Dildo Whisperer

Why do some people find pleasure in pain? In this educational, sex-positive series, we are going to explore the science and psychology behind erotic pain—how certain sensations activate the brain's pleasure centers, why trust and vulnerability deepen the experience, and how kink dynamics create powerful emotional intimacy. In part 1 of this series we break down different types of sensation play, from spanking and scratching to temperature play and BDSM tools, all through a lens of consent, safety, and communication. Whether you're curious about kink, experienced in BDSM, or simply interested in how pleasure works, this episode offers a thoughtful, judgment-free look at the beauty of consensual pain and the connection it can create. Each part of this series we will feature deeper exploration into these topics. Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our show at 844-695-2766 or you can email us at Askthedw@gmail.com. Follow us on social media @dildowhisperer The Dildo Whisperer is produced by DNR Studios. To subscribe to this show and the rest of the DNR Network of shows including the Cookie Jar Podcast visit: www.dnrstudios.com

The holidays aren't just about twinkling lights and cozy sweaters—they're also a perfect chance to spark intimacy, reconnect with your body, and bring a little extra spice into the season. In this episode, we unwrap creative, consensual ways to blend holiday traditions with pleasure: from festive sensory play and sexy gift ideas to roleplay, themed lingerie, and cozy rituals that can deepen connection. Whether you're single, partnered, or somewhere in between, this episode offers fun, shame-free tips for turning your holidays into a season of warmth, pleasure, and joy. Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our show at 844-695-2766 or you can email us at Askthedw@gmail.com. Follow us on social media @dildowhisperer The Dildo Whisperer is produced by DNR Studios. To subscribe to this show and the rest of the DNR Network of shows including the Cookie Jar Podcast visit: www.dnrstudios.com

In this heart-centered episode, we explore how gratitude can transform your sexual well-being—from deepening emotional connection to boosting desire, confidence, and communication. Whether you're solo, partnered, monogamous, or somewhere in between, we break down how gratitude helps cultivate a more fulfilling, joyful, and authentic sex life. We'll dive into self-love practices, partner appreciation rituals, body positivity, and the simple moments that keep intimacy thriving beyond the bedroom. Tune in for a grounded, shame-free conversation about celebrating what's working, honoring growth, and saying "thank you" in ways that matter. Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our show at 844-695-2766 or you can email us at Askthedw@gmail.com. Follow us on social media @dildowhisperer The Dildo Whisperer is produced by DNR Studios. To subscribe to this show and the rest of the DNR Network of shows including the Cookie Jar Podcast visit: www.dnrstudios.com

It's the little vibrator that changed everything. In this episode, we blast off into the history of the Pocket Rocket — the small, unassuming toy that helped bring sexual pleasure out of the shadows and into the mainstream. From its 1990s debut as a "personal massager" to its rise as a cultural icon, the Pocket Rocket redefined what a sex toy could be: discreet, approachable, and designed for real people. We'll explore how this tiny device empowered a generation to embrace self-pleasure, influenced modern vibrator design, and helped shift conversations around women's sexuality, shame, and independence. Whether you owned one, wanted one, or had no idea what that little white gadget in your friend's drawer was — this episode is your deep dive into the vibrator that launched a revolution. Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our show at 844-695-2766 or you can email us at Askthedw@gmail.com. Follow us on social media @dildowhisperer The Dildo Whisperer is produced by DNR Studios. To subscribe to this show and the rest of the DNR Network of shows including the Cookie Jar Podcast visit: www.dnrstudios.com

Who says long-distance can't be intimate? This week on the Dildo Whisperer, we're turning up the heat with remote-controlled and app-connected sex toys—the tech keeping lovers close even when they're miles apart. From how these devices work to tips for creating emotional connection across screens, we'll explore the fun, the fantasy, and the future of digital intimacy. Whether you're separated by cities or continents, these toys prove that love (and pleasure) can travel at the speed of Wi-Fi. Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our show at 844-695-2766 or you can email us at Askthedw@gmail.com. Follow us on social media @dildowhisperer The Dildo Whisperer is produced by DNR Studios. To subscribe to this show and the rest of the DNR Network of shows including the Cookie Jar Podcast visit: www.dnrstudios.com

Get ready to flirt with the edge! In this episode of the Dildo Whisperer, we explore the art of edging—the practice of teasing yourself or your partner to the brink of orgasm and pulling back for even more intense pleasure. We'll talk about how to do it safely, why it heightens sensation, and how it can strengthen sexual connection and communication. Whether you're flying solo or playing with a partner, this deep dive into control, patience, and pleasure will have you rethinking how you finish. Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our show at 844-695-2766 or you can email us at Askthedw@gmail.com. Follow us on social media @dildowhisperer The Dildo Whisperer is produced by DNR Studios. To subscribe to this show and the rest of the DNR Network of shows including the Cookie Jar Podcast visit: www.dnrstudios.com

They're small, they're mighty, and they just might save your life. From flavored to glow-in-the-dark, condoms have come a long way. Join us as we unpack the myths, the science, and the fun behind this bedroom essential. Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our show at 844-695-2766 or you can email us at Askthedw@gmail.com. Follow us on social media @dildowhisperer The Dildo Whisperer is produced by DNR Studios. To subscribe to this show and the rest of the DNR Network of shows including the Cookie Jar Podcast visit: www.dnrstudios.com

Everyone has fantasies—but some are more common (and more taboo) than you might think. In this episode, the Dildo Whisperer explores six of the most popular sexual fantasies: sissification, forced-bi, role playing, cuckolding, threesomes, and blackmail scenarios. We'll break down what they mean, why people are drawn to them, and how to explore them safely with trust, consent, and communication. Whether you're curious about trying something new or just want to understand the psychology behind these desires, this episode is your guide to separating fantasy from reality and keeping exploration healthy and fun. Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our show at 844-695-2766 or you can email us at Askthedw@gmail.com. Follow us on social media @dildowhisperer The Dildo Whisperer is produced by DNR Studios. To subscribe to this show and the rest of the DNR Network of shows including the Cookie Jar Podcast visit: www.dnrstudios.com

Sex can be exciting, intimate, and fulfilling—but sometimes it comes with consequences we don't plan for. In this episode of the Dildo Whisperer, we dive into the physical, emotional, social, and even legal outcomes that can follow sexual experiences, from unintended pregnancy and STIs to regret, shame, and relationship challenges. With a focus on honesty and compassion, we explore how to protect yourself, navigate tricky situations, and reframe the conversation around safe and informed choices. Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our show at 844-695-2766 or you can email us at Askthedw@gmail.com. Follow us on social media @dildowhisperer The Dildo Whisperer is produced by DNR Studios. To subscribe to this show and the rest of the DNR Network of shows including the Cookie Jar Podcast visit: www.dnrstudios.com

In this episode, we pull back the curtain on the world of cam girls and live-streaming sex work. From the rise of digital intimacy to the realities of performing online, we explore why people choose camming, the myths and stigmas that surround it, and what it teaches us about sex, technology, and human connection. Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our show at 844-695-2766 or you can email us at Askthedw@gmail.com. Follow us on social media @dildowhisperer The Dildo Whisperer is produced by DNR Studios. To subscribe to this show and the rest of the DNR Network of shows including the Cookie Jar Podcast visit: www.dnrstudios.com

Why do people cheat? It's one of the most painful questions in relationships—and the answers are more complex than you might think. In this episode of the Dildo Whisperer, we break down what counts as cheating, explore the differences in how gender impacts infidelity, and uncover the most common reasons people stray. We'll also look at the impact cheating has on couples and discuss whether relationships can truly heal after betrayal. Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our show at 844-695-2766 or you can email us at Askthedw@gmail.com. Follow us on social media @dildowhisperer The Dildo Whisperer is produced by DNR Studios. To subscribe to this show and the rest of the DNR Network of shows including the Cookie Jar Podcast visit: www.dnrstudios.com

How long should sex last? The truth might surprise you. In this episode, Romaine and Ajay break down the myths, look at what research actually says about the average length of sex, and explore the many factors that influence timing—from biology to emotional connection. We'll also reframe the conversation around quality over quantity and share tips for making intimacy more satisfying, no matter the clock. Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our show at 844-695-2766 or you can email us at Askthedw@gmail.com. Follow us on social media @dildowhisperer The Dildo Whisperer is produced by DNR Studios. To subscribe to this show and the rest of the DNR Network of shows including the Cookie Jar Podcast visit: www.dnrstudios.com

Your bedtime routine isn't just about getting a good night's sleep—it plays a major role in your sex life too. In this episode, the Dildo Whisperer explores how nightly habits like screen time, mismatched schedules, and stress can get in the way of intimacy, while simple rituals like winding down together, setting the mood, and syncing routines can reignite passion. Tune in for science, practical tips, and real-life strategies to turn your bedtime into the ultimate connection time. Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our show at 844-695-2766 or you can email us at Askthedw@gmail.com. Follow us on social media @dildowhisperer The Dildo Whisperer is produced by DNR Studios. To subscribe to this show and the rest of the DNR Network of shows including the Cookie Jar Podcast visit: www.dnrstudios.com    

The Dildo Whisperer has a recent sex adventure that inspired this week's topic. Find out how Romaine was injured during sex and learn about the most common sex injuries. How many times has Ajay been injured during sex? More times then he wants to admit!  Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our show at 844-695-2766 or you can email us at Askthedw@gmail.com. Follow us on social media @dildowhisperer The Dildo Whisperer is produced by DNR Studios. To subscribe to this show and the rest of the DNR Network of shows including the Cookie Jar Podcast visit: www.dnrstudios.com

Purity culture promised protection, but often left behind shame, fear, and silence around sex. In this episode, the Dildo Whisperer unpacks the history of the purity movement—from abstinence pledges to purity rings—and explore how these messages impact self-worth, relationships, and sexual health. We'll also talk about ways to heal, reclaim your sexuality, and move toward a healthier, shame-free understanding of intimacy. Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our show at 844-695-2766 or you can email us at Askthedw@gmail.com. Follow us on social media @dildowhisperer The Dildo Whisperer is produced by DNR Studios. To subscribe to this show and the rest of the DNR Network of shows including the Cookie Jar Podcast visit: www.dnrstudios.com

In this episode, Romaine and Ajay are joined by the hosts ofthe DNR Studios show the Cookie Jar.  Together they dive into the often-overlooked topic of men's body image and self-esteem. From pressures to look muscular, worries about hair loss, aging, or penis size, to the impact of comparison culture and media ideals—men face unique challenges when it comes to feeling confident in their own skin. We'll explore how these insecurities affect mental health, relationships, and sex, and share practical tools to build healthier self-esteem and sexual confidence. Whether you've struggled with body image yourself or want to better understand the men in your life, this episode offers insight, compassion, and strategies for embracing your body with confidence. Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our show at 844-695-2766 or you can email us at Askthedw@gmail.com. Follow us on social media @dildowhisperer The Dildo Whisperer is produced by DNR Studios. To subscribe to this show and the rest of the DNR Network of shows including the Cookie Jar Podcast visit: www.dnrstudios.com

Breaking up doesn't always mean breaking away. In this episode, Romaine and Ajay dive into the complicated world of staying friends with an ex. From setting healthy boundaries to spotting red flags, we explore the emotional realities, potential perks, and pitfalls of keeping that post-breakup connection alive. Whether you're hoping to preserve the friendship or wondering if it's time to cut ties, this conversation will help you figure out what's truly best for your heart—and your future. Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our show at 844-695-2766 or you can email us at Askthedw@gmail.com. Follow us on social media @dildowhisperer The Dildo Whisperer is produced by DNR Studios. To subscribe to this show and the rest of the DNR Network of shows including the Cookie Jar Podcast visit: www.dnrstudios.com

This isn't an ordinary episode of the Dildo Whisperer. Romaine has a crush and that crush led to one of the most incredible interviews of her 20+ year career. Romaine and Ajay are joined by model and actress Tori Easton. In this powerful and deeply personal episode, Tori Easton shares her journey of transitioning as a trans woman- from early self discovery to navigating relationships, identiy, and intimacy. With honesty, humor and heart, Tori opens up about the emotional and physical aspects of transition, offering insight into what it really means to live authentically. Wheather you're trans, an ally, a fan or simpluy curious, this conversation is a must- listen for anyone looking to better understand gender, sexuality, and the human experience. If you take one thing away from this episode we hope that is it to remember to be kind. As kindness doesn't cost you anything and it can mean everything to someone else.  Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our show at 844-695-2766 or you can email us at Askthedw@gmail.com. Follow us on social media @dildowhisperer The Dildo Whisperer is produced by DNR Studios. To subscribe to this show and the rest of the DNR Network of shows including the Cookie Jar Podcast visit: www.dnrstudios.com

How do you explore intimacy without sex? This week Romaine and Ajay discuss what it is to experience intimacy in a relationship without sex. Why is it important to a healthy relationship and how to recognize if those needs are not being met. Are you being intimate with your partner? Has the intimacy been lagging? It's time to take a look at what we are doing or often not doing to provide intimacy with our partners and others important people in our lives.  Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our show at 844-695-2766 or you can email us at Askthedw@gmail.com. Follow us on social media @dildowhisperer The Dildo Whisperer is produced by DNR Studios. To subscribe to this show and the rest of the DNR Network of shows including the Cookie Jar Podcast visit: www.dnrstudios.com

How long should you wait to have sex in a new relationship? The dildo whisperer takes a look at this question and provides some methods for you to consider when asking yourself what the right time is?  Send the us your sex and relationship questions and maybe you will inspire the next episode of The Dildo Whisperer. We have two ways to reach the show. You can call into our show at 844-695-2766 or you can email us at Askthedw@gmail.com. Follow us on social media @dildowhisperer The Dildo Whisperer is produced by DNR Studios. To subscribe to this show and the rest of the DNR Network of shows including the Cookie Jar Podcast visit: www.dnrstudios.com