Turns Out I'm Into It!

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#122: Men, What’s Your Specialty in the Bedroom?

2026-09-3030:48

Men are often taught that being good in bed means being ready for sex, knowing how to perform, and making sure their partner is satisfied. But how often are men actually encouraged to think about what they want? In this episode, I’m exploring the different flavours of male desire, why your pleasure matters too, and how knowing what genuinely turns you on can help you get out of your head and have more immersive, authentic sex. I’m also introducing a different way to think about your des...

#121: Hot Doctor, Big Dick… Why Was I Still Bored?

2026-09-0936:40

I’m back! After a couple of months away from the podcast, I’m finally behind the mic again. In this episode, I’m sharing where I’ve been, what I’ve been working on, and the story of why, even when I was dating a hot, well-hung doctor, I almost gave up on sex entirely... We talk about why “doing sex right” doesn’t necessarily mean you’re having sex that actually works for you, the shame I used to carry around my fantasies, and the moments that helped me finally understand what made my whole bo...

#120: Degradation vs Humiliation — What’s the Difference? 🪱

2026-06-0325:56

What’s the difference between degradation and humiliation? While these kinks often get grouped together, they actually tap into very different emotional experiences. In this episode, Harley Rabbit explores: the difference between degradation and humiliation playwhy these dynamics can feel so intensely erotichow old emotional experiences can sometimes shape our fantasieswhy consensual kink can feel healing, freeing, and empoweringHarley also shares personal experiences with degradation play, d...

#119: New Erototypes for Taboo, Sensation & Transformation

2026-05-1329:39

Welcome friends! This one's for the sex nerds. 🤓 In this episode I'm nerding out on sexology and taking you behind the scenes on the Erototypes framework I've been developing. If you're curious about the thinking behind the system, what's changed, and why, you're going to enjoy this one. Thanks to the incredible feedback from this community, version two is here, and it's so much better. I've added four brand new erototypes (hello Monkey, Horse, Octopus and Stag 👀), made some tweaks base...

#118: Where Fetishes Come From – And Why I'm Now Into PJ's

2026-04-2222:41

This week I'm diving into the fascinating world of fetishes: what they are, how they differ from core desires, and why some very specific things can become incredibly erotic. I share a very personal (and very cosy) story about my partner Slade's pyjama fetish, explore the psychology behind how fetishes form during our formative years, and reflect on my own unexpected turn-ons — including steel, and possibly Formula One cars. Whether you've got a fetish you've never quite understood, or you're...

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