Bearly Gays

Why are some people kinky? Are we born that way, does our childhood shape our desires, or is there something deeper happening inside our brains? This week on Bearly Gays, we're getting psychological with BEARLY PSYCHOLOGY! We're diving into the psychology behind kink, BDSM, and human desire to explore why people enjoy the things they do. From childhood experiences and upbringing to trauma, mental health, emotional connections, and the need to escape everyday stress, we're unpacking what might...

Can you really be happy when your partner is falling in love with someone else? 🐻💚 Welcome back to Bearly Gays! This week, we're talking about compersion — the experience of feeling joy when someone you love finds happiness, connection, or intimacy with another person. Following our conversations about open relationships, polyamory, and relationship security, we're exploring how compersion fits into consensual non-monogamy, why it can feel amazing for some people and incredibly difficult for ...

Can you really feel secure in an open relationship or polyamorous relationship? How do you overcome jealousy, stop comparing yourself to your partner's other partners, and learn to trust both yourself and your relationship? We're getting into all of it in Bearly Secure! 🐻 Welcome back to Bearly Gays, the podcast hosted by Logan and Shadow, a married interracial bear couple talking relationships, LGBTQ+ life, sex, and kink with plenty of humor, honest conversations, and real-world experiences....

Can you really love more than one person at the same time? Is polyamory the same as an open relationship? And could a polyamorous relationship actually work for you? 🐻❤️ Welcome back to Bearly Gays! In this episode, we're getting into Bearly Poly, an honest, entertaining, and occasionally chaotic conversation about polyamory, non-monogamy, love, jealousy, boundaries, and what it really takes to maintain multiple relationships. Following our episode about open relationships, we're taking the...

Are open relationships really as complicated as they sound? Can you love your partner deeply while still wanting sexual or romantic experiences with other people? And how does all of this work when BDSM and kink are part of the relationship? In this episode of Bearly Gays, we're getting Bearly Open and talking honestly about open relationships, ethical non-monogamy, consensual non-monogamy, BDSM, jealousy, boundaries, communication, and what it actually takes to make an open relationship work...