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Welcome to Date with Cents™! The only podcast for high-achieving women of faith who want to date for marriage and/or legacy building. I am your host, TorahCents, and I’m here to help you transform your love life from the inside out. Tune in for practical tips, tools, and advice on how to become a magnet for high-quality men and custom design a love life that serves you at the highest level.
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Send episode requests here Earlier this week, I made a post about meeting 50 men per month if I wanted to go from no dates to engaged by the end of the year—and the girls lost their minds. "Where are we supposed to get 50 men?" "I can barely talk to two men!" "This seems counterproductive!" So I brought on my friend Kimberly, a dating coach and matchmaker in Atlanta who helps women land high-earning, high-caliber men. In this episode, we're breaking down why 50 men is actual...
Send episode requests here We've been told that at a certain age, especially as Black women, our options dry up. That if you're divorced, over 35, a single mom, or plus-sized, you should just take what you can get. But I'm 38, divorced, and I only date men who invest in me—emotionally AND financially. In this episode, I'm breaking down exactly what shifted for me to get here. You'll discover why trying to prove you're "not a gold digger" attracts the bottom of the barrel, what happens when yo...
Send episode requests here You got more questions, I have more answers. Tune into this week's Q&A where I cover real questions like how to know when a man has earned exclusivity (spoiler: it's not about how many dates you've been on) to why you keep attracting the same type of men over and over again. You'll hear what to do when you live somewhere with limited dating options, how to meet men at the gym without forcing conversation, and when to cut off a man the second you see misali...
Send episode requests here It's January and you've probably already had the thought: "I want this to be the year I get engaged" Maybe you said that last year too….and the year before that. Every December you look back and nothing really changed. You went on a few dates, maybe talked to a few guys, maybe had something that felt like it was going somewhere and then it just... didn't. In this episode, I'm giving you the complete 6-step plan to go from where you are right now to engaged by the en...
Send episode requests here Most women are out here dating without any kind of plan….just swiping and hoping something works out, going on dates and hoping he's the one. But hope is not a strategy. Hope is how you end up years into this with nothing to show for it. In this episode, I'm breaking down my complete dating strategy for 2026—and it's totally different from last year. You'll discover what I'm letting go of (including dating for physical attraction and feeling sorry for men), the thre...
Send episode requests here Most dating advice says to guard your heart, stay unbothered, and avoid getting too emotionally involved. But for me, true connection means being fully open and expressive—I fall in love without holding back, and I do it without getting attached. In this episode, I share the mindset shifts and simple steps I follow to stay grounded and true to myself when I meet a new man I’m excited about. Tune in to find out how I experience love in a way that’s both p...
Send episode requests here My client Dr. Juliet went from dating men who couldn't afford to send her an Uber to having wealthy men send her gifts just for rescheduling a date. In two months, she went from less than one date per week to 22 video calls in November alone with high-caliber men begging for exclusivity after the first date. In this episode, Dr. Juliet breaks down what actually shifted that took her from "the unlucky girl who never gets that kind of guy" to having multiple accomplis...
Send episode requests here Wondering what it takes to be surrounded by men who invest in you mentally, emotionally, and financially? This episode is full of gems of how to inspire men to adore you and add tangible value to your life. OTHER POPULAR RESOURCES: Read my online essay on why the way we date is broken- Modern Dating is Hard Learn the basics behind attracting quality men and what it takes to build a rotation. - The Cuffing Season Retreat Bundle. Follow me on...
Send episode requests here My bestie Dr. Jasmyne went from never asking men for help with her luggage to having a pilot chase her through the airport offering to buy her whatever she wants. The shift happened in less than one week—and it started with something as simple as letting a man put her bag in the overhead bin. In this episode, Dr. Jasmyne joins me to talk about what actually happened on our trip to Orlando and Nashville that had millionaires at our table, a prominent head coach...
Send episode requests here I can talk to 40 men in a week, carry on conversations with five or six at a time, swipe multiple times a day, run a multiple six-figure business, go to pole class, date, and live my life…all without getting drained or frustrated. When I tell people this, they ask "Torah, how are you not burnt out?" The answer? It's my mindset. I think differently about what's happening on the apps, and that changes everything. In this episode, I'm sharing the three mind...
Send episode requests here I've been posting all the evidence this week on my Instagram stories…the caliber of men reaching out to me, the quality of dates I'm going on, the matches I'm getting…and many are asking "Torah, how are you doing this?” In this episode, I'm pulling back the curtain on the exact things I do outside of my profile to make sure quality men pursue me with real effort and consistency. You'll discover the strategic moves most women completely overlook when using dating app...
Send episode requests here You've been told dating apps don't work, but what if the problem isn't the apps—it's how you're using them? I used to delete Tinder every few months out of frustration until I figured out the skill that changed everything. Now I go on intentional dates whenever I want (from the comfort of my couch) with men who plan, pursue, and show up like grown men. In this episode, I'm walking you through the exact mindset shift that separates women who stay invisibl...
Send episode requests here I just went on five dates in one week—including a man who drove six hours just to meet me and another who planned a seven-hour experience complete with private dining. Three of these men… met them on Hinge. When I posted screenshots, women flooded my DMs saying "that can't be my Hinge" and "dating apps don't work for me." But here's the thing: dating apps are just tools, and if you don't know how to use them, you'll keep attracting the same low-eff...
Send episode requests here You’re relying on your pretty pictures to sell you, but quality men need more than a nice smile to know you’re worth pursuing. If your dating profile isn’t pulling the kind of men you actually want, this episode is for you I’m breaking down the biggest mistakes women make on their profiles and why most are just throwing content up without any real strategy. You’ll hear me do live audits of three real profiles—showing exactly where women lose quality men’s attention ...
Send episode requests here “How do I know whether I’m doing way too much with a man?” “How do I know whether I’m giving too much of myself?” “How do I make sure I’m not overinvesting in a relationship that isn’t going anywhere?” These are all questions women ask when they are tired of giving their time, energy and hearts to men who didn’t earn it. I got some better questions for you to ask though… Tune in to this episode as I share 5 questions to ask yourself TODAY so that y...
Send episode requests here “When is it going to be my turn?” “When am I finally going to meet my husband?” “Why can’t I be married already?” These are all questions that are asked by women who are attached to a destination…but not really taking responsibility for and honoring their journey at each milestone. They think… “Once I have this man…this commitment…this partnership..” “...It’s going to stop my disappointment, my loneliness, my exhaustion, my negative thoughts” “.....
Send episode requests here If you freeze up or get triggered when men ask you questions like “Why are Single” or “WYD?”, this episode breaks down the real reason this happens and how to flip the script completely. I'm sharing what's actually going on when men ask these questions, the mindset shift that changes everything about how you respond, and why your current approach is telling men they can get away with low effort. You'll learn how to stop getting caught off guard an...
Send episode requests here Here’s the audio replay of my most recent live training: Build Your Rotation: Attract 3 Commitment-Ready Boyfriends in 90 Days What you'll learn: 🔥 The 3-part dating strategy that helps you get pursued by the right men—without chasing, over-giving, or performing for a man’s approval. 🔥 How to meet commitment-ready, high-quality men ANYWHERE—even if you’re convinced they don’t exist in your city. 🔥 How to be unforgettable on dates and in convers...
Send episode requests here I hired a dating coach even though I literally AM a dating coach, and people are confused as hell about why I'd do that. If you're embarrassed about needing help with dating, this episode breaks down why investing in dating support- especially when you think you don't need to - separates extraordinary results from just good enough. I'm sharing the conversation that made me realize I was "undercoached," why I invested $24,000 to level up my skills, and how focu...
Send episode requests here If you keep saying you want a successful, high-earning man but somehow never meet any, this episode breaks down the strategic mistake that's keeping you stuck in the same disappointing cycle. I'm sharing why it's not about your standards being too high or you not being good enough, plus the one shift that changes everything about the type of men who start showing up in your life. You'll learn how to stop hoping for different results while doing the same ...
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I enjoyed you saying you just collected data and adjust when you seen heard wasnt comfortable with sending you a car & you keep it moving?
This episode was everything 🙌🏽
Love this episode! ❤️
This advice is much needed in this world. I am so enjoying listening to your advice and will definitely be sharing with the women I know.
I love all these gems that Torah is sharing. I have always enjoyed her on Clubhouse and social media, and the new podcasts are just as great! Thank you, Torah, for all of your wisdom. I am finding success with the strategies that you teach!
Ohhhh YES! TORAH THIS IZ IT!!🙌🏿
This podcast is rich with wisdom and insight. Torah takes time to break the information down to make it chewable for the listener! This is a great addition to her other resources. Take a listen you will not be disappointed!
Absolutely Love this Podcast. I've learned so much and inspired to put into practice!!! Thank you Torah!!!
Torah!!!!! I'm throwing my shoe at you!!!! Thank you for this wonderful Valentine's Day gift of understanding what makes up a quality man!!!! Love your Podcast!!!
Great Tips..I really need needed this jewel! Will save as a favorite so that I can put into practice!
Torah is an answer to a prayer. Growing up in a Christian home did not necessarily prepare me for dating in a healthy way. Torah provides healthy, practical and successful strategies to date and surround yourself with healthy people. Church women are often groomed to help broken men and not necessarily a healthy legacy partner. This is not when the best part of her program, she truly is annointed to facilitate a complete transformation into your best and healthy self. Concepts such as how we ( Christian) women objectify men, collecting data for vetting and the importance of the B.O.M.B. experience. I feel delivered!!! I am do grateful for this work and the gift of Torah!!