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I help people break negative relationship cycles by shifting from Insecure to Secure Attachment.
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I illustrate the over-functioner/under-performer dynamic. These are high-effort people who get low returns in their relationships. The markers of the dynamic are clearly laid out as well as the consequences of allowing this problem to persist. I share about my over-functioning past and how I changed in order to get what I give in relationship. Prepared Coaching Interest Form: https://mkd8uhsug6i.typeform.com/to/cpvug08L Prepared Guide: https://mkd8uhsug6i.typeform.com/to/cpvug08L Timest...
The Season 12 Finale! Let's bring everything from these past few months together. I planned on going over just a few notes to wrap the season, but I was in the zone and we got a lot more out of this. Discussing the importance of bringing humanity and decency back to relationship conversations, while also making clear distinctions between high-value behavior and low-value behavior and the outcomes that come with the respective mindsets. Few keywords for the episode: -Two types of people in the...
We’ve had years of polarizing relationship content and we need to get clear on how to move forward. In this episode, we dive into the key differences between pro-social and anti-social people, exploring where these traits stem from—specifically the aspects of someone’s upbringing. We discuss the importance of aligning with pro-social individuals to foster positive change in relationships and families. References: https://www.statista.com/statistics/205097/percentage-of-poor-black-marr...
Let me check myself, help you check yourself, and try to keep us balanced! In this episode, we're highlighting the issues of Radical Red Pill ideology, which is a response to problematic Radical Feminism ideology. Let's make an effort to stay sane, stay reasonable, see the value in both sides, and use critical thinking to make responsible decisions for ourselves and our relationships. Thank you for your support! Website: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/ Instagram: @iamtaylorchandler YouT...
I think the whole episode is more interesting than just the Main Points! Here are the 5 Tips for Moving Forward with the Mission, 5 Markers of the Inferior Man, and everything else in between. Thank you for your support! Website: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/ Instagram: @iamtaylorchandler YouTube: @iamtaylorchandler
This short episode is part of a longer episode (about 1 hour). I edited this down to my first 5 tips to help us stay focused as we move forward with this work. Thank you for your support! Website: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/ Instagram: @iamtaylorchandler YouTube: @iamtaylorchandler
Western culture has emphasized work and de-valued relationships. The impact on women is significant. Women who want marriage and family are over-burdened and under-prepared for what relationships take to thrive. Let's talk about the issues. If you want solutions, join us at workshop Saturday, Feb. 22nd 2025: Industrious Woman Workshop: Register Thank you for your support! Website: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/ Instagram: @iamtaylorchandler YouTube: @iamtaylorchandler
This season is about making clear distinctions between who is who. Who can progress forward with us and who is going in a different direction. Here are 5 Markers of the Inferior Man Thank you for your support! Website: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/ Instagram: @iamtaylorchandler YouTube: @iamtaylorchandler
Last Call for Women! Examining social and cultural issues preventing women from getting the relationships they want. We're talking about the breakdown of the nuclear family, the echo chamber reinforcing faulty thinking, rejecting accountability, and cult-like thinking. The Industrious Woman Workshop - Saturday, February 22, 2025 from 11 AM - 1 PM EST Register: https://TaylorChandler.as.me/?appointmentType=73712513 Thank you for your support! Website: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/ Insta...
-Overview of Marriage and Divorce Stats -Making sense of the Numbers -Why Black Women's Numbers Look Different From Everyone Else? -Body and Attitude Factors References: https://www.niddk.nih.gov/health-information/health-statistics/overweight-obesity https://blogs.cdc.gov/nchs/2024/03/15/7567/ https://www.census.gov/library/stories/2024/10/marriage-and-divorce.html https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC4850739/#T1 Thank you for your support! Website: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/ I...
Prioritizing Money over godly principles has put relationships in chaos - disordered and dysfunctional. Finances are seen as the root of stability rather than a solid family structure. Let’s discuss the spiritual issue of disordered relationships with money and how it impacts people, specifically women. Let’s work together: https://mkd8uhsug6i.typeform.com/to/teluZNqP Thank you for your support! Website: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/ Instagram: @iamtaylorchandler YouTube: @iamtaylorch...
Distinguish between Leading vs. Controlling vs. Condescending 4 Points about Leadership 4 Ways to Make Leadership Better Interested in working together 1-on-1: https://mkd8uhsug6i.typeform.com/to/teluZNqP Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/iamtaylorchandler/ Thank you for your support! Website: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/ Instagram: @iamtaylorchandler YouTube: @iamtaylorchandler
Instead of New Promises in the New Year, I’m challenging you to BREAK old ones. Happy 2025! SUBSCRIBE TO YOUTUBE Thank you for your support! Website: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/ Instagram: @iamtaylorchandler YouTube: @iamtaylorchandler
For women facing tough internal conflicts and for men who seek to understand women better. 01:50:00 Be Present 03:10:00 Balance Desire and Good Stewardship 03:42:00 Missed Opportunity 06:48:00 Continuous Progress 07:43:00 Michelle’s Review 09:05:00 Investing in Yourself is Attractive 11:44:00 What do I pray for? 16:41:00 Men & Your Accomplishments 21:13:00 Do I work on this or wait for better? 23:03:00 When the honeymoon ends Thank you for your support! Website: https://www.iamtay...
Giving you tools you can begin using ASAP at The Attachment Workshop! Listen in to some questions sent in on Instagram Live. Workshop is Sunday, Oct. 13 at 11 AM EST or Monday, Oct. 14 @ 6 PM EST. You choose your day! 2 hour workshop for $15 (10% the price of a 1-on-1 session) Click here to Register Thank you for your support! Website: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/ Instagram: @iamtaylorchandler YouTube: @iamtaylorchandler
One of the most common pairs - the Anxious-Avoidant Couple. Here are 8 Points for you to work on if this has been your pattern in dating. If you are currently in this type of relationship, you will hear things you can your partner can work on together… with a therapist! 03:33 Anxious-Avoidant Pairing 05:03 I Was Anxious, Then Avoidant, Then Secure 07:32 Couple-Work 09:16 Boundaries 15:21 Attunememt 17:43 Distance 19:19 The End of Negotiations 22:26 Make Believe 23:34 All That Time Waste...
For single people who want to vet better! Ask THESE 5 questions to get a better idea of who you're dealing with and if they're worth your time. 5 Questions you NEED to Ask Before Date 3 05:51 Social Media is a circus 08:18 “I’d Rather Be Single” 18:21 What Are You Looking For? 20:15 Hedging Your Bet 24:52 Do You Want Kids? 31:04 First Class vs. Economy Dating 36:00 “I Want Kids, but Only with the Right Person” 37:36 When Did Your Last Relationship End? 40:51 How Did Your Last Relationship End...
Can Women and Men *really* be friends? Should you even have opposite-gender friends if you’re in a romantic relationship? 04:37 Will I do paid matchmaking? 07:02 Free Coaching and Free Therapy - Sessions will be made public (https://mkd8uhsug6i.typeform.com/to/pLCXjOMz) 08:46 Can women be friends with men? 17:13 Context, Nuance, and Rigidity 20:13 Context of Male Friendships 24:44 How I Think Women Should Handle Male Friends 33:17 Picking Up New Opposite-Gender Friends 41:23 You Look Like a ...
The last 5 questions from my Live Q&A 00:38 Communication Skills 06:30 “Should I date someone I’m not physically attracted to?” 10:10 Look Better 15:16 How does Taylor deal with negativity online? 18:38 How to deal with the condescending nature of the question “Who Hurt You?” 21:37 Navigating STI/STD conversations in dating? Thank you for your support! Website: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/ Instagram: @iamtaylorchandler YouTube: @iamtaylorchandler
Be sure to follow on Instagram @iamtaylorchandler to participate LIVE and submit questions! How to stay hopeful and optimistic while dating? Social Media Detox Get clear on your Values and what you want Being a Serious Person when Dating Physical Appearance - Show up Ready Serious Communication Know your Strengths and Weaknesses “I keep giving grace and they don’t give grace in return” “How much time to spend before commitment?” “How do I deal with a breakup?” Thank you for your support! We...
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