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Welcome to Needs to be Studied, the podcast where we unapologetically dive into the wild world of sex, mental health, dating, and relationships. Hosted by the one and only Billy The Bad Guy, we're here to explore all the things your momma warned you about—but with way more laughs and a lot less judgment.
Each week, we bring on guests who spill the tea on their love lives, mental breakdowns, and all the juicy details in between. No topic is off-limits, and no story is too wild. Whether you’re dodging red flags, navigating a situationship, or just trying to keep your sanity in check, we’ve got you covered.
We’re here to remind you that no one has it all figured out, and that’s perfectly okay. So grab your favorite drink, sit back, and get ready to laugh, cringe, and maybe even learn a thing or two.
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Send a text Valentine’s Day is coming up… and if your bedroom routine is giving copy-and-paste energy, we need to talk. In this episode of Needs To Be Studied, we break down how to truly spice up Valentine’s Day without relying on the same old script. We’re getting into: • What sensory play actually is (and why beginners are curious about it) • Safe household tools, toys, and gadgets you can use to build anticipation • ...
Send us a text If you have to give an ultimatum… is the relationship already over? Whew 😮💨—this episode is for anyone who’s dating, confused, overthinking, or stuck asking themselves “Is it them… or is it me?” This week, we’re joined by dating coach Chad Scott (IG: @chadscotthere) to unpack the real meaning behind ultimatums, dating confusion, and self-accountability. We talk about when ultimatums are boundaries vs. emotional pressure, why feeling confused while dating is actually a red flag...
Send us a text In this episode of Needs to Be Studied, we’re joined by Master Radiant, who helps break down how kink can deepen emotional intimacy, trust, and vulnerability in sex in ways many “vanilla” relationships never touch. From consent and communication to aftercare and emotional safety, we explore why some people feel more seen, protected, and connectedduring kink than in everyday dating. Together, we talk about the moment kink stopped feeling purely physical and started feeling emoti...
Send us a text Dating shouldn’t feel like a full-time anxiety job… but here we are 😭 In this episode of Needs To Be Studied, we get real about how anxious attachment actually shows up while dating — the overthinking, the texting spirals, the “am I asking for too much or not enough?” moments we all know too well. Then we switch gears and talk about beginner Dom & Sub dynamics — nothing extreme, just low-risk ways couples can add a little spice, tension, and power play to their relationship...
Send us a text Where you take someone on a first date can tell you everything you need to know — and the internet has officially made a blacklist 👀. In this episode, we break down the viral list of places you should never take someone on a first date and debate which ones are real red flags… and which ones people might be dragging a little too hard.. Then things get spicy 🌶️ as we dive into 2026 sex bucket lists — what people actually want to try, what feels realistic, and what might need to ...
Send us a text Wolf hit us with a heartbreak story we weren’t ready for 😭. We spill the tea on pain, laughs, and the 3-6-9 dating rule, plus I give y’all the full holiday recap—gifts, drama, and all the mess. Support the show
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Send us a text The holidays are here, and Needs To Be Studied is diving into the two things everybody stresses about this season: money and sex. Billy and special guest Wolf break down the real questions couples are scared to ask out loud: ✨ How much should you actually spend on someone you’re dating? ✨ Is there a “right” budget for holiday gifts in NYC when rent is basically a second partner? ✨ What do you do when you genuinely don’t know what to ask for… or what to get them? ✨ And of co...
Send us a text In this holiday edition of Needs to Be Studied, we’re diving deep into the pressure, chaos, and unspoken rules of meeting the family during the holidays. From awkward introductions to hidden red flags, we break down everything you need to know before walking into someone’s holiday dinner. And for the first time ever, Billy opens up about being scared of love — for REAL. The fear of being seen, being chosen, and letting someone in becomes part of the conversation in the most hon...
Send us a text In this episode of Needs To Be Studied, Billy and his guest co-host get wide open about a topic most people only whisper about — dating downlow men. We’re breaking down the real truth behind DL situationships, secret links, hidden relationships, and why so many gay men fall into these emotional trap doors. From sneaky late-night pull-ups to the emotional confusion that comes with secrecy, we share our raw experiences with DL men, what really happened behind closed doors, and ...
Send us a text Billy links up with the ladies of Code Name Coochie for a wild, unfiltered study session on the unrealistic expectations we all drag into dating and relationships. From fantasy-level demands to the pressure of “perfect chemistry” on day one, nothing is off limits. Then we get into the juicy stuff: what it’s really like having sex with someone for the first time, the nerves, the surprises, and the stories we definitely weren’t prepared for. If you’re trying to understand your ow...
Send us a text Billy’s in his chef era, y’all 🍝🔥 — cooking dinner for the guy he’s been dating for the very first time, and suddenly craving more than just seconds… he’s craving marriage 😩💍. In this episode of Needs To Be Studied, Billy breaks down the difference between soft launching vs. hard launching relationships, how social media makes us overthink love, and what it means when you’re secretly planning a wedding after one good date. Tune in for a mix of real talk, romantic delusion, and ...
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Send us a text Everybody’s swiping, linking, and ghosting… but is anybody actually finding love anymore? 👀 In this episode of Needs to Be Studied, we get real about LGBTQ hookup culture and the struggles of dating in a world obsessed with instant gratification. From late-night “u up?” texts to emotional burnout, we break down how hookup culture has changed the way queer folks connect, date, and love. Join Billy the Bad Guy and friends as they unpack the truth about modern queer relationships ...
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Send us a text It’s the 50th episode of Needs to Be Studied — and you know Billy couldn’t celebrate quietly. What was supposed to be a chill Q&A with supporters turns into pure chaos when Billy and Wolf start swapping stories… including the time Billy thought he was going to a sex club but somehow ended up in a full-on freak off 👀. After the laughs (and confusion), things heat up when Billy dives into the real convo: Casual Dating vs. Intentional Dating. Are you vibing just to kill time o...
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Send us a text Billy recaps the wild live show moments (his fave yet 👀), shares a birthday recap with his boo Papo 🎂💋, then takes us to sex school with vocab words you’ve never heard 📚 and anal tips you’ll actually use 🍑✨. In this episode: 🎤 Live show highlights🎉 Birthday recap with Papo📚 Spicy sex vocab🍑 Anal tips that hitSupport the show
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Send us a text Think disabled people don’t have sex? Think again. 👀 In this episode, we sit down with Cnote (who’s blind) and Frenchy (who’s in a wheelchair) from the Blind But Now I See podcast — and trust us, they’re here to crush every outdated myth. We’re also joined by Kasha the Sexologist, who helps them (and us 👅) explore how to keep sex spicy, fun, and full of pleasure no matter your ability. 💥 What you’ll learn: Why disability doesn’t erase desire, intimacy, or pleasureReal talk abou...
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