The Midlife Sex Coach for Women™ Podcast

If I just focus on this a little longer. We need to feel good and content and ready before we act. And that is the trap really, when your brain is scared, when libido has been dormant, when intimacy feels awkward or vulnerable, when self image isn't fully healed, thoughts and feelings won't be perfect. They just won't be. So listen to me closely when I say this…your thoughts   So many women spend their time thinking about improving intimacy instead of actually living intimacy. We journal, analyze, consume self-help, and wait to feel "ready" — but meanwhile nothing changes. In this episode, Dr. Sonia explains why thoughts and feelings will never become perfect and comfortable before you act and why action — even tiny action — is what actually shifts sexual identity, desire, and confidence. If you've been stuck in your head about intimacy, this one is for you. You'll learn why the brain tries to keep you waiting, how action becomes identity, how momentum awakens desire, and the #1 question to ask yourself this week to get unstuck. Plus, Dr. Sonia gives a simple real-world assignment to take one step toward deeper pleasure and connection — without pressure, perfection, or performance. Enrollment Open: The next Own Your Sexuality Now! Weekend Intensive is happening January 31 & February 1, 2026. Enroll by Saturday, November 29th to receive a FREE 60-minute private consultation call with Dr. Sonia. www.soniawrightmd.com/oysn-intensive/  

Midlife just got a whole lot brighter. In this game-changing episode, Dr. Sonia breaks down the incredibly good news that the long-standing health advisory label on estrogen (HRT) has finally been removed. For decades, this warning scared women away from safe, effective hormone therapy — and kept millions struggling with symptoms they didn't have to suffer through. ✨ Today we talk about what the label really meant ✨ Why it has now been removed ✨ What the updated science actually shows ✨ And how this shift can change your intimacy, health, and pleasure in midlife If you've ever been told to "tough it out" through menopause… If you've been afraid hormones might be dangerous… If you've been struggling with dryness, pain during intimacy, low libido, brain fog, sleep issues, or mood shifts… This episode is your permission slip to feel good again. Estrogen isn't the enemy — misinformation is. And now that the advisory label is gone, women have access to informed choices, real relief, and the chance to reclaim their energy, vitality, and sexuality. Because you deserve more than crumbs. You deserve the comfort. The connection. The pleasure. And you deserve a midlife that feels good. Listen now — your body (and your libido) will thank you.

In this empowering episode of the Midlife Sex Coach for Women podcast, Dr. Sonia Wright dives into the transformative journey of midlife. Through candid storytelling and insightful guidance, she explores the "12 Step Clean Your Damn Toilet Transformation," encouraging listeners to embrace their true selves, set boundaries, and seek joy and fulfillment. Dr. Wright shares personal anecdotes and practical advice on overcoming life's challenges, finding pleasure, and creating a legacy of empowerment. Tune in to discover how to rise and become the person you were always meant to be.  

In this episode, Dr. Sonia Wright shares a heartfelt dedication to her late mother, exploring themes of empowerment, self-compassion, and the journey of self-discovery for women in midlife. She discusses the importance of living a no-regrets life, embracing one's desires, and the transformative power of midlife as a portal to a more powerful chapter. Dr. Wright invites listeners to join a movement of awakening, where women can reconnect with their true selves and live life fully.

Dr. Sonia Wright returns with a new season of her podcast, focusing on empowering women in midlife to embrace their sexuality and life without shame. She shares her journey of self-discovery and the importance of self-care, while promising deeper discussions on pleasure, relationships, and self-love.

Starting this podcast was my way of saying, "I'm done playing by the rules," and sharing my journey with all of you. Which is why I wanted to shift the focus to a powerful concept of "giving your last fuck". This isn't about sexual intimacy or specific acts - it's about living boldly and authentically, on your own terms. Midlife brings a newfound freedom, where the expectations and judgments of others start to fade, leaving us with the most important question: Are you truly happy?   Tune in to this final episode as we dive into how you can live your fullest life - authentically and unapologetically. We'll explore how to trust your intuition, prioritize your own happiness, and disregard the societal rules that were designed to keep us small. This is your moment, your second half of life, and I'm here to celebrate it with you. Let's make it count.   Get full show notes and more information here: https://soniawrightmd.com/200

Society may try to dictate what your sexual experience should look like, but I'm here to remind you, my diamonds, that you have the power to define intimacy for yourself. It's time to let go of comparison, embrace self-care, and give yourself permission to enjoy all the pleasure available to you.       Join me as we explore how to advocate for your needs, maintain optimal vulva health, and incorporate toys and lube into your sexual repertoire. Whether you're in a relationship or flying solo, these 10 tips will empower you to prioritize your pleasure and create the intimate life you deserve.     Get full show notes and more information here: https://soniawrightmd.com/199

When it comes to relationships—whether with yourself or a partner—it's essential that we put in the effort to nurture them. I like to think of it as using a tool belt packed with key elements to foster a healthy, emotional, and intimate connection. So, my Diamonds, let's dive into what these tools are and explore how they can help us build stronger, more fulfilling relationships.     Tune in to this episode to learn about building your own relationship tool belt. We explore the importance of creativity in relationships, allowing you to craft unique, fulfilling connections that defy societal norms. We discuss the necessity of flexibility and how it strengthens your bond by fostering understanding and compromise. Join me as we uncover these tools and more, helping you create the deeply satisfying and intimate relationships you deserve.     Get full show notes and more information here: https://soniawrightmd.com/198  

Can you picture yourself in the year 2065? What's life looking like when you're 95? We've all grown so much from who we were 5 or 10 years ago, so just imagine the changes ahead. I'm excited to dive into what it means to keep our sexual intimacy vibrant as we age. What can our future, super-sexual selves teach us?     Tune in this week to find out how to set your sights on your super future self. We'll chat about letting go and being your genuine self, how your sexual intimacy evolves, and why self-care is key. Join me as we explore these intriguing questions and insights, guiding you to embrace your most authentic, joyful, and intimate self at midlife and beyond.     Get full show notes and more information here: https://soniawrightmd.com/197

It's tough trying to juggle everything - being there for your family, your job, and somehow finding time for yourself. What I've learned, and what I strive to teach my clients, is that self-value must be the foundation of everything you do. Forget society's so-called rules that are set up to make women fail. My Diamonds, I'm giving you permission to rest, to focus on your own needs and pleasures, and to communicate these needs to your partners.     Tune in this week to discover how you can prioritize yourself and become your own best lover. We'll explore why it's essential to take breaks, care for your body and mind, and overcome the guilt that often comes with it. From tackling mom guilt to redefining your legacy, this episode is a call to action for all women to look after themselves first.      Get full show notes and more information here: https://soniawrightmd.com/196

I want to zone in on the next six months of 2024. This is a time to be intentional in our choices, especially when it comes to personal aspects like intimacy. And so I wanted to get you thinking about several questions to ask yourself, like: What tweaks could make your intimacy journey even better?      Tune in this week to uncover how you can bring intimacy, connection, and self-awareness into sharper focus. Whether it's improving communication with your partner, introducing new elements into your intimate life, or redefining what sexual intimacy means to you now, this episode offers a roadmap to making the next six months your most fulfilling period yet.     Get full show notes and more information here: https://soniawrightmd.com/195

When you are working towards your intimacy goals, the moments of uncertainty and discomfort are where real growth happens. I call this The Messy Middle.   Tune in this week to learn how to navigate the messy middle of your own journey. We'll explore practical ways for maintaining open communication with your partner, tackling intimacy issues directly, and managing the emotional discomfort that accompanies real growth. Discover how to find clarity in the chaos and embrace the tough moments as necessary steps toward achieving your impossible gains. It's not about doing the impossible every day; it's about committing to the journey, one messy step at a time.   Get full show notes and more information here: https://soniawrightmd.com/194

Today, we're focusing on harnessing that childhood creativity and imagination to transform the impossible into the possible, especially in the realms of intimacy and sexuality. My clients often come to me seeking guidance on these deeply personal aspects of their lives, and it all begins with a simple thought - a spark of curiosity about what could be.     Tune in this week to explore how you can redefine what's possible in your intimate life. Diamonds, whether you're looking to reconnect with a partner, overcome performance anxiety, or discover new dimensions of pleasure and understanding, the journey is worth every twist and turn. Whether you're seeking a deeper bond, contemplating an open relationship, or simply looking to enhance your current one, embracing the game of impossible intimacy can lead to a more fulfilling, pleasurable, and authentic life. Are you ready to play?     Get full show notes and more information here: https://soniawrightmd.com/193

When you're 98 years old, sitting in a rocking chair and looking back at your life, what will you regret not having done? What goals can you go after right now so that when you look back on your life, there are no regrets?   In this episode, you'll learn about setting and pursuing your impossible goals, and living a no-regrets life. I explore strategies for overcoming self-doubt, dealing with societal expectations, and the importance of persistence. Whether it's a career aspiration, a personal dream, or something else entirely, this episode is about finding the courage to take the plunge and commit fully. You got this, Diamonds!   Get full show notes and more information here: https://soniawrightmd.com/192

Happy Pride Month, my Diamonds! As we celebrate love and diversity this June, I'd like to explore the topics of self-acceptance, sexual orientation and what it means to come out - especially in the later part of your life.   Many people experience a 'late bloom', or what is also called Late Onset Lesbianism. Behind all of that, sexual orientation is on a spectrum, it's fluid and ever-changing. In this episode, we'll be discussing this concept and focusing on another Major Arcana card that ties beautifully into the theme of self-acceptance: The Hierophant.    Get full show notes and more information here: https://soniawrightmd.com/191

If you caught my last episode, you'll remember I explored The Emperor card and how it represents the masculine energy within us. I covered embracing this energy to become more assertive in different areas of your lives, including the bedroom. This time, I'm thrilled to have Master Coach Lisa Hatlestad joining us to expand on this topic, as we dive back into the fascinating world of tarot cards and their connection to women's sexuality.     Join us as we discuss how The Emperor's energy goes beyond just authority and power. It's about building something lasting and creating stability in our lives. It's important to integrate both masculine and feminine energies and so we touch upon a time frame that'll point straight to this.      Get full show notes and more information here: https://soniawrightmd.com/190

Diamonds, within each one of us is an intricate dance of masculine and feminine energies. This is something society doesn't always understand, so I'm exploring it this week.   One of the amazing things you can use your masculine energy for is becoming more assertive in the bedroom, and in this episode, I'm discussing how to give yourself permission to do just that. By the end, you'll have a better understanding of how to create a life that's authentically yours, both in and out of the bedroom. Trust me, you don't want to miss this!    Get full show notes and more information here: https://soniawrightmd.com/189

During this time of infertility, you and your partner may experience a rollercoaster of emotions, facing the uncertainties of fertility treatments, and wondering how to keep the spark alive in your relationship. Well, fear not my Diamonds! Dr. Bove and I are here to help you find your way through it all. We believe that understanding your values and identity is key to staying grounded amidst the ups and downs.   This week, join us as we share our own personal experiences, highlighting the importance of self-compassion and open communication. Whether you're exploring new avenues for intimacy or rediscovering pleasure, it's all about honoring your body and embracing the journey.   Get full show notes and more information here: https://soniawrightmd.com/188

In today's episode, we're continuing our series of exploring women's sexuality through tarot cards and I have the wonderful Dr. Kimmery by my side, to discuss The Empress from the Major Arcana. Though it's traditionally associated with renewal, rebirth, and creativity, The Empress can take on a new meaning within the construct of relationships.   Join the conversation and reflect on personal growth, self-compassion, and the importance of holding space for one another. Through empowering practices such as self-reflection and setting intentions, we highlight the transformative potential within relationships, symbolized by The Empress card, where partners can co-create the vibrant, fulfilling life they envision together.   Get full show notes and more information here: https://soniawrightmd.com/187

In this week's episode, we continue to delve into the realm of tarot cards as a way of exploring women's sexuality. Joining us again is our special guest, Master Coach, Lisa Hatlestad, whose pearls of wisdom enrich our understanding of The Empress card's significance. Together, we intertwin the tarot and astrology, emphasizing the alignment of energies and the profound connection between The Empress and the season of Taurus.    As we explore the embodiment of The Empress, we are reminded to reclaim the joy of indulgence and self-care. Carve out time for indulgent experiences that nourish our senses and nurture our souls. So, my Diamonds, take a moment to ponder: What brings you pleasure?    Get full show notes and more information here: https://soniawrightmd.com/185