Spiced Wife: Marriage, Sex, Faith, Life, and Jesus

This is a two-part episode. In part one, we discuss the power of praying for your enemies and what it looks like to truly put God first—especially if you're naturally task-driven and focused on productivity. In part two, we answer seven honest questions from wives, offering biblical wisdom, encouragement, and practical insight for real-life challenges in marriage. Questions about: Husband not leading and not good with spending; Not feeling close to your husband after pregnancy; Wanting to leave after adultery; Husband having prior sex experiences before marriage; When is the next retreat; and accepting your husband back after separation; submission questions.  Workbook or FREE Resource ➡️ Helping a Passive Husband Become a Godly Leader: https://www.spicedwife.com/helpingpassivehusband   3 Ways How to Become a Submissive Wife https://youtu.be/LsV8XTBFw_g?si=_p0My6iw1b-dZKeT   Join the Free Support Call https://www.spicedwife.com/supportcall   Spiritual Power of Sleep https://youtu.be/FOIXCvJvz_4?si=pOSLJBAML9V2wG3I Get the APP and Join the Wife Revival Program: https://www.spicedwife.com/wiferevivalprogram   Submit a Question: https://www.spicedwife.com/contact   Stay in the Loop: Subscribe to the email list: https://www.spicedwife.com/   Subscribe to YouTube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCknRAQI5P-lDps5UCbF_ydA   Connect on Socials Instagram ⇢  https://www.instagram.com/spicedwife/   Threads ⇢  https://www.threads.com/@spicedwife?igshid=NTc4MTIwNjQ2YQ==   Podcast ⇢ https://open.spotify.com/show/5G90Mh7zI9Q1BKkpXq0EuH ::: NEW SUBSCRIBER ::: Hey girl, hey! I'm Ashlyn! I love to spark excitement about living for God, and I love to teach the Bible. I am a wife, mom, and best of all, a follower of Jesus. I am here to encourage and empower you to stay strong in your faith and to shift the atmosphere in your home as a wife. Read more specific details about me and Spiced Wife here ⤵️ https://www.spicedwife.com/about

This is a two-part episode designed to strengthen your faith and give practical guidance for your walk with God. In part one, we discuss the power of praying for your enemies and what it looks like to truly put God first—especially if you're naturally task-driven and focused on productivity. In part two, we answer seven vulnerable questions from wives, offering biblical wisdom, encouragement, and practical insight for real-life challenges in marriage. Workbook or FREE Resource ➡️ Helping a Passive Husband Become a Godly Leader: https://www.spicedwife.com/helpingpassivehusband   3 Ways How to Become a Submissive Wife https://youtu.be/LsV8XTBFw_g?si=_p0My6iw1b-dZKeT   Join the Free Support Call https://www.spicedwife.com/supportcall   Spiritual Power of Sleep https://youtu.be/FOIXCvJvz_4?si=pOSLJBAML9V2wG3I Get the APP and Join the Wife Revival Program: https://www.spicedwife.com/wiferevivalprogram   Submit a Question: https://www.spicedwife.com/contact   Stay in the Loop: Subscribe to the email list: https://www.spicedwife.com/   Subscribe to YouTube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCknRAQI5P-lDps5UCbF_ydA   Connect on Socials Instagram ⇢  https://www.instagram.com/spicedwife/   Threads ⇢  https://www.threads.com/@spicedwife?igshid=NTc4MTIwNjQ2YQ==   Podcast ⇢ https://open.spotify.com/show/5G90Mh7zI9Q1BKkpXq0EuH ::: NEW SUBSCRIBER ::: Hey girl, hey! I'm Ashlyn! I love to spark excitement about living for God, and I love to teach the Bible. I am a wife, mom, and best of all, a follower of Jesus. I am here to encourage and empower you to stay strong in your faith and to shift the atmosphere in your home as a wife. Read more specific details about me and Spiced Wife here ⤵️ https://www.spicedwife.com/about  

In this episode, we answer a candid sex question from a wife and share a few laughs about arising in both comfort and confidence—embracing femininity and sex appeal without overthinking it. We then turn to the often-misunderstood story of Job's wife, a woman with a poor reputation whose words are frequently judged without grace. Together, we explore what it looks like to extend compassion instead of condemnation, especially when our husband is difficult to understand or walk with. This episode encourages wives to honor God, resist the temptation to give up too quickly, and learn how to endure marriage with faith—even in the hardest seasons.   Videos on having an Ungodly Husband: ➡️Should you submit to an "ungodly" husband? https://youtu.be/PPIPTRrePBY   ➡️Submit???… But what if I don't agree?!? https://youtu.be/vSNEsYggRb8   ➡️How to Submit to An Ungodly Husband (Part 1) https://youtu.be/lqDcK74-pNQ Get the APP and Join the Wife Revival Program: https://www.spicedwife.com/wiferevivalprogram   Submit a Question: https://www.spicedwife.com/contact   Stay in the Loop: Subscribe to the email list: https://www.spicedwife.com/   Subscribe to YouTube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCknRAQI5P-lDps5UCbF_ydA   Connect on Socials Instagram ⇢  https://www.instagram.com/spicedwife/ Podcast ⇢ https://open.spotify.com/show/5G90Mh7zI9Q1BKkpXq0EuH   ::: NEW SUBSCRIBER ::: Hey girl, hey! I'm Ashlyn! I love to spark excitement about living for God, and I love to teach the Bible. I am a wife, mom, and best of all, a follower of Jesus. I am here to encourage and empower you to stay strong in your faith and to shift the atmosphere in your home as a wife. Read more specific details about me and Spiced Wife here ⤵️ https://www.spicedwife.com/about  

Today, we are stepping out of the shadows where life dictates our emotions and choosing to arise in truth. This episode is about understanding the power God has given us to decide—how we think, how we respond, and how we live. Don't remain in a prison of your own making. Freedom begins with a decision. Choose to think better, live freer, and see life through a renewed mind.   Videos on having an Ungodly Husband: ➡️Should you submit to an "ungodly" husband? https://youtu.be/PPIPTRrePBY   ➡️Submit???… But what if I don't agree?!? https://youtu.be/vSNEsYggRb8   ➡️How to Submit to An Ungodly Husband (Part 1) https://youtu.be/lqDcK74-pNQ Get the APP and Join the Wife Revival Program: https://www.spicedwife.com/wiferevivalprogram   Submit a Question: https://www.spicedwife.com/contact   Stay in the Loop: Subscribe to the email list: https://www.spicedwife.com/   Subscribe to YouTube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCknRAQI5P-lDps5UCbF_ydA   Connect on Socials Instagram ⇢  https://www.instagram.com/spicedwife/ Podcast ⇢ https://open.spotify.com/show/5G90Mh7zI9Q1BKkpXq0EuH   ::: NEW SUBSCRIBER ::: Hey girl, hey! I'm Ashlyn! I love to spark excitement about living for God, and I love to teach the Bible. I am a wife, mom, and best of all, a follower of Jesus. I am here to encourage and empower you to stay strong in your faith and to shift the atmosphere in your home as a wife. Read more specific details about me and Spiced Wife here ⤵️ https://www.spicedwife.com/about  

Today's episode calls us to arise as wise wives, not mothers to our husbands. Our husbands don't need a second mom, and many of us slip into that role without realizing it. We'll talk about how to identify motherly behaviors in marriage, why they hinder change, and practical ways to shift back into a healthy, God-honoring wifely posture. Download the APP and Join the Wife Revival Program: https://www.spicedwife.com/wiferevivalprogram   Submit a Question: https://www.spicedwife.com/contact   Stay in the Loop: Subscribe to the email list: https://www.spicedwife.com/   Subscribe to YouTube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCknRAQI5P-lDps5UCbF_ydA   Connect on Socials Instagram ⇢  https://www.instagram.com/spicedwife/ Podcast ⇢ https://open.spotify.com/show/5G90Mh7zI9Q1BKkpXq0EuH   ::: NEW SUBSCRIBER ::: Hey girl, hey! I'm Ashlyn! I love to spark excitement about living for God, and I love to teach the Bible. I am a wife, mom, and best of all, a follower of Jesus. I am here to encourage and empower you to stay strong in your faith and to shift the atmosphere in your home as a wife. Read more specific details about me and Spiced Wife here ⤵️ https://www.spicedwife.com/about

This is going to be a year that we ARISE! On January 5, we are starting off the year with a 21-day fast. Let's talk about the details!    Get the APP and Join the Wife Revival Program: https://www.spicedwife.com/wiferevivalprogram   Submit a Question: https://www.spicedwife.com/contact   Stay in the Loop: Subscribe to the email list: https://www.spicedwife.com/   Subscribe to YouTube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCknRAQI5P-lDps5UCbF_ydA   Connect on Socials Instagram ⇢  https://www.instagram.com/spicedwife/ Podcast ⇢ https://open.spotify.com/show/5G90Mh7zI9Q1BKkpXq0EuH   ::: NEW SUBSCRIBER ::: Hey girl, hey! I'm Ashlyn! I love to spark excitement about living for God, and I love to teach the Bible. I am a wife, mom, and best of all, a follower of Jesus. I am here to encourage and empower you to stay strong in your faith and to shift the atmosphere in your home as a wife. Read more specific details about me and Spiced Wife here ⤵️ https://www.spicedwife.com/about

In this episode, we talk about what may be blocking our ability to hear from God clearly. We also answer two powerful questions from wives: • One wife asks how to hold on to hope and faith while separated from her husband. • Another asks whether she should submit when her husband wants to control finances he isn't contributing to. Together, we'll unpack these questions with wisdom, biblical perspective, and encouragement.   Get the APP and Join the Wife Revival Program: https://www.spicedwife.com/wiferevivalprogram   Submit a Question: https://www.spicedwife.com/contact   Stay in the Loop: Subscribe to the email list: https://www.spicedwife.com/   Subscribe to YouTube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCknRAQI5P-lDps5UCbF_ydA   Connect on Socials Instagram ⇢  https://www.instagram.com/spicedwife/ Podcast ⇢ https://open.spotify.com/show/5G90Mh7zI9Q1BKkpXq0EuH   ::: NEW SUBSCRIBER ::: Hey girl, hey! I'm Ashlyn! I love to spark excitement about living for God, and I love to teach the Bible. I am a wife, mom, and best of all, a follower of Jesus. I am here to encourage and empower you to stay strong in your faith and to shift the atmosphere in your home as a wife. Read more specific details about me and Spiced Wife here ⤵️ https://www.spicedwife.com/about  

Let's go to the Bible and talk about losing it all to gain it all. The Lord is our refuge and tower. He wants to be our main point of help and answers. We need Him more than anything.    Get the APP and Join the Wife Revival Program: https://www.spicedwife.com/wiferevivalprogram   Submit a Question: https://www.spicedwife.com/contact   Stay in the Loop: Subscribe to the email list: https://www.spicedwife.com/   Subscribe to YouTube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCknRAQI5P-lDps5UCbF_ydA   Connect on Socials Instagram ⇢  https://www.instagram.com/spicedwife/ Podcast ⇢ https://open.spotify.com/show/5G90Mh7zI9Q1BKkpXq0EuH   ::: NEW SUBSCRIBER ::: Hey girl, hey! I'm Ashlyn! I love to spark excitement about living for God, and I love to teach the Bible. I am a wife, mom, and best of all, a follower of Jesus. I am here to encourage and empower you to stay strong in your faith and to shift the atmosphere in your home as a wife. Read more specific details about me and Spiced Wife here ⤵️ https://www.spicedwife.com/about

Have you ever prayed for an answer only to have God respond in a way you didn't expect? Have you ever asked Him for help and felt like the guidance you received wasn't direct, simple, or easy to grasp? In this episode, we're talking about those moments—the unexpected turns in life and marriage—and how to recognize God's blessing even when it doesn't look like what you imagined. If you're feeling discouraged, disappointed, or even tempted to walk away because your husband isn't the godly man you hoped or expected him to be, this episode is for you. Lean in, be encouraged, and discover how God may be working in ways you haven't seen yet. Get the APP and Join the Wife Revival Program: https://www.spicedwife.com/wiferevivalprogram   Submit a Question: https://www.spicedwife.com/contact   Stay in the Loop: Subscribe to the email list: https://www.spicedwife.com/   Subscribe to YouTube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCknRAQI5P-lDps5UCbF_ydA   Connect on Socials Instagram ⇢  https://www.instagram.com/spicedwife/ Podcast ⇢ https://open.spotify.com/show/5G90Mh7zI9Q1BKkpXq0EuH   ::: NEW SUBSCRIBER ::: Hey girl, hey! I'm Ashlyn! I love to spark excitement about living for God, and I love to teach the Bible. I am a wife, mom, and best of all, a follower of Jesus. I am here to encourage and empower you to stay strong in your faith and to shift the atmosphere in your home as a wife. Read more specific details about me and Spiced Wife here ⤵️ https://www.spicedwife.com/about

What happens when you're passionately pursuing Jesus, but your husband isn't walking at the same pace? In this episode, we talk about navigating a spiritually mismatched marriage with grace — encouraging your husband without nagging, trusting God's timing, and building unity even when your paths look different. Find practical wisdom, biblical strength, and renewed hope as you believe God is still writing your family's story. Get the APP and Join the Wife Revival Program: https://www.spicedwife.com/wiferevivalprogram   Submit a Question: https://www.spicedwife.com/contact   Stay in the Loop: Subscribe to the email list: https://www.spicedwife.com/   Subscribe to YouTube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCknRAQI5P-lDps5UCbF_ydA   Connect on Socials Instagram ⇢  https://www.instagram.com/spicedwife/ Podcast ⇢ https://open.spotify.com/show/5G90Mh7zI9Q1BKkpXq0EuH   ::: NEW SUBSCRIBER ::: Hey girl, hey! I'm Ashlyn! I love to spark excitement about living for God, and I love to teach the Bible. I am a wife, mom, and best of all, a follower of Jesus. I am here to encourage and empower you to stay strong in your faith and to shift the atmosphere in your home as a wife. Read more specific details about me and Spiced Wife here ⤵️ https://www.spicedwife.com/about  

WARNING... Mature audience ONLY! This email came in asking a very detailed question on the topic of oral sex and where it is in the Bible. As you know, this is a God-centered podcast that is not scared of all topics. We stay holy, transparent, humble, and honest with all topics for the focus of marriages that glorify God. Let's Grow!  Get the APP and Join the Wife Revival Program: https://www.spicedwife.com/wiferevivalprogram   Submit a Question: https://www.spicedwife.com/contact   Stay in the Loop: Subscribe to the email list: https://www.spicedwife.com/   Subscribe to YouTube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCknRAQI5P-lDps5UCbF_ydA   Connect on Socials Instagram ⇢  https://www.instagram.com/spicedwife/ Podcast ⇢ https://open.spotify.com/show/5G90Mh7zI9Q1BKkpXq0EuH   ::: NEW SUBSCRIBER ::: Hey girl, hey! I'm Ashlyn! I love to spark excitement about living for God, and I love to teach the Bible. I am a wife, mom, and best of all, a follower of Jesus. I am here to encourage and empower you to stay strong in your faith and to shift the atmosphere in your home as a wife. Read more specific details about me and Spiced Wife here ⤵️ https://www.spicedwife.com/about

Should a wife get a part-time job to help out, or should a husband get more work? Let's talk about it!   Get the APP and Join the Wife Revival Program: https://www.spicedwife.com/wiferevivalprogram   Submit a Question: https://www.spicedwife.com/contact   Stay in the Loop: Subscribe to the email list: https://www.spicedwife.com/   Subscribe to YouTube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCknRAQI5P-lDps5UCbF_ydA   Connect on Socials Instagram ⇢  https://www.instagram.com/spicedwife/ Podcast ⇢ https://open.spotify.com/show/5G90Mh7zI9Q1BKkpXq0EuH   ::: NEW SUBSCRIBER ::: Hey girl, hey! I'm Ashlyn! I love to spark excitement about living for God, and I love to teach the Bible. I am a wife, mom, and best of all, a follower of Jesus. I am here to encourage and empower you to stay strong in your faith and to shift the atmosphere in your home as a wife. Read more specific details about me and Spiced Wife here ⤵️ https://www.spicedwife.com/about

Let's discuss this hot topic on what the role of provider looks like in a marriage, based on God's perspective! Take some time to listen all the way out. Don't listen with flesh, listen by the Spirit. Here we GROW! We will open with Scripture encouragement and then dive into the questions! 11:40 - Questions read 57:14 - Sermon from a male perscpective on husband providing   Get the APP and Join the Wife Revival Program: https://www.spicedwife.com/wiferevivalprogram Submit a Question: https://www.spicedwife.com/contact Stay in the Loop: Subscribe to the email list: https://www.spicedwife.com/ Subscribe to YouTube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCknRAQI5P-lDps5UCbF_ydA Connect on Socials Instagram ⇢  https://www.instagram.com/spicedwife/ Podcast ⇢ https://open.spotify.com/show/5G90Mh7zI9Q1BKkpXq0EuH ::: NEW SUBSCRIBER ::: Hey girl, hey! I'm Ashlyn! I love to spark excitement about living for God, and I love to teach the Bible. I am a wife, mom, and best of all, a follower of Jesus. I am here to encourage and empower you to stay strong in your faith and to shift the atmosphere in your home as a wife. Read more specific details about me and Spiced Wife here ⤵️ https://www.spicedwife.com/about

In this episode, we are getting powered up to take down every demonic force coming against our marriage! It is time to activate spiritual maturity and truth. We are also addressing how to confront the issue of porn in your marriage, addressing feeling intimidated, where to start if your husband is watching porn, and the spiritual aspects of it all. Buckle up and press play! Here we GROW!   Get the APP and Join the Wife Revival Program: https://www.spicedwife.com/wiferevivalprogram Submit a Question: https://www.spicedwife.com/contact Stay in the Loop: Subscribe to the email list: https://www.spicedwife.com/ Subscribe to YouTube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCknRAQI5P-lDps5UCbF_ydA Connect on Socials Instagram ⇢  https://www.instagram.com/spicedwife/ Podcast ⇢ https://open.spotify.com/show/5G90Mh7zI9Q1BKkpXq0EuH ::: NEW SUBSCRIBER ::: Hey girl, hey! I'm Ashlyn! I love to spark excitement about living for God, and I love to teach the Bible. I am a wife, mom, and best of all, a follower of Jesus. I am here to encourage and empower you to stay strong in your faith and to shift the atmosphere in your home as a wife. Read more specific details about me and Spiced Wife here ⤵️ https://www.spicedwife.com/about  

Are you feeling that you need to go to a new church for a new start in your life? Or have you been gone a while and now want to go back to church again? Maybe you have never attended a church before and want to know how to find one? If any of these apply, this episode is for you! We will discuss where to find a new church, how to identify the right one, and what to do before the search even begins! I even share a little about my own personal journey.    Get the APP and Join the Wife Revival Program: https://www.spicedwife.com/wiferevivalprogram Submit a Question: https://www.spicedwife.com/contact Stay in the Loop: Subscribe to the email list: https://www.spicedwife.com/ Subscribe to YouTube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCknRAQI5P-lDps5UCbF_ydA Connect on Socials Instagram ⇢  https://www.instagram.com/spicedwife/     ::: NEW SUBSCRIBER ::: Hey girl, hey! I'm Ashlyn! I love to spark excitement about living for God, and I love to teach the Bible. I am a wife, mom, and best of all, a follower of Jesus. I am here to encourage and empower you to stay strong in your faith and to shift the atmosphere in your home as a wife. Read more specific details about me and Spiced Wife at Spicedwife.com/about    

In this episode of the Spiced Wife Podcast, we're diving into the talk about getting in the mood for sex, and I'm sure it's not what you think. It's amazing to feel sexy and confident—but what happens when life gets hectic, and that feeling just isn't there? How do you navigate those seasons without letting intimacy become a chore or an obligation in your marriage? Let's talk about practical ways to reconnect with your desire. Tune in—you don't want to miss this.   Get the APP and Join the Wife Revival Program: https://www.spicedwife.com/wiferevivalprogram Submit a Question: https://www.spicedwife.com/contact Stay in the Loop: Subscribe to the email list: https://www.spicedwife.com/ Subscribe to YouTube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCknRAQI5P-lDps5UCbF_ydA Connect on Socials Instagram ⇢  https://www.instagram.com/spicedwife/ Podcast ⇢ https://open.spotify.com/show/5G90Mh7zI9Q1BKkpXq0EuH

In this heartfelt episode, I'm responding to a question from a wife who's fighting for her marriage while her husband is ready to walk away. We'll explore what Scripture has to say about this difficult situation, turning to Romans 12 for guidance on love, patience, and perseverance, and 1 Corinthians 7 for wisdom on marriage and separation. If you've ever felt alone in wanting to save your relationship, this episode is for you. There is hope, even in the tension—and God's Word has something to say about it... Also, let's join together in prayer at the close!    Get the APP and Join the Wife Revival Program: https://www.spicedwife.com/wiferevivalprogram   Submit a Question: https://www.spicedwife.com/contact   Stay in the Loop: Subscribe to the email list: https://www.spicedwife.com/   Subscribe to YouTube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCknRAQI5P-lDps5UCbF_ydA   Connect on Socials Instagram ⇢  https://www.instagram.com/spicedwife/ Podcast ⇢ https://open.spotify.com/show/5G90Mh7zI9Q1BKkpXq0EuH

In this episode, I answer a question from a wife who is fed up with her husband's friends' wives being extremely inappropriate towards her husband and disrespectful towards her. Take a listen and share in the comments what you would do in this situation?    Get the APP and Join the Wife Revival Program: https://www.spicedwife.com/wiferevivalprogram   Submit a Question: https://www.spicedwife.com/contact   Stay in the Loop: Subscribe to the email list: https://www.spicedwife.com/ Subscribe to YouTube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCknRAQI5P-lDps5UCbF_ydA Connect on Socials Instagram ⇢  https://www.instagram.com/spicedwife/ Podcast ⇢ https://open.spotify.com/show/5G90Mh7zI9Q1BKkpXq0EuH  

In this episode, I answer a heartfelt question from a wife whose husband believes in God but chooses not to follow Him. She is feeling weary, frustrated, and in need of encouragement to remain faithful to the Lord. If you've ever felt the same, this episode will lift your spirit and remind you of the strength found in God's truth. You'll learn how to keep pressing forward, what prayers to speak over your husband, and how to stand firm in faith this week.   Get the APP and Join the Wife Revival Program: https://www.spicedwife.com/wiferevivalprogram   Submit a Question: https://www.spicedwife.com/contact   Stay in the Loop: Subscribe to the email list: https://www.spicedwife.com/   Subscribe to YouTube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCknRAQI5P-lDps5UCbF_ydA   Connect on Socials Instagram ⇢  https://www.instagram.com/spicedwife/  

In this episode, I'm answering question number two from a wife who shares a very difficult situation. She married while living in the world, but five years into her marriage, she gave her life to Christ. Since then, her husband has not only refused to convert, but he mocks her faith and argues with her about not living in sin with him anymore. On top of that, he has been unfaithful multiple times and continues to use drugs. Her question is: Should she stay in the marriage, and if she does, is she still called to submit to his unholy requests?   Get the APP and Join the Wife Revival Program: https://www.spicedwife.com/wiferevivalprogram   Submit a Question: https://www.spicedwife.com/contact   Stay in the Loop: Subscribe to the email list: https://www.spicedwife.com/   Subscribe to YouTube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCknRAQI5P-lDps5UCbF_ydA   Connect on Socials Instagram ⇢  https://www.instagram.com/spicedwife/ Podcast ⇢ https://open.spotify.com/show/5G90Mh7zI9Q1BKkpXq0EuH   ::: NEW SUBSCRIBER ::: Hey girl, hey! I'm Ashlyn! I love to spark excitement about living for God, and I love to teach the Bible. I am a wife, mom, and best of all, a follower of Jesus. I am here to encourage and empower you to stay strong in your faith and to shift the atmosphere in your home as a wife. Read more specific details about me and Spiced Wife here ⤵️ https://www.spicedwife.com/about