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SOLACE: Soul + Grief

Author: Candee Lucas

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This podcast is sponsored by SOULPLUSGRACE serving the San José/Santa Cruz area, offering grief support and grief journeying with spirituality.  I hope to help you travel through grief with God at your side. 

"I am a trained Spiritual Director for those who seek to complete the 19th Annotation of St. Igantius’ spiritual exercises OR seek spiritual direction while grieving.  I have also worked as a hospital/cemetery chaplain and grief doula. I believe all paths lead to God and that all traditions are due respect and honour. I take my sacred inspiration from all of my patients and companions–past, present and future; the Dalai Lama, James Tissot, St. John of the Cross, the Buddha, Saint Teresa of Ávila, and, of course, Íñigo who became known as St. Ignatius. I utilize art, poetry, music, aromatherapy, yoga, lectio divina, prayer and meditation in my self-work and work with others. I believe in creating a sacred space for listening; even in the most incongruous of surroundings."

BACKGROUND

  • Jesuit Retreat Center, Los Altos, CA -- Pierre Favre Program, 3 year training to give the Spiritual Exercises of Saint Ignatius
  • Centro de Espiritualidad de Loyola, Spain -- The Spiritual Exercises of St Ignatius of Loyola -- 30 Day Silent Retreat
  • Center for Loss & Life Transition – Comprehensive Bereavement Skills Training (30 hrs) Ft. Collins, CO
  • California State University Institute for Palliative Care--Palliative Care Chaplaincy Specialty Cert. (90 hrs)
  • Sequoia Hospital, Redwood City, CA -- Clinical Pastoral Education
  • 19th Annotation with Fumiaki Tosu, San Jose, CA, Spiritual Exercises of St. Ignatius
  • Santa Clara University, Santa Clara, CA M.A. – Pastoral Ministries

CONTACT ME:  [email protected] with questions to be answered in future episodes.

































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Send us Fan Mail Some rooms don’t reward you for showing up. The person you’re there to support might be frightened, angry, sarcastic, or completely shut down and if your ability to care depends on being liked, you won’t last long. Today we are naming the kind of love that can actually hold up under end-of-life care, hospice chaplaincy, and bereavement support: agape. Agape is love that doesn’t hinge on affection, attraction, familiarity, or shared theology. It’s a decision, repeated moment ...
Send us Fan Mail “Good faith” sounds like a legal phrase, but what happens when you treat it as a spiritual practice instead, especially in grief? Slow the phrase down until it shows its older meaning: *bona fides*, a kind of fidelity kept without proof. When life hurts, when doubt gets sharp, when the future won’t cooperate, good faith becomes less about winning an argument and more about how we stay authentic, honest and present with each other. Explore what good faith asks of the person d...
Eulogy for Mom

Eulogy for Mom

2026-09-1112:49

Send us Fan Mail A funeral recording fails, years pass, and a question refuses to let go: what did I say, and what do I wish I had said? I’m offering a do-over eulogy for my mom, Joanne Frances Kimmel Lucas, who died from cancer. If you’ve ever wanted a second chance with your words, this story meets you right where you are. Grief doesn’t stay polite. We sit with Yeats’ line, “All changed, changed utterly. A terrible beauty is born,” and unpack why “terrible” belongs in our...
Send us Fan Mail Grief can make your life feel like a place you don’t recognize. The sky looks different, familiar rooms tilt, and the road under your feet seems to belong to someone else. Walk down the Emmaus Road, where two grieving disciples leave Jerusalem after everything they hoped for collapses. A stranger joins them, listens before speaking, and stays with them mile after mile until a simple breaking of bread opens their eyes. Then comes the sting and the mystery: at the exact ...
Send us Fan Mail (This one is best heard alone in private and not while driving.) Some losses don’t just hurt, they shock the whole body. If you’re carrying a death that came too suddenly, too violently, or too unfairly, you may know that lonely feeling of waking up at 3 a.m. with grief in your throat and no words that fix it. We’re not going to make it easy. We’re going to make it honest and we’re going to stay with you. We begin with an anchor from Psalm 34:18: “The Lord is close to the br...
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