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Talk Sex with Annette
Where desire meets disruption—and pleasure becomes power.
Hosted by sex and intimacy coach Annette Benedetti, Talk Sex with Annette is the go-to podcast for bold, unfiltered conversations at the intersection of sexuality, identity, and empowerment.
From kink to connection, self-love to sexual healing, Annette dives into the topics most people are too afraid to touch—with expert guests, raw storytelling, and a feminist lens that challenges shame and reclaims pleasure.
Think smart, sexy, and radically real: this is the cultural conversation around sex that’s long overdue.
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Send us Fan Mail Is he a sex addict — or does he just want it more than you? The term gets thrown around constantly, but most people have no idea what it actually means. In this episode, I sit down with marriage and family therapist Kate Logan — who specializes in compulsive sexual behavior at the Center for Healthy Sex in Los Angeles — to finally draw the line between high libido, kink, and genuine sexual compulsivity. We get into: What separates a sex addict from someone who just really lov...
Send us Fan Mail She's thought about faking it. Statistically, she probably has. Between 58–80% of women have faked an orgasm — not once, but regularly, with partners they actually cared about. Most of those men never knew. If you want to be the exception, this episode is for you. This isn't about blame. It's about understanding what actually creates faking — and the specific things you can do to change it. What you'll learn: ✔ The 6 real reasons women fake it (none of them are what you...
Send us Fan Mail She didn't lose her desire. She quietly quit it. Sex therapist and author Colette Jane Fehr joins Annette to break down why women emotionally and erotically check out of relationships long before anyone notices — and what it actually takes to come back. If you've been going through the motions, or you've watched your partner disappear and had no idea why, this one's for you. In this episode: *What quiet quitting your sex life actually looks like in the bedroom *Why emotiona...
Send us Fan Mail She didn't set out to build a six-figure business. She got pregnant — and discovered one of OnlyFans' most profitable and least talked-about kinks. Australian mom and content creator Emily Mai joins Annette to talk about what actually happens when a woman refuses to become sexually invisible after motherhood. We're getting into pregnancy kinks, lactation content, belly fetishes, and the real psychology behind why society loses its mind when mothers stay sexually embodied — an...
Send us Fan Mail She's thought about it. More than once. Maybe a hundred times. And she's decided you'll never know. Not because she doesn't trust you — because she's been taught her whole life that wanting certain things makes her too much. This episode is about the five kinks women most commonly carry in silence, the shame that keeps them there, and what you can actually do to become someone it feels safe to tell. What you'll learn: ✔ The 5 kinks women fantasize about and rarely share — and...
Send us Fan Mail Most people think relationships fail because someone stopped trying, cheated, or they just picked wrong. But what if relationships follow a predictable pattern — and most of us are sabotaging them at the exact same stage without even knowing it? In this episode, I sit down with Thais Gibson — founder of Personal Development School, bestselling author, and one of the world's leading experts on attachment theory — to break down the six stages every relationship moves through, w...
Send us Fan Mail Most men assume she just doesn't enjoy it. Most women wonder why they want to sometimes and absolutely don't other times. The truth is more interesting — and more fixable — than either of them thinks. In this episode, sex and intimacy coach Annette Benedetti breaks down the psychology and neuroscience behind female desire, and gives you 6 specific, research-backed things you can do to shift the dynamic entirely. This isn't about pressure, persuasion, or performance. It's abou...
Send us Fan Mail What if orgasms were about more than just pleasure? In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, I’m joined by Venus O’Hara—author, sexual wellness expert, and host of the Orgasmic Lifestyle Podcast—to explore the O Method, also known as orgasmic manifestation. We break down: What orgasmic manifestation actually is (and what it isn’t)How sexual energy can be used for intention, confidence, and changeWhy pleasure isn’t just instant gratification—it’s powerHow to start if masturba...
Send us Fan Mail Most advice about sexual attraction is either vague, manipulative, or flat-out wrong. This episode isn’t about tricks, lines, or “alpha” posturing. It’s about what actually creates sexual attraction — in real bodies, real moments, and real connection. In this episode, I break down five specific things that reliably make women feel sexually attracted, based on psychology, nervous-system science, and what women consistently respond to — not what dating culture thinks they...
Send us Fan Mail Touching her breasts should feel erotic — but for a lot of people, it ends up feeling rushed, mechanical, or oddly disconnected. In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, I break down 9 ways to touch her breasts that most guys skip — not because they don’t care, but because no one ever taught them how breast pleasure actually works. We’ll talk about: why grabbing and squeezing too fast shuts her body downhow timing and pressure matter more than intensitywhen nipple stimulatio...
Send us Fan Mail With the Epstein files back in the headlines, many people are noticing a shift in desire and connection. This unscheduled drop explores how collective stories of abuse and betrayal impact the nervous system — and why libido is often the first thing to go quiet when safety feels uncertain. In this episode, we talk about: Why desire can shut down during moments of collective traumaHow the nervous system responds to perceived threatRecognizing triggers as they happen in the body...
Send us Fan Mail Two years ago, this topic became one of my most-listened-to episodes—so we’re bringing it back. In Part 2, I’m joined by two sex-positive women from different age groups to answer the questions men keep asking and go deeper than before. We cover: What women actually think about penis sizeWhy confidence matters more than lengthHow oral, grinding, toys, and anal play often matter more than penetrationCommon mistakes that quietly kill desireReal, practical tips for having ...
Send us Fan Mail In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, I’m breaking down three specific positions that are more orgasm-friendly by design—because they support anatomy, nervous system regulation, and clitoral engagement instead of rushing straight to penetration and hoping for the best. And I want to be clear right from the start: This episode exists because my audience voted for it. Every week, I run a poll on my YouTube channel where you help decide which how-to I cover next. ...
Send us Fan Mail We talk about blowjobs like they’re a performance — like there’s a “right way,” a secret move, or something you’re supposed to magically know. But most advice doesn’t actually make oral sex feel better. It just makes people anxious. In this episode, I’m joined by Girls Gone Deep for a real, explicit, shame-free conversation about giving oral sex that actually feels incredible — without porn scripts, pressure, or performative nonsense. We talk about: – Where confid...
Send us Fan Mail In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, we explore why solo pleasure is becoming a major cultural shift—and how it’s actually improving partnered sex, not replacing it. Joined by Sarah Tomchesson, Certified Intimacy Coach and Director of Marketing at Magic Wand, we break down insights from the 2026 Sexual Wellness Trends Report based on data from 1,000 participants. The findings reveal how solo sex supports desire, confidence, nervous system regulation, and deeper intimacy ...
Send us Fan Mail Losing an erection during intimacy is far more common than people admit — but what you do next is what actually defines great lovers. In this episode, I walk you through exactly what to do when an erection is lost, how to stay confident and connected in the moment, and how to continue sex in a way that still deeply satisfies her. Because sex isn’t penetration-based — it’s presence-based. This is a grounded, science-informed how-to that shows you how to: Respond calmly instead...
Send us Fan Mail Every January, men promise to fix their bodies and stop worrying about performance in bed. But what if trying harder is actually the problem? In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, we dive into the 2026 Sex Reset for Men with sex and relationship coach Caitlin V, host of Good Sex on Discovery+ and HBO Max, and author of Harder, Better, Longer, Stronger. We explore why performance anxiety disrupts confidence, arousal, and connection, how the nervous system plays a bigger ro...
Send us Fan Mail Most people think they know how the clitoris works. They don’t. In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, I break down the one clit move that quietly kills orgasms—and the simple shift that changes everything. We’re talking about why overstimulation backfires, how the nervous system actually responds to touch, and what creates arousal that builds instead of shuts down. If orgasms feel inconsistent, muted, or harder to reach than they used to be, this episode will change...
Send us Fan Mail In 2022, I made a decision that changed my life. I committed to 365 Days of Orgasms — and what began as a personal experiment became a radical return to pleasure, embodiment, and self-trust. In this episode, I’m inviting you into a new version of that journey for 2026: 365 Days of Orgasms: Pleasure Is the Resolution. This is not a challenge. It’s a daily pleasure practice and an erotic journey designed to help you reconnect with your body, your desire, and your sense of a...
Send us Fan Mail When sex starts feeling like work, it’s not because desire is broken. It’s because the body has learned to brace. In this episode, I teach a five-minute pleasure practice that helps the body relax out of performance mode and back into genuine arousal — without pressure, goals, or trying to “make” anything happen. This is the exact kind of practice I’ll be guiding inside 365 Days of Orgasms, my upcoming daily pleasure journey for 2026. You’ll learn: Why many women stop wanting...
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