New Dad Order

Breakfast Cereal, 90s Nostalgia, Saturday Morning Cartoons, Sugar Smacks, Frosted Flakes, Lucky Charms, Apple Jacks, and Corn Pops — in this episode of the New Dad Order Podcast, Ray and Parfait take you back to the golden days of childhood when cereal and cartoons ruled Saturday mornings.The hosts start by declaring their favorite childhood cereals: Sugar Smacks (both agree it was their number one pick). From there, the cereal debate heats up with Apple Jacks, Corn Pops, and the ever-popular Frosted Flakes. They laugh about whether Wheaties were just Corn Flakes in a different box, share hot takes on why Lucky Charms marshmallows weren’t really marshmallows, and admit that some cereals like Cookie Crisp were “too much” even for kids.Classic cereal mascots also get a shoutout — Tony the Tiger, Toucan Sam, and the Trix Rabbit — as the guys remember how commercials influenced what ended up in the pantry. They dive into retro cereals tied to cartoons like Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles, Ghostbusters, and Batman, all of which were just Lucky Charms knockoffs with different marshmallow shapes.The episode blends cereal rankings, funny debates, childhood stories, and retro advertising nostalgia, making it a perfect listen for anyone who grew up in the 1980s, 1990s, or early 2000s. Whether you loved sugary cereals, healthy cereals like Cheerios, or gimmick cereals tied to cartoons, you’ll find yourself nodding along — or arguing in your head about which box was truly the best.By the end, both hosts realize they actually agreed on way too much (especially their love for Sugar Smacks and Frosted Flakes) and invite listeners to share their own favorite cereals in the comments.📩 Reach Out:Jerrard:📧 Email: jmparfait@gmail.com📱 Instagram: @itsparfaitRay:📧 Email: rbelvin91@gmail.com💤 Sleep & Recovery:Melatonin-Free Sleep & Recovery for Peak Fitness👉 Hit this link and use promo code: NDOZZZ🔗 https://thirdzy.com/⚡ Energy Boost:Need a new energy drink? Try Dubby Energy!👉 Use this link and discount code automatically applies🔗 https://www.dubby.gg/discount/NEWDADORDER?ref=fhfcqotb🌐 Find Us Online:Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/newdadorderpodcast1Spotify:🎧 Listen on SpotifyTikTok:https://www.tiktok.com/@newdadorderMelatonin-Free Sleep & Recovery for Peak fitness-Hit this link and use our promo code-NDOZZZhttps://thirdzy.com/Need a new energy drink get Dubby Energy!https://www.dubby.gg/discount/NEWDADORDER?ref=fhfcqotbWe are also on the following sites:Instagram-https://www.instagram.com/newdadorderpodcast1Spotify-https://creators.spotify.com/pod/show/ray-belvin/episodes/No-Regrets-on-using-Life-360--Eat-whats-cooked--NDO5-family-podcast-motivation-art-jre-e31pdc6tiktok-https://www.tiktok.com/@newdadorderTime Stamp0:00-intro 1:15-Thirdzy Ad 02:18-We start the discussion on favorite cereal-Sugar Smacks 2:46-Applejacks 3:10-Corn pops 3:33-Lucky Charms 4:02-Cartoons made likeness cereals 5:24-Frosted Flakes 6:05-Corn Flakes 6:36-Wheaties 7:26-Frosted mini wheat 8:10-Rays personal Mandela Effect 8:38-Cheerios 8:50-Frootloops 9:41-Rice krispies 9:50-Fruity/ cocoa pebbles 11:09-Trix 12:41-Cookie Crisp 13:53-Reese’s Puffs 14:09-cinnamon toast crunch 15:05-Captain Crunch 15:18-cereal commercials 17:03-Crunch Berries 17:56-honey bunches of oats 18:02-Life cereal 18:38- Dubby Ad 19:11-Life cereals Origin of name 20:03-Special K 20:13-Raisin Bran 21:54-Drinking milk after eating cereal 23:10-Drinking milk with dinner 25:16-couldn’t debate cereal because we liked the same ones 26:19-outro

Jerrad and Ray breakdown some of their origin story and talking about being older dads and through those experiences how we are raising our kids.This conversation explores the profound intersections between parenting, faith, and family dynamics, with a strong emphasis on youth sports and coaching philosophy. It reflects on the challenges and rewards of navigating family life while balancing personal passions, such as sports and fitness. The discussion highlights the importance of discipline, growth, and emotional maturity in both parenting and coaching, and how shared experiences in sports can strengthen relationships. It touches on the impact of travel sports, the influence of the ego in youth athletics, and the journey of embracing health-conscious lifestyle changes as a dad. Ultimately, it reveals the transformative power of learning through exploration, discovery, and the lessons sports teach about life, teamwork, and growth.Special thanks to Man Overseas Podcast-Brad Dantonio https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcastReach out to Jerrad or RayJerrad-Jmparfait@gmail.comJerrad-IG is ‪@itsparfait‬ Ray-rbelvin91@gmail.com

In this episode of New Dad Order, Ray and Parfait break down the Super Bowl from every angle — the defensive battle on the field, the controversial Bad Bunny halftime show, and the redemption arc of Sam Darnold going from draft disappointment to Super Bowl champion.Was the game really boring… or just old-school football? Did the halftime show deserve the social media outrage? And is Roger Goodell quietly pushing the NFL toward a global takeover with international games in Paris and Australia?The conversation also dives into:• Sam Darnold’s comeback journey and NFL draft expectations• NFL global expansion and what it means for players• Super Bowl commercials and marketing trends• AI misinformation, media narratives, and online outrage cultureFrom football analysis to cultural commentary, this episode unpacks how the Super Bowl has become more than just a game — it’s a cultural event that sparks debate long after the final whistle.New Dad Order brings real conversations about sports, fatherhood, media, and modern culture — without the script.🎙️ Subscribe, follow, and join the conversation.✦ Sponsored ByBurns Estate Planning & Wealth AdvisorsPresident & CEO: Ernie M. Burns, Jr.Master Certified Estate Planner (MCEP®)Forbes Top Financial Security Professional in Louisiana (2022 & 2023)Author of Total Retirement: A Step-By-Step Educational GuideHost of Total Retirement with Ernie Burns🌐 Website: https://burnsestateplanning.com📧 Email: marketing@burnsestateplanning.com✦ Business Inquiries📧 rbelvin91@gmail.com✦ Podcast HostsJerrard Parfait📧 jmparfait@gmail.com📱 Instagram: @itsparfaitRay Belvin📧 rbelvin91@gmail.com✦ Partners & Discounts💤 Sleep & RecoveryMelatonin-Free Sleep SupportPromo Code: NDOZZZ🔗 https://thirdzy.com/⚡ Energy BoostDubby Energy — Discount Applied Automatically🔗 https://www.dubby.gg/discount/NEWDADORDER?ref=fhfcqotb✦ New Dad Order — Official Links📸 Instagramhttps://www.instagram.com/newdadorderpodcast1🎧 Spotifyhttps://open.spotify.com/show/4Zi2b2lmVbAr1m8mhHhjOK🎵 TikTokhttps://www.tiktok.com/@newdadorder🍎 Apple Podcastshttps://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/new-dad-order/id1849310124🎙️ Amazon Musichttps://music.amazon.com/podcasts/ba418c03-7313-46c7-ae75-8dc55122a082/new-dad-order

Is the new high-protein food pyramid a real step toward better health—or just the next marketing scam?In this episode of the New Dad Order Podcast, the hosts start with music, workouts, and unexpected Bruno Mars appreciation before diving headfirst into a raw, honest conversation about nutrition, protein diets, processed food, and corporate influence .As protein becomes the latest health buzzword, the guys question whether this shift is actually helping people—or setting us up for another wave of ultra-processed “healthy” foods. From protein ice cream and protein bars to fast-food “high-protein meals,” the episode breaks down how food companies use labels to create the illusion of health, echoing the low-fat craze of the 1990s that replaced fat with sugar and fillers.The conversation expands into how big agriculture and food lobbyists shaped the original food pyramid, pushing grain-heavy diets that never aligned with real health outcomes. From there, the episode takes a hard look at Big Pharma, GLP-1 weight loss drugs, and the growing trend of using medication as a shortcut instead of a tool. The hosts argue that real change comes from education, accountability, and lifestyle discipline, not just prescriptions.Different diet approaches—including the carnivore diet, vegetarianism, and veganism—are discussed with nuance, emphasizing that extreme diets can work when done correctly, but protein intake, nutrient balance, and informed decision-making are essential no matter the path.Listeners also get practical, real-world advice: why shopping the perimeter of the grocery store leads to better food choices, how to spot misleading labels, and how tools like the Yuka app can help identify unhealthy ingredients hiding behind wellness branding.And because this is New Dad Order, the episode wraps with humor and chaos—including a heated, ongoing debate over whether oatmeal raisin cookies are underrated classics or absolute trash.If you care about health, fitness, protein diets, food industry manipulation, weight loss culture, and making smarter nutrition choices, this episode delivers insight, laughs, and plenty of unfiltered opinions.🎧 Listen now, follow the show, and drop a comment—especially if you’re brave enough to defend oatmeal raisin cookies.✦ Sponsored ByBurns Estate Planning & Wealth AdvisorsPresident & CEO: Ernie M. Burns, Jr.Master Certified Estate Planner (MCEP®)Forbes Top Financial Security Professional in Louisiana (2022 & 2023)Author of Total Retirement: A Step-By-Step Educational GuideHost of Total Retirement with Ernie Burns🌐 Website: https://burnsestateplanning.com📧 Email: marketing@burnsestateplanning.com✦ Business Inquiries📧 rbelvin91@gmail.com✦ Podcast HostsJerrard Parfait📧 jmparfait@gmail.com📱 Instagram: @itsparfaitRay Belvin📧 rbelvin91@gmail.com✦ Partners & Discounts💤 Sleep & RecoveryMelatonin-Free Sleep SupportPromo Code: NDOZZZ🔗 https://thirdzy.com/⚡ Energy BoostDubby Energy — Discount Applied Automatically🔗 https://www.dubby.gg/discount/NEWDADORDER?ref=fhfcqotb✦ New Dad Order — Official Links📸 Instagramhttps://www.instagram.com/newdadorderpodcast1🎧 Spotifyhttps://open.spotify.com/show/4Zi2b2lmVbAr1m8mhHhjOK🎵 TikTokhttps://www.tiktok.com/@newdadorder🍎 Apple Podcastshttps://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/new-dad-order/id1849310124🎙️ Amazon Musichttps://music.amazon.com/podcasts/ba418c03-7313-46c7-ae75-8dc55122a082/new-dad-order✦ Keywords / Hashtags#Fatherhood #ModernFatherhood #MensMentalHealth #DadLife #NewDadOrder

In this episode of New Dad Order, we have an honest and unfiltered conversation about modern fatherhood and why so many dads quietly feel invisible in their families, marriages, and daily lives.Fatherhood today often comes with clear expectations: provide, protect, and stay strong. But what rarely gets discussed is the emotional weight that comes with those roles. We dive into men’s mental health, dad identity, stepfather challenges, and the unspoken reality that many fathers feel unseen even while doing everything right.The episode explores how children naturally gravitate toward their mother for comfort and how that dynamic can leave dads questioning their emotional value. We also talk about why a father’s relationship with his kids doesn’t automatically evolve — it requires intentional effort, presence, and shared experiences as children grow.Through personal stories and reflection, we break down the quiet resentment, self-doubt, and emotional isolation that dads often carry in silence. More importantly, we discuss how fathers can rebuild connection, stay engaged, and find clarity in their role without losing themselves in the process.This conversation is for new dads, stepfathers, and experienced fathers who want stronger relationships with their kids, healthier communication, and a deeper understanding of their place in the family.🎧 If you’ve ever felt unseen as a dad — this episode will resonate.Keywords: fatherhood, modern fatherhood, dads feel invisible, men’s mental health, dad identity, stepfather role, parenting for dads, emotional fatherhood, New Dad OrderTimestamp00:00 – Intro01:30 - Why So Many Dads Feel Invisible02:10 – The Quiet Emotional Struggle of Fatherhood05:00 – When Providing Isn’t Enough08:10 – Stepping Into a Ready-Made Family11:15 – Finding Your Role as a Dad or Stepfather14:20 – Why Kids Always Go to Mom First17:10 – Men, Emotions, and Staying Silent20:00 – How Father-Child Relationships Must Evolve23:00 – Becoming Visible Again as a Dad25:30 – Final Thoughts on Modern Fatherhood✦ Sponsored ByBurns Estate Planning & Wealth AdvisorsPresident & CEO: Ernie M. Burns, Jr.Master Certified Estate Planner (MCEP®)Forbes Top Financial Security Professional in Louisiana (2022 & 2023)Author of Total Retirement: A Step-By-Step Educational GuideHost of Total Retirement with Ernie Burns🌐 Website: https://burnsestateplanning.com📧 Email: marketing@burnsestateplanning.com✦ Business Inquiries📧 rbelvin91@gmail.com✦ Podcast HostsJerrard Parfait📧 jmparfait@gmail.com📱 Instagram: @itsparfaitRay Belvin📧 rbelvin91@gmail.com✦ Partners & Discounts💤 Sleep & RecoveryMelatonin-Free Sleep SupportPromo Code: NDOZZZ🔗 https://thirdzy.com/⚡ Energy BoostDubby Energy — Discount Applied Automatically🔗 https://www.dubby.gg/discount/NEWDADORDER?ref=fhfcqotb✦ New Dad Order — Official Links📸 Instagramhttps://www.instagram.com/newdadorderpodcast1🎧 Spotifyhttps://open.spotify.com/show/4Zi2b2lmVbAr1m8mhHhjOK🎵 TikTokhttps://www.tiktok.com/@newdadorder🍎 Apple Podcastshttps://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/new-dad-order/id1849310124🎙️ Amazon Musichttps://music.amazon.com/podcasts/ba418c03-7313-46c7-ae75-8dc55122a082/new-dad-order

Burnout is quietly affecting more dads than ever—and many don’t realize they’re experiencing it. In this episode of New Dad Order, we break down the six key signs of dad burnout, including emotional exhaustion, irritability, lack of motivation, detachment, poor sleep, and neglecting self-care.Through real-life stories and honest conversation, we explore how burnout develops over time through work stress, health issues, parenting pressure, and the loss of personal identity. This isn’t about laziness or weakness—it’s about carrying too much for too long without proper recovery.We also discuss how burnout impacts relationships at home, why dads often ignore the warning signs, and what practical steps can help restore balance, including better sleep, communication, decompression, and personal reflection.If you’ve been feeling constantly tired, overwhelmed, or unlike yourself lately, this episode will help you recognize burnout early and take steps toward protecting your mental health and well-being as a dad.✦ About Ernie Burns & Burns Estate Planning & Wealth AdvisorsPresident & CEO: Ernie M. Burns, Jr.Master Certified Estate Planner (MCEP®)Forbes Top Financial Security Professional in Louisiana – 2022 & 2023Author: Total Retirement: A Step-By-Step Educational GuideHost: Total Retirement with Ernie Burns – airing weekly across Louisiana, Florida & Alabama✦ Contact InformationToll-Free: 800-308-4416Louisiana: 985-345-7114Florida: 850-855-4890Alabama: 251-378-9822Fax: 985-345-7124Email: marketing@burnsestateplanning.comWebsite: burnsestateplanning.comOffice Locations: Hammond (HQ), Mandeville, Metairie, Baton Rouge (LA); Destin, Panama City Beach, Pensacola, Tallahassee, West Palm Beach, Jacksonville (FL); Spanish Fort (AL).Social Media:Facebook: Burns Estate Planning & Wealth AdvisorsLinkedIn: Burns Estate Planning & Wealth AdvisorsYouTube: Burns Estate Planning & Wealth Advisors#NewDadOrder #Podcast 📩 Reach Out:Jerrard:📧 Email: jmparfait@gmail.com📱 Instagram: @itsparfaitRay:📧 Email: rbelvin91@gmail.com💤 Sleep & Recovery:Melatonin-Free Sleep & Recovery for Peak Fitness👉 Hit this link and use promo code: NDOZZZ🔗 https://thirdzy.com/⚡ Energy Boost:Need a new energy drink? Try Dubby Energy!👉 Use this link and discount code automatically applies🔗 https://www.dubby.gg/discount/NEWDADORDER?ref=fhfcqotb🌐 Find Us Online:Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/newdadorderpodcast1Spotify:🎧 https://open.spotify.com/show/4Zi2b2lmVbAr1m8mhHhjOK?si=l6HluKZ8Rs2Fxt6WJAVy9QTikTok:https://www.tiktok.com/@newdadorderApple broadcast:https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/new-dad-order/id1849310124Amazon Music:https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/ba418c03-7313-46c7-ae75-8dc55122a082/new-dad-order

In this episode of New Dad Order, the hosts sit down for an honest, wide-ranging conversation about the state of America, global power, and the narratives shaping public opinion. What starts with a brief discussion on the NFL and leadership quickly evolves into deeper topics surrounding immigration enforcement, media influence, artificial intelligence, and U.S. foreign policy.A central focus of the episode is ICE operations within the United States, including recent activity in Louisiana and Minneapolis. Through personal stories and firsthand observations, the hosts explore the fear and uncertainty felt by U.S. citizens and legal residents—particularly within Latino communities—when immigration enforcement appears indiscriminate. While acknowledging the need for law enforcement to address real threats, the conversation emphasizes a clear principle: when innocent people are harmed or detained, it’s one too many.The discussion also examines how modern media shapes perception, often prioritizing emotional narratives and political division over context and facts. From viral headlines to symbolic “poster-child” storytelling, the hosts question whether outrage has become more profitable than truth. They also break down how “whataboutism” and tribal politics shut down productive conversation rather than encouraging understanding.On the global stage, the episode touches on Venezuela, Nicolás Maduro, AI-generated videos, and online military simulations, raising questions about U.S. power, geopolitical interests, and the role of money, oil, and influence in international conflicts. Rather than offering simple answers, the hosts challenge listeners to think critically about why certain actions are taken—and who benefits from them.The episode closes with reflections on parenting, civic responsibility, and intellectual honesty. Rejecting blind loyalty to political parties or public figures, the hosts stress the importance of questioning authority, seeking facts, and teaching the next generation how to think independently in an increasingly polarized world.This episode isn’t about picking sides — it’s about asking better questions.✦ About Ernie Burns & Burns Estate Planning & Wealth AdvisorsPresident & CEO: Ernie M. Burns, Jr.Master Certified Estate Planner (MCEP®)Forbes Top Financial Security Professional in Louisiana – 2022 & 2023Author: Total Retirement: A Step-By-Step Educational GuideHost: Total Retirement with Ernie Burns – airing weekly across Louisiana, Florida & Alabama✦ Contact InformationToll-Free: 800-308-4416Louisiana: 985-345-7114Florida: 850-855-4890Alabama: 251-378-9822Fax: 985-345-7124Email: marketing@burnsestateplanning.comWebsite: burnsestateplanning.comOffice Locations: Hammond (HQ), Mandeville, Metairie, Baton Rouge (LA); Destin, Panama City Beach, Pensacola, Tallahassee, West Palm Beach, Jacksonville (FL); Spanish Fort (AL).Social Media:Facebook: Burns Estate Planning & Wealth AdvisorsLinkedIn: Burns Estate Planning & Wealth AdvisorsYouTube: Burns Estate Planning & Wealth AdvisorsFor Business Opportunities please reach out to Ray at rbelvin91@gmail.com📩 Reach Out:Jerrard:📧 Email: jmparfait@gmail.com📱 Instagram: @itsparfaitRay:📧 Email: rbelvin91@gmail.com💤 Sleep & Recovery:Melatonin-Free Sleep & Recovery for Peak Fitness👉 Hit this link and use promo code: NDOZZZ🔗 https://thirdzy.com/⚡ Energy Boost:Need a new energy drink? Try Dubby Energy!👉 Use this link and discount code automatically applies🔗 https://www.dubby.gg/discount/NEWDADORDER?ref=fhfcqotb🌐 Find Us Online:Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/newdadorderpodcast1Spotify:🎧 https://open.spotify.com/show/4Zi2b2lmVbAr1m8mhHhjOK?si=l6HluKZ8Rs2Fxt6WJAVy9QTikTok:https://www.tiktok.com/@newdadorderApple broadcast:https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/new-dad-order/id1849310124Amazon Music:https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/ba418c03-7313-46c7-ae75-8dc55122a082/new-dad-order

In this powerful episode of New Dad Order, Ray and Parfait dive into why New Year’s resolutions so often fail—and what actually makes fathers, husbands, and families better over time. Instead of empty promises made on January 1st, this episode focuses on discipline, presence, and leadership inside the home.Parfait shares how his biggest life change didn’t happen because of a New Year’s resolution. In August of 2024, he decided to take control of his health, losing over 25 pounds, working out consistently, and rebuilding his discipline. That decision—made in the middle of the year—proved that lasting change happens when a man commits, not when a calendar changes. The same principle applies to fatherhood.A major theme of the episode is leading by example. Kids don’t become who we tell them to be—they become who they see. When a father shows discipline, consistency, and effort every day, that becomes a child’s definition of what “normal” looks like. The conversation also turns to one of the biggest challenges modern dads face: being present. Both Ray and Parfait admit that phones, distractions, and mental fatigue often steal attention away from their kids. Even when a child is telling a simple story about recess or a kickball game, that moment matters. Those small conversations build trust, and that trust is what allows kids to come to their parents when life gets harder later on.Another important focus is creating real family time. Ray shares how rediscovering family game nights over the holidays reminded him how powerful simple connection can be. Playing cards, laughing, competing, and talking creates memories that last far longer than scrolling on a screen or watching TV together.The episode also highlights the importance of emotional availability and maturity. Being able to say “I was wrong,” to apologize, and to listen without defensiveness builds stronger relationships between parents and children. Finally, Ray explains why it’s critical for kids to feel safe coming to their parents no matter what. Whether they’ve made a mistake or are in a dangerous situation, knowing they can call home without fear may be the difference between safety and tragedy. ✦ About Ernie Burns & Burns Estate Planning & Wealth AdvisorsPresident & CEO: Ernie M. Burns, Jr.Master Certified Estate Planner (MCEP®)Forbes Top Financial Security Professional in Louisiana – 2022 & 2023Author: Total Retirement: A Step-By-Step Educational GuideHost: Total Retirement with Ernie Burns – airing weekly across Louisiana, Florida & Alabama✦ Contact InformationToll-Free: 800-308-4416Louisiana: 985-345-7114Florida: 850-855-4890Alabama: 251-378-9822Fax: 985-345-7124Email: marketing@burnsestateplanning.comWebsite: burnsestateplanning.comOffice Locations: Hammond (HQ), Mandeville, Metairie, Baton Rouge (LA); Destin, Panama City Beach, Pensacola, Tallahassee, West Palm Beach, Jacksonville (FL); Spanish Fort (AL).Social Media:Facebook: Burns Estate Planning & Wealth AdvisorsLinkedIn: Burns Estate Planning & Wealth AdvisorsYouTube: Burns Estate Planning & Wealth Advisors#NewDadOrder #Podcast 📩 Reach Out:Jerrard:📧 Email: jmparfait@gmail.com📱 Instagram: @itsparfaitRay:📧 Email: rbelvin91@gmail.com💤 Sleep & Recovery:Melatonin-Free Sleep & Recovery for Peak Fitness👉 Hit this link and use promo code: NDOZZZ🔗 https://thirdzy.com/⚡ Energy Boost:Need a new energy drink? Try Dubby Energy!👉 Use this link and discount code automatically applies🔗 https://www.dubby.gg/discount/NEWDADORDER?ref=fhfcqotb🌐 Find Us Online:Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/newdadorderpodcast1Spotify:🎧 https://open.spotify.com/show/4Zi2b2lmVbAr1m8mhHhjOK?si=l6HluKZ8Rs2Fxt6WJAVy9QTikTok:https://www.tiktok.com/@newdadorderApple broadcast:https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/new-dad-order/id1849310124Amazon Music:https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/ba418c03-7313-46c7-ae75-8dc55122a082/new-dad-order

Navy veteran and father of three Charles Lyle shares his deeply personal story of resilience, faith, and rebuilding life after trauma, loss, and military service. From growing up in the aftermath of Hurricane Katrina to serving as a Navy airman, Charles reveals how adversity shaped both the man and the father he has become.Charles describes how Katrina destroyed his childhood in Bay St. Louis, Mississippi, forcing his family to evacuate and permanently uprooting his life. The storm didn’t just destroy homes — it fractured friendships, routines, and stability. That early trauma later fueled his drive to compete in football, eventually leading him to play college football at Pearl River Community College and East Mississippi Community College, where he played under Coach Buddy Stevens just before the Netflix series Last Chance U began.After leaving football, Charles chose a harder path: military service. He joined the U.S. Navy, becoming an aviation loadmaster flying missions across the globe on C-130 aircraft, transporting cargo and people to places like Japan, South Korea, Guam, and Papua New Guinea. While the Navy gave him discipline and purpose, Charles reveals the harsh truth about what happens when veterans leave the service. Despite years of service, he faced financial collapse, and job rejection while trying to support his growing family.At the same time, Charles was navigating unimaginable grief. His father spent 47 days in the hospital before passing away after complications from diabetes and amputation. While grieving, Charles was also betrayed by a business partner, losing his ownership stake in a construction company he helped build — a moment that nearly broke him emotionally and financially.Today, Charles has rebuilt his life working in construction and roofing, helping families recover after hurricanes and disasters — a fitting mission for someone who once lost everything to one. As a husband and father of three, he now channels his past pain into purpose, raising his children with discipline, love, and unwavering faith in God.Get in Touch with Charles:TikTok-Charles_RoofsFacebook-@charleslyleFacebook-@choicevineroofingWebsite-Choicevineroofing.com ✦ About Ernie Burns & Burns Estate Planning & Wealth AdvisorsPresident & CEO: Ernie M. Burns, Jr.Master Certified Estate Planner (MCEP®)Forbes Top Financial Security Professional in Louisiana – 2022 & 2023Author: Total Retirement: A Step-By-Step Educational GuideHost: Total Retirement with Ernie Burns – airing weekly across Louisiana, Florida & Alabama✦ Contact InformationToll-Free: 800-308-4416Louisiana: 985-345-7114Florida: 850-855-4890Alabama: 251-378-9822Fax: 985-345-7124Email: marketing@burnsestateplanning.comWebsite: burnsestateplanning.comOffice Locations: Hammond (HQ), Mandeville, Metairie, Baton Rouge (LA); Destin, Panama City Beach, Pensacola, Tallahassee, West Palm Beach, Jacksonville (FL); Spanish Fort (AL).Social Media:Facebook: Burns Estate Planning & Wealth AdvisorsLinkedIn: Burns Estate Planning & Wealth AdvisorsYouTube: Burns Estate Planning & Wealth Advisors#NewDadOrder #Podcast 📩 Reach Out:Jerrard:📧 Email: jmparfait@gmail.com📱 Instagram: @itsparfaitRay:📧 Email: rbelvin91@gmail.com💤 Sleep & Recovery:Melatonin-Free Sleep & Recovery for Peak Fitness👉 Hit this link and use promo code: NDOZZZ🔗 https://thirdzy.com/⚡ Energy Boost:Need a new energy drink? Try Dubby Energy!👉 Use this link and discount code automatically applies🔗 https://www.dubby.gg/discount/NEWDADORDER?ref=fhfcqotb🌐 Find Us Online:Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/newdadorderpodcast1Spotify:🎧 https://open.spotify.com/show/4Zi2b2lmVbAr1m8mhHhjOK?si=l6HluKZ8Rs2Fxt6WJAVy9QTikTok:https://www.tiktok.com/@newdadorderApple broadcast:https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/new-dad-order/id1849310124Amazon Music:https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/ba418c03-7313-46c7-ae75-8dc55122a082/new-dad-order

New Dad Order – Episode 37 is a thoughtful, wide-ranging conversation about modern fatherhood, youth sports, resilience, and intentional parenting, featuring the real-life experiences of a former Division I athlete, attorney, coach, and dads. The episode explores how early life lessons, career pressure, natural disasters, and sports culture shape the way men show up as fathers today. The discussion begins with youth sports and the complicated decision many fathers face about whether to coach their own children. Drawing from firsthand experience in competitive football environments, the episode highlights the importance of fundamentals, safety, fairness, and emotional maturity in coaching kids. It directly addresses common problems like favoritism and “daddy ball,” emphasizing that youth sports should prioritize character development, teamwork, and confidence over winning or parental ego. From there, the conversation expands into the long-term impact of athletics on personal growth. Lessons learned through high-level football—discipline, accountability, leadership, and time management—are reframed through the lens of parenting. The episode connects sports culture to fatherhood, showing how habits formed on the field often influence how dads approach structure, expectations, and communication at home. A major theme of the episode is resilience, particularly parenting through instability and crisis. The family’s experience surviving Hurricane Katrina, losing their home, living displaced for months, and later enduring Hurricane Ida provides a powerful backdrop for discussing emotional safety, adaptability, and how children process trauma. The episode explores how disruption affects kids differently at various ages and why parents must balance honesty, reassurance, and emotional presence during uncertain times. Rather than advocating rigid parenting rules, the episode promotes a philosophy centered on guidance, course correction, and respect. Parenting is framed as an evolving process—one that requires awareness of developmental stages, empathy, and accountability without authoritarianism. Contact Attorney Tony Maska:Email him at Anthonymaska@gmail.com✦ About Ernie Burns & Burns Estate Planning & Wealth AdvisorsPresident & CEO: Ernie M. Burns, Jr.Master Certified Estate Planner (MCEP®)Forbes Top Financial Security Professional in Louisiana – 2022 & 2023Author: Total Retirement: A Step-By-Step Educational GuideHost: Total Retirement with Ernie Burns – airing weekly across Louisiana, Florida & Alabama✦ Contact InformationToll-Free: 800-308-4416Louisiana: 985-345-7114Florida: 850-855-4890Alabama: 251-378-9822Fax: 985-345-7124Email: marketing@burnsestateplanning.comWebsite: burnsestateplanning.comOffice Locations: Hammond (HQ), Mandeville, Metairie, Baton Rouge (LA); Destin, Panama City Beach, Pensacola, Tallahassee, West Palm Beach, Jacksonville (FL); Spanish Fort (AL).Social Media:Facebook: Burns Estate Planning & Wealth AdvisorsLinkedIn: Burns Estate Planning & Wealth AdvisorsYouTube: Burns Estate Planning & Wealth Advisors#NewDadOrder #Podcast 📩 Reach Out:Jerrard:📧 Email: jmparfait@gmail.com📱 Instagram: @itsparfaitRay:📧 Email: rbelvin91@gmail.com💤 Sleep & Recovery:Melatonin-Free Sleep & Recovery for Peak Fitness👉 Hit this link and use promo code: NDOZZZ🔗 https://thirdzy.com/⚡ Energy Boost:Need a new energy drink? Try Dubby Energy!👉 Use this link and discount code automatically applies🔗 https://www.dubby.gg/discount/NEWDADORDER?ref=fhfcqotb🌐 Find Us Online:Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/newdadorderpodcast1TikTok:https://www.tiktok.com/@newdadorderApple broadcast:https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/new-dad-order/id1849310124Amazon Music:https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/ba418c03-7313-46c7-ae75-8dc55122a082/new-dad-order

In this episode, Ray and Parfait dive deep into the real meaning of failure, discipline, and doing hard things—and how these principles shape success in sports, business, parenting, and everyday life. They break down why people fear failure, why excuses become our biggest obstacle, and how building discipline through small daily challenges leads to long-term growth.Sports becomes a central metaphor throughout the episode. Ray and Parfait talk about coaching, competition, and how a “win the next pitch” mentality helps kids (and adults) bounce back quickly. They highlight the difference between getting beat by someone better versus beating yourself with avoidable mistakes. Both agree that sports teach powerful life skills—accountability, resilience, and learning to analyze what went wrong instead of getting emotional about it.A major theme is discipline vs. comfort. Parfait shares his personal mission to “do something hard every day,” whether it’s CrossFit at 4 a.m., road biking, learning new hobbies, or pushing past the desire to coast. Ray reflects on his own struggles with discipline, especially around fitness and self-accountability. They call out how easily adults make excuses—especially hiding behind “I don’t have time”—when in reality, discipline is a choice.Parenting also enters the conversation with a powerful framework: Parfait’s new journaling practice with his son. Each day, his son writes down something hard, something easy, something he wants to improve, and something kind he did for someone else. The goal? Teach kids to identify challenges, build self-awareness, and develop emotional discipline.Faith plays a role as well. Ray opens up about making Scripture reading his “hard thing,” highlighting how spiritual discipline is often more difficult than physical discipline because it requires patience, humility, and sustained focus.The episode closes with a discussion around youth sports culture and the controversial idea of “playing to get better, not to win.” Ray and Parfait push back—believing you practice to get better and play to win, because winning requires effort, teamwork, and high standards. They end with the reminder that practice makes progress, not perfection, and the key to improvement is consistently choosing the hard thing over the easy one.✦ About Ernie Burns & Burns Estate Planning & Wealth AdvisorsPresident & CEO: Ernie M. Burns, Jr.Master Certified Estate Planner (MCEP®)Forbes Top Financial Security Professional in Louisiana – 2022 & 2023Author: Total Retirement: A Step-By-Step Educational GuideHost: Total Retirement with Ernie Burns – airing weekly across Louisiana, Florida & Alabama✦ Contact InformationToll-Free: 800-308-4416Louisiana: 985-345-7114Florida: 850-855-4890Alabama: 251-378-9822Fax: 985-345-7124Email: marketing@burnsestateplanning.comWebsite: burnsestateplanning.comOffice Locations: Hammond (HQ), Mandeville, Metairie, Baton Rouge (LA); Destin, Panama City Beach, Pensacola, Tallahassee, West Palm Beach, Jacksonville (FL); Spanish Fort (AL).Social Media:Facebook: Burns Estate Planning & Wealth AdvisorsLinkedIn: Burns Estate Planning & Wealth AdvisorsYouTube: Burns Estate Planning & Wealth Advisors#NewDadOrder #Podcast 📩 Reach Out:Jerrard:📧 Email: jmparfait@gmail.com📱 Instagram: @itsparfaitRay:📧 Email: rbelvin91@gmail.com💤 Sleep & Recovery:Melatonin-Free Sleep & Recovery for Peak Fitness👉 Hit this link and use promo code: NDOZZZ🔗 https://thirdzy.com/⚡ Energy Boost:Need a new energy drink? Try Dubby Energy!👉 Use this link and discount code automatically applies🔗 https://www.dubby.gg/discount/NEWDADORDER?ref=fhfcqotb🌐 Find Us Online:Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/newdadorderpodcast1Spotify:🎧 https://open.spotify.com/show/4Zi2b2lmVbAr1m8mhHhjOK?si=l6HluKZ8Rs2Fxt6WJAVy9QTikTok:https://www.tiktok.com/@newdadorderApple broadcast:https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/new-dad-order/id1849310124

In Episode 30 of the New Dad Order Podcast, hosts Ray and Parfait dive into the unspoken rules of emotional intelligence, and conversation skills. The episode opens with a relatable truth—how men often default to saying “I’m good” even when they’re not. It’s a cultural shorthand for emotional restraint, politeness, and control, but it can also isolate men from real connection. The hosts explore how social conditioning makes men less likely to express vulnerability and more likely to keep conversations surface-level.Small Talk and Social ConfidenceThe conversation shifts to small talk—the “elevator speech” moments that define first impressions. Ray and Parfait share humorous stories from retail jobs, where polite interactions often turned into oversharing sessions. They dissect the difference between genuine connection and social obligation, offering practical advice for men who struggle with social anxiety or party settings. Ray admits he’s not the life of the party, but he’s learned techniques to navigate unfamiliar rooms. His go-to strategy? Find common ground. He uses sports (especially Saints and LSU football) as easy conversation entry points, then pivots into personal stories or shared experiences. Their takeaway: being interesting is really about being curious. Ask questions, look for context clues—like family photos or travel pictures—and invite others to talk about themselves.Debate, and Emotional ControlThe second half of the episode focuses on how men debate, argue, and manage emotions. Ray confesses he often walks away from heated conversations replaying what he “should’ve said,” while Parfait explains his “poker-face” approach: stay calm, lower emotional intensity, and never mirror the other person’s anger. This emotional discipline, is key to effective masculine communication. It’s not about domination—it’s about maintaining composure to earn respect and keep control of the narrative👉 Subscribe for weekly episodes on leadership, parenting, and resilience — real talk for people who want to build strength, not excuses.✦ About Ernie Burns & Burns Estate Planning & Wealth AdvisorsPresident & CEO: Ernie M. Burns, Jr.Master Certified Estate Planner (MCEP®)Forbes Top Financial Security Professional in Louisiana – 2022 & 2023Author: Total Retirement: A Step-By-Step Educational GuideHost: Total Retirement with Ernie Burns – airing weekly across Louisiana, Florida & Alabama✦ Contact InformationToll-Free: 800-308-4416Louisiana: 985-345-7114Florida: 850-855-4890Alabama: 251-378-9822Fax: 985-345-7124Email: marketing@burnsestateplanning.comWebsite: burnsestateplanning.comOffice Locations: Hammond (HQ), Mandeville, Metairie, Baton Rouge (LA); Destin, Panama City Beach, Pensacola, Tallahassee, West Palm Beach, Jacksonville (FL); Spanish Fort (AL).Social Media:Facebook: Burns Estate Planning & Wealth AdvisorsLinkedIn: Burns Estate Planning & Wealth AdvisorsYouTube: Burns Estate Planning & Wealth Advisors🎧 Listen on Spotify: New Dad Order Podcast on Spotify📸 Follow us on Instagram: @newdadorderpodcast1#CharlieKirk #NewDadOrder #Podcast #CharlieKirkMurder #Politics #FreedomOfSpeech📩 Reach Out:Jerrard:📧 Email: jmparfait@gmail.com📱 Instagram: @itsparfaitRay:📧 Email: rbelvin91@gmail.com💤 Sleep & Recovery:Melatonin-Free Sleep & Recovery for Peak Fitness👉 Hit this link and use promo code: NDOZZZ🔗 https://thirdzy.com/⚡ Energy Boost:Need a new energy drink? Try Dubby Energy!👉 Use this link and discount code automatically applies🔗 https://www.dubby.gg/discount/NEWDADORDER?ref=fhfcqotb🌐 Find Us Online:Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/newdadorderpodcast1Spotify:🎧 https://open.spotify.com/show/4Zi2b2lmVbAr1m8mhHhjOK?si=l6HluKZ8Rs2Fxt6WJAVy9QTikTok:https://www.tiktok.com/@newdadorder

In this episode of the Water to Wine Podcast, two dads open up about faith, family, and friendship—and how God often turns the simple, ordinary moments of life into the “good wine” that nourishes our souls. Drawing inspiration from Jesus’ first miracle at Cana, they explore what it means to live out faith not just in church, but in marriage, parenting, and daily relationships.One host shares how joining a Catholic couples’ ministry—the “Together in Holiness” program at a parish in Ponchatoula—has strengthened his marriage and community. The other reflects on an unexpected blessing: discovering an older half-brother and starting a biweekly family Bible study over Zoom. Both stories point to one truth: God moves through community, and the friendships rooted in faith can transform our homes and hearts.This episode reminds listeners that small spiritual habits—like praying with your spouse, taking a nightly walk, or reading Scripture with your kids—can be more powerful than grand gestures. As one host says, “It’s not about the big events; it’s about the daily moments where God meets us.” Together, they highlight Proverbs 3:5–6, encouraging listeners to “trust in the Lord with all your heart,” and Matthew 28:19, calling every believer to live out the Great Commission in their own home.The conversation turns practical as they discuss Christian parenting in today’s culture—teaching kids to know and love Scripture before the world shapes their beliefs. They challenge parents not just to talk about faith but to open the Bible at home and make prayer part of family life. It’s about turning water—our everyday routines—into wine, the spiritual richness of intentional living.👉 Subscribe for weekly episodes on leadership, parenting, and resilience — real talk for people who want to build strength, not excuses.✦ About Ernie Burns & Burns Estate Planning & Wealth AdvisorsPresident & CEO: Ernie M. Burns, Jr.Master Certified Estate Planner (MCEP®)Forbes Top Financial Security Professional in Louisiana – 2022 & 2023Author: Total Retirement: A Step-By-Step Educational GuideHost: Total Retirement with Ernie Burns – airing weekly across Louisiana, Florida & Alabama✦ Contact InformationToll-Free: 800-308-4416Louisiana: 985-345-7114Florida: 850-855-4890Alabama: 251-378-9822Fax: 985-345-7124Email: marketing@burnsestateplanning.comWebsite: burnsestateplanning.comOffice Locations: Hammond (HQ), Mandeville, Metairie, Baton Rouge (LA); Destin, Panama City Beach, Pensacola, Tallahassee, West Palm Beach, Jacksonville (FL); Spanish Fort (AL).Social Media:Facebook: Burns Estate Planning & Wealth AdvisorsLinkedIn: Burns Estate Planning & Wealth AdvisorsYouTube: Burns Estate Planning & Wealth Advisors🎧 Listen on Spotify: New Dad Order Podcast on Spotify📸 Follow us on Instagram: @newdadorderpodcast1📲 More socials coming soon…#CharlieKirk #NewDadOrder #Podcast #CharlieKirkMurder #Politics #FreedomOfSpeech📩 Reach Out:Jerrard:📧 Email: jmparfait@gmail.com📱 Instagram: @itsparfaitRay:📧 Email: rbelvin91@gmail.com💤 Sleep & Recovery:Melatonin-Free Sleep & Recovery for Peak Fitness👉 Hit this link and use promo code: NDOZZZ🔗 https://thirdzy.com/⚡ Energy Boost:Need a new energy drink? Try Dubby Energy!👉 Use this link and discount code automatically applies🔗 https://www.dubby.gg/discount/NEWDADORDER?ref=fhfcqotb🌐 Find Us Online:Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/newdadorderpodcast1Spotify:🎧 https://open.spotify.com/show/4Zi2b2lmVbAr1m8mhHhjOK?si=l6HluKZ8Rs2Fxt6WJAVy9QTikTok:https://www.tiktok.com/@newdadorderMelatonin-Free Sleep & Recovery for Peak fitness-Hit this link and use our promo code-NDOZZZhttps://thirdzy.com/Need a new energy drink get Dubby Energy!https://www.dubby.gg/discount/NEWDADORDER?ref=fhfcqotb

Is America getting too soft to defend itself — or even raise resilient kids? In this episode, Ray and Parfait break down Pete Hegseth’s passionate warning about soft culture, weak leadership, and fading standards. They connect his message to everyday parenting, youth sports, and the modern military, asking the hard question: Can a soft generation survive in a hard world?From the soccer field to the battlefield, this discussion exposes how lowering standards and protecting kids from failure creates fragile adults. Ray and Parfait share real coaching and parenting experiences that reveal the difference between controlled failure (where growth happens) and uncontrolled collapse (where accountability disappears). Their solution: let kids struggle safely, teach them to take ownership, and rebuild a mindset rooted in discipline, merit, and leadership.They explore how the “participation trophy era” has crept into workplaces and the armed forces alike, eroding excellence in the name of inclusion. The conversation shifts to military readiness, the National Guard’s role, and whether domestic deployments distract from the core mission of warfighting. Along the way, they bring in ideas from Jocko Willink, discussing how real reform brings “collateral damage” but ultimately restores strength and clarity.Whether you’re a parent, coach, veteran, or leader, this conversation challenges you to embrace toughness as a virtue, not a vice. It’s about raising warriors, not victims — and leading with courage in a culture that too often rewards comfort over competence.📌 Timestamps00:00 – Intro & context02:30 – Are we raising tough enough kids?07:00 – Controlled vs. uncontrolled failure13:00 – Leadership in the “quitting moment”18:00 – Participation trophies & workplace softness24:00 – The National Guard & mission drift29:30 – Jocko Willink and “collateral damage”33:30 – Closing thoughts: restoring merit & discipline👉 Subscribe for weekly episodes on leadership, parenting, and resilience — real talk for people who want to build strength, not excuses.✦ About Ernie Burns & Burns Estate Planning & Wealth AdvisorsPresident & CEO: Ernie M. Burns, Jr.Master Certified Estate Planner (MCEP®)Forbes Top Financial Security Professional in Louisiana – 2022 & 2023Author: Total Retirement: A Step-By-Step Educational GuideHost: Total Retirement with Ernie Burns – airing weekly across Louisiana, Florida & Alabama✦ Contact InformationToll-Free: 800-308-4416Louisiana: 985-345-7114Florida: 850-855-4890Alabama: 251-378-9822Fax: 985-345-7124Email: marketing@burnsestateplanning.comWebsite: burnsestateplanning.comOffice Locations: Hammond (HQ), Mandeville, Metairie, Baton Rouge (LA); Destin, Panama City Beach, Pensacola, Tallahassee, West Palm Beach, Jacksonville (FL); Spanish Fort (AL).Social Media:Facebook: Burns Estate Planning & Wealth AdvisorsLinkedIn: Burns Estate Planning & Wealth AdvisorsYouTube: Burns Estate Planning & Wealth Advisors📩 Reach Out:Jerrard:📧 Email: jmparfait@gmail.com📱 Instagram: @itsparfaitRay:📧 Email: rbelvin91@gmail.com💤 Sleep & Recovery:Melatonin-Free Sleep & Recovery for Peak Fitness👉 Hit this link and use promo code: NDOZZZ🔗 https://thirdzy.com/⚡ Energy Boost:Need a new energy drink? Try Dubby Energy!👉 Use this link and discount code automatically applies🔗 https://www.dubby.gg/discount/NEWDADORDER?ref=fhfcqotb🌐 Find Us Online:Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/newdadorderpodcast1Spotify:🎧 https://open.spotify.com/show/4Zi2b2lmVbAr1m8mhHhjOK?si=l6HluKZ8Rs2Fxt6WJAVy9QTikTok:https://www.tiktok.com/@newdadorderMelatonin-Free Sleep & Recovery for Peak fitness-Hit this link and use our promo code-NDOZZZhttps://thirdzy.com/Need a new energy drink get Dubby Energy!https://www.dubby.gg/discount/NEWDADORDER?ref=fhfcqotb

In this episode, the hosts break down Pete Hegseth’s fiery 45-minute speech to military generals, focusing on standards, leadership, and the future of the U.S. military. The unscripted and passionate delivery impressed both hosts, who argue it was one of the clearest calls to action on restoring accountability and readiness in today’s armed forces.Core TakeawaysRaise Standards, Not Lower Them: Hegseth stresses fitness, grooming, and discipline as key indicators of readiness. The hosts agree—arguing that enforcing high standards across all ranks, including generals, ensures combat preparedness.Toxic Leadership Defined: Promotions based on quotas instead of merit undermine trust and capability. The phrase “toxic leadership is adhering to low standards” resonates strongly throughout the discussion.Grievances & Accountability: One host cautions that dismissing “grievances” could silence real misconduct victims, while the other emphasizes that weak standards already slipped down a “slippery slope.”DEI & Quotas: Heated debate arises over diversity, equity, and inclusion. The concern: quota-driven promotions risk discrediting qualified leaders, especially minority officers, by framing them as “DEI hires.”Masculinity & Vigilance: The hosts connect military readiness to everyday life—discussing situational awareness, protecting family, and the “strong men create good times, weak men create hard times” cycle.Notable Moments“Small things matter”—beards, haircuts, and uniforms signal discipline and order.Praise for holding generals to the same fitness tests as enlisted soldiers: “Thank you for your service… it’s time to move on” if they can’t pass.Rebranding the Pentagon back to the “War Department” as a reminder of its true mission.Practical family protection tips: seating in restaurants, footwear choices, and positioning loved ones safely in public spaces.Where They DifferTrump Shout-outs: Some parts of Hegseth’s speech—like references to Donald Trump—felt unnecessary and more like ego-stroking than substance.Balance of Standards vs. Protection: Tension between enforcing hardline standards and ensuring legitimate complaints (like assault or abuse) aren’t buried.✦ About Ernie Burns & Burns Estate Planning & Wealth AdvisorsPresident & CEO: Ernie M. Burns, Jr.Master Certified Estate Planner (MCEP®)Forbes Top Financial Security Professional in Louisiana – 2022 & 2023Author: Total Retirement: A Step-By-Step Educational GuideHost: Total Retirement with Ernie Burns – airing weekly across Louisiana, Florida & Alabama✦ Contact InformationToll-Free: 800-308-4416Louisiana: 985-345-7114Florida: 850-855-4890Alabama: 251-378-9822Fax: 985-345-7124Email: marketing@burnsestateplanning.comWebsite: burnsestateplanning.comOffice Locations: Hammond (HQ), Mandeville, Metairie, Baton Rouge (LA); Destin, Panama City Beach, Pensacola, Tallahassee, West Palm Beach, Jacksonville (FL); Spanish Fort (AL).Social Media:Facebook: Burns Estate Planning & Wealth AdvisorsLinkedIn: Burns Estate Planning & Wealth AdvisorsYouTube: Burns Estate Planning & Wealth Advisors📩 Reach Out:Jerrard:📧 Email: jmparfait@gmail.com📱 Instagram: @itsparfaitRay:📧 Email: rbelvin91@gmail.com💤 Sleep & Recovery:Melatonin-Free Sleep & Recovery for Peak Fitness👉 Hit this link and use promo code: NDOZZZ🔗 https://thirdzy.com/⚡ Energy Boost:Need a new energy drink? Try Dubby Energy!👉 Use this link and discount code automatically applies🔗 https://www.dubby.gg/discount/NEWDADORDER?ref=fhfcqotb🌐 Find Us Online:Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/newdadorderpodcast1Spotify:🎧 https://open.spotify.com/show/4Zi2b2lmVbAr1m8mhHhjOK?si=l6HluKZ8Rs2Fxt6WJAVy9QTikTok:https://www.tiktok.com/@newdadorderMelatonin-Free Sleep & Recovery for Peak fitness-Hit this link and use our promo code-NDOZZZhttps://thirdzy.com/Need a new energy drink get Dubby Energy!https://www.dubby.gg/discount/NEWDADORDER?ref=fhfcqotb

This episode examines three of the most talked-about stories of 2025: the Charlie Kirk assassination, the suspension of Jimmy Kimmel, and the debate over deploying the National Guard in New Orleans.The conversation begins with the shocking assassination of Charlie Kirk, a moment that shook the political landscape and intensified national concerns about political violence. The episode explores not only the facts of the case but also the media reaction and the way the story has been framed across different outlets.Attention then turns to the suspension of Jimmy Kimmel, following his controversial remarks connected to Kirk’s death. This segment asks whether the incident reflects the persistence of cancel culture or a more straightforward case of accountability. The blurred line between free speech, public consequences, and claims of censorship is analyzed within the broader context of America’s ongoing culture wars.From there, the focus shifts to crime and policing in New Orleans, where leaders are debating whether the National Guard should assist local police. The proposal comes despite reports that violent crime has declined by nearly 20% in 2025. The episode highlights the tension between statistics showing progress and political moves suggesting crisis, questioning what it means to normalize troop patrols in U.S. cities.The discussion raises several broader questions:Has the phrase cancel culture lost meaning in today’s debates, or is it still useful for understanding cultural clashes?What role should accountability play when celebrities and media figures make controversial statements?How should the U.S. respond to crime in cities where trends are improving but public trust remains shaky?Does deploying the military in American neighborhoods strengthen public safety or signal deeper problems in governance and policing?Throughout the episode, these stories are connected to larger themes of political polarization, cultural tension, and public safety. The result is a timely and thought-provoking breakdown of how politics, media, and security collide in America in 2025.0:00-intro 0:49-Show intro 1:19-Lost faith in humanity? 1:29-thirdly ad 4:14-We talk about Jimmy Kimmel 9:43-Disneys decision 11:44-Letterman fan 13:30-Not a lot watching late night tv 14:11-Conspiracy theories 14:39 -Same thoughts from previous episode on Charlie Kirk? 16:39-Dubby Ad 17:20-Don’t talk about your faith 21:43-Propaganda monologue 22:22-National Guard discussion 35:00-Wrap up🎧 Listen on Spotify: New Dad Order Podcast on Spotify📸 Follow us on Instagram: @newdadorderpodcast1#CharlieKirk #NewDadOrder #Podcast #CharlieKirkMurder #Politics #FreedomOfSpeech📩 Reach Out:Jerrard:📧 Email: jmparfait@gmail.com📱 Instagram: @itsparfaitRay:📧 Email: rbelvin91@gmail.com💤 Sleep & Recovery:Melatonin-Free Sleep & Recovery for Peak Fitness👉 Hit this link and use promo code: NDOZZZ🔗 https://thirdzy.com/⚡ Energy Boost:Need a new energy drink? Try Dubby Energy!👉 Use this link and discount code automatically applies🔗 https://www.dubby.gg/discount/NEWDADORDER?ref=fhfcqotb🌐 Find Us Online:Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/newdadorderpodcast1Spotify:🎧 https://open.spotify.com/show/4Zi2b2lmVbAr1m8mhHhjOK?si=l6HluKZ8Rs2Fxt6WJAVy9QTikTok:https://www.tiktok.com/@newdadorder✦ Contact Information Burns Estate PlanningToll-Free: 800-308-4416Louisiana: 985-345-7114Florida: 850-855-4890Alabama: 251-378-9822Fax: 985-345-7124Email: marketing@burnsestateplanning.comWebsite: burnsestateplanning.comOffice Locations: Hammond (HQ), Mandeville, Metairie, Baton Rouge (LA); Destin, Panama City Beach, Pensacola, Tallahassee, West Palm Beach, Jacksonville (FL); Spanish Fort (AL).Social Media:Facebook: Burns Estate Planning & Wealth AdvisorsLinkedIn: Burns Estate Planning & Wealth AdvisorsYouTube: Burns Estate Planning & Wealth Advisors

In this episode of the New Dad Order Podcast, Ray and Parfait dive into the shocking murder of Charlie Kirk — a polarizing figure in American politics and social media.We talk about:👉 His rise from college campus debates to internet fame👉 Why so many people either loved him or hated him👉 The role social media played in his career (and his downfall)👉 Our honest opinions on his impact, legacy, and the tragedy surrounding his death👉 How freedom of speech, division, and echo chambers shaped the conversation around himThis one’s a little different in tone, but we wanted to give our real reactions and have an open conversation without the political extremes. Whether you agreed with Charlie Kirk or not, there’s no denying his influence.Hit LIKE, SUBSCRIBE, and drop a comment below 👇 — Did Charlie Kirk’s debates ever change your mind about anything, or did they just fuel the division?🎧 Listen on Spotify: New Dad Order Podcast on Spotify📸 Follow us on Instagram: @newdadorderpodcast1📲 More socials coming soon…#CharlieKirk #NewDadOrder #Podcast #CharlieKirkMurder #Politics #FreedomOfSpeech📩 Reach Out:Jerrard:📧 Email: jmparfait@gmail.com📱 Instagram: @itsparfaitRay:📧 Email: rbelvin91@gmail.com💤 Sleep & Recovery:Melatonin-Free Sleep & Recovery for Peak Fitness👉 Hit this link and use promo code: NDOZZZ🔗 https://thirdzy.com/⚡ Energy Boost:Need a new energy drink? Try Dubby Energy!👉 Use this link and discount code automatically applies🔗 https://www.dubby.gg/discount/NEWDADORDER?ref=fhfcqotb🌐 Find Us Online:Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/newdadorderpodcast1Spotify:🎧 https://open.spotify.com/show/4Zi2b2lmVbAr1m8mhHhjOK?si=l6HluKZ8Rs2Fxt6WJAVy9QTikTok:https://www.tiktok.com/@newdadorderMelatonin-Free Sleep & Recovery for Peak fitness-Hit this link and use our promo code-NDOZZZhttps://thirdzy.com/Need a new energy drink get Dubby Energy!https://www.dubby.gg/discount/NEWDADORDER?ref=fhfcqotbWe are also on the following sites:Instagram-https://www.instagram.com/newdadorderpodcast1Spotify-https://open.spotify.com/show/4Zi2b2lmVbAr1m8mhHhjOK?si=l6HluKZ8Rs2Fxt6WJAVy9Qtiktok-https://www.tiktok.com/@newdadorder

In Episode 23 of the New Dad Order podcast, Ray and Parfait dive into the funniest, strangest, and most absurd house rules and parenting myths they grew up with. From weird family traditions to childhood superstitions, the episode unpacks the rules parents swore were true but turned out to be nothing more than myths or scare tactics.The Strangest House RulesSome rules were practical, but others made no sense at all. One example was the “no shoes and no socks inside” rule, meant to keep the house clean but taken to an extreme. Another? No sleeping past 8 AM on weekends, because sleeping in was seen as being “lazy.” Families also enforced no singing at the table, no eating in the living room, and the classic “don’t use the nice towels or soap” reserved for guests only.Parenting Myths We All HeardRay and Parfait laugh about the myths nearly every kid was told:“Don’t swallow gum, it stays in your stomach for 7 years.”“No swimming after eating for 30 minutes.”“Turn off the car’s dome light—it’s illegal.”“Sit too close to the TV and you’ll go blind.”These myths weren’t just funny—they shaped how kids behaved, even though none of them were true.Childhood Superstitions and Family BeliefsThe hosts also share unique cultural superstitions. One rule claimed that whistling indoors invited ghosts. Another tradition suggested rubbing a potato on a wart and burying it to make it disappear. Families even believed that planting a baby’s umbilical cord stump by rose bushes would make the flowers bloom more beautifully.Outdated Safety RulesThe episode highlights how safety was viewed differently back then. Many kids rode in the back of pickup trucks or skipped wearing seatbelts in the back seat because parents thought it was safe. Others were told that wearing the seatbelt incorrectly could “cut you in half” during an accident—another scare tactic with no truth.Why These Rules Stick With UsWhile most of these childhood rules and myths turned out to be false, they remain memorable because of how often parents repeated them. Some were rooted in caution (like not swallowing gum), while others were just cultural traditions passed down without question.Today, parents laugh at how absurd these rules sound but also reflect on how they shaped childhood experiences. Whether it was drinking from the garden hose, turning lights off to “save money,” or avoiding “guest towels,” these weird family rules and parenting myths became part of growing up.👉 If you love stories about funny parenting rules, childhood myths, and family superstitions, this episode of the New Dad Order podcast is packed with nostalgia, humor, and a reminder that sometimes the strangest rules make the best memories.📩 Reach Out:Jerrard:📧 Email: jmparfait@gmail.com📱 Instagram: @itsparfaitRay:📧 Email: rbelvin91@gmail.com💤 Sleep & Recovery:Melatonin-Free Sleep & Recovery for Peak Fitness👉 Hit this link and use promo code: NDOZZZ🔗 https://thirdzy.com/⚡ Energy Boost:Need a new energy drink? Try Dubby Energy!👉 Use this link and discount code automatically applies🔗 https://www.dubby.gg/discount/NEWDADORDER?ref=fhfcqotb🌐 Find Us Online:Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/newdadorderpodcast1Spotify:🎧 https://open.spotify.com/show/4Zi2b2lmVbAr1m8mhHhjOK?si=l6HluKZ8Rs2Fxt6WJAVy9QTikTok:https://www.tiktok.com/@newdadorderMelatonin-Free Sleep & Recovery for Peak fitness-Hit this link and use our promo code-NDOZZZhttps://thirdzy.com/Need a new energy drink get Dubby Energy!https://www.dubby.gg/discount/NEWDADORDER?ref=fhfcqotbWe are also on the following sites:Instagram-https://www.instagram.com/newdadorderpodcast1Spotify-https://open.spotify.com/show/4Zi2b2lmVbAr1m8mhHhjOK?si=l6HluKZ8Rs2Fxt6WJAVy9Qtiktok-https://www.tiktok.com/@newdadorder

How do you know if your child is dealing with fake friends at school? In this episode of New Dad Order, Ray and Parfait dive deep into the realities of childhood friendships, parenting struggles, and the hard lessons kids face when friends turn toxic.As parents, we want our kids to grow up surrounded by real friends who uplift them, not fake friends who use, criticize, or tear them down. But spotting the difference isn’t always easy—especially in elementary and middle school, when cliques, jealousy, and peer pressure start to shape your child’s social life.In this conversation, we break down the 7 signs of fake friends every parent should know:Only reaching out when they need somethingCriticizing instead of upliftingTalking behind your backDismissing your feelings or dreamsMimicking your interests for the wrong reasonsGetting jealous of your winsLeaving you drained after hanging outAlong the way, Ray and Parfait share real parenting experiences about guiding kids through friendship struggles, school drama, and balancing sports, academics, and personal hobbies. From helping your child handle toxic friendships to teaching them how to be a true friend themselves, this episode is full of practical parenting tips, relatable stories, and encouragement for families.We also cover:How to protect your kids from fake friends without sheltering themThe right way to talk to your child about jealousy, criticism, and gossipBuilding resilience and empathy so kids can thrive socially and emotionallyWhy friendship struggles are part of growing up—and how parents can guide their kids through themWhether your child is facing toxic friendships in school, struggling with losing a best friend, or just starting to navigate the ups and downs of childhood friendships, this episode gives you the tools to help them spot the red flags and build stronger, healthier relationships.If you’re a parent who wants actionable parenting advice on friendships, fake friends, and helping kids grow socially, this one’s for you.👉 Don’t forget to Like, Comment, and Subscribe for more conversations on parenting, kids, and real-life family struggles.Time Stamps:00:00-intro 01:27-Thirdzy Ad 01:56-Friend talk 12:19-When do friends separate? 14:33-7 things fake friends do 14:43-#1 Friend needs me when he needs something 17:58- #2-Criticize more than uplift 20:49-#3-friends who talk behind their back 23:16-Dubby Ad 23:56-#4-they dismiss your feelings or make fun of your dreams 27:30-#5-They mimic your interest 29:02-#6-Jealous of your wins 31:02-#7-You feel drained after hanging out 33:00-How do we teach our kids not to be fake friends 37:50-outro📩 Reach Out:Jerrard:📧 Email: jmparfait@gmail.com📱 Instagram: @itsparfaitRay:📧 Email: rbelvin91@gmail.com💤 Sleep & Recovery:Melatonin-Free Sleep & Recovery for Peak Fitness👉 Hit this link and use promo code: NDOZZZ🔗 https://thirdzy.com/⚡ Energy Boost:Need a new energy drink? Try Dubby Energy!👉 Use this link and discount code automatically applies🔗 https://www.dubby.gg/discount/NEWDADORDER?ref=fhfcqotb🌐 Find Us Online:Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/newdadorderpodcast1Spotify:🎧 https://open.spotify.com/show/4Zi2b2lmVbAr1m8mhHhjOK?si=l6HluKZ8Rs2Fxt6WJAVy9QTikTok:https://www.tiktok.com/@newdadorderMelatonin-Free Sleep & Recovery for Peak fitness-Hit this link and use our promo code-NDOZZZhttps://thirdzy.com/Need a new energy drink get Dubby Energy!https://www.dubby.gg/discount/NEWDADORDER?ref=fhfcqotbWe are also on the following sites:Instagram-https://www.instagram.com/newdadorderpodcast1Spotify-https://open.spotify.com/show/4Zi2b2lmVbAr1m8mhHhjOK?si=l6HluKZ8Rs2Fxt6WJAVy9Qtiktok-https://www.tiktok.com/@newdadorderThanks to Psych2Go!

Welcome back to the New Dad Order Podcast! In Episode 20, Ray and Parfait take a nostalgic trip down memory lane and revisit the magic of Saturday morning cartoons. From bowls of cereal in front of the TV to heated debates about which shows truly stood the test of time, this episode is packed with laughs, memories, and a healthy dose of dad perspective.We compare the cartoon eras of the 80s vs. 90s, exploring what shows shaped our childhoods, what still holds up today, and how modern kids are missing out on the weekend ritual of waking up early for cartoons. We also dive into wrestling nostalgia, after-school classics, and how streaming has completely changed the game for kids today. What we cover in this episode:Saturday morning routines & the culture around cartoonsWrestling cartoons & WWF memories (Hulk Hogan, Andre the Giant, Iron Sheik)Iconic 90s lineup: ProStars (Michael Jordan, Bo Jackson, Wayne Gretzky), Ghostbusters, Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles 80s favorites: Smurfs, Scooby-Doo, Dungeons & Dragons, Thundercats, G.I. JoeLooney Tunes vs. Flintstones vs. Jetsons – which cartoon holds up the best?Afternoon & after-school shows: DuckTales, Chip & Dale Rescue Rangers, Tiny Toons, Robotech, X-Men Scooby-Doo crossover, and the moment kids realized wrestling wasn’t “real”Comic book crossovers and how Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles went from violent indie comics to kid-friendly Saturday staplesPlus, we share some funny personal stories: growing up on pizza nights, family food traditions, comic collecting, and even which Ninja Turtle was our favorite.🕒 Timestamps00:00 – Intro & Saturday morning nostalgia01:10 – Childhood routines & cartoons02:12 – Wrestling cartoons & WWF memories03:08 – ProStars, Ghostbusters & Ninja Turtles04:17 – Classic 80s cartoons: 06:36 – G.I. Joe toys, cartoons & life lessons08:12 – Pre-workout sponsor shoutout09:08 – Looney Tunes, DuckTales & after-school favorites10:35 – Space Jam & Looney Tunes revival11:34 – Comic book cartoons: Spider-Man, X-Men, Batman12:31 – Hanna-Barbera classics: Captain Caveman, Space Ghost14:00 – Saturday morning wrestling & WWF memories15:26 – Scooby-Doo & WWE crossover16:01 – After-school cartoons: Tiny Toons, Rescue Rangers, Brady Bunch18:19 – Anime influence: Robotech, GeForce & toy culture20:23 – Nickelodeon classics: Rugrats, Doug, Dora22:08 – Baby Shark & kids’ shows today22:58 – Scooby-Doo Jr., Jetsons, Flintstones24:33 – Best cartoons ever? Dungeons & Dragons vs. Ninja Turtles25:56 – Wrestling memories & realizing it was scripted26:30 – Flintstones vs. Looney Tunes27:38 – Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles comic origins29:29 – Favorite Turtles & final reflections29:54 – Closing thoughts & call to actionLike this episode? Don’t forget to LIKE, SUBSCRIBE, and turn on notifications so you never miss a new drop from New Dad Order.📩 Reach Out:Jerrard:📧 Email: jmparfait@gmail.com📱 Instagram: @itsparfaitRay:📧 Email: rbelvin91@gmail.com💤 Sleep & Recovery:Melatonin-Free Sleep & Recovery for Peak Fitness👉 Hit this link and use promo code: NDOZZZ🔗 https://thirdzy.com/⚡ Energy Boost:Need a new energy drink? Try Dubby Energy!👉 Use this link and discount code automatically applies🔗 https://www.dubby.gg/discount/NEWDADORDER?ref=fhfcqotb🌐 Find Us Online:Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/newdadorderpodcast1Spotify:🎧 Listen on SpotifyTikTok:https://www.tiktok.com/@newdadorderMelatonin-Free Sleep & Recovery for Peak fitness-Hit this link and use our promo code-NDOZZZhttps://thirdzy.com/Need a new energy drink get Dubby Energy!https://www.dubby.gg/discount/NEWDADORDER?ref=fhfcqotbWe are also on the following sites:Instagram-https://www.instagram.com/newdadorderpodcast1Spotify-https://creators.spotify.com/pod/show/ray-belvin/episodes/No-Regrets-on-using-Life-360--Eat-whats-cooked--NDO5-family-podcast-motivation-art-jre-e31pdc6tiktok-https://www.tiktok.com/@newdadorder