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Girl, Date the Good Guy is a Christian dating podcast for women ready to heal heartbreak, break toxic cycles, set boundaries, recognize red flags, and build healthy, God-led relationships.
Hosted by Emily Jordan, this faith-based relationship podcast helps women stop repeating unhealthy dating patterns, gain discernment in Christian dating, and prepare for the healthy love God designed. Through biblical wisdom, personal testimony, and the Royal Transformation Path, you’ll learn how to heal your heart, raise your standards, and choose relationships rooted in truth, peace, and purpose.
📌 This podcast is for women who are done chasing confusion and ready to date with clarity, confidence, and Godly wisdom.
Welcome to Girl, Date the Good Guy—the royal training ground for women who are done chasing broken love, empty promises, and lukewarm men.
I’m Emily—your faith-based, healed feminine guide and relationship coach. Once chasing emotionally unavailable men, twice divorced, and trapped in painful cycles. I surrendered my love life to God, entered a season of celibacy and healing, and let Him rewrite my love story.
After spending nearly a decade walking through a God-led journey of healing, and deep restoration, I went from repeating heartbreaking relationship cycles… to experiencing a Godly, healthy, aligned love.
Now, I help women just like you reclaim your crown, heal your heart, and prepare for the God-led love you were always meant for.
Inside this podcast, you’ll step into The Good Guy Society—a movement and royal transformation path designed to guide you through:
👑 Reclaim your God-given identity and break unhealthy relationship cycles
🪞 Develop discernment and recognize red flags with clarity and confidence
⚔️ Release past heartbreak, soul ties, and old versions of yourself
📜 Establish God-honoring standards and boundaries without guilt
🛡️ Heal your heart and date from wholeness, not wounds
🏛️ Prepare for aligned, healthy, God-led love
Here, you’ll walk the journey from wounded to whole… from settling to standards… from confusion to clarity… from survival to royal identity.
You'll also find:
💚 Soothe Her Soul Saturday: your royal pause, royal return - a weekly moment of poetic healing, where truth washes over pain, hope blooms again, and God lifts the crown you thought you lost.
🎙️ A weekly, heart-to-heart space where Emily speaks honestly about healing, faith, obedience, and the messy middle of becoming whole. These Holy Spirit–led conversations are raw, unfiltered, and rooted in truth—offering real-life stories, gentle clarity, and encouragement for women learning to slow down, listen closely, and let God bring order to their chaos as they grow into wholeness and God-led love.
If you’re ready to rise into the woman God created you to be—and attract the kind of God-led love that honors your heart and aligns with Heaven—
sis, you’re in the right place.
So grab your crown, your heart, and your journal.
Hit play—your royal training begins now.
XOXO EMILY
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This Soothe Her Soul Saturday is both a gentle word of encouragement and a powerful prayer for the woman who is waiting on God with her heart. 💗
If you’re single this Valentine’s Day…
If you’ve ever wondered when your love story will begin…
If you’re healing from heartbreak and learning how to trust again…
This episode is for you.
In this special Valentine’s Day edition, Emily speaks life, truth, and hope over your season — reminding you that you are deeply loved, intentionally chosen, and never forgotten by God. Then, she covers you in prayer, inviting God to heal, restore, prepare, and strengthen your heart while you wait.
This episode will help you remember that:
✨ You are not behind in life
✨ Your waiting season is not wasted
✨ God is preparing both you and your future husband
✨ Healing is happening even when you don’t see it
✨ Your story is safe in God’s hands
✨ You don’t have to chase love — because God is writing it
Through Scripture, poetic encouragement, and heartfelt prayer, this episode creates space for you to release fear, comparison, and past pain — and step into peace, confidence, and divine timing.
This is your Royal Pause.
Your moment to breathe.
Your reminder that hope still lives here.
Sis, God is still writing your love story.
📌 In This Episode, You’ll Experience:
✔ Encouragement for being single on Valentine’s Day
✔ Biblical truth about waiting on God’s timing
✔ Prayer for healing after heartbreak
✔ Guidance for trusting God with your love life
✔ Emotional restoration and spiritual peace
✔ Preparation for healthy, God-led relationships
💗 Perfect For Women Who Are:
• Single or lonely on Valentine’s Day
• Healing from toxic relationships
• Waiting on God for marriage
• Learning to trust again
• Rebuilding confidence after heartbreak
• Seeking God-centered love
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In this powerful Valentine’s Day edition of Girl, Date the Good Guy, Emily delivers a life-changing message for every woman who has ever been tempted to text the wrong man, reopen an old door, or repeat a broken relationship cycle.
If you’ve been trying to make something work that was never sent by God…
If you’ve struggled with emotional attachment, loneliness, soul ties, or going back to unhealthy relationships…
If you’re ready to finally heal, let go, and walk in God’s best for your love life…
This episode is for you.
Through biblical wisdom, real-life testimony, and Holy Spirit-led encouragement, Emily teaches you how to:
✨ Stop texting your ex and emotional attachments
✨ Break toxic dating cycles and soul ties
✨ Let go of past relationships and trust God’s timing
✨ Choose peace over confusion in Christian dating
✨ Heal from heartbreak and emotional wounds
✨ Discern God-led relationships vs. counterfeits
✨ Protect your crown and emotional boundaries
✨ Stop settling and prepare for healthy, God-centered love
You’ll learn why some relationships ended for your protection, how nostalgia can pull you back into bondage, and why obedience to God opens the door to true freedom, healing, and alignment.
With scriptures like Isaiah 43:18, Philippians 3:13–14, Jeremiah 17:9, Romans 12:2, and Proverbs 19:21, this episode reminds you that God is doing a new thing — and you don’t want to miss it by holding onto the past.
Emily also shares a practical Royal Assignment to help you gain clarity, strengthen your faith, and prepare for the Godly man who will love you with honor, consistency, and Christ-centered leadership.
Plus, you’re invited to join the Royal Guard sisterhood and participate in the Valentine’s Challenge for support, accountability, and healing community.
Sis, your love story isn’t over — it’s getting aligned.
It’s time to put the phone down, release the past, and press forward into God’s promises.
Keep your crown on. 👑💛
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If Valentine’s Day has you feeling single, forgotten, discouraged, or tempted to settle, this episode is for you.
In “Single on Valentine’s Day? God Is Still Writing Your Love Story,” Emily speaks directly to the woman who is waiting, healing, and trusting God with her heart—especially during a season when love seems to be everywhere except in her own life.
Through personal testimony, biblical truth, and Kingdom wisdom, Emily reminds you that singleness is not rejection—it is protection. God is not delaying your love story. He is preparing you for the healthy, God-led relationship you prayed for.
In this episode, you’ll learn:
✨ Why waiting on God in dating builds discernment and emotional peace
✨ How God uses seasons of singleness to heal abandonment, trust issues, and insecurity
✨ The difference between chemistry and Christ-centered character
✨ Why rushing relationships leads to heartbreak—but God’s timing leads to blessing
✨ How God prepares both you and your future husband in the waiting
✨ Practical ways to honor Valentine’s Day as a single, faith-filled woman
✨ A Royal Assignment to help you stay rooted in confidence, purpose, and hope
If you’ve ever wondered:
“Did God forget about me?”
“Why am I still single?”
“Am I behind?”
“Should I just settle?”
This episode will restore your faith, renew your confidence, and remind you that your crown is still on.
Sis, you are not overlooked.
You are not behind.
You are being prepared.
Your love story is still being written—and it will be beautiful.
✨ Start Your Royal Training Here
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What if the reason you haven’t experienced the fullness of God’s goodness isn’t because He’s holding out on you—but because your heart learned to stay closed just to survive?
In this Girl Behind the Mic episode, Emily opens up about heartbreak, healing, and the quiet ways pain teaches us to protect instead of surrender. Inspired by Justin Bieber’s song “Open Up Your Heart,” this conversation explores what it really means to move beyond surface-level faith and into deep, honest relationship with God.
Music has always been a second language for Emily—from her past as a singer-songwriter (including her EP Love, Sex & Fire on Apple Music) to the songs she never released, like “You’re Gonna Wish I Never Said Goodbye.” In this episode, she shares how the lyrics “open up your heart, tell me what you’re really feeling” feel like God’s invitation to His daughters—to be honest, vulnerable, and fully known by Him.
This episode unpacks why guarding your heart doesn’t mean sealing it shut, how survival mode blocks intimacy with God, and why true healing only begins when we allow Him into the places that still hurt. Through Scripture, testimony, and gentle truth, Emily reminds you that this isn’t about religion—it’s about relationship.
As your heart heals in God’s presence, you begin to love from a healed place—no longer desperate or guarded, but rooted in boundaries, standards, and peace. And yes, God desires that kind of love for you first… before anyone else ever enters the picture.
If you love God but feel tired, guarded, or hesitant to hope again—this episode is for you.
God isn’t done restoring you.
He’s not done being good to you.
And it might be time to open your heart again.
✨ Start Your Royal Training Here
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In this Soothe Her Soul Saturday episode of Girl, Date the Good Guy, we speak hope, peace, and truth into the heart of the woman waiting for God’s best in love. This episode is for the woman who desires a Godly man, but is learning to let God be her first love while she waits.
We explore what it truly means to be loved the way Christ loves—with patience, faithfulness, humility, and sacrificial care. Not a rushed, performative, or fear-driven love—but a steady, surrendered, God-led partnership rooted in peace.
This episode reminds you that the man God has for you will not compete with God, but reflect Him. His love will feel safe, intentional, and aligned with God’s design—not confusing, chaotic, or conditional.
In this episode, you’ll be encouraged to remember:
- Godly love reflects Christ’s love—patient, faithful, and secure
- You are not asking for too much by desiring Christ-like love
- Letting God be your first love prepares you for healthy partnership
- A Godly man leads with humility, protects with love, and chooses with intention
- What God has for you will never require panic, striving, or settling
If you’re waiting for a Godly man, healing from past relationships, or learning how to trust God with your love life, this episode will gently restore hope while anchoring your heart in truth.
This is your royal pause—
to rest in God’s timing,
to trust His preparation,
and to believe that Christ-like love is not a myth—it’s a promise.
✨ Start Your Royal Training Here
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In this Girl Behind the Mic episode, Emily Jordan speaks directly to the woman who wakes up with anxiety, racing thoughts, and a restless spirit — even when life looks “fine” on the outside. With honesty, biblical truth, and deep compassion, this episode explores why anxiety is often a signal of spiritual disconnection rather than personal failure, and why lasting peace cannot be found in the world, self-soothing practices, or the so-called universe.
This conversation gently challenges modern ideas of peace rooted in manifestation, energy, and control, and redirects listeners to the only true source of rest: Jesus Christ. Emily explains why the world’s version of peace is temporary and circumstantial, while God’s peace settles the soul even when circumstances haven’t changed.
This episode is for women who love God but still struggle with anxiety, exhaustion, and inner unrest — and are ready to stop striving and start resting in the presence of their Heavenly Father.
In this episode, you’ll learn:
- Why anxiety often appears when we’re disconnected from God
- Why the world and “the universe” cannot offer lasting peace
- The difference between temporary calm and biblical peace
- How to turn to Jesus when anxiety shows up in the morning
- Why peace is found in relationship, not control
- How God’s peace brings rest to weary and overwhelmed souls
Key Scriptures Referenced:
- John 14:27 — “Peace I leave with you; My peace I give you.”
- Matthew 11:28 — “Come to Me, all who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest.”
- Isaiah 26:3 — “You will keep in perfect peace those whose minds are steadfast.”
If anxiety has been loud in your life lately, this episode is an invitation — not to try harder, but to draw closer. You don’t have to carry the weight alone. Peace isn’t something you manufacture; it’s something you receive when you stay connected to God.
🎧 New episodes of Girl Behind the Mic drop every Friday.
Until next time, sis — rest your heart, fix your eyes on Jesus, and let God do what only He can do. 🤍🎙️
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In this special announcement episode of Girl, Date the Good Guy, Emily shares what God has placed on her heart as Valentine’s Day approaches—and why this season is too important to stay silent about.
If you’ve been healing from heartbreak, feeling lonely, tempted to go back to old patterns, or wondering if God still has a love story for you… this episode is for you.
Emily opens up about her own journey through seventeen years of toxic cycles, confusion, and emotional pain—and how God redeemed it all. She reminds you that you were never created to settle, be disrespected, or live beneath your Kingdom identity.
Emily also invites you into the private Facebook community, Your Royal Guard, where healing becomes a lifestyle and sisterhood becomes strength.
Inside the group, you’ll be part of the Valentine’s Week Healing Challenge, focused on:
💗 Protecting your heart
💗 Breaking unhealthy soul ties
💗 Renewing your mind
💗 Practicing self-care and prayer
💗 Doing a No-Text Fast
💗 Going on a “God Date”
💗 Writing a love letter to your future husband
💗 Declaring God’s truth over your love life
Plus, you’ll walk through the week together with daily encouragement, prayer, reflection, and support.
📅 This Week’s Episodes Include:
✨ Tuesday: Open Up Your Heart
✨ Wednesday: Single on Valentine’s Day? God Is Still Writing Your Love Story
✨ Friday: Don’t Text Him on Valentine’s Day
✨ Saturday: The Man God Has for You (Soothe Her Soul)
You do not have to do this season alone, sis.
If you’re ready to stop settling, start healing, and prepare for God’s best—this is your invitation.
💌 Join the Royal Guard Community
Click the link in the show notes to join our private Facebook group, Your Royal Guard.
✔️ Answer the entry questions
✔️ Agree to the community guidelines
✔️ Watch the pinned welcome videos
✔️ Jump into the conversation
Your royal training starts now.
💬 Let’s Stay Connected
If this episode blessed you, please leave a review on Apple Podcasts and share it with a sister who needs encouragement.
Remember:
Keep your crown on.
Keep your standards high.
And keep your heart in royal alignment. 👑💗
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Have you ever found yourself asking, “Is this my anxious attachment acting up… or is something actually off with him?”
You’re not crazy—and you’re not alone.
In this powerful episode of Girl, Date the Good Guy, Emily breaks down one of the most confusing questions Christian women face in dating: How do you tell the difference between your own anxiety and a man’s inconsistent behavior?
Drawing from her personal testimony after years of heartbreak, toxic relationships, and deep healing, Emily shares how dating a God-led man became her real-life training ground. She opens up about anxious attachment, learning to use her voice after narcissistic abuse, and how peaceful, consistent love revealed what safety truly feels like.
In this episode, you’ll learn:
- The difference between anxious attachment vs. red-flag inconsistency
- Why peace, not chemistry, is the proof of a Good Guy
- How inconsistent communication creates anxiety—even in healed women
- What God-led love looks like in real life (clear communication, emotional safety, and consistency)
- Biblical discernment for Christian dating after trauma or heartbreak
- How to stop blaming yourself and start trusting God’s design for healthy love
This conversation is for the woman who loves God but keeps attracting confusing, emotionally unavailable men—and is ready to break toxic dating cycles for good.
If you’re healing from heartbreak, navigating Christian dating, or learning how to trust again without losing yourself, this episode will bring clarity, peace, and truth.
✨ You are not “too much.” You were just never meant to do love in chaos.
Hit play and step into your royal training—where women reclaim their crowns, heal their hearts, and learn to attract God-led love.
✨ Start Your Royal Training Here
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What if God loves you right where you are—not the future, more healed version of you… but you, today?
In this Soothe Her Soul Saturday episode of Girl, Date the Good Guy, we speak life and truth over the woman who feels unworthy, distant from God, or stuck in cycles of shame, sin, or darkness. This episode is a gentle royal pause—an invitation to rest in the truth that God’s love is not based on perfection, performance, or rule-keeping, but on relationship.
You’ll be reminded that God meets us in our mess, walks with us through healing, and loves us with an everlasting love that is strong enough to restore every broken place. This episode releases the pressure to “get it all together” and replaces it with the freedom of full surrender and an open heart.
In this episode, you’ll be encouraged to remember:
- You are worthy of all the good things God has for you
- God loves you even in the struggle, even in the darkness
- Healing happens through relationship, not religion
- Surrender, not perfection, is what invites transformation
- God desires to walk with you, not just correct you
If you’ve been feeling distant from God, weighed down by shame, or afraid that your past disqualifies you from His love, this episode will meet you with grace, truth, and hope.
This is your royal return—
back to the Father’s heart,
back to rest,
back to love.
✨ Start Your Royal Training Here
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In this Girl Behind the Mic episode, Emily Jordan tackles one of the most confusing questions Christian women face while dating: Is he a red flag… or is he just growing? With honesty, compassion, and biblical wisdom, this episode breaks down how to discern between a man who is genuinely growing in Christ and one who is emotionally unavailable, inconsistent, or unsafe — even if he claims to love God.
This conversation is for women who are tired of second-guessing their intuition, excusing concerning behavior as “potential,” or feeling anxious and confused in Christian dating relationships. Emily shares faith-based dating advice rooted in discernment, boundaries, and fruit inspection — not perfection, pressure, or rushing.
You’ll learn how to recognize the difference between growth and red flags, why potential is not the same as alignment, and how God’s peace (not confusion) is one of the clearest indicators of whether a relationship is God-led. This episode encourages women to stop trying to fix or grow men and instead trust God to reveal what is meant for them — and what is not.
If you’re navigating Christian dating, healing from toxic relationship patterns, or learning how to set biblical boundaries while waiting for a Godly man, this episode will bring clarity, peace, and direction.
In this episode, we discuss:
- Christian dating discernment for women
- Red flags vs spiritual growth in men
- How to know if a man is emotionally and spiritually mature
- Biblical relationship boundaries and standards
- Why potential is not a green flag
- Dating God’s way without confusion or compromise
- Recognizing fruit, consistency, and accountability
- Healing patterns of attracting unhealthy relationships
Key Scripture Referenced:
- Matthew 7:16 — “You will know them by their fruit.”
- 1 Corinthians 14:33 — “God is not a God of confusion, but of peace.”
🎧 New episodes of Girl, Date the Good Guy – Girl Behind the Mic drop every Friday.
Until next time, sis — trust your discernment, guard your heart, and never ignore what God is gently revealing.
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If you’ve ever wondered, “Is this healthy… or am I just attached?” this episode is for you.
In this episode of Girl, Date the Good Guy, we’re breaking down seven clear signs you’re dating a good guy — not based on butterflies, chemistry, or emotional highs, but on peace, safety, consistency, and God-led discernment.
So many Christian women have been taught to confuse anxiety with attraction and intensity with love. But in Kingdom dating, peace is the proof. A God-led man will not leave you confused, triggered, or questioning your worth. He will create emotional safety, communicate clearly, show up consistently, and align with your faith, values, and future.
Inside this episode, you’ll learn:
- The difference between chemistry and discernment in Christian dating
- How to recognize emotional safety vs anxious attachment
- Why peace is a key sign of a healthy, God-led relationship
- Biblical wisdom for identifying a good man vs a toxic pattern
- How to stop settling and start dating with clarity and standards
This episode is part of The Good Guy Society — a royal training ground where women reclaim their crown, heal their heart, and attract God-led love. If you’re healing from heartbreak, breaking toxic cycles, or learning how to date God’s way, this conversation will bring clarity, confidence, and peace back into your dating life.
🎧 Hit play and let’s continue your royal training.
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Have you ever realized that you’ve been surviving for so long, you forgot who you were before the pain?
In this Soothe Her Soul Saturday episode of Girl, Date the Good Guy, we speak life, truth, and hope into the woman who has been living in survival mode after heartbreak. This episode is for the woman who learned how to protect herself, stay guarded, and keep going—but is now exhausted and ready for real healing with God.
Through faith-based encouragement and gentle truth, we explore what happens when heartbreak blurs identity, why survival mode is not your permanent state, and how God lovingly calls you back to your true self. This episode is a royal pause—a moment to exhale, soften, and remember who you are beneath the coping, the guarding, and the striving.
You’ll be reminded that:
- Survival mode may have kept you alive, but it was never meant to define you
- Heartbreak does not determine your worth or your identity
- God heals not by erasing your story, but by redeeming it
- You are allowed to feel, trust, hope, and receive love again
- Returning to God restores the woman you were always meant to be
If you’re healing from heartbreak, rebuilding your identity, or learning how to trust God again after emotional pain, this episode will meet you right where you are—with softness, truth, and grace.
This is your royal return.
From surviving… to living.
From guarding… to grounding.
From heartbreak… to healing.
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In this Girl Behind the Mic episode, Emily Jordan opens up about the version of herself that lived in survival mode — functioning, pushing forward, and coping — but not truly healed. Through personal testimony and faith-filled reflection, she shares how heartbreak, loss, and prolonged pain can teach us how to survive while quietly disconnecting us from our hearts, our identity, and even God.
This episode is for the woman who feels strong on the outside but exhausted on the inside — the one who’s been “making it” but knows deep down she’s ready for more than survival. Emily unpacks how healing doesn’t begin with answers or perfection, but with surrender, honesty, and staying connected to God as the true source of restoration.
Together, we explore the difference between surviving and living, why God doesn’t shame us for survival mode, and how He gently invites us into wholeness, rest, discernment, and God-led love. This is a raw, Holy Spirit–led conversation about healing heartbreak with God, rediscovering your identity, and learning who you really are beneath the armor.
If you’ve ever felt stuck in survival, emotionally guarded, or disconnected while still loving God — this episode is for you.
In this episode, you’ll hear about:
- What survival mode really looks like after heartbreak and loss
- Why surviving isn’t the same as being healed or whole
- How God restores identity after emotional pain
- Healing heartbreak through surrender instead of striving
- Letting go of emotional armor and reconnecting with God
- Discovering who you are beneath coping and self-protection
- Faith-based healing for women navigating grief, loss, and exhaustion
Key Scriptures Referenced:
- John 15:5 — “I am the vine; you are the branches.”
- Psalm 34:18 — The Lord is close to the brokenhearted.
If this episode spoke to you, take a moment to pause, reflect, and invite God into the places you’ve been surviving instead of living. Healing doesn’t have to be rushed — it just has to be rooted.
🎧 New episodes of Girl Behind the Mic drop every Friday.
Until next time, sis — stay connected, stay honest, and keep choosing healing.
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Friends with benefits is often sold as freedom, empowerment, and “no-strings-attached” fun — but why does it leave so many women feeling emptier, more anxious, and more broken than before?
In this episode of Girl, Date the Good Guy, Emily exposes the spiritual, emotional, and relational truth behind friends with benefits — a dating pattern God never designed and one that quietly breaks women’s hearts.
Through biblical wisdom and personal testimony, Emily reveals how casual intimacy feeds the flesh instead of the spirit, creates unhealthy soul ties, and keeps women stuck in cycles of confusion, attachment, and emotional pain — especially for women with anxious attachment.
This is the Christian dating truth no one wants to talk about… but every woman needs to hear if she desires real healing, real love, and God-aligned relationships.
What You’ll Learn in This Episode
- Why friends with benefits feels empowering at first but leads to heartbreak
- How casual sex creates emotional and spiritual soul ties
- Why this pattern increases anxiety, attachment, and disconnection
- How the enemy distorts intimacy to keep women bound
- What God actually designed intimacy and dating for
- Why purity is about protection, not restriction
- What to do instead if you want healing and God-led love
Who This Episode Is For
This episode is for the woman who:
- Feels empty after casual dating or hookups
- Is stuck in a friends-with-benefits or situationship
- Struggles with anxious attachment and emotional bonding
- Wants to honor God but feels conflicted by modern dating culture
- Craves safe, secure, committed love — not temporary connection
Biblical Foundation
“Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it.” — Proverbs 4:23
“For God did not call us to impurity, but to live a holy life.” — 1 Thessalonians 4:7
Royal Reflection
If casual intimacy hasn’t healed you, it’s not because you’re broken — it’s because it was never meant to. God’s design leads to freedom, clarity, and love that doesn’t cost you your heart.
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Sis, come sit with me — no fixing, no explaining, just truth. When heartbreak whispers that you weren’t enough, this episode holds a gentle space to separate the wound from your worth.
Through a tender, honest narrative we trace how pain distorts identity, how rejection can feel like a verdict, and how God’s voice quietly remembers who you were created to be. This is a royal pause: a moment to breathe, to let truth re-root you, and to refuse the lie that what left you defined you.
Listen as we move from confusion to clarity — learning to tend the places doubt took root, to rise with wisdom, and to put your crown back on unbroken. Breathe, queen. Your story is not over, and love will meet you again — this time aligned.
Emily Jordan continues the journey of restoring identity after heartbreak.
Listeners are guided through releasing shame, renewing faith, and embracing God’s truth. This episode strengthens emotional and spiritual healing.
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When sickness, whispers, and old accusations swarmed her life, she did the bold thing: she stood up and spoke. In this episode of Girl Behind the Mic, our host invites you into a moment of honest struggle and fierce faith, declaring the truth that whatever the enemy forms, it will not prosper.
Short, stirring, and unapologetically hopeful, this episode turns pain into a prayerful battle cry—‘You can’t touch this.’ Join her voice-led call to guard your peace, reclaim your purpose, and stay unbothered as God works beneath the noise.
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In this transformative episode, Emily Jordan shares how God restored her identity after divorce, emotional loss, and years of healing.
Through four practical teachings, she helps women recognize unhealthy patterns, reject shame, and rebuild confidence in Christ. This episode equips listeners to date from wholeness instead of wounds.
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In this companion episode, Emily Jordan explores how spiritual roots deepen in seasons of silence and waiting.
You’ll learn how God transforms pain into purpose and prepares your heart for healthy, God-led relationships. This episode offers encouragement for women in slow-healing seasons.
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She takes you to a single, quiet moment—a dried branch on her mailbox—and from that small, ordinary scene unfolds a life-changing story of loss, surrender, and renewal. Through a season of hardship in 2016, she learns that what looks beautiful in a vase cannot sustain the soul.
Using the image of Jesus as the vine and us as the branches, she walks listeners through the stripping seasons, the painful lessons, and the patient work of being reattached to the only true source. Honest, intimate, and encouraging, this episode shows how God uses lack and waiting to teach lasting dependence and joy.
If you feel dry, confused, or tempted to chase hollow things, tune in to be held and challenged to return to your first love—rooted, imperfect, and ready to bear fruit again.
In this moving episode, Emily Jordan shares how reconnecting to Christ as the true source of love and strength transformed her season of dryness and waiting.
Using the biblical image of Jesus as the vine, she teaches how God uses loss and delay to restore joy, peace, and emotional health. This episode offers hope for women healing from disappointment and spiritual fatigue.
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In this powerful episode, Emily Jordan shares five essential areas every woman must heal—heart, mind, identity, patterns, and relationship with God—before entering her next love story.
Using personal testimony and spiritual insight, she teaches how to break toxic cycles, rebuild biblical boundaries, and prepare emotionally and spiritually for Christ-centered relationships.
A must-listen for women committed to dating God’s way.
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