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The Unbusy Mom - take your time back strategies for business moms

Author: Alyssa Wolff - Work/Life Balance Coach for Business Moms

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How does getting 20 hours back a week sound?

Mom life is easy for me. And by the way, I’m working from home (plus homeschooling!) with 5 kids.

Ready for your own “how to make things fit” strategy?


The way I do scheduling allows you to grow through the hard phases of building a business alongside a family, leveling up your CEO self alongside your capacity to hold. 


What you end up with is a way closer relationship with your husband - your kids - even your clients! - because you’ve built the daily lifestyle that allows you to nurture that connection with the most important people in your life…. 


….No matter what’s going on with your to-do list. 


So if….

✅ You feel like you’re up to your eyeballs in to-do lists

✅ You’ve got more things scheduled on your calendar than you’ve ever seen

✅ Your kids need more time than you’ve currently got (for homework & playing with them after school)

✅ Your plans for date night are getting pushed last minute (or snoozed till next week – again)

✅ You can’t even fathom taking a two-hour break in the middle of the day (because if you stop, the house might literally burn down)

✅ You can’t remember the last time you got a pedicure (because you’re too busy taking care of everyone except yourself)


Then it’s time to escape the never-ending cycle of “there goes my lunch break” meetings, “turn around by Friday” projects, & “hang on I’m almost done” answers to your kids….


…And swap that for working less, snuggling your kids, and putting "me time" back on your calendar. 

‘Cause it's time for you to actually feel that day-in, day-out confidence in your role as mom, entrepreneur, and all-around high achiever.


Which is where I come in to create win-win solutions for you + your family that support business growth without compromising the mom part of your life (or requiring long-held biz goals to be left for another year)


Ready to get your personality-specific answer?

➡️ Ready to work less, snuggle your kids, and put "me time" back on your calendar? Let’s redo your CEO schedule so you can hit your priorities every day in your business, mom life, and goals list. Book your Free Up 3 Hours Daily package here:
https://yourunbusylife.com/intensive/ 

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Remember the kids’ sports schedules conflicts and way too many overlapping client-and-biz-collab-and-team meetings you were complaining about to your husband yesterday? You know that all those calendar conflicts are YOUR fault, right? It’s not your clients’ fault for booking you back-to-back and having yet another lightbulb moment right at the end of your call (which makes you show up late to the NEXT client session).It’s not the coach’s fault for scheduling more game practices than 3 parents...
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You know what I hate MOST about our stubborn tradition of New Year’s resolutions? The shaming, should-ing, “why can’t you be better already” vibe of “total overhaul required” and “you better be all in” (or you’re a failure by February 1st). Not on my watch. In MY world, YOU get to pick the habit - attitude - CEO outlook that you’d like to add next to your life because it’d make you feel HAPPIER, not because you’d LOOK better to other people. And then you just pick the TINIEST little habit, ac...
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Here’s the problem with most productivity advice: it assumes you have infinite time as a grown-up (read: throw overtime at your problems) - or don’t have any kids hanging off you. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve run into the “just do podcast interviews or record your reels or hop on video while your kids are at preschool” advice… Which is totally spot on, and works amazingly well - IF you have that out-of-the-house care opportunity for your kids! But if you don’t - or you’re ...
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You know how the washer always beeps RIGHT when you’re getting into a good flow on today’s client deliverable? (It’s that sneaky “work from home” distraction thing grabbing you again.) Listen. Whatever you do, DON’T break up a perfectly good flow state for an arbitrary timer. (Because your to-do list cross-off rate’s gonna show it.) Instead, here’s what I do. You’ve got this! Alyssa Free up your time as a work-at-home mom: https://yourunbusylife.com/ And if you need the right ans...
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You’re not supposed to force yourself to get up and do one more thing. What you’re supposed to do is stop BEFORE it gets to be too much as a mom. (Or homeschooler or business owner.) Not make yourself get up and go through the motions again on empty. Here’s the reason you feel like you’re always playing catchup…. You’ve got this! Alyssa Free up your time as a work-at-home mom: https://yourunbusylife.com/ And if you need the right answers (both for the kid side of your schedule AND your...
Resting first is the most backward productivity hack ever. But what changes about your schedule? All kinds of things, right? All of a sudden you’re deleting “answer my DMs” from your Wednesday morning at 10am calendar so you can drop by that local coffee shop and enjoy a rare morning out with your laptop instead (because you ALWAYS get the best content ideas when you’re outside the home without the kids). Here’s the nitty gritty, calendar-level changes that make a HUGE difference ...
"Do not do more today than you can completely recover from today." ~ Greg McKeown Wait - you mean watching Netflix with my husband at night ISN’T the only “recovering” I need to do?? Nope. Not by a long shot. Because you want something a heck of a lot better than waiting 17 years till your kids are out of the house so you can enjoy all the peace and quiet again! Here’s how to marry your purpose with your energy levels as a mom in business…. You’ve got this! Alyssa Free up your time as a work-...
Today we have a bonus episode for you all about reclaiming energy and meaning at work as women. We’re bringing on a guest, Rebecca Visser, to talk about healing the overachiever mom. You’ve got this! Alyssa Free up your time as a work-at-home mom: https://yourunbusylife.com/ Rebecca's freebie: learn.crescentcoaching.ca/career-alignment-starter-guide And if you need the right answers (both for the kid side of your schedule AND your “what’s next” project list), I’ve got two m...
Listen - you can't keep doing ALL the chores AND building your business as a work-from-home mom. Chores + business + 0 kids? Fine. Chores + business + 1+ kids? Too much. So why are you pretending you can be a full-time stay-at-home mom AND a crazy ambitious CEO AND keep up everything around the house, plus do your workouts, plus have oodles of time to spend with your husband….. When we both know that’s insanity?? It’s because of THIS. You’ve got this! Alyssa Free up your time as a work-at-hom...
Why in the world would I choose to run a family of seven - AND operate a successful online business (not a side hustle) - plus homeschool - am I crazy?! No, and I’m not actually as busy as that sounds. Because I’m not actually doing all the housework and ALL the cleaning and teaching every single subject to every one of my kids on top of handling all of my marketing and lead gen and client serving and content activities by myself. (That WOULD be crazy making!) So here’s how I make everything ...
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