Muslim Life Hackers

Most Muslim women shy away from the word “leadership.” But what if you’re already leading every single day—and just don’t realize it?In this episode on the Muslim Life Hackers podcast, Ustadha Maryam Alsamarrai dismantles the idea that leadership is only for certain people. With 16+ years of mentoring Muslim women and as a mother of five daughters, she shows why every decision you make, every value you hold, and every boundary you set is an act of leadership—whether you own the title or not.This isn’t about adding more to your plate. It’s about recognizing the power you already have and learning to use it with clarity, intention, and connection to your soul.What You’ll LearnLeadership Is Already Yours [02:00-08:00]* Why “everyone is a shepherd” means everyone is a leader* How motherhood, choices, and service are all forms of leadership* The resistance to owning leadership as a Muslim woman* Why we’re created for service, including serving ourselvesLeading Yourself First [09:00-13:00]* The critical practice of knowing your values* How clarity becomes your compass* Why boundaries flow naturally from knowing who you are* The internal work required before you can lead othersThe Power of Decision-Making [18:00-24:00]* Why indecision is still a decision* How vagueness and confusion create blockages* The conditioning that tells women their decisions belong to others* Why quick, clear decisions move you forward fasterKhadijah’s Model of Leadership [24:00-27:00]* How she chose the Prophet ﷺ based on values (sadiq and amin)* Making decisions before Islam existed—guided by human nature* The laws of the universe: right foundations lead to success* What it means to choose with clarity and convictionQuran + Therapy: Not Either/Or [29:00-38:00]* Why we weren’t raised with Quran as a compass for life* When external perspective becomes essential* Khadijah’s example: giving positivity, then seeking Waraqah’s expertise* The importance of Muslim therapists who understand deen and dunyaListening to Your Soul vs. Your Ego [38:00-48:00]* How to recognize the voice of your soul (peace, love, compassion)* The markers of ego: fear, grudge, revenge, proving yourself* Why your soul always guides you toward Allah* The practice of discernment (and yes, you’ll make mistakes)Breaking Free from Self-Blame [49:00-54:00]* Why self-blame goes against purification of the nafs* The cycle that keeps you stuck: blame, sabotage, repeat* Allah’s invitation to repent, return, and move forward* Learning from your toddler: try, fall, get up, keep goingKey Quotes“Leadership is choices. Leadership is having the integrity and characteristics of believers and taking people with you on that journey.”“Not taking a decision is actually a decision you have made as well.”“When you ask a question from Allah, you’re not responsible for finding the answer. You just ask the question and Allah brings the answer to you.”“The call of your soul comes from a place of peace, stability, love, and compassion. The call of ego comes from fear, grudge, revenge, and proving yourself.”“We ruin most of our lives sitting within ourselves and self-blaming. Allah wants you to identify the problem, seek forgiveness, return back to Him, and move forward.”Guest BioUstadha Maryam Alsamarrai is a former youth leader with UK Islamic Mission where she served for six years and has over 16 years of experience mentoring Muslim girls and women across the UK. As a mother of five daughters (three of them teenagers), her leadership style is grounded in real-life experience rather than theory alone.She is the founder of AlHusnaa Academy, where she teaches Islamic studies, runs transformational courses like The Seven Doors, and leads the Khadija Initiative—a leadership program for mothers who want to lead with intention. Her mission is clear: helping every Muslim woman remember that she was created to lead with strength, wisdom, and faith.Connect with Ustadha Maryam* Instagram: @Nurturing5muhsinaat* AlHusnaa Academy Instagram: @Alhusnaa_academySubscribe to the Podcast* Apple Podcasts* Spotify This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit muslimlifehackers.substack.com

Most parenting advice stops at “the teen years get harder.” But what do you actually do about it?In this episode on the Muslim Life Hackers podcast, parenting and career coach, Asumini Kasule breaks down why your relationship with your teenager is the foundation of their success—and why working on yourself is more powerful than trying to change them.This isn’t about being your teen’s best friend. It’s about being the parent they need while building the connection that lets you actually influence them during the years when peer pressure peaks.What You’ll LearnThe Foundation of Teen Success [02:00-04:00]* Why peers become so influential during teen years* The prophetic model: befriending your teen ages 14-21* How connection enables guidance without judgmentThe Inner Work Parents Need to Do [04:00-09:00]* Moving from “obey me” to “I hear you”* What innocent oppression looks like (and how to stop it)* Why Allah won’t change your teen’s condition until you change what’s within yourself* Managing your own emotions before addressing theirsSetting Limits Without Being a Dictator [09:00-13:00]* The difference between authoritarian and authoritative parenting* How to have family meetings that actually work* Setting boundaries while giving flexibility* Holding limits consistently (and what happens when you don’t)The Screen Time Battle [13:00-18:00]* The two-hour rule and the two-hour-before-bed rule* Why devices stay in common rooms* Getting teens to brainstorm screen-free activities* Modeling device boundaries as parentsCareer Conversations That Don’t Create Resentment [21:00-27:00]* Exploring strengths, not just interests* Presenting your preference as an option, not a mandate* Dealing with your own fear about their choices* Why your journey doesn’t have to be their journeyKey Quotes“Allah would not change a condition of a people until they change what’s within themselves. You might look on the outside and see my teen is the problem. But their behavior is a result of their thoughts and feelings.”“When you yell, you’re not dealing with your emotions—you’re just releasing them by taking it out on your kids.”“Everything about the teens starts with connection with the parent. Without that avenue, you’re leaving the job for the people around them.”“The journey is crafted by Allah. We do our effort as parents, but the outcome is in His hands.”Guest BioAsumini Kasule is a certified parenting and career coach who supports Muslim families navigating cultural and identity changes as children reach their teen years. With 20+ years of corporate leadership experience at Fortune 500 companies and degrees from Carnegie Mellon and Stanford in Material Science and Engineering, she now helps parents build the connection that lets them guide their teens toward purpose and confidence.Connect with Asumini* Instagram: @kasulebailacoaching* Website: Kasule Baila Coaching* Book: Lead with Love - A Journey of Faith in Parenting TeensResources Mentioned* Builders of a Nation by Sheikha Haifa Younis* Surah Ar-Ra’d (Quran 13:11) - “Allah does not change the condition of a people until they change what is within themselves”Subscribe to the Podcast* Apple Podcasts* Spotify This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit muslimlifehackers.substack.com

In this episode of the Muslim Life Hackers podcast, host Mifrah Mahroof discusses the importance of intuition in navigating community scandals. Mifrah explores how intuition acts as a powerful tool for personal growth, protection from harmful situations, and better decision-making. She also offers practical tips on how to develop and trust your instincts, seeking both spiritual guidance and professional help.Timestamps:00:00 Introduction00:45 Addressing Community Scandals01:35 Personal Experience with a Scandal04:04 The Power of Intuition08:27 Strengthening Intuition and Seeking Guidance10:15 Conclusion and Final ThoughtsSign up to the Muslim Life Hackers newsletter: https://muslimlifehackers.substack.comListen to the Podcast: Apple Podcast Spotify Connect with Muslim Life Hackers: Instagram Twitter TikTok Facebook Connect with Mifrah Mahroof: Instagram Tiktok 🏖️ This episode is sponsored by Sisters Explore, a company I founded to offer guided small-group travel for Muslim women to connect, explore, and enjoy faith-centered journeys. Learn more at http://www.sisters-explore.com Disclaimer: Some links in this description are affiliate links. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit muslimlifehackers.substack.com

In this episode, Mifrah explores the interconnectedness of personal growth and how it affects the ummah. She addresses why we struggle to grow and also shares the story behind the ‘Growth Retreat’, the upcoming experiential learning experience taking place in Sri Lanka in February 2025. Timestamps:00:00 Introduction00:18 The Impact of Global Events on Personal Growth00:42 The Role of the Ummah in Personal Development02:05 Faith-Based Personal Development03:00 Challenges in Personal Growth03:28 The Importance of Environment and Social Circle05:22 Turning Knowledge into Action05:50 Introducing the Growth Retreat05:53 Experiential Learning and Personal Growth06:48 The Power of Play and Active Engagement07:45 Who is this Retreat for?Sign up to the Muslim Life Hackers newsletter: https://muslimlifehackers.substack.comListen to the Podcast: Apple Podcast Spotify Connect with Muslim Life Hackers: Instagram Twitter TikTok Facebook Connect with Mifrah Mahroof: Instagram Tiktok 🏖️ This episode is sponsored by Sisters Explore, a company I founded to offer guided small-group travel for Muslim women to connect, explore, and enjoy faith-centered journeys. Learn more at http://www.sisters-explore.com Disclaimer: Some links in this description are affiliate links. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit muslimlifehackers.substack.com

The episode features Hafsa Taher, a business strategist, who discusses her journey in business and the importance of finding one's purpose. She highlights the significance of balancing inner work, like mindset and self-worth, with outer strategies for success. Key challenges for women, such as impostor syndrome and societal pressures, are explored. Hafsa stresses the importance of changing negative beliefs about money and aligning business goals with personal values. She also discusses the role of self-development and therapy in overcoming obstacles and building confidence.Timestamps:00:00 Introduction and Exciting Announcement02:59 Inner Work vs. Outer Work in Business03:57 Challenges Women Face in Business06:33 Money Mindset and Beliefs08:35 Transforming Negative Beliefs About Money17:14 Overcoming Worthiness Issues in Business18:14 The Comparison Game and Entitlement18:43 Capitalism and Self-Worth19:45 Redefining Value and Success20:42 Aligning Intentions with Faith22:26 Navigating Business with Passion30:26 The Role of Therapy in Self-DevelopmentAbout Hafsa Taher:Hafsa Taher is a certified Muslim life coach trained through DiscoverU's Adwam Coaching program and a business strategist with over 15 years of business experience. Passionate about empowering others, Hafsa's coaching guides sisters through their own paths of fostering resilience, faith, and business growth.Connect with Hafsa Taher:InstagramFacebookWebsiteResources Mentioned:Brave, Not Perfect by Reshma SaujaniStart with Why by Simon SinekBillion Dollar Muslim by Khuram MalikSelf-Compassion by Dr. Kristin NeffHow to Be Single and Happy by Jennifer L. TaitzPlaying Big by Tara MohrSign up to the Muslim Life Hackers newsletter: https://muslimlifehackers.substack.comListen to the Podcast: Apple Podcast Spotify Connect with Muslim Life Hackers: Instagram Twitter TikTok Facebook Connect with Mifrah Mahroof: Instagram Tiktok 🏖️ This episode is sponsored by Sisters Explore, a company I founded to offer guided small-group travel for Muslim women to connect, explore, and enjoy faith-centered journeys. Learn more at http://www.sisters-explore.com Disclaimer: Some links in this description are affiliate links. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit muslimlifehackers.substack.com

In this episode, host Mifrah Mahroof explores her 15-year journey with a dua habit focused on achieving her goals. She discusses how this practice, inspired by the late, Sheikh Muhammad Al Shareef (may Allah have mercy on him) has shaped her life. Mifrah talks about the emotional journey of dua, the lessons learned in connecting with Allah, and the link between personal growth and bigger duas. Join her to discover how to incorporate these insights into your own dua journey. Timestamps:00:00 Introduction00:15 Understanding the Dua Habit01:48 The Influence of Sheikh Muhammad Al Shareef02:58 Examples of Personal Duas03:19 The Emotional Journey of Answered Duas04:34 The Deeper Connection with Allah05:40 Leveling Up to Receive Duas06:49 Personal Growth and Realizations13:10 Upcoming Growth Retreat14:30 Conclusion and Invitation for QuestionsSign up to the Muslim Life Hackers newsletter: https://muslimlifehackers.substack.comListen to the Podcast: Apple Podcast Spotify Connect with Muslim Life Hackers: Instagram Twitter TikTok Facebook Connect with Mifrah Mahroof: Instagram Tiktok 🏖️ This episode is sponsored by Sisters Explore, a company I founded to offer guided small-group travel for Muslim women to connect, explore, and enjoy faith-centered journeys. Learn more at http://www.sisters-explore.com Disclaimer: Some links in this description are affiliate links. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit muslimlifehackers.substack.com

This episode features Ruwaida Dohry, an Islamic life coach who specializes in helping women heal, grow, and live their best lives with Allah at the center. This episode delves into topics such as spiritual optimism, maintaining positive thinking, the influence of Shaitan, social conditioning, and fostering healthy relationships with oneself and others. The conversation also touches on the challenges and importance of maintaining a positive outlook in life according to Islamic teachings.Timestamps:00:00 Introduction00:41 Spiritual Optimism and Positive Outlook02:09 Dealing with Hardships and Patience04:02 Understanding Negative Thinking12:17 Building Safe Relationships25:33 Weekly Goals for Personal Growth29:13 Recommended Books and Final Thoughts31:17 ConclusionAbout Ruwaida Dohry:Ruwaida Dohry is a certified Islamic Life Coach specializing in empowering women to heal, grow, and live their best lives with Allah at the centre of their journey. Her guiding principle is that spiritual optimism paves the way to a blessed destiny.Connect with Ruwaida Dohry:InstagramFacebookA Life Within Podcast on SpotifyResources Mentioned:Reclaim Your Heart by Yasmin MogahedHealing the Emptiness by Yasmin MogahedSign up to the Muslim Life Hackers newsletter: https://muslimlifehackers.substack.comListen to the Podcast: Apple Podcast Spotify Connect with Muslim Life Hackers: Instagram Twitter TikTok Facebook Connect with Mifrah Mahroof: Instagram Tiktok 🏖️ This episode is sponsored by Sisters Explore, a company I founded to offer guided small-group travel for Muslim women to connect, explore, and enjoy faith-centered journeys. Learn more at http://www.sisters-explore.com Disclaimer: Some links in this description are affiliate links. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit muslimlifehackers.substack.com

In this episode, Arfa, an experienced copywriter, discusses her career, the impact of AI on copywriting, and the importance of coaching for personal and business growth. She shares how coaches have helped her navigate challenges and improve her skills. Arfa also emphasizes the significance of a strong network, continuous learning, and balancing personal health and spirituality for overall success.Timestamps:00:00 Introduction04:43 The Importance of Coaching for Business Growth08:21 Personal Experiences with Coaching15:09 Choosing the Right Coach21:18 Health and Wellness Coaching23:53 The Importance of Holistic Health24:17 Investing in Coaching: A  Personal Journey26:00 Empowering Others: Resources and Support26:38 The True Cost of Time and Coaching29:16 Balancing Business and Personal Life35:05 The Power of Networking and Masterminds36:51 Choosing Your Circle WiselyAbout Arfa Iqbal:Classically trained in direct response, Arfa is a 9 figure copywriter, digital marketer and bestselling author of the book ‘Mind-Hack™ Marketing – How to Turn Customer Psychology into Breakthrough Sales’. Since 2010, Arfa has worked with some of the best thought leaders, celebrity influencers and experts in the world to help them grow and scale using sales funnels.Connect with Arfa Iqbal:InstagramFacebookWebsiteResources Mentioned:Your Next Five Moves: Master the Art of Business Strategy by Patrick Bet-DavidHow to Win Friends & Influence People by Dale CarnegieOversubscribed: How To Get People Lining Up To Do Business With You by Daniel PriestleySign up to the Muslim Life Hackers newsletter: https://muslimlifehackers.substack.comListen to the Podcast: Apple Podcast Spotify Connect with Muslim Life Hackers: Instagram Twitter TikTok Facebook Connect with Mifrah Mahroof: Instagram Tiktok 🏖️ This episode is sponsored by Sisters Explore, a company I founded to offer guided small-group travel for Muslim women to connect, explore, and enjoy faith-centered journeys. Learn more at http://www.sisters-explore.com Disclaimer: Some links in this description are affiliate links. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit muslimlifehackers.substack.com

In this heartfelt episode of the Muslim Life Hackers podcast, host Mifrah Mahroof shares valuable lessons learned from her late friend, Sohret Hussein. Mifrah reflects on Sohret's exemplary character, her commitment to building a legacy, staying focused on self-improvement, and the importance of maintaining righteous friendships. Timestamps: 00:00 Introduction00:53 Building a Legacy: Lessons from Sohret04:05 Focusing on What Matters: Avoiding Distractions05:46 The Value of Righteous Friendships06:37 Conclusion and Final ThoughtsSign up to the Muslim Life Hackers newsletter: https://muslimlifehackers.substack.comListen to the Podcast: Apple Podcast Spotify Connect with Muslim Life Hackers: Instagram Twitter TikTok Facebook Connect with Mifrah Mahroof: Instagram Tiktok 🏖️ This episode is sponsored by Sisters Explore, a company I founded to offer guided small-group travel for Muslim women to connect, explore, and enjoy faith-centered journeys. Learn more at http://www.sisters-explore.com Disclaimer: Some links in this description are affiliate links. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit muslimlifehackers.substack.com

In this episode, Shaykh Ismail Kamdar joins us to discuss Islamic history and how the world would look like under a Muslim rule. We cover topics such as the importance of understanding Islamic history, World War I's impact on Muslims, the distinction between Islamic and Muslim history, the freedoms under the Ottoman Empire and the misconceptions about Shariah Law. The discussion provides valuable reflections on the modern-day challenges Muslims face and the lessons we can learn from history.Timestamps:00:00 Introduction06:13 The Importance of Knowing Our History07:25 World War I and Its Impact on the Muslim World18:52 Social Media's Influence on Modern Sins24:40 The Ottoman Empire: A Model of Freedom29:09 Atheism and Uncommon Beliefs in Islamic History32:00 Freedom of Movement and Governance under Sharia36:29 Taxation in Islamic History41:35 Modern Oppression and Illusion of Freedom45:43 Reviving Sharia and Historical LessonsAbout Shaykh Ismail Kamdar:Shaykh Ismail Kamdar is a graduate of a traditional Alim program (Talimuddin, 2006) and also holds a Bachelor’s in Islamic Studies (IOU, 2014). He has studied Islam in both traditional and modern settings and has been a student of Islamic Studies for over two decades.He served as faculty manager at the International Open University for ten years, from 2010 to 2020. He also founded Izzah Academy in 2022. His books are currently available in three different languages, and sold across five continents. He has written over 25 books including Getting The Barakah, Productivity Principles of Umar II, Themes of the Quran, and 25 Keys to a Happy Life. He currently works as a researcher and project manager at Yaqeen Institute.Connect with Shaykh Ismail Kamdar:Islamic Self HelpIzzah AcademyTwitterYouTubeInstagramFacebookResources Mentioned:The Impossible State by Wael HallaqThe 7 Habits Of Highly Effective People by Stephen R. CoveySign up to the Muslim Life Hackers newsletter: https://muslimlifehackers.substack.comListen to the Podcast: Apple Podcast Spotify Connect with Muslim Life Hackers: Instagram Twitter TikTok Facebook Connect with Mifrah Mahroof: Instagram Tiktok 🏖️ This episode is sponsored by Sisters Explore, a company I founded to offer guided small-group travel for Muslim women to connect, explore, and enjoy faith-centered journeys. Learn more at http://www.sisters-explore.com Disclaimer: Some links in this description are affiliate links. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit muslimlifehackers.substack.com

In this episode, Shehzad Hanif joins the show to discuss the challenges single Muslims face in finding a partner. He explore how subconscious beliefs and childhood experiences can hinder the marriage search. The conversation delves into the importance of self-worth, positive self-talk, and making meaningful duas.Timestamps:00:00 Introduction01:02 Challenges in Finding a Suitable Partner04:16 The Role of Childhood09:39 Understanding Subconscious Influences15:47 Healing Childhood Wounds22:16 Understanding Allah's Love24:25 Self-Love28:14 The Impact of Parental Relationships33:30 The Power of Positive Affirmations38:14 Gratitude and Positive Self-TalkAbout Shehzad Hanif:Guidance Coaching founder Shehzad Hanif is a certified Muslim Life Coach. He has helped Muslims all over the world Find their Soulmate Effortlessly. using his unique 4 step LOVE formula ❤️Connect with Shehzad Hanif:Soulmate Seekers CoachingInstagramFacebookYoutubeResources Mentioned:Unleash the Power Within by Tony RobbinsSign up to the Muslim Life Hackers newsletter: https://muslimlifehackers.substack.comListen to the Podcast: Apple Podcast Spotify Connect with Muslim Life Hackers: Instagram Twitter TikTok Facebook Connect with Mifrah Mahroof: Instagram Tiktok 🏖️ This episode is sponsored by Sisters Explore, a company I founded to offer guided small-group travel for Muslim women to connect, explore, and enjoy faith-centered journeys. Learn more at http://www.sisters-explore.com Disclaimer: Some links in this description are affiliate links. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit muslimlifehackers.substack.com

Join us in this episode as we welcome Sofia, host of the 'Women of Ihsan' podcast. In our conversation, we explore Sofia's insights on the meaning of Ihsan, the importance of striving for excellence in our faith, and how Muslims can transcend mediocrity in their spiritual lives. Sofia also shares her thoughts on decolonizing the mind, the impact of Western values on our Islamic worldview, and the significance of collective responsibility within the Muslim ummah. Timestamps:01:31 Defining Ihsan and Its Importance02:00 Striving for Excellence in Faith03:31 The Concept of Ihsan in Daily Life13:04 Decolonizing the Mind15:25 Impact of Colonization on Muslim Identity22:46 Challenges Faced by Muslims in the West25:27 The System is Not Broken25:43 Understanding a Colonized Mind 28:51 Personal Responsibility and Awakening31:40 Role Models in GazaAbout Sofia:Sofia, with over 15 years of experience as a translator and project manager, she decided to change her career path to become a Certified Professional Coach to serve the community.She is passionate about helping high-achieving Muslim women design their ideal faith-centered lives so they can thrive in alignment with their Deen.Sofia is a French Moroccan living in Germany with her husband and three children.Connect with Sofia:InstagramFacebookLinkedInYouTubeWomen of Ihsan PodcastSign up to the Muslim Life Hackers newsletter: https://muslimlifehackers.substack.comListen to the Podcast: Apple Podcast Spotify Connect with Muslim Life Hackers: Instagram Twitter TikTok Facebook Connect with Mifrah Mahroof: Instagram Tiktok 🏖️ This episode is sponsored by Sisters Explore, a company I founded to offer guided small-group travel for Muslim women to connect, explore, and enjoy faith-centered journeys. Learn more at http://www.sisters-explore.com Disclaimer: Some links in this description are affiliate links. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit muslimlifehackers.substack.com

In this solo episode, Muslim Life Hackers host, Mifrah Mahroof shares three reflections on being a role model, our relationship with time, friendships and the courage to be yourself.Timestamps:00:26 Reflecting on Personal Growth01:12 Being a Role Model for Children02:19 Understanding the Concept of Time03:47 The Importance of Selective Friendships05:29 Conclusion and Final ThoughtsSign up to the Muslim Life Hackers newsletter: https://muslimlifehackers.substack.comListen to the Podcast: Apple Podcast Spotify Connect with Muslim Life Hackers: Instagram Twitter TikTok Facebook Connect with Mifrah Mahroof: Instagram Tiktok 🏖️ This episode is sponsored by Sisters Explore, a company I founded to offer guided small-group travel for Muslim women to connect, explore, and enjoy faith-centered journeys. Learn more at http://www.sisters-explore.com Disclaimer: Some links in this description are affiliate links. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit muslimlifehackers.substack.com

In this episode of the Muslim Life Hackers podcast, host Mifrah Mahroof chats with Hannah, a life coach and teacher, about her journey to finding her husband. Hannah opens up about overcoming societal pressures and self-doubt, transforming her mindset, and discovering love through yaqeen (certainty) in Allah's plans. This episode is packed with insights and inspiration for single Muslim women. Don't miss out on this heartfelt conversation!Timestamps:02:25 Marriage Journey and Personal Growth03:31 Coping with Loss and Finding Faith06:48 Shifting Mindsets and Making Dua09:48 Recording the Journey and Finding Courage12:40 Reframing Expectations and Embracing Change21:52 Mindset and Self-Reflection for Single Muslim Women22:29 Challenging Negative Beliefs About Marriage23:39 Building Self-Esteem Before Marriage27:06 Changing the Conversation Around Marriage in the Muslim Community30:36 Personal Journey: Meeting My Husband OnlineAbout Hannah El-Gashingi:Hannah El-Gashingi is the founder and Head Coach at SHE Empowerment Coaching. After the sudden death of her mother, Salwa, in 2018, Hannah went on a journey to rediscover who she was now that grief took hold of her life. She discovered the powerful world of coaching. The Business name SHE is made up the initials of her Mum, Salwa and herself Hannah El-Gashingi.Connect with Hannah El-Gashingi:InstagramFacebookWebsiteFinding My Husband PodcastResources Mentioned:Al-Ghazali on the Ninety-nine Beautiful Names of God by Abu Hamid al-GhazaliImam Al-Ghazali Mukhtasar Ihya Ulum Ad-din by Imam Al-GhazaliThe 99 names of Allah by Sheikh Ratib Al NabulsiSign up to the Muslim Life Hackers newsletter: https://muslimlifehackers.substack.comListen to the Podcast: Apple Podcast Spotify Connect with Muslim Life Hackers: Instagram Twitter TikTok Facebook Connect with Mifrah Mahroof: Instagram Tiktok 🏖️ This episode is sponsored by Sisters Explore, a company I founded to offer guided small-group travel for Muslim women to connect, explore, and enjoy faith-centered journeys. Learn more at http://www.sisters-explore.com Disclaimer: Some links in this description are affiliate links. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit muslimlifehackers.substack.com

In this episode, Mifrah Mahroof welcomes Sumaiya Siddiqui, a relationship and emotional coach, to delve into critical topics affecting our self-esteem and relationships. From understanding the roots of self-esteem issues to learning how to balance humility and self-respect, this conversation offers practical insights and advice for everyone, especially women. Sumaiya shares her experiences and wisdom, connecting everything back to the teachings of Islam, helping listeners build better self-awareness and relationships.Timestamps:01:53 Understanding Self Esteem and Its Impact02:52 The Role of Self Concept and Self Image04:13 Connecting Self Worth to Faith08:59 Balancing Self Awareness and Humility16:48 Accepting Yourself and Overcoming Low Self Esteem21:31 Cultural Reflections on Family Dynamics22:46 The Importance of Self-Respect23:37 Navigating Boundaries in Relationships26:59 Effective Communication Strategies36:51 Learning from the SeerahAbout Sumaiya Siddiqui:Sumaiya Siddiqui is a Certified Life Coach from MUMKIN and AWARE ACADEMY (Australia). She is also the Founder and CEO of “Lead to Change” (Sydney). She has a Grad Dip Psychology (JCU, Australia) and is also pursuing a Master’s in Psychotherapy.Connect with Sumaiya SiddiquiInstagramFacebookWebsiteResources Mentioned:The Sealed Nectar (Biography of Prophet Muhammad) by Darussalam PublishersGolden Stories of Sayyida Khadijah (R.A) by Darussalam Publishers Lady Khadija (RA) - Defining Womanhood by Dr. Rania AwaadSign up to the Muslim Life Hackers newsletter: https://muslimlifehackers.substack.comListen to the Podcast: Apple Podcast Spotify Connect with Muslim Life Hackers: Instagram Twitter TikTok Facebook Connect with Mifrah Mahroof: Instagram Tiktok 🏖️ This episode is sponsored by Sisters Explore, a company I founded to offer guided small-group travel for Muslim women to connect, explore, and enjoy faith-centered journeys. Learn more at http://www.sisters-explore.com Disclaimer: Some links in this description are affiliate links. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit muslimlifehackers.substack.com

In this episode of the Muslim Life Hackers Podcast, host interviews Almir Colan, an expert in Islamic economics and finance. They discuss the concept of risk-taking in life and delve into the principles of the Islamic economy. Almir explains the issues with riba (interest) and its negative impact on society and economies, contrasting it with the ethical and productive nature of wealth creation in Islam. They explore the importance of initiative and being forerunners in various aspects of life.Timestamps:01:41 Understanding Islamic Economics02:34 The Impact of Riba on Society03:06 Riba and Historical Perspectives07:45 The Riba Mentality11:24 Capitalism and Its Flaws15:10 Islamic Solutions to Economic Issues29:38 The Importance of Initiative36:53 Life Hacks and Book RecommendationsAbout Almir Colan:Almir Colan teaches and advises on Islamic finance, economy and management. He is the founder of Muslim Money Matters, an adviser to a number of institutions that provide Islamic finance, and a member of a working group at AAOIFI. Previously, Almir was a consultant lecturer for the Master of Islamic Banking and Finance Course at La Trobe University.Connect with Almir Colan:Social MediaYouTubeMuslim Money MattersIslamic Finance PodcastResources Mentioned:The One Minute Manager Meets The Monkey by Ken BlanchardSign up to the Muslim Life Hackers newsletter: https://muslimlifehackers.substack.comListen to the Podcast: Apple Podcast Spotify Connect with Muslim Life Hackers: Instagram Twitter TikTok Facebook Connect with Mifrah Mahroof: Instagram Tiktok 🏖️ This episode is sponsored by Sisters Explore, a company I founded to offer guided small-group travel for Muslim women to connect, explore, and enjoy faith-centered journeys. Learn more at http://www.sisters-explore.com Disclaimer: Some links in this description are affiliate links. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit muslimlifehackers.substack.com

In this episode, business coach Gemi Hartojo explores why high-achieving women face burnout in the workplace. The conversation covers the differences in masculine and feminine energy in the workplace and practical strategies to find flow and fulfillment in both professional and personal settings.Timestamps:01:35 Challenges Faced by High Achieving Women04:04 Understanding Masculine and Feminine Energy in the Workplace15:25 Finding Your Zone of Genius28:46 Balancing Family and Personal Time29:35 The Concept of Time in Islam32:46 Parenting Challenges and Strategies36:57 Respect and Boundaries with Children42:58 Embracing Feminine Energy and ChaosAbout Gemi Hartojo:Gemi Hartojo (Guh-mee, Harr-Toyo), is a trained and certified business coach from the Co-Active Training Institute (CPCC) and ACC credentialed by the ICF; who guides business leaders, entrepreneurs, and their teams to become highly effective individuals and groups, cultivating positive, inclusive, and psychologically safe environments.Connect with Gemi Hartojo:InstagramFacebookTwitterLinkedInWebsiteResources Mentioned:The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People by Stephen R. CoveySign up to the Muslim Life Hackers newsletter: https://muslimlifehackers.substack.comListen to the Podcast: Apple Podcast Spotify Connect with Muslim Life Hackers: Instagram Twitter TikTok Facebook Connect with Mifrah Mahroof: Instagram Tiktok 🏖️ This episode is sponsored by Sisters Explore, a company I founded to offer guided small-group travel for Muslim women to connect, explore, and enjoy faith-centered journeys. Learn more at http://www.sisters-explore.com Disclaimer: Some links in this description are affiliate links. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit muslimlifehackers.substack.com

In this episode, Soumaya Najjarin, CEO of New Beginnings, shares her personal journey through divorce, the motivations behind starting New Beginnings, and the challenges faced by divorced individuals in the Muslim community. Soumaya offers practical advice and insights on rebuilding one's life post-divorce, emphasizing courage and resilience. Timestamps:05:22 Islamic Perspective on Divorce 09:43 Stages of Divorce and Healing 17:16 Rediscovering Identity and Purpose29:11 Learning from Conflicts and Moving On29:31 The Unique Challenges of Divorce30:03 Islamic Teachings in Divorce Healing30:38 Personal Growth and Resilience33:24 The Reality of Post-Divorce Life35:09 Practical Steps for Healing38:26 The Importance of Networks and ResourcesAbout Soumaya:Soumaya is the Founding Director of New Beginnings Australia, a not-for-profit organisation that aims to provide divorce support and healing to Muslims facing the challenges of divorce. She also works in the policy and projects space in the NSW Government and is responsible for the design of strategic policy and government projects.Connect with Soumaya:InstagramFacebookNew Beginnings FacebookNew Beginnings InstagramResources Mentioned:The Alchemy of Happiness by Imam Al-GhazzaliThe Diary of a CEO by Steven BartlettSetting Boundaries by Rebecca RayDon't Be Sad by Dr. Aaidh Ibn Abdullah Al-QarniAtomic Habits by James ClearSign up to the Muslim Life Hackers newsletter: https://muslimlifehackers.substack.comListen to the Podcast: Apple Podcast Spotify Connect with Muslim Life Hackers: Instagram Twitter TikTok Facebook Connect with Mifrah Mahroof: Instagram Tiktok 🏖️ This episode is sponsored by Sisters Explore, a company I founded to offer guided small-group travel for Muslim women to connect, explore, and enjoy faith-centered journeys. Learn more at http://www.sisters-explore.com Disclaimer: Some links in this description are affiliate links. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit muslimlifehackers.substack.com

In this episode, Dr. Tanvir Uddin, the founder and CEO of Wholesum, a FinTech company focused on making investments accessible for Muslims, shares how Muslims can approach finance holistically, from managing money to using it to make a positive impact.Timestamps: 02:51 The Power of Financial Empowerment04:06 The Role of Finance in Society07:36 The Importance of Financial Independence and Education12:25 Understanding Exchange Traded Funds (ETFs)14:01 The Importance of Financial Planning and Investment19:58 Understanding Short-Term and Long-Term Investment Options24:00 The Role and Risks of Managed Funds28:47 The Challenges for Muslim Investors in Australia29:36 The Controversial Topic of Cryptocurrency Investments33:15 The Importance of Asset Allocation and BudgetingAbout Dr. Tanvir Uddin:As a serial entrepreneur, Tanvir loves innovating at the intersection of access to financial services, technology and sustainability. He is the Founder of Wholesum, a platform to increase access to unique positive impact-focused, halal investments. Tanvir holds a PhD from the University of Sydney where his thesis examined the intersection of Islamic law and sustainable development through microfinance programs.Connect with Dr. Tanvir Uddin:WholesumFacebookLinkedInResources Mentioned:The Lost Connections by Johann HariSign up to the Muslim Life Hackers newsletter: https://muslimlifehackers.substack.comListen to the Podcast: Apple Podcast Spotify Connect with Muslim Life Hackers: Instagram Twitter TikTok Facebook Connect with Mifrah Mahroof: Instagram Tiktok 🏖️ This episode is sponsored by Sisters Explore, a company I founded to offer guided small-group travel for Muslim women to connect, explore, and enjoy faith-centered journeys. Learn more at http://www.sisters-explore.com Disclaimer: Some links in this description are affiliate links. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit muslimlifehackers.substack.com

In this episode, Omar Usman discusses the importance of having an Akhirah mindset in personal and professional development. He explores the impact of intention, purpose, and passion in goal-setting and achievement, emphasizing the significance of accountability and the Akhirah perspective in daily actions.Timestamps: 01:27 The Intersection of Personal Development, Leadership, and Islamic Mindset03:40 The Dunya and Akhirah Paradigm09:44 Prophetic Leadership vs. Mainstream Leadership17:06 Passion vs. Purpose: A New Perspective21:00 The Problem with Grandiosity31:53 Life Hacks and Book RecommendationsAbout Omar Usman:Omar Usman is a corporate professional, certified project manager, and leadership trainer. He is a founding member of Qalam Institute and has served in different leadership capacities with numerous local and national Islamic organizations. He is a khateeb in his local community and teaches regularly around the country on the topics of leadership, social media, and conducts public speaking training. He is also the author of the book Fiqh of Social Media.Connect with Omar Usman:SubstackWebsiteFacebookTwitterYouTubePodcastResources Mentioned:Fiqh of Social Media by Omar Usman4,000 Weeks by Oliver Berkman:Atomic Habits by James ClearQalam InstituteStreaks AppSign up to the Muslim Life Hackers newsletter: https://muslimlifehackers.substack.comListen to the Podcast: Apple Podcast Spotify Connect with Muslim Life Hackers: Instagram Twitter TikTok Facebook Connect with Mifrah Mahroof: Instagram Tiktok 🏖️ This episode is sponsored by Sisters Explore, a company I founded to offer guided small-group travel for Muslim women to connect, explore, and enjoy faith-centered journeys. Learn more at http://www.sisters-explore.com Disclaimer: Some links in this description are affiliate links. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit muslimlifehackers.substack.com