Controversy and Chaos

Welcome back to your new favorite podcast, Controversy and Chaos! Our take might be a little controversial, and that's OK! How do you teach your children about being Black without taking away the innocence of simply being a kid? In Episode 97, we get into a conversation many Black parents eventually have to navigate: when and how do we introduce our children to race? We talk about teaching our kids to love and celebrate their Blackness, preparing them for how the world may perceive them, and ...

Welcome back to your new favorite podcast, Controversy and Chaos! Our take might be a little controversial, and that's OK! Why are moms exhausted before they’ve even had the chance to drink their coffee? 😩 In Episode 96, we’re getting into the invisible mental load of motherhood, the constant planning, remembering, anticipating, organizing, and worrying that can make moms feel like they’re already working a full shift before the day has even begun. Motherhood can be so mentally exhausting, e...

Welcome back to your new favorite podcast, Controversy and Chaos! Our take might be a little controversial, and that's OK! In this episode, we dive into a relationship dynamic that's been making the rounds online: Have men and women started wanting different things from each other? We explore the idea that many women simply want to feel desired, pursued, and intentionally chosen, while more men are beginning to see themselves as "the prize" and are looking to feel needed instead. Has dating ...

Welcome back to your new favorite podcast, Controversy and Chaos! Our take might be a little controversial, and that's OK! How do you know if you've truly healed—or if you've just become really good at coping? In Episode 94, we explore the subtle (and sometimes uncomfortable) difference between healing and simply learning how to survive. We talk about the habits we normalize, the emotional patterns we carry, and whether time alone is enough to heal old wounds. We also pull back the curtain ...

Welcome back to your new favorite podcast, Controversy and Chaos! Our take might be a little controversial, and that's OK! Everybody talks about “protecting your peace” online, but what does that actually look like in real life? In this episode, we get into the boundaries, habits, and mindset shifts that come with genuinely choosing peace over chaos, even when it’s uncomfortable. Before diving into the main conversation, we catch up on everything from the City Girls to pixie-cut life, the so...