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I help people break negative relationship cycles by shifting from Insecure to Secure Attachment.
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I illustrate the over-functioner/under-performer dynamic. These are high-effort people who get low returns in their relationships. The markers of the dynamic are clearly laid out as well as the consequences of allowing this problem to persist. I share about my over-functioning past and how I changed in order to get what I give in relationship. Prepared Coaching Interest Form: https://mkd8uhsug6i.typeform.com/to/cpvug08L Prepared Guide: https://mkd8uhsug6i.typeform.com/to/cpvug08L Timest...
The Disempowered-Man and Entitled-Woman dynamic is a problematic pair, where the man sinks into a powerless role and the woman takes over. The masculine frame has broken down. The woman tries to become the man she wanted from the beginning. The catastrophic breakdown of relationships and family in America is layered. One of the major issues is the absence of healthy, present father figures. Men without role models to help guide how they lead themselves and the family has left an enormou...
This is about the Overfunctioner-Underperformer Dynamic, where one partner consistently carries the majority of the load, while the other partner fails to show up in a way that truly progresses and deepens the relationship. We’re not blaming the person “doing less” or sympathizing with the person “doing more” — I’m pulling the veil back so you can see the inner workings of what’s happening in this dynamic and I’m giving solutions for what to do about it. Mentioned videos — 8 models for Self &...
You know I love talking about Attachment! This is a major key to unlocking yourself and your relationships. Mastering my Attachment Style was a big part of my journey. I’m grateful for all I learned and how much it helped me. For a few years of my practice I almost solely helped people shift from insecure to secure attachment. I even had a group class called Reattach. Now YOU can do Reattach at your own pace. You can get the class and the exercises that have helped hundreds of people get a gr...
Hey y’all, I’m giving my foresights on what I think we’re going to see this year of 2026 in the dating and relationship lane. Just my thoughts! I’ll give a brief overview in the beginning of what we’ve seen in recent past. Check out the timestamps for the points and click the link below if you’re interested in working with me: 👉 Interest form: https://mkd8uhsug6i.typeform.com/to/cpvug08L ⏰ Timestamps: 00:01:17 What we’ve seen in the recent pasts 00:09:32 What’s coming down the pipeline 00:09:...
The final part of the Renewal of the Mind Series — Mindset. I’m talking about 5 core aspects of Mindset in a way that makes it easy to understand and take action on. The more positive core aspects you have, the higher quality of life you will have — and when you maximize those positives, it gets even better. In this lane of personal and relational development, you get better options (so you’ll marry better), you’ll be more likable, better energy… an overall high vibe. Everyone wants it and wh...
Part 2 of the Renewal of the Mind Series — Mind Control. I’m expanding on this principle: the quality of your thoughts directly affects the quality of your life. Mind control is a skill that is more important now than ever (if you don’t do it, someone else will do it for you). I have 3 mechanisms for you to activate to heighten your degree of influence over your life. ⏰ Timestamps: 00:56:00 Thoughts are running us 00:08:56 Mind Control is a skill 00:10:30 Awareness is the startin...
This is for people who are determined to separate from the noise and shift to a higher level. In this episode, I’m talking about Identity, the foundation of a Renewed Mind. As we grow, we have to keep upgrading our system — and the internal system is where it all starts. This is the first of a 3-part series. Next up is Mind Control and Mindset. ⏰ Timestamps: 00:02:09 Principle: Quality of Thinking Determines Quality of Life 00:05:30 Identity 00:12:45 Transcending Group Identity 00:15:07...
If you’re a man or woman intentionally dating or want to start dating that way, this one is for you. Rather than focusing on how rough it is out there, let’s talk about what you can do to make it a whole lot better. I’m also sharing a bit about what started my journey to intentional dating (which takes about the first 8 minutes). FitnessPurposeSpiritual DisciplineSexual DisciplineLifestyleRelationshipsPetsHomeTimestamps: 00:03:08 Dating in Atlanta and transitioning to intentional dating...
I have a major update for you. I know this isn't going to fly with some people, and I've wrestled with this myself, but I know what I need to do. I'm ready to share it with you. In this video, I'm talking about: 1. The answer to your pain (relational wounds -- from family, marriage, exes) 2. Restructuring my business 3. Jesus Thank you for your support! Work with me: Interest Form Website: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/ Instagram: @iamtaylorchandler YouTube: @iamtaylorchandler
The Season 12 Finale! Let's bring everything from these past few months together. I planned on going over just a few notes to wrap the season, but I was in the zone and we got a lot more out of this. Discussing the importance of bringing humanity and decency back to relationship conversations, while also making clear distinctions between high-value behavior and low-value behavior and the outcomes that come with the respective mindsets. Few keywords for the episode: -Two types of people in the...
We’ve had years of polarizing relationship content and we need to get clear on how to move forward. In this episode, we dive into the key differences between pro-social and anti-social people, exploring where these traits stem from—specifically the aspects of someone’s upbringing. We discuss the importance of aligning with pro-social individuals to foster positive change in relationships and families. References: https://www.statista.com/statistics/205097/percentage-of-poor-black-marr...
Let me check myself, help you check yourself, and try to keep us balanced! In this episode, we're highlighting the issues of Radical Red Pill ideology, which is a response to problematic Radical Feminism ideology. Let's make an effort to stay sane, stay reasonable, see the value in both sides, and use critical thinking to make responsible decisions for ourselves and our relationships. Thank you for your support! Work with me: Interest Form Website: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/ Instag...
I think the whole episode is more interesting than just the Main Points! Here are the 5 Tips for Moving Forward with the Mission, 5 Markers of the Inferior Man, and everything else in between. Thank you for your support! Work with me: Interest Form Website: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/ Instagram: @iamtaylorchandler YouTube: @iamtaylorchandler
This short episode is part of a longer episode (about 1 hour). I edited this down to my first 5 tips to help us stay focused as we move forward with this work. Thank you for your support! Work with me: Interest Form Website: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/ Instagram: @iamtaylorchandler YouTube: @iamtaylorchandler
Western culture has emphasized work and de-valued relationships. The impact on women is significant. Women who want marriage and family are over-burdened and under-prepared for what relationships take to thrive. Let's talk about the issues. If you want solutions, join us at workshop Saturday, Feb. 22nd 2025: Industrious Woman Workshop: Register Thank you for your support! Work with me: Interest Form Website: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/ Instagram: @iamtaylorchandler YouTube: @...
This season is about making clear distinctions between who is who. Who can progress forward with us and who is going in a different direction. Here are 5 Markers of the Inferior Man Thank you for your support! Work with me: Interest Form Website: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/ Instagram: @iamtaylorchandler YouTube: @iamtaylorchandler
Last Call for Women! Examining social and cultural issues preventing women from getting the relationships they want. We're talking about the breakdown of the nuclear family, the echo chamber reinforcing faulty thinking, rejecting accountability, and cult-like thinking. The Industrious Woman Workshop - Saturday, February 22, 2025 from 11 AM - 1 PM EST Register: https://TaylorChandler.as.me/?appointmentType=73712513 Thank you for your support! Work with me: Interest Form Website: https://www...
-Overview of Marriage and Divorce Stats -Making sense of the Numbers -Why Black Women's Numbers Look Different From Everyone Else? -Body and Attitude Factors References: https://www.niddk.nih.gov/health-information/health-statistics/overweight-obesity https://blogs.cdc.gov/nchs/2024/03/15/7567/ https://www.census.gov/library/stories/2024/10/marriage-and-divorce.html https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC4850739/#T1 Thank you for your support! Work with me: Interest Form Website: https:/...
Prioritizing Money over godly principles has put relationships in chaos - disordered and dysfunctional. Finances are seen as the root of stability rather than a solid family structure. Let’s discuss the spiritual issue of disordered relationships with money and how it impacts people, specifically women. Let’s work together: https://mkd8uhsug6i.typeform.com/to/teluZNqP Thank you for your support! Work with me: Interest Form Website: https://www.iamtaylorchandler.com/ Instagram: @iamtaylorch...
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