’re not crazy—and you’re not alone. In this powerful episode of Girl, Date the Good Guy, Emily breaks down one of the most confusing questions Christian women face in dating: How do you tell the difference between your own anxiety and a man’s inconsistent behavior? Drawing from her personal testimony after years of heartbreak, toxic relationships, and deep healing, Emily shares how dating a God-led man became her real-life training ground. She opens up about anxious attachment, learning to use her voice after narcissistic abuse, and how peaceful, consistent love revealed what safety truly feels like. In this episode, you’ll learn: - The difference between anxious attachment vs. red-flag inconsistency - Why peace, not chemistry, is the proof of a Good Guy - How inconsistent communication creates anxiety—even in healed women - What God-led love looks like in real life (clear communication, emotional safety, and consistency) - Biblical discernment for Christian dating after trauma or heartbreak - How to stop blaming yourself and start trusting God’s design for healthy love This conversation is for the woman who loves God but keeps attracting confusing, emotionally unavailable men—and is ready to break toxic dating cycles for good. If you’re healing from heartbreak, navigating Christian dating, or learning how to trust again without losing yourself, this episode will bring clarity, peace, and truth. ✨ You are not “too much.” You were just never meant to do love in chaos. Hit play and step into your royal training—where women reclaim their crowns, heal their hearts, and learn to attract God-led love. 💬 Start Your Royal Training Here. 👑 Subscribe to Girl, Date the Good Guy for weekly encouragement, healing, and royal training. ⭐ Leave a review on Apple Podcasts to help more women find this message. 👍 Like and follow the show so you never miss an episode. ✨ Share this episode with a sister who needs it. 🛡️ Join the Royal Guard community for deeper growth, accountability, and faith-based support: 👉 www.facebook.com/groups/girldatethegoodguy/ 💌 Connect with us: hello@girldatethegoodguy.com

What if God loves you right where you are—not the future, more healed version of you… but you, today? In this Soothe Her Soul Saturday episode of Girl, Date the Good Guy, we speak life and truth over the woman who feels unworthy, distant from God, or stuck in cycles of shame, sin, or darkness. This episode is a gentle royal pause—an invitation to rest in the truth that God’s love is not based on perfection, performance, or rule-keeping, but on relationship. You’ll be reminded that God meets us in our mess, walks with us through healing, and loves us with an everlasting love that is strong enough to restore every broken place. This episode releases the pressure to “get it all together” and replaces it with the freedom of full surrender and an open heart. In this episode, you’ll be encouraged to remember: - You are worthy of all the good things God has for you - God loves you even in the struggle, even in the darkness - Healing happens through relationship, not religion - Surrender, not perfection, is what invites transformation - God desires to walk with you, not just correct you If you’ve been feeling distant from God, weighed down by shame, or afraid that your past disqualifies you from His love, this episode will meet you with grace, truth, and hope. This is your royal return— back to the Father’s heart, back to rest, back to love.   💬 Start Your Royal Training Here. 👑 Subscribe to Girl, Date the Good Guy for weekly encouragement, healing, and royal training. ⭐ Leave a review on Apple Podcasts to help more women find this message. 👍 Like and follow the show so you never miss an episode. ✨ Share this episode with a sister who needs it. 🛡️ Join the Royal Guard community for deeper growth, accountability, and faith-based support: 👉 www.facebook.com/groups/girldatethegoodguy/ 💌 Connect with us: hello@girldatethegoodguy.com

In this Girl Behind the Mic episode, Emily Jordan tackles one of the most confusing questions Christian women face while dating: Is he a red flag… or is he just growing? With honesty, compassion, and biblical wisdom, this episode breaks down how to discern between a man who is genuinely growing in Christ and one who is emotionally unavailable, inconsistent, or unsafe — even if he claims to love God. This conversation is for women who are tired of second-guessing their intuition, excusing concerning behavior as “potential,” or feeling anxious and confused in Christian dating relationships. Emily shares faith-based dating advice rooted in discernment, boundaries, and fruit inspection — not perfection, pressure, or rushing. You’ll learn how to recognize the difference between growth and red flags, why potential is not the same as alignment, and how God’s peace (not confusion) is one of the clearest indicators of whether a relationship is God-led. This episode encourages women to stop trying to fix or grow men and instead trust God to reveal what is meant for them — and what is not. If you’re navigating Christian dating, healing from toxic relationship patterns, or learning how to set biblical boundaries while waiting for a Godly man, this episode will bring clarity, peace, and direction. In this episode, we discuss: - Christian dating discernment for women - Red flags vs spiritual growth in men - How to know if a man is emotionally and spiritually mature - Biblical relationship boundaries and standards - Why potential is not a green flag - Dating God’s way without confusion or compromise - Recognizing fruit, consistency, and accountability - Healing patterns of attracting unhealthy relationships Key Scripture Referenced: - Matthew 7:16 — “You will know them by their fruit.” - 1 Corinthians 14:33 — “God is not a God of confusion, but of peace.” 🎧 New episodes of Girl, Date the Good Guy – Girl Behind the Mic drop every Friday. Until next time, sis — trust your discernment, guard your heart, and never ignore what God is gently revealing. 💬 Start Your Royal Training Here. 👑 Subscribe to Girl, Date the Good Guy for weekly encouragement, healing, and royal training. ⭐ Leave a review on Apple Podcasts to help more women find this message. 👍 Like and follow the show so you never miss an episode. ✨ Share this episode with a sister who needs it. 🛡️ Join the Royal Guard community for deeper growth, accountability, and faith-based support: 👉 www.facebook.com/groups/girldatethegoodguy/ 💌 Connect with us: hello@girldatethegoodguy.com