The Dad Edge Podcast

In this first solo show for December, the host, Larry Hagner, comes to the audience with anger and urgency to discuss a massive, sinister online threat targeting children through seemingly innocent games like Roblox and Minecraft. Drawing heavily from a recent Sean Ryan Show interview with ethical hacker Ryan Montgomery (Episode 255), the host alerts parents to the dark fringes of the internet and a dangerous group, 764, described as a dark web cult with an "indifference" belief that lives and families mean nothing.   The episode features the heartbreaking, public post from Adam and Amanda Tate whose 15-year-old son, Bryce Tate, tragically took his own life after being a victim of sextortion. The host details how these criminals build trust, escalate quickly (the Tate tragedy occurred in just three hours), and use threats of public exposure to manipulate vulnerable children. Beyond sextortion, the episode warns about extreme acts of self-harm, pet-killing, and even violence against family members being coerced for things as trivial as Roblox Robux.   The host emphasizes that parental awareness is the only defense. He strongly recommends using a parental monitoring software like Bark (about $15/month) to monitor online chats, text messages, and social media, allowing parents to get immediate alerts and intervene before tragedy strikes. This is a passionate call to action for fathers to educate themselves, have ongoing, fruitful conversations, and protect their children's lives.   TIMELINE SUMMARY   [0:00] Introduction [1:47] Episode disclaimer for parents [2:22] Alerting parents to the "massive threat" in games like Roblox and Minecraft [3:35] How innocent games can be tampered with and made evil [3:59] Introducing the Sean Ryan Show and the interview with Ryan Montgomery [4:37] Episode 255 of The Sean Ryan Show: "Roblox and Minecraft. Hacker exposes the largest online video games." [5:22] Warning: Roblox is not safe; introduction to the online group 764 [6:07] The 764 group's belief in indifference and not caring about the welfare of children [6:51] Sharing the story of Bryce Tate (15) and his parents, Adam and Amanda Tate [8:57] The discovery: Bryce was a victim of sextortion—a serious and growing threat  [9:49] The extortion phase: demanding $500 and threatening to share photos.  [10:22] Bryce, believing his world was destroyed, was manipulated into taking his own life [11:11] The rapid timeline: the first message to the final tragic act occurred in just three hours [12:02] Episode recommendation: Sean Ryan/Ryan Montgomery interview  [13:13] Discussing extreme acts: forcing a 14-year-old girl to hang herself naked on video [14:08] Forcing kids to tattoo usernames, burn themselves, and kill their pets or parents/siblings on video [15:10] The shocking detail: kids are being coerced for Roblox Robux, not even real money  [16:49] Bark: Parental Monitoring Software [19:11] Call to parents: Make an effort to have ongoing conversations with your kids [19:35] The modern threat: the bully can be in your kid's bedroom, 25 feet away, and you have "no idea" [20:25] Conclusion: The only protection our kids have is us; a passionate final call to action.   5 KEY TAKEAWAYS   The Threat is Real and Sinister Online platforms like Roblox and Minecraft are being exploited by a large, sadistic group (764) on the dark web that preys on vulnerable children, escalating from sextortion to coercing extreme acts of self-harm and violence for Robux or recognition. Speed is Critical—Intervention Must Be Immediate. The sextortion process is incredibly fast. A child can be manipulated into a catastrophic decision in as little as three to six hours, as seen in the Bryce Tate tragedy, highlighting the crucial need for immediate digital awareness and monitoring. The Stakes Are Life and Death. These criminals are professionals who exploit children's innocence and sense of shame, often leading victims to take their own lives. The host argues this is a heinous crime, describing the acts as being "murdered... through his phone".  Awareness is the Only Defense. Parents cannot protect their children unless they know what is happening. The host urges parents to research the topic (especially the Sean Ryan Show interview with Ryan Montgomery) to understand the depth of the technological and psychological infiltration. Protect Your Kids with Technology and Ongoing Conversation. While open, ongoing conversations are vital, parental monitoring tools like Bark are essential for a safety net. Bark monitors 30+ apps and texts, sending immediate alerts to parents, allowing intervention within minutes to stop a fast-moving threat.   LINKS Podcast Shownotes: https://thedadedge.com/1409 Bark: Parental Monitoring Software: https://thedadedge.com/bark #255 Ryan Montgomery - Roblox & Minecraft: Hacker Exposes the Largest Online Video Games: https://open.spotify.com/episode/2GPd36fFPuLsBSlZp6WUvc?si=7BfOCdNOTzuoW4LkvHzyAA #JusticeforBryce - Adam Tate's Official Announcement: https://www.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=32876961955250751&id=100000911118224&mibextid=wwXIfr&rdid=nnmVU8LFIdec2oLO# Pentester: https://pentester.com Ryan Montgomery: https://www.youtube.com/@0dayCTF

In today's conversation, I'm sitting down with Tyler Moore—better known as Tidy Dad—and this one genuinely surprised me in the best way. We went way beyond "clean your room" tactics and dove into how clutter quietly taxes our patience, steals our mornings, and robs us of presence with the people we love. Tyler breaks down simple, doable systems that turn chaos into calm—especially for us dads navigating careers, marriage, and raising kids.   We talk about the launch-pad front door setup that ends morning scrambles, the capsule wardrobe that eliminates decision fatigue, how to get your kids on board without battles or tears, and how to choose the right starting point so you build momentum instead of overwhelm. If you want more laughter, connection, and leadership at home—and fewer frantic searches for keys—this episode will hit you right where you need it.     Timeline Summary   [0:00] – Introduction [1:01] – Why "less mess = more presence" and how clutter taxes patience, marriage, and mornings. [3:10] – Tyler on why tidying starts with accepting that life will get messy—and how systems prevent spirals. [4:47] – The hidden cost of small daily stressors (like losing your keys) and why routines create mental clarity. [7:21] – The extremes of "perfectly tidy" vs. "messy house, happy family"… and where most dads actually fall. [17:05] – The front-door "launch pad": a simple system that ends the morning chaos for good. [18:24] – Tyler's game-changing capsule wardrobe that eliminates decision fatigue (and why kids notice). [26:30] – Why most big organizing projects fail—and how to start small by identifying the real pain point. [33:24] – How to get kids involved without tears by starting with low-stakes categories and giving them ownership. [47:09] – Lessons learned from the "bedroom switch meltdown" and communicating as a couple before changing systems. [51:52] – Why intentional living beats comparison, and how to define "just enough" for your family.     Five Key Takeaways   Clutter steals more than space — it steals presence. Small daily frustrations compound into bigger emotional and relational consequences. Systems beat motivation. Creating "launch pads," routines, and predictable spots for essentials protects your mornings and your mindset. Start tiny, not huge. The big whole-house overhauls usually fail; momentum comes from solving one specific pain point at a time. Kids thrive when they're part of the process. Beginning with low-stakes categories (like socks or pajamas) builds confidence, ownership, and calm. Define "just enough" for your family. You don't need the fanciest home or the most stuff—intentional choices create more freedom, clarity, and connection.       Links & Resources Tyler Moore (Tidy Dad) on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tidydad Tidy Times Newsletter (Substack): https://tidydad.substack.com Tidy Tidbits Podcast: Search Tidy Tidbits wherever you listen to podcasts Dad Edge Show Notes: https://thedadedge.com/1408 Dad Edge Business Boardroom: https://thedadedge.com/mastermind     Closing Remark   If this conversation gave you practical ways to reclaim presence, connection, and calm inside your home, do me a favor—rate, follow, and leave a quick review. And share this one with another dad who could use a boost in simplifying his life and leading more intentionally. You guys are the best.

In this special Black Friday episode, I dive into a much-needed conversation about emotional reset. As the holiday season ramps up, many of us are carrying stress, tension, and unprocessed emotions that make us more reactive and less connected. In this short but impactful solo episode, I walk you through how to reset three vital areas of your life—your mind, your marriage, and your relationship with your kids—before the craziness of December takes over.   If you've felt overwhelmed, disconnected, or simply exhausted lately, this episode offers practical and heartfelt guidance to bring intention, clarity, and presence back into your home.     EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS   [0:00] – Introduction [1:02] – Why this time of year can feel especially heavy and chaotic [2:22] – The three things to reset before the holidays: mind, marriage, and kids [3:04] – A tactical Black Friday shout-out and 50% off gear at thedadedge.com/shop [3:58] – Resetting your mind: the power of a quiet, tech-free 30-minute walk [5:03] – How constant busyness keeps us distracted and emotionally exhausted [6:38] – Resetting your marriage with one simple and honest check-in conversation [7:23] – Real-life example of how Larry leads open dialogue with his wife [9:12] – Resetting your connection with your kids through gratitude and shared plans [10:10] – What Larry's son said he wanted to do together before Christmas [10:29] – Why you shouldn't wait until January 1st to reconnect with your family     5 KEY TAKEAWAYS   Resetting Begins with Stillness: Unprocessed stress makes us reactive and distant. A quiet 30-minute walk without media can bring clarity, calm, and presence back to your day. Marital Tension Needs Check-Ins, Not Grand Gestures: One intentional conversation with your spouse—asking how they're doing and what needs to be talked about—can diffuse tension and bring closeness back. Children Want Time, Not Things: Asking your kids what they loved about the year and what they want to do together before Christmas creates meaningful connection during a busy season. Don't Wait for the New Year to Start Over: You can recalibrate your emotional tone now. Waiting for January 1st delays the connection your family needs today. Great Dads Lead with Emotional Tone: Your mindset, your calm, and your intention set the atmosphere for your entire home. Lead it with purpose—especially during the holidays.       LINKS & RESOURCES   Black Friday Sale (limited time): https://thedadedge.com/shop – Use code FRIDAY for 50% off all gear Download the "25 Questions" PDF for better connection with your kids: https://thedadedge.com/25questions Episode Show notes: https://thedadedge.com/1407     If this episode resonated with you, take 30 minutes today for yourself—and 10 minutes with your family. Then rate and review the podcast, and share it with a fellow dad who could use a reset.   Live legendary.

In this special solo episode of the Dad Edge Podcast, I take a moment to reflect on the power of gratitude, especially as we approach Thanksgiving. What started out as a funny story about a failed attempt to record with my nine-year-old quickly turned into a heartfelt message for the men who make this podcast possible. I open up about the lessons I've learned over the past 10 years of podcasting, leading the Dad Edge movement, and the importance of appreciating life's simplest blessings—even when the world feels chaotic.   Whether you're navigating challenging family dynamics over the holidays or simply want to deepen your connection with those you love, this episode is packed with encouragement and reminders about what truly matters.     EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS   [0:00] – Introduction [1:22] – Why this solo episode almost didn't happen [2:38] – Reflections on Thanksgiving and what it represents [3:55] – How simple gratitude (like working fingers and toes) shifts perspective [4:56] – The Hagner family Thanksgiving tradition of spoken gratitude [5:35] – The importance of setting healthy boundaries around alcohol [6:17] – A hilarious and humbling personal story from a past holiday [7:37] – Deep gratitude to the Dad Edge community and listeners [9:51] – Shout-out to men in the Alliance, Boardroom, and 1-on-1 coaching [11:39] – Celebrating Wade Hendry as First Form Dad Edge Dad of the Month [14:29] – How First Form's company culture mirrors our values [15:20] – Where to find full show notes and resources for this episode     5 KEY TAKEAWAYS   Gratitude Doesn't Require Perfection: Even in chaotic or stressful family situations, choosing to focus on small, simple blessings—like health or a working car—can reframe your entire experience. Holiday Traditions Can Be Powerful Tools: Larry's family tradition of expressing specific gratitude around the Thanksgiving table serves as a model for meaningful connection, not just with family but with intention. Guard Your Energy and Presence: The episode includes a candid and humorous warning about overindulging in alcohol during the holidays—a reminder that one night can become a story you regret for decades. Celebrate Your Journey, Even If It's Imperfect: Larry shares how the Dad Edge Podcast began as a passion project and evolved into a global movement—proof that you don't have to have it all figured out to make an impact. The Community Is What Makes This Possible: From listeners to Alliance members to coaching clients, this episode is a heartfelt "thank you" to the men doing life together, growing, contributing, and showing up with courage.       LINKS & RESOURCES   Full episode details: https://thedadedge.com/1406 Download "25 Questions to Help You Connect with Your Kids": https://thedadedge.com/25questions Shop First Form and support the podcast: https://1stphorm.com/dadedge Podcast Shownotes: https://thedadedge.com/1406     If this episode resonated with you, please rate, review, and share it with another father. Let's keep building this community of intentional men who lead and love well.   Live legendary.

In this episode of the Dad Edge Podcast, I sit down with Bryan Driscoll, a successful digital marketer and real estate investor who's also a devoted husband and father. Bryan opens up about his journey balancing business and family, the intentional decisions he's made to protect his time, and how he structures his life around his values—faith, presence, and legacy.   From tech startup burnout to creating a lifestyle that prioritizes family dinners and morning routines, Bryan shares the strategies and mindset shifts that helped him go from reactive to intentional. If you're a dad wrestling with how to succeed in business without sacrificing your family, this episode is a blueprint for building both.     EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS   [0:00] – Introduction [2:04] – Bryan's background and unexpected pivot into entrepreneurship [4:28] – How a college hack turned into a full-time digital marketing agency [6:53] – Navigating growth while staying aligned with his faith [9:46] – Building in boundaries to be fully present for his family [12:12] – The moment Bryan decided to stop working nights and weekends [14:25] – Why success means nothing if your kids don't know you [17:00] – How he structures his day to serve his business and family [20:42] – Creating a routine that includes daily prayer and gratitude [24:31] – Why his calendar now includes "unmovable" family time [27:18] – Final reflections: letting your family see your heart, not just your hustle       5 KEY TAKEAWAYS     Faith and Family Define Success: Bryan isn't just building wealth—he's building a legacy rooted in faith, integrity, and presence. You Control the Calendar: Intentional time blocking, morning routines, and family dinners aren't "nice to haves"—they're non-negotiables for lasting connection. Boundaries Are Leadership: Saying no to work after 5 PM was Bryan's way of saying yes to what matters most. Kids Need Your Heart, Not Your Hustle: Bryan reflects on how being physically present isn't enough—emotional presence is the real gift. Build a Business That Serves Your Life: By designing his business around his family values, Bryan proves you don't have to choose between impact and intimacy.     LINKS & RESOURCES Connect with Bryan Driscoll and explore real estate investing tips: https://motivatedleads.com Download the Questions for the Car PDF: https://thedadedge.com/25questions 1st Phorm: www.1stphorm.com/dadedge Podcast Shownotes: https://thedadedge.com/1405     If you enjoyed today's episode, don't forget to rate, review, and share the podcast. Let this conversation be the spark that helps you lead your family with intention.   Live legendary.

In this episode of the Dad Edge Podcast, I sit down with Adam Schafer, co-host of the popular Mind Pump Podcast, for a vulnerable, authentic, and deeply reflective conversation on fatherhood, healing generational trauma, and building connection through presence—not performance. Adam opens up about his own childhood trauma, how it shaped his identity, and the intentional work he's done to break the cycle and show up differently for his son.   We dive into the power of emotional safety, why performance-based love doesn't work, and the simple but powerful practice of being fully present. Whether you're a father looking to lead with more empathy or a man learning to love from a healed place, this conversation will resonate deeply.     EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS   [0:00] – Introduction [2:07] – Adam reflects on his father's absence and the pain of unfulfilled promises [5:45] – How unresolved trauma shaped his early identity and choices [8:10] – The pivotal moment he realized his success was masking deeper wounds [11:28] – Why he decided to show up differently for his son [14:42] – The importance of building emotional safety, not just structure [17:36] – Why "being there" is different from being present [20:03] – Teaching through modeling instead of controlling [22:14] – Using breathwork, journaling, and awareness to stay grounded [25:11] – Why your kids don't need perfection—they need you [28:55] – Adam's approach to leading with grace and empathy at home [31:30] – Navigating self-doubt and letting go of old patterns [35:07] – Final reflections: leading with love, not ego       5 KEY TAKEAWAYS   Unresolved Trauma Shows Up in Fatherhood: Adam shares how his unprocessed childhood pain impacted how he first approached success, relationships, and parenting—until he consciously chose to heal and grow. Presence Is More Than Proximity: Simply being around isn't enough. Kids need engaged, emotionally available fathers who are attuned to their needs. Breaking Generational Patterns Starts With Awareness: Adam emphasizes that healing begins when we're honest about what shaped us—and we choose to respond differently moving forward. Your Kids Need Safe, Not Perfect: It's not about being the perfect dad. It's about being the one your kids feel emotionally safe with—where they can be seen, heard, and loved unconditionally. You Can't Teach What You Don't Practice: Breathwork, journaling, emotional regulation—Adam models these daily so he can parent from a grounded and connected place.   LINKS & RESOURCES   Connect with Adam Schafer and Mind Pump Media: https://mindpumppodcast.com Download the Questions for the Car resource: https://thedadedge.com/25questions Explore more episodes and resources: https://thedadedge.com/podcast thedadedge.com/soulmates Podcast Shownotes: https://thedadedge.com/1404     If this episode helped you reflect, reframe, or reconnect, don't forget to rate, review, and share the podcast. One conversation can change everything.   Live legendary.

In this heartwarming and hilarious episode, I sit down with my 9-year-old son Colton for a spontaneous and deeply connective conversation. Using our brand-new Questions for the Car resource, we explore everything from nightmares and Dog Man books to space rides and secret lemonade recipes. It's a candid glimpse into father-son bonding, full of laughter, surprises, and those unscripted moments that truly matter.   Whether you're a dad looking for creative ways to connect with your kids or just need a smile today, this episode is a reminder of the magic that happens when we slow down, ask meaningful questions, and just listen. Colton brings the energy and honesty only a 9-year-old can, and the stories he shares will absolutely make your day.     Episode Highlights [0:00] - Introduction [1:10] - Introducing Colton and the new "Questions for the Car" resource [3:35] - The big move from Facebook to our private Dad Edge Alliance platform [5:00] - Colton shares his outfit of the day and his excitement for Black Friday merch [6:00] - Colton's wild dream involving spooky gray eyes and… Mr. Doo Doo? [8:45] - Talking books: Colton breaks down his latest Dog Man read (spoiler alert!) [11:00] - Reflecting on romance, weddings, and seeing parents show love [13:10] - Favorite family memory: Disney World and the magic of Space Mountain [15:45] - If he had a magic wand… Colton's Paris dreams and golden chocolate [17:03] - What makes a good friend, and Colton's trampoline generosity [18:00] - Why asking fun questions builds better conversations and memories [20:00] - The best lemonade in the world (and the secret ingredient Colton won't tell!)     5 Key Takeaways   Ask Better Questions – Engaging your kids with meaningful questions opens the door to unforgettable conversations. Connection Over Perfection – Conversations with younger kids might "squirrel," but the real gift is in the connection. Create Fun Family Rituals – Resources like Questions for the Car can turn everyday drives into bonding moments. Celebrate the Small Things – From dreams to books to lemonade, everything is an opportunity to connect. Lead by Example – Showing love, presence, and intention as a father shapes your child's inner world.       Links & Resources   Questions for the Car: thedadedge.com/kidquestions       Closing Thoughts   Even the shortest chats with our kids can leave lasting impressions. Whether you're talking about books, dreams, or lemonade recipes, remember—it's not about the topic, it's about the connection. If this episode inspired you, made you laugh, or gave you new ideas to connect with your kids, please rate and review the show, and don't forget to share it with another dad who might need it.   Stay legendary.

In this episode of the Dad Edge Podcast, I sit down with Candice Horbacz, a former adult film star turned mindfulness advocate, podcaster, and homeschooling mother. Candice brings a rare blend of candor, introspection, and wisdom to this deeply personal conversation. We explore how she navigated radical life transitions, healed from childhood trauma, and created a home rooted in authenticity, curiosity, and emotional safety.   Candice opens up about her own upbringing, the dysfunction that shaped her early worldview, and how she found her way to a new version of identity after walking away from the adult industry. This episode is about reclaiming power—through parenting, partnership, and personal evolution.     EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS   [0:00] – Introduction [1:36] – How Candice's childhood shaped her early sense of self [4:18] – Growing up in a home where emotions weren't safe [7:03] – Her path into the adult film industry and what it masked [9:55] – Why the lack of secure relationships drew her toward unhealthy dynamics [12:30] – How she began to explore healing, trauma work, and self-awareness [14:49] – The role of her partner in helping her see her worth [17:01] – What led her to leave the adult industry behind [18:57] – Shifting identity and rebuilding trust within herself [21:04] – Navigating marriage with vulnerability and truth [23:15] – Creating emotional safety for her son as a homeschooling mom [26:40] – Why curiosity is her #1 parenting tool [29:21] – Helping kids navigate their own triggers without shame [32:09] – Final reflections on how to lead with authenticity at home     5 KEY TAKEAWAYS Early Dysfunction Often Masks Itself in Achievement or Escape: Candice shares how a childhood without emotional safety pushed her to find validation in unhealthy spaces, including adult entertainment. Self-Awareness Begins with Naming the Pain: Her healing journey started by recognizing how trauma shaped her reactions, her self-worth, and her definition of love. You Can Reinvent Your Identity Without Shame: Leaving the adult film industry was a reclamation of agency, and her story proves it's never too late to rewrite your narrative. Parenting with Curiosity Builds Emotional Safety: Rather than reacting with control, Candice leans into curiosity when her son struggles—inviting connection instead of conflict. Partnerships Flourish in Vulnerability, Not Performance: With her husband, Candice found safety to explore who she truly was—laying the foundation for a conscious, present, and authentic marriage.   LINKS & RESOURCES Learn more about Candice and her work: https://www.chattingwithcandice.com Candice's Website: http://candicehorbacz.com/ Discover our free Questions for the Car download: https://thedadedge.com/25questions The Dad Edge & Bark: http://thedadedge.com/bark Show Notes for this episode: https://thedadedge.com/1402     If this episode gave you a new perspective on parenting, healing, or connection, share it with someone who needs to hear it—and don't forget to rate and review the podcast.   Live legendary.

Ever found yourself trying to fix a problem with your spouse or kids—only to make it worse? Yeah, me too. In today's episode, I sat down with Josh Davis, a neuroscientist, author, and master of Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP), to explore how the way we communicate—our words, tone, body language, and mindset—can shape the emotional responses of those we love most.   Josh didn't just explain NLP; he showed it in action—by putting me in the hot seat. We talked real-life scenarios that dads like us face daily, from explosive moments with kids to feeling emotionally disconnected from our spouses. Josh walked me through powerful, science-backed communication tools that shifted my perspective in real time. Trust me, this episode isn't just about theory—it's a game changer that could transform how you show up in your marriage, fatherhood, and even your inner dialogue.     Timeline Summary [0:00] - Introduction [1:19] - Common communication missteps with our wives and kids [2:07] - What is NLP and why every dad should care [6:56] - Josh's background and why NLP is his passion [12:06] - Comparing NLP to cognitive behavioral therapy [14:10] - Real-world examples of how NLP creates breakthroughs [23:25] - Josh's personal story about improving his marriage through NLP [33:21] - A deep-dive NLP coaching session with me as the guinea pig [40:00] - Identifying limiting beliefs and how they shape our behavior [42:00] - The surprising power of body language in father-child connection [45:04] - How to build rapport with your kids through posture and tone [54:12] - Reframing limiting beliefs our kids express [57:00] - Simple language tweaks to open emotional doors [1:01:20] - A tactical breakdown of how to validate emotions without enabling     Key Takeaways   Stop Fixing, Start Connecting – Your instinct to solve may actually be creating distance; connection begins with emotional validation. NLP Isn't Magic—It's Strategy – Small shifts in language, posture, and tone can create big breakthroughs in how others respond to you. Meet People Where They Are – Emotional safety starts with joining your child or partner in their current state before trying to lead them somewhere else. Your Body Talks Too – Mirroring posture and energy isn't manipulation—it's subconscious empathy that builds trust. Change Begins with You – Whether it's marriage, parenting, or personal beliefs, the transformation starts by examining your internal dialogue and behavior.   Links & Resources   Josh Davis' Book: https://www.amazon.com/Difference-that-Makes-Science-Positive/dp/1250349087 thedadedge.com/soulmates joshdavisphd.com/dads Podcast Show Notes: https://thedadedge.com/1401     If this episode sparked some ah-ha moments, hit that follow button, leave a review, and share it with a fellow dad who's ready to level up his communication and connection at home.  

Today marks the 1400th episode of the Dad Edge Podcast, and I couldn't be more excited to celebrate it with one of the most important people in my life—my 9-year-old son, Colton. In this fun, heartfelt, and candid father-son conversation, we dive into some of the powerful questions from my free resource, Questions for the Car, to model what intentional connection looks like between a dad and his kid.   Colton opens up about everything from his love of dodgeball and tacos to what makes him feel proud, loved, and connected to our family. We laugh, share stories, and flip the script as Colton even asks me a question or two. This episode is a reminder that our kids are always listening—and when we ask the right questions, they start to open up in ways that shape our relationship forever.     EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS   [0:00] – Introduction [1:01] – Why this episode is so personal and meaningful [2:45] – Introducing the Questions for the Car PDF [4:05] – Colton jumps on the mic for the first time! [5:26] – What 4th grade is like from a kid's perspective [6:47] – Dodgeball, gym class, and why Colton loves competition [9:53] – The game-winning catch that boosted his confidence [10:47] – Colton's proudest sports moment and how it made him feel [11:21] – What makes hiking with Dad so special [12:44] – Colton defines love in his own words [14:17] – Why spending time as a family matters to kids [15:37] – His favorite family meals (hint: tacos and wings!) [16:22] – The superpowers he'd love to have [18:51] – Colton flips the script and interviews me [19:56] – Favorite books, stories, and why we love reading together [21:23] – How to grab the Questions for the Car PDF to connect with your own kids     5 KEY TAKEAWAYS   Kids Just Want Time with You: Colton said it best—kids feel love when parents spend time with them. It's not about big moments, but consistent presence. Ask Better Questions, Get Better Connection: Our Questions for the Car tool helps dads go beyond "How was your day?" and into deeper, more meaningful conversations. Celebrate the Small Wins: Confidence grows from moments like a dodgeball victory or a hike with Dad—highlight them and talk about them. Let Them See You as Human: When Colton asked me a question, it reminded me how valuable it is to let our kids learn about us, too. Legacy Is Built One Conversation at a Time: Every car ride, bedtime chat, or dinner table question is a chance to connect, shape, and influence our kids for life.     LINKS & RESOURCES Questions for the Car (Free PDF): http://thedadedge.com/kidquestions Podcast Shownotes: https://thedadedge.com/1400     If this episode brought you joy—or gave you a new way to connect with your kids—please take 30 seconds to rate, review, and share it. And if you mention Colton in your review, I promise I'll read it to him!   Live legendary.

In this eye-opening episode of the Dad Edge Podcast, I sit down with Dr. Justin Houman, a leading urologist and men's health expert, to talk about everything most guys avoid—hormones, testosterone, fertility, vasectomies, and how your lifestyle is impacting your long-term health as a man. Dr. Houman pulls back the curtain on what's really happening with declining testosterone levels, the truth about TRT (testosterone replacement therapy), and why many young men are already showing signs of hormonal imbalance.   We also dive deep into how stress, diet, alcohol, and even simple daily choices are influencing not just your performance—but your future as a father and husband. If you've ever felt off, sluggish, or just "not yourself," this episode could be the wake-up call you didn't know you needed.     EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS [0:00] – Introduction [2:11] – Why testosterone levels are dropping in younger men [3:38] – The impact of stress and modern lifestyle on men's hormones [6:52] – What every guy should know about fertility and sperm health [9:26] – The myth of "you're too young to have hormone issues" [11:33] – Why alcohol may be hurting your testosterone more than you think [13:05] – The truth about TRT: who should and should not consider it [16:10] – Lifestyle first: how diet, exercise, and sleep influence hormones [18:22] – The impact of porn and digital overstimulation on sexual function [21:04] – What you need to know about vasectomies and reversals [23:44] – The mental health component of hormone imbalance [25:31] – Final advice from Dr. Houman: take control of your health early     5 KEY TAKEAWAYS Hormone Imbalance Isn't Just for Older Men: Men in their 20s and 30s are now experiencing low testosterone and fertility issues due to stress, poor sleep, and environmental toxins. TRT Isn't a Shortcut—It's a Tool: Testosterone Replacement Therapy can be life-changing for the right candidates, but it's not a cure-all. Lifestyle must come first. Small Choices Equal Big Outcomes: Daily habits like reducing alcohol, managing stress, and improving sleep can significantly improve testosterone and overall vitality. Digital Overstimulation Is Rewiring Sexual Health: Excessive porn use and screen time are contributing to erectile dysfunction and lowered libido in men of all ages. Proactive Health Wins the Long Game: Don't wait until something breaks—taking action now protects your ability to lead, love, and show up strong for your family.     LINKS & RESOURCES   Learn more about Dr. Justin Houman: https://houmanmd.com/ 25 Questions to Spark Connection: https://thedadedge.com/25questions More podcast episodes and resources: https://thedadedge.com/podcast Episode Shownotes: thedadedge.com/1399     If this episode opened your eyes, don't keep it to yourself. Share it with another dad, and remember to rate, follow, and review the podcast.   Live legendary.

In this deeply moving and perspective-shifting episode of the Dad Edge Podcast, I sit down with John O'Leary, a bestselling author, motivational speaker, and burn survivor whose life is a testament to the power of resilience, hope, and radical love. At age nine, John suffered severe burns across 100% of his body. He wasn't supposed to live. But not only did he survive—he became one of the most impactful voices inspiring people to live fully, love deeply, and lead fearlessly.   John and I talk about what truly matters in life, the legacy we leave through small, consistent acts of presence, and how pain—when faced with faith and courage—can become the very tool that transforms us into the fathers and husbands we were meant to be. This isn't just an episode about overcoming—it's about becoming.     EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS [0:00] – Introduction [1:45] – The moment that changed John's life forever [4:18] – How his parents showed up during trauma and why it shaped him [7:32] – The role of forgiveness in healing deep wounds [10:06] – Why pain isn't the enemy—but a bridge to deeper purpose [13:14] – John's perspective on legacy and the value of being there [17:05] – The power of small, consistent actions over grand gestures [21:38] – Loving your spouse through service and sacrifice [25:12] – Raising kids who are resilient, grateful, and grounded [28:59] – The single most powerful lesson John learned from his father [32:30] – A challenge for every dad listening: What are you really living for?     5 KEY TAKEAWAYS   Pain Can Be a Catalyst, Not a Curse: John's story proves that life's most devastating moments can forge our deepest character and call us to higher purpose if we choose to face them with courage. Legacy Is Built in Presence, Not Perfection: His parents' unwavering presence—especially during trauma—taught him that how we show up in the hardest times says everything about who we are. Love Is Action, Not Just Intention: Whether it's in marriage or parenting, love must be expressed through service, sacrifice, and consistency—not just feelings or words. Our Kids Learn More from Observation Than Instruction: John learned resilience, discipline, and deep love not by being told what to do, but by watching how his parents lived during the toughest seasons. You Were Meant to Live Fully, Not Just Survive: Every dad has the opportunity—and responsibility—to stop sleepwalking through life and start leading intentionally with love, clarity, and vision.       LINKS & RESOURCES   Learn more about John O'Leary – https://johnolearyinspires.com 25 Questions to Spark Connection – https://thedadedge.com/25questions More Podcast Episodes – https://thedadedge.com/podcast The Dad Edge Boardroom Mastermind - https://thedadedge.com/mastermind Shownotes for this episode: https://thedadedge.com/1397     If this conversation sparked something in you, share it with a fellow dad who needs this message. And don't forget to rate, review, and follow the podcast.   Live legendary.

In this special episode of The Dad Edge Podcast, I sit down with a very special guest—my 11-year-old son, Lawson Hagner. This episode is unlike any other, because it's not about interviews or experts—it's about connection. It's about the power of slowing down, asking questions, and being intentional with our kids.   Lawson and I dive into simple but meaningful topics—his favorite memories, what it means to "lock in," and how he's learning to handle school, sports, and life. What starts as a lighthearted father-son chat turns into an authentic, heartfelt conversation about discipline, focus, and what it truly means to build a strong relationship between a dad and his son.   We also talk about a new free resource I created called "Questions for the Car"—designed to help dads spark deeper conversations with their kids during everyday moments. This episode is a reminder that great connections don't happen by accident—they happen when we choose to show up and be curious.       What You'll Learn in This Episode [0:00] – Introduction [1:02] – Introducing Lawson Hagner — my 11-year-old son and first-time podcast guest. [2:25] – The fun and chaos of sixth grade (and yes, girls come up right away). [4:58] – How Lawson's football team went undefeated—and what "locking in" means to him. [6:06] – Our father-son bond and why intentional connection matters so much. [7:08] – Introducing the Questions for the Car resource and how dads can use it. [8:33] – Lawson's favorite memories and why going to breakfast together means so much. [10:19] – How meaningful conversations can come from simple, everyday questions. [12:11] – "Locking in": Lawson's personal philosophy on focus and discipline in sports and school. [15:20] – How to manage overwhelm—teaching kids (and adults) how to take on the "next right thing." [20:02] – What tradition means to Lawson and why Christmas represents deeper family connection. [23:14] – The power of presence—how just three questions can spark a 25-minute, life-giving conversation.     Key Takeaways Connection happens in small moments. Breakfasts, car rides, and one-on-one chats matter more than grand gestures. "Lock in" isn't just for sports. Lawson reminds us that focus and effort apply to school, family, and life. Asking great questions creates great relationships. Curiosity opens the door for deeper understanding. Tradition builds belonging. Family rituals—like Christmas mornings and hot cocoa nights—create lasting bonds. Dads set the tone. Our consistency, presence, and willingness to engage build the foundation our kids stand on.     Links & Resources     Download Questions for the Car: https://thedadedge.com/kidquestions Episoe Shownotes: thedadedge.com/1398     Closing Thoughts   This episode isn't just a podcast—it's a moment between a dad and his son that shows what intentional fatherhood looks like in real time. Whether it's on the way to school, over breakfast, or sitting by the fire, every dad has the opportunity to lead with curiosity and love.   If this conversation inspired you, please rate, review, and share The Dad Edge Podcast. And remember, gentlemen—don't just go through the motions… Live Legendary.

In this episode of The Dad Edge Podcast, we dive into a topic every parent faces daily — our kids' teeth. From baby gums to braces, I sit down with orthodontist, educator, and author Dr. Robert Geiman to unpack the essential truths about children's dental health and what parents can do to set their kids up for lifelong confidence and health.   Dr. Geiman's new book, The Tooth Bible: A Parent's Guide to Their Child's Smile, turns decades of clinical experience into practical, bite-sized advice every parent can understand and apply. In our conversation, we cover everything from fluoride myths to brushing battles, flossing habits, and how oral health connects to our kids' overall well-being. But this episode goes beyond teeth — we talk about leadership, humility, and how the way we show up as dads can shape our families for generations.   Episode Timeline   [0:00] – Introduction [2:27] – Introducing Dr. Robert Geiman and his mission behind The Tooth Bible. [5:07] – How a COVID lockdown project became a parenting essential. [8:12] – What parents should do from birth to age three: brushing basics and fluoride facts. [10:22] – The truth about fluoride and why science still matters. [15:00] – Why The Tooth Bible is written in Q&A format and the most common dental questions parents ask. [18:10] – What parents should and shouldn't say to their kids before braces. [20:16] – The real reason snacking on sugar all day is worse than eating it all at once. [23:00] – How orthodontic technology has made braces more comfortable and effective. [27:00] – The link between oral health, heart health, and overall well-being. [30:00] – Making brushing fun and consistent for kids of all ages. [40:30] – How and when to start flossing — and tools that make it easier for kids. [43:33] – Leading by example: how your dental habits as a dad influence your children. [48:41] – Dr. Geiman on marriage, communication, and leading at home with humility. [50:45] – The importance of owning mistakes and teaching kids through example.     Key Takeaways: Oral health is a reflection of overall health. Healthy gums and teeth often mirror good habits and wellness throughout the body. Fluoride, when used in proper doses, is safe and essential for preventing cavities. Dr. Geiman emphasizes trusting science over social media noise. Make brushing fun and consistent. Give kids ownership—let them choose their toothbrush and toothpaste flavor to increase motivation. Lead by example. Your kids are watching; if they see you brushing and flossing daily, they're more likely to do the same. Parenting is leadership in action. Whether in dental habits or daily life, your consistency, humility, and example create lasting impact.         Links and Resources The Tooth Bible website: https://thetoothbible.com The Tooth Bible Smile Shop: https://thetoothbible.com/smile-shop ChildandAdultOrthodontics.com Follow Dr. Geiman on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/author_dr.bobby/ https://www.instagram.com/brace_thyself/ Podcast Episode Show Notes: http://thedadedge.com/1396     Closing Thoughts   This episode reminds us that leadership starts with example — even in the smallest routines, like brushing your teeth beside your kids. When we lead with intention and humility, our children learn more than just good dental hygiene; they learn integrity, consistency, and care.   If you enjoyed this conversation, please rate, review, and share The Dad Edge Podcast to help more fathers build stronger, more intentional families.

In this solo episode, I open up about one of the most overwhelming seasons my family has faced—fall. Between school demands, sports, band, and everything else, our schedule was maxed out and our connection suffered. Jessica and I found ourselves constantly busy but emotionally distant, operating more like teammates than soulmates.   I share how we recognized the symptoms of "roommate syndrome," what we did to course-correct, and why protecting margin in your life and marriage is non-negotiable. I also introduce my brand-new course launching in January, From Roommates to Soulmates, designed for husbands who are ready to rebuild emotional connection and intimacy.     EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS [0:00] – Introduction [2:31] – Why fall marks the beginning of chaos for many families [3:07] – Introducing the From Roommates to Soulmates course [4:15] – What roommate syndrome looks like and why it's dangerous [5:20] – Cultural lies men believe about marriage and fatherhood [6:45] – The silent struggle of disconnection [8:06] – Our family's real-life overscheduling mistake [10:28] – When joy turns into exhaustion [10:54] – The "Sunday Night Reset" strategy [11:27] – How shared calendars and huddles create clarity [12:13] – Learning to say no with purpose [13:16] – Protecting margin and prioritizing connection [14:42] – Why our "Date Days" are sacred [15:38] – Free gift: Questions for the Car PDF [16:41] – Start deeper conversations with your kids today       5 KEY TAKEAWAYS   1. Busyness Is the Enemy of Intimacy Just because you're doing a lot doesn't mean you're connecting. Overscheduling your family can slowly erode the relationships that matter most. 2. Roommate Syndrome Is Real—But Reversible When you and your partner start functioning as co-managers instead of lovers, it's time to course-correct. Connection requires intention. 3. Margin Is Not a Luxury, It's a Necessity If your calendar is full but your marriage feels empty, it's a sign you need to guard time for each other and for rest. 4. Clarity and Communication Prevent Chaos Tools like family huddles and shared calendars aren't just logistical—they're emotional anchors that keep the household united. 5. Leading Your Family Starts With Leading Yourself Recognizing when you're off-track and initiating reconnection is the mark of strong leadership—both as a husband and a father.       LINKS & RESOURCES • Free Resource – Questions for the Car: https://thedadedge.com/kidquestions • Show Notes for this episode: https://thedadedge.com/1395   If this episode resonated with you, rate, review, follow, and share it with another dad who needs it. Let's lead our families with presence and purpose.   Live legendary.

In this special Father-Son Wednesday edition of the Dad Edge Podcast, Ethan and I have an open and heartfelt conversation about the kind of legacy we want to leave—not in terms of money, but in how we show up for our families, our faith, and our future. With Halloween around the corner, we explore the idea of what truly haunts fathers—missed moments, emotional distance, and failing to lead with purpose.   We dive into what it means to lead a family spiritually without pushing religion, how a father's love for his wife becomes a model for children, and how intentional home culture shapes future generations. Ethan shares his vision for his future family and career as a firefighter—and how he wants to lead by presence, not pressure.     EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS   [0:00] – Introduction [1:15] – Ethan's "Winter Arc" and using seasons to spark growth [2:59] – Redefining legacy beyond wealth or achievements [5:14] – Why health and strength are crucial to long-term fatherhood [8:32] – Spiritual leadership without religiosity [10:04] – Passing down a relationship with God to future generations [12:33] – Faith, emotional safety, and keeping an open mind [15:21] – Ethan's vision of future fatherhood and home culture [17:42] – How your home environment speaks louder than your words [20:07] – The impact of loving your spouse well in front of your kids [23:15] – Why we choose to gross our kids out with affection—not arguments [24:49] – The power of being the "warrior in the garden" [25:29] – Ethan's passion for firefighting and leaving impact [27:56] – Halloween memories, safety tips, and shoutouts     5 KEY TAKEAWAYS 1. Legacy Is Emotional, Not Just Financial The mark we leave on our kids isn't in bank accounts—it's in the daily presence, protection, and love they feel from us. 2. Faith Is Modeled, Not Mandated Ethan speaks on how he wants to raise his future family to know God through a relationship—not religion—and how that shaped his upbringing. 3. Your Marriage Is the Blueprint How you treat your wife sets the tone for how your kids will approach love, commitment, and conflict in their own relationships. 4. Presence Over Perfection Kids remember if you were there and emotionally available—not if you were flawless. Being the safe space is what sticks. 5. Strength Is Best When Softened by Love Ethan reflects on the need for dads to be both strong and gentle—to be warriors in the garden, not tyrants in the home.       LINKS & RESOURCES 25 Questions to Spark Deeper Connection – https://thedadedge.com/25questions Level 1 Protein - https://1stphorm.com/products/level-1/?a_aid=dadedge BCAAs - https://1stphorm.com/products/bcaa/?a_aid=dadedge  Pastor Paul Daily Bible Studies – Search "Pastor Paul" on YouTube Dad Edge Podcast & Show Notes – thedadedge.com/1394     If this episode brought you closer to how you want to show up as a father and husband, please rate, review, follow, and share the show. Let's keep building legacies that matter.   Live legendary.

In this episode, I sit down with Clay Butler, CEO of Agape International Missions (AIM), for a powerful conversation on fighting child trafficking and how present, intentional fatherhood is one of the most effective weapons in that fight. With over 2,000 rescues and hundreds of traffickers arrested, Clay's work is nothing short of heroic—but it's his role as a father that has most shaped his mission.   We explore what it truly means to lead as a man, not just in high-stakes global work, but in the day-to-day role of being a protector at home. Clay shares how fatherhood has deepened his approach to leadership, the importance of modeling safe masculinity, and why raising strong, loved, and secure children is one of the greatest forms of resistance to evil. This episode will challenge and inspire any man who wants to leave a legacy worth living for.     Episode Highlights [0:00] – Introduction [1:01] – A staggering global reality: a child is trafficked every 30 seconds [2:24] – Clay's transformation from young volunteer to CEO of AIM [5:13] – Why Clay initially took a three-month volunteer trip… and never left [9:06] – Finding emotional equilibrium in a traumatic field [10:29] – How fatherhood amplified—not hindered—Clay's leadership [12:04] – The power of modeling safe fatherhood for rescued girls [14:21] – Humility, teamwork, and spiritual grounding in life-or-death operations [20:03] – Tactical and emotional ways to protect your family in public [22:15] – Why kids from foster care are the most trafficked in America [28:12] – Real actions men can take to stop trafficking—starting at home [29:02] – Navigating the tension of preserving childhood innocence while teaching safety [34:45] – Avoiding burnout: ruthless prioritization and reverse engineering legacy [38:07] – Clay's evolving legacy: from warrior to father to restorer       5 Key Takeaways   1. Fatherhood is powerful – Being a present, loving father is one of the most effective deterrents to child trafficking, both at home and globally. 2. Rescue is only the beginning – AIM's model goes beyond rescue to include healing, job training, and long-term restoration. 3. The U.S. isn't exempt – Most trafficking victims in the U.S. come from broken foster care systems. Supporting those systems can change lives. 4. You can protect your kids daily – Small actions like staying aware in public, modeling healthy masculinity, and teaching intuitive safety make a big difference. 5. Your legacy starts now – You don't need to lead a global organization to be a hero. Leading at home with purpose and love is enough.       Links & Resources   Agape International Missions (AIM): https://aimfree.org AIM Apparel – Support rescued girls through ethical apparel: https://aimapparel.com Bark (Parental Control App): https://thedadedge.com/bark Episode Show notes: thedadedge.com/1393     If this episode sparked something in you, share it with a fellow dad, leave a review, and don't forget to follow the podcast. Together, we can protect our families—and generations to come.  

In this solo episode, I dig into one of the most crucial parenting challenges—helping our kids face their fears and build real, lasting confidence. From sports pressure to academic stress to the emotional struggles they often keep bottled up, our kids are living in a high-pressure world. And as fathers, it's our job to create a space where they feel safe, heard, and guided—not just fixed.   I share a recent emotional conversation with my own son that completely reframed how I approach fear with my kids. You'll hear practical scripts, parenting frameworks, and validation tools that you can immediately use to strengthen your relationship and lead your kids through difficult emotions—while empowering them to lead themselves.     EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS   [0:00] – Introduction [1:47] – The "scary" reality kids face daily [3:16] – Gratitude for the community + book update [5:03] – Announcing the next live cohort: Overcoming Roommate Syndrome [9:12] – What fear looks like in your child's world [10:17] – Why asking for permission to talk matters [12:14] – My son's moment of vulnerability on the football field [14:00] – Helping kids name fear and remove shame [15:15] – Shifting identity from failure to effort [16:23] – Creating micro-wins to reinforce confidence [17:41] – Reminding your kids they are already brave [18:08] – Why praising effort beats praising results [19:30] – Free resource: "Questions for the Car" [21:54] – Final thoughts and wrap-up       5 KEY TAKEAWAYS 1. Validate Before You Advise Asking your child for permission to talk, rather than jumping into correction or pep talks, shows respect and builds trust. Kids don't want quick fixes—they want to feel seen. 2. Name the Fear to Dismantle the Shame Fear loses power when it's named out loud. Helping your child articulate what they're afraid of creates emotional distance from the fear and invites clarity. 3. Reinforce Identity Through Effort, Not Outcome Focus on who your child is becoming through their effort—not whether they win or lose. This reinforces growth and helps them detach from external validation. 4. Small Wins Build Big Confidence Kids don't need giant leaps to feel successful. Celebrating the little wins builds momentum and reinforces the belief that they can handle what life throws at them. 5. Your Voice Becomes Their Inner Voice How you speak to your kids—especially when they're struggling—directly influences how they'll talk to themselves when you're not around. Lead with empathy, patience, and strength.         LINKS & RESOURCES: Car Ride Questions for Kids: thedadedge.com/kidquestions Get the Book + Free Courses: https://thedadedge.com/legendarybook Episode Show notes: thedadedge.com/1392     If this episode helped you better understand how to guide your child through fear and build real connection, please rate, follow, and share the show. Let's raise brave, grounded, emotionally intelligent kids—together.   Live legendary.

In this Dad Edge Podcast episode, I'm joined by my son Ethan for a powerful father-son conversation about money, mistakes, and mindsets. But this episode goes way beyond budgeting tips. It's about the deeper fear, pressure, and responsibility men feel when it comes to providing and preparing the next generation.   We explore everything from cost of living fears to smart saving habits, early investing, and the emotional rollercoaster of becoming financially independent. Ethan shares candid reflections about what worries him most as a 19-year-old and the surprising movie that inspired his money mindset. This episode is filled with laughs, lessons, and the kind of intentional parenting that creates legacy.     EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS [0:00] – Introduction [1:02] – Why talking to our kids about money matters more than ever [3:49] – Celebrating transformation: The First Form Dad of the Month [15:21] – What scares Ethan most about adulting and financial independence [19:36] – The 20% rule and why most people never start saving [29:23] – Ethan's frugal mindset shift (inspired by a Jim Carrey movie!) [38:58] – Understanding assets vs. liabilities and why real estate matters [46:34] – Passive income, investing in apartments, and building wealth young [49:11] – The challenge to aggressively save while you have no bills [55:12] – New resource: 25 questions to spark deeper conversations in the car     5 KEY TAKEAWAYS   1. Start Financial Conversations Early Your kids are already forming money beliefs—talking about finances now sets them up with real tools and confidence. 2. Fear of Failing as a Provider Is Real Ethan opens up about the weight of becoming a provider and why young men need reassurance and education, not shame. 3. Saving While You Have No Bills is a Superpower We talk about how living at home can be a golden window to stack savings, invest early, and get a head start on life. 4. Assets Build Freedom—Liabilities Drain It From real estate to investments, we break down the difference between money that works for you vs. money you spend for status. 5. Legacy is Intentional, Not Accidental These conversations are how we pass down values, strategy, and strength. The way you talk about money sets your family's future.       LINKS & RESOURCES   25 Questions to Spark Connection with Your Kids: https://www.thedadedge.com/kidquestions Join the Dad Edge Alliance: https://www.thedadedge.com/alliance First Form Products: 1stphorm.com/dadedge Dad Edge Podcast Episodes: https://www.thedadedge.com/1391       If this episode sparked new conversations at your dinner table—or made you rethink your financial game plan—please rate, review, follow, and share the podcast. Let's raise strong, wise, and prepared men.

In this Dad Edge Podcast episode, I'm joined by Joel Staley, husband, father, and fasting expert—but the real story here isn't about weight loss. It's about the emotional and relational weight men carry and how mastering the physical body can help men show up more powerfully for their families.   We unpack Joel's transformation from feeling "fluffy" and distracted to leading his wife and kids with presence and purpose. Joel doesn't hold back when talking about how his physical condition was limiting his energy, sex drive, self-respect, and ultimately his connection at home. This isn't a gimmicky fitness episode—it's a raw look at what happens when a man decides he's no longer okay with coasting.       EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS   [0:00] – Joel's wake-up call and early struggles with self-image [4:18] – Feeling physically present but emotionally absent as a dad [8:20] – Why getting shredded wasn't the real goal [12:03] – How fasting gave him structure, confidence, and clarity [16:55] – Leading your family starts with leading yourself [20:41] – Joel's marriage breakthrough through vulnerability [24:18] – Sex drive, shame, and physical transformation [28:36] – Teaching his kids about delayed gratification and purpose [33:02] – The real impact of watching your dad take care of himself [37:14] – Daily disciplines that keep him grounded and focused [40:57] – Joel's final challenge for every dad listening       5 KEY TAKEAWAYS   1. When You Lead Yourself, You Lead Better at Home Joel discovered that when he took full ownership of his physical health, it cascaded into better decisions, emotional presence, and connection with his family. 2. Your Body is a Spiritual and Emotional Instrument Getting fit wasn't just about looking good—it gave Joel the energy and confidence to show up for his wife and kids like never before. 3. Fasting Is a Discipline That Builds Mental Toughness Joel explains how structured fasting helped him reclaim control and break unhealthy patterns that were sabotaging his time and attention at home. 4. Physical Change Can Spark Relational Breakthroughs As Joel got healthier, his marriage improved—not because of appearance, but because of how he began showing up with integrity and consistency. 5. Your Kids Notice Everything Joel shares how his daughters now see him as someone who takes care of himself and others—and how that's creating a new generational standard.         LINKS & RESOURCES   25 Questions to Spark Connection with Your Partner: https://www.thedadedge.com/25questions Learn More About Joel's Coaching & Programs: https://shedfatfast.com Follow Joel on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/joelstaleyfitness Joel's GoFundMe:  https://gofund.me/b8fcf7ca3 Join the Dad Edge Alliance: https://www.thedadedge.com/alliance Dad Edge Podcast Episodes: thedadedge.com/1390       If this episode pushed you to confront your own health or leadership gaps, rate, review, follow, and share. Let's live legendary, in every way that matters.