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The Unapologetic Man Podcast: How to Meet, Attract, and Date More Women
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Learn exactly how to talk to girls, how to approach women, how to get a girlfriend, how to get out of the friend zone, how to get a girl's phone number, how to build attraction, how to master the dating apps, and how to have sex with the women you want — all while becoming the most confident, masculine, and powerful version of yourself.
Hosted by Mark Sing, an elite NLP dating coach for men, this show breaks down everything you need to master seduction, attraction, masculine frame, confidence, communication, mindset, inner game, charisma, social skills, flirting, body language, and emotional control.
Whether you're trying to meet women in real life, improve your online dating game, or finally stop being the "nice guy" and start being the man women chase, you'll discover step-by-step strategies to win with dating, relationships, sex, self-development, success, and confidence — without apology.
Each episode delivers powerful insights drawn from NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming), psychology, evolutionary biology, and social dynamics, teaching you how to command respect, ignite desire, and live like a high-value man.
If you've ever searched "how to attract women," "how to flirt," "how to be confident," or "how to get girls to like you," you've just found your new favorite podcast.
Hosted by Mark Sing, an elite NLP dating coach for men, this show breaks down everything you need to master seduction, attraction, masculine frame, confidence, communication, mindset, inner game, charisma, social skills, flirting, body language, and emotional control.
Whether you're trying to meet women in real life, improve your online dating game, or finally stop being the "nice guy" and start being the man women chase, you'll discover step-by-step strategies to win with dating, relationships, sex, self-development, success, and confidence — without apology.
Each episode delivers powerful insights drawn from NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming), psychology, evolutionary biology, and social dynamics, teaching you how to command respect, ignite desire, and live like a high-value man.
If you've ever searched "how to attract women," "how to flirt," "how to be confident," or "how to get girls to like you," you've just found your new favorite podcast.
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In this hard-hitting throwback episode of The Unapologetic Man Podcast, host Mark Sing breaks down one of his most effective methods for creating a seamless, natural first kiss, the Slide and Kiss Method. This strategy is designed for moments where attraction is clearly present, but the kiss hasn't happened organically yet, and you need to confidently lead things forward without killing the vibe. Mark explains why the first kiss should feel spontaneous and memorable, how to properly read a woman's signals before escalating, and why men must lead while still calibrating to her level of interest. Using real-world experience, humor, and step-by-step instruction, he walks you through exactly how to execute this method in a way that feels confident, masculine, and smooth, while still allowing room to abort if the timing isn't right. Key Takeaways: - How to recognize clear signs that a woman wants to be kissed. - The step-by-step breakdown of Mark's patented Slide and Kiss Method. - How to recover smoothly if your timing is off. - Why women act as the "barometer" for escalation and timing. Key Timestamps: [00:00:00] – Injury update and episode context [00:00:41] – Introduction to the Slide and Kiss technique [00:01:38] – Why natural, spontaneous kisses are superior [00:03:20] – Reading attraction and knowing when to escalate [00:05:49] – The Slide and Kiss Method explained [00:10:45] – How to properly execute the kiss [00:12:00] – The 80/100 rule and technique recap [00:15:41] – Why this method is so effective [00:18:24] – Episode Outro Connect With Mark: Apply for Mark's 3-Month Coaching Program: https://coachmarksing.com/coaching/ Check Out The Perks Program: https://coachmarksing.com/perks/ Email: CoachMarkSing@Gmail.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coachmarksing/ Grab Mark's Free Program: The Approach Formula - https://www.CoachMarkSing.com/The-Approach-Formula About The Unapologetic Man Podcast The Unapologetic Man Podcast is your resource for mastering dating, attraction, and relationships from a confident, masculine perspective. Hosted by Mark Sing, this podcast gives men the tools and mindset shifts needed to succeed in their dating lives and build lasting, high-value relationships. #DatingAdvice #FirstKiss #MasculineConfidence #Attraction #DatingStrategy #Escalation #UnapologeticMan #MensConfidence #SelfImprovement
In this special throwback episode of The Unapologetic Man Podcast, host Mark Sing shares a raw, real-time update after breaking his hip, undergoing major surgery, and temporarily losing the ability to walk. Rather than letting the setback take him out, Mark uses it as a live case study in masculine perspective, resilience, and leadership under pressure. In this episode, Mark breaks down how powerful men dominate adversity by controlling their mindset, reframing calamities as growth catalysts, and refusing to collapse into victimhood when life hits hard. Using personal experience, philosophy, and real-world examples, he explains how challenges forge character, why suffering is unavoidable, and how choosing the right perspective determines whether hardship breaks you—or builds you into a stronger man. Key Takeaways: - Why life's worst moments are often your greatest growth opportunities. - How controlling your perspective determines your strength as a man. - Why suffering is unavoidable—but victimhood is optional. - How adversity builds character, confidence, and masculine presence. Key Timestamps: [00:00:00] – Injury update and episode context [00:03:16] – Perspective as a masculine skill [00:05:44] – Calamity, growth, and character building [00:11:02] – How life's struggles can benefit you [00:14:22] – Choosing strength over victimhood [00:20:40] – You attract what you think [00:23:48] – Episode Outro Connect With Mark: Apply for Mark's 3-Month Coaching Program: https://coachmarksing.com/coaching/ Check Out The Perks Program: https://coachmarksing.com/perks/ Email: CoachMarkSing@Gmail.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coachmarksing/ Grab Mark's Free Program: The Approach Formula - https://www.CoachMarkSing.com/The-Approach-Formula About The Unapologetic Man Podcast The Unapologetic Man Podcast is your resource for mastering dating, attraction, and relationships from a confident, masculine perspective. Hosted by Mark Sing, this podcast gives men the tools and mindset shifts needed to succeed in their dating lives and build lasting, high-value relationships. #MasculineMindset #MentalToughness #Resilience #Leadership #FrameControl #SelfDevelopment #UnapologeticMan #Perspective #PersonalGrowth #Men'sMentality
In this hard-hitting episode of The Unapologetic Man Podcast, host Mark Sing breaks down 3 advanced frame control mind hacks that instantly separate beta men from real leaders in dating, attraction, and life. Frame control isn't a trick, it's the backbone of masculine presence, and most men destroy attraction without even realizing it by reacting emotionally, explaining themselves, or engaging with the wrong frames. In this episode, Mark shows you how high-value men maintain control by choosing what they engage with and what they ignore, using refusal to engage, strategic ignoring, and no response to shut down tests, flip power dynamics, and build attraction without chasing or qualifying themselves. Key Takeaways: - Why frame control is the foundation of attraction. - How refusing to engage instantly raises your perceived value. - Why ignoring attraction-killing tests builds more desire than responding. - How no response over text flips the power dynamic in your favor. Key Timestamps: [00:00:00] – Episode intro and preview [00:00:34] – 2026 message [00:01:48] – Why frame control is everything [00:06:22] – Refuse to engage (RTE) [00:12:10] – Ignore to control the frame (ITC) [00:19:52] – No response (NR) over text [00:22:32] – Advanced texting mind hack [00:26:12] – Episode Outro Connect With Mark: Apply for Mark's 3-Month Coaching Program: https://coachmarksing.com/coaching/ Check Out The Perks Program: https://coachmarksing.com/perks/ Email: CoachMarkSing@Gmail.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coachmarksing/ Grab Mark's Free Program: The Approach Formula - https://www.CoachMarkSing.com/The-Approach-Formula About The Unapologetic Man Podcast The Unapologetic Man Podcast is your resource for mastering dating, attraction, and relationships from a confident, masculine perspective. Hosted by Mark Sing, this podcast gives men the tools and mindset shifts needed to succeed in their dating lives and build lasting, high-value relationships. #FrameControl #DatingAdviceForMen #MasculineLeadership #AttractionPsychology #ConfidenceWithWomen #UnapologeticMan #SocialDynamics #TextGame #Seduction #DatingMindset
In this epic throwback episode of The Unapologetic Man Podcast, host Mark Sing lays out a proven New Year's Eve game plan for kissing 10+ women in a single night and setting yourself up for far more than just a midnight smooch. New Year's Eve is one of the highest leverage nights of the year for meeting women, and most guys completely waste it by going in cold, staying stuck in their heads, or waiting for "the right moment." In this episode. Mark breaks down exactly how to prepare your mindset, build momentum from the moment you leave your house, and use simple, confident setups that make kissing multiple women feel natural, easy, and drama free. This is not about gimmicks or tricks. It's about state, delivery, and putting yourself in the flow of the night so attraction happens fast. Key Takeaways: - Why New Year's Eve massively amplifies attraction if you approach the night correctly. - How to warm up socially before you ever step into a bar or club. - Why being the social leader instantly separates you from needy, try hard guys. - The exact line Mark uses to secure multiple New Year's kisses after midnight. Key Timestamps: [00:00:00] – Episode intro and preview [00:02:06] – 3 month coaching program review [00:05:54] – How to prepare your mindset before leaving the house [00:07:09] – Warming up with the open and eject technique [00:11:11] – Being the social hub instead of the guy seeking women [00:13:20] – Lining up the midnight kiss [00:15:34] – The exact phrase to get additional kisses after midnight [00:17:05] – Confidence, delivery, and why this works so consistently [00:22:15] – Episode Outro Connect With Mark: Apply for Mark's 3-Month Coaching Program: https://coachmarksing.com/coaching/ Check Out The Perks Program: https://coachmarksing.com/perks/ Email: CoachMarkSing@Gmail.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coachmarksing/ Grab Mark's Free Program: The Approach Formula - https://www.CoachMarkSing.com/The-Approach-Formula About The Unapologetic Man Podcast The Unapologetic Man Podcast is your resource for mastering dating, attraction, and relationships from a confident, masculine perspective. Hosted by Mark Sing, this podcast gives men the tools and mindset shifts needed to succeed in their dating lives and build lasting, high-value relationships. #NewYearsEve #DatingAdviceForMen #AttractionPsychology #ConfidenceWithWomen #MasculineMindset #UnapologeticMan #SocialDynamics #ColdApproach #DatingConfidence #Seduction
In this direct episode of The Unapologetic Man Podcast, host Mark Sing breaks down seven powerful conversational weapons that can rapidly spike a woman's attraction — without relying on canned lines, jokes, or forced humor. If you've ever thought "I don't know what to say to women", this episode is the antidote. Mark goes beyond vague advice like "be funny" or "elicit emotions" and gives you specific, field-tested conversational tools that create emotional engagement, intrigue, and attraction almost immediately. From confident assumptions and emotional hooks to qualification, standards, and psychological alliance-building, this episode shows you how to move conversations out of boredom and into real momentum — fast. Key Takeaways: - Why asking the right emotionally charged questions beats small talk every time. - How confident assumptions (cold reads) instantly increase attraction. - Why making women qualify themselves flips the attraction dynamic in your favor. - How to create a subtle "us vs. them" alliance that bonds her to you psychologically. Key Timestamps: [00:00:00] – Episode intro and preview [00:01:35] – The OQQP Method and reaching the social hook point [00:02:23] – Weapon #1: Spontaneity and reckless storytelling [00:03:02] – Weapon #2: Making assumptions about her (cold reads) [00:04:25] – Weapon #3: What she's secretly proud of [00:06:10] – Weapon #4: State what you don't like [00:07:56] – Weapon #5: Spirituality, meaning, and emotional depth [00:11:54] – Weapon #6: "What would you do without any chance of failure?" [00:12:38] – Weapon #7: Spotting who's authentic (and who isn't) [00:15:04] – Pattern interrupts, alliances, qualification, and attraction [00:19:20] – Bonus opener and final advice [00:20:45] – Episode Outro Connect With Mark: Apply for Mark's 3-Month Coaching Program: https://coachmarksing.com/coaching/ Check Out The Perks Program: https://coachmarksing.com/perks/ Email: CoachMarkSing@Gmail.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coachmarksing/ Grab Mark's Free Program: The Approach Formula - https://www.CoachMarkSing.com/The-Approach-Formula About The Unapologetic Man Podcast The Unapologetic Man Podcast is your resource for mastering dating, attraction, and relationships from a confident, masculine perspective. Hosted by Mark Sing, this podcast gives men the tools and mindset shifts needed to succeed in their dating lives and build lasting, high-value relationships. #ConversationSkills #AttractionPsychology #DatingAdviceForMen #ConfidenceWithWomen #SocialDynamics #MasculineMindset #UnapologeticMan #EmotionalAttraction #ColdReads #Qualification
In this wildly entertaining and unconventional episode of The Unapologetic Man Podcast, host Mark Sing tells a gripping, cinematic story about a prison escape that blends real events with fictionalized storytelling — and reveals how seduction, psychology, and long-term strategy played a critical role in breaking free. Based on true prison escape cases, this episode walks you through a detailed narrative of planning, loyalty, deception, and the psychological dynamics of attraction under extreme circumstances. Mark breaks down how trust is built, how influence works over time, and how understanding human desire can open doors most men never even see. The Youtube Channel I got this story from: PLAN: ESCAPE Key Takeaways: - Why most prison escapes fail — and what actually makes one succeed. - How seduction works as a long-term psychological strategy, not a quick trick. - Why having allies on the outside is essential for any major life escape. - Lessons on loyalty, preparation, and staying calm under pressure. Key Timestamps: [00:00:00] – Episode intro and preview [00:00:23] – This prison escape story is based on real events [00:01:44] – Mark the jewel thief, sentenced to 20 years in jail [00:03:39] – Meeting your bro and forming an unbreakable alliance [00:05:50] – The prison escape plan and tunneling through the ceiling [00:11:30] – Using seduction to gain outside help [00:20:51] – Final escape night and getting out undetected [00:26:30] – The getaway, disguises, and crossing the border [00:29:35] – Aftermath, lessons learned, and final thoughts [00:34:19] – Episode Outro Connect With Mark: Apply for Mark's 3-Month Coaching Program: https://coachmarksing.com/coaching/ Check Out The Perks Program: https://coachmarksing.com/perks/ Email: CoachMarkSing@Gmail.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coachmarksing/ About The Unapologetic Man Podcast The Unapologetic Man Podcast is your resource for mastering dating, attraction, and relationships from a confident, masculine perspective. Hosted by Mark Sing, this podcast gives men the tools and mindset shifts needed to succeed in their dating lives and build lasting, high-value relationships. #PrisonBreakStory #SeductionPsychology #TrueStoryPodcast #SocialEngineering #MasculineStrategy #InfluenceAndPersuasion #ConfidenceWithWomen #UnapologeticMan #MindsetForMen #PsychologicalStorytelling
In this transformative episode of The Unapologetic Man Podcast, host Mark Sing guides you through a full NLP-based hypnosis designed to rewire your confidence, rebuild your self-image, and help you finally feel like a champion around women. This session takes you step-by-step through a deep identity-level visualization process that shifts the way you perceive yourself, your worth, and your potential. By tapping into memory, emotion, physiological anchors, and symbolic imagery, Mark shows you how to create an internal state of self-love and masculine certainty that radiates outward into your dating life. Key Takeaways: - Why men worship women too much, and how it hurts their confidence. - Use symbolic visualization to permanently shift self-worth. - Rebuild confidence at the identity level using NLP principles. - Access emotional states that reprogram your beliefs and self-perception. Key Timestamps: [00:00:00] – Episode intro and preview [00:00:42] – What is Hot Girl Privilege? [00:02:26] – Your success all starts with how you think about yourself [00:04:54] – Your worship of women is irrational, it's all in your mind [00:07:30] – Client testimonial [00:08:20] – Women have it easy compared to you [00:10:34] – 3 Month Coaching Program Testimonial [00:12:02] – Stop overcrediting women's bodies [00:17:29] – Coaching Program Testimonial Pt2 [00:19:41] – The NLP Protocol [00:27:24] – Recap and wrapup [00:29:18] – Episode Outro Connect With Mark: Apply for Mark's 3-Month Coaching Program: https://coachmarksing.com/coaching/ Check Out The Perks Program: https://coachmarksing.com/perks/ Email: CoachMarkSing@Gmail.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coachmarksing/ Grab Mark's Free Program: The Approach Formula - https://www.CoachMarkSing.com/The-Approach-Formula About The Unapologetic Man Podcast The Unapologetic Man Podcast is your resource for mastering dating, attraction, and relationships from a confident, masculine perspective. Hosted by Mark Sing, this podcast gives men the tools and mindset shifts needed to succeed in their dating lives and build lasting, high-value relationships. #DatingAdviceForMen #MasculineEnergy #NLPTechniques #ConfidenceHypnosis #SelfWorthReprogramming #MindsetShift
In this action-packed episode of The Unapologetic Man Podcast, host Mark Sing reveals 20 tested, hilarious, and insanely effective ways to get girls to approach you. Whether you struggle with approach anxiety or just want to spark more curiosity and attraction effortlessly, these methods are guaranteed to give you an edge. Mark breaks down each technique with real-world examples, from wearing mismatched shoes and absurd t-shirts to strategic use of props like golf tees, medals, or even a baby pig. He also shares bonus tactics that push the envelope—costumes, unusual accessories, and playful social cues—that have produced unbelievable results in the field. Key Takeaways: - Make women curious and interested enough to approach you. - Use playful, unexpected "lures" to break the ice naturally. - Harness everyday objects and humorous strategies to create opportunities for interaction. - Tap into social instincts to let women take the first step without sacrificing your masculinity. Key Timestamps: [00:00:00] – Episode intro and preview [00:00:34] – Why women approach and how curiosity works [00:01:13] – Techniques #1–#5: Shirts, tags, mismatched shoes, backpacks [00:04:49] – Techniques #6–#10: Golf tees, watch placement, name tags, threads [00:07:55] – Techniques #11–#15: Funny t-shirts, medals, pens [00:15:06] – Techniques #16–#20: Staff shirts, post-it notes, letting her fix you [00:17:18] – Bonus tactics: Costumes, guitars with liquor, novelty props, pets [00:21:47] – Episode Outro Connect With Mark: Apply for Mark's 3-Month Coaching Program: https://coachmarksing.com/coaching/ Check Out The Perks Program: https://coachmarksing.com/perks/ Email: CoachMarkSing@Gmail.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coachmarksing/ Grab Mark's Free Program: The Approach Formula - https://www.CoachMarkSing.com/The-Approach-Formula About The Unapologetic Man Podcast The Unapologetic Man Podcast is your resource for mastering dating, attraction, and relationships from a confident, masculine perspective. Hosted by Mark Sing, this podcast gives men the tools and mindset shifts needed to succeed in their dating lives and build lasting, high-value relationships. #DatingAdviceForMen #MasculineEnergy #AttractionPsychology #ConfidenceWithWomen #FieldTested #ApproachTips
In this crucial episode of The Unapologetic Man Podcast, host Mark Sing breaks down the crucial concept of frame control and how it separates high-value men from those who get "pussy whipped." You'll learn how to maintain masculine leadership, resist subtle and obvious frame impositions from women, and lead women to fully embrace their feminine energy. Mark explains the difference between frame checks and frame impositions, how women unconsciously test men, and actionable strategies to maintain control without being rigid or cold. He also walks you through the five essential frame control reversals—agree and amplify, misinterpret, reframe, ignore, and reframe into a qualifying question—to turn challenges into opportunities for attraction. Key Takeaways: - How to recognize and resist being pussy whipped. - The difference between frame checks and frame impositions. - Five essential frame control reversals to flip situations in your favor. - How women unconsciously test men and why leading keeps attraction high. - Why masculine leadership boosts her feminine energy, satisfaction, and intimacy Key Timestamps: [00:00:00] – Episode intro and preview [00:00:45] – What it means to be "pussy whipped" and its consequences [00:01:55] – The importance of frame control in seduction [00:03:35] – Frame checks and attraction fundamentals explained [00:06:48] – New topic: Frame impositions [00:11:35] – How to flip frame impositions and maintain the masculine position [00:15:12] – The five essential frame control reversals [00:17:43] – Be socially intelligent, not everything is a frame check! [00:19:15] – Masculinity and femininity [00:22:51] – Episode Outro Connect With Mark: Apply for Mark's 3-Month Coaching Program: https://coachmarksing.com/coaching/ Check Out The Perks Program: https://coachmarksing.com/perks/ Email: CoachMarkSing@Gmail.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coachmarksing/ Grab Mark's Free Program: The Approach Formula - https://www.CoachMarkSing.com/The-Approach-Formula About The Unapologetic Man Podcast The Unapologetic Man Podcast is your resource for mastering dating, attraction, and relationships from a confident, masculine perspective. Hosted by Mark Sing, this podcast gives men the tools and mindset shifts needed to succeed in their dating lives and build lasting, high-value relationships. #DatingAdviceForMen #MasculineEnergy #AttractionPsychology #ConfidenceWithWomen #FrameControl #PussyWhipped
In this essential episode of The Unapologetic Man Podcast, host Mark Sing Mark Sing breaks down his proven step-by-step system for attracting women from the very first conversation. You'll learn how to build intrigue and emotional connection without coming off as desperate or "creepy," and how to lead women to where they want to be led. Mark explains the Four Pillars of Attraction—Frame Control, Value, Sexual Attention, and Qualifying—and introduces his V-Cut Protocol, showing exactly when to escalate and when to hold back. He also shares actionable techniques for storytelling, teasing, role-playing, and making women emotionally invested while staying in control. Key Takeaways: - How to avoid coming on too strong and losing attraction. - Why frame control and value are the foundation of seduction. - When and how to escalate with sexual attention and qualifying. - The V-Cut Protocol for reading her signals and guiding attraction. Key Timestamps: [00:00:00] – Episode intro and preview [00:00:31] – Why most guys get labeled "creepy" [00:01:13] – Frame Control & Value [00:02:23] – The Four Pillars of Attraction Explained [00:05:20] – The V-Cut Protocol explained [00:08:30] – Show her you have options [00:11:50] – Signs of Attraction & Sexual Tension [00:14:29] – Qualifying: Make Her Sell Herself to You [00:19:28] – Recap of The Four Pillars and V-Cut Protocol [00:22:41] – Episode Outro Connect With Mark: Apply for Mark's 3-Month Coaching Program: https://coachmarksing.com/coaching/ Check Out The Perks Program: https://coachmarksing.com/perks/ Email: CoachMarkSing@Gmail.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coachmarksing/ Grab Mark's Free Program: The Approach Formula - https://www.CoachMarkSing.com/The-Approach-Formula About The Unapologetic Man Podcast The Unapologetic Man Podcast is your resource for mastering dating, attraction, and relationships from a confident, masculine perspective. Hosted by Mark Sing, this podcast gives men the tools and mindset shifts needed to succeed in their dating lives and build lasting, high-value relationships. #DatingAdviceForMen #MasculineEnergy #AttractionPsychology #ConfidenceWithWomen #FourPillarsOfAttraction #VcutProtocol
In this powerful episode of The Unapologetic Man Podcast, host Mark Sing Mark breaks down how small shifts in your words, energy, and presence can completely change how people respond to you. You'll discover how influence isn't about manipulation or control — it's about understanding human psychology so deeply that you can guide conversations, build instant trust, and make women feel magnetically drawn to you without even trying. Mark also drops a major announcement about the future of the podcast and what's coming next for the Unapologetic Man army. Key Takeaways: - How subtle psychology shapes attraction and connection. - Why influence begins with your internal state, not what you say. - How to instantly shift a woman's mood and attention. - The difference between authentic persuasion and manipulation. Key Timestamps: [00:00:00] – Episode intro and preview [00:00:27] – Mark's major announcement about the podcast [00:01:58] – "Door In The Face" technique [00:02:41] – Embedded Commands [00:07:30] – Mood Anchoring [00:09:25] – The Double Bind [00:10:50] – Pattern Interrupt [00:14:07] – Short Testimonial from a 3 Month Coaching Graduate [00:16:04] – Anchor Gesture [00:21:03] – Episode Recap and Next Episode Preview Connect With Mark: Apply for Mark's 3-Month Coaching Program: https://coachmarksing.com/coaching/ Check Out The Perks Program: https://coachmarksing.com/perks/ Email: CoachMarkSing@Gmail.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coachmarksing/ Grab Mark's Free Program: The Approach Formula - https://www.CoachMarkSing.com/The-Approach-Formula About The Unapologetic Man Podcast The Unapologetic Man Podcast is your resource for mastering dating, attraction, and relationships from a confident, masculine perspective. Hosted by Mark Sing, this podcast gives men the tools and mindset shifts needed to succeed in their dating lives and build lasting, high-value relationships. #DatingAdviceForMen #MasculineEnergy #AttractionPsychology #ConfidenceWithWomen #NLPForMen #MindsetShift
In this raw episode of The Unapologetic Man Podcast, host Mark Sing opens up about his personal journey — from struggling with panic attacks and agoraphobia to becoming a confident, high-value man and the top NLP-based dating coach in the world. Mark reveals the painful mistakes that shaped his transformation, the key mindset shifts that changed everything, and how any man can reprogram his thoughts and behavior to become the strongest version of himself. Key Takeaways: - The rock-bottom moment that triggered Mark's personal transformation. - The brutal breakup that pushed Mark to confront his own weakness. - How NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming) helped rewire his thoughts to completely eliminate his struggles. - How Mark built The Unapologetic Man Podcast to help other men become absolute masters with women. Key Timestamps: [00:00:00] – Episode intro and preview [00:00:35] – What inspired Mark to share his full story [00:02:30] – Highschool, dating Crystal, and Mark's epiphany about being needy [00:09:17] – Client testimonial: John [00:10:14] – Living in Japan as an English teacher and wedding announcer [00:11:33] – Mark's experience with panic attacks and agoraphobia [00:13:07] – Being deported from Japan, discovering NLP and living in Hawaii [00:15:42] – Moving to California and getting stabbed in the back [00:16:53] – 2 years of non-stop seduction practice [00:17:49] – Moving to Colorado and pursuing a career as a seduction coach [00:22:02] – Starting The Unapologetic Man Podcast with John Anthony [00:25:09] – Email from Thomas [00:25:55] – Final thoughts and next episode preview Connect With Mark: Apply for Mark's 3-Month Coaching Program: https://coachmarksing.com/coaching/ Check Out The Perks Program: https://coachmarksing.com/perks/ Email: CoachMarkSing@Gmail.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coachmarksing/ Grab Mark's Free Program: The Approach Formula - https://www.CoachMarkSing.com/The-Approach-Formula About The Unapologetic Man Podcast The Unapologetic Man Podcast is your resource for mastering dating, attraction, and relationships from a confident, masculine perspective. Hosted by Mark Sing, this podcast gives men the tools and mindset shifts needed to succeed in their dating lives and build lasting, high-value relationships. #DatingAdviceForMen #NLPForMen #MasculineTransformation #ConfidenceWithWomen #HighValueMan #MasculineEnergy #SelfImprovement #TheUnapologeticMan
In this fun and tactical episode of The Unapologetic Man Podcast, host Mark Sing breaks down one of the most effective flirting techniques in the dating game — push/pull. Discover how to create instant attraction by playfully pushing a woman away one moment and pulling her back in the next. Mark explains why this teasing, bantering style works far better than the "just be natural" approach, and how to use it to stand out from every other guy she meets. Key Takeaways: - 10 proven push/pull lines that build intrigue and playful tension. - The psychology behind push/pull and why it triggers attraction. - How to deliver false disqualifiers without sounding like a try-hard. - The "80/100 Rule" and how it keeps your banter perfectly balanced. - The difference between confident teasing and cringe delivery. Key Timestamps: [00:00:00] – Episode intro and preview [00:01:04] – What push/pull really means [00:02:21] – Why "just being natural" makes most guys boring [00:03:21] – The 80/100 Rule explained [00:05:13] – What are false disqualifiers and how to use them [00:06:04] – Be playful, not logical [00:06:51] – 10 Push/Pull Lines to try in real conversations [00:13:45] – Recap of lines [00:15:51] – Final thoughts and next episode preview Connect With Mark: Apply for Mark's 3-Month Coaching Program: https://coachmarksing.com/coaching/ Check Out The Perks Program: https://coachmarksing.com/perks/ Email: CoachMarkSing@Gmail.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coachmarksing/ Grab Mark's Free Program: The Approach Formula - https://www.CoachMarkSing.com/The-Approach-Formula About The Unapologetic Man Podcast The Unapologetic Man Podcast is your resource for mastering dating, attraction, and relationships from a confident, masculine perspective. Hosted by Mark Sing, this podcast gives men the tools and mindset shifts needed to succeed in their dating lives and build lasting, high-value relationships. #DatingAdviceForMen #PushPullTechnique #FlirtingTips #MasculineEnergy #AttractionTriggers #ConfidenceWithWomen #HighValueMan #TheUnapologeticMan
In this powerful episode of The Unapologetic Man Podcast, host Mark Sing reveals how to transform life's challenges into stepping stones for growth, confidence, and unstoppable momentum. By combining mindset mastery, emotional resilience, and grounded masculine principles, Mark shows you how to shift your perspective — seeing every setback not as a wall, but as an invitation to level up. Learn how to use frustration, rejection, and resistance as fuel to push forward and unlock the version of yourself that thrives under pressure. Key Takeaways: - The mindset shift that turns failure into forward motion. - How to extract lessons from every setback and use them as leverage. - Why emotional resilience is the key to masculine confidence. - Simple, actionable strategies to reframe adversity into growth. Key Timestamps: [00:00:00] – Episode intro and preview [00:01:05] – The Pain Gap: Mark's struggles with suffering [00:03:09] – You are the cause of your own suffering [00:05:40] – Those bad things are actually blessings [00:07:55] – There's meaning behind your setbacks [00:08:51] – 95% of your suffering is a self-inflicted negative feedback loop [00:10:42] – Jocko's philosophy on problems [00:11:36] – How Mark leverages his issues to his benefit [00:14:02] – Get out of your own way [00:15:20] – It's easier than you think [00:18:22] – Opportunities are everywhere [00:19:43] – Final insights and episode wrap-up Connect With Mark: Apply for Mark's 3-Month Coaching Program: https://coachmarksing.com/coaching/ Check Out The Perks Program: https://coachmarksing.com/perks/ Email: CoachMarkSing@Gmail.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coachmarksing/ Grab Mark's Free Program: The Approach Formula - https://www.CoachMarkSing.com/The-Approach-Formula About The Unapologetic Man Podcast The Unapologetic Man Podcast is your resource for mastering dating, attraction, and relationships from a confident, masculine perspective. Hosted by Mark Sing, this podcast gives men the tools and mindset shifts needed to succeed in their dating lives and build lasting, high-value relationships. #MindsetShift #OvercomingAdversity #SelfImprovement #MasculineConfidence #Resilience #GrowthMindset #MotivationForMen #HighValueMan
In this hilarious episode of The Unapologetic Man Podcast, host Mark Sing reveals 15 funny and creative ways to answer the classic dating question, "What do you do for a living?". By blending humor, storytelling, and playful teasing, Mark shows how to turn a simple question into a powerful tool for building attraction, intrigue, and establishing frame. Key Takeaways: - The three-part formula that makes answering this question a breeze every time. - How to playfully accuse women of humorous occupations to create fun banter. - How vulnerability, storytelling, and confidence amplify attraction. - How to use humor to make women laugh and spark attraction instantly. Key Timestamps: [00:00:00] – Episode intro and preview [00:00:46] – Just how well-endowed are gorillas exactly? [00:02:07] – Email to get a $500 training packet! [00:04:25] – Intro music copyright claim [00:05:14] – Why you should prepare your answer to "What do you do?" [00:06:35] – Three-part response: funny line, truth, story [00:07:36] – Funny examples you can use [00:10:52] – Telling your real story and sharing vulnerability [00:14:09] – More funny lines: Penguin Valet, Almond Milk Milker [00:19:09] – Accusing women of funny occupations: Ice Cream Man, Taco Bell Burrito Dancer [00:23:43] – Recap and episode wrap-up Connect With Mark: Apply for Mark's 3-Month Coaching Program: https://coachmarksing.com/coaching/ Check Out The Perks Program: https://coachmarksing.com/perks/ Email: CoachMarkSing@Gmail.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coachmarksing/ Grab Mark's Free Program: The Approach Formula - https://www.CoachMarkSing.com/The-Approach-Formula About The Unapologetic Man Podcast The Unapologetic Man Podcast is your resource for mastering dating, attraction, and relationships from a confident, masculine perspective. Hosted by Mark Sing, this podcast gives men the tools and mindset shifts needed to succeed in their dating lives and build lasting, high-value relationships. #DatingAdviceForMen #FunnyPickupLines #AttractionThroughHumor #MasculineConfidence #NLP #HighValueMan #SelfImprovement #DatingTips #HumorInDating
In this powerful episode of The Unapologetic Man Podcast, host Mark Sing reveals how to use the "String of Yeses" technique to trigger attraction, create compliance, and make women fall deeply invested in you. By understanding cognitive dissonance — the psychological phenomenon that makes people justify their actions by changing their beliefs — Mark explains how to get women to chase you, value you more, and feel emotionally bonded through a simple series of micro-agreements. Key Takeaways: - How cognitive dissonance subconsciously changes how women feel about you. - Why small acts of compliance make her like you more over time. - The "String of Yeses" technique — and how to build irresistible momentum. - How to use identity statements to influence her behavior and attraction toward you. Key Timestamps: [00:00:00] – Episode intro and preview [00:01:49] – What is cognitive dissonance and how it affects attraction [00:02:59] – How actions shape beliefs — not the other way around [00:04:21] – The Tinder example: effort equals emotional investment [00:04:56] – Getting her to comply through small "yes" moments [00:06:42] – The Cooking example: why having her cook builds attraction [00:08:20] – The "String Of Yeses" Explained [00:08:40] – The bar-movement strategy and building micro compliance [00:10:46] – Using phone number exchanges and playful framing [00:13:09] – Speaking identity into women to reinforce positive behavior [00:18:01] – Applying the same principle to yourself with NLP [00:18:26] – Why 95% of Mark's clients succeed with this mindset reprogramming [00:20:14] – Wrap-up and final advice Connect With Mark: Apply for Mark's 3-Month Coaching Program: https://coachmarksing.com/coaching/ Check Out The Perks Program: https://coachmarksing.com/perks/ Email: CoachMarkSing@Gmail.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coachmarksing/ Grab Mark's Free Program: The Approach Formula - https://www.CoachMarkSing.com/The-Approach-Formula About The Unapologetic Man Podcast The Unapologetic Man Podcast is your resource for mastering dating, attraction, and relationships from a confident, masculine perspective. Hosted by Mark Sing, this podcast gives men the tools and mindset shifts needed to succeed in their dating lives and build lasting, high-value relationships. #DatingAdviceForMen #CognitiveDissonance #StringOfYeses #AttractionPsychology #MasculineFrame #Confidence #NLP #AlphaMindset #SelfImprovement #HighValueMan
In this eye-opening episode of The Unapologetic Man Podcast, host Mark Sing breaks down 10 subtle signs that instantly make a man look weak, awkward, or even creepy in the eyes of women. Drawing from a shocking study where convicts picked potential victims based solely on body language, Mark reveals how the same subconscious cues that attract danger also repel attraction. He explains how posture, tone, movement, and energy silently communicate your confidence — and how to improve your presence so women feel you are the alpha male. Key Takeaways: - Why weak posture and fast movements signal fear and low confidence. - The "reactive male" trap — and how to project calm, leader energy. - How being overly agreeable makes you look manipulative and creepy. - The deadly impact of poor hygiene, high-pitched voice, and nervous laughter. - How training and self-defense transform your presence and attraction. Key Timestamps: [00:00:00] – Episode intro and preview [00:00:27] – The convict victim study and what it reveals about attraction [00:03:17] – Why body language determines how both men and women see you [00:04:17] – Fearful energy that signal weakness [00:06:49] – The danger of reactivity and seeking validation [00:09:56] – Agreeableness and why it backfires with women [00:12:38] – The "disclaimer laugh" and other submissive cues [00:13:31] – Fitness and your ability to fight [00:15:50] – Voice tone, posture, and taking up space [00:18:19] – Hygiene, anger, and emotional control [00:21:03] – How your eyes signal you're terrified [00:23:46] – Wrap-up and final advice Connect With Mark: Apply for Mark's 3-Month Coaching Program: https://coachmarksing.com/coaching/ Check Out The Perks Program: https://coachmarksing.com/perks/ Email: CoachMarkSing@Gmail.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coachmarksing/ Grab Mark's Free Program: The Approach Formula - https://www.CoachMarkSing.com/The-Approach-Formula About The Unapologetic Man Podcast The Unapologetic Man Podcast is your resource for mastering dating, attraction, and relationships from a confident, masculine perspective. Hosted by Mark Sing, this podcast gives men the tools and mindset shifts needed to succeed in their dating lives and build lasting, high-value relationships. #DatingAdviceForMen #MasculineFrame #BodyLanguage #AttractionTips #Confidence #AlphaMindset #SelfImprovement #MasculineEnergy #HighValueMan
In this revealing episode of The Unapologetic Man Podcast, host Mark Sing dives deep into the secret art of "the campaign" — how to play the long game with women while keeping the upper hand and bypassing the dreaded friend zone with a super effective trick. Mark explains why slow-building attraction leads to stronger, longer-lasting connections, and how to use time, confidence, and humor to make a woman truly invested in you. He shares real-life examples from his days as a bouncer, the psychology behind "multiple touches," and the four pillars of attraction that make this approach completely foolproof. Key Takeaways: - How waiting to get her number builds intrigue and desire. - Using humor, frame control, and value to stay high-status. - How to friend-zone her first and skyrocket her interest in you. - Why slow-burn attraction often outperforms instant chemistry. Key Timestamps: [00:00:00] – Episode intro and preview [00:02:26] – What is the long game? [00:03:07] – Why rushing kills attraction [00:05:05] – The "campaign" explained [00:09:20] – Building intrigue: controlling the frame and value [00:11:54] – Real-world example of how effective this strategy is [00:14:10] – Important signs of attraction [00:15:33] – Friend-zoning her first [00:19:18] – Recognizing her window of availability [00:22:24] – Wrap-up and final advice Connect With Mark: Apply for Mark's 3-Month Coaching Program: https://coachmarksing.com/coaching/ Check Out The Perks Program: https://coachmarksing.com/perks/ Email: CoachMarkSing@Gmail.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coachmarksing/ Grab Mark's Free Program: The Approach Formula - https://www.CoachMarkSing.com/The-Approach-Formula About The Unapologetic Man Podcast The Unapologetic Man Podcast is your resource for mastering dating, attraction, and relationships from a confident, masculine perspective. Hosted by Mark Sing, this podcast gives men the tools and mindset shifts needed to succeed in their dating lives and build lasting, high-value relationships. #DatingAdviceForMen #MasculineFrame #AttractionTips #Confidence #LongGame #HighValueMan #FriendZoneStrategy #SeductionPsychology #MasculineEnergy
In this practical and entertaining episode of The Unapologetic Man Podcast, host Mark Sing breaks down the exact step-by-step system to get a girl's phone number — and actually get her to go on a date with you. Forget about "numbers that go nowhere." This episode reveals the secrets behind phone numbers that stick and lead to real dates and real connections. Mark explains why attraction is built on a spectrum and how to hit the right amount of attraction before asking for her number. He introduces his powerful "3 in 5 Rule"— and walks you through the psychology, body language, and verbal cues that show she's into you. Key Takeaways: - Why the first conversation is critical for getting a text back and a date. - How to use the "3 in 5" technique: three signs of attraction and five minutes of conversation. - How having her qualify herself increases her investment and attraction. - Three step-by-step ways to ask for her number that have the highest success rates. - How playful humor, phone exchanges, and follow-ups boost your chances of a date. Key Timestamps: [00:00:00] – Episode intro and preview [00:01:15] – Why just getting the phone number isn't enough [00:01:54] – The first conversation [00:02:43] – Attraction is a spectrum [00:04:14] – The "3 in 5" technique [00:06:42] – Signs of attraction [00:07:52] – Make her qualify for you [00:10:15] – Three proven ways to ask for her number [00:14:10] – Playful banter examples [00:14:57] – If you don't know, you should still go! [00:16:36] – Episode wrap-up and next episode preview Connect With Mark: Apply for Mark's 3-Month Coaching Program: https://coachmarksing.com/coaching/ Check Out The Perks Program: https://coachmarksing.com/perks/ Email: CoachMarkSing@Gmail.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coachmarksing/ Grab Mark's Free Program: The Approach Formula - https://www.CoachMarkSing.com/The-Approach-Formula About The Unapologetic Man Podcast The Unapologetic Man Podcast is your resource for mastering dating, attraction, and relationships from a confident, masculine perspective. Hosted by Mark Sing, this podcast gives men the tools and mindset shifts needed to succeed in their dating lives and build lasting, high-value relationships. #AttractionRules #GameAndReal #DatingAdvice #Masculinity #ConfidenceForMen #HighValueMan #CommunicationSkills #Seduction #BodyLanguage #MasculineEnergy
In this insightful episode of The Unapologetic Man Podcast, host Mark Sing reveals five hidden rules of attraction that could be silently sabotaging your success with women. Whether you're struggling to get attention, make a connection, or keep a woman interested, this episode breaks down practical, high-impact strategies you can start using immediately. Mark dives deep into subtle techniques like using eye contact to communicate desire, maintaining emotional strength to command respect, balancing gamey tactics with authenticity, leaving women on a high note, and mastering the power of downward inflection to assert authority. Key Takeaways: - How to use eye contact, facial expressions, and body language to communicate attraction without words. - Why becoming emotionally weak or needy destroys attraction. - The power of following "gamey" techniques with real, authentic interactions to avoid being perceived as a player. - How to always leave women on a high note to increase desire and connection. - Why downward vocal inflection and authority in speech are critical for attraction. Key Timestamps: [00:00:00] – Episode intro and preview [00:01:42] – How eye contact can seduce and dominate attention [00:04:47] – The power of acting distracted and distant [00:05:52] – 'Assess' her to get in the power position [00:06:24] – Using facial expressions without words [00:07:54] – Perks Program overview [00:09:35] – The danger of becoming emotionally weak [00:13:35] – Balancing gamey behavior with authentic conversation [00:17:24] – Leaving women on a high note: why it matters [00:18:56] – Using downward inflection to communicate authority [00:21:37] – Episode wrap-up and coaching program invitation Connect With Mark: Apply for Mark's 3-Month Coaching Program: https://coachmarksing.com/coaching/ Check Out The Perks Program: https://coachmarksing.com/perks/ Email: CoachMarkSing@Gmail.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coachmarksing/ Grab Mark's Free Program: The Approach Formula - https://www.CoachMarkSing.com/The-Approach-Formula About The Unapologetic Man Podcast The Unapologetic Man Podcast is your resource for mastering dating, attraction, and relationships from a confident, masculine perspective. Hosted by Mark Sing, this podcast gives men the tools and mindset shifts needed to succeed in their dating lives and build lasting, high-value relationships. #AttractionRules #GameAndReal #DatingAdvice #Masculinity #ConfidenceForMen #HighValueMan #CommunicationSkills #Seduction #BodyLanguage #MasculineEnergy




Hey man. I’m grateful for you. You have the most people-smart wisdom I have ever seen (heard). I believe that this is the single greatest podcast to ever exist, and I thank God for it. I’m a Christian but my faith is strong enough that listening to this “controversial” podcast doesn’t hurt me. I even agree with most of what you say, because I believe it. I have done my own research, and had been in a relationship with a girl that taught me a lot. I love you brother. Thanks
Hey man. I’m grateful for you. You have the most people-smart wisdom I have ever seen (heard). I believe that this is the single greatest podcast to ever exist, and I thank God for it. I’m a Christian but my faith is strong enough that listening to this “controversial” podcast doesn’t hurt me. I even agree with most of what you say, because I believe it. I have done my own research, and had been in a relationship with a girl that taught me a lot. I love you brother. Thanks
Awesome content
Great listening (even for married guys). Married guys like myself also need to keep our relationship game on point. This is one of the few seduction podcasts I’ve found that DOESN’T suck. I really appreciate that Mark drops practical stuff, as opposed to endless theory circle jerk.
Karate chop that… Awesome.
Hi Mark! Every since I started listening to you podcast, I could not even describe how much my confidence level elevated like I used to think I could not do this as I am not capable of this but you have changed my life and I have become very optimistic and every new thing which I try like getting a new job or approaching girls, I get very excited and feel amazing. Thank to you. Keep up with amazing work!!
Hypergamy: the theory men desperately want to be true, but simply isn't the phenomenon they insist it is.
hahaha I hope his family member listens to this podcast lol.
IDK if you will see this on Castbox but how the hell can I actually get your book The Approach Formula. I was able to find Johns Tinder book but i cant find yours. i signed up for the email but i got a request email that i opened and then the next email from you was saying "now that i read The Approach Formula i can sign up for coaching. i want to get 1 on 1 but inwould like to work on the formula first.
Mark is an absolute beast. He speaks in such a way that's entertaining and unlike anyone I've ever listened to. I usually listen on long drives and it feels like he's right in the car with me. When he says his purpose is to help men in this area of life, I 110% believe him, and you can tell just by how passionate he is that this is true. I could come up with many words to summarize the UMP, but if I were limited to 3, they would be empowering, intelligent, and inspirational. Thank you for all you do for us Mark, you've definitely made a positive impact on my life and I know you will continue to do so. OK now I need to get back to work... these baskets aren't going to weave themselves.
My new favorite Podcast, I find myself listening over and over because the information is good. Coach Mark sing is super funny and gets right to the point. Such practical advice to improve your life in all aspects. Be a man and listen to this podcast, no need to apologize for it. After episode I listen to I see how relevant all of the material is in real life.
No doubt my favourite podcast. So jam packed with good funny content. Most podcasts mumble and can be difficult to hear, but not Mark's voice as I can understand what he's saying over my 1990 6cy john deere engine whilst spreading lime💪💪 This bloke is a spartan 🤜 All the best from 🇦🇺
The best episode! Greetings from Russia🤙🏽
it was great, liied it.
I love this podcast! learning how to improve my habits and mental well being everyday!! keep it up man!!
Coach Mark delivers a fun, energetic podcast featuring great content for men committed to becoming their best selves. He offers concrete action steps to test and practice his ideas and techniques in the real world. Recommended.