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We’re not here just to “fix” marriages.
We’re here to help high-achieving couples remember who they really are, individually and together.
To shed the roles, the resentment, the silent suffering and rise into a relationship that’s deeply connected, passionately alive, and built on truth, trust, and team.
We’ve lived the disconnect. We’ve hit rock bottom. We’ve sat on the edge of “too late.”
But we also know what’s possible when two people choose to rise, together.
This isn’t therapy. This is transformation.
This is the new paradigm of marriage.
This is the Save My Marriage Podcast.
Hosted by Aston & Adam Simmonds, relationship coaches and founders of Save My Marriage School, this show delivers weekly real-talk episodes packed with stories, strategies, and step-by-step frameworks to help you:
- Rebuild trust
- Rekindle connection
- Communicate without conflict
- Overcome resentment
- And recreate a marriage you both love being in
New episodes every Tuesday
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To find out about working together: 1. Find us on instagram ( / aston_simmonds OR / adam__simmonds ) 2. DM the word MARRIAGE, and we’ll send you all the details “Why does every conversation turn into an argument… even when you’re trying to connect?” In Episode 20, we talk about the communication mistakes that silently kill connection and the ones most couples do not even realise they are making. The talking that turns into defending. The ‘we need to...
To find out about working together: 1. Find us on instagram ( / aston_simmonds OR / adam__simmonds ) 2. DM the word MARRIAGE, and we’ll send you all the details “I didn’t get a relationship coach because things were ‘bad enough’…” I got one because I finally realised doing it alone wasn’t working. In Episode 19 of the Save My Marriage Podcast, we share the truth about: Why asking for help was the hardest part How choosing the wrong support can keep...
To find out about working together: 1. Find us on instagram ( / aston_simmonds OR / adam__simmonds ) 2. DM the word MARRIAGE, and we’ll send you all the details “Can a relationship really last if only one of you is doing the work?” In Episode 18 of the Save My Marriage Podcast, we speak honestly about one of the most painful questions couples carry. The fear of growing alone. The frustration of being the one doing the healing. The quiet question of ...
To find out about working together: 1. Find us on instagram ( https://www.instagram.com/aston_simmonds OR https://www.instagram.com/adam__simmonds ) 2. DM the word MARRIAGE, and we’ll send you all the details “Christmas was supposed to bring us closer… but it made the distance louder.” In Episode 17, we talk about the part of Christmas no one warns you about: The loneliness that shows up when you’re already disconnected. The pressure to be happy when something feels off. The...
To find out about working together: 1. Find us on instagram ( https://www.instagram.com/aston_simmonds OR https://www.instagram.com/adam__simmonds ) 2. DM the word MARRIAGE, and we’ll send you all the details “We kept saying we were just too busy… but really, we were avoiding the truth.” In Episode 16, we call out one of the most common lies modern couples tell: “We will work on our relationship when life settles down.” Except life never settles down. In this episode,...
To find out about working together: 1. Find us on instagram ( https://www.instagram.com/aston_simmonds OR https://www.instagram.com/adam__simmonds ) 2. DM the word MARRIAGE, and we’ll send you all the details “We didn’t realise how disconnected we’d become… until we looked up and saw we were in the exact same place as last year.” In this episode, we talk about the quiet crisis so many couples fall into: The endless cycle. The excuses. The feeling of living toget...
To find out about working together: 1. Find us on instagram ( https://www.instagram.com/aston_simmonds OR https://www.instagram.com/adam__simmonds ) 2. DM the word MARRIAGE, and we’ll send you all the details “I used to think, ‘If you stopped triggering me, I would be fine.’” In this episode, we flip that belief on its head. We talk about: The real reason you get so activated over the smallest things Why your body reacts before your brain can catch up How triggers are actual...
To find out about working together: 1. Find us on instagram ( https://www.instagram.com/aston_simmonds OR https://www.instagram.com/adam__simmonds ) 2. DM the word MARRIAGE, and we’ll send you all the details “We feel like room mates… there is just no spark left.” If you have ever thought this about your relationship, Episode 13 is for you. In this episode we talk about what to do when there is: • Zero spark • Zero chemistry • Zero emotional connection …but you still want to feel like l...
To find out about working together: 1. Find us on instagram ( https://www.instagram.com/aston_simmonds OR https://www.instagram.com/adam__simmonds) 2. DM the word MARRIAGE, and we’ll send you all the details “We still loved each other… but we felt more like roommates than lovers.” In this episode, we open up about what really causes couples to lose their spark — and how to get it back. The distance. The resentment. The moment you start living side by side… instead of soul to sou...
To find out about working together: 1. Find us on instagram ( https://www.instagram.com/aston_simmonds OR https://www.instagram.com/adam__simmonds) 2. DM the word MARRIAGE, and we’ll send you all the details “I used to think putting everyone else first made me a good partner.” I thought love meant giving… Even when I had nothing left to give. Saying yes when my body screamed no. Holding everything together while quietly falling apart. But the truth? Self-sacrifice isn’t love. It...
To find out about working together: 1. Find us on instagram ( https://www.instagram.com/aston_simmonds OR https://www.instagram.com/adam__simmonds) 2. DM the word MARRIAGE, and we’ll send you all the details “If only they would stop blaming me…” In this episode, we go deep into one of the most painful loops couples get stuck in — blame, defense, and disconnection. For years, we both thought the other person was the problem. I wanted Adam to change. He wanted me to stop overreact...
To find out about working together: 1. Find us on instagram ( https://www.instagram.com/aston_simmonds OR https://www.instagram.com/adam__simmonds) 2. DM the word MARRIAGE, and we’ll send you all the details “We thought we just needed to learn more… but the truth is, we had to unlearn.” In this episode, we’re sharing the six patterns that nearly destroyed our marriage — and the ones that saved it when we finally let them go: ❌ Control ≠ Safety ❌ Criticism ≠ Motivation ❌ Vulnerab...
To find out about working together: 1. Find us on instagram ( https://www.instagram.com/aston_simmonds OR https://www.instagram.com/adam__simmonds) 2. DM the word MARRIAGE, and we’ll send you all the details Fighting about money is rarely just about dollars. It’s about power, trust, values, and the deeper emotional stories money represents in your relationship. In this episode, we pull back the curtain on what’s really going on when couples clash over finances: Why m...
To find out about working together: 1. Find us on instagram ( https://www.instagram.com/aston_simmonds OR https://www.instagram.com/adam__simmonds) 2. DM the word MARRIAGE, and we’ll send you all the details Feeling unsafe in your marriage does not always mean physical harm. Most often it is about emotional disconnection, not being heard, or feeling dismissed. In this episode we reveal the truth about safety in marriage: Why “I don’t feel safe” is really about trust...
To find out about working together: 1. Find us on instagram ( https://www.instagram.com/aston_simmonds OR https://www.instagram.com/adam__simmonds) 2. DM the word MARRIAGE, and we’ll send you all the details Control and criticism aren’t about tearing you down. They’re about protecting what feels unsafe inside. In this episode we reveal the truth about control and criticism: Why criticism is actually a cry for safety and certainty What’s really underneath the controlling patter...
To find out about working together: 1. Find us on instagram ( https://www.instagram.com/aston_simmonds OR https://www.instagram.com/adam__simmonds) 2. DM the word MARRIAGE, and we’ll send you all the details Defensiveness isn’t proof your partner doesn’t care. It’s a sign they don’t feel safe. In this episode we reveal the truth about defensiveness: Why defensiveness is really about protection, not rejection How shame, fear, and not feeling enough fuel the walls in your relation...
To find out about working together: 1. Find us on instagram ( https://www.instagram.com/aston_simmonds OR https://www.instagram.com/adam__simmonds) 2. DM the word MARRIAGE, and we’ll send you all the details “Resentment isn’t about your partner at all” In this episode we reveal the truth about resentment: Why resentment is really grief, sadness, and unmet needsHow unspoken needs become premeditated resentmentThe exact steps to shift from resentment into appreciation “Resentment...
To find out about working together: 1. Find us on instagram ( https://www.instagram.com/aston_simmonds OR https://www.instagram.com/adam__simmonds) 2. DM the word MARRIAGE, and we’ll send you all the details “Most marriages do not fail because of a lack of love” In this episode we reveal the real reason relationships break down: The lies couples believe The hidden patterns that keep them stuck The truth that can save your marriage starting today “It only takes one of you to c...
To find out about working together: 1. Find us on instagram ( https://www.instagram.com/aston_simmonds OR https://www.instagram.com/adam__simmonds) 2. DM the word MARRIAGE, and we’ll send you all the details “We were so close to giving up on our marriage…” In our very first episode, we open up about the raw truth behind our relationship: The near-divorce. The breakdowns. The moment everything almost ended. “It wasn’t therapy or some big breakthrough. It was one small, u...
To find out about working together: 1. Find us on instagram ( https://www.instagram.com/aston_simmonds OR https://www.instagram.com/adam__simmonds) 2. DM the word MARRIAGE, and we’ll send you all the details Goodbye for now beautiful… I started the Worthy Woman podcast a little over 2 years ago now because women just like you were asking me to and ever since I made that courageous decision I have loved every minute of it. This episode will be the last for a little while as I’...
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