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Managing Client Disputes for Creatives | Freelance Burnout, Scope Creep, Contracts for Freelancers
Managing Client Disputes for Creatives | Freelance Burnout, Scope Creep, Contracts for Freelancers
Author: Sheila M. Wilkinson, LMSW, Esq. | Business Coach for Creative Freelancers
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Sick of clients asking for "just one more thing"...again and again? Feel like you're constantly overdelivering, undercharging, and saying yes when you really want to scream no? Maybe you've Googled "how to fire a client" or "contracts for freelancers" more times than you'd like to admit. You started freelancing to do work you love but now you're stuck in a cycle of revisions, red flags, and resentment. Sound familiar?
Welcome to the Managing Client Disputes for Creative Freelancers - the podcast that helps you set boundaries, protect your energy, and confidently handle the messy, awkward, and overwhelming parts of working with clients. Whether you're dealing with scope creep, ghosting, or clients who don't care about your values (or your value), this show is your permission slip to stop people-pleasing and start protecting your peace (and your paycheck).
Hosted by Sheila Wilkinson - licensed attorney, social worker, and patron saint of troublemakers - this is where punk rock therapy meets badass business advice. Sheila combines legal clarity, emotional depth, and conflict resolution smarts to help you feel less alone and way more empowered in your creative career.
Her mission is to help you attract the right people, projects, and pay you really want - without sacrificing your sanity.
This podcast is for you if you're a freelance designer, developer, artist, or other creative professional who:
✅ Is overworked, underpaid, and starting to question if this is what freelancing is supposed to feel like
✅ Worries about saying no or raising your rates because you don't want to seem "difficult"
✅ Keeps attracting clients who don't care about your values or your boundaries
✅ Wants to do meaningful work, earn enough to live comfortably, and still have the headspace to enjoy your life
✨ You'll get straight answers to questions like:
What should I include in my freelance contract to protect myself?
How do I set boundaries with clients without sounding rude?
Can I actually fire a client… and how do I do it professionally?
How do I stop people-pleasing and still get hired?
What are the red flags to look for in a new client?
Each episode helps you connect the dots - intellectually and emotionally - so you can take action with more clarity, confidence, and courage. You don't need to figure it out on your own (or scroll Reddit at 2am looking for legal advice). Sheila's got your back.
Let's build you a more Joyful and Thriving™ life!
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🥰 Find out more about what working with me looks like at sheilawilkinson.com and follow me over on Instagram @sheilamwilkinson
💌 Grab my FREE Plug and Play Email Templates for telling people what you need without burning bridges at sheilawilkinson.com/scripts
"Managing Client Disputes" is an Original CreativesEd® and What Would Sheila Say?® Podcast. All Rights Reserved, Worldwide.
Welcome to the Managing Client Disputes for Creative Freelancers - the podcast that helps you set boundaries, protect your energy, and confidently handle the messy, awkward, and overwhelming parts of working with clients. Whether you're dealing with scope creep, ghosting, or clients who don't care about your values (or your value), this show is your permission slip to stop people-pleasing and start protecting your peace (and your paycheck).
Hosted by Sheila Wilkinson - licensed attorney, social worker, and patron saint of troublemakers - this is where punk rock therapy meets badass business advice. Sheila combines legal clarity, emotional depth, and conflict resolution smarts to help you feel less alone and way more empowered in your creative career.
Her mission is to help you attract the right people, projects, and pay you really want - without sacrificing your sanity.
This podcast is for you if you're a freelance designer, developer, artist, or other creative professional who:
✅ Is overworked, underpaid, and starting to question if this is what freelancing is supposed to feel like
✅ Worries about saying no or raising your rates because you don't want to seem "difficult"
✅ Keeps attracting clients who don't care about your values or your boundaries
✅ Wants to do meaningful work, earn enough to live comfortably, and still have the headspace to enjoy your life
✨ You'll get straight answers to questions like:
What should I include in my freelance contract to protect myself?
How do I set boundaries with clients without sounding rude?
Can I actually fire a client… and how do I do it professionally?
How do I stop people-pleasing and still get hired?
What are the red flags to look for in a new client?
Each episode helps you connect the dots - intellectually and emotionally - so you can take action with more clarity, confidence, and courage. You don't need to figure it out on your own (or scroll Reddit at 2am looking for legal advice). Sheila's got your back.
Let's build you a more Joyful and Thriving™ life!
-------------------------
🥰 Find out more about what working with me looks like at sheilawilkinson.com and follow me over on Instagram @sheilamwilkinson
💌 Grab my FREE Plug and Play Email Templates for telling people what you need without burning bridges at sheilawilkinson.com/scripts
"Managing Client Disputes" is an Original CreativesEd® and What Would Sheila Say?® Podcast. All Rights Reserved, Worldwide.
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Are you struggling with clients who ask for too much and want constant changes? In this episode, we're diving into the challenges of handling clients' change requests and the importance of setting clear boundaries. I'll share my experiences, explain why clients make such demands, and offer practical advice on how to guide clients effectively. Learn how to: - communicate expectations about changes, - establish guidelines in your contracts and interactions to maintain control over projects, and - ultimately, reduce everyone's stress! 00:27 The Challenge of Client Requests 01:00 Personal Experiences with Client Demands 02:32 Understanding Client Behavior 03:41 Setting Boundaries and Expectations 05:17 Importance of Clear Communication 06:50 Real-Life Client Stories 09:47 Mapping Out Processes RESOURCES 🎧 Episode 1 - You're in Control 🎧 Episode 5 - Managing Expectations Others Have Of You 🎧 Episode 85 - When Your Client Wants Unlimited Revisions 📲 Schedule a Roadmap to Freedom Strategy Session 🙋🏽♀️ Which client-pleasing pattern is holding you back? Take the Quiz! 📝 Free Interactive Guide: "12 Simple Tweaks to a Clearer Client Contract" >>> Hi! I'm Sheila, your guide to a Joyful and Thriving™ creative life! I have lots of titles: attorney, social worker, coach, consultant, keynote speaker, educator. And while I'm proud of those titles, I am a human first and a title second – just like you. I want to help you reset expectations, set boundaries, and make aligned decisions, so you can streamline and focus your energy on the people, projects, and pay that actually matter to you. Instagram: @sheilamwilkinson | LinkedIn Rate this podcast/episode on Apple Podcasts, or leave feedback here, and be sure to leave me a voice note with a question for me to answer in a future episode!
What should you do when clients don't reimburse you for out-of-pocket expenses? Today, we're talking about the importance of managing out-of-pocket expenses for clients to protect your financial stability and business operations. I'll share my own personal experiences of being left unreimbursed, highlight the distinction between service fees and expenses, and I offer some legal insights on setting clear boundaries and payment terms in client contracts. Key issues include creating enforceable agreements, understanding opportunity costs, and avoiding financial risks by establishing up-front payment practices and clear consequences for nonpayment. 00:00 Free Resource for Managing Clients 01:51 Personal Story: Learning the Hard Way 03:04 Understanding the Real Cost of Fronting Expenses 04:04 Setting Boundaries and Clear Expectations 06:29 Legal Insights and Practical Tips 10:10 Final Thoughts and A Plan for You Resources Which client-pleasing pattern is holding you back? Take the Quiz! Free Interactive Guide: "12 Simple Tweaks to a Clearer Client Contract" >>> Hi! I'm Sheila, your guide to a Joyful and Thriving™ creative life! I have lots of titles: attorney, social worker, coach, consultant, keynote speaker, educator. And while I'm proud of those titles, I am a human first and a title second – just like you. I want to help you reset expectations, set boundaries, and make aligned decisions, so you can streamline and focus your energy on the people, projects, and pay that actually matter to you. Instagram: @sheilamwilkinson | LinkedIn Rate this podcast/episode on Apple Podcasts, or leave feedback here, and be sure to leave me a voice note with a question for me to answer in a future episode!
Do you feel like your clients don't value you or your experience? In this episode, I discuss how to handle situations where you don't feel valued by your clients. We talk about the importance of over-communicating, and why it's often our responsibility to educate clients on how to value us. We'll look at the significance of communicating boundaries and expectations, and I'll give you some actionable steps to improve client relationships as I share a personal story to illustrate these points and offer strategies for having tough conversations with clients. Remember, it's about learning, growing, and ensuring that your value is recognized. Dive in and make sure you're not stepping back, but stepping up to be heard. 01:16 Understanding Client Value Perception 04:25 Communicating Your Worth 05:54 Setting Boundaries and Expectations 08:42 Handling Difficult Conversations 12:52 Final Thoughts and Encouragement Resources Schedule a Roadmap to Freedom™ Strategy Session Which client-pleasing pattern is holding you back? Take the Quiz! Episode 4: Managing Expectations (The ones you have of others) Free Interactive Guide: "12 Simple Tweaks to a Clearer Client Contract" >>> Hi! I'm Sheila, your guide to a Joyful and Thriving™ life! I have lots of titles: attorney, social worker, coach, consultant, keynote speaker, educator. And while I'm proud of those titles, I am a human first and a title second – just like you. I want to help you reset expectations, set boundaries, and make aligned decisions, so you can streamline and focus your energy on the people, projects, and pay that actually matter to you. Instagram: @sheilamwilkinson | LinkedIn Rate this podcast/episode on Apple Podcasts, or leave feedback here, and be sure to leave me a voice note with a question for me to answer in a future episode!
Are you ready to start using your contract to attract the clients and the money you want? If so, then our upcoming contract course is for you. LEARN MORE AND ENROLL IN THE CLIENT CONTRACTS CRASH COURSE HERE! We start the week of September 29, 2025. This live, eight-week course helps you tackle common issues like scope creep, client ghosting, and unclear expectations. Effective contracts should reflect your values and positively influence client relationships, making them crucial for smooth projects and better opportunities. Enrollment is now open, and the course aims to equip you with the tools needed for enhanced business interactions by the new year! LEARN MORE AND ENROLL IN THE CLIENT CONTRACTS CRASH COURSE HERE! 00:33 Importance of Contracts for Creatives 01:39 Course Details and Benefits 02:24 Transforming Client Relationships >>> Hi! I'm Sheila, your guide to a Joyful and Thriving™ creative life! I have lots of titles: attorney, social worker, coach, consultant, keynote speaker, educator. And while I'm proud of those titles, I am a human first and a title second – just like you. I want to help you reset expectations, set boundaries, and make aligned decisions, so you can streamline and focus your energy on the people, projects, and pay that actually matter to you. Instagram: @sheilamwilkinson | LinkedIn
Are you tired of chasing invoices, dealing with scope creep, and working for clients who don't respect your boundaries? In this episode, I uncover the real reason clients hire or fire you: you'll find it in your contract. From my experiences with countless clients and students across various industries, I've found common patterns that can prevent you from thriving. Listen and learn why using internet templates or borrowed contracts isn't enough and how creating a custom contract can lead to respect, timely payments, and enjoyable work. ⚡ I also introduce my Contracts Clinic, an 8-week LIVE crash course designed to help creatives like you craft effective contracts. Tune in to discover how to set clear boundaries, attract dream clients, and protect your passion and paycheck. Start transforming the way you manage your creative business! 00:44 Client Stories and Patterns 02:53 The Importance of Custom Contracts 04:05 Common Mistakes with Contracts 08:00 Setting Boundaries and Expectations 09:05 Understanding Principles of Contracts 16:00 Conclusion Resources Get on the Waitlist for the next LIVE Client Contracts Crash Course! Which client-pleasing pattern is holding you back? Take the Quiz! >>> Hi! I'm Sheila, your guide to a Joyful and Thriving™ creative life! I have lots of titles: attorney, social worker, coach, consultant, keynote speaker, educator. And while I'm proud of those titles, I am a human first and a title second – just like you. I want to help you reset expectations, set boundaries, and make aligned decisions, so you can streamline and focus your energy on the people, projects, and pay that actually matter to you. Instagram: @sheilamwilkinson | LinkedIn Rate this podcast/episode on Apple Podcasts, or leave feedback here, and be sure to leave me a voice note with a question for me to answer in a future episode!
Are you struggling with clients who don't pay on time? In this episode, I'm debunking the myth that you have to continue working even if you're not paid - and I am sharing vital strategies on handling non-paying clients. From the importance of a solid contract to proactively setting consequences for non-payment, I'll guide you step-by-step on protecting your time, energy, and reputation. Key topics include avoiding the sunk cost fallacy, using plain language in contracts and negotiations, and setting monetary and non-monetary consequences. Learn how to safeguard your freelance / business with effective contract management. Tune in and empower yourself to stop work when you're not being paid! 00:53 Understanding Non-Payment Issues 03:12 Importance of Clear Contracts 04:24 Setting Boundaries and Consequences 09:00 Practical Advice and Personal Experiences 12:30 Clarifying Non-Payment Consequences Resources Get on the Waitlist for the next Client Contracts Crash Course! Take the Quiz: Identify and start fixing your client-pleasing patterns today! Spotify Playlist: Episodes 32 - 36 (Contracts Basics: What You Need to Know Before You Sign) Free Interactive Guide: "12 Simple Tweaks to a Clearer Client Contract" >>> Hi! I'm Sheila, your guide to a Joyful and Thriving™ creative life! I have lots of titles: attorney, social worker, coach, consultant, keynote speaker, educator. And while I'm proud of those titles, I am a human first and a title second – just like you. I want to help you reset expectations, set boundaries, and make aligned decisions, so you can streamline and focus your energy on the people, projects, and pay that actually matter to you. Instagram: @sheilamwilkinson | LinkedIn Rate this podcast/episode on Apple Podcasts, or leave feedback here, and be sure to leave me a voice note with a question for me to answer in a future episode!
Are you struggling with a client who crosses the line? Today, I discuss how to address disrespectful clients, set boundaries, and communicate expectations clearly with freelance clients. I'll share my own experiences and provide practical advice on how to handle clients who are disrespectful of your time and energy. Key points include the right time to address disrespect, differentiating between client needs and disrespect, and leveraging contracts to set boundaries. 00:59 The Right Time to Address Disrespect 02:32 Humanizing Client Relationships 04:21 Communicating Expectations and Consequences 04:56 Scripts for Handling Disrespect 08:56 Personal Experiences and Lessons Learned 10:35 Changing the Industry Norms Resources Get on the Waitlist for the next Client Contracts Crash Course! Take the Quiz: Identify and start fixing your people-pleasing patterns today! Free Interactive Guide: "12 Simple Tweaks to a Clearer Client Contract" Schedule a Strategy Call with Sheila Episode 82 - Hidden Freelance Contract Gaps That Could Cost You Big (And How to Fix Them) Episode 83 - Afraid To Lose Clients? Why Defining Your Ideal Client Is Key To A Joyful Business >>> Hi! I'm Sheila, your guide to a Joyful and Thriving™ creative life! I have lots of titles: attorney, social worker, coach, consultant, keynote speaker, educator. And while I'm proud of those titles, I am a human first and a title second – just like you. I want to help you reset expectations, set boundaries, and make aligned decisions, so you can streamline and focus your energy on the people, projects, and pay that actually matter to you. Instagram: @sheilamwilkinson | LinkedIn Rate this podcast/episode on Apple Podcasts, or leave feedback here, and be sure to leave me a voice note with a question for me to answer in a future episode!
Are you struggling to maintain boundaries while being friendly with clients? In this episode, I share a personal story about the turning point that made me realize the importance of setting boundaries - and how I learned to strike that balance. From being available 24/7 to implementing strict communication rules, learn how to protect your time and energy while still maintaining a good relationship with your clients. Key points discussed include: understanding the difference between being liked and respected, defining your deal breakers, and how personal habits spill over into professional settings. Join me as I delve into strategies for blending friendliness with clear boundaries. 00:55 The Turning Point: A Client's Disruptive Call 02:33 Setting Boundaries: Lessons Learned 05:33 The Importance of Respect and Clarity 06:47 Personal and Professional Boundaries 07:39 Practical Tips for Enforcing Boundaries 09:08 Communicating Boundaries Effectively Resources Take the Quiz: Identify and start fixing your people-pleasing patterns today! Free Interactive Guide: "12 Simple Tweaks to a Clearer Client Contract" Get on the Waitlist for the next Client Contracts Crash Course! Schedule a Strategy Call with Sheila Episode 85 - Managing Unlimited Revision Requests from Clients >>> Hi! I'm Sheila, your guide to a Joyful and Thriving™ creative life! I have lots of titles: attorney, social worker, coach, consultant, keynote speaker, educator. And while I'm proud of those titles, I am a human first and a title second – just like you. I want to help you reset expectations, set boundaries, and make aligned decisions, so you can streamline and focus your energy on the people, projects, and pay that actually matter to you. Instagram: @sheilamwilkinson | LinkedIn Rate this podcast/episode on Apple Podcasts, or leave feedback here, and be sure to leave me a voice note with a question for me to answer in a future episode! >>>
Tired of endless revisions and unclear expectations with your clients? If so, then today's episode is for you! In this episode, I dive into how you can limit the number of revisions and feedback opportunities for clients by including three key sentences in your contract. Learn why it's wrong to believe 'the client is always right' and get actionable steps to ensure both you and your clients have aligned expectations, ultimately fostering more respectful and productive professional relationships. 02:24 The Myth of 'The Client is Always Right' 03:56 Key Contract Clauses to Limit Revisions 05:51 Setting Client Expectations 07:54 The Importance of Clear Boundaries 09:47 Practical Steps to Implement Limits 11:48 Real-Life Example: Agency Experience Resources Take the Quiz! Identify and start fixing your people-pleasing patterns today! Schedule a Strategy Call Free Interactive Guide: "12 Simple Tweaks to a Clearer Client Contract" Get on the Waitlist for the next Client Contracts Crash Course! >>> Hi! I'm Sheila, your guide to a Joyful and Thriving™ creative life! I have lots of titles: attorney, social worker, coach, consultant, keynote speaker, educator. And while I'm proud of those titles, I am a human first and a title second – just like you. I want to help you reset expectations, set boundaries, and make aligned decisions, so you can streamline and focus your energy on the people, projects, and pay that actually matter to you. Instagram: @sheilamwilkinson | LinkedIn Rate this podcast/episode on Apple Podcasts, or leave feedback here, and be sure to leave me a voice note with a question for me to answer in a future episode!
Do you have a framework for your client work? One that works time and time again? If not, then today's episode is for you! Today, we tackle an issue that's more prevalent than ever – the misguided belief in cookie-cutter solutions offered by so-called 'gurus'. Their frameworks may have worked for them, but that doesn't mean they'll work for you. This episode delves deep into rejecting societal pressures of perfectionism, the importance of viewing life and work as experiments, and setting clear boundaries with clients. Learn how to attract the right clients, the right projects, and the right pay by being your true self and committing to a proactive, customized approach. Let's focus on protecting your peace, heart, and reputation, whether you're a freelancer, business owner, or employee. Tune in for actionable notes and tips including more on my free interactive guide on how to tweak your client contracts to make them more 'you'. 00:29 The Problem with Guru Frameworks 03:28 Embracing Failure as an Experiment 05:06 Creating Your Own Framework 08:08 Setting Boundaries and Expectations 12:53 The Importance of Contracts 15:24 Taking Control of Your Client Relationships Resources Creatives - Take the Quiz! Identify and start fixing your people-pleasing patterns today! Free Interactive Guide: "12 Simple Tweaks to a Clearer Client Contract" Get on the Waitlist for the next Client Contracts Crash Course! >>> Hi! I'm Sheila, your guide to a Joyful and Thriving™ creative life! I have lots of titles: attorney, social worker, coach, consultant, keynote speaker, educator. And while I'm proud of those titles, I am a human first and a title second – just like you. I want to help you reset expectations, set boundaries, and make aligned decisions, so you can streamline and focus your energy on the people, projects, and pay that actually matter to you. Instagram: @sheilamwilkinson | LinkedIn Rate this podcast/episode on Apple Podcasts, or leave feedback here, and be sure to leave me a voice note with a question for me to answer in a future episode!
In this episode, I delve into the emotional aspects of the fear of losing clients. We'll discuss recognizing red flags, prioritizing yourself and your needs, and clearly defining the type of clients you want to work with. I'm also sharing personal experiences and at the end, I'll provide you with a handful of actionable steps to help you identify your ideal clients. By doing so, you can be sure your work aligns with your values, ultimately leading to more satisfaction and success in your professional life. 00:32 The Emotional Side of Losing Clients 01:46 Personal Experiences and Lessons Learned 03:28 Finding Clarity and Defining Your Ideal Client 05:10 The Importance of Values in Client Selection 12:23 Practical Steps to Attract the Right Clients Resources Schedule a Strategy Call today Free Interactive Guide: "12 Simple Tweaks to a Clearer Client Contract" Get on the Waitlist for the 8-Week Contracts Course >>> Hi! I'm Sheila, your guide to a Joyful and Thriving™ creative life! I have lots of titles: attorney, social worker, coach, consultant, keynote speaker, educator. And while I'm proud of those titles, I am a human first and a title second – just like you. I want to help you reset expectations, set boundaries, and make aligned decisions, so you can streamline and focus your energy on the people, projects, and pay that actually matter to you. Instagram: @sheilamwilkinson | LinkedIn Rate this podcast/episode on Apple Podcasts, or leave feedback here, and be sure to leave me a voice note with a question for me to answer in a future episode!
If you're afraid that your client contract has some hidden pitfalls and maybe one day, it's all going to blow up in your face, then today's episode is for YOU! Today, we're talking about when you don't know, what you don't know. It's not about the right legal wording. And it's even less about what you actually SAY in your contract. What matters more is what's MISSING from your contract. Today, I dive deep into how to spot what's missing and provide you with a free tool to help plug those holes and fill those gaps. Hear my story of a client who led me on a literal courtroom chase and what I learned from it about making client expectations crystal clear. Listen to find out why most problems arise from what isn't in your contracts, and how you can avoid common pitfalls by being prepared, setting clear expectations, and always staying ahead of potential problems. 00:05 The Importance of Missing Contract Clauses 01:46 A Personal Story: The Courtroom Chase 05:52 Lessons Learned and Contract Essentials 09:31 Common Client Issues and Contract Solutions 19:55 Real-Life Example: Bob's Contract Nightmare 28:58 Final Thoughts and Action Steps Resources Free Interactive Guide: "12 Simple Tweaks to a Clearer Client Contract" Get on the Waitlist for the 8-Week Contracts Course Episode 32 - What You Need to Know Before You Sign: Contracts Basics - Including Podcast Contracts, too! (Part 1) Episode 33 - When to Enforce Your Agreements: Contracts Basics (Part 2) Episode 34 - Resolving Contract Disputes: Contracts Basics (Part 3) Episode 35 - Drafting Your First Contract: Contracts Basics (Part 4) Episode 36 - My Top 5 Tips for International Work: Contracts Basics (Part 5) >>> Hi! I'm Sheila, your guide to a Joyful and Thriving™ creative life! I have lots of titles: attorney, social worker, coach, consultant, keynote speaker, educator. And while I'm proud of those titles, I am a human first and a title second – just like you. I want to help you reset expectations, set boundaries, and make aligned decisions, so you can streamline and focus your energy on the people, projects, and pay that actually matter to you. Instagram: @sheilamwilkinson | LinkedIn Rate on Apple Podcasts, or leave feedback here, and be sure to leave me a voice note with a question for a future episode!
If you're a self-defined people-pleaser, struggling with your identity as a Creative, then this episode is for you. I'm diving deep into what it means to be YOU. We'll explore how creatives like you are often taught to think and feel a certain way, which leads to a disconnect between their intellectual and emotional selves. I'll share three startling statistics about the struggles many face with identity, self-worth, and confrontation, and how these affect creatives specifically. Through a bit about my own personal journey and incorporating professional insights, we'll uncover the importance of listening to your body's true desires and how to overcome external validation and people-pleasing habits. This episode is all about finding the courage to embrace your true self, set boundaries, and live a life full of joy and authenticity. 02:01 Understanding Identity Struggles 02:38 The Pressure to Prove Yourself 03:43 Confrontation and Truth 04:58 Personal Journey and Realizations 07:49 Breaking Free from Expectations 10:20 Embracing Your True Self 15:12 Practical Steps to Reconnect 18:26 The Bigger Picture Resources Your Next Step: Book a free call with me to chat about creating YOUR plan Free Interactive Guide: "12 Simple Tweaks to a Clearer Client Contract" Scripts for what to say when you need more space and time Get on the Waitlist for the 8-Week Contracts Course A Picture's Worth a Thousand Words: The Statistics >>> Hi! I'm Sheila, your guide to a Joyful and Thriving™ creative life! I have lots of titles: attorney, social worker, coach, consultant, keynote speaker, educator. And while I'm proud of those titles, I am a human first and a title second – just like you. I want to help you reset expectations, set boundaries, and make aligned decisions, so you can streamline and focus your energy on the people, projects, and pay that actually matter to you. Instagram: @sheilamwilkinson | LinkedIn Rate this podcast/episode on Apple Podcasts, or leave feedback here, and be sure to leave me a voice note with a question for me to answer in a future episode!
If you're a self-proclaimed people-pleaser and having a hard time sticking to boundaries with your clients, then this episode is for you! In this episode, I'm diving deep into the crucial topic of boundaries and am sharing a very personal, life-changing experience that very few people in the world know - it became the impetus for starting my own personal journey of overcoming trauma and learning to set boundaries. I'll also discuss the importance of respecting and enforcing boundaries, providing practical advice on how to set and maintain them, particularly through contracts and daily interactions. Tune in to learn practical strategies for achieving a more harmonious, Joyful and Thriving™ creative life! 01:57 Personal Story: Learning Boundaries the Hard Way 05:21 Connecting Personal Boundaries to Professional Life 09:16 Practical Tips for Setting Boundaries 13:20 The Role of Contracts in Enforcing Boundaries 20:24 Final Thoughts and Homework Resources Free Interactive Guide: "12 Simple Tweaks to a Clearer Client Contract" Scripts for your Out of Office / Auto-Responder when you need more time Get on the Waitlist for the 8-Week Contracts Course! >>> Hi! I'm Sheila, your guide to a Joyful and Thriving™ creative life! I have lots of titles: attorney, social worker, coach, consultant, keynote speaker, educator. And while I'm proud of those titles, I am a human first and a title second – just like you. I want to help you reset expectations, set boundaries, and make aligned decisions, so you can streamline and focus your energy on the people, projects, and pay that actually matter to you. Instagram: @sheilamwilkinson | LinkedIn Rate this podcast/episode on Apple Podcasts, or leave feedback here, and be sure to leave me a voice note with a question for me to answer in a future episode!
When it comes to pricing, there's so much out there in the world telling and showing us we are not valued, when actually, all we're hearing are the loudest talkers, right? The real problem is believing in your value and not allowing society and people outside of you to change your belief in yourself. In this episode, I discuss the importance of valuing your work appropriately and not undercharging for your services. I'm sharing my own journey helping clients navigate difficult conversations and set proper fees. We'll dive into the pitfalls of charging lower than deserved fees, explaining how it can affect one's self-worth and client perception. I'll provide actionable steps on how to increase rates, communicate value to clients, and break the cycle of undervaluing yourself, while setting boundaries and protecting your peace, heart, and reputation all while ensuring your contract reflects these values! Tune in to learn practical strategies for achieving a more harmonious, Joyful and Thriving™ creative life! 01:10 Combining Brands and Evolving 01:45 The Importance of Charging What You're Worth 03:52 Personal Experience with Pricing 06:06 Understanding Your Value and Raising Prices 08:40 Practical Steps to Increase Your Rates 11:30 The Impact of Pricing on Your Business 21:32 Action Steps Resources from the Show Bureau of Labor Statistics, U.S. Department of Labor, Occupational Outlook Handbook, Graphic Designers (visited February 05, 2025). Listen to Episode 24 - Services Listen to Episode 25 - Pricing Waitlist for the 8-Week Contracts Course Free Guide: "12 Simple Tweaks to a Clearer Client Contract" >>> Hi! I'm Sheila, your guide to a Joyful and Thriving™ creative life! I have lots of titles: attorney, social worker, coach, consultant, keynote speaker, educator. And while I'm proud of those titles, I am a human first and a title second – just like you. I want to help you reset expectations, set boundaries, and make aligned decisions, so you can streamline and focus your energy on the people, projects, and pay that actually matter to you. Instagram: @sheilamwilkinson | LinkedIn Rate this podcast/episode on Apple Podcasts, or leave feedback here, and be sure to leave me a voice note with a question for me to answer in a future episode!
Thanks for listening to this updated introduction of the "Managing Client Disputes" Podcast (An Original What Would Sheila Say?® ️and CreativesEd® ️Podcast) and welcome to the (r)evolution! Leave a Voice Note for a chance to get on the Podcast Follow Sheila on IG Grab time with Sheila If you've ever been told that being a service-based professional means you have to suck it up, accept whatever client walks in the door no matter how little they want to pay you, and that you're never going to make any money unless you scale and grow a huge team, then you're in for a spin, because none of that is true! >>>> Transcript: If you've ever been in a sticky client situation, not knowing what to do or what to say, afraid to get a lawyer involved but knowing you needed guidance, then the Managing Client Disputes™️ podcast is for you! Hi, I'm Sheila M. Wilkinson, and I've got lots of titles: Attorney, Social Worker, Career and Business Coach, Educator and Consultant for Creatives of all kinds - designers, architects, artists, web developers, and everyone in between. My favorite clients call me their Business Mom, their Punk Rock Group Leader, Momma Bear Sheila, and the OG Digital Nomad. My clients always ask themselves, What Would Sheila Say?®️ - because the truth is, I will always say to do what feels right in your body, not in your brain. But that's all easier said than done, right? Well, in 2010, I walked away from a multi-million dollar business that I built from scratch because it wasn't right for me anymore - success had always been about the material things - the car, the money, the gadgets and the clothes. But in 2007, I realized that there's no amount of money that can take the place of the peace I feel when I work with the right people, taking on the right projects, for the right pay. Since 2010, I've built the actual life of my dreams - I live on two continents, have a fully virtual business with incredible, joy-inducing clients, and I have an amazing partner I adore. I'm happier than I ever was before because NOW, I do what's right for ME, even though it's wildly different than what the rest of the world told me I should do - and I teach my clients how to do the same. 15 years ago, I had the idea for CreativesEd®️ - a Business Academy for Creatives, Designers and Other Service-Based Business Owners who care about their community and who care about doing good work for good people. A place where LGBT folx and our allies could come together to focus on making a positive impact on the world. A place for people who care about getting it right, who have an appreciation of all things, great and small. A place for people who care about the future of our world. A place where you're not just a service-provider providing a deliverable but a human who wants to beautify our world and not just add to the noise. I envisioned a place where people like you can access the business and legal information you need without breaking the bank. After spending all those years working with creative freelancers and small businesses, I realized they all had the same thing in common: they all wanted a successful, Joyful and Thriving™️business, but they were afraid to stand up for themselves, they were afraid to price themselves appropriately, and they were afraid to say no to the clients and the projects that did not light them up. In this podcast, you'll get the practical, realistic, no holds barred information you need NOW, so you can get clear about the people, projects, and pay you actually want. Yes, my goal is to help you manage client disputes, but I also want you to take what you learn here and prevent client disputes in the future! I want to help you confidently navigate client relationships so you can protect your peace, your heart, and your reputation. Today, and every day together on this podcast, we'll think big. No more fear! No more whack a mole with client disputes - we're going to fix the problem and prevent the problem in the future - letting the world know you deserve to be treated with respect, paid fairly, and not nickel-and-dimed for the amazing work you do. New episodes usually drop every other week so you have time to implement what we talk about in each episode. To get the most out of our time together, I encourage you to listen to each episode at least twice. Your brain needs time to process what we're going to cover together, so give it the space and time it deserves and implement the tips, strategies, and scripts I'm going to give you on the show. So, for now, hit follow on your podcast platform and share this podcast with another creative who struggles with work/life balance and who wants to create the life and career they dream about, too! After you listen to a few episodes, I'd love it if you'd leave a 5-star rating and review and tell me what you loved most, and don't forget that you can send me a voice note and ask any question you have about how to manage your client disputes. I'll answer your question, and I might even invite you to join me on the show for live coaching! So, with that, I will let you get back to your day, thanks so much for listening. I'm super excited about what's to come and once you see how easy it is to really, truly have the life you want, you're going to kick yourself for all the years you spent stressed out!
If you've always struggled to feel fully rested, then this episode is for you! We're unveiling the power of rest with Dr. Saundra Dalton-Smith, an internal medicine physician and award-winning author, to explore the concept of rest. In this episode, we discuss the importance of recognizing and addressing different types of rest and how they impact our physical, mental, and emotional well-being. Dr. Dalton-Smith shares insights from her book 'Sacred Rest' and introduces her seven types of rest framework. It's all about the significance of listening to one's body, setting flexible boundaries, and integrating restorative practices into daily life. The episode also highlights Dr. Dalton-Smith's Rest Quiz, which can help you identify and address your specific rest needs. Tune in to learn practical strategies for incorporating rest into a busy schedule and achieving a more harmonious, Joyful and Thriving™ life! Resources from the Show Take Dr. Saundra's Rest Quiz! https://www.restquiz.com/quiz/rest-quiz-test/ Connect with Dr. Saundra: https://www.drdaltonsmith.com/ Listen to Dr. Saundra's Podcast: https://ichoosemybestlife.com/podcast/ >>> My mission is to help professionals like you remember who you are, figure out exactly what you want, because what you want is absolutely within reach. I want to help you create a simple, actionable plan that will get you there. I'd love to support you! RESOURCES Sign up for VIP news and opportunities not available to the public Learn more about me here: https://sheilawilkinson.com Free Stuff, Fun Stuff, Links & More: https://sheilawilkinson.com/links Start getting Boundaries *and* Balance in this Workshop ($29) - especially as you head into the new year! Tag me, follow me, and DM me with your thoughts and questions: Instagram - @sheilamwilkinson LinkedIn - Sheila M. Wilkinson Rate this podcast/episode on Apple Podcasts here Not on Apple Podcasts? No worries! Rate and Review on our site and make sure to leave a question for a future episode! Or, if you're listening on Spotify, go back to the main profile page on our Podcast and rate us there!
Are you considering starting a podcast, or wondering how to find your podcast voice? You're in the right place! Full of personal anecdotes, professional wisdom, and actionable advice, this episode is a deep dive into the world of podcasting and its many applications. My guest today is Danny Ozment, a podcast consultant known for his work with busy professionals and solopreneurs. In fact, Danny helped me find my voice and launch this very podcast you're listening to! We discuss the benefits of podcasting, particularly for regulated professionals, and how it can serve as a powerful tool even without a business angle. Danny shares insights into his career transition from a musician to running a successful podcast consultancy agency, detailing his approach to building trust and relationships through podcasting. We also touch on using podcasts for internal corporate communication and Danny's strategic shift towards scaling his business. 00:50 Danny's Role in Podcasting 02:07 The Benefits of Podcasting 07:53 Danny's Personal Journey 12:09 Transition from Conductor to Podcast Consultant 17:32 Building a Podcasting Business 21:44 Monetizing Podcasts 24:54 Generating Leads Through Podcasting 25:44 The Power of Trust and Expertise 29:55 Internal Podcasts for Companies 34:21 Advice for New Podcasters 36:19 Personal Reflections and Fun Questions 40:03 Resources for Aspiring Podcasters Resources from the Show Connect with Danny & his Podcasting Agency: emeraldcitypro.com Download Danny's Free Resource: 25 Steps When Starting a Podcast https://dannyozment.com/roadmap/ For Fun: Here's my Guest Spot on Danny's Podcast Other WWSS Episodes Mentioned: Episode 51 >>> My mission is to help service-based professionals figure out exactly what they want. My experience has shown that what you want is always within reach, and I'm honored to help you create a simple, actionable plan that will get you there. I'd love to support you! FREE RESOURCES Sign up for VIP news and opportunities not available to the public Learn more about me here: https://sheilawilkinson.com Free Stuff, Fun Stuff, Links & More: https://sheilawilkinson.com/links LOW-COST RESOURCES Start getting Boundaries *and* Balance in this Workshop ($29) - especially as you head into the new year! Tag me, follow me, and DM me with your thoughts and questions: Instagram @sheilamwilkinson and Facebook @lawyercoachsheila Rate this podcast/episode on Apple Podcasts here Not on Apple Podcasts? No worries! Rate and Review on our site and make sure to leave a question for a future episode! Or, if you're listening on Spotify, go back to the main profile page on our Podcast and rate us there!
📚 Psst - Links to the Free E-Books are ONLY available below in the show notes! In this episode, we welcome Bec Conant, an expert in the prenatal and birth field. Bec is the founder of 'Om Births,' an online program for pregnant people and new parents. With over 20 years of experience teaching prenatal yoga, the discussion covers various aspects of the birthing process, preparation, and recovery. Bec shares her journey from a career in dance and movement to becoming a prenatal yoga instructor and birth doula. The conversation delves into the importance of physical and mental preparation for birth, the intersection of yoga with the birthing experience, and how new parents can continue to care for themselves postpartum. The episode also touches on Bec's new book 'The Om Births Approach,' her techniques, and the support she offers through online prenatal and postnatal yoga classes. I highly encourage you to explore Bec's resources, including free eBooks and her main book available on Amazon and her Publisher's site. 05:42 Bec's Work and Support for Pregnant and Postpartum People 07:02 The Importance of Postpartum Support 09:41 Holistic Approach to Birth and Postpartum 26:01 First Yoga Class Experience 28:09 The Worst Yoga Class Ever 28:59 Diving Deeper into Prenatal Yoga 29:36 Becoming a Doula 30:49 First Doula Experience 34:02 The Power of Letting Go 43:44 Writing the Book 49:54 Advice for Pregnant Yogis 👉🏽 COMPELLING EPISODE QUOTES FROM BEC: "The roadmap to motherhood doesn't stop. When you birth the baby, that's just one very, very cool rest stop." "Life is inherently uncertain. How we interact with that uncertainty is the foundation of every meditation practice, but it's also really the story of how your life unfolds." "Every contraction you fight is one you have to do over." "If you go into a yoga class and you're not a fan of the teacher, or it doesn't feel right, don't assume that it's yoga that's the problem. Don't write off the whole practice entirely. Assume it's them. Assume the teacher was the issue." "The focus of yoga really wants to be just feeling your body move, just feeling what it feels like to be in different shapes, to breathe in a different way, to shift your attention from our everyday, very outward, very judgmental, very categorizing lens to a more inward, compassionate, accepting quality." 📧 RESOURCES FROM THE SHOW 🎄🕎 NO BS BOUNDARIES: HOLIDAY EDITION WORKSHOP Connect with Bec Grab Bec's Book - The Om Births Approach: How to use your yoga practice to prepare body, mind, and spirit for birth Links to the Free E-Books are ONLY available here in the show notes: Free E-book on Essential Pregnancy Movements to feel more comfortable in pregnancy and be better prepared for birth Free E-book on Essential Postpartum Movements to begin finding your way back to movement safely post birth Share your takeaways and tag us on Instagram and LinkedIn: IG - Sheila and Bec LinkedIn - Sheila and Bec ✍🏽 LET'S CONNECT! Want feedback or coaching about something going on in your life or career? I want to answer it in a future episode! Leave me a voice note! FREE Resources: https://sheilawilkinson.com/links Connect with Sheila! Get my monthly newsletter with inspiring and practical strategies for navigating life's deepest challenges! ☑ PLEASE RATE & REVIEW 🔊 Do that on Apple Podcasts here, or, if you're listening on Spotify, go back to the main profile for our show and click the 5⭐review option there! 🔊 Not on Apple Podcasts? No worries! Rate and Review on our site and make sure to leave a question for a future episode!
In this insightful episode, you'll engage with Creative Consultant Mike Brennan to discuss the journey of rediscovering and sustaining creativity in everyday life and business. Together, we explore the vulnerability of creativity, establishing a daily creative habit, overcoming societal pressures, and the therapeutic power of creative expression. Mike shares his personal transformation from ministry burnout to becoming a creative professional through a 365-day art challenge, highlighting the importance of reflection, small consistent actions, and systematic approaches to maintain creative momentum. Listen in to gain practical advice on integrating creativity into your life, reconnecting with personal passions, and leveraging tools like the Daily Creative Habit journal to foster continuous growth and innovation. 05:32 Mike's Journey and Creative Philosophy 13:17 The Daily Creative Habit 21:32 Rediscovering Art and Creativity 38:47 Integrating Life and Creativity 40:31 Overcoming Creative Blocks 47:13 Consistency and Prioritization 59:40 Resources for Creativity 👉🏽 KEY TAKEAWAYS Daily Creative Habit as a Solution: Mike emphasizes the importance of establishing a "daily creative habit" to foster consistency in creative work, especially for those feeling stuck or overwhelmed by other priorities. Everyone is Creative: The episode expands the definition of creativity beyond traditional arts, explaining that creativity manifests in various forms like organizing, cooking, writing, or even building systems. Overcoming Creative Repression: The podcast discusses how many individuals, especially lawyers and other professionals, suppress their creativity because of societal or familial expectations. The message is clear: it's never too late to reignite creative passions. Intentional Creative Time: Creativity doesn't just happen on its own; you must intentionally carve out time and space for creative exploration, even if you're living a busy or demanding life. Transformative Power of Creativity: The episode shares personal stories about how reconnecting with creative practices helped the speaker and others rediscover joy, passion, and a sense of purpose, highlighting how creativity can bring healing and fulfillment. 👉🏽 COMPELLING EPISODE QUOTES "I help people establish what I call a daily creative habit. It's for those who want to engage with their creativity but have lost touch, or who have a creative goal yet struggle with consistency." - Mike Brennan "We need to expand our definition of what creativity is so that it's more inclusive, not just confined to painting or performing arts. You can be creative in how you organize, cook, or even build systems." - Mike Brennan "So many lawyers are repressed creatives. They're told, 'You can't make money with that. It's a nice hobby but not a career.' And then they choose a path like law, never realizing how creative they actually are." - Sheila M. Wilkinson "There was a time when you created something just because it brought you joy. What if you returned to that place, where your work wasn't tied to clients or expectations, but simply to you?" - Mike Brennan "Creativity is about showing up, doing a lot of bad work before you get to the good, and going on a journey of self-discovery and curiosity." - Mike Brennan 📧 RESOURCES FROM THE SHOW Connect with Mike and Sign up for Mike's free newsletter Grab your copy of the 90–Day Creative Habit Tracker! Tag us on Instagram and LinkedIn IG - Sheila and Mike LinkedIn - Sheila and Mike ✍🏽 LET'S CONNECT! Want feedback or coaching about something going on in your life or career? I want to answer it in a future episode! Leave me a voice note! FREE Resources: https://sheilawilkinson.com/links Connect with Sheila! Get my monthly newsletter with inspiring and practical strategies for navigating life's deepest challenges! ☑ PLEASE RATE & REVIEW 🔊 Do that on Apple Podcasts here, or, if you're listening on Spotify, go back to the main profile for our show and click the 5⭐review option there! 🔊 Not on Apple Podcasts? No worries! Rate and Review on our site and make sure to leave a question for a future episode!







