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Building strong marriages and relationships after infidelity is our profession. We help you cope with a spouse's affair and betrayal, while giving you the tools to learn how to heal and find forgiveness.
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In this episode, Brian Bercht introduces a foundational recovery principle: separating the position the affair partner played from their character as a person. When character and behavior get confused, healing conversations turn defensive, emotional, and unproductive. Brian explains why spouses who acted unfaithfully often defend the affair partner, why betrayed spouses feel compelled to vilify them, and how both reactions can quietly sabotage recovery. You’ll learn how to talk about the othe...
In this fourth installment of Anger From a Man’s Perspective, Brian Bercht addresses a powerful and common question from a wife navigating betrayal recovery: “If he’s trying to clean up his act, why does he still walk around with an angry, sour attitude, and why does it make me feel unsafe?” This episode unpacks what’s really happening beneath a man’s anger after an affair, especially when he appears to be doing many of the “right” things on the surface but still shows up with frustration, de...
Do men truly realize the impact their anger has on their wives? And if they don’t, what do they actually believe about their anger and its effects? In this episode, Brian dives straight into a listener question that explores the often-misunderstood dynamics of male anger in marriage. He breaks down why compound questions can create confusion in communication, especially between husbands and wives, and how that confusion can unintentionally lead to hurt, frustration, and conflict. If you’ve ev...
In this second installment on anger from a man’s perspective, Brian continues the conversation by discussing the beliefs, behaviors, and biological differences that often shape how men experience and express anger. This episode dives into the visceral differences between men and women, exploring why women are often more sensitive to signs of anger or danger, and how this sensitivity is not a flaw, but a God-designed, instinctive response rooted in protection and survival. If you’re navi...
Brian gets real, raw, and honest about anger and how it can show up in a man's life. "My anger was responsible for some horrible actions resulting in damage to either individuals or property. The impact of these behaviors often but not always, remained longer with me than it did with any of the ones I may have hurt." Listen in as we start this mini series Anger - From a Man's Perspective. Yes, you can move beyond the pain and get the life you want. www.beyondaffairs.com 360.306.3...
Discouragement is an inevitable part of healing, especially after betrayal. In this episode, Brian sits down with Anne to talk openly about discouragements during their affair recovery. Sharing from their own painful journey, and over 20 years of helping thousands of couples heal, Anne shares insights about why recovery is not a straight line, how setbacks are part of the process, and what discouragement can look like at different levels. Brian and Anne discuss how misunderstanding the healin...
What are the keys to success? In today's episode Anne and Tiffanie walk through 8 Keys to having success in life...especially after your life has been turned upside down by an affair. They revisit their own stories of devastation as they entered another 'New Year'. What roadblocks, realizations, and fears did they face? How did they overcome them? Listen in to hear what helped and gain tools to start your 2026 on track. Yes, you can move beyond the pain and get the life you want. ...
Jordan, a Pastor’s wife, is going through her first Christmas now as a single mom, post-affair. She honestly shares the struggles, what her church did right to support her, and the many strategies that have helped her to heal. She tells us she is actually happy, joy-filled, feels freedom, and no regrets. Learn from all the things she did right, as she navigated both devastation and a reality that was never God's plan, nor what she could’ve imagined. But God takes the broken pieces of our live...
Encouragement for the holidays when infidelity has rocked your reality - Part 1 A couple, Greg & Daphne, share their story of reconciliation & redemption, how they made it through that first Christmas. What were the struggles? What things helped them? What could their family do to help? Learn to not just get not just through it, but how to go on to many years of happy and healed beyond. Yes, you can move beyond the pain and get the life you want. www.beyondaffairs.com 360.306.3367
In today’s episode, we answer questions from our listeners about healing after infidelity, and navigating the painful realities of betrayal trauma in marriage. Join Anne and Brian as they share expert guidance on some common and difficult challenges couples face during affair recovery, including: • What to do when the affair partner is a close friend • How to respond when your spouse won’t commit to healing after an affair • Why a spouse may shut down and refuse to talk after betrayal •...
What can the person who acted unfaithfully do to help their spouse feel? Where do they start? What's a betrayed spouse looking for in healing? In today's episode we dive into what the unfaithful spouse can do to help the brokenhearted spouse heal, and how you can move your marriage forward after an affair. Yes, you can move beyond the pain and get the life you want. www.beyondaffairs.com 360.306.3367
Why does he still get defensive, even after months or years of healing? In this episode, Brian and Tiffanie break down the hidden reasons men struggle to hear feedback after betrayal, and what actually helps them respond with openness instead of shame. If you’ve ever wondered whether your husband will ever be able to receive your hurt without shutting down, this conversation offers clarity, hope, and practical guidance to finally change the pattern. Yes, you can move beyond the pain and get t...
In this episode, we’re joined by three courageous women whose healing journeys are still unfolding. Each of these women recently attended the Take Your Life Back retreat, a transformative experience designed to bring clarity, strength, and hope to those navigating the devastation of infidelity. We revisit what it feels like to walk into the retreat crippled by pain … and walk out with renewed strength, grounded hope, and a clearer vision for the future. Yes, you can move beyond th...
How do you survive the Holidays after an affair? When devastation strikes, how do you navigate forward without crushing pain? In this episode we give you tips that helped us through our own devastating holidays, and we share the things we wished we'd known back in the day. Listen in to hear nuggets of encouragement as you enter the Holiday season while in the midst of Affair Recovery. Yes, you can move beyond the pain and get the life you want. www.beyondaffairs.com 360.306.3367
This week, we’re diving into the mistakes we make while trying to heal. Anne, Brian, and Tiffanie open up about their own journeys, sharing the missteps, realizations, and lessons that shaped their healing. Whether you’re early in recovery or years down the road, this episode will help you recognize what to avoid and how to move forward with greater grace, understanding, and hope. Yes, you can move beyond the pain and get the life you want. www.beyondaffairs.com 360.306.3367
In today's episode we share 12 Keys to Preventing an Affair in your marriage. We’ll discuss important checkpoints to keep on the conversational table. Like how to stay emotionally connected, recognize areas of vulnerability, and keep intimacy alive. These aren’t just prevention steps; they’re ways to nurture closeness, build trust, and protect the love you’ve worked so hard to create. Yes, you can move beyond the pain and get the life you want. www.beyondaffairs.com 360.306.3367
If divorce wasn’t what you wanted but it’s where you’ve found yourself, this episode is for you. Learn how to walk through divorce with strength, and hope for a better future. Yes, you can move beyond the pain and get the life you want. www.beyondaffairs.com 360.306.3367
What do you do when the person you loved and trusted most shatters your world through betrayal? Anne shares her own story of infidelity, heartbreak, and recovery, and the five phases every betrayed spouse experiences on the road to healing. She offers clarity, compassion, and practical guidance for one of life’s most devastating traumas. Whether you’re fighting for your marriage or fighting for yourself, this episode will remind you that you are not alone, and there is hope beyond the pain. Y...
When trust is broken, what does it take to rebuild? Anne and Krista answer questions from curious men at the Man of Honor weekend. With honesty, strength, and grace, they explore what healing, understanding, and real change look like after betrayal. Yes, you can move beyond the pain and get the life you want. www.beyondaffairs.com 360.306.3367
Brian sits down with several men who attended the recent Man of Honor retreat. The men open up about their experience, the bonds they created, and what it means to be a man of honor. Listen in and find out why these men believe it was a life-changing experience. Yes, you can move beyond the pain and get the life you want. www.beyondaffairs.com 360.306.3367
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