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Author: Danielle Kelly

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Welcome to Chaos and Caffeine, where parenting gets real, messy, and fueled by endless coffee refills. Hosted by ADHD parent coach Danielle Kelly, this podcast dives into the beautiful chaos of raising neurodivergent kids, balancing life, and finding joy in the middle of the madness.


From ADHD hacks and emotional management tips to stories that’ll make you laugh, cry, or say awesome Chaos and Caffeine is your go-to resource for navigating the unpredictable world of parenting. Whether you’re looking for expert advice, relatable stories, or just someone who gets it, grab your mug and join the conversation.


Parenting isn’t perfect, but with a little caffeine and a lot of community, we’ll get through it together. New episodes every week!


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Join Our Newsletter and Find All of Our Faves! What if ADHD symptoms aren’t just behavioral… but biological? In this powerful episode of Chaos & Caffeine, Danielle sits down with integrative family physician Dr. Mary Lou Hulseman, founder of All Aboard Integrative Medicine, to talk about what so many ADHD parents are never told: 👉 Could gut health impact focus? 👉 Does inflammation affect emotional regulation? 👉 Are nutritional deficiencies worsening ADHD symptoms? 👉 What...
Join Our Newsletter and Find All of Our Faves! ADHD parenting is hard. But what if it’s not just about behavior charts, consistency, or “trying harder”? What if it’s about nervous systems? In this episode of Chaos & Caffeine, I sit down with Dr. Marivi Acuna (Dr. Ivi), a licensed clinical psychologist specializing in ADHD, trauma-informed care, Brainspotting, CBT, DBT, and culturally responsive mental health support for neurodivergent families. We dive deep into: Trauma-informed ADHD pare...
Join Our Newsletter and Find All of Our Faves! Advocating for an ADHD child in the school system can feel like a full-time job—one with confusing acronyms, shifting expectations, and power dynamics that leave parents exhausted and second-guessing themselves. In this episode of Chaos & Caffeine, part of our New Year, Less Chaos series, I’m joined by Natalie McCabe, an educational advocate with experience on both sides of the education system. Natalie breaks down what ADHD parents need to k...
If you’re an ADHD parent who feels constantly overwhelmed — even on days when “nothing big” happens — this episode is for you. In this New Year, Less Chaos conversation, Danielle sits down with Amy Briggs, a speech-language pathologist turned tech founder, to talk about the invisible weight parents carry every single day: the mental load. Amy shares what she saw firsthand while working with families — parents drowning in schedules, emails, school portals, and unspoken responsibilities — and w...
Join Our Newsletter and Find All of Our Faves! Ever notice how your ADHD kid can’t start homework alone—but magically focuses the second you sit nearby? Or how you suddenly become productive when someone else is in the room? That’s not coincidence. That’s body doubling—and it’s one of the most powerful (and misunderstood) tools for ADHD brains. In this episode of Chaos & Caffeine, I’m joined by Maria DelCorso, ADHD coach and founder of New Agenda Coaching, to break down what body doubling...
Join Our Newsletter and Find All of Our Faves! What if medication wasn’t the first step—but one of many options? In this episode of Chaos & Caffeine, I’m joined by Dr. Amber Brooks, a pediatric functional medicine expert who helps families understand what’s really happening beneath their child’s ADHD symptoms. We talk about why so many parents hesitate to start medication, what steps families can take before going that route, and how a more natural, integrative approach can reduce chaos w...
Join Our Newsletter and Find All of Our Faves! What happens when your child is diagnosed with ADHD… and suddenly everything about your own life starts making sense? In this episode of Chaos & Caffeine, I’m joined by Tracy Otsuka, ADHD coach, podcast host, and fellow late-diagnosed ADHD mom, for a conversation that so many parents don’t even realize they’re about to have. We talk about: Discovering your own ADHD after your child’s diagnosisWhy so many moms—especially high-achieving, ...
Join Our Newsletter and Find All of Our Faves! What if the missing piece in ADHD parenting isn’t more structure, stricter consequences, or better behavior charts—but permission? In this powerful, grounding conversation, I’m joined by ADHD-informed parent coach and educator Dana Crews to talk about what it really means to see ADHD in full permission—for our kids and ourselves. Inspired by Dana’s work with CHADD, this episode explores how permission-based ADHD care helps parents move out of con...
Join Our Newsletter and Find All of Our Faves! If your ADHD household completely unraveled after the holidays, school breaks, or time off, this episode is for you. In this kickoff episode of the New Year, Less Chaos series, ADHD educator and parent coach Peggy Gomula joins Chaos & Caffeine to break down why ADHD routines fall apart after breaks and how parents can reset without punishment, power struggles, or burnout. Peggy’s approach to ADHD parenting is refreshingly different. Instead o...
Join Our Newsletter and Find All of Our Faves! What if the secret to less chaos in 2026 isn’t another planner, routine, reward chart, or parenting hack — but a fundamental shift you may not be ready to hear? In this episode of Chaos & Caffeine, Danielle sits down with Dr. Michael W. Elice, MD, a board-certified pediatrician and internationally recognized expert in complex neurodevelopmental conditions, to unpack the one change that could radically reduce chaos in your home — and fai...
Join Our Newsletter and Find All of Our Faves! If Christmas break has turned into nonstop power struggles, emotional blowups, and you wondering how did we get here before noon, this episode is your reset. In this powerful replay, I’m joined by Dr. Nerissa Bauer, MD, a board-certified pediatrician and ADHD expert, to talk about one of the most game-changing shifts in ADHD parenting: connection before correction. Because when routines disappear, screens increase, and everyone’s nervous system i...
Join Our Newsletter and Find All of Our Faves! If your family feels like a beautifully chaotic ADHD ecosystem — grandparents, parents, kids, everyone with big feelings and lost keys — this episode is going to hit home in the best, most validating way. In this must-listen replay, I sit down with Jami Goldfarb Shapiro, ADHD expert, coach, and author of the brand-new book This Explains So Much: Understanding Undiagnosed ADHD for People Who Have Too Much, Feel Too Much, or Have Been Told Th...
Join Our Newsletter and Find All of Our Faves! In today’s powerful episode of Chaos & Caffeine, Danielle sits down with Daryl Potter, author of Even the Monsters, to dive into the brutal, beautiful truth of raising a neurodivergent child while navigating grief, loss, depression, and the identity-shifting spiritual journey that comes with it. This is not your typical ADHD parenting episode — it’s honest, unfiltered, and deeply validating. Daryl opens up about the emotional weig...
Join Our Newsletter and Find All of Our Faves! If you’re raising a neurodivergent child and traditional parenting advice makes you want to scream into a throw pillow, this episode is your new safe place. Today, I’m joined by Dayna Abraham — bestselling author, founder of Lemon Lime Adventures, creator of the Calm the Chaos framework, and the internet’s favorite “I’ve-been-there” ADHD mom who turned family chaos into a science-backed system for connection and behavior support. We dig int...
Join Our Newsletter and Find All of Our Faves! I sit down with education pro Kate Panfile — certified Learning Disabilities Teacher Consultant (LDT-C), academic coach and IEP translator extraordinaire — and we cut through the noise about parenting a neurodivergent kid in a school system that wasn’t built for them. If your child is navigating ADHD, reading struggles, executive function challenges or the dreaded IEP meeting, you’re about to get the real talk you didn’t know you needed. Ka...
👉 Join Our Newsletter and Find All of Our Faves! Anxiety and ADHD go together like coffee and chaos — they just show up together. In this raw, relatable episode of Chaos & Caffeine, host Danielle Kelly sits down with psychologist Dr. Laura Van Schaick-Harman, founder of Meaningful Psychological Services, to unpack the tangled mess of ADHD + anxiety in kids. Dr. Laura brings her deep experience as a school psychologist, CBT and mindfulness expert, and board-certified telemental ...
Welcome back to Chaos & Caffeine, where we toss the parenting rule-book and embrace the beautiful, messy reality of raising kids when our brains (and theirs) don’t do “normal.” In this episode, I’m so excited to bring on the brilliant Emry Kettle — a child-behavior specialist, trauma-informed coach, and neuro-affirming badass who works deep with ADHD brains (kid and parent alike). If you’ve ever felt stuck in a loop of meltdowns, shame spirals, or “but why won’t they just listen?” ruminat...
So… your kid just got an ADHD diagnosis. You’re overwhelmed, half-relieved, half-panicking, and 100% Googling “what do I do now.” Take a deep breath, grab your caffeine of choice, and pull up a seat at the Chaos & Caffeine table — because this is the episode every ADHD parent needs. In this raw, real, and laugh-through-the-tears guide, host Danielle, ADHD mom and chaos navigator, walks you step-by-step through what actually happens after the diagnosis. From decoding ADHD itself to navigat...
If you’ve ever wondered why your ADHD kiddo can’t just “calm down” — or why you can’t either — this episode is your new favorite form of therapy. This week on Chaos & Caffeine, host Danielle sits down with Dr. George Hu, a U.S.-licensed clinical psychologist, Director of Counseling & Wellness at Duke Kunshan University, and President of the Shanghai International Mental Health Association — to unpack the real science behind self-regulation and sensory processing. We’re breaking down: ...
Are your afternoons filled with gaming, only for bedtime to turn into a wrestling match with your child’s brain? In this no-BS episode, I’m going deep (with laughs and tears) into how screen time, sleep routines, and physical activity are the secret levers behind ADHD symptoms. I share a raw story from my own home—how two hours of gaming ruined bedtime, and how a simple bike ride or soccer kick fixes it. Then I drop the science: • Why 4+ hours of screen time is a red flag for ADHD, anxi...
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