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Welcome to Date with Cents™! The only podcast for high-achieving women of faith who want to date for marriage and/or legacy building. I am your host, TorahCents, and I’m here to help you transform your love life from the inside out. Tune in for practical tips, tools, and advice on how to become a magnet for high-quality men and custom design a love life that serves you at the highest level.
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Send episode requests here Out of all the men we date…there’s always this ONE that we really like…but we find it hard to have him. We wanna hear from him daily We wanna see him all the time. And we freak out when he’s being inconsistent, emotionally unavailable or even pulling away. Some of us don’t realize that the ONE we like…is the one that feeds our addiction to dysfunction. Like crack, this man stimulates us and even though he is the source of a lo...
Send episode requests here We live in a time where women have more choices than ever before. We can buy our own property…we can go to school for whatever…we can choose our own careers, we can play professional sports. We can even go to war if we want to. And even with all of these modern freedoms…we still have societal chains that keep us in bondage… …that keeps us from TRULY being who we want to be and DOING what we want to do. And this directly impact...
Send episode requests here Been having a lot of interesting conversations with new clients about why they believe they haven’t been attracting quality men. Funny thing is…when I listen to their complaints during our coaching sessions…summa the ladies don’t really have much evidence to support their beliefs. They’re truly convinced that their biggest problem is not being able to attract quality men. Maybe it is…maybe it isn’t. In today’s episode, we’re gonna have a co...
Send episode requests here Becoming the sun in your love life changes everything. Most women are floating through dating… Responding to texts because they feel like they have to. Going exclusive because he brought it up. Feeling overwhelmed because men want their time. Saying yes when they really want to say no. That’s not power. That’s the sunken place. In today’s episode, I break down what it actually means to become the “SUN” in your love life solar system — and why most women are uncons...
Send episode requests here You've convinced yourself it's bad luck, that there are no good men in your city, that maybe you're just not the kind of woman men commit to. But you don't have bad luck—you have untrained discernment. In this episode, I'm breaking down the exact framework to savagely vet a man in 30 days before you get attached. You'll discover the four things to evaluate instead of your feelings , why smart women still end up with men who fail all four, and the next la...
Send episode requests here In this episode, I'm breaking down the W.O.R.D. Method …a four-step framework for when men break their word so you stop spiraling, over-explaining, or blaming yourself. You'll discover why security doesn't come from men keeping their word (it comes from how fast you respond when they don't), the Good Girl Reflex that makes you audit yourself instead of his behavior, and the difference between a man who's trying and a man who's performing trying to run out the ...
Send episode requests here Any woman can get married—that's not hard to do. The problem is the kind of marriages we walk into. Too many good girls are getting chosen because we're "wife material," which really means agreeable, low maintenance, and easy to keep. Then we end up crying on TikTok about husbands who forget our birthdays for 10 years straight or refuse to buy us carrot cake because they don't like it. In this episode, I'm breaking down my 10 dating rules for recovering good girls w...
Send episode requests here Earlier this week, I made a post about meeting 50 men per month if I wanted to go from no dates to engaged by the end of the year—and the girls lost their minds. "Where are we supposed to get 50 men?" "I can barely talk to two men!" "This seems counterproductive!" So I brought on my friend Kimberly, a dating coach and matchmaker in Atlanta who helps women land high-earning, high-caliber men. In this episode, we're breaking down why 50 men is actual...
Send episode requests here We've been told that at a certain age, especially as Black women, our options dry up. That if you're divorced, over 35, a single mom, or plus-sized, you should just take what you can get. But I'm 38, divorced, and I only date men who invest in me—emotionally AND financially. In this episode, I'm breaking down exactly what shifted for me to get here. You'll discover why trying to prove you're "not a gold digger" attracts the bottom of the barrel, what happens when yo...
Send episode requests here You got more questions, I have more answers. Tune into this week's Q&A where I cover real questions like how to know when a man has earned exclusivity (spoiler: it's not about how many dates you've been on) to why you keep attracting the same type of men over and over again. You'll hear what to do when you live somewhere with limited dating options, how to meet men at the gym without forcing conversation, and when to cut off a man the second you see misali...
Send episode requests here It's January and you've probably already had the thought: "I want this to be the year I get engaged" Maybe you said that last year too….and the year before that. Every December you look back and nothing really changed. You went on a few dates, maybe talked to a few guys, maybe had something that felt like it was going somewhere and then it just... didn't. In this episode, I'm giving you the complete 6-step plan to go from where you are right now to engaged by the en...
Send episode requests here Most women are out here dating without any kind of plan….just swiping and hoping something works out, going on dates and hoping he's the one. But hope is not a strategy. Hope is how you end up years into this with nothing to show for it. In this episode, I'm breaking down my complete dating strategy for 2026—and it's totally different from last year. You'll discover what I'm letting go of (including dating for physical attraction and feeling sorry for men), the thre...
Send episode requests here Most dating advice says to guard your heart, stay unbothered, and avoid getting too emotionally involved. But for me, true connection means being fully open and expressive—I fall in love without holding back, and I do it without getting attached. In this episode, I share the mindset shifts and simple steps I follow to stay grounded and true to myself when I meet a new man I’m excited about. Tune in to find out how I experience love in a way that’s both p...
Send episode requests here My client Dr. Juliet went from dating men who couldn't afford to send her an Uber to having wealthy men send her gifts just for rescheduling a date. In two months, she went from less than one date per week to 22 video calls in November alone with high-caliber men begging for exclusivity after the first date. In this episode, Dr. Juliet breaks down what actually shifted that took her from "the unlucky girl who never gets that kind of guy" to having multiple accomplis...
Send episode requests here Wondering what it takes to be surrounded by men who invest in you mentally, emotionally, and financially? This episode is full of gems of how to inspire men to adore you and add tangible value to your life. OTHER POPULAR RESOURCES: Read my online essay on why the way we date is broken- Modern Dating is Hard Learn the basics behind attracting quality men and what it takes to build a rotation. - The Cuffing Season Retreat Bundle. Follow me on...
Send episode requests here My bestie Dr. Jasmyne went from never asking men for help with her luggage to having a pilot chase her through the airport offering to buy her whatever she wants. The shift happened in less than one week—and it started with something as simple as letting a man put her bag in the overhead bin. In this episode, Dr. Jasmyne joins me to talk about what actually happened on our trip to Orlando and Nashville that had millionaires at our table, a prominent head coach...
Send episode requests here I can talk to 40 men in a week, carry on conversations with five or six at a time, swipe multiple times a day, run a multiple six-figure business, go to pole class, date, and live my life…all without getting drained or frustrated. When I tell people this, they ask "Torah, how are you not burnt out?" The answer? It's my mindset. I think differently about what's happening on the apps, and that changes everything. In this episode, I'm sharing the three mind...
Send episode requests here I've been posting all the evidence this week on my Instagram stories…the caliber of men reaching out to me, the quality of dates I'm going on, the matches I'm getting…and many are asking "Torah, how are you doing this?” In this episode, I'm pulling back the curtain on the exact things I do outside of my profile to make sure quality men pursue me with real effort and consistency. You'll discover the strategic moves most women completely overlook when using dating app...
Send episode requests here You've been told dating apps don't work, but what if the problem isn't the apps—it's how you're using them? I used to delete Tinder every few months out of frustration until I figured out the skill that changed everything. Now I go on intentional dates whenever I want (from the comfort of my couch) with men who plan, pursue, and show up like grown men. In this episode, I'm walking you through the exact mindset shift that separates women who stay invisibl...
Send episode requests here I just went on five dates in one week—including a man who drove six hours just to meet me and another who planned a seven-hour experience complete with private dining. Three of these men… met them on Hinge. When I posted screenshots, women flooded my DMs saying "that can't be my Hinge" and "dating apps don't work for me." But here's the thing: dating apps are just tools, and if you don't know how to use them, you'll keep attracting the same low-eff...
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I enjoyed you saying you just collected data and adjust when you seen heard wasnt comfortable with sending you a car & you keep it moving?
This episode was everything 🙌🏽
Love this episode! ❤️
This advice is much needed in this world. I am so enjoying listening to your advice and will definitely be sharing with the women I know.
I love all these gems that Torah is sharing. I have always enjoyed her on Clubhouse and social media, and the new podcasts are just as great! Thank you, Torah, for all of your wisdom. I am finding success with the strategies that you teach!
Ohhhh YES! TORAH THIS IZ IT!!🙌🏿
This podcast is rich with wisdom and insight. Torah takes time to break the information down to make it chewable for the listener! This is a great addition to her other resources. Take a listen you will not be disappointed!
Absolutely Love this Podcast. I've learned so much and inspired to put into practice!!! Thank you Torah!!!
Torah!!!!! I'm throwing my shoe at you!!!! Thank you for this wonderful Valentine's Day gift of understanding what makes up a quality man!!!! Love your Podcast!!!
Great Tips..I really need needed this jewel! Will save as a favorite so that I can put into practice!
Torah is an answer to a prayer. Growing up in a Christian home did not necessarily prepare me for dating in a healthy way. Torah provides healthy, practical and successful strategies to date and surround yourself with healthy people. Church women are often groomed to help broken men and not necessarily a healthy legacy partner. This is not when the best part of her program, she truly is annointed to facilitate a complete transformation into your best and healthy self. Concepts such as how we ( Christian) women objectify men, collecting data for vetting and the importance of the B.O.M.B. experience. I feel delivered!!! I am do grateful for this work and the gift of Torah!!