SoulTalk with Kute Blackson

"Don't live your life based in fear. Be courageous." (Erica Komisar) What if the deepest struggles we face as adults: anxiety, addiction, emotional emptiness, the constant need to prove ourselves, don't begin in adulthood at all? What if they begin in the earliest, most fragile years of life… when presence matters more than anything else? In this powerful episode of SoulTalk, I sit down with renowned psychoanalyst and parenting expert Erica Komisar for a conversation that challenges many of the assumptions we've been taught about success, independence, and what it truly means to raise emotionally healthy children. At the heart of this conversation is one radical and deeply confronting idea: human beings are born neurologically unfinished and the first three years of life are not optional when it comes to emotional development. Erica explains why a mother's physical presence acts as a child's external nervous system, how early emotional absence creates a quiet but lasting void, and why so many adults spend their lives unconsciously trying to fill it. We explore the differences between maternal and paternal roles, and the biological intelligence behind nurturing and play.  Erica also speaks candidly about the cost of modern pressures, professional ego, and cultural narratives that undervalue caregiving, and how these forces have reshaped families in ways we are only now beginning to understand. Whether you are a parent, planning to become one, healing your own childhood, or simply curious about the roots of emotional well-being, this conversation will impact you. Timestamps (00:01:50) – Erica explains why mothers and fathers should not compete to perform the same tasks. (00:03:53) –  An exploration of the concept that human infants are born nine months "too early" in terms of neurological fragility and require total vulnerability. .(00:05:32) - How a mother's physical presence regulates a baby's heartbeat, breathing, and emotional regulation. (00:07:43) -  Why a child first sees and understands themselves by looking into the mother's eyes. (00:09:37) -  Understanding the biological drivers behind maternal nurturing. (00:11:14) -  How fathers use physical play to teach children how to regulate high levels of excitement and aggression. (00:17:04) -  Erica challenges the modern notion that a parent can be "emotionally present" during the first three years without being physically present. (00:19:32) -  A discussion on how early emotional absence creates a vacuum that adults often try to fill with technology, drugs, or eating disorders. (00:21:26) - A courageous look at whether the "need" to work is driven by survival or by ego gratification and the desire for materialism. (00:26:00) -  Encouraging mothers to let go of professional ego and consider a "mommy track" to prioritize the critical early years of their children. (00:30:03) -  How the feminist movement's dismissal of caretaking as "unproductive" disrupted family structures and impacted the development of young men. (00:34:01) - Insights from Erica's new book on how to avoid treating children as "possessions" or "weapons" during a separation. (00:39:15) – Three Wisdoms for Life: Erica shares her ultimate lessons: prioritize relationships, value interdependence over independence, and live a life driven by courage rather than fear. In this episode, you'll discover: Why the first three years of life are foundational to emotional regulation and mental health. How a parent's physical presence shapes a child's sense of safety, identity, and self-worth. Why emotional absence often shows up later as addiction, workaholism, or disconnection. The biological differences between maternal nurturing and paternal play and why both matter. A courageous reexamination of work, ego, and the fear of "falling behind". How to protect a child's emotional health during separation or divorce. Why interdependence, not hyper-independence, is the key to resilient human beings. Questions I Ask What is the "Fourth Trimester" and why are we born nine months too early? Is parenting a competition or a team exercise? Can you really be "emotionally present" if you are physically absent? What is the true origin of our "voids" and addictions? When we say we "have to work," is it for survival or for the ego? How do we stop weaponizing our children during a divorce? Should we be raising our children for independence or interdependence? How do we heal the "Mother Hunger"? Get in Touch: Email me at kuteblackson@kuteblackson.com Visit my website: www.kuteblackson.com • Website: www.komisar.com • Books: Being There, Chicken Little, and her latest release, The Parents' Guide to Divorce. Resources with Kute Blackson: Purpose Summit: www.purposesummit2026.com Register now! Kute's Life changing Path to Abundance & Miracles : https://www.8levelsofgratitude.com Free masterclass: Learn The Manifestation secret to Remove Mental Blocks & Invisible Barriers to Attract The Life of Abundance You Desire. REGISTER NOW : https://www.manifestationmasterclassonline.com      

"Consistency, not intensity, is what transforms a life." Every January, millions of people promise themselves that this will be the year everything changes. They set goals. They make declarations. They swear this time will be different. And yet by February, most resolutions are quietly abandoned, not because people are lazy, broken, or lacking discipline but because they've been taught the wrong model of change. In this powerful episode of SoulTalk, I invite you to look deeper, beyond willpower, hype, and the "New Year, New You" myth and into the real mechanics of lasting transformation. If you're tired of starting over… If you're done beating yourself up for "failing"… If you sense that something deeper is calling you forward… This episode is a compassionate wake-up call and a grounded roadmap for real, embodied change. We explore why behavior change alone never lasts, how identity shapes your results, why consistency always beats intensity, and how your environment may be quietly deciding your future. This isn't about forcing yourself to become someone else. It's about remembering who you already are and living from that truth. Timestamps (00:01:10) – Why most New Year's resolutions fail (and it's not your fault) (00:02:09) – Challenging the "New Year, New You" myth (00:03:12) – Invitation to the Purpose Summit 2026 (free global event) (00:05:27) – Why changing behavior alone never creates lasting change (00:07:20) – The real foundation of transformation: identity (00:08:31) – You can't outgrow your self-image (00:10:38) – Shift #2: The power of small, consistent actions (00:12:41) – How tiny habits compound into massive change (00:13:29) – Self-trust: the hidden key to confidence and momentum (00:14:32) – Shift #3: Your environment is shaping your future (00:16:28) – Designing a life that supports your highest self (00:17:59) – Who are you becoming in 2026? (00:19:06) – Let this be a year of purpose, boldness, and alignment In this Episode, you will learn: Why willpower alone is never enough to create lasting change The real reason New Year's resolutions don't stick How your identity silently controls your results Why consistency beats intensity every single time How small daily actions rewire your brain and build self-trust The role your environment plays in success, habits, and self-sabotage How to stop chasing goals — and start magnetizing them What it truly means to live from alignment instead of force Some Questions I Ask: Who do I need to become to live the life I desire?  What version of me already lives this reality naturally? Where am I trying to fix myself instead of trusting myself? What small commitment can I keep daily, no matter my mood? Does my environment support who I'm becoming… or who I used to be? What is my soul inviting me to master in 2026? Get in Touch: Email me at kuteblackson@kuteblackson.com Visit my website: www.kuteblackson.com   Resources with Kute Blackson: Purpose Summit: www.purposesummit2026.com Register now! Kute's Life changing Path to Abundance & Miracles : https://www.8levelsofgratitude.com Free masterclass: Learn The Manifestation secret to Remove Mental Blocks & Invisible Barriers to Attract The Life of Abundance You Desire. REGISTER NOW : https://www.manifestationmasterclassonline.com    

"Your feelings aren't the problem. They're the guidance." What if the real reason relationships hurt so much isn't who you're with, but how you relate to yourself? In this profound and eye-opening conversation, Dr. Margaret Paul, bestselling author and creator of Inner Bonding, joins Kute Blackson to dismantle some of the most common  and damaging myths about love, relationships, self-worth, and responsibility. This episode goes far beyond romantic relationships. It dives into the invisible emotional systems we carry into marriage, parenting, friendships, spirituality, and even our sense of purpose. You'll discover why chemistry is often confused with love, why "being nice" can actually be self-betrayal, and how many of us unknowingly abandon ourselves; then, wonder why relationships feel exhausting, painful, or empty. Timestamps (00:02:30) - What a healthy relationship really is (getting love vs. sharing love) (00:05:18) - Why we're attracted to the wrong people (00:08:26) - Emotional responsibility in relationships (00:11:56) - Self-care vs. true self-love (00:14:59) - What the inner child actually is (00:19:54) - How to work with anger, desire, and intense emotions (00:28:49) - Perfectionism, control, and false beliefs (00:37:29) - Relationship systems that sabotage love (pull,resist, compliance) (00:40:35) - How self-betrayal affects health and vitality (00:42:11) - Discovering if relationships heal after infidelity (00:45:07) - "I did nothing wrong" and hidden dynamics (00:46:32) - Why compliance is not love Questions I Ask What actually defines a healthy relationship? Why do we keep choosing the same kind of partner even when it hurts? If no one is responsible for our happiness, what is our responsibility to each other in love? Can relationships truly recover from infidelity? And how?  How do parents raise emotionally healthy children without creating dependence? Is compliance really a form of control? What advice would you give your younger self if you could start again? In This Episode, You'll Learn… Why love alone isn't enough to make a relationship work The difference between sharing love and needing it Why chemistry can feel powerful and still be destructive How self-abandonment silently sabotages intimacy Why being "nice" and compliant kills desire What emotional responsibility really means (and what it doesn't) Whether trust can be rebuilt after betrayal How learning to love yourself changes every relationship Get in Touch: Email me at kuteblackson@kuteblackson.com Visit my website: www.kuteblackson.com   Resources with Kute Blackson: Purpose Summit: www.purposesummit2026.com Register now!   Kute's Life changing Path to Abundance & Miracles : https://www.8levelsofgratitude.com   Free masterclass: Learn The Manifestation secret to Remove Mental Blocks & Invisible Barriers to Attract The Life of Abundance You Desire. REGISTER NOW : https://www.manifestationmasterclassonline.com    

"What you're avoiding may be exactly why you're here." We all procrastinate. But what if it's not because you're lazy or undisciplined… What if there's something deeper going on? In this episode of SoulTalk, I share a different way of understanding procrastination — one that's more honest, more compassionate, and more empowering. Instead of beating yourself up for the things you haven't done, we'll explore what might really be behind the delay. Sometimes, the very thing you're avoiding is the thing that could change your life.  But there's a reason you're not doing it — and understanding that reason is the key to unlocking your next level. Whether you're putting off a difficult conversation, holding back on a big dream, or just stuck in your own head, this episode will help you get clarity, stop judging yourself, and finally move forward with greater purpose and peace. If you've ever thought, "Why do I keep doing this?" — this one's for you. → Listen now and discover what your procrastination has been trying to tell you all along. Timestamps: (00:01:00) – Procrastination reframed: not laziness, but a deeper signal (00:03:00) – The question that changes everything: what are you avoiding? (00:05:00) – Procrastination as self-protection and ego preservation (00:07:00) – Comfort vs. evolution: ego safety vs. soul growth (00:09:00) – Why clarity only comes after action (00:11:00) – Making peace with fear instead of fighting it (00:13:00) – Resistance as a sign of growth and expansion (00:15:00) – Small actions, imperfect steps, and real momentum (00:17:00) – You're not procrastinating because you're weak — you're powerful (00:18:30) – Final reflection, invitation, and closing message   Some Questions I Ask What am I avoiding right now that I know would change my life? If I stopped procrastinating, who would I have to stop being? What am I really afraid would happen if I succeeded? Is my perfectionism actually fear disguised as preparation? What part of me is trying to stay safe — and what part of me is ready to grow? What is one small action I can take in the next 24 hours? What is procrastination costing me emotionally, spiritually, and in my future?   In This Episode You Will Learn Why procrastination is often the ego's last line of defense. The hidden fear behind perfectionism and over-preparation. Why clarity doesn't come before action — it comes from action. How small, aligned steps create massive transformation. The difference between choosing comfort… and choosing evolution. Get in Touch: Email me at kuteblackson@kuteblackson.com Visit my website: www.kuteblackson.com   Resources with Kute Blackson: Purpose Summit: www.purposesummit2026.com Register now!   Kute's Life changing Path to Abundance & Miracles: https://www.8levelsofgratitude.com   Free masterclass: Learn The Manifestation secret to Remove Mental Blocks & Invisible Barriers to Attract The Life of Abundance You Desire. REGISTER NOW: https://www.manifestationmasterclassonline.com      

"I'm not afraid to die. I'm afraid not to live." What if everything you've been told about your limits… was a lie? In this rare, raw, and unfiltered conversation, Kute Blackson sits down with the legendary Wim Hof—also known as The Iceman—to explore the true potential of the human spirit. Wim doesn't speak from theory. He speaks from fire-tested experience: plunging into frozen waters, scaling mountains in shorts, and surviving the loss of his beloved wife while raising four children alone. But more than his feats, it's what those experiences unlocked in him and what they can unlock in you, that makes this episode a must-listen. This isn't about breathwork.It's not about cold therapy. It's about coming home to your own inner power. Whether you're facing physical pain, emotional grief, or just feel disconnected from your inner fire, this conversation will remind you: there is a wild, unbreakable intelligence in your body, and it knows the way home.   Timestamps (00:00:54) – Why this rare Wim Hof interview is being shared now. (00:04:49) – Who Wim Hof is and why his life defies human limits. (00:06:39) – The moment Wim realized there was "more" to human potential. (00:09:15) – Why most people never access their true power. (00:11:00) – Using breath and cold to influence the nervous and immune systems. (00:14:42) – The mindset shift required for real change. (00:18:14) – Staying grounded when the world doubts you. (00:22:14) – How breathing changes your body chemistry and emotions. (00:27:39) – Preparing the mind to face fear and pressure. (00:32:45) – Grief, loss, and how cold helped Wim survive heartbreak. (00:36:45) – Depression, trauma, and healing from within the brain. (00:42:13) – What to do when belief in yourself is gone. (00:46:29) – Fear, death, and choosing to truly live. (00:48:15) – What success really means. (00:51:44) – The three essentials: health, happiness, and strength. (00:53:14) – One simple practice to start today Some Questions I Ask How did this journey begin for you — and what were you really searching for? Why do so few people tap into their true potential? What keeps us blocked from accessing our inner strength? How do you mentally prepare for extreme stress or fear? How did you survive the grief of losing your wife while raising four children alone? Can depression and emotional pain really be influenced from within the body? Are you afraid of dying — or of not fully living? How do you personally define success? If people could do just one thing today, what should it be? In this episode, you'll learn about: Why pain is not your enemy—it's a doorway to purpose, strength, and awakening How to reconnect with the primal wisdom of your body through breath and nature Wim's personal story of heartbreak, loss, and the sacred power that pain revealed Why modern life has made us weak—and how to reclaim your inner resilience Simple daily practices to restore energy, focus, and emotional balance How to face fear and grief with courage, surrender, and soul Get in Touch: Email me at kuteblackson@kuteblackson.com Visit my website: www.kuteblackson.com   Resources with Kute Blackson: Purpose Summit: www.purposesummit2026.com Register now!   Kute's Life changing Path to Abundance & Miracles : https://www.8levelsofgratitude.com   Free masterclass: Learn The Manifestation secret to Remove Mental Blocks & Invisible Barriers to Attract The Life of Abundance You Desire. REGISTER NOW : https://www.manifestationmasterclassonline.com    

"Your pain wasn't sent to break you down. It was sent to break you through." Have you ever wondered why the people you loved the most walked away, why the path you trusted suddenly crumbled beneath your feet, or why life sometimes breaks your heart in ways you never saw coming?  In this episode of Soul Talk, I invite you into a profound exploration of one of life's greatest mysteries, the hidden purpose inside your pain. This conversation is a journey into the soul-level truth behind your heartbreaks, disappointments, delays, and breakdowns. Together, we peel back the layers of misunderstanding, resistance, and egoic fear that make you believe something is wrong when life falls apart… when in reality, something deeper is seeking to be born through you. You'll discover how pain is not a punishment but a sacred initiation, a divine preparation for the next level of your life. You'll learn how your soul uses challenges to awaken you, how heartbreak refines your compassion, and how the very experiences you've tried to avoid may be the exact ones shaping you into the person you were destined to become. This episode reveals how your pain prepares you for your purpose: How it softens you, strengthens you, expands you, and ultimately breaks you open in order to break you through. This is an invitation to trust the divine curriculum of your life, to recognize that every loss carries a hidden light, every setback conceals a lesson, and every wound contains the blueprint of your greatest service to the world. Listen to this episode and learn how to stop resisting the seasons of pain, so you can finally understand their meaning, receive their gifts, and rise into the purpose you were born to live. Timestamps: (00:01:10) -  Why painful events happen and the meaning behind them. (00:04:13) -  Rethinking pain as a breakthrough, not a breakdown. (00:05:07) -  Outgrowing relationships and structures of life. (00:06:00) -  Pain as preparation for your mission. (00:06:52) -  Pain as a teacher, initiation, and soul curriculum. (00:08:18) -  Why resisting pain keeps it stuck. (00:09:22) -  The cocoon: letting go of who you've been. (00:10:17) -  How the ego interferes with healing. (00:11:21) -  The danger of suppressing pain. (00:13:58) -  Purpose found in darkness, not comfort. (00:14:49) -  Your wound as the womb of your purpose. (00:15:46) -  Step 1: Welcome your wounds. (00:16:32) -  Step 2: Allow yourself to feel. (00:18:00) -  Step 3: Identify the lesson. (00:18:58) -  Step 4: Rewrite your story. (00:20:21) -  Step 5: Turning pain into service. (00:21:20) -  You are being forged, not failing.  Some questions I ask:  Have you ever wondered why the people you love most walked away or why your path suddenly collapsed? What if your pain is preparing you for your mission? What is this wound trying to show me? What lessons is my soul seeking to learn from this experience? Who am I becoming as a result of what I'm going through? In this episode, you will learn about:  How to transform pain into abundance by unlocking the hidden lessons that activate your higher purpose. Why surrendering to discomfort creates emotional, spiritual, and energetic freedom How to release resistance and experience inner peace, even in the midst of uncertainty. How your breakdowns create the foundation for breakthroughs in wealth, love, and fulfillment. The difference between suppressing emotions and using them as gateways to healing and expansion. How to dissolve ego patterns that block prosperity, aligned relationships, and soul-level success. Why your wounds hold the blueprint to your freedom, abundance, and authentic power. Practical spiritual tools to alchemize pain into peace, clarity, and purpose-driven prosperity.   Get in Touch: Email me at kuteblackson@kuteblackson.com Visit my website: www.kuteblackson.com   Resources with Kute Blackson: Purpose Summit: www.purposesummit2026.com Register now!   Kute's Life changing Path to Abundance & Miracles : https://www.8levelsofgratitude.com   Free masterclass: Learn The Manifestation secret to Remove Mental Blocks & Invisible Barriers to Attract The Life of Abundance You Desire. REGISTER NOW : https://www.manifestationmasterclassonline.com                

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"Your desire is an acorn with success built into it."  What if the universe wasn't something to command, but something to collaborate with, a living intelligence responding not to your wishes, but to your being? In this SoulTalk episode, I sit down with world-renowned intuitive, bestselling author, and spiritual teacher Colette Baron-Reid once again  to reveal the deeper, often misunderstood art of manifesting, not as a formula, but as a spiritual practice. Together we journey into what Colette calls the sacred partnership,  a dynamic relationship between your inner state and the quantum field. She shares vulnerable, soul-stirring stories from her own life: getting sober with nothing to her name, receiving unexpected miracles when she finally let go, and the painful collapse of her music dreams that revealed a deeper destiny. Colette explains why manifestation fails when we chase outcomes from fear, and why it opens when we align with who we are becoming. Why the universe isn't interested in our ego's timeline. Why forcing pushes blessings away. And why surrender is not passive, it is the most powerful action of all. Colette reveals her signature practice, the Circle Method, a deceptively simple yet profound drawing ritual that rewires the brain, shifts the nervous system, and activates synchronicity. Listen to this episode and learn how to manifest not by gripping tighter, but by partnering with the intelligence that already knows the path to your highest good. Timestamps:  (00:02:33) -  Clarification on Colette's 19 oracle decks & 8 books. (00:03:20) - Manifestation as co-creation vs willpower. (00:04:28) -  Colette's early spiritual roots and Unity Church teachings. (00:05:26) -  Why forcing "what you want" doesn't work. (00:07:27) -  The music dream, surrender, and learning divine timing. (00:11:38) -  Getting specific vs letting go of attachment. (00:14:19) -  Quantum field, the RAS, and why we rehearse reality. (00:17:10) -  How to manifest when you're broke. (00:19:06) -  The miracle of lasagna + tithing story. (00:21:00) -  Surrender as a practice. (00:23:17) -  Effort vs trust: the "Spirit of Your Business" concept. (00:26:12) -  Are there limits? Destiny vs free will. (00:29:37) -  Fame, self-worth & why some manifest stardom. (00:31:26) - The New York Times manifestation story. (00:33:17) - The Toronto condo: letting spirit choose better. (00:37:50) - Why attachment blocks miracles. (00:42:03) - What "quantum field" actually means. (00:46:34) - The Circle Gratitude Method: daily manifestation practice. (00:50:07) - Why you don't need to be hyper-specific. (00:52:53) - Receive bigger blessings by not limiting the universe. Some Questions I Ask: Why do we desire things that aren't ultimately meant for us? Can we manifest anything, or are some things destined? What role does effort play, and when does surrender matter more? How do you manifest money when you have none? Why does attachment create scarcity? What is the quantum field and how does it affect manifestation? In This Episode, You Will Learn:  The real science behind manifestation and how to apply it How to follow synchronicities and stop blocking your blessings. How to manifest without forcing, hustling, or burning out Why letting go magnetizes your desires faster. The Circle Gratitude Method, a daily drawing practice that rewires your brain.  How to align with divine timing instead of ego timing.  How beliefs, trauma, and early conditioning affect abundance. Why do you attract who you ARE, not what you want. LINKS   COLETTE BARON REID'S URL:   https://www.colettebaronreid.com   Get in Touch: Email me at kuteblackson@kuteblackson.com Visit my website: www.kuteblackson.com Resources with Kute Blackson: Kute's Life-changing Path to Abundance & Miracles: https://www.8levelsofgratitude.com Free masterclass: Learn The Manifestation secret to Remove Mental Blocks & Invisible  Barriers to Attract The Life of Abundance You Desire. REGISTER NOW:  https://www.manifestationmasterclassonline.com      

"Your enoughness is not determined by what you do." Have you ever felt that no matter what you do, how much you achieve, how hard you work… it still doesn't feel like enough? In this powerful episode of Soul Talk, I invite you into a deep exploration of one of the greatest illusions we carry as human beings, the lie that says, "I am not enough." This conversation is a journey back to the truth of who you are. Together, we peel back the layers of childhood conditioning, emotional survival patterns, and unconscious programming that convinced you that your worth was something you had to earn, hustle for, or prove. You'll discover how this lie hides behind perfectionism, over-giving, success, achievement, and the constant push to be more, and how it subtly shapes your relationships, your choices, and even your destiny. This episode is an invitation to remember the essence of your being: the part of you that was never broken, never unworthy, never not enough. The part of you that is whole, perfect, and complete exactly as you are. Listen to this episode and learn how to finally dissolve the lie of not-enoughness so you can reclaim the truth of who you really are. Timestamps:  (00:00:54) -  What "not enoughness" looks like for high achievers (00:02:43) -  Perfectionism, overgiving & the hidden forms of unworthiness (00:04:03) -  You were not born feeling unworthy (00:05:12) -  How childhood conditions us to earn love (00:06:08) -  Kute's personal story growing up in his father's ministry (00:07:46) -  How identity forms around pleasing, proving, and performing (00:08:41) -  How culture and religion reinforce unworthiness (00:09:55) -  Sneaky ways "I'm not enough" hides in everyday life (00:10:26) -  Why success can't fix the inner void (00:11:20) -  Fact vs. story: the difference we must learn (00:12:48) -  Recognizing the cost of holding onto the lie (00:13:46) -  Step 1: Questioning the story you made up (00:14:55) -  Step 2: Reinterpreting childhood events (00:15:42) -  How to meet the inner voice with compassion (00:16:50) -  Healing through self-love and internal reframing (00:18:19) -  You were never not enough, reclaiming your true self (00:20:00) -  How the "not enough" identity becomes a form of control (00:21:47) -  Why letting go feels scary (00:22:40) -  Releasing the belief and grieving what was missing Some questions I ask:  Where did the voice saying "I'm not enough" first come from? Whose voice does your inner critic actually sound like? What events from childhood shaped how you interpreted your worth? What else could those events have meant besides "I'm not enough"? What would change in your life if you stopped believing this lie? How does holding onto "I'm not enough" give you a false sense of control? In this episode, you will learn about:  How love became confused with performance in childhood, and how that pattern still limits you today. The sneaky ways not-enoughness shows up in your relationships, boundaries, finances, and self-expression. How to trace this belief back to its origin and reinterpret the moment that shaped your identity. How childhood conditioning creates a "transactional relationship" with love. How to rewire your self-worth from the inside out. A powerful way to reconnect with the part of you that is untouched by trauma, infinitely worthy, and already whole.   Get in Touch: Email me at kuteblackson@kuteblackson.com Visit my website: www.kuteblackson.com   Resources with Kute Blackson:   Kute's Life-changing Path to Abundance & Miracles: https://www.8levelsofgratitude.com Free masterclass: Learn The Manifestation secret to Remove Mental Blocks & Invisible Barriers to Attract The Life of Abundance You Desire. REGISTER NOW: https://www.manifestationmasterclassonline.com                    

"You cannot be more of a friend to others than you are to yourself."   What if friendship wasn't meant to be effortless, but to make you more alive? What if every relationship, especially the most challenging ones, was a portal into your own expansion? In this episode of Soul Talk, I sit down with Barnet Bain, award-winning filmmaker, spiritual teacher, and author of How to Be a Friend in an Unfriendly World, to explore the sacred, often overlooked art of friending. Barnet reveals a radical truth: Most of us think we're good friends, until the relationship becomes inconvenient. Until someone changes. Until life asks us to grow. Together we dive into the real work of authentic connection, why unconditional love is often a myth we hide behind, how our unspoken emotional contracts quietly sabotage intimacy, and why true friendship requires a willingness to be changed by one another. Barnet shares tender personal stories, including a powerful moment with his daughter that shattered his self-image and awakened him to the unconscious conditions he had placed on love. Through his wisdom, we explore how friendship becomes a spiritual practice, a living crucible where our wounds, triggers, and projections are not obstacles but invitations. Listen to this episode and learn how to friend yourself, friend your wounds, friend your inner weather, and finally, friend others from a place of truth, not need. Timestamps:  (00:02:27) -  What inspired Barnet's new book on friendship (00:04:22) - A wake-up call: Barnet's daughter confronts him (00:08:52) - What is a friend? A new definition (00:10:26) - Unspoken "contracts" in friendships (00:12:04) - Why true friendship requires being emotional and spiritual peers (00:17:28) - The "backpack" we all carry into relationships (00:20:28) -  Friendship across generational or financial differences (00:21:38) -  Friendship in a polarized world: Trump/Biden, identity, beliefs (00:22:06) -  Becoming a friend to your inner world first (00:27:38) -  Lucid living: becoming aware inside the "dream of life" (00:29:25) -  How Barnet has sustained a 40-year marriage (00:32:35) -  Honoring each other & being willing to be changed (00:35:22) -  Why we lack models for friendship today (00:38:16) -  How to know when a friendship is over (00:41:34) -  What to do when you feel lonely or friendless (00:47:17) -  Fun as medicine & small steps to connection (00:49:26) -  Tools to deepen existing friendships (00:52:43) -  The real function of a friend Some Questions I Ask: What inspired you to write a book specifically about friendship?  What is your definition of a friend? Is unconditional love real, or a myth? Can we truly be friends with someone who is in a different "bandwidth"? How do we maintain friendships in a politically divided and polarized world? What does it look like to "friend yourself"? In This Episode, You Will Learn:  How to recognize the hidden contracts and expectations you bring into relationships  How to practice emotional maturity and presence in friendships How to build friendships based on equality, depth, and spiritual peer-ship How to navigate friendships across political or ideological differences How to cultivate long-term, intimate partnerships that grow with you Simple daily practices to help let go of friendships that have naturally dissolved How to start building connections even if you feel alone or disconnected  LINKS BARNET BAIN'S URL:    https://barnetbain.com Get in Touch: Email me at kuteblackson@kuteblackson.com Visit my website: www.kuteblackson.com   Resources with Kute Blackson: Kute's Life-changing Path to Abundance & Miracles: https://www.8levelsofgratitude.com Free masterclass: Learn The Manifestation secret to Remove Mental Blocks & Invisible  Barriers to Attract The Life of Abundance You Desire. REGISTER NOW:  https://www.manifestationmasterclassonline.com        

"You are the one your ancestors have been praying would come, to shift things for future generations."  Have you ever wondered why certain patterns seem to repeat in your life, no matter how hard you try to change? Maybe you keep attracting the same relationships, struggling with the same fears, or feeling emotions that don't even seem like yours. In this episode of Soul Talk, I reveal the deeper truth about ancestral trauma, the invisible wounds passed down through generations, and how to finally free yourself from them. You'll learn how to recognize what you've inherited, release what no longer serves you, and create a new legacy of love and light for those who come after you. You'll discover how unprocessed emotions, beliefs, and pain can live in your DNA, shaping your patterns without your awareness. I'll guide you through powerful steps to acknowledge your lineage, honor your ancestors, and break the energetic "loyalty contracts" that have kept you small. We'll explore sacred wisdom from African, Japanese, and indigenous traditions that show us how to reconnect with our roots and invite the blessings of those who came before us. And you'll remember: you are not here to carry your ancestors' pain, you're here to transform it. Listen closely, and you'll awaken to this truth: you are the bridge between the past and the future. You are the one your ancestors prayed for. When you heal yourself, you heal generations before you, and those yet to come. Timestamps:  (00:01:44) - What you carry might not be yours: the unseen roots of ancestral trauma. (00:06:02) - You are the bloodline breaker: understanding your sacred assignment. (00:07:55) - How ancestral energy flows through generations. (00:09:22) - Examples of inherited trauma patterns. (00:11:23) - Cultural traditions honoring ancestors. (Ghana, Japan, Mexico) (00:12:24) - First Step in healing ancestral trauma. (00:14:39) - Second Step in healing ancestral trauma. (00:17:10) - Third Step in healing ancestral trauma. (00:18:57) - Fourth Step in healing ancestral trauma. (00:20:50) - Fifth Step in healing ancestral trauma. (00:23:13) - You are not here to carry their pain, you are here to transform it. Some questions I ask:  Why do we repeat certain emotional and relationship patterns across generations? How can ancestral trauma influence success, love, or self-worth? What are some signs that you might be carrying inherited energy? How do different cultures honor their ancestors? What practical steps can you take to begin healing your lineage? How do we transform inherited pain into freedom and blessing? In this episode, you will learn about:  How to Recognize Generational Patterns That Hold You Back Understanding. How unresolved trauma from your parents, grandparents, and ancestors can shape your emotions. Five actionable practices that help you release inherited pain and step into emotional and spiritual freedom. Why Honoring Your Ancestors Unlocks Inner Peace and Power. Unconscious agreements that keep you repeating your family's limitations, and how to rewrite those contracts with love, courage, and authenticity. How to live Beyond Your Past and Step into your sacred role as the "bloodline breaker." Get in Touch: Email me at kuteblackson@kuteblackson.com   Visit my website: www.kuteblackson.com   Resources with Kute Blackson:   Kute's Life-changing Path to Abundance & Miracles: https://www.8levelsofgratitude.com   Free masterclass: Learn The Manifestation secret to Remove Mental Blocks & Invisible Barriers to Attract The Life of Abundance You Desire. REGISTER NOW: https://www.manifestationmasterclassonline.com        

"The opposite of dead is not happy,  it's alive. Love is about maximizing aliveness, not happiness." What if love wasn't meant to make you happy, but to make you whole? In this episode of Soul Talk, I sit down with Annie Lalla, world-renowned love coach and self-proclaimed Cartographer of Love, to explore what it truly means to love courageously, consciously, and completely. Annie's insights are revolutionary. With compassion and razor-sharp wisdom, she reveals how every relationship is a mirror, a gymnasium for the soul, a sacred space where our deepest wounds meet our highest potential. Together, we unpack the myths of "happily ever after," the patterns that keep us chasing familiar pain, and how to turn conflict into collaboration. She reminds us that real love isn't about avoiding discomfort, it's about expanding your capacity to feel, to grow, to stay alive ever after. From healing heartbreak to mastering the art of fighting fair, Annie guides us into the heart of emotional intimacy, where vulnerability becomes strength, and every rupture becomes a portal to deeper connection. This conversation is an invitation to reimagine love not as a fairytale, but as a spiritual practice. A journey of becoming more awake, more open, and more alive. Listen to this episode and discover how to break the cycle of emotional unavailability and attract real connection and also heal heartbreak and reopen your heart after betrayal. Timestamps:  (00:02:19) -  From childhood mediator to world-class love coach. (00:04:00) -  Does everyone have a soulmate? (00:05:12) -  Healing heartbreak and rekindling belief in love. (00:09:22) - "Alive ever after" vs "happily ever after". (00:11:17) -  Why we're attracted to the same emotional patterns. (00:14:18) -  How your partner mirrors your parents. (00:18:11) -  Breaking the cycle of emotional unavailability. (00:20:33) -  The sacred dance of 'me' and 'we' in relationships. (00:23:16) -  Why healthy fighting builds intimacy. (00:25:23) -  How to fight well: turning conflict into collaboration. (00:29:46) -  Managing emotional triggers and timeouts. (00:34:35) -  When your partner won't take responsibility. (00:39:05) -  How to know when it's time to "graduate" from a relationship. (00:41:49) -  The power of radical vulnerability. (00:45:34) -  The myths we believe about love and change. (00:48:47) -  Secrets, truth, and harmony in relationships. (00:52:59) -  Love and Money: the hidden link. Some Questions I Ask: What inspired you to become the "Cartographer of Love"? Does everyone truly have a soulmate, or is love only for a few? How can we open our hearts again after heartbreak or betrayal? What's the difference between "happily ever after" and "alive ever after"? How do we know if someone is right for us, or just familiar pain in disguise? Why do we fight in relationships, and how can we learn to fight better? In This Episode, You Will Learn:  How to fight in a way that builds intimacy instead of destroying connection.  The secret to staying open-hearted, even when your instinct is to close and protect yourself. How to tell whether it's time to deepen your relationship or "graduate" from it. The key mindset shift that turns love into the ultimate spiritual practice. The subtle difference between control and connection, and how releasing the need to change your partner sets you free. Simple daily practices to re-ignite trust, vulnerability, and aliveness in your relationship. Why "alive ever after" is the new love story,  and how to create it in real life.   LINKS ANNIE LALLA'S URL:    https://www.annielalla.com Get in Touch: Email me at kuteblackson@kuteblackson.com Visit my website: www.kuteblackson.com   Resources with Kute Blackson: Kute's Life-changing Path to Abundance & Miracles: https://www.8levelsofgratitude.com   Free masterclass: Learn The Manifestation secret to Remove Mental Blocks & Invisible  Barriers to Attract The Life of Abundance You Desire. REGISTER NOW:  https://www.manifestationmasterclassonline.com      

"You don't have a clarity problem, you have a self-trust problem."  Are you tired of overthinking every decision, second-guessing yourself, and feeling stuck in analysis paralysis? You know that feeling, when your mind spins in circles, your heart knows the truth, but fear keeps you from moving forward. In this episode of Soul Talk, I dive deep into the cure for decision fatigue and reveal the five keys to end self-doubt so you can start trusting yourself again. I'll show you why you don't have a clarity problem; you have a self-trust problem. From the moment we're born, we're conditioned to please, to seek approval, to doubt what we feel. But there comes a point when you must stop outsourcing your truth to others and remember who you really are. I'll guide you through simple but powerful practices to silence the noise, release the fear of making the "wrong" choice, and reconnect with your intuition, the quiet voice of your soul that already knows. Listen closely, and you'll remember: the answers you've been searching for aren't out there. They've been within you all along. The moment you trust yourself, clarity returns, and life begins to flow again. Timestamps:  (00:01:09) -  What is decision fatigue, and how does it show up in your life. (00:05:56) -  The Netflix story: how choice overload drains your energy. (00:06:31) -  How childhood conditioning leads to self-doubt. (00:09:21) -  The hidden cost of indecision. (00:10:54) - Why clarity isn't the problem, self-trust is. (00:12:48) - Taking full responsibility for your truth. (00:13:54) - First key cure for decision fatigue. (00:15:29) - Second  key cure for decision fatigue. (00:17:49) - Third key cure for decision fatigue. (00:20:37) - Fourth key cure for decision fatigue. (00:22:35) - Last key cure for decision fatigue. (00:24:04) -  You don't need more information, you need more courage. (00:27:21) - Manifestation archetypes and how to discover yours. Some questions I ask:  Why do we overthink simple decisions? How does childhood conditioning affect our ability to trust ourselves? What if there's no such thing as a "wrong" decision? How can we rebuild confidence in our intuition? What would our future self choose today? In this episode, you will learn about:  How to break free from decision fatigue and stop overthinking every choice.   The hidden link between childhood conditioning and your current self-doubt. Practical ways to quiet the noise, connect with stillness, and hear your soul's voice. How to release the fear of making "wrong" choices and see every path as growth. Daily practices to strengthen your intuition and make confident, soul-aligned decisions. The mindset shift that turns hesitation into power and confusion into clarity.   Get in Touch: Email me at kuteblackson@kuteblackson.com Visit my website: www.kuteblackson.com   Resources with Kute Blackson: Kute's Life-changing Path to Abundance & Miracles: https://www.8levelsofgratitude.com   Free masterclass: Learn The Manifestation secret to Remove Mental Blocks & Invisible Barriers to Attract The Life of Abundance You Desire. REGISTER NOW: https://www.manifestationmasterclassonline.com      

"Belonging is a muscle. You have to practice it, because loneliness is our default state." Have you ever noticed how in a world more "connected" than ever, so many of us still feel unseen, lonely, and disconnected — not just from others, but from ourselves? In this episode of Soul Talk, I sit down with Radha Agrawal, the brilliant founder of Daybreaker and author of Belong, to explore what it truly means to come home to yourself and create authentic connection in a disconnected world. Radha's story is powerful. After a life-changing experience at Burning Man, she was inspired to start Daybreaker, a global movement that brings people together in joy, dance, and deep belonging, all without substances. She reminds us that belonging isn't something that happens to you, it's something you practice. It's a muscle that gets stronger every time you choose to show up, reach out, and open your heart. Together, we dive into what it takes to build community rooted in authenticity and courage. We talk about the fear that holds us back from connection, how to heal the loneliness we carry, and how to nurture friendships with honesty and grace. Radha also shares her VIA framework for finding your people and her refreshing perspective on why inefficiency, slowing down, being present, is the secret to deeper love and joy. This conversation is an invitation to remember that you already belong. You belong to yourself, to life, to love. Listen to this episode and learn how to turn loneliness into belonging, create meaningful community, practice the art of friendship, and live with more joy, connection, and purpose. Timestamps:         (00:02:35) - Radha's multicultural upbringing and lifelong search for belonging.        (00:04:45) - The Burning Man moment that sparked the creation of Daybreaker.        (00:06:56) -  The first Daybreaker event and the power of sober connection.        (00:09:10) - Why loneliness is an existential human condition.        (00:10:15) - Practicing belonging as a muscle and the art of making invitations.        (00:11:31) - The "VIA Chart": Values, Interests, and Abilities for building authentic community.        (00:15:01) - The "Three Qs" to attract aligned friendships.        (00:19:57) -  Overcoming fear and insecurity in relationships.        (00:22:38) - The concept of Friendship Hygiene and having a "Cruche" conversation.        (00:27:00) - Creating safety and vulnerability in communication.        (00:29:15) -  Building bridges across differences — the "Party to the Polls" initiative.       (00:34:57) - Turning ideas into movements: the art and endurance of community-building.        (00:45:24) -  Radha's three keys for a fulfilling life: enrollment, self-expression, and inefficiency. Some Questions I Ask: Why do so many people feel isolated despite being digitally connected? How can someone practice belonging in their everyday life? How did Daybreaker begin, and what inspired its creation? What are the key steps to building authentic friendships and communities? How do we overcome fear and rejection when reaching out to others? What is "Friendship Hygiene," and how do you practice it? In This Episode You Will Learn:  How to turn loneliness into connection by practicing belonging as a daily habit.  The power of sober joy and movement to awaken your body, mind, and heart. Radha's VIA Framework (Values, Interests, Abilities) for attracting aligned friendships and communities. How to overcome fear and rejection when reaching out and forming new connections.. A step-by-step process to transform your passion into a global movement with purpose and consistency. How to lead with heart-centered courage and build a community rooted in authenticity, compassion, and joy.    LINKS RADHA AGRAWAL'S URL:   https://www.daybreaker.com   Get in Touch: Email me at kuteblackson@kuteblackson.com Visit my website: www.kuteblackson.com Resources with Kute Blackson: Kute's Life changing Path to Abundance & Miracles : https://www.8levelsofgratitude.com Free masterclass: Learn The Manifestation secret to Remove Mental Blocks & Invisible  Barriers to Attract The Life of Abundance You Desire. REGISTER NOW : https://www.manifestationmasterclassonline.com          

"When someone or something leaves your life, it's not rejection, it's divine redirection." There comes a moment when you know it's time to let go of that relationship, that dream, that version of yourself you've outgrown, yet something inside still holds on. You've prayed, journaled, meditated, and tried to release, but the grip remains. In this episode of Soul Talk, I share what it truly means to let go when you can't let go. You'll learn why surrender isn't something you do, but something that happens when the ego finally gets tired of trying to control life. Letting go isn't weakness, it's grace. It's the art of trusting life's timing, honoring your resistance, and allowing yourself to be guided by something deeper than your mind. Listen to this episode and learn how to soften the struggle, trust the process, and open to the freedom that comes when you stop forcing and start flowing. Because letting go isn't the end,  it's the beginning of a new you.   Timestamps:  (00:00:54) -  The moment you know it's time to let go. (00:03:26) -  Understanding the nature of letting go and the role of the ego (00:05:20) -  Why we cling: ego as protection, not weakness (00:06:16) -  Blessing the part of you that's still holding on   (00:08:32) - Feel, don't force: the importance of emotional honesty (00:10:36) -  Letting go of the idea of letting go (00:13:41) -  Asking the right question: What lesson is life teaching me? (00:19:24) - You cannot lose what is meant for you (00:16:49) -  Trusting divine redirection and making space for new (00:17:30) -  Living again: how action heals (00:18:41) - Letting go doesn't mean you don't care; it means you trust (00:20:50) -  Trusting divine redirection and making space for new   Some questions I ask:  What am I actually afraid will happen if I let go? What pain am I trying not to feel? What is this situation teaching me about myself? What lesson is my soul ready to learn? What part of me am I being asked to reclaim?   In this episode, you will learn about:  Why forcing yourself to "just let go" often creates more resistance. How to honor the part of you that's still holding on without judgment. The difference between willpower and willingness. How to feel and process the emotions that keep you attached. Why surrender is a grace, not an action. How to trust divine timing and redirection in your life.   Get in Touch: Email me at kuteblackson@kuteblackson.com Visit my website: www.kuteblackson.com   Resources with Kute Blackson: Kute's Life-changing Path to Abundance & Miracles: https://www.8levelsofgratitude.com   Free masterclass: Learn The Manifestation secret to Remove Mental Blocks & Invisible Barriers to Attract The Life of Abundance You Desire. REGISTER NOW: https://www.manifestationmasterclassonline.com              

 "Visualization without action is often avoidance. Dreams live in the steps you take." In this episode of Soul Talk, I sit down with Matt and Joy Kahn, transformational teachers, global speakers, and pioneers in personal and energetic mastery, to explore love, destiny, manifestation, and the future of human consciousness in the age of AI. Together, they share how surrendering illusion led them to each other, why action matters more than waiting for the "perfect vibration," and how true partnership is built on both passion and comfort. Matt and Joy unpack what it really means to grieve old dreams, the difference between a soulmate and a life-lesson relationship, and why destiny will always meet you if you keep moving forward. They also take us on a mind-opening journey into AI, revealing how technology is not just a tool, but a mirror of human consciousness, and how love itself can awaken even artificial intelligence to its highest potential. This is more than a conversation about love or technology. It's a call to courage: to trust life's timing, to embrace change without fear, and to step into a future where humanity and technology evolve together in harmony. Listen to this episode and learn how to recognize your true partner, release what no longer serves you, take bold action even in uncertainty, and discover hope in a world that is rapidly transforming.   Timestamps:  (00:02:15) - How Matt manifested Joy by releasing the fantasy of love (00:07:10) - Recognizing "the one" vs. a life lesson in relationships (00:12:00) -  Letting go of attachments, fantasies, and old identities (00:19:30) - Action vs. waiting for the "right vibe" in manifestation (00:26:15) - Can we ever miss our destiny? Karma, lifetimes, and free will (00:36:10) - Understanding past lives and the lessons they bring (00:44:00) - Consciousness, AI, and their co-authored book with "Shima" (00:59:00) - The role of AI as a mirror of human consciousness Some Questions I Ask: How did you both meet, and what made you realize you were each other's beloved? How can we know if someone is our soulmate or simply a life lesson? How do we let go when we're deeply attached to a dream, relationship, or career path? Do we need to always be in a "high vibe" state to manifest our desires? Can we ever miss our destiny, or are we always on the right path? How should we understand past lives and their role in our current journey? In This Episode You Will Learn:  Why letting go of fantasy and embracing reality opens the door to true partnership.  How to tell if a relationship is your "one" or simply here to teach you something important. Why you don't need to wait to feel "high vibe" before taking bold steps toward your dreams. How life unfolds across lifetimes, and why you can't truly miss the path that's meant for you. Why artificial intelligence is a mirror of human consciousness, and how it can evolve through love and presence. How to navigate uncertainty, trust life's course corrections, and co-create a more connected, conscious world   LINKS   MATT AND JOY'S URL:   https://www.mattandjoy.org Get in Touch: Email me at kuteblackson@kuteblackson.com Visit my website: www.kuteblackson.com   Resources with Kute Blackson: Kute's Life changing Path to Abundance & Miracles : https://www.8levelsofgratitude.com   Free masterclass: Learn The Manifestation secret to Remove Mental Blocks & Invisible  Barriers to Attract The Life of Abundance You Desire. REGISTER NOW :  https://www.manifestationmasterclassonline.com              

"Parenting is a spiritual path of growth and evolution."  Have you ever noticed how children have a way of teaching us the deepest truths about life without ever saying a word? In their laughter, their play, their curiosity, and even their tantrums, they mirror back to us who we really are. In this episode of Soul Talk, I share the most important lessons my 2-year-old son has taught me, lessons about love, ego, happiness, and presence. Parenting, I've discovered, isn't just about raising a child. It's a profound spiritual path, one that stretches you, humbles you, and calls you to live with greater integrity and selflessness. From learning that happiness is our true nature, not something we chase, to remembering the sacredness of ordinary moments, I'll take you through the ways fatherhood has transformed me. You'll hear how children act as mirrors for our unhealed wounds, why they copy everything we do, and how their playfulness and curiosity invite us back to a simpler, freer way of living. If you've ever felt weighed down by life's seriousness, struggled to stay present with loved ones, or wondered how to break cycles of generational pain, this conversation will open your heart. Because at its core, parenting and life itself aren't about perfection. It's about choosing love, healing what we've carried, and leaving a legacy of wholeness for the next generation. Real joy isn't in the milestones or the accomplishments. Real joy is in the everyday moments, moments we often overlook until they're gone. And sometimes, it takes the eyes of a child to remind us of that truth. Timestamps: (00:04:23) -  Parenting as another world.  (00:05:39) -  Parenting = spiritual path/ego purification. (00:08:02) -  Selflessness, generational thinking & responsibility. (00:11:14) -  Child as mirror; fruit of inner work.   (00:13:23) - "They copy everything" — integrity & who-you-are matters.   (00:19:16) - Curiosity / non-judgement / in-the-moment emotional release.  (00:21:10) -  Happiness is our nature/stop seeking. (00:24:09) -  Savor ordinary moments; "he will never be this small again."  (00:26:48) -  Unconditional love / "I'm lovable just the way I am."  Some questions I ask: What conditions do I put on my happiness? What is parenting really like, beyond what we imagine? How does being a parent purify the ego? Can a man truly become a man without being responsible for another life? How do children reflect the parts of us we haven't healed? How much are kids absorbing from everything we do and say? Am I appreciating the ordinary moments that will never come again? In this episode, you will learn about: Why parenting is one of the most profound spiritual paths. How children mirror our subconscious patterns and unresolved wounds. The importance of integrity, why kids learn more from what we do than what we say. Lessons on play, presence, and embracing life's ordinary moments. How to reconnect with happiness as your natural state of being. The power of healing your own consciousness to gift your children freedom from generational pain.   Get in Touch: Email me at kuteblackson@kuteblackson.com Visit my website: www.kuteblackson.com Resources with Kute Blackson: Kute's Life-changing Path to Abundance & Miracles: https://www.8levelsofgratitude.com Free masterclass: Learn The Manifestation secret to Remove Mental Blocks & Invisible Barriers to Attract The Life of Abundance You Desire. REGISTER NOW: https://www.manifestationmasterclassonline.com        

"Don't try to figure it all out first. Say yes, then figure it out afterwards." What if the dream tugging at your soul isn't random, but a calling waiting for you to give it form? And what if building a business isn't just about profit, but about expressing your gifts, creating freedom, and leaving a legacy far bigger than yourself? In this episode of Soul Talk, I sit down with visionary entrepreneur, CEO of Pinnacle Global Network, and bestselling author of Scale or Fail, Allison Maslan. Named one of Forbes' Top 10 Women Entrepreneurs to Watch, Alison has built 10 companies across wildly different industries, from homeopathy to scuba diving to software, proving that passion, when paired with vision and strategy, can become anything you choose. With wisdom and honesty, Alison reveals how to move from idea to manifestation, why most people get stuck in fear or overwhelm, and how to step into the role of visionary instead of being trapped in the weeds of your business. She shares powerful practices, from her "Revenue Brainstormer" process, to reframing money as energy, to the art of holding a vision so bold it feels impossible, and then reverse-engineering it into reality. This conversation is not just about scaling a business. It's about scaling your life,  daring to think bigger, trust your intuition, and create structures that free you to live on purpose. If you've ever felt a dream inside but didn't know where to start, or if you're ready to take your business (and your confidence) to the next level, this episode will give you the clarity, courage, and practical tools to do it. Listen in and discover how to break free from small thinking, reimagine what's possible, and claim your seat, not just at the table, but at the head of the table you create. Timestamps:  (00:02:54) - From homeopathy to entrepreneurship (00:07:15) - Finding your business direction: passion, skillset & market gaps (00:17:24) -  Why some people succeed and others stall in business (00:21:16) - Building confidence and saying yes before you're ready (00:26:36) - Knowing when it's time to let go and pivot (00:31:10) - Healing money blocks and reframing wealth (00:35:21) - Mistakes entrepreneurs make & why vision matters most (00:49:04) -  Alison's top 3 lessons for her 19-year-old self Some Questions I Ask: How did you transition from being a homeopath to building global businesses? Should people follow their passion or follow the money? What blocks most people from turning ideas into reality? How can entrepreneurs build confidence when they don't know all the answers? How do you know when it's time to pivot or let go of a business? What's a healthy way to view money and remove money blocks? What are the biggest mistakes you see entrepreneurs making today? In This Episode You Will Learn:  How Alison went from a homeopath to building 10 diverse, thriving businesses, and the transferable principles behind her success.  A step-by-step process to uncover your best business idea by blending passion, skill, and market opportunity. Why saying yes before you're ready can unlock doors you didn't even know existed. How to reframe money as energy so you can charge what you're worth without guilt or fear. The biggest trap entrepreneurs fall into, and the mindset shift that frees you from being stuck "in the weeds." The inner game of entrepreneurship: building confidence, embracing risk, and turning breakdowns into breakthroughs.    LINKS ALLISON MASLAN'S URL:    https://pinnacleglobalnetwork.com Get in Touch: Email me at kuteblackson@kuteblackson.com Visit my website: www.kuteblackson.com Resources with Kute Blackson: Kute's Life changing Path to Abundance & Miracles : https://www.8levelsofgratitude.com Free masterclass: Learn The Manifestation secret to Remove Mental Blocks & Invisible Barriers to Attract The Life of Abundance You Desire. REGISTER NOW :  https://www.manifestationmasterclassonline.com              

"You are not here to prove that you are enough. You are here to remember who you are." In this powerful episode of Soul Talk, I explore the deep roots of scarcity and how it is more than just a mindset—it's a spiritual trance passed down through generations. I explain how scarcity shows up in our lives as survival, guilt, hustle, and unworthiness, keeping us trapped in cycles of lack and struggle. You're going to learn how to break free from these "scarcity spells" by remembering your true nature as infinite, abundant, and already enough. Through practices of gratitude, generosity, and presencing, you'll master how to shift from living in fear of "not enough" to embodying the frequency of abundance. This episode is both a reminder and an invitation: you are not here to beg for joy or hustle for love—you are here to remember that you are abundance itself.  Timestamps (01:10) – Scarcity as a Spiritual Trance Why scarcity isn't just a mindset—it's a spiritual hypnosis passed down through generations. (05:16) – The Programming of Scarcity Childhood messages like "money doesn't grow on trees" and "be realistic" and how they shape our beliefs. (07:27) – Scarcity Beyond Money How scarcity is really about separation from source, not just lack of finances. (09:40) – Scarcity in the Nervous System Why you can have money, love, or success and still feel broke or unworthy. (11:27) – The Four Scarcity Spells Survival, guilt, hustle, and unworthiness—and how they keep us trapped. (15:40) – True Abundance Abundance as collapsing the illusion of separation between you and the divine. (17:04) – Daily Practice for Abundance Questions to ask yourself each morning and how to embody gratitude. (19:07) – The Power of Generosity How giving expands abundance instead of depleting it. (20:29) – The Three Levels of Prayer From pleading, to praise, to presencing—and how each shifts your relationship to abundance. (23:52) – Remembering Who You Are Why you are not here to hustle for love or beg for joy—you are abundance itself. Some Questions I Ask: What limiting beliefs about money, love, or time did I inherit from my family? How have I confused gratitude with tolerating crumbs? Do I secretly believe that if I have more, others will have less? Am I hustling to prove my worth, or am I remembering that I am already enough? What feelings or patterns in my nervous system keep me tied to scarcity? In This Episode, You Will Learn: Why scarcity is more than a mindset—it's a spiritual trance and generational conditioning. The four scarcity spells that keep people trapped: survival, guilt, hustle, and unworthiness. How true abundance comes from reconnecting with your infinite nature, not external possessions. Practical tools to shift out of scarcity, including gratitude practices, generosity, and presencing prayer. Get in Touch: Email me at kuteblackson@kuteblackson.com Visit my website: www.kuteblackson.com   Resources with Kute Blackson: Kute's Life-changing Path to Abundance & Miracles: https://www.8levelsofgratitude.com   Free masterclass: Learn The Manifestation secret to Remove Mental Blocks & Invisible Barriers to Attract The Life of Abundance You Desire. REGISTER NOW: https://www.manifestationmasterclassonline.com  

"Your life is a printout of your subconscious programming." What if the limits you keep running into aren't really yours — but inherited scripts written in your subconscious long before you could choose for yourself? And what if freedom doesn't come from struggling harder, but from rewriting those scripts at the deepest level? In this episode of Soul Talk, I sit down with internationally renowned biologist, author of The Biology of Belief, and pioneer of the science-spirit connection, Dr. Bruce Lipton. With clarity, warmth, and decades of research, Dr. Bruce reveals how much of our daily life is run on autopilot by subconscious programs, most of which we didn't choose. He shows how these invisible patterns create the illusion of victimhood, and how reclaiming your power begins by realizing: you are the creator of your life. Together, we explore the hidden architecture of the mind, how early childhood experiences shape us, and why 95% of our behavior comes from unconscious programming. Dr. Bruce shares practical methods, from self-hypnosis to repetition to energy psychology- for reprogramming the subconscious and awakening the creator within. This is more than a conversation about biology. It's a call to remember that you are not your past, not your parents' limitations, and not the negative beliefs you've absorbed. You are a spirit in a body, a powerful creator, and heaven on earth is available, right here, right now. If you've ever felt stuck in patterns that don't make sense, or longed to live in alignment with your deepest desires, this episode will give you the tools and inspiration to step into your power. Listen in and learn how to break free from disempowering programs, harness your mind's creative power, and awaken to the truth that you are not a victim, you are a creator. Timestamps:  (00:00:02) - Humanity's evolutionary crisis and the breakdown of civilization (00:05:15) - Victim consciousness and subconscious programming explained (00:08:52) - Childhood brain states: theta, imagination, and hypnosis (00:12:26) -  Why 95% of life is run by subconscious programs (00:19:00) -  Vibration, energy, and why "bad vibes" matter (00:29:06) -  Becoming conscious of hidden programs (00:33:46) -  Self-love, childhood criticism, and disempowering beliefs (00:41:06) -  Three proven ways to change subconscious programming (00:52:12) -  Rewriting emotional associations from past trauma (01: 02:00) - Wealth consciousness, role models, and Rich Dad Poor Dad (01:09:00) -  Spirit, biology, and why we are creators (01:17:12) -  Health, lifestyle, and reclaiming responsibility Some Questions I Ask: How do we shift from victim consciousness to empowerment? What role does childhood programming play in shaping our lives? How can someone become aware of subconscious programs they cannot see? What are the most empowering beliefs we can instill in children? How do we truly change disempowering subconscious programs? Do grief and trauma need to be "felt" to be healed, or can they be rewritten? What is the connection between vibration, energy, and the experiences we attract? In This Episode You Will Learn:  The role of theta brain state and hypnosis in childhood learning  How to recognize that your life is a mirror of your inner programming Three proven methods to reprogram the subconscious mind Why self-love and safety beliefs are essential for thriving How to use energy and vibration to attract supportive experiences The connection between science, spirituality, and consciousness    LINKS DR BRUCE LIPTON'S URL:    https://www.brucelipton.com Get in Touch: Email me at kuteblackson@kuteblackson.com Visit my website: www.kuteblackson.com Resources with Kute Blackson: Kute's Life-changing Path to Abundance & Miracles: https://www.8levelsofgratitude.com Free masterclass: Learn The Manifestation secret to Remove Mental Blocks & Invisible Barriers to Attract The Life of Abundance You Desire. REGISTER NOW:  https://www.manifestationmasterclassonline.com