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In this podcast, Heather will teach you what really works, and what doesn't, to successfully declutter your home - as when you're overwhelmed, ADHD or Autistic, it isn't just a case of hiring a skip and having a big sort out - it's not that easy!
Heather is an expert in working with families that live in chaos, and all the challenges that brings. She is Autistic and has ADHD so knows all about how neurodiversity links to clutter. As a naturally messy person herself, she can show you how to live in a clean, clutter free and organised home regardless of the issues you face. She thrives on creating strategies and systems that work for real families. Transforming your cluttered homes to calm, safe spaces can also improve your mental, physical and financial health, learn all about it in this podcast.
Heather Tingle has been a member of The Association of Professional Declutterers and Organisers since 2016. She and her family have had hoarding tendencies, living in messy homes, stuck in that never ending, exhausting cycle of chores and tidying. She decluttered her home and found a new, calmer and more content way to live. She now supports clients in person and online to achieve the same outcome in their own homes - and now you can learn how she does it through this podcast too!
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Send me a text message about this podcast Summary In this episode of Decluttering Untangled, Heather Tingle discusses the challenges of managing laundry, particularly for those with executive functioning difficulties. She emphasises that laundry is a multi-step process that can feel overwhelming, especially the final step of putting clothes away. Heather offers practical tips for simplifying laundry tasks, such as reducing the number of steps involved and designing your space to make laund...
Send me a text message about this podcast Summary In this episode of Decluttering Untangled, Heather Tingle discusses the importance of mental decluttering as we enter a new year. She emphasises letting go of guilt, judgment, and societal pressures that hinder our ability to declutter effectively. Heather encourages listeners to embrace rest as a vital part of the decluttering process and to focus on personal space rather than comparing themselves to others. The conversation highlights the...
Send me a text message about this podcast Summary In this episode of Decluttering Untangled, Heather Tingle addresses the post-holiday chaos and the feelings of overwhelm that often accompany this time of year. A gentle episode for when your energy is low, your house feels loud, and even thinking about a fresh start is too much. She emphasises the importance of self-care and offers simple decluttering wins that can be accomplished without adding stress. Heather introduces the concept...
Send me a text message about this podcast Summary In this episode of Decluttering Untangled, Heather Tingle explores the common disconnect between being organised at work and struggling with organisation at home. She emphasises that the issue often lies not with the individual but with the systems in place. Heather discusses the importance of adapting organization methods to fit personal needs, especially for those who may not conform to traditional organizational norms. She advocates for ...
Send me a text message about this podcast Summary In this episode of Decluttering Untangled, Heather Tingle discusses the common struggles faced by individuals attempting to declutter their homes, particularly those who may be neurodivergent or dealing with hoarding tendencies. She emphasises the difference between actual decluttering and the act of churning, where individuals may feel productive but are merely moving items around without reducing clutter. Heather provides insights into th...
Send me a text message about this podcast In this episode, Heather explores why the idea of daily decluttering sounds great in theory but often falls apart in real life, especially for neurodivergent people. Many of her clients believe that doing a bit every day is the only way to make progress, and they put huge pressure on themselves to stick to it. Heather shares two client scenarios from this week that show exactly why that approach fails and how small changes created much more ease and ...
Send me a text message about this podcast Summary In this episode of Decluttering Untangled, Heather Tingle discusses the pressures of hosting during the festive season and offers practical advice for making your home welcoming without overwhelming yourself. She emphasises the importance of setting boundaries, managing expectations, and focusing on key areas of your home to create a comfortable environment for guests. Heather encourages listeners to embrace imperfection and prioritize thei...
Send me a text message about this podcast Summary In this episode of Decluttering Untangled, Heather Tingle discusses the common issue of dining tables becoming cluttered and underutilised spaces in homes. She explores the reasons behind this phenomenon, particularly in neurodivergent households, and offers practical solutions for reclaiming the dining table as a functional space. Heather emphasizes the importance of understanding the emotional and practical barriers to decluttering and pr...
Send me a text message about this podcast Summary: Struggling to make decluttering decisions? You’re not alone. In this episode, Heather explores why so many of us need time to process before letting things go and why that pause is not procrastination. You’ll learn how to work with your brain rather than against it, how to avoid “maybe piles,” and how irritation and repetition can actually help you make calmer, more confident decluttering choices that stick. Chapters: 00:00 – Welcome and int...
Send me a text message about this podcast Summary In this episode, Heather untangles the fine line between a comforting collection and overwhelming clutter. She explores why collecting feels so soothing for neurodivergent brains, how it can quietly shift into pressure or guilt, and what questions to ask if your “treasures” have taken over. You’ll learn how to spot when you’re keeping things for love, nostalgia, or the hope they’ll be worth something one day, and how to keep the joy without ...
Send me a text message about this podcast Summary In this episode of Decluttering Untangled, Heather Tingle discusses the challenges of decluttering the under stairs cupboard, a common clutter magnet in many homes. She explores the reasons behind its tendency to accumulate clutter, especially for those with neurodivergent brains, and offers practical strategies for tackling this space. Heather emphasises the importance of understanding the purpose of the cupboard, categorising items, and im...
Send me a text message about this podcast Summary In this episode of Decluttering Untangled, Heather Tingle emphasises the importance of pacing oneself during the decluttering process. She discusses how rest is essential for maintaining energy and making effective decisions. Heather also highlights the emotional aspects of decluttering, encouraging listeners to be kind to themselves and to plan their decluttering efforts around their energy levels. The conversation covers strategies for ma...
Send me a text message about this podcast Summary In this episode of Decluttering Untangled, Heather Tingle discusses the often-overlooked challenge of dealing with leftover bits after decluttering. She emphasises the emotional weight these items carry and the decision-making paralysis they can cause. Heather provides practical strategies for managing these leftover items, encouraging listeners to approach them as separate projects and to give themselves grace in the process. The episode c...
Send me a text message about this podcast Summary In this episode of Decluttering Untangled, Heather Tingle discusses the often unspoken issue of the 'mask' people wear at home, particularly in relation to clutter and mental health. She shares her personal experiences as a late-diagnosed autistic individual and how decluttering has transformed her relationship with her home and herself. Heather emphasises the importance of feeling safe to let others into our homes, the shame associated wit...
Send me a text message about this podcast Summary In this episode of Decluttering Untangled, Heather Tingle addresses the common issue of garage clutter. She discusses the reasons why garages become dumping grounds and offers practical strategies for organising and decluttering these spaces. Heather emphasises the importance of creating zones, using vertical space, and making thoughtful decisions about what to keep. The episode concludes with a reminder that decluttering is a process that d...
Send me a text message about this podcast Summary In this episode of Decluttering Untangled, Heather Tingle explores the paradox of efficiency in decluttering and organising. She discusses how striving for efficiency can often lead to overwhelm and setbacks, sharing personal anecdotes and client experiences. Heather emphasises the importance of embracing imperfection and taking small, manageable steps in daily tasks to maintain a clutter-free environment. The conversation encourages listen...
Send me a text message about this podcast Sign up HERE for the free 100 Items to Declutter Right Now Guide, then look out for my email (it might be in your spam/junk folders). Summary In this episode of Decluttering Untangled, Heather Tingle shares practical tips for decluttering various areas of the home. She discusses common clutter items found in the kitchen, wardrobe, bathroom, and living room, emphasising the importance of letting go of items that no longer serve a purpose. Heather ...
Send me a text message about this podcast Summary In this episode of Decluttering Untangled, Heather Tingle discusses the emotional challenges of decluttering, particularly the guilt associated with waste. She introduces the 'One Last Use' approach, encouraging listeners to give items a final purpose before discarding them. This method helps alleviate guilt and promotes a healthier mindset towards decluttering. Heather provides practical examples of how to repurpose items for one last task...
Send me a text message about this podcast Summary In this episode of Decluttering Untangled, Heather Tingle discusses the crucial distinction between mess and clutter, emphasising that while mess is often temporary and manageable, clutter represents a deeper issue that requires attention. She provides insights into how understanding this difference can alleviate feelings of overwhelm and offers practical strategies for decluttering and maintaining an organised home. Heather encourages list...
Send me a text message about this podcast Summary In this episode of Decluttering Untangled, Heather Tingle addresses the common issue of clutter returning after a decluttering effort. She emphasises that this is a normal part of the process and provides insights into why it happens and how to manage it effectively. The conversation covers the importance of maintaining a clutter-free environment through strategic habits and systems, and encourages listeners to be kind to themselves during ...
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Love this concept! I also get caught up by emotions and love the idea of using them to help me declutter, instead of trying to fight against them. ❤️
How did I never know DOOM stands for "Didn't organize only moved"!?