Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris

Everyone loves talking about the fun parts of the lifestyle — the dates, the connections, the experiences. But what about everything that has to happen BEFORE any of that? The messaging. The vetting. The scheduling. The follow-up. All of it takes time, energy, and emotional bandwidth. And in most couples? It doesn't fall equally. On today's QUICKIE, Adam and Pris get real about how they divide the emotional labor of connecting with other couples — who does the messaging, who handles vetting (and why Pris's gut is basically a superpower), what it looks like to stay in the loop without losing your mind, and why making it intentional beats letting resentment sneak in through the back door. In this episode: Why Adam carries most of the online conversation weight Pris's vetting process — and the story behind her eerily accurate intuition Online chemistry vs. in-person chemistry and how they experience it differently The DADT tendency that sneaks into their setup (and how they're working on it) What "staying in the loop" actually looks like in practice Why you need to talk about this stuff before resentment makes the decision for you Whether you divide things the same way or totally differently, the point is: make it intentional. Don't just let it default. Find everything — episodes, blogs, merch, events, and the anonymous confessional — at www.beyond-monogamy.com Catch us live every Thursday at 2PM and 7PM Central on FullSwapRadio.com Love the show? Please leave us a review on Spotify or Apple Podcasts — it genuinely helps more people find us. We're not above begging.

About This Episode Y'all, this one is different. Adam and Pris sit down with the one and only Susan Bratton — intimacy expert to millions, bestselling author, founder of Personal Life Media, sexual biohacker, and Chief Advocacy Officer of ProDX Health. She's been in the lifestyle for over two decades, she's married to her husband Tim of 34 years, she has a boyfriend of five years, and she can tell you from personal experience exactly what expanded orgasm feels like. She's not talking about case studies. She's living it. This conversation goes deep — from how Susan went from a woman who avoided sex with her husband to becoming the person millions of people turn to for real, actionable, heart-connected intimacy advice. She drops her non-negotiable 90-day STI testing protocol, breaks down what "fluid bonded" and "screened in" actually mean, explains the science of extended orgasms, and makes a strong case for why your sex life should only get better with age. In This Episode How Susan went from sexually avoidant to becoming the world's go-to hot sex teacher Why she and Tim dropped the labels and started calling their relationship simply "open" The 90-day STI screening protocol that's been a non-negotiable in her poly life for 20 years What "fluid bonded" and "screened in" mean and why every lifestyle couple should have a protocol Expanded orgasm — the clitoral stroking practice that can extend your partner's climax into something wild Sexual biohacking: nitric oxide, hormone therapy, acoustic wave, red light, stem cells, and the concept of extending your "sex span" Veto power in poly — is it toxic or just solid relationship management? NRE (New Relationship Energy) and why your partner might be seeing red flags you're completely blind to Susan's new book "The Alchemy of Intimacy" and where to get her free resources Resources Susan Mentioned Free expanded orgasm resources: expandherorgasmtonight.com STI testing Susan recommends: prodxhealth.com Susan's new book: 10intimacy.com Susan Bratton's main site: susanbratton.com Find Everything Beyond Monogamy Episodes, blogs, events, merch, guest bios, and our anonymous confessional all live at www.beyond-monogamy.com. If this episode hit different, share it with someone who needs to hear it. And if you haven't left us a review on Spotify or Apple Podcasts yet — now is the time. It takes 30 seconds and it genuinely means the world to us.

Someone slid into our inbox with a real one — they met a couple and their play partner, vibed with all three, and then realized they were really feeling the third. So what do you do? Is that person automatically off limits? Do you risk the friendship? Do you say nothing and just wonder forever? Adam and Pris break it all down in this week's QUICKIE — starting with the one thing that fixes almost every awkward lifestyle situation: just saying the thing out loud. In This Episode: Nobody owns anyone — but you still don't know their agreements How to find out someone's dynamic without making it weird The "swooping couple" phenomenon — and why it's a red flag Who in the couple should start the conversation (hint: it's whoever's bubblier) Word vomit as a legitimate lifestyle strategy Pris opens up about menopause, her estrogen patch, and why she's been glowing lately Poly-era triggers, emotional cheating TikToks, and how one honest conversation changed everything 15 years in and they're still learning to communicate — and that's the whole point If you've ever found yourself in a situation like this — or you just want more real, judgment-free conversations about the lifestyle — head over to www.beyond-monogamy.com. That's your one-stop shop for episodes, blogs, events, merch, and the anonymous confessional. Got a question or a situation you want us to tackle? Drop it in the anonymous confessional. We read them. We use them. Zero judgment. We are live every Thursday on FullSwapRadio.com — two shows, 2:00 PM and 7:00 PM Central. Come hang out and get in the chat. If this episode hit home, share it with someone who needs to hear it. Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify — it genuinely helps more people find the show. Subscribe so you never miss a QUICKIE or a full episode dropping every Sunday.

Adam is coming in a little rough this week — fresh off a round of strep throat — but you know us, we don't miss a show. And this one? This one was worth every scratchy word. We're talking about something that gets thrown around a lot in the lifestyle: the idea that single men are a problem. That they're ruining it for everyone. That every couple should avoid them like a shady DM at 2 AM. But first, Adam has something to get off his chest. If you've ever reached out to a married man and spent the entire conversation raving about how gorgeous his wife is... we need to have a little talk. Because from where Adam's standing, that's not flattery — that's a one-way ticket to getting ignored by both of them. He breaks down why, and Pris has thoughts. Then we get into the real conversation: single guys in the lifestyle and where that negative reputation actually comes from. Adam and Pris get honest about the preconceived notions they walked into the lifestyle with, the real experiences that shaped them, and — maybe surprisingly — the realization that married men can actually cause more drama than single ones. In this episode we cover: Why messaging a married man to gush about his wife is not the move The negative stigma single men carry — and how it got built The early experiences that made Adam and Pris assume all single guys were shady Why Pris considers the word "bull" an instant red flag Real red flags and green flags when it comes to vetting a single guy Why married men in the lifestyle can be sneakier than single ones What it actually costs — financially and emotionally — to be a single man trying to get into clubs and events The double standard between how single men and single women are labeled What "you're the toy, not the star" really means — and why it's not an insult Thirsty behavior, constant validation-seeking, and why desperation is a repellent How walking away from situations you don't want actually attracts better ones The takeaway? It's never really been about single versus married. It's about respectful versus disrespectful. And if you're a single guy who leads with respect, patience, and consent — Adam is officially in your corner. Find everything Beyond Monogamy at www.beyond-monogamy.com — including episodes, blog posts, merch, our anonymous Confessional, and the events tab where you can find details on upcoming Beyond Monogamy events. Including the Texas Desires Hotel Takeover on April 11th — a few rooms still available, but day passes are gone! We also stream live every Thursday at 2:00 PM and 7:00 PM Central on FullSwapRadio.com. Come hang with us live. Enjoying the show? Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify — it costs you nothing and it genuinely helps us grow. Like, subscribe, share, and tell a friend who needs to hear this one.

You already know Adam and Pris don't do small talk — so when the topic of red flags and green flags in the swinging lifestyle came up on their SDC live webinar, they knew they weren't done talking about it. So they brought it straight to Wednesday's QUICKIE. And oh boy, did it get real. This week, Adam and Pris break down the biggest red flags they personally watch for when meeting potential play partners — and the green flags that make them say, okay, we might actually like you. What You'll Hear in This Episode: Pris's Red Flags for Men: Turn the conversation sexual too fast? You're out. It doesn't matter that you're both in the lifestyle — read the room. If you haven't earned the vibe yet, keep it in your pants (literally). Pris's Red Flags for Women: If you're in a group chat with both of them and you start sliding into Adam's DMs and leaving Pris on read? She sees you. And she is not interested. Respecting both partners isn't optional — it's the price of admission. Adam's Biggest Red Flag: Pushiness. That frantic "WE NEED TO MEET ASAP" energy from the jump? Hard pass. Adam used to be that guy (Pris was NOT about to let him forget it), but 14 years in the lifestyle later, he's all about connections over conquests — and zero patience for people trying to sprint to the finish line. Also a red flag: Messaging a husband and asking to see naked pictures of his wife. Adam addresses this one with the kind of calm, measured, diplomatic response you'd expect from him... just kidding. He tells those people exactly where to go. The Guilt Trip Red Flag: "You didn't message me yesterday." Oh no. Adam's phone goes to Do Not Disturb at 8:30 PM every night — and if you're sending guilt trips about response times to a happily married man with a full life, you're going to hear about it. Loudly. Green Flags They Love: Great communication between couples. Asking permission before reaching out to a partner. Being transparent about your intentions. And self-awareness — knowing your own stuff and actively working on it? That's genuinely attractive to these two. They also get into jealousy, entitlement, pressure dynamics between couples, what it looks like when one partner is dragging the other into the lifestyle, and the very important art of taking a "no" gracefully — something Adam admits he had to grow into. Pris crowns herself "La Toxica" early on and fully leans into it. She's self-aware about her jealousy, territorial streak, and high standards — and honestly? It's one of the most relatable things she's ever said on this show. As always, this one's real, funny, unfiltered, and full of the kind of straight talk that only comes from two people who've been doing this together for 14 years. Find everything Beyond Monogamy at www.beyond-monogamy.com — episodes, blog posts, merch, the events tab, and the 100% anonymous Beyond Monogamy Confessional. Leave us a review on Spotify or Apple Podcasts if you love the show. It genuinely helps us grow.

It was Priscilla's 48th birthday weekend, and this woman did NOT come to play… well, actually, she absolutely came to play. And kiss strangers. And organize an impromptu gang bang over sushi. You know, normal birthday stuff. In this episode, Adam and Pris give you the full, unfiltered recap of what went down over one wild weekend in San Antonio — from cozy pizza nights at Via 313 to morning coffee at Arthur's in King William, birthday brunch at Alamo Biscuit Company, and a night at Club Eden that nobody who was there is going to forget anytime soon. Here's a taste of what you're getting into: Friends flew in from Florida, Arizona, Houston, Dallas, and Corpus — and every single one of them said Club Eden was the best swinger club they'd ever been to. Pris casually announced at the sushi dinner table that she wanted a gang bang for her birthday. Like a normal person. Adam confesses his social anxiety was absolutely roaring the whole drive down — and how it took a full hour to shake it off once they got to the club. The legendary loot bags Pris handcrafted with lube, condoms, Tums, Advil, Wisps, mini makeup blenders, and custom Cricut labels reading "Slut Stuff" and "Hot Girl Glam Bag." Custom Mylar balloons printed with the Beyond Monogamy logo. Because of course. 200 jello shots, multiple flavors, courtesy of their friends David and Mary. You read that right. Two. Hundred. Their friend Ray showed up with a wand and proceeded to make Pris squirt in front of a crowd within minutes. Pris requested her birthday wish out loud and got it. Full details inside. Adam got slapped in the face mid-session by a friend who's heard the "don't touch without permission" episode one too many times. The birthday lap dance situation — including Adam admitting he is not great at it. Door Dash Whataburger at 2am. A Whataburger Junior with bacon and cheese. Pris was half asleep when she ordered it and knocked out before her milkshake was even gone. This one is warm, funny, sexy, and a little chaotic in the best way possible. If you've ever wondered what it looks like when a lifestyle couple throws a birthday party that doubles as a swinger event — this is it. Full transparency, zero filters, and a whole lot of love for the people who showed up. Mentioned in this episode: Via 313 Pizza (Austin area) Alamo Biscuit Company — San Antonio Arthur's Coffee — King William District, San Antonio Club Eden — San Antonio Spunk Lube (episode sponsor) Forbidden Fruit — Austin (episode sponsor) Fiesta San Antonio & Tejano Fanfare South by Southwest (also happening that weekend in Austin) Coming up on Beyond Monogamy: Swingers 101 Workshop — March 29th, 6–8pm at Forbidden Fruit in Austin. Visit forbiddenfruit.com/workshops for tickets. Texas Desires Hotel Takeover — Weekend of April 11th. Only a few rooms left! Check the Events tab at www.beyond-monogamy.com. For all episodes, video clips, guest bios, blogs, the events tab, merch, and the 100% anonymous Beyond Monogamy Confessional, visit www.beyond-monogamy.com. If you loved this episode, please like, subscribe, share, and leave us a review on Spotify or Apple Podcasts — it means the world to us and helps more people find the show. We'll see you next week. 🎂

Pregnancy in the lifestyle. Yeah, we went there. And honestly? It's one of those conversations that most people tip-toe around — until a condom breaks or somebody shows up to the party eight months along and suddenly everyone's got questions. On this week's QUICKIE, Adam and Pris pull zero punches on a topic that's way more common than people like to admit. This one was sparked by a real message from a friend who was gearing up to meet a couple — and found out the woman was pregnant. It opened up a whole rabbit hole of thoughts, experiences, and some genuinely hilarious moments that only two people who've been doing this for 14 years could deliver. If you've ever wondered what to do when pregnancy enters the equation — whether that's a kink, a scare, or a hypothetical you'd better talk through before it becomes a reality — this is the episode. What Adam and Pris Cover in This Episode: Pregnancy as a fetish in the lifestyle — Yes, it's a real kink. Adam's got a story from a strip club that'll stick with you. (She made four times what anyone else made that night. You'll understand why.) Would they play with a pregnant woman? — Adam and Pris give their honest, unfiltered answers. Spoiler: the parental switch is real, and it kills the vibe fast. What you can and can't do sexually while pregnant — Pris drops some actual health info that had Adam completely floored. Hint: if she can't eat sushi, connect the dots. Pregnancy scares in the lifestyle — including their own — A condom broke. A couple played with came back two weeks later saying she was pregnant. Find out what happened and how Adam and Pris handled it. The hypothetical you NEED to talk through with your partner — What would you actually do if it happened? Pris has a very clear answer. Adam has a very clear answer. And they're the same answer — which is exactly why they're still married. Polyamory, pregnancy, and co-parenting in the community — It happens. Sometimes it works out beautifully. Sometimes it ends in divorce. They've seen both. The advice that applies to every couple in this lifestyle — Have the hard conversations before you need them. Full stop. This one's got laughs, real talk, a Craigslist throwback, and a moment where Pris essentially tells Adam she would sign the papers but raise the baby herself if it came down to it. That alone is worth the listen. New episodes drop every Sunday and Wednesday. Find everything Beyond Monogamy — episodes, blog posts, the confessional, merch, events, and more — at www.beyond-monogamy.com. And if you're not already following us everywhere, what are you even doing? Like, subscribe, share, and drop us a review — it seriously helps more than you know.

What does ethical non-monogamy actually look like in real life? In this episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris, we sit down with Dominique from the viral TikTok account Life With Dominique and her long-distance girlfriend Leah to talk about their real-life experience navigating polyamory, marriage, motherhood, and public life. Dominique is married to her husband, Leah is married to hers, and together they've built a relationship dynamic that challenges traditional ideas of love, commitment, and partnership. But as you'll hear in this conversation, ethical non-monogamy isn't just about freedom and attraction — it's about communication, logistics, vulnerability, and sometimes navigating jealousy in ways most people never think about. We talk about everything from coming out to partners, to balancing multiple relationships, to the surprising ways non-monogamy can strengthen marriages rather than destroy them. If you've ever wondered how poly relationships actually work behind the scenes, this episode pulls back the curtain. In this episode we discuss: How Dominique came out to her husband about her attraction to women How polyamory evolved naturally within her marriage What it's really like dating a long-distance partner while married The logistics of balancing family, marriage, and another relationship How jealousy shows up in non-monogamous relationships The reality of sharing non-monogamy publicly on social media Why communication is the most important skill in ethical non-monogamy How strong women and honest conversations create stronger relationships This conversation is honest, funny, thoughtful, and sometimes surprisingly emotional. As always on Beyond Monogamy, we're not here to tell you how relationships should look — we're here to show how people are making them work in the real world. Connect with Dominique You can find Dominique and follow her journey through non-monogamy on social media. All of her links are available on our guest bio page at: https://www.beyond-monogamy.com More From Beyond Monogamy Visit our website for: Full podcast episodes Video clips Blogs Merchandise Our 100% anonymous Beyond Monogamy Confessional 👉 https://www.beyond-monogamy.com Upcoming Events March 22 – SDC Webinar Red Flags & Green Flags in the Lifestyle 4:00 PM Central March 29 – Swingers 101 Workshop Forbidden Fruit – 6:00 PM to 8:00 PM Sign up at: https://www.forbiddenfruit.com/workshops April 11 Weekend Texas Desires Hotel Takeover – San Antonio Live show and meet-ups all weekend You can also catch Beyond Monogamy every Thursday at 2 PM and 7 PM Central on FullSwapRadio.com. If you enjoy the show, please follow, share, and leave a review wherever you listen to podcasts. It helps us grow and keep bringing these conversations to you.

Let's talk about something a LOT of men secretly stress about… but almost nobody wants to say out loud. How do you actually last longer in bed? In this Beyond Monogamy QUICKIE episode, Adam and Pris answer a listener question that came through their anonymous confessional: "Adam says he can control how long he lasts… how the hell do you do that?" And honestly? It's a great question. Because whether you're in a monogamous relationship, exploring ethical non-monogamy, or playing in the swinger lifestyle, performance anxiety and stamina are topics that come up way more often than people admit. So today Adam and Pris get real about: Why finishing quickly is incredibly common (and usually nothing to stress about) The psychological side of arousal and performance anxiety The "point of no return" most men experience The truth about how long sex actually lasts for most couples Why porn expectations completely distort reality How communication with your partner can eliminate embarrassment The difference between trying to "perform" and actually connecting Adam also shares the exact strategies that have worked for him over the years, including: The stop-start edging method used by sex therapists Learning to control your arousal curve Using rhythm changes and position changes to stay in control Why oral sex can actually help extend the experience Pelvic floor exercises (yes… Kegels for men) Breathing techniques that help you relax and last longer And Pris brings the female perspective most guys never hear — including why many women actually don't want marathon sessions and why confidence, communication, and connection matter far more than performance. If you've ever worried about lasting long enough… or if you're curious about how experienced lifestyle couples handle these situations… this episode is going to make you feel a whole lot better. Because the truth is simple: This isn't the Lifestyle Olympics. Nobody is handing out gold medals. The real goal is mutual pleasure, connection, and having a damn good time. Got a question for the show? Submit it anonymously through the Beyond Monogamy Confessional at: www.beyond-monogamy.com Your question might end up on a future episode. Upcoming Beyond Monogamy Events Pris's Birthday Bash March 14 – 9PM Club Eden – San Antonio SDC Webinar March 22 – 4PM Central Topic: Red Flags & Green Flags in the Lifestyle Swingers 101 Workshop March 29 – 6PM–8PM Forbidden Fruit – Austin TX Texas Desires Hotel Takeover Weekend of April 11 Explore more episodes, blogs, video clips, merch, and upcoming events at: www.beyond-monogamy.com You can also catch Beyond Monogamy every Thursday on FullSwapRadio.com at 2PM and 7PM Central.

Is There an Age Limit in the Swinger Lifestyle? One of the most common questions people quietly ask about ethical non-monogamy and swinging is this: Am I too old for the lifestyle? Or on the flip side… is there such a thing as being too young? In this episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris, we dive headfirst into one of the most misunderstood topics in the swinging world — age in the lifestyle. The question actually came from a friend of ours who recently went through a divorce and started thinking about exploring the lifestyle… but had a major insecurity: "What if I'm too old for this?" So today we break it all down. We talk about the myths people believe, the reality of what lifestyle communities actually look like, and why age matters far less than confidence, personality, and effort. Because if you've ever stepped inside a lifestyle club, you already know something that outsiders don't… This is NOT a 20-year-old's game. Many of the happiest, most confident, and most sexually adventurous people in the lifestyle are in their 30s, 40s, 50s, and even 60s. Why? Because life experience, emotional intelligence, financial freedom, and confidence all play a massive role in making ethical non-monogamy work. In This Episode We Discuss: Are you too old to start exploring swinging? What the real age demographics of the lifestyle look like The biggest age insecurities people have before attending their first lifestyle event Why confidence and personality matter more than age The difference between lifestyle reality vs. porn and social media expectations Why the prime lifestyle years might actually be your 40s How older swingers often have the best experiences The role emotional maturity plays in open relationships Whether there is ever an age where people "age out" of swinging The truth about younger couples entering the lifestyle The Reality of the Lifestyle Community One of the biggest misconceptions about swinging is that everyone is young, perfect, and looks like an OnlyFans creator. The truth? The lifestyle community is made up of real people. Different body types. Different ages. Different backgrounds. What really matters is communication, chemistry, confidence, and respect. And once you understand that, the whole experience becomes much less intimidating. Thinking About Entering the Lifestyle? If you've ever wondered whether you're too old to explore ethical non-monogamy… this episode might completely change the way you think about it. Because the truth is simple: There is a lid for every pot in the lifestyle. You just have to be confident enough to show up. Connect With Us Visit our website: www.beyond-monogamy.com You can also submit your story, question, or confession through our 100% anonymous confessional. No names. No emails. Just your story. We may even discuss it on a future episode. Upcoming Events March 14 Pris's Birthday Bash at Club Eden — San Antonio March 29 Swingers 101 Workshop with Adam & Pris Forbidden Fruit – Austin, Texas April 11 Weekend Texas Desires Hotel Takeover – San Antonio More details available on the Events tab at our website. If you enjoy the show, please follow, subscribe, and leave a review on your favorite podcast platform. Your support helps more people discover honest conversations about ethical non-monogamy.

What happens when fantasy crashes into reality in the lifestyle? In this Beyond Monogamy QUICKIE episode, Adam and Pris dive into two anonymous confessional submissions that hit on some of the biggest challenges in ethical non-monogamy: unrealistic expectations, red flags, obligation, and jealousy. The first story? A couple casually posts they'll be at a lifestyle hotel in Palm Springs. A husband — who they've NEVER spoken to — drives three hours expecting play. No chemistry. Pushy energy. Awkward hot tub vibes. Defensive reaction. Major red flags. We break down: Why driving hours for "possible sex" is already a dangerous mindset The difference between fantasy thinking and lifestyle reality Why you should NEVER feel obligated to play Pushy behavior, frantic energy, and drug red flags in swinger spaces How to say "no" without guilt Why vetting is non-negotiable in ENM Then we shift gears into a second confessional that many couples quietly struggle with: Jealousy when one partner gets more attention. In the lifestyle, women often receive the bulk of attention. That can feel empowering… or triggering… depending on the day. We discuss: Why jealousy doesn't mean you're failing The importance of reassurance in open relationships How to prep your partner before events Expectation-setting before parties and clubs Why this is a woman-centric lifestyle (and what men can do about it) How to balance enjoying attention while honoring your partner's feelings If you're new to swinging or ethical non-monogamy, this episode is packed with real-world advice about chemistry, communication, ego, safety, and emotional maturity. Remember: You don't owe anyone sex. You don't owe anyone attention. And you definitely don't owe anyone because they drove three hours. Submit your own anonymous confessional at: www.beyond-monogamy.com Follow us on Spotify so you never miss a Quickie episode. And as always… vet carefully, communicate clearly, and play responsibly.

This week on Beyond Monogamy, we're diving into two powerful throwback QUICKIE episodes that still hit just as hard today. First up: How do you even bring up swinging or ethical non-monogamy with your partner? That first conversation can either build connection or completely derail a relationship. We break down what worked for us, what didn't, and how to approach the topic of open relationships, swinging, or lifestyle exploration without triggering insecurity, defensiveness, or emotional chaos. We cover: Why timing matters when bringing up non-monogamy How to use a "preamble" instead of dropping a bomb Why alcohol and emotional fights are NOT the place The importance of reassurance and boundaries How to prepare yourself for a no Why consent between partners matters just as much as consent with others Then we pivot into raw listener confessions about rejection in the lifestyle, BDSM exploration, fear of vulnerability, and mixing vanilla life with lifestyle life. We talk about: Why rejection in the lifestyle hits differently How to say no without ghosting When overreactions become red flags The difference between people who want lifestyle-only connections vs real friendships Why you don't owe anyone play at parties or takeovers This episode is about honesty, communication, boundaries, and learning that ethical non-monogamy isn't just about sex — it's about emotional maturity and connection. If you're new to swinging, curious about open relationships, or navigating fear of rejection, this one is packed with practical insight and real talk. Leave us a review, share this with your partner, and keep those conversations going. Find everything at www.beyond-monogamy.com

Ever been told your relationship "isn't real love"? Ever had someone look at ethical non-monogamy and decide they're suddenly the moral authority over your life? Yeah. Same. In this QUICKIE episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris, we're diving into something nobody talks about enough — the judgment that comes from outside the lifestyle… and sometimes even inside it. From preachy YouTube comments to family backlash, from internet trolls to real-life bullies, we're unpacking: Why people feel superior about monogamy Why ENM triggers others so deeply How to respond without losing your mind Why judgment is usually projection What to say when someone brings up your sex life at work And why living your truth will ALWAYS make someone uncomfortable We share personal stories about coming out as poly, losing friends and family, dealing with pushy red flags in the lifestyle, and how jealousy, shame, and conditioning shape the way people react to consensual non-monogamy. This episode isn't about attacking monogamy. It's about standing firm in YOUR relationship choices. Because here's the truth: You can live your life exactly the way someone thinks you should… and they'll still judge you. So you might as well live it on your terms. If you're navigating stigma around swinging, polyamory, open relationships, or ethical non-monogamy — this one is for you. 👉 Follow the show on Spotify 👉 Leave a review 👉 Visit us at www.beyond-monogamy.com We've got blogs, events, webinars, anonymous confessionals, and ways to connect with our growing community. And remember — nobody outside your relationship gets to define it.

What happens when modern dating culture, social media, jealousy, and ethical non-monogamy collide under one roof? In this deeply personal episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris, we unpack a real-life situation that sparked a powerful conversation about cheating, secrecy, emotional maturity, and the difference between ethical openness and dishonest behavior. Our kids know we are ethically non-monogamous. They understand open relationships. But this week proved something important: Understanding non-monogamy does NOT equal understanding ethics. In This Episode We Cover: The difference between cheating and ethical non-monogamy Why secrecy — not structure — destroys relationships Social media, dopamine culture, and micro-cheating Jealousy vs insecurity (and why jealousy isn't the villain) Emotional maturity in younger generations How we handled cheating early in our own lifestyle journey Parenting while being openly non-monogamous Why honesty matters more than monogamy or openness We share one of our own early lifestyle mistakes — including the relief that comes when secrets finally come to light — and how we built stronger communication from it. This episode isn't about teaching kids to be non-monogamous. It's about teaching honesty, accountability, and emotional intelligence before people start hurting each other. Whether you're monogamous, swinging, poly, open, or just curious, this episode will challenge you to ask yourself: Are you being honest in your relationship — or just hoping you don't get caught? Upcoming Beyond Monogamy Events March 14th – Club Eden San Antonio (Pris's Birthday Bash) 9:00 PM | Membership Required Details: www.beyond-monogamy.com March 29th – Swinging 101 Workshop Forbidden Fruit – Austin, TX 6:00 PM – 8:00 PM Central Follow the show on Spotify and leave a review — it helps more people find real conversations like this. Visit us at: www.beyond-monogamy.com Streaming weekly on FullSwapRadio.com (Thursdays at 2 PM & 7 PM CST)

Thinking about going to your first swinger club but feeling nervous, anxious, or unsure what to expect? This Wednesday QUICKIE episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris is your ultimate beginner's guide to lifestyle clubs. We break down exactly what happens at a swinger club, what to wear, what to bring, how memberships work, what club etiquette looks like, and the biggest mistakes newbies make their first time. Whether you're attending a themed lifestyle event, curious about ethical non-monogamy, or heading to your first swingers club, this episode will help calm those nerves and prepare you properly. In This Episode We Cover: How swinger club memberships work (daily vs long-term) What to expect when you walk in (dance floor, VIP, playrooms, BDSM areas) What to wear to a lifestyle club (themes, club attire, first impressions) What to bring in your swinger bag (condoms, lube, wipes, gum, extra outfits) Consent rules & lifestyle etiquette Why you should NEVER go in with expectations Handling anxiety your first time at a swinger club Exhibitionism, voyeurism & playroom dynamics How to approach couples respectfully Hygiene, boundaries, and avoiding awkward moments If you're brand new to swinging or ethical non-monogamy, this episode is your no-pressure walkthrough before stepping into a lifestyle club for the first time. Have questions? Head over to www.beyond-monogamy.com where you can: Leave us a voicemail Submit a 100% anonymous Beyond Monogamy Confessional Find all upcoming events Shop merch Read our blog We also stream every Thursday at 2PM & 7PM CST on FullSwapRadio.com. New to the lifestyle? Nervous about going to a swinger club? This is the episode you listen to before you walk through those doors.

Most people think swinging is all vibes, chemistry, and "we'll figure it out when we get there." In this episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris, we explain why that mindset is exactly why so many couples struggle early on. We're recording live on location at Forbidden Fruit, one of the most respected adult education spaces in Texas, and sitting down with Jonny — the man behind some of the most popular lifestyle workshops in the community. From Fellatio 101 and BDSM 101 to rope classes, consent conversations, and real-world safety education, Jonny breaks down why learning first leads to better confidence, better communication, and better experiences — both in and out of the bedroom. This episode is funny, honest, slightly unhinged in the best way, and packed with real stories from years of teaching adults how to be better lovers, better partners, and better humans. What We Cover in This Episode: Why education matters more than people realize in swinging and ENM What actually happens inside Forbidden Fruit workshops Why "winging it" leads to awkward moments and bad experiences Consent, communication, and legal realities people never talk about Why confidence comes from learning — not pretending you already know Our upcoming Swingers 101 Workshop at Forbidden Fruit We also talk about why safe spaces matter, how workshops are designed to be inclusive and judgment-free, and why beginners are often shocked by how welcoming and educational the experience actually is. Upcoming Workshop: Swingers 101 with Adam & Pris 📅 March 29 📍 Forbidden Fruit – Austin, TX 🕕 6:00 PM – 8:00 PM This workshop is perfect for curious beginners, newer swingers, and couples who want real answers without pressure or awkward sales pitches. Connect With Us: 🌐 Website: www.beyond-monogamy.com 📻 FullSwapRadio: Thursdays at 2 PM & 7 PM CST 🗓️ Events, Blog, Confessionals, Merch & More on our website If you love the show, please like, subscribe, share, and leave a review. It helps us reach more people and keep bringing you honest conversations like this one.

Everybody talks about how hot the swinging lifestyle is. Nobody talks about the emotional whiplash. In this episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris, we get brutally honest about the parts of swinging that don't show up in fantasies, porn, or Instagram highlight reels — the stuff that quietly hits you after your first party, your first rejection, or your first "why do I feel like this?" moment. We break down the biggest reality checks people experience when they start swinging, including: Why communication is unavoidable (even when you "just want sex") The massive gap between fantasy and real-life lifestyle events Why jealousy doesn't always show up right away — and why that matters How rejection in the lifestyle can hit harder than expected The hidden addiction to validation, attention, and being wanted Why rules don't actually prevent emotional pain Different processing speeds between partners — and how that creates tension How swinging exposes cracks, insecurities, and emotional blind spots The uncomfortable truth about social hierarchies and judgment in the community This is not a "how-to" episode. This is a real-talk episode. We share personal stories, uncomfortable realizations, and the stuff people usually whisper about in private — because if you're new (or even years in), you deserve to know what this lifestyle actually feels like. If this episode made you feel seen, you're not alone. And if you're overwhelmed? You're not broken. You're human. 👉 Have a story of rejection, jealousy, or a moment you wish someone warned you about? Submit your anonymous confession at www.beyond-monogamy.com. 🎧 Also catch Beyond Monogamy streaming on FullSwapRadio.com every Thursday at 2 PM and 7 PM Central. Don't forget to follow, share, and leave a review — it helps more people find these conversations.

Some swinger rules sound great… until you actually have to live with them. In this Wednesday Quickie episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris, we dive headfirst into the most common unfair rules in swinging and ethical non-monogamy — the ones couples swear will "protect the relationship" but often do the exact opposite. From "no feelings allowed" to approval rules, same-room-only forever, no single guys, and the classic double standards where one partner can do things the other can't, we break down why these rules exist, where they come from, and how they quietly create resentment, insecurity, and emotional landmines. Adam and Pris get real about their own past rules — including ones they now openly admit were unfair — and talk honestly about fear, jealousy, trust, growth, and why rules without reflection can set couples up for failure. This episode isn't about judging anyone's boundaries. It's about asking the uncomfortable but necessary question: Is this rule actually protecting us… or just avoiding a deeper conversation? You'll hear candid discussions about: Why "no feelings" is one of the most unrealistic rules in ENM The difference between inclusion and ownership Why approval rules feel respectful but can quietly limit autonomy How one-sided rules create imbalance and resentment Why avoiding post-play conversations makes things worse, not better How growth in the lifestyle often means outgrowing old rules If you've ever said, "This rule made sense at first… but now something feels off," this episode is for you. Want to share your experience anonymously? Submit a Beyond Monogamy Confessional at www.beyond-monogamy.com. It's 100% anonymous. You can also find all episodes, blogs, guest bios, merch, and resources on our website — built for the community, by the community. Beyond Monogamy streams on FullSwapRadio.com every Thursday at 2 PM and 7 PM Central.

Unfiltered but Not Unkind is one of those episodes that needed to happen. In this raw, funny, and deeply honest conversation, Adam & Pris pull back the curtain on the lifestyle behaviors we all quietly side-eye… but rarely say out loud. This isn't a call-out episode. There's no rage, no dunking, and definitely no drama farming. Instead, it's thoughtful honesty, humor, and real talk about swinger etiquette, communication breakdowns, confidence versus self-awareness, and why "just communicate more" is terrible advice when no one explains how. We talk openly about: The difference between confidence and lack of self-awareness (and why overconfidence kills attraction) Why hypersexual behavior shuts doors faster than it opens Oversharing explicit content in spaces that didn't consent to that energy Treating every interaction like a sexual audition (and why that's a turnoff) The harm caused by "Google it" culture instead of real guidance Jealousy as a signal, not a personal failure Inclusive language without inclusive behavior Why your relationship should always come before the lifestyle We also get deeply personal—sharing moments from our own relationship where communication failed, jealousy showed up, and growth was uncomfortable but necessary. From stopping polyamory to rebuilding emotional security, this episode is a reminder that honesty and kindness can coexist—and that loving the lifestyle doesn't mean pretending it's perfect. If you've ever left a party thinking, "I don't want to sound judgy, but…" — this episode is for you. Resources & Links: Website, episodes, blogs, merch & events: www.beyond-monogamy.com Beyond Monogamy Confessional (100% anonymous) Streaming on FullSwapRadio.com every Thursday at 2 PM & 7 PM Central Pris's Birthday Party — March 14th at 9 PM at Club Eden San Antonio Grab your headphones, pour a drink, and get comfy—this one hits different.

What happens when the swinger lifestyle starts to feel less like freedom and more like permission? In this raw and honest Beyond Monogamy Quickie, Adam and Pris unpack a listener confession that hits closer to home than most people want to admit: one-sided rules in the lifestyle. The listener describes a dynamic where her husband controls who she can play with, forbids single men, and ultimately restricts her from being with men at all—while she places no rules on him and genuinely wants him to have the best experiences possible. She agrees to the restrictions not because they align with her desires, but because she's afraid of losing the lifestyle—and possibly her marriage. Adam and Pris break down where these rules often come from, how insecurity shows up early in the lifestyle, and why control is frequently mistaken for safety. They share deeply personal stories from their own journey, including early jealousy, discomfort with watching, and how reassurance, over-communication, and patience helped them evolve instead of implode. This episode isn't about villainizing anyone. It's about understanding that feelings are valid on both sides—and that sustainable non-monogamy requires collaboration, not permission slips. In this episode, we talk about: Why one-sided rules are so common in new swinger dynamics The difference between reassurance and restriction Why watching can be harder than participating How insecurity shows up differently for men and women The emotional cost of agreeing to rules you don't actually want Why slowing down can save your relationship How to schedule "the uncomfortable conversation" without blowing things up If you've ever felt like you were compromising too much just to keep the lifestyle alive—or if you're the partner struggling with jealousy and fear—this conversation is for you. Upcoming Events & Where to Find Us: Live SDC Webinar: February 22nd at 4:00 PM Central – Finding & Vetting Couples: From Profiles to First Meet (Without the Cringe) In Person: Club Eden DFW – Saturday, January 31st Full Swap Radio: Streaming every Thursday at 2 PM & 7 PM Central Have a confession, question, or story of your own? Visit www.beyond-monogamy.com and submit it through the Beyond Monogamy Confessional—100% anonymous. Whether you're swinging, poly, monogamous, curious, or just trying to understand your relationship better—we're really glad you're here.