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Hot girls yap and spill tea here. Myeahhhh
I yap a lot about womanhood, relationships/friendships, parents issues, self love, girl problems. etc
Come catch up with meeeee^^.~
I yap a lot about womanhood, relationships/friendships, parents issues, self love, girl problems. etc
Come catch up with meeeee^^.~
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作为15岁才迎来初潮的超晚发育女孩，感觉我的一辈子都被一种感觉掌控，就是，为什么我永远赶不上趟，总是慢别人好几拍？为什么大家都能走这么快？为什么就我不行？为什么我永远都准备不好？为什么每当我准备好了，舞台已经被拆了？经常假装镇定，告诉自己没事的，大家都有自己的节奏。但是看到年纪比自己小的朋友们一个个都开始变得成熟，变得像大人，比我小几岁就有比我多的工作经验，这种时候又会觉得很孤独。有些人告诉我没事的，但又不愿与我共沉沦；很多人告诉我有事的，但又无法真正说服我。很想赶上，很想合群，不想创造出失望，但又明确无法背叛自己。内心时常也痛苦自己的另类，可另类又荒谬地生出一股抵抗的力量，让人不觉得那么无力，没有抓手。所以！如果赶不上大集，偶们就独美。不想再被迫做莽夫，在没准备好的时候做出从众的选择，毛毛躁躁，最后总是得不偿失。I just wanted to be ready before doing anything.
读大学的时候，绝对的自由像个烫手山芋。捧在手不知所措，只是心知绝不可浪费，心急囫囵吞下，烫得痛苦难言。孤单，绩点，实习，工作……年轻的崩溃和迷茫还烂在肚子里，和山芋搅在一起，变成一坨不可言状的混合物。消化不了也吐不出来。现在长大了，知道如何去应对自由，心怀希望准备好去构建生活，但毕业的那天就像是一场抽调隔板的仪式，然后上头的重石头尽数砸下来：要工作，要婚育，要这个要那个，生存空间不断被挤压。这把年纪还在把自由挂在嘴边好像特别十恶不赦。现实确实不大尽如人意，痛心疾首，遗憾万分，氮素不要放弃！俺就是要自由也要自由的能力！今后每年的resolution都是为这个目标奋斗！
不要为了不冒犯别人而斟言酌语！不要为了避免尴尬而缩手缩脚！新的一年勇敢做自己呀！To be cringe is to be Free!!!xoxo
宝宝，你就是你爸这样的男的. Girl, you ARE an angry man like your Dad. 这绝对是近期听到的最恐怖的鬼故事.最近在外网冲浪，看到这句话叫 “I’ll never marry an angry man like my dad. Girl, YOU ARE an angry man like your Dad.”这期播客是录得最艰难的一期，没有之一。以前录的播客都是之前有过的想法，到今天就已经比较成熟流畅了。今天这个真的是现搓，边想边说，三十分钟的内容来回倒腾了两个小时，而且越说越恐怖。主包作为一个时常爱上层楼，为赋新词强说愁的人，录完今天这期感觉打开了新的虫洞。开始的时候是觉得很讽刺，挺有趣的，想分享一下，结果说着说着整个人的身心都受到了崭新的冲击。好了，封心锁爱，以后我只会讲笑话。
如果你对过去印象印象不深，觉得过得浑浑噩噩，是因为你总压抑自己的情绪。姐妹们Let it outttt! Your feelings matterrr!Pookies it's really important to do those activities like catch up with friends and talk about what have been happened to you recently, or journalling, or talking to yourself. Any form of reiteration and reflection is so important bc you don't know how you feel until you say it out loud, and that's also how memories are formed. Don't think that your feelings or emotions don't matter to anyone, because you should care about yourself at first. YOU ONLY HAVE YOUUUU.Do remember your life and do learn things and grow from the past. That's what it all matters in the enddd.Xoxo, Leer
可惜人生不是书 剧透不了 因为天机不可泄露！
我的友好和微笑都是稀缺资源
江浙沪乖乖女爆笑勇闯柏林果体night club! 本集有众多审美积累，请大家也分享自己的审美积累让主包看看HHHHHHHH
可你甘心吗？反正我是真的不甘心。Like I don't give a f*ck but don't tell me what to do.
My mom be delulu about men after witnessing so many real life tragedies is peak optimism.
I'm so GAGGED by human beings especially those ones on dating apps.
BE YOUR OWN MAMA. Tell yourself to spread your wings and be your own butterfly.
I might actually get married in that f*cking night club believe it or not（挠头*我被审核删了一大堆，如果听着不顺的话就是被卡了
We have a PhD girlie sharing some scientific facts about women From a correct perspective. and also some important facts everyone should know as common sense.ITS NOT THAT HARD.
I fear pursuing happiness is a capitalistic marketing trap. They just trynna rob money from our pockets and its just not true to life. I fear honey.Life has no meaning
STOP trading self-respect for the so-called love that doesn't exist.No one can give you that except for yourself.GIRLS you are JUST ENOUGH by yourself. Have faith in that and fake it until you make it.
So I talked about how affectionate feelings were never introduced to us under the socioeconomic/sociocultural framework that we were put into. I just never saw the chance where affectionate feelings could be blossomed. I'm not saying it's a bad thing. I love it actually.
It's poignant to consider the meaning of male pregnancy to our current reality of being a woman in this patriarchal society.本集参考文献：本集开头阅读的内容来自下面两篇文章：What Is Mpreg? - Cherry, FicsationHow Does Mpreg Work Anyway? - Cherry, FicsationA/B/O: Adventures in Fake Science. - Archive of our ownMPREG: Why do we like the thing?! - Angel Wilson, The Geekiary
So I read my MBTI test results, and that leads to discussions about conforming, frustrations about traditional romantic relationship, fatigue against monotony and stuff....Do you think I should tone down my personality??
I talked about crush and parasocial relationships... It's a little freaky but I do enjoy it...Don't leave me pls
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