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Men Get Cheated On Too, is the podcast for men betrayed and broken by their partner’s infidelity. Hosted by Adam B. Nisenson, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and the voice behind The Betrayal Shrink, you’ll get real talk, expert guidance, and the raw truth from someone who’s lived it and personally knows the pain of betrayal that men experience. No more silence. No more pretending you’re fine. Whether you're fresh in the pain or deep in the process, this show helps you face the truth, heal the wounds, and reclaim your strength. Subscribe now... your recovery and healing starts here.
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Most men avoid therapy or betrayal coaching after partner betrayal because everything already feels exposed. You are trying to hold it together at work, with friends, with family, and the idea of sitting in a room talking about the pain feels impossible. In this episode, Adam breaks down why support is not weakness for betrayed men. It is how you stop the bleeding. He explains what real therapy and betrayal coaching look like for Masculine Betrayal Trauma, why friends cannot hold the weight y...
When a man gets cheated on, people don’t know what to say, and sometimes their reactions do more harm than good. In this episode, Adam help’s you unpack how to handle the awkward, painful, and often isolating experience of telling others about your partner’s betrayal. You’ll hear real-world insights on why it feels so hard to talk about, how to avoid shame-based silence or oversharing, and what to say to people who respond with judgment, confusion, or unhelpful advice. If you’ve been struggli...
Betrayal trauma doesn’t just mess with your heart, it hits your body like a freight train. In this episode, Adam Nisenson, The Betrayal Shrink, breaks down what happens when you can’t eat, can’t sleep, and your mind won’t stop spinning. If you've been walking around in a fog, dropping weight, or obsessively replaying what happened, you’re not crazy, you’re dysregulated. This episode explains the science behind your symptoms and gives you real, body-based tools to start calming your nervous sy...
After partner betrayal, rage isn’t just anger, it’s grief in disguise. In this episode, Adam Nisenson, The Betrayal Shrink, talks directly to men about the intensity of post-betrayal rage and what it’s really trying to tell you. You’ll learn why stuffing it down backfires, how shame and pain often sit underneath it, and what to do when the anger feels like it’s controlling you. This episode offers real tools for understanding and managing your rage without judging it. If you’ve ever felt like...
There’s a lot of pressure out there for men to be the “bigger person,” to let it go, to forgive fast, even when the pain is fresh and the betrayal still bleeds. In this episode, Adam Nisenson, The Betrayal Shrink, speaks directly to men who are being pushed to forgive before they’re ready. This conversation dismantles the myth that forgiveness is a requirement for healing and exposes how premature forgiveness can be a form of trauma bypass. You’ll learn why anger, hurt, and boundaries matter,...
When your partner cheats and walks away with no remorse, no consequences, and no real accountability, it can feel like they got away with a major crime. In this episode, Adam Nisenson, The Betrayal Shrink, speaks directly to the men stuck in that cycle of anger, injustice, and powerlessness. This isn’t about revenge, it’s about what to do with the weight of feeling discarded, silenced, and unseen. You’ll learn why justice doesn’t always show up the way you want, how to separate their lack of ...
This episode goes straight to the gut. Adam names what so many betrayed men feel but struggle to say out loud: betrayal doesn’t just break your heart, it robs you. It steals your safety, your trust, your memories, your peace, and your sense of who you are. If you’ve felt like someone kicked in the emotional door of your life and walked away with everything you were building, you’re not crazy. That’s emotional theft. In this raw and honest conversation, Adam unpacks what gets stolen after infi...
After partner betrayal, everything that once felt normal can fall apart, your sleep, your eating habits, your energy, your sense of time. In this episode, Adam Nisenson, The Betrayal Shrink, talks directly to men about what it means to reclaim your daily routine after your world has been flipped upside down. This isn’t about productivity or performance, it’s about survival, presence, and rebuilding internal trust. You’ll learn why structure is essential after betrayal trauma, how even the sma...
Betrayal doesn’t just hit you, it hits your kids too. In this powerful episode, Adam Nisenson, The Betrayal Shrink, speaks directly to fathers trying to protect their children while navigating the chaos of partner betrayal. When you're still trying to survive emotionally, how do you show up as a steady, safe parent? Adam walks you through the emotional toll of co-parenting with someone you don’t trust, how to protect your kids from manipulation, and how to talk to them without oversharing or ...
What do you do when the person who shattered your trust still shares your space, your kitchen, maybe even your bed? In this episode, Adam Nisenson, The Betrayal Shrink, takes you inside the emotional chaos of living with your partner after betrayal. This is not just about awkward conversations or avoiding eye contact, it’s about trying to heal inside the same four walls where your pain was born. Adam breaks down the trauma of shared space, the toll of walking on emotional eggshells, and the n...
After partner betrayal, most men don’t explode, they implode. In this episode, Adam Nisenson, takes you inside the quiet, corrosive cycle of masculine shame that creeps in after infidelity. This is the voice in your head that tells you real men shouldn’t feel this hurt… that you should be past it… that maybe it was your fault. Adam breaks down how shame spirals form, turning pain into self-blame, perfectionism into punishment, and silence into isolation. You’ll learn how to name shame for wha...
Thanksgiving. A time when everyone around you seems to be posting about gratitude, family, and full hearts. But if you've been cheated on, betrayed, or blindsided by the person you trusted most, all this talk about thankfulness can feel like a cruel joke. In this special holiday episode, we speak directly to the man who’s sitting with heartbreak instead of celebration. We unpack why gratitude can feel forced or even enraging after betrayal, and why you’re not broken if you don’t feel thankful...
When your partner has sex with someone else, it’s not just cheating, it’s a full-body trauma. In this episode, Adam Nisenson, The Betrayal Shrink, dives deep into the devastation of sexual betrayal and why it hits men at the core of their identity, masculinity, and sense of safety. This isn’t just about trust being broken, it’s about your body feeling violated, your sexuality becoming a source of shame, and your mind getting hijacked by unwanted images and obsessive comparisons. Adam names wh...
You’re having a good day, until a song, a smell, a look, or a text sends you spiraling. That’s not weakness. That’s trauma. In this episode, Adam Nisenson, The Betrayal Shrink, takes you deep into the experience of betrayal triggers, those sudden, overwhelming reactions that hijack your body and mind. Adam explains why these triggers happen, how they bypass logic, and what’s actually going on in your nervous system. More importantly, he gives you the tools to respond with clarity instead of c...
What happens when the person who cheated on you starts acting like they’re the one who’s been hurt? Adam Nisenson, The Betrayal Shrink, takes on one of the most infuriating dynamics betrayed men face, when the betrayer flips the script and makes themselves the victim. Adam unpacks how emotional role reversal works: how guilt gets weaponized, how shame becomes a distraction from true accountability, and how you can find yourself caretaking the person who betrayed you. This episode is a wake-up...
In this episode, Adam Nisenson, The Betrayal Shrink, delivers one of the most vital messages for any man facing partner betrayal: you are not to blame for what happened, but your healing is your responsibility. Adam unpacks the lie many betrayed men carry, that if they had just been “more,” the betrayal wouldn’t have happened. He exposes that lie for what it is: trauma, not truth. With clarity and compassion, he reframes what it means to take ownership, not of the betrayal, but of the healing...
In this episode, Adam Nisenson, The Betrayal Shrink, tackles one of the most misunderstood topics in healing after betrayal, boundaries. If you’ve ever been accused of being controlling or harsh when trying to stand up for yourself, or if you’ve avoided setting limits out of fear of conflict, this episode is for you. Adam breaks down the critical difference between a boundary and an ultimatum, teaching men how to protect their emotional safety without falling into reactive or punitive behavio...
You’re ready to fight for the relationship… but what if your partner isn’t? This episode speaks directly to the gut-wrenching experience of being willing to rebuild while your partner stays cold, distant, or indifferent. Adam unpacks the second wave of betrayal that hits when they won’t do the work, and how that pain can feel worse than the affair itself. Learn how to stop chasing effort, release the need for closure, and start focusing on your own healing, even if they’ve checked out. If you...
Gaslighting is more than lying, it’s emotional abuse that distorts your sense of reality. In this powerful episode, Adam breaks down what gaslighting looks like in betrayal situations and why it’s so damaging. If you’ve ever been made to feel like you’re the crazy one, or questioned your own instincts and memories, this episode will help you name what happened. You’ll learn how to rebuild your confidence, trust your gut again, and stop waiting for validation from the person who lied. This is ...
What happens when the person who betrayed you still shares your bed? In this raw and honest episode, Adam tackles the emotional toll of sleeping next to the partner who shattered your trust. From feeling unsafe in your own body to navigating the pressure of pretending everything’s fine, this episode gives language to one of the most disorienting experiences post-betrayal. You’ll learn why space is not punishment, its protection, and why you’re allowed to reclaim your peace, your sleep, and yo...
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